Episode 19: Getting Real

In this insightful episode of "Not Your Typical Leadership Coaching" podcast, hosts Bill Tierney and Marty Kettelhut delve into the crucial aspects of communication and transparency within leadership and personal relationships. By leveraging the narrative from chapter three of "Getting Real" by Susan Campbell, they unfold the story of Jenny and Fred, which becomes a springboard to discuss the nuances of transparent communication, acknowledging feelings, and the courage it takes to address misunderstandings. This episode promises to equip leaders with the tools to foster deeper connections and navigate the complexities of conveying truth with empathy and clarity.

Keynotes:

1. The Importance of Transparency in Communication: Transparency is not just about honesty but involves vulnerability and the willingness to express true feelings, which can significantly enhance trust and understanding in any relationship.

2. Acknowledging Feelings: Acknowledging one's feelings and expressing them constructively is crucial for resolving misunderstandings and preventing the accumulation of resentment.

3. The Role of Courage in Communication: It takes courage to confront uncomfortable truths and express feelings, especially in formal settings or situations where there is a risk of conflict. This courage fosters authenticity and deeper connections.

4. Impact on Leadership: For leaders, practicing transparent communication and encouraging it within teams can lead to a more cohesive, trustful, and effective working environment.

5. Personal Growth and Relationship Building: Through examples from the podcast, listeners can learn how facing uncomfortable truths and communicating them transparently can lead to personal growth and stronger relationships.

Links/References:

1. "Getting Real" by book Susan Campbell: https://susancampbell.com/product/getting-real-ten-truth-skills-you-need-to-live-an-authentic-life-2

2. “Adult Children of Alcoholics” book by Janet G. Woititz: https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/142957

3. “Disconnected Conversation” blog by Bill Tierney: https://www.billtierneycoaching.com/blog/disconnected-conversations

4. Intimacy from the Inside Out (IFIO): https://www.toniherbineblank.com/about.html

5. Learn more about IFS Coaching with Bill Tierney at ⁠⁠www.billtierneycoaching.com⁠⁠.

6. Learn more about coaching with Martin Kettelhut at ⁠⁠www.listeningisthekey.com⁠⁠.

7. Learn more about IFS at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.IFS-institute.com⁠⁠⁠⁠.