Inviting intimacy, or as Freja puts it -- how to ask for sex without being a douche.
Steve and I talk about common obstacles to initiating/inviting sex, particularly in a changing environment where people are afraid to ask for what they want.
We talk about
- How do you avoid feeling rejected when you ask for sex a lot and your partner says no?
- Is it even worth it to ask for sex when you know it's going to be "obligation sex" that results?
- What is the difference between welcomed, and unwelcomed insistence when it comes to pursuing sex with someone?
- Women who get upset when you don't "put out" within three dates, what's the deal?
- That marital death bed when one person starts avoiding doing ANYTHING AT ALL that might arouse the other person, sleeping with pjs on, avoiding spooning or cuddling, changing in the bathroom..... what is really going on?
- Guys in the friendzone, is it possible to offer to give your lady friends "a hand" with their sex and have it not be awful and super annoying and douchey? Steve says yes, and offers a way how to do this.
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