Episode 171: It's Helpful to Understand The Myth of Being Fair
The idea of being fair is not realistic based on how the brain perceives the world. But you can overcome your bias and alter your responses.
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Top Takeaways:
1. [1:23] Everyone likes the idea of justice.
2. [2:37] How Children Learn Fairness
3. [4:02] Being Fair Differs From Being Nice
4. [05:24] Fair Can Be Applied Only If Everyone Is The Same
5. [06:52] Unconditional Love Is Better Than Fairness
6. [08:19] Being Fair Is Inaccessible
7. [10:07] The Need For Fairness Is About Envy
8. [12:15] Overcoming The Idea Of Being Fair
9. [12:15] Moving Past Fairness
10. [13:47] Moving Past Fairness
Episode Links:
https://page.terrikozlowski.com/mindsetexercise
https://terrikozlowski.com/faith-is-universal/
https://terrikozlowski.com/live-a-powerful-life/
https://terrikozlowski.com/how-to-handle-conflict/
https://terrikozlowski.com/be-aware-of-automatic-judging/
https://terrikozlowski.com/cynicism-is-a-tool-of-the-ego/
https://terrikozlowski.com/being-unique-the-egos-tool/
https://terrikozlowski.com/lessons-learned/
https://terrikozlowski.com/loving-others/
https://terrikozlowski.com/no-blame-take-responsibility/
https://terrikozlowski.com/tidy-up/
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7062384/
https://terrikozlowski.com/family-patterns-of-behavior/
https://terrikozlowski.com/deliberate-action/
https://terrikozlowski.com/victim-or-survivor/
https://terrikozlowski.com/pivot-in-life/
https://terrikozlowski.com/growth-comes-through-discomfort/
https://terrikozlowski.com/live-out-your-dreams/
https://terrikozlowski.com/projection-makes-perception/
https://terrikozlowski.com/being-fair/
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