In this episode, Kute Blackson, Transformational Speaker & Best-selling Author, shares how his deep knowing from a young age was to impact and inspire people in a different way than the path laid out by his father. Like so many of us, he was terrified to speak his truth for fear of being outcast & losing his father’s love. After fitting himself in the box that his father & society wanted him to be, & being in misery because of it, he pursued his calling & moved to LA even though he was scared as fuck. He followed the nudges, creating a transformational coaching method that he still uses today. He takes us through the 1st steps of beginning to surrender, which starts with truth & stopping the lies we tell ourselves, with being able to question ourselves, & with being willing to not know who we are for a moment. That can be scary as fuck, but the truth of who we are will emerge authentically from within, & magic is on the other side.
Take Aways
1. Your soul sometimes guides you to what is uncomfortable & scary as fuck. This doesn’t mean you're on the wrong track. You are making room for the new you
2. Your soul has an intelligence of its own. Follow your soul’s guidance & you will end up in the right place, at the right time, doing the right things, with the right people
3. Follow the nudges & guidance even when it doesn’t make sense
4. You don’t have to know where you’re going to get to where you need to be. Life reveals itself in the process of living it
6. Fully surrendering is real freedom. It’s childlike & it’s where our true authenticity is
7. Let go of the illusion of control so you can become open & available to what life is seeking to unfold & express through you. That's where magic is
8. Be willing to not know who you are for a moment. Question yourself
9. Shift the paradigm about surrender being hard. The more we believe it’s hard, the harder it is. Surrender is our natural state
10. How do you begin to surrender? By being honest & truthful w/yourself.
11. To surrender & let go requires that you grieve, bc the next level of your life requires the next level of you, which requires you to let go of everyone & everything that is no longer a vibrational match
12. Letting go & surrendering makes space for new possibilities to emerge
13. Sit in the unknown for a moment bc the truth of who you are will emerge authentically from within.
Find Kute here www.kuteblackson.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kuteblacksonlovenow
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kuteblackson/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/kuteblackson
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/kuteblackson09
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kute-blackson-35755519/
Kute’s Bali event: www.boundlessblissbali.com
Kute’s book: The Magic of Surrender https://www.amazon.com/Magic-Surrender-Finding-Courage-Let-ebook/dp/B08LMJ8YQF
Get in touch with me: Business website: https://www.reikiflowmn.com/ & IG: https://www.instagram.com/paula_nicole_71/
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