June 1, 2023 • 42 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you listen to.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
On Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Got up early this.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Morning and I texted Mark an article that just seem
has been a couple of days, and it was about.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Jump starting your sex life.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
I'm laughing because the article that you sent him was
from was it.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
The Washington Journal?
Speaker 1 (00:26):
A Wall Street Journal? Wall Street?
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Sorry, Wall Street Journal, And Mark does not have an
account for that, so.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
I get this.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
So he may have actually purchased a subscription just to
get this.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
It's really they have great articles, Mark, and you should
be reading about the price of gas anyway. So there
was an article, a big, big article in one of
the sections about the pandemic. A lot of people found romance.
A lot of people then came out of it and
stopped their romance. They stopped having sex.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Interesting, wait, they fell in love during the pandemic.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
They just a lot of So there's different groups, right.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Some people had no privacy, so they did, and other
people had just each other so they did. But the
point of this article was if your sex life has
stalled coming out of the pandemic, what do you do?
Speaker 1 (01:12):
What do you do?
Speaker 5 (01:13):
Because we got busy again. It's like during the pandemic.
You have no plans, so you just have all the sex?
Speaker 1 (01:17):
Yeah, do you?
Speaker 3 (01:17):
If you do, have to take a step back, slow
yourself down, and realize that it's important to do some
simple things.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
So what struck me was one this expert says, I
found this fascinating.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Experts says, get with your partner and talk about a
sex scene in a movie that you found provocative or erotic.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Yeah, I got it.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Talk about it, and then role play it, relive it,
act it out the whole scene. I love that Sysney's
nodding Tony fell over.
Speaker 5 (01:50):
Yeah, and that's good because my mind went to Bridgerton
and I'm like, I hadn't want to like that.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
You can't judge the person's scene. We're not going to
be in it, you know.
Speaker 6 (01:58):
What I mean?
Speaker 1 (02:00):
But you think about it. Okay, that's that's fun.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
They also talk about how it's so important to set
the moodh the location, the lighting, the candles, And this
was the thing that stood out in the mood section
was you don't want to get yourself excited. You want
to calm yourself down. Good good romance is a calm,
(02:24):
slow scene. True can be different. Now you could also
you know, burn yourself with a candle, be careful. But
they were saying like, don't like relax, take it slow,
enjoy it, whereas the human bodies and the heart races
are getting excited.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Right, you don't want to endy quickly.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
There are other things. Oh yeah, there are other things
and some stuff that I'll just let you read like
I'm reading it now.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
It's important though, you know, especially like if you've got kids.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
It really you got to set aside the time and
make it.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
You really do.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
May can stand out, I know, because you get into
these rhythms of just like not not make not sitt
in the mood, not making it exciting, not.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
You just like you're doing it, and you're just like
pound and go a little bit. Man, we don't use
those choice of words.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
But I don't know is that you don't really say that,
do you.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
That's not even a term the expression or words people say. No,
that's not what people say. They said pound and go
like getting.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
Quit it, okay, go Oh my god, I've never heard that.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
You and Robbie say that we need to be aware.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Of you guys. Do no, my god, could you imagine?
Speaker 3 (03:47):
No? I cannot imagine. I don't want to imagine I'm
here not to I'm actually here not to imagine.
Speaker 5 (03:51):
Do you remember I offered my Remember when I offered
my bed, my apartments. Is need for you and Michael
to have sexy time?
Speaker 7 (03:57):
I know?
Speaker 1 (03:58):
And I was like, oh no, just where to leave
their house and go to yours?
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Yeah, so they had privacy because we had no privacy.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Really weird, you know. I would think that you're there
in her room.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
It would be so strange.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
And I don't think Michael, that's weird for Michael.
Speaker 5 (04:13):
No, like a hotel at thinking about it, Like all
your spare jackets in that closet, I don't have you
got everywhere?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Yeah, and the posters of all those guys, that's just weird.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
No, I don't have that in my home.
Speaker 8 (04:28):
Your old.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Dress is hanging there?
Speaker 2 (04:33):
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(05:04):
a wedding gown is a waste of finance.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
I'm with you, Ryan, if you create a budget for yourself,
I think it could be.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
It could be done in a budget friendly way.
Speaker 5 (05:18):
I could never wrap my head around spending thousands of
dollars on a dress I wear once.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
I can't.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
It's like fairy fairy tale dress. You can't even write,
You can't do anything with it.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
No, after some people.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Look at it as a once in a lifetime situation.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Yeah, once in lifetime waste of money.
Speaker 4 (05:34):
Yeah, Well, if you look at it like that, then
you can say the whole weddings is waste of money.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Well I do. I trust me, guys. I've had a
lot of talks about it. A lot, all right, So
what are the brides are?
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Now? Tubs?
Speaker 3 (05:49):
The new trend brides are not wearing white wedding gowns.
They're going for chic black.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
That's right.
Speaker 4 (05:55):
When I got married, there was no doubt in my
mind I was wearing a white dress or ivory technique.
But I had like the look in my head already.
I wanted the long had the long veil, very dramatic
all that, but now brides are going towards these black
wedding dresses. And actually Google trends had high searches for
black wedding dress over the past twelve months, and the
(06:16):
last specifically was it was basically searched more than anybody
searching for white wedding dress. I wonder, why isn't that interesting.
Christine from Selling Sunset wore a black wedding dress and
her twenty twenty wedding.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
I'm not saying that she was like the trendsetter of
the whole thing, but.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Started watching that show with the volume off.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Why I watched an episode two? Oh, get in on
the drama.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
She just pretty people. I need the drama, the background.
Speaker 4 (06:41):
It has evolved from I don't know what season it is,
now six or something, but it has evolved from season one,
like the fashion. It's a fashion show now like all
it's all designer, all all fashion.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
Aren't the bride saying black is chic and I can
use it again, I can get more bang from my block.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Yeah, I guess so.
Speaker 4 (06:58):
And it's something that you could essentially wear again somewhere else.
But I'm a traditionalist at heart. For me, it was
a white wedding dress, and that's that's just what I wanted.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
I did have this idea recently where I think I
want all like, I want all my guests to be
in black or white. So like, I don't care if
anyone else was a white dress. I want everybody in
black and white. No, that was not gonna fly for me.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
You guys want to settle this now.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Well that it's your wedding, you can do whatever you want.
Someone should have been a white Some actually did show
up in a white dress in my wedding, and I remember,
and I'm just like, I like.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
The black dress trend. I do. I think to me,
it's just like something different and you can wear it again.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
You know, but you can't really wear it again.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
It's like you can you cut it off and do
a whole little thing.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
You could wear that gown like that to another like
black chat.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
I got a dress cutter, guy, you'll change the dress
chain so old look.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
On air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Jackie, thank you for listening to us. Appreciate you calling
in red Chok. So you need some advice? What's the
category I do?
Speaker 9 (08:05):
So?
Speaker 7 (08:05):
It is work work related all right.
Speaker 9 (08:11):
So I've been in my position for about a year now,
it's about to be your next month. Loved it, worked
really hard for it to get it, pushed really hard
hard to get it. So I got it super happy,
Like I said, almost a year. But for the past
four five months, I want to say, things have godeaus
(08:33):
really toxic at work. The environment has been really stressful.
Definitely has taken a toll on me. I do have
some heart problems issues are flare ups how they want
to call it, just flare ups, and those have been
happening quite more often related, so they're not They've told
(08:55):
me it's not. I've been to two different cardiologists and
one has actually asked me like, oh, do you think
maybe because of work? But I don't know, Like something
inside me is like okay, I definitely don't want to
be that person, like yes, it's trust related, like take
me off work or you know, it's just so I've.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Been yeah, is there more to the story.
Speaker 9 (09:20):
No, that's just other than that. It's so my husband
and I work for the same company, and he lived
and breathed for this company. Totally get it. Been there
for so many years and when I've tried to talk
to him about it. It's it kind of gives me
more of a management perspective, but I'm like, wait, I
kind of need my husband perspective right now.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
So I've talked to a lot of people over the
last few years that made a pivot to do something happy.
They're not standing for They value themselves more so than
being in a toxic or difficult work environment. The question
is can you pivot into something where you can still
cover your finances?
Speaker 9 (10:00):
And that's what I've thought about as well. I've thought about,
you know, if it's just the position, like can I
go back to my previous position kind of you know, financially, yes,
we can do it. But then I'm like, okay, just
until that happens, I don't want to leave all the
burden on him.
Speaker 7 (10:21):
Yeah, that can make sense.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
But I look, if you.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
Can get out of a toxic situation, you will add
years to your life and it will make you happier.
The question is when can you do it and what's
practical about it?
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Right right right?
Speaker 9 (10:42):
And I'm telling you, I just I've had so many
days lately where I'll just be at work and I'll
text my husband. I'm going to quit, like I'm done,
I've had it.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
I'm going to quit.
Speaker 9 (10:54):
And then, of course I don't end up putting, but
maybe you.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
Could take Maybe you can search for what you would
segue into, so that when that's ripe, you can quit.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
Yeah, start setting up your plan B.
Speaker 9 (11:10):
Right, and then so then another thing too, and that's
you know, maybe once we're settled, I'm like, okay, just
take it out a little longer. But right now we're
actually in the process of looking for houses. It hasn't
been quite that easy in this market. But at the
same time, I need to have.
Speaker 7 (11:24):
A job on paper until we do get a house.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
Yeah, and then make a pivot and think about the
things you love because one day, one day.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
The time is going to be right. All right, Hey, Jackie,
thanks for coving much.
Speaker 7 (11:41):
Jackie, thank you so much. You guys appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
You take good care, all right, have good day.
Speaker 7 (11:47):
Bye.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
We all do this.
Speaker 3 (11:51):
And it never occurred to us that it might be
a bad idea. You know what a website makes you
answer a security question. I forgot your password? You can
confirm it to you?
Speaker 1 (12:01):
Yes, okay.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
They always ask you mom's maiden name, first, pet's name,
street you grew up on make up answers that aren't real.
Make up answers that aren't real. Just make them up. Oh,
make up your security to answer those questions, but not
be the real answers.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
That's smart. But then you have to remember those.
Speaker 3 (12:22):
But you don't know who's on the other end, and
that information makes it much easier to steal your identity questions,
So you got.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
To circumvent that. Oh my gosh, now here's your quote
for the day. Figure it's a good time to dot.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
It's important to know the difference between someone who values
you and someone who only values what you can give them.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
Wow, sink in to really, really really read that.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
All right, let's get through this. Thursday are with est
just FM headlines with Ruby Gonzalez right.
Speaker 10 (13:00):
The La City Council on Wednesday voted to move forward
with a plan to have mandatory air conditioning and all
rental units in the city. The plan is an attempt
to address increased emergency room visits during heat waves, but
some landlords say they may have to sell their properties
if the motion passes because they won't be able to
afford to install AC. Police are warning cal State Fullerton
(13:22):
students about a new scam targeting their parents' bank accounts.
Scammers are apparently calling parents in the middle of the
night and telling them that their child has been arrested
after drugs were found in their car during a traffic stop.
The caller then asks the parents to wire bell money
to release their child from custody. A campus wide warning
was sent out reminding people that the police department would
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never ask anyone to wire funds for bail money. And
Yesterday was the final day of Splash Mountain at Disneyland.
It is now being reimagined as Tiana's By You Adventure
and will reopen some time next year.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
But there was some excitement before it closed.
Speaker 10 (13:57):
A writer who apparently suffered a panic attack jumped out
out of a log during the ride. The unidentified writer,
seen in a video that has gone viral, appears to
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through the day. So Ruby is joining us. Ruby is
a producer on the morning show. Yes, And I just
find it fascinating to get to know. It's not like Prime.
We're just curious about everybody's scenario on the show. I
know so much about Tanya and about Sicany. I'm learning
(14:41):
more and more about you, and you bring an interesting
scenario to the table.
Speaker 10 (14:46):
Go ahead, Ruby, Yeah, So my brother has a new
lady in his life behind and you know, he mentioned that,
like they're very serious, like boyfriend girlfriend now after a month,
they're kind of moving fast. And then he mentioned that
she has three kids from three different men.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
Oh and for different guys. Yeah, three different guys guys.
Speaker 10 (15:10):
And so initially, like you know, everyone, like a lot
of people in my family and friends are just like
when they hear that, they're like, I don't want to judge.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
Yeah, like we did, but like, yeah, you don't want
to judge.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
Like we don't know. Everyone's like that, what did you
drink that?
Speaker 10 (15:24):
I think I was just a little surprised because he
always said he didn't want kids. Oh, I was surprised
that he like would be with someone with kids, but
I guess he doesn't want kids. It kind of makes
sense like it.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
They're there, there's no pressure.
Speaker 11 (15:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 10 (15:41):
So how old are the kids they're I think the
two they're they're like in eighteen twenty oh and then
the youngest is like three.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
Oh okay, so it's like he's thirty four.
Speaker 1 (15:53):
So here's she's a little bit older.
Speaker 2 (15:56):
The age difference there.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
Here's the thing.
Speaker 3 (15:59):
First of all, I'm I'm just thinking because I am
the brother and I have a sister, and she's had
to meet several people, right, you know, and I'm thinking, Wow,
I've never.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
Really looked at it like that.
Speaker 3 (16:11):
And she's always great with everybody, and I feel like
maybe she's a little bummed when it doesn't.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
Work out, yeah, because she's like put some.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
Time in, you know, we get invested.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
And as a.
Speaker 3 (16:22):
Younger brother, I mean, I'm I'm an older but as
a younger older brother growing up, I was.
Speaker 1 (16:30):
Like, you know, I don't I don't think I want
to date someone's got kids.
Speaker 7 (16:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
And then as a older older brother, I don't really care.
Speaker 10 (16:38):
Yeah that's what he said. He's like, look, I'm older,
like I.
Speaker 5 (16:42):
Yeah, but still if you say you don't want kids,
even if you're dating somebody with kids, it's similar but.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
Maybe that changes your mind.
Speaker 3 (16:50):
But it sounds like the inflammatory part is, wait, this
woman's not done well with three guys.
Speaker 10 (16:56):
Yeah, that was the concern from some people in the fam.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
It sounds like she was very young with you first too,
But you don't know.
Speaker 3 (17:02):
It's hard I get that on the surface level, like
as a protective family. Well, hold on, what's what's what's
the common den I'm there to hear, but we don't know.
Speaker 1 (17:10):
And life is short and is he happy?
Speaker 3 (17:12):
Is he my mom always says if my chickens are happy,
I can't ask too many questions.
Speaker 10 (17:15):
Yeah, I mean that's literally what my mom says too.
She's just like if he's happy, like that's all that matters, right.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
True, So well, I think we vote for his happiness.
And we played this one out. Let's play this out.
Speaker 10 (17:28):
You know, he did tell her he's like we haven't
met her, and he's like I don't want you to
meet the three sisters or kind of like.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
This is this is subtle, nice and subtle. Well, good luck,
but ye keep us posting on that route. Dating apps, Look,
they are very commonly used and they can work out.
As you may know, and if you've never heard it,
before Tanya is living, breathing, proof of bumble Hinge, Tinder
(18:01):
match dot com, farmer John dot com, whatever it is.
Speaker 2 (18:04):
That Farmer's only, but.
Speaker 1 (18:06):
Yeah, farmers only dot com.
Speaker 3 (18:09):
Then it works. She met the love of her life
soon to be fiance. On and on and on, and
I want to get ahead of myself.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
Let's not get ahead of ourself, Robbie on Hinge, that's true.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
I did not realize, and Cisney, you did some research
on this. I didn't realize how specific a dating app
it could be. I mean, look, common interests, common likes
is a good way to start off a relationship for me.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
I'll tell you a deal breaker. Oh we go out
on a date and you don't want to share? Yeah,
what you order?
Speaker 3 (18:47):
I find that not great even as a first date.
I want to share that. Who would say no?
Speaker 2 (18:53):
Yeah? Like people do like you from friends, even if
you don't want to share.
Speaker 1 (18:57):
So some people don't want to I don't know.
Speaker 3 (18:58):
Maybe they don't want to order to have any issues
with their breath or digestion. But for me, like like,
go all in the meal is exciting. I want to
eat so much you can't even make out.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
So a picky eater is a deal breaker for.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
You A picky eat Now, I'm a picky eater sometimes stupid.
That's only so I can eat non picky on the weekend.
But yeah, picky eater kind of it can bother me.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
Mm hmmm, I can see that.
Speaker 1 (19:19):
So is there, Well tell me about that there's a
dating app for everybody?
Speaker 4 (19:22):
Now, Well, no, that this is like just specifically targeted
dating apps, So a dating app for cat lovers or
if you're vegan, there's a dating app for that. Religions obviously,
music lover, things like that. But I think that now
and this is kind of just like a more like
a self research thing that I was kind of just
like it was more of a systany epiphany.
Speaker 2 (19:43):
Love, a sisnanty epiphany. It happened last.
Speaker 4 (19:45):
Night and I said, I think that these targeted dating
apps are actually sabotaging you in the end because you're
you're the pool is getting so much smaller for you.
Speaker 2 (19:57):
Because it's targeted specific to whatever that inch t is.
Speaker 4 (20:01):
Therefore, you're limiting yourself from maybe meeting the love of
your life. Tanya being the perfect example of this, because
if you would have gone on a Christian dating app,
you would have never met Robbie never, never would have
met him.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
But so I have a couple thoughts here.
Speaker 3 (20:16):
One, I don't mind the specificity because if you're really
trying to curate and hone it in and you don't
have a lot of time, maybe it's helpful. No. However, Tanya, however, you,
on the other hand, probably and I'm not putting words
(20:37):
in your mouth, didn't see yourself dating someone not your religion.
Speaker 5 (20:39):
Ever, never Like that was one of my boxes, was
Christian man.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
But in hindsight, do you feel like that was closed minded?
Speaker 2 (20:47):
Totally and not closed minded?
Speaker 5 (20:49):
But like again, everybody says, have your boxes, you know,
make sure that person checks all your boxes and have
like a clear vision of who you want. And what's
crazy is those boxes. My current boyfriend doesn't necessarily check
any of them, but he is the person that has that.
Like we share a soul, like we are literally meant
to be.
Speaker 1 (21:07):
So have you talked about what religion you will raise
your kids to be?
Speaker 9 (21:12):
Not?
Speaker 2 (21:12):
Really? Right now, we celebrate both. Oh my god, all
I hear is the l That's all I hear. It's
all I hear.
Speaker 1 (21:19):
I didn't even hear. What are we talking about? Is
that what.
Speaker 11 (21:26):
Fry?
Speaker 2 (21:28):
But right now it's both so like passover and Easter.
Speaker 1 (21:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (21:33):
I think that's good though, And I think you know,
when you go specific into let's say, you only want
to date somebody that's listens to the same exact music
as you, I feel like that's boring in a weird way.
Speaker 2 (21:43):
Like I met Michael.
Speaker 4 (21:44):
He was all classic rock and alternative music, and I
was popping E.
Speaker 3 (21:48):
D M.
Speaker 4 (21:48):
And I like converted him and he I enjoyed listening
to his music and he enjoyed.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
Because all styles of music, I like.
Speaker 2 (21:55):
All genres of music.
Speaker 3 (21:57):
Look, I think these dating apps specific or broad. It
just depends on what it is you're looking for and
what you find your deal breakers. But I guess the
more there are out there, the more opportunity is to
meet somebody. Because it just happened right here in front
of our very own eyes, with our Tanya, both her
and Robbie Matt Hall one or two point seven Kiss FM.
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It's time for Ryan's roses. Dear Ryan in Siciny, This
is from a man in Culver City. I got a
call from an unknown number. A woman said, your husband
is cheating on you and hung up. I asked him
about it, and he swears he's not cheating and it's
just spam. I mean, that is stirringly bothersome. So Amanda,
thank you for coming on. Did you recognize the woman's voice?
Speaker 7 (22:44):
No? No, she just said it so fast and I
hung up immediately.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
I mean, it.
Speaker 3 (22:50):
Doesn't make any sense that somebody random would call and
say that to you.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
Did you try calling the number back?
Speaker 7 (22:57):
You couldn't. There's no carl Id so there wasn't any
nothing to call back current.
Speaker 11 (23:00):
No number.
Speaker 3 (23:01):
All right, So that happens, and it spooks you, of course, right,
you're rattled by it. Now you go to your husband,
walk us through what you said and what he said.
Speaker 12 (23:11):
I mean, I told him exactly what happened, right, I said,
I just got this unknown number and this lady just
said your husband's cheating on you? What the hell is
going on? And he was I mean, he looks shocked, right,
But then it was like swore up and down that
he wasn't cheating.
Speaker 7 (23:25):
Said it's probably just spam, like you know, and I
was like, why would this be spam?
Speaker 12 (23:29):
There was like us, it wasn't a scam, right, So like,
what do you mean? And he said like, oh, well,
they're probably just making sure it's a real number, you know,
you picked up, and so now you're just gonna get
a bunch of telemark your car, carls and that was
like he that was it, that was all.
Speaker 7 (23:42):
He didn't want to talk about it.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
I don't buy it.
Speaker 3 (23:44):
We're about to call Amanda's husband. So a phone rings,
unknown number, she answers, and a woman on the other
end says, your husband is cheating on you and hangs up.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
I just don't think that's random.
Speaker 4 (23:59):
Hmm be could I mean, this could be like the
start of a scam or something like maybe that number
calls back and then you're trying to get more information.
Speaker 2 (24:07):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
But then her husband says, oh, don't worry about it.
It's fine. Well it's not fine, but well, don't worry
about it. Yeah, it's spam.
Speaker 3 (24:16):
All right, man, I need you to say, Ryan, you
my permission to call, and then your husband's name.
Speaker 7 (24:21):
Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission to call.
Speaker 3 (24:26):
We're gonna call him right now. Be very quiet, stay
on the line. You're gonna hear everything. Don't say a
word until we tell him he's on the air.
Speaker 1 (24:35):
All right, Good? Luck.
Speaker 11 (24:48):
Hello.
Speaker 2 (24:48):
Hi, is this Jacob?
Speaker 11 (24:51):
Uh?
Speaker 9 (24:52):
Yeah, Hie.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
My name is Lauren. I'm calling from Lolo's Flowers.
Speaker 4 (24:56):
We actually deliver in the Culver City area and like
on the West Side, and we're offering local residence today
a promotion.
Speaker 11 (25:01):
Oh my god, Okay, I told my wife I'm not cheating.
Speaker 4 (25:05):
I I just want to know if you wanted to
send free roses to anybody that.
Speaker 11 (25:10):
You keep stop stop stop stop stop stop Ryan's roses
on kids at That is Brian there too.
Speaker 3 (25:16):
Hi, your voice is being broadcast in the radio. I
need you to know that we have your wife, Amanda
on the line. Jacob, you know how this goes? So, yeah,
that's this is us. Amanda's on the phone. She told
us everything. So who are you cheating with?
Speaker 9 (25:33):
What?
Speaker 6 (25:33):
I know?
Speaker 11 (25:34):
Look, I'm not cheating.
Speaker 1 (25:35):
But the other woman called your wife and.
Speaker 11 (25:39):
No, no, okay, look, I know she thinks that I'm
cheating and that sucks, but I try to assure her,
and now I will try to assure you that I
am not. She got some random called that doesn't mean anything.
Speaker 1 (25:50):
Why would a random call say that?
Speaker 2 (25:53):
And why are you so angry?
Speaker 1 (25:55):
And you're very aggressive?
Speaker 11 (25:56):
Jacob, y, Look I'm just I'm sorry. I'm just frustrated. Okay, Look,
it could have been a wrong number, a scam, I
don't know, a prank. There are a million explanations for this,
but I'm telling you I am not cheating, and I'm
sorry she got you.
Speaker 7 (26:12):
Involved in this, So I think I know who it is.
Speaker 11 (26:18):
Wait wait, what are you.
Speaker 1 (26:20):
Saying, Amanda? Who do you think it is? That's new
news to us.
Speaker 7 (26:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 12 (26:25):
I didn't want to say anything because I didn't I
didn't I didn't want it to be true.
Speaker 11 (26:29):
But like.
Speaker 7 (26:31):
Jacob, it sounded like Trina.
Speaker 1 (26:34):
Oh my god, who's Trina?
Speaker 2 (26:36):
Who's Trina?
Speaker 9 (26:38):
Mean?
Speaker 12 (26:38):
Trina is Jacob's ex girlfriend and they dated right before
we get together, and she has always hated me, and
I mean she would like absolutely nothing more than break
us up.
Speaker 7 (26:50):
She is, so hold on.
Speaker 3 (26:52):
That changes the score here, Amanda. If it was Trina,
she could be doing that just to rattle you. And
he's not cheating. So now you've got me on the fence.
Speaker 9 (27:03):
Oh.
Speaker 12 (27:04):
I just I didn't want to say anything because I
didn't like to be true.
Speaker 13 (27:06):
Right, Like, how horrible I thought.
Speaker 3 (27:09):
But if she's never liked you or wanted him to
be happy, with you, then it is likely that she
could be just making that up.
Speaker 7 (27:17):
I really don't think it's true, and she yeah, absolutely is.
Speaker 12 (27:24):
Yeah, all right, you follow her on Instagram?
Speaker 1 (27:27):
So like, yeah, why don't do you speak with Trina? Jacob?
Speaker 11 (27:30):
What you do?
Speaker 1 (27:31):
You are you communication with Trina? Jacob?
Speaker 11 (27:34):
No, I'm not hold on you follow on Instagram?
Speaker 12 (27:40):
Yeah, Jacob, Look, I know this is weird, but like,
let's take a cheap breath.
Speaker 7 (27:44):
Okay, Like, I know this is.
Speaker 12 (27:46):
Weird, but like obviously we got to Like I didn't
know how else to bring this up.
Speaker 7 (27:49):
I didn't know what to say to you, So like,
I mean, have you have you seen her? Has she
shown up?
Speaker 11 (28:01):
Look? I ran into her a few weeks ago? All right, Well,
oh hold on, hold on a second. I was parking
my car on the street and she was walking by,
and I and said, hey, it was no big deal.
Speaker 7 (28:19):
Why didn't you tell me? I was it?
Speaker 12 (28:20):
Why didn't you tell me?
Speaker 11 (28:23):
Because I know you hit her and I didn't want
to ruin your day And it was nothing. It was
absolutely nothing, all.
Speaker 3 (28:30):
Right, So Jacob, you ran into her, and now Trina
from that it's calling and saying your husband cheating because
she wants you back?
Speaker 1 (28:38):
Is that the case?
Speaker 11 (28:41):
I mean, maybe I don't. I don't know who exactly
called and who left the message, but it's very possible.
Speaker 3 (28:48):
All right, here's what's going to happen. I think the
three of you guys need to get on the phone.
Let's just get right to Trina and you give her
a piece of your mind and let her say what
she needs to say and then evaluate what's going on here.
But it's just like I mean, it's possible Jacob ran
into her, didn't tell you about it, and she does
not want you guys to be together and would call him.
Say that, it's very plausible. Thank you, Amanda, Thank you Jacob.
Speaker 1 (29:11):
Good luck. Why don't two point seven kiss of him?
Speaker 11 (29:15):
Where?
Speaker 2 (29:15):
Ryan says, So.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
Here's the deal, Amna, Jacob married.
Speaker 3 (29:21):
Amanda says, I think my husband's cheating because a woman
called from an unknown number and said your husband's cheating
and hung up. Well, Amanda, and tell me she recognized
the voice to be his ex girlfriend. So it was
his ex girlfriend because Jacob didn't tell Amanda he had
just run into her the other day.
Speaker 2 (29:39):
But we still don't know if it was the ex
but it is a high probability.
Speaker 3 (29:42):
It makes a lot of sense. Now, the ex Trina
never wanted Amanda and Jacob to be together. Trina sees
Jacob it's top of mind, so she calls and says
that to Amanda. So the question is, did Jacob do
anything wrong here?
Speaker 2 (29:57):
Yeah, he kept seeing you wrong, He kept something from
his wife.
Speaker 1 (30:01):
He ran into his ex arbitrarily and didn't tell her.
Speaker 2 (30:05):
Yes, I feel like you maybe should mention that.
Speaker 11 (30:08):
Well.
Speaker 3 (30:08):
Also, maybe when his wife Amanda goes to him and says, hey,
I got this weird call exactly, I could say, oh,
that's you know who doing you know what?
Speaker 1 (30:17):
Because she doesn't want you know what you know.
Speaker 4 (30:19):
Exactly, So he is covering something up. He had a
chance to actually be honest with her, but he didn't.
Speaker 1 (30:25):
But Amanda wasn't honest with us.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
Well yeah, but she doesn't owe us anything.
Speaker 3 (30:29):
No, but it would have been nice to know that
she thought it was the ex girlfriend. So I'm just
trying to figure out he's Jacob cheating or not. Tasha,
good morning, and Pacoimic, go ahead. You heard Ryan's roses.
You're on with us?
Speaker 7 (30:42):
I did. Yeah. So here's the thing.
Speaker 8 (30:44):
If I had a checklist to confirm whether or not
someone's a cheater. I mean, he checks all the boxes
like not.
Speaker 3 (30:53):
Well, he's very very aggressive and defensive about oral of it.
Speaker 8 (30:59):
Absolutely, That's one of the things is the angry with
being contructed, check anger and then yeah yeah, and then
also hiding information from the girlfriend that's suspicious as well.
That's the check for me because the exact same thing
happened to me and my ex. The whole thing went down,
he asked he somehow ran into her, but then kept
it from me, and then I find out that they're
(31:21):
hanging out a lot more and start hooking up.
Speaker 1 (31:23):
So maybe he did. Maybe he didn't just run into her.
Speaker 3 (31:26):
Maybe they were hanging out, and maybe Trina is telling
the truth because she wants to split them up this one.
Speaker 1 (31:31):
I don't know. I don't know. I don't know, but Jacob's.
Speaker 3 (31:35):
Yelling in his yeah reactions like.
Speaker 8 (31:40):
Exactly a red flags for sure, red flag for sure?
Speaker 3 (31:43):
All right, Tasha, thanks for calling. So she'd been through it.
Tasha had been through it and it turned out that
he was doing something.
Speaker 1 (31:48):
Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2 (31:49):
I mean, the fact that there's an ex lingering when
you're married is so.
Speaker 3 (31:52):
Annoying and also right no matter how this pans out,
that's all bad.
Speaker 5 (31:56):
Yeah, like move on, But you know it's interesting. Tell
me this X right, not a part of their lives.
But obviously she's so focused on this X.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
Can't let it go, can't let it go.
Speaker 3 (32:10):
But it's so toxic and destructive for the X, and
she's bringing it into their world as well.
Speaker 5 (32:18):
When she doesn't need to be there. But it's because
it's on top of her mind. She's like bringing it in.
Speaker 1 (32:24):
All right, Avery, good morning, how are you doing?
Speaker 7 (32:27):
Good morning?
Speaker 6 (32:28):
I'm okay, how are you doing?
Speaker 3 (32:29):
We are hanging in there. We are definitely hanging in there.
So tell me what's happening in Northwood? You're dating someone
in your friend group?
Speaker 1 (32:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 11 (32:40):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (32:40):
So I have this group of friends. It's like seven people,
like four girls including me, and then three other guys.
And oh my gosh, we're so close, like we've been
friends ever since college. And we you know, we maybe
don't like hang out every day like we used to,
but we still get together like at least two or
three times a month, and I just I love them
so much. They're like my family. And one of the
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guys in the group, like we kind of realized that
we had feelings for each other, and so we started
dating and it was great, like it was perfect for it,
you know, at least the first six months, and we
were so happy. Everybody was so happy for us, you know,
they kept saying we were the perfect couple. Everyone was like,
oh my god, you're like the Monica and Chandler, you know,
(33:21):
of our group, and they were just like so excited
for us. And I thought it was I thought it
was really, you know, that was it, that it was
great that we were going to be together. But then
the last few weeks things have been like a little
bit rocky. And then a few days ago he said
(33:42):
that he actually wants to start seeing other people. And
I'm just so I was so devastated. I really I
thought he was the one I was gonna be with.
I was imagining this whole future with him. But I mean,
I mean that's not even the point. Like now I
don't know how to even be around our friends because
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if he's going to be there, I don't know how
to act around him. So I feel like it's either
who's my whole group of friends or just like try
and pretend to be normal while he talks about his
days and his new girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (34:18):
Avery. It's so interesting because at the onset here I
was really excited. Yeah, because I think it's.
Speaker 3 (34:26):
Great to have that friendship and then the electricity of
some intimacy afterwards because you already know each other right,
and then until it goes wrong and then it's really
really awkward. My guidance would be, you don't want to
cut out your friends. You want to be in a
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friend group, and it's probably going to be difficult. I mean,
maybe the friend group is sensitive to your dynamic while
it's fresh, and they don't create any awkward moments, and
certainly hopefully he doesn't broadcast is other dates and other people,
just to give you some time. But I think when
you look back, eventually you'll be happy you stayed with
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the friends, and hopefully you'll still be friends with him.
Speaker 6 (35:12):
Thank you. I hope so I hope that he and
I are able to be friends again. Eventually.
Speaker 4 (35:17):
It's just going to take time and then you're gonna
start dating somebody new, and that's gonna be exciting.
Speaker 1 (35:22):
It's not always that way. It is broken for long,
long periods.
Speaker 2 (35:26):
Of time, seven years.
Speaker 4 (35:28):
As soon as you find somebody, it's going to be
a lot better.
Speaker 3 (35:33):
Ye, thank you, good luck and sorry you're going through it,
but we all felt that way.
Speaker 1 (35:41):
You take care.
Speaker 6 (35:42):
Thank you so much, you two.
Speaker 1 (35:44):
I was so excited. I was like, Oh, your days
in the friend group. That's like the dream I know.
Speaker 2 (35:48):
And then crash and burn.
Speaker 1 (35:52):
That's dating.
Speaker 3 (35:53):
Let me jump right into Annie, who has been on
hold here for a minute. Annie and Hawthorne, how.
Speaker 1 (35:57):
Are you hi? How are you doing well?
Speaker 3 (36:01):
So you're calling seeking a little advice from us?
Speaker 13 (36:04):
Yes, so I have an issue. My friend is pregnant,
but she wants me to be happy about it, and
I'm not.
Speaker 3 (36:12):
Hold hold on, hold on, Yeah, I just want to
make sure I understood. Your friend is pregnant. Yeah, and
you're unhappy about that, right?
Speaker 1 (36:24):
Why can you tell us why?
Speaker 13 (36:27):
Yeah? The dad is married and he wants nothing to
do with the baby. When she told me this news,
I was shocked because I literally had no idea she.
Speaker 9 (36:39):
Was even dating anybody.
Speaker 13 (36:42):
And then yeah, and then she was like, oh, yeah,
the dad's married and he wants nothing to do with it.
So it's all me, you know, like in a girl power,
like modern woman type of way. But when she told me,
I was so shocked, and then I was sad for
the kid to not know his dad, and sad for
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the other woman who's being cheated on. And so I mean,
I don't know. I just focused on the negatives. And
then she got really mad at me, and now she
is barely speaking to me.
Speaker 1 (37:13):
So I think i'd be mad at you too.
Speaker 10 (37:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (37:15):
I'm like, if then there's any time to be like
there and support your friend.
Speaker 3 (37:19):
It's like, this is the time. And you shouldn't be
unhappy about her being pregnant. And I mean, I don't know,
unhappy is the right word. Maybe you're concerned about certain
things that you don't have control over, and it sounds
like neither does she at this point.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
Yeah, it sounds like you have to be there for her.
Speaker 3 (37:36):
But I mean I can't imagine. I mean, Sisney, you
could speak this. But you know, someone in your circle
gets pregnant. That's such a blessing. If you think about
what a blessing that is. Anny to be unhappy about
it seems really unfair.
Speaker 4 (37:47):
Yeah, there's an innocent baby coming into this world.
Speaker 13 (37:51):
That's yeah, that's a fact.
Speaker 1 (37:53):
So you know, do you have kids, Annie.
Speaker 13 (37:56):
No, I don't, So maybe.
Speaker 3 (37:58):
You look at it, maybe you look at a little differently,
and then Sisney would look at it. But I still
think that to be unhappy that this happened to her
is not being the best probably friend you can be
to her.
Speaker 13 (38:10):
So I should throw a baby shower.
Speaker 2 (38:12):
Then well, you don't have to go there right now.
Speaker 4 (38:14):
But I just think at this point, talk to her,
try to see where her head's at. And I think
her making a joke about you know, him not being
in the picture right now and her being a single
mom and how it's going to be all her and
laughing about it. I think that's her way of coping
with the reality of how hard this is going to be,
and she really needs a friend.
Speaker 1 (38:35):
Okay, all right, well, thank you, thanks for calling any you.
Speaker 13 (38:39):
Take care, thank you.
Speaker 3 (38:42):
Yeah, it's like that mother to be needs friends, needs
a close friend that she can lean on.
Speaker 4 (38:47):
Not only that your hormones are going crazy when you're pregnant,
you're just she needs a lot of support.
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Speaker 3 (39:12):
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is car in the left turn lane, their lights red
and five cars still turn left through the internet.
Speaker 2 (39:30):
Oh yeah, yeah, I do that.
Speaker 1 (39:32):
And then do you pull up and honk a them on?
Speaker 2 (39:35):
On the other side, I'm the one that catches the
red turn left.
Speaker 3 (39:38):
If six cars go through when they're not supposed to,
do you roll up and then lay on the horn.
Speaker 2 (39:43):
I do that as well. So I'm a hypocrite when
it comes to the left.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
I think most people are the same. I think most
people play both sides of that. One so true. The
other is changing lanes without signals.
Speaker 2 (39:54):
That's dangerous. Yeah, I don't do that.
Speaker 1 (39:56):
I always.
Speaker 2 (39:57):
I even signal in our parking structure. You guys, it's
so there's no percent.
Speaker 1 (40:02):
I don't know where do you do it.
Speaker 2 (40:03):
It's a habit.
Speaker 4 (40:04):
It's just engraved in my brain. If I'm gonna go left,
I put on my signal.
Speaker 3 (40:08):
That's good, you're doing ten and two good driving. They say,
Another laism is tailgating. That is because I don't I
hate to do that, but that's because there's no space.
We're all so close to each other all the time. Anyway,
What fascinates me is the speed at which we can
move so close to each other.
Speaker 4 (40:23):
Sometimes on the freeways, I know, and it's a panic
I think with the tailgating, because if you leave too
much space, then you get cut off and another car
goes in front of you.
Speaker 2 (40:30):
So you have to keep the perfect distance.
Speaker 3 (40:32):
But if you get yeah, if you get too close.
I mean, I sometimes my exit's com I played this
game in my head. Okay, the exits a mile out,
but the traffic's moving slow on the right, so I'm
gonna go far left. I'm going to try and speed
up to get to that exit faster. But now I
got to cut four lanes over to get to the exit.
So I'm that guy.
Speaker 2 (40:51):
Sometimes where I hate doing that.
Speaker 3 (40:54):
I just sometimes you just you're like, two lanes are slow,
so you want to get around. But then you like,
oh my gosh, you're playing that video game in your
mind where the exits approaching your speed, the exit speed
plus the lanes you got to get across.
Speaker 1 (41:06):
Yeah, no, I'm not fun to ride with.
Speaker 2 (41:09):
I'm told, are you like a bad scary driver?
Speaker 3 (41:13):
I'm just a They say I'm a gunner, like my
mom says, you gun it. You'd like to gun it
and then break hard. You gun it and then break hard.
Speaker 2 (41:19):
Yeah, so you're like jerky y, I'm jerky.
Speaker 1 (41:22):
I'm jerky. I like it.
Speaker 3 (41:24):
Well, I'm not trying to scar anybody. I don't think
it's that scared. But I like to speed up and
then I'll slow down, speed up, slow down.
Speaker 2 (41:28):
Interesting.
Speaker 5 (41:29):
I wonder if that has to do with more than
you're driving.
Speaker 1 (41:33):
Probably not, but in your mind maybe.
Speaker 5 (41:35):
Yeah, Like you have a tendency to want to speed
up and then you want to slow down because you
get scared.
Speaker 2 (41:39):
I don't think it's that deep.
Speaker 1 (41:41):
No, I don't either.
Speaker 3 (41:42):
I think it's just want to get there and I'm
frustrated I can't get there fast enough. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (41:46):
I think there's something there.
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All right, Well get back to me.
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Speaker 2 (00:06):
On Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Got up early this.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Morning and I texted Mark an article that just seem
has been a couple of days, and it was about.
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Jump starting your sex life.
Speaker 4 (00:20):
I'm laughing because the article that you sent him was
from was it.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
The Washington Journal?
Speaker 1 (00:26):
A Wall Street Journal? Wall Street?
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Sorry, Wall Street Journal, And Mark does not have an
account for that, so.
Speaker 1 (00:33):
I get this.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
So he may have actually purchased a subscription just to
get this.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
It's really they have great articles, Mark, and you should
be reading about the price of gas anyway. So there
was an article, a big, big article in one of
the sections about the pandemic. A lot of people found romance.
A lot of people then came out of it and
stopped their romance. They stopped having sex.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Interesting, wait, they fell in love during the pandemic.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
They just a lot of So there's different groups, right.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
Some people had no privacy, so they did, and other
people had just each other so they did. But the
point of this article was if your sex life has
stalled coming out of the pandemic, what do you do?
Speaker 1 (01:12):
What do you do?
Speaker 5 (01:13):
Because we got busy again. It's like during the pandemic.
You have no plans, so you just have all the sex?
Speaker 1 (01:17):
Yeah, do you?
Speaker 3 (01:17):
If you do, have to take a step back, slow
yourself down, and realize that it's important to do some
simple things.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
So what struck me was one this expert says, I
found this fascinating.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Experts says, get with your partner and talk about a
sex scene in a movie that you found provocative or erotic.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Yeah, I got it.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
Talk about it, and then role play it, relive it,
act it out the whole scene. I love that Sysney's
nodding Tony fell over.
Speaker 5 (01:50):
Yeah, and that's good because my mind went to Bridgerton
and I'm like, I hadn't want to like that.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
You can't judge the person's scene. We're not going to
be in it, you know.
Speaker 6 (01:58):
What I mean?
Speaker 1 (02:00):
But you think about it. Okay, that's that's fun.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
They also talk about how it's so important to set
the moodh the location, the lighting, the candles, And this
was the thing that stood out in the mood section
was you don't want to get yourself excited. You want
to calm yourself down. Good good romance is a calm,
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slow scene. True can be different. Now you could also
you know, burn yourself with a candle, be careful. But
they were saying like, don't like relax, take it slow,
enjoy it, whereas the human bodies and the heart races
are getting excited.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
Right, you don't want to endy quickly.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
There are other things. Oh yeah, there are other things
and some stuff that I'll just let you read like
I'm reading it now.
Speaker 4 (02:53):
It's important though, you know, especially like if you've got kids.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
It really you got to set aside the time and
make it.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
You really do.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
May can stand out, I know, because you get into
these rhythms of just like not not make not sitt
in the mood, not making it exciting, not.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
You just like you're doing it, and you're just like
pound and go a little bit. Man, we don't use
those choice of words.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
But I don't know is that you don't really say that,
do you.
Speaker 3 (03:21):
That's not even a term the expression or words people say. No,
that's not what people say. They said pound and go
like getting.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
Quit it, okay, go Oh my god, I've never heard that.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
You and Robbie say that we need to be aware.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Of you guys. Do no, my god, could you imagine?
Speaker 3 (03:47):
No? I cannot imagine. I don't want to imagine I'm
here not to I'm actually here not to imagine.
Speaker 5 (03:51):
Do you remember I offered my Remember when I offered
my bed, my apartments. Is need for you and Michael
to have sexy time?
Speaker 7 (03:57):
I know?
Speaker 1 (03:58):
And I was like, oh no, just where to leave
their house and go to yours?
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Yeah, so they had privacy because we had no privacy.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
Really weird, you know. I would think that you're there
in her room.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
It would be so strange.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
And I don't think Michael, that's weird for Michael.
Speaker 5 (04:13):
No, like a hotel at thinking about it, Like all
your spare jackets in that closet, I don't have you
got everywhere?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Yeah, and the posters of all those guys, that's just weird.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
No, I don't have that in my home.
Speaker 8 (04:28):
Your old.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
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a wedding gown is a waste of finance.
Speaker 4 (05:08):
I'm with you, Ryan, if you create a budget for yourself,
I think it could be.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
It could be done in a budget friendly way.
Speaker 5 (05:18):
I could never wrap my head around spending thousands of
dollars on a dress I wear once.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
I can't.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
It's like fairy fairy tale dress. You can't even write,
You can't do anything with it.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
No, after some people.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Look at it as a once in a lifetime situation.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Yeah, once in lifetime waste of money.
Speaker 4 (05:34):
Yeah, Well, if you look at it like that, then
you can say the whole weddings is waste of money.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Well I do. I trust me, guys. I've had a
lot of talks about it. A lot, all right, So
what are the brides are?
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Now? Tubs?
Speaker 3 (05:49):
The new trend brides are not wearing white wedding gowns.
They're going for chic black.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
That's right.
Speaker 4 (05:55):
When I got married, there was no doubt in my
mind I was wearing a white dress or ivory technique.
But I had like the look in my head already.
I wanted the long had the long veil, very dramatic
all that, but now brides are going towards these black
wedding dresses. And actually Google trends had high searches for
black wedding dress over the past twelve months, and the
(06:16):
last specifically was it was basically searched more than anybody
searching for white wedding dress. I wonder, why isn't that interesting.
Christine from Selling Sunset wore a black wedding dress and
her twenty twenty wedding.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
I'm not saying that she was like the trendsetter of
the whole thing, but.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Started watching that show with the volume off.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Why I watched an episode two? Oh, get in on
the drama.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
She just pretty people. I need the drama, the background.
Speaker 4 (06:41):
It has evolved from I don't know what season it is,
now six or something, but it has evolved from season one,
like the fashion. It's a fashion show now like all
it's all designer, all all fashion.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
Aren't the bride saying black is chic and I can
use it again, I can get more bang from my block.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Yeah, I guess so.
Speaker 4 (06:58):
And it's something that you could essentially wear again somewhere else.
But I'm a traditionalist at heart. For me, it was
a white wedding dress, and that's that's just what I wanted.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
I did have this idea recently where I think I
want all like, I want all my guests to be
in black or white. So like, I don't care if
anyone else was a white dress. I want everybody in
black and white. No, that was not gonna fly for me.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
You guys want to settle this now.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Well that it's your wedding, you can do whatever you want.
Someone should have been a white Some actually did show
up in a white dress in my wedding, and I remember,
and I'm just like, I like.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
The black dress trend. I do. I think to me,
it's just like something different and you can wear it again.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
You know, but you can't really wear it again.
Speaker 1 (07:40):
It's like you can you cut it off and do
a whole little thing.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
You could wear that gown like that to another like
black chat.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
I got a dress cutter, guy, you'll change the dress
chain so old look.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
On air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Jackie, thank you for listening to us. Appreciate you calling
in red Chok. So you need some advice? What's the
category I do?
Speaker 9 (08:05):
So?
Speaker 7 (08:05):
It is work work related all right.
Speaker 9 (08:11):
So I've been in my position for about a year now,
it's about to be your next month. Loved it, worked
really hard for it to get it, pushed really hard
hard to get it. So I got it super happy,
Like I said, almost a year. But for the past
four five months, I want to say, things have godeaus
(08:33):
really toxic at work. The environment has been really stressful.
Definitely has taken a toll on me. I do have
some heart problems issues are flare ups how they want
to call it, just flare ups, and those have been
happening quite more often related, so they're not They've told
(08:55):
me it's not. I've been to two different cardiologists and
one has actually asked me like, oh, do you think
maybe because of work? But I don't know, Like something
inside me is like okay, I definitely don't want to
be that person, like yes, it's trust related, like take
me off work or you know, it's just so I've.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Been yeah, is there more to the story.
Speaker 9 (09:20):
No, that's just other than that. It's so my husband
and I work for the same company, and he lived
and breathed for this company. Totally get it. Been there
for so many years and when I've tried to talk
to him about it. It's it kind of gives me
more of a management perspective, but I'm like, wait, I
kind of need my husband perspective right now.
Speaker 3 (09:42):
So I've talked to a lot of people over the
last few years that made a pivot to do something happy.
They're not standing for They value themselves more so than
being in a toxic or difficult work environment. The question
is can you pivot into something where you can still
cover your finances?
Speaker 9 (10:00):
And that's what I've thought about as well. I've thought about,
you know, if it's just the position, like can I
go back to my previous position kind of you know, financially, yes,
we can do it. But then I'm like, okay, just
until that happens, I don't want to leave all the
burden on him.
Speaker 7 (10:21):
Yeah, that can make sense.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
But I look, if you.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
Can get out of a toxic situation, you will add
years to your life and it will make you happier.
The question is when can you do it and what's
practical about it?
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Right right right?
Speaker 9 (10:42):
And I'm telling you, I just I've had so many
days lately where I'll just be at work and I'll
text my husband. I'm going to quit, like I'm done,
I've had it.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
I'm going to quit.
Speaker 9 (10:54):
And then, of course I don't end up putting, but
maybe you.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
Could take Maybe you can search for what you would
segue into, so that when that's ripe, you can quit.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
Yeah, start setting up your plan B.
Speaker 9 (11:10):
Right, and then so then another thing too, and that's
you know, maybe once we're settled, I'm like, okay, just
take it out a little longer. But right now we're
actually in the process of looking for houses. It hasn't
been quite that easy in this market. But at the
same time, I need to have.
Speaker 7 (11:24):
A job on paper until we do get a house.
Speaker 3 (11:28):
Yeah, and then make a pivot and think about the
things you love because one day, one day.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
The time is going to be right. All right, Hey, Jackie,
thanks for coving much.
Speaker 7 (11:41):
Jackie, thank you so much. You guys appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
You take good care, all right, have good day.
Speaker 7 (11:47):
Bye.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
We all do this.
Speaker 3 (11:51):
And it never occurred to us that it might be
a bad idea. You know what a website makes you
answer a security question. I forgot your password? You can
confirm it to you?
Speaker 1 (12:01):
Yes, okay.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
They always ask you mom's maiden name, first, pet's name,
street you grew up on make up answers that aren't real.
Make up answers that aren't real. Just make them up. Oh,
make up your security to answer those questions, but not
be the real answers.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
That's smart. But then you have to remember those.
Speaker 3 (12:22):
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that information makes it much easier to steal your identity questions,
So you got.
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for the day. Figure it's a good time to dot.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
It's important to know the difference between someone who values
you and someone who only values what you can give them.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
Wow, sink in to really, really really read that.
Speaker 1 (12:50):
All right, let's get through this. Thursday are with est
just FM headlines with Ruby Gonzalez right.
Speaker 10 (13:00):
The La City Council on Wednesday voted to move forward
with a plan to have mandatory air conditioning and all
rental units in the city. The plan is an attempt
to address increased emergency room visits during heat waves, but
some landlords say they may have to sell their properties
if the motion passes because they won't be able to
afford to install AC. Police are warning cal State Fullerton
(13:22):
students about a new scam targeting their parents' bank accounts.
Scammers are apparently calling parents in the middle of the
night and telling them that their child has been arrested
after drugs were found in their car during a traffic stop.
The caller then asks the parents to wire bell money
to release their child from custody. A campus wide warning
was sent out reminding people that the police department would
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never ask anyone to wire funds for bail money. And
Yesterday was the final day of Splash Mountain at Disneyland.
It is now being reimagined as Tiana's By You Adventure
and will reopen some time next year.
Speaker 2 (13:54):
But there was some excitement before it closed.
Speaker 10 (13:57):
A writer who apparently suffered a panic attack jumped out
out of a log during the ride. The unidentified writer,
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through the day. So Ruby is joining us. Ruby is
a producer on the morning show. Yes, And I just
find it fascinating to get to know. It's not like Prime.
We're just curious about everybody's scenario on the show. I
know so much about Tanya and about Sicany. I'm learning
(14:41):
more and more about you, and you bring an interesting
scenario to the table.
Speaker 10 (14:46):
Go ahead, Ruby, Yeah, So my brother has a new
lady in his life behind and you know, he mentioned that,
like they're very serious, like boyfriend girlfriend now after a month,
they're kind of moving fast. And then he mentioned that
she has three kids from three different men.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
Oh and for different guys. Yeah, three different guys guys.
Speaker 10 (15:10):
And so initially, like you know, everyone, like a lot
of people in my family and friends are just like
when they hear that, they're like, I don't want to judge.
Speaker 2 (15:17):
Yeah, like we did, but like, yeah, you don't want
to judge.
Speaker 1 (15:20):
Like we don't know. Everyone's like that, what did you
drink that?
Speaker 10 (15:24):
I think I was just a little surprised because he
always said he didn't want kids. Oh, I was surprised
that he like would be with someone with kids, but
I guess he doesn't want kids. It kind of makes
sense like it.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
They're there, there's no pressure.
Speaker 11 (15:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (15:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 10 (15:41):
So how old are the kids they're I think the
two they're they're like in eighteen twenty oh and then
the youngest is like three.
Speaker 2 (15:50):
Oh okay, so it's like he's thirty four.
Speaker 1 (15:53):
So here's she's a little bit older.
Speaker 2 (15:56):
The age difference there.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
Here's the thing.
Speaker 3 (15:59):
First of all, I'm I'm just thinking because I am
the brother and I have a sister, and she's had
to meet several people, right, you know, and I'm thinking, Wow,
I've never.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
Really looked at it like that.
Speaker 3 (16:11):
And she's always great with everybody, and I feel like
maybe she's a little bummed when it doesn't.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
Work out, yeah, because she's like put some.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
Time in, you know, we get invested.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
And as a.
Speaker 3 (16:22):
Younger brother, I mean, I'm I'm an older but as
a younger older brother growing up, I was.
Speaker 1 (16:30):
Like, you know, I don't I don't think I want
to date someone's got kids.
Speaker 7 (16:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:33):
And then as a older older brother, I don't really care.
Speaker 10 (16:38):
Yeah that's what he said. He's like, look, I'm older,
like I.
Speaker 5 (16:42):
Yeah, but still if you say you don't want kids,
even if you're dating somebody with kids, it's similar but.
Speaker 2 (16:48):
Maybe that changes your mind.
Speaker 3 (16:50):
But it sounds like the inflammatory part is, wait, this
woman's not done well with three guys.
Speaker 10 (16:56):
Yeah, that was the concern from some people in the fam.
Speaker 2 (16:59):
It sounds like she was very young with you first too,
But you don't know.
Speaker 3 (17:02):
It's hard I get that on the surface level, like
as a protective family. Well, hold on, what's what's what's
the common den I'm there to hear, but we don't know.
Speaker 1 (17:10):
And life is short and is he happy?
Speaker 3 (17:12):
Is he my mom always says if my chickens are happy,
I can't ask too many questions.
Speaker 10 (17:15):
Yeah, I mean that's literally what my mom says too.
She's just like if he's happy, like that's all that matters, right.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
True, So well, I think we vote for his happiness.
And we played this one out. Let's play this out.
Speaker 10 (17:28):
You know, he did tell her he's like we haven't
met her, and he's like I don't want you to
meet the three sisters or kind of like.
Speaker 3 (17:36):
This is this is subtle, nice and subtle. Well, good luck,
but ye keep us posting on that route. Dating apps, Look,
they are very commonly used and they can work out.
As you may know, and if you've never heard it,
before Tanya is living, breathing, proof of bumble Hinge, Tinder
(18:01):
match dot com, farmer John dot com, whatever it is.
Speaker 2 (18:04):
That Farmer's only, but.
Speaker 1 (18:06):
Yeah, farmers only dot com.
Speaker 3 (18:09):
Then it works. She met the love of her life
soon to be fiance. On and on and on, and
I want to get ahead of myself.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
Let's not get ahead of ourself, Robbie on Hinge, that's true.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
I did not realize, and Cisney, you did some research
on this. I didn't realize how specific a dating app
it could be. I mean, look, common interests, common likes
is a good way to start off a relationship for me.
Speaker 1 (18:34):
I'll tell you a deal breaker. Oh we go out
on a date and you don't want to share? Yeah,
what you order?
Speaker 3 (18:47):
I find that not great even as a first date.
I want to share that. Who would say no?
Speaker 2 (18:53):
Yeah? Like people do like you from friends, even if
you don't want to share.
Speaker 1 (18:57):
So some people don't want to I don't know.
Speaker 3 (18:58):
Maybe they don't want to order to have any issues
with their breath or digestion. But for me, like like,
go all in the meal is exciting. I want to
eat so much you can't even make out.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
So a picky eater is a deal breaker for.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
You A picky eat Now, I'm a picky eater sometimes stupid.
That's only so I can eat non picky on the weekend.
But yeah, picky eater kind of it can bother me.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
Mm hmmm, I can see that.
Speaker 1 (19:19):
So is there, Well tell me about that there's a
dating app for everybody?
Speaker 4 (19:22):
Now, Well, no, that this is like just specifically targeted
dating apps, So a dating app for cat lovers or
if you're vegan, there's a dating app for that. Religions obviously,
music lover, things like that. But I think that now
and this is kind of just like a more like
a self research thing that I was kind of just
like it was more of a systany epiphany.
Speaker 2 (19:43):
Love, a sisnanty epiphany. It happened last.
Speaker 4 (19:45):
Night and I said, I think that these targeted dating
apps are actually sabotaging you in the end because you're
you're the pool is getting so much smaller for you.
Speaker 2 (19:57):
Because it's targeted specific to whatever that inch t is.
Speaker 4 (20:01):
Therefore, you're limiting yourself from maybe meeting the love of
your life. Tanya being the perfect example of this, because
if you would have gone on a Christian dating app,
you would have never met Robbie never, never would have
met him.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
But so I have a couple thoughts here.
Speaker 3 (20:16):
One, I don't mind the specificity because if you're really
trying to curate and hone it in and you don't
have a lot of time, maybe it's helpful. No. However, Tanya, however, you,
on the other hand, probably and I'm not putting words
(20:37):
in your mouth, didn't see yourself dating someone not your religion.
Speaker 5 (20:39):
Ever, never Like that was one of my boxes, was
Christian man.
Speaker 1 (20:44):
But in hindsight, do you feel like that was closed minded?
Speaker 2 (20:47):
Totally and not closed minded?
Speaker 5 (20:49):
But like again, everybody says, have your boxes, you know,
make sure that person checks all your boxes and have
like a clear vision of who you want. And what's
crazy is those boxes. My current boyfriend doesn't necessarily check
any of them, but he is the person that has that.
Like we share a soul, like we are literally meant
to be.
Speaker 1 (21:07):
So have you talked about what religion you will raise
your kids to be?
Speaker 9 (21:12):
Not?
Speaker 2 (21:12):
Really? Right now, we celebrate both. Oh my god, all
I hear is the l That's all I hear. It's
all I hear.
Speaker 1 (21:19):
I didn't even hear. What are we talking about? Is
that what.
Speaker 11 (21:26):
Fry?
Speaker 2 (21:28):
But right now it's both so like passover and Easter.
Speaker 1 (21:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (21:33):
I think that's good though, And I think you know,
when you go specific into let's say, you only want
to date somebody that's listens to the same exact music
as you, I feel like that's boring in a weird way.
Speaker 2 (21:43):
Like I met Michael.
Speaker 4 (21:44):
He was all classic rock and alternative music, and I
was popping E.
Speaker 3 (21:48):
D M.
Speaker 4 (21:48):
And I like converted him and he I enjoyed listening
to his music and he enjoyed.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
Because all styles of music, I like.
Speaker 2 (21:55):
All genres of music.
Speaker 3 (21:57):
Look, I think these dating apps specific or broad. It
just depends on what it is you're looking for and
what you find your deal breakers. But I guess the
more there are out there, the more opportunity is to
meet somebody. Because it just happened right here in front
of our very own eyes, with our Tanya, both her
and Robbie Matt Hall one or two point seven Kiss FM.
(22:20):
It's time for Ryan's roses. Dear Ryan in Siciny, This
is from a man in Culver City. I got a
call from an unknown number. A woman said, your husband
is cheating on you and hung up. I asked him
about it, and he swears he's not cheating and it's
just spam. I mean, that is stirringly bothersome. So Amanda,
thank you for coming on. Did you recognize the woman's voice?
Speaker 7 (22:44):
No? No, she just said it so fast and I
hung up immediately.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
I mean, it.
Speaker 3 (22:50):
Doesn't make any sense that somebody random would call and
say that to you.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
Did you try calling the number back?
Speaker 7 (22:57):
You couldn't. There's no carl Id so there wasn't any
nothing to call back current.
Speaker 11 (23:00):
No number.
Speaker 3 (23:01):
All right, So that happens, and it spooks you, of course, right,
you're rattled by it. Now you go to your husband,
walk us through what you said and what he said.
Speaker 12 (23:11):
I mean, I told him exactly what happened, right, I said,
I just got this unknown number and this lady just
said your husband's cheating on you? What the hell is
going on? And he was I mean, he looks shocked, right,
But then it was like swore up and down that
he wasn't cheating.
Speaker 7 (23:25):
Said it's probably just spam, like you know, and I
was like, why would this be spam?
Speaker 12 (23:29):
There was like us, it wasn't a scam, right, So like,
what do you mean? And he said like, oh, well,
they're probably just making sure it's a real number, you know,
you picked up, and so now you're just gonna get
a bunch of telemark your car, carls and that was
like he that was it, that was all.
Speaker 7 (23:42):
He didn't want to talk about it.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
I don't buy it.
Speaker 3 (23:44):
We're about to call Amanda's husband. So a phone rings,
unknown number, she answers, and a woman on the other
end says, your husband is cheating on you and hangs up.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
I just don't think that's random.
Speaker 4 (23:59):
Hmm be could I mean, this could be like the
start of a scam or something like maybe that number
calls back and then you're trying to get more information.
Speaker 2 (24:07):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
But then her husband says, oh, don't worry about it.
It's fine. Well it's not fine, but well, don't worry
about it. Yeah, it's spam.
Speaker 3 (24:16):
All right, man, I need you to say, Ryan, you
my permission to call, and then your husband's name.
Speaker 7 (24:21):
Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission to call.
Speaker 3 (24:26):
We're gonna call him right now. Be very quiet, stay
on the line. You're gonna hear everything. Don't say a
word until we tell him he's on the air.
Speaker 1 (24:35):
All right, Good? Luck.
Speaker 11 (24:48):
Hello.
Speaker 2 (24:48):
Hi, is this Jacob?
Speaker 11 (24:51):
Uh?
Speaker 9 (24:52):
Yeah, Hie.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
My name is Lauren. I'm calling from Lolo's Flowers.
Speaker 4 (24:56):
We actually deliver in the Culver City area and like
on the West Side, and we're offering local residence today
a promotion.
Speaker 11 (25:01):
Oh my god, Okay, I told my wife I'm not cheating.
Speaker 4 (25:05):
I I just want to know if you wanted to
send free roses to anybody that.
Speaker 11 (25:10):
You keep stop stop stop stop stop stop Ryan's roses
on kids at That is Brian there too.
Speaker 3 (25:16):
Hi, your voice is being broadcast in the radio. I
need you to know that we have your wife, Amanda
on the line. Jacob, you know how this goes? So, yeah,
that's this is us. Amanda's on the phone. She told
us everything. So who are you cheating with?
Speaker 9 (25:33):
What?
Speaker 6 (25:33):
I know?
Speaker 11 (25:34):
Look, I'm not cheating.
Speaker 1 (25:35):
But the other woman called your wife and.
Speaker 11 (25:39):
No, no, okay, look, I know she thinks that I'm
cheating and that sucks, but I try to assure her,
and now I will try to assure you that I
am not. She got some random called that doesn't mean anything.
Speaker 1 (25:50):
Why would a random call say that?
Speaker 2 (25:53):
And why are you so angry?
Speaker 1 (25:55):
And you're very aggressive?
Speaker 11 (25:56):
Jacob, y, Look I'm just I'm sorry. I'm just frustrated. Okay, Look,
it could have been a wrong number, a scam, I
don't know, a prank. There are a million explanations for this,
but I'm telling you I am not cheating, and I'm
sorry she got you.
Speaker 7 (26:12):
Involved in this, So I think I know who it is.
Speaker 11 (26:18):
Wait wait, what are you.
Speaker 1 (26:20):
Saying, Amanda? Who do you think it is? That's new
news to us.
Speaker 7 (26:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 12 (26:25):
I didn't want to say anything because I didn't I
didn't I didn't want it to be true.
Speaker 11 (26:29):
But like.
Speaker 7 (26:31):
Jacob, it sounded like Trina.
Speaker 1 (26:34):
Oh my god, who's Trina?
Speaker 2 (26:36):
Who's Trina?
Speaker 9 (26:38):
Mean?
Speaker 12 (26:38):
Trina is Jacob's ex girlfriend and they dated right before
we get together, and she has always hated me, and
I mean she would like absolutely nothing more than break
us up.
Speaker 7 (26:50):
She is, so hold on.
Speaker 3 (26:52):
That changes the score here, Amanda. If it was Trina,
she could be doing that just to rattle you. And
he's not cheating. So now you've got me on the fence.
Speaker 9 (27:03):
Oh.
Speaker 12 (27:04):
I just I didn't want to say anything because I
didn't like to be true.
Speaker 13 (27:06):
Right, Like, how horrible I thought.
Speaker 3 (27:09):
But if she's never liked you or wanted him to
be happy, with you, then it is likely that she
could be just making that up.
Speaker 7 (27:17):
I really don't think it's true, and she yeah, absolutely is.
Speaker 12 (27:24):
Yeah, all right, you follow her on Instagram?
Speaker 1 (27:27):
So like, yeah, why don't do you speak with Trina? Jacob?
Speaker 11 (27:30):
What you do?
Speaker 1 (27:31):
You are you communication with Trina? Jacob?
Speaker 11 (27:34):
No, I'm not hold on you follow on Instagram?
Speaker 12 (27:40):
Yeah, Jacob, Look, I know this is weird, but like,
let's take a cheap breath.
Speaker 7 (27:44):
Okay, Like, I know this is.
Speaker 12 (27:46):
Weird, but like obviously we got to Like I didn't
know how else to bring this up.
Speaker 7 (27:49):
I didn't know what to say to you, So like,
I mean, have you have you seen her? Has she
shown up?
Speaker 11 (28:01):
Look? I ran into her a few weeks ago? All right, Well,
oh hold on, hold on a second. I was parking
my car on the street and she was walking by,
and I and said, hey, it was no big deal.
Speaker 7 (28:19):
Why didn't you tell me? I was it?
Speaker 12 (28:20):
Why didn't you tell me?
Speaker 11 (28:23):
Because I know you hit her and I didn't want
to ruin your day And it was nothing. It was
absolutely nothing, all.
Speaker 3 (28:30):
Right, So Jacob, you ran into her, and now Trina
from that it's calling and saying your husband cheating because
she wants you back?
Speaker 1 (28:38):
Is that the case?
Speaker 11 (28:41):
I mean, maybe I don't. I don't know who exactly
called and who left the message, but it's very possible.
Speaker 3 (28:48):
All right, here's what's going to happen. I think the
three of you guys need to get on the phone.
Let's just get right to Trina and you give her
a piece of your mind and let her say what
she needs to say and then evaluate what's going on here.
But it's just like I mean, it's possible Jacob ran
into her, didn't tell you about it, and she does
not want you guys to be together and would call him.
Say that, it's very plausible. Thank you, Amanda, Thank you Jacob.
Speaker 1 (29:11):
Good luck. Why don't two point seven kiss of him?
Speaker 11 (29:15):
Where?
Speaker 2 (29:15):
Ryan says, So.
Speaker 1 (29:19):
Here's the deal, Amna, Jacob married.
Speaker 3 (29:21):
Amanda says, I think my husband's cheating because a woman
called from an unknown number and said your husband's cheating
and hung up. Well, Amanda, and tell me she recognized
the voice to be his ex girlfriend. So it was
his ex girlfriend because Jacob didn't tell Amanda he had
just run into her the other day.
Speaker 2 (29:39):
But we still don't know if it was the ex
but it is a high probability.
Speaker 3 (29:42):
It makes a lot of sense. Now, the ex Trina
never wanted Amanda and Jacob to be together. Trina sees
Jacob it's top of mind, so she calls and says
that to Amanda. So the question is, did Jacob do
anything wrong here?
Speaker 2 (29:57):
Yeah, he kept seeing you wrong, He kept something from
his wife.
Speaker 1 (30:01):
He ran into his ex arbitrarily and didn't tell her.
Speaker 2 (30:05):
Yes, I feel like you maybe should mention that.
Speaker 11 (30:08):
Well.
Speaker 3 (30:08):
Also, maybe when his wife Amanda goes to him and says, hey,
I got this weird call exactly, I could say, oh,
that's you know who doing you know what?
Speaker 1 (30:17):
Because she doesn't want you know what you know.
Speaker 4 (30:19):
Exactly, So he is covering something up. He had a
chance to actually be honest with her, but he didn't.
Speaker 1 (30:25):
But Amanda wasn't honest with us.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
Well yeah, but she doesn't owe us anything.
Speaker 3 (30:29):
No, but it would have been nice to know that
she thought it was the ex girlfriend. So I'm just
trying to figure out he's Jacob cheating or not. Tasha,
good morning, and Pacoimic, go ahead. You heard Ryan's roses.
You're on with us?
Speaker 7 (30:42):
I did. Yeah. So here's the thing.
Speaker 8 (30:44):
If I had a checklist to confirm whether or not
someone's a cheater. I mean, he checks all the boxes
like not.
Speaker 3 (30:53):
Well, he's very very aggressive and defensive about oral of it.
Speaker 8 (30:59):
Absolutely, That's one of the things is the angry with
being contructed, check anger and then yeah yeah, and then
also hiding information from the girlfriend that's suspicious as well.
That's the check for me because the exact same thing
happened to me and my ex. The whole thing went down,
he asked he somehow ran into her, but then kept
it from me, and then I find out that they're
(31:21):
hanging out a lot more and start hooking up.
Speaker 1 (31:23):
So maybe he did. Maybe he didn't just run into her.
Speaker 3 (31:26):
Maybe they were hanging out, and maybe Trina is telling
the truth because she wants to split them up this one.
Speaker 1 (31:31):
I don't know. I don't know. I don't know, but Jacob's.
Speaker 3 (31:35):
Yelling in his yeah reactions like.
Speaker 8 (31:40):
Exactly a red flags for sure, red flag for sure?
Speaker 3 (31:43):
All right, Tasha, thanks for calling. So she'd been through it.
Tasha had been through it and it turned out that
he was doing something.
Speaker 1 (31:48):
Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2 (31:49):
I mean, the fact that there's an ex lingering when
you're married is so.
Speaker 3 (31:52):
Annoying and also right no matter how this pans out,
that's all bad.
Speaker 5 (31:56):
Yeah, like move on, But you know it's interesting. Tell
me this X right, not a part of their lives.
But obviously she's so focused on this X.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
Can't let it go, can't let it go.
Speaker 3 (32:10):
But it's so toxic and destructive for the X, and
she's bringing it into their world as well.
Speaker 5 (32:18):
When she doesn't need to be there. But it's because
it's on top of her mind. She's like bringing it in.
Speaker 1 (32:24):
All right, Avery, good morning, how are you doing?
Speaker 7 (32:27):
Good morning?
Speaker 6 (32:28):
I'm okay, how are you doing?
Speaker 3 (32:29):
We are hanging in there. We are definitely hanging in there.
So tell me what's happening in Northwood? You're dating someone
in your friend group?
Speaker 1 (32:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 11 (32:40):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (32:40):
So I have this group of friends. It's like seven people,
like four girls including me, and then three other guys.
And oh my gosh, we're so close, like we've been
friends ever since college. And we you know, we maybe
don't like hang out every day like we used to,
but we still get together like at least two or
three times a month, and I just I love them
so much. They're like my family. And one of the
(33:01):
guys in the group, like we kind of realized that
we had feelings for each other, and so we started
dating and it was great, like it was perfect for it,
you know, at least the first six months, and we
were so happy. Everybody was so happy for us, you know,
they kept saying we were the perfect couple. Everyone was like,
oh my god, you're like the Monica and Chandler, you know,
(33:21):
of our group, and they were just like so excited
for us. And I thought it was I thought it
was really, you know, that was it, that it was
great that we were going to be together. But then
the last few weeks things have been like a little
bit rocky. And then a few days ago he said
(33:42):
that he actually wants to start seeing other people. And
I'm just so I was so devastated. I really I
thought he was the one I was gonna be with.
I was imagining this whole future with him. But I mean,
I mean that's not even the point. Like now I
don't know how to even be around our friends because
(34:04):
if he's going to be there, I don't know how
to act around him. So I feel like it's either
who's my whole group of friends or just like try
and pretend to be normal while he talks about his
days and his new girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (34:18):
Avery. It's so interesting because at the onset here I
was really excited. Yeah, because I think it's.
Speaker 3 (34:26):
Great to have that friendship and then the electricity of
some intimacy afterwards because you already know each other right,
and then until it goes wrong and then it's really
really awkward. My guidance would be, you don't want to
cut out your friends. You want to be in a
(34:46):
friend group, and it's probably going to be difficult. I mean,
maybe the friend group is sensitive to your dynamic while
it's fresh, and they don't create any awkward moments, and
certainly hopefully he doesn't broadcast is other dates and other people,
just to give you some time. But I think when
you look back, eventually you'll be happy you stayed with
(35:08):
the friends, and hopefully you'll still be friends with him.
Speaker 6 (35:12):
Thank you. I hope so I hope that he and
I are able to be friends again. Eventually.
Speaker 4 (35:17):
It's just going to take time and then you're gonna
start dating somebody new, and that's gonna be exciting.
Speaker 1 (35:22):
It's not always that way. It is broken for long,
long periods.
Speaker 2 (35:26):
Of time, seven years.
Speaker 4 (35:28):
As soon as you find somebody, it's going to be
a lot better.
Speaker 3 (35:33):
Ye, thank you, good luck and sorry you're going through it,
but we all felt that way.
Speaker 1 (35:41):
You take care.
Speaker 6 (35:42):
Thank you so much, you two.
Speaker 1 (35:44):
I was so excited. I was like, Oh, your days
in the friend group. That's like the dream I know.
Speaker 2 (35:48):
And then crash and burn.
Speaker 1 (35:52):
That's dating.
Speaker 3 (35:53):
Let me jump right into Annie, who has been on
hold here for a minute. Annie and Hawthorne, how.
Speaker 1 (35:57):
Are you hi? How are you doing well?
Speaker 3 (36:01):
So you're calling seeking a little advice from us?
Speaker 13 (36:04):
Yes, so I have an issue. My friend is pregnant,
but she wants me to be happy about it, and
I'm not.
Speaker 3 (36:12):
Hold hold on, hold on, Yeah, I just want to
make sure I understood. Your friend is pregnant. Yeah, and
you're unhappy about that, right?
Speaker 1 (36:24):
Why can you tell us why?
Speaker 13 (36:27):
Yeah? The dad is married and he wants nothing to
do with the baby. When she told me this news,
I was shocked because I literally had no idea she.
Speaker 9 (36:39):
Was even dating anybody.
Speaker 13 (36:42):
And then yeah, and then she was like, oh, yeah,
the dad's married and he wants nothing to do with it.
So it's all me, you know, like in a girl power,
like modern woman type of way. But when she told me,
I was so shocked, and then I was sad for
the kid to not know his dad, and sad for
(37:03):
the other woman who's being cheated on. And so I mean,
I don't know. I just focused on the negatives. And
then she got really mad at me, and now she
is barely speaking to me.
Speaker 1 (37:13):
So I think i'd be mad at you too.
Speaker 10 (37:15):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (37:15):
I'm like, if then there's any time to be like
there and support your friend.
Speaker 3 (37:19):
It's like, this is the time. And you shouldn't be
unhappy about her being pregnant. And I mean, I don't know,
unhappy is the right word. Maybe you're concerned about certain
things that you don't have control over, and it sounds
like neither does she at this point.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
Yeah, it sounds like you have to be there for her.
Speaker 3 (37:36):
But I mean I can't imagine. I mean, Sisney, you
could speak this. But you know, someone in your circle
gets pregnant. That's such a blessing. If you think about
what a blessing that is. Anny to be unhappy about
it seems really unfair.
Speaker 4 (37:47):
Yeah, there's an innocent baby coming into this world.
Speaker 13 (37:51):
That's yeah, that's a fact.
Speaker 1 (37:53):
So you know, do you have kids, Annie.
Speaker 13 (37:56):
No, I don't, So maybe.
Speaker 3 (37:58):
You look at it, maybe you look at a little differently,
and then Sisney would look at it. But I still
think that to be unhappy that this happened to her
is not being the best probably friend you can be
to her.
Speaker 13 (38:10):
So I should throw a baby shower.
Speaker 2 (38:12):
Then well, you don't have to go there right now.
Speaker 4 (38:14):
But I just think at this point, talk to her,
try to see where her head's at. And I think
her making a joke about you know, him not being
in the picture right now and her being a single
mom and how it's going to be all her and
laughing about it. I think that's her way of coping
with the reality of how hard this is going to be,
and she really needs a friend.
Speaker 1 (38:35):
Okay, all right, well, thank you, thanks for calling any you.
Speaker 13 (38:39):
Take care, thank you.
Speaker 3 (38:42):
Yeah, it's like that mother to be needs friends, needs
a close friend that she can lean on.
Speaker 4 (38:47):
Not only that your hormones are going crazy when you're pregnant,
you're just she needs a lot of support.
Speaker 14 (38:53):
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and I say La because there's this story out about
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the freeway.
Speaker 1 (39:09):
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Speaker 3 (39:12):
Boston, New York like they could be aggressive in terms
of on the roads driving, so can we. But there
are some la isms that I find here, so many
to me. The one thing I see all the time
is car in the left turn lane, their lights red
and five cars still turn left through the internet.
Speaker 2 (39:30):
Oh yeah, yeah, I do that.
Speaker 1 (39:32):
And then do you pull up and honk a them on?
Speaker 2 (39:35):
On the other side, I'm the one that catches the
red turn left.
Speaker 3 (39:38):
If six cars go through when they're not supposed to,
do you roll up and then lay on the horn.
Speaker 2 (39:43):
I do that as well. So I'm a hypocrite when
it comes to the left.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
I think most people are the same. I think most
people play both sides of that. One so true. The
other is changing lanes without signals.
Speaker 2 (39:54):
That's dangerous. Yeah, I don't do that.
Speaker 1 (39:56):
I always.
Speaker 2 (39:57):
I even signal in our parking structure. You guys, it's
so there's no percent.
Speaker 1 (40:02):
I don't know where do you do it.
Speaker 2 (40:03):
It's a habit.
Speaker 4 (40:04):
It's just engraved in my brain. If I'm gonna go left,
I put on my signal.
Speaker 3 (40:08):
That's good, you're doing ten and two good driving. They say,
Another laism is tailgating. That is because I don't I
hate to do that, but that's because there's no space.
We're all so close to each other all the time. Anyway,
What fascinates me is the speed at which we can
move so close to each other.
Speaker 4 (40:23):
Sometimes on the freeways, I know, and it's a panic
I think with the tailgating, because if you leave too
much space, then you get cut off and another car
goes in front of you.
Speaker 2 (40:30):
So you have to keep the perfect distance.
Speaker 3 (40:32):
But if you get yeah, if you get too close.
I mean, I sometimes my exit's com I played this
game in my head. Okay, the exits a mile out,
but the traffic's moving slow on the right, so I'm
gonna go far left. I'm going to try and speed
up to get to that exit faster. But now I
got to cut four lanes over to get to the exit.
So I'm that guy.
Speaker 2 (40:51):
Sometimes where I hate doing that.
Speaker 3 (40:54):
I just sometimes you just you're like, two lanes are slow,
so you want to get around. But then you like,
oh my gosh, you're playing that video game in your
mind where the exits approaching your speed, the exit speed
plus the lanes you got to get across.
Speaker 1 (41:06):
Yeah, no, I'm not fun to ride with.
Speaker 2 (41:09):
I'm told, are you like a bad scary driver?
Speaker 3 (41:13):
I'm just a They say I'm a gunner, like my
mom says, you gun it. You'd like to gun it
and then break hard. You gun it and then break hard.
Speaker 2 (41:19):
Yeah, so you're like jerky y, I'm jerky.
Speaker 1 (41:22):
I'm jerky. I like it.
Speaker 3 (41:24):
Well, I'm not trying to scar anybody. I don't think
it's that scared. But I like to speed up and
then I'll slow down, speed up, slow down.
Speaker 2 (41:28):
Interesting.
Speaker 5 (41:29):
I wonder if that has to do with more than
you're driving.
Speaker 1 (41:33):
Probably not, but in your mind maybe.
Speaker 5 (41:35):
Yeah, Like you have a tendency to want to speed
up and then you want to slow down because you
get scared.
Speaker 2 (41:39):
I don't think it's that deep.
Speaker 1 (41:41):
No, I don't either.
Speaker 3 (41:42):
I think it's just want to get there and I'm
frustrated I can't get there fast enough. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (41:46):
I think there's something there.
Speaker 1 (41:47):
All right, Well get back to me.
Speaker 2 (41:51):
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