Xixi Wang, founder of Asians for Sex Positivity, discusses what sex positivity means for Xixi and her relationship with her immigrant parents as a queer Asian. We discuss mental health stigma and finding gratitude for our parents as we get older.
**CONTENT WARNING: Suicidal thoughts**
Takeaway:
- Sex positivity is not about whether sex is good nor bad, it is about owning your body and your choices
- We need to unlearn suppressing our emotional and mental health struggles just to avoid disappointing our parents
- Relationships with parents are complicated because they are a source of trauma but they can also lead to recovery
- Forgiving our parents for unintentional trauma can come in baby steps
Mentions & Resources:
- Asians for Sex Positivity (Instagram)
- Xixi Wang Artist (Instagram)
- 8 Tips for Talking About Mental Health With Your Asian Family
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