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October 17, 2025 68 mins
In this episode, Dr. Rena Malik, MD is joined by psychotherapist and attachment expert Jessica Baum to explore the science of attachment styles and their impact on intimacy, relationships, and emotional health. Together, they discuss how childhood experiences shape adult romantic patterns, why anxious and avoidant individuals are often drawn together, and practical strategies for healing insecure attachments. Listeners will gain valuable insights into building safer, more fulfilling connections and recognizing the difference between true intimacy and intensity in relationships. Try Creatone https://tonetoday.com get 20% OFF with discount code: RENA Get 15% off Branch Basics with the code RENA at https://branchbasics.com/Rena #branchbasicspod Become a Member to Receive Exclusive Content: renamalik.supercast.com Schedule an appointment with me: https://www.renamalikmd.com/appointments ▶️Chapters: 00:00:00 Introduction 00:00:49 Attachment styles overview 00:03:59 Parenting and attachment 00:07:49 Anxious and avoidant dynamics 00:12:14 Sex and intimacy patterns 00:16:44 Disorganized attachment explained 00:23:05 Healing attachment outside romance 00:26:00 Intensity vs. real intimacy 00:33:50 Modern culture and avoidance 00:40:19 Letting go of unhealthy bonds 00:51:41 Trauma impact on sexual health Check out my free e-book Better Sex, Better Life https://www.renamalikmd.com/morepleasure Check out Grow Therapy at **GrowTherapy.com/DRMALIK** Get Jessica Baum’s book Safe: An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building More Secure Relationships: https://amzn.to/4pM1duZ Jessica’s Freebies for You! https://jessicabaumlmhc.com/interview Stay connected with Jessica on social media for daily insights and updates. Don’t miss out—follow her now and check out these links! INSTAGRAM - https://www.instagram.com/jessicabaumlmhc/ FACEBOOK - https://www.facebook.com/consciousrelationshipgroup LINKEDIN - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-baum-lmhc-cap-038a1538/ Let's Connect!: WEBSITE: http://www.renamalikmd.com YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaMalikMD INSTAGRAM: http://www.instagram.com/RenaMalikMD TWITTER: http://twitter.com/RenaMalikMD FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/RenaMalikMD/ LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/renadmalik PINTEREST: https://www.pinterest.com/renamalikmd/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/RenaMalikMD ------------------------------------------------------ DISCLAIMER: This podcast is purely educational and does not constitute medical advice. The content of this podcast is my personal opinion, and not that of my employer(s). Use of this information is at your own risk. Rena Malik, M.D. will not assume any liability for any direct or indirect losses or damages that may result from the use of information contained in this podcast including but not limited to economic loss, injury, illness or death. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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