Ever feel like you're the assistant in your own business instead of the CEO? You're not alone.
In this deeply personal episode, I'm sharing my journey from scattered OBM to soul-aligned coach, and the exact moment I realized that my "successful" business was actually running me instead of the other way around.
If you've ever felt stretched thin by client work, stuck reacting to everyone else's priorities, or wondered how your business started controlling your life instead of supporting it, this episode will resonate deeply. I'm pulling back the curtain on what "success" really looked like behind the scenes and the breaking point that changed everything.
The truth is, most service providers accidentally become assistants in their own businesses. We think flexibility and constant availability make us valuable, but they often lead to chaos, burnout, and loss of direction. When you're operating inside everyone else's business instead of your own, it's impossible to build something truly scalable and fulfilling.
In this episode, I share the mindset shift that transformed everything: moving from "What do my clients need?" to "What actually lights me up?" This isn't just about feeling good (although you will) — building around your unique magic is the smartest business strategy you can implement.
Key Points Covered:
✨ Why being "fully booked" can actually mean you're losing control of your business
✨ The daily reality behind a "successful" OBM business (spoiler: it was chaotic)
✨ The breaking point that made me question everything
✨ How I reclaimed my voice and rebuilt around my strengths
✨ What true business alignment actually feels like
✨ Why your unique magic isn't just nice-to-have — it's your competitive advantage
If you're ready to stop being the assistant in your own business and start leading something extraordinary, this episode will show you exactly how to make that shift.
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