Ever catch yourself adding "just one more thing" to a client deliverable? You know, that voice that says maybe you should send one more message, create one more graphic, or throw in an extra bonus—just to be helpful?
If you've ever felt compelled to go above and beyond what you were hired to do, this episode is going to shift everything for you.
Most service providers think overdelivering makes them valuable, but the truth is, it's not about being helpful at all. It's about trying to feel safe in your business. And when you constantly give more than what's agreed upon, you're not just creating an energy leak—you're actually training your clients to take advantage of you.
In this episode, I'm breaking down why overdelivering is really about survival, not service, and how this pattern is keeping your business stuck in chaos and burnout. Plus, I'm sharing the exact first step you can take today to start breaking this cycle.
Key Points Covered:
✨ Why overdelivering is actually about fear, not helpfulness
✨ How "going above and beyond" trains clients to push your boundaries
✨ The connection between perfectionism, internalized patriarchy, and scope creep
✨ Why unlimited or open-ended offers set you up for overwork
✨ The "brave pause" technique to break the overdelivering pattern
✨ How to restructure your offers with built-in boundaries
If you're tired of working more hours than you're paid for, feeling resentful toward clients, or constantly questioning whether you're doing "enough," this episode will help you see that your worth isn't earned through excess—it's inherent in the value you already provide.
💫 Ready to streamline your offers and strengthen your boundaries so you can deliver powerfully without pouring from an empty cup? Let's chat about working together in Expansion - DM me "EXPANSION" on Instagram @soulfulbizcoachandrea
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