The KEYS Improving Your Communication in Relationships | Decoding Couples

Rachel and Stacey, the Decoding Couples duo, discuss common challenges in relationships, such as feeling unseen and unheard, and living in different realities. They emphasize the importance of understanding attachment styles and how they shape our relationships. They also provide insights on effective communication, including taking self-inflicted timeouts and taking responsibility for our own actions. Repairing arguments and conflicts is crucial, and they recommend owning up to our mistakes and showing genuine remorse. Listeners can follow them on Instagram and listen to their podcast, as well as explore their online course, Relationship Roadmap. Meet the Decoding Couple Duo: Youtube  @decodingcouples  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/decoding_couples/ Courses and content: https://snipfeed.co/decodingcouples Download Couply https://couply.page.link/podcast Takeaways One of the most common challenges in relationships is feeling unseen and unheard by our partner. Living in different realities can occur when there are small transgressions and a lack of repair in the relationship. Attachment styles formed in childhood greatly influence our adult relationships and can trigger positive or negative attachment patterns. Self-inflicted timeouts can be effective in managing conflicts, but it's important to communicate the intention and timeframe for the timeout. Taking responsibility for our own actions and showing genuine remorse is crucial for repairing arguments and conflicts in relationships. Keywords relationship challenges, feeling unseen and unheard, different realities, attachment styles, effective communication, self-inflicted timeouts, taking responsibility, repairing arguments, online course Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:45 Common challenges in relationships 03:02 Steps leading to living in different realities 06:41 The role of attachment in relationships 08:04 The cycle of communication 11:25 The communication chart 13:30 Real-life examples of communication cycles 16:57 Repairing after an argument 20:23 Understanding your attachment style 23:08 Self-regulation and self-soothing 25:23 Creating timeouts in communication 30:40 Repairing after a hard conversation 32:30 Upcoming events and where to find more

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