The Skill That Makes Penetration Unforgettable (and It’s Not Size)

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Not all orgasms are created equally.
There’s a world of difference between a quick release… and the kind of deep, full-body orgasm that makes her melt into you. And here’s the kicker: it’s not about going harder or faster.

In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m breaking down how to create deeper, more connected pleasure through rhythm, pressure, and body awareness. We’ll cover what most people get wrong when they try to “go deep,” the science of how the body responds during arousal, and step-by-step techniques to help your partner experience more intense, unforgettable pleasure.

This is part two of last week’s episode on how to read her body—but this time, we’re going deeper. Literally.

✨ What you’ll learn:
• Why “harder” isn’t the answer
• The science behind deeper sensation and vaginal tenting
• How to use rhythm and angle to your advantage
• How to read her body for real-time feedback
• The one mistake that kills deeper pleasure—every time

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Episode Transcript

SPEAKER_00 (00:02):
I'm Annette Benedetti, host of the podcast
formerly known as Locker RoomTalk and Shots.
The show has a new name, TalkSex with Annette.
But at its core, this is stillyour locker room.
It's where we strip away shame,get curious, and speak the
unspoken about sex, kink,dating, pleasure, and desire.
Around here, nothing's offlimits.

(00:24):
These are the kinds ofconversations we save for our
boldest group chats, our mosttrusted friends, and of course,
the women's locker room.
Think raw, honest, and sometimesunapologetically raunchy.
If you've been here from thebeginning, thank you.
And if you're new, welcome to mypodcast where desire meets
disruption and pleasure becomespower.

(00:46):
Now, let's talk about sex.
Cheers.
Right low.
Today's talk sex with the nettopic is the skill that makes
penetration unforgettable.
And no, it is not size.
Last week I taught you how toread her body, how to spot the
exact moment she's turned on,open, and ready to be taken

(01:10):
somewhere unforgettable.

But here's the thing (01:12):
not all big O's are created equally.
There's a world of differencebetween a quick release and the
kind of deep, full-body big Othat transforms her mind, body,
and soul, and guarantees she'lllook at you in an entirely new

(01:32):
light.
And that difference, it's notabout size, it's not about
speed, it's about rhythm, angle,pressure, and how well you move
with her body, not against it.
This episode is part two of lastweek's body reading master
class.
Last week was about finding thedoor.

(01:53):
This week I am teaching you howto walk her through it and make
the kind of pleasure she'llremember.
Not all orgasms are createdequally.
This is how you give her thekind she never forgets.
But before we dive in, I want toremind you that I am over on
OnlyFans, and there I am givingyou my sex and intimacy how-tos,

(02:16):
demos, audio guidedself-pleasure meditations, and
even mini coaching experiences.
If you are not ready to fullycommit to a full regimen of sex
and intimacy coaching, you canask me your one-off questions
there, and I will answer them.
So you can find me also over onSubstack doing a whole lot of
the same, minus the demos andthe coaching.

(02:39):
And you can find me in bothplaces with my handle at TalkSex
for the net.
You can also scroll down to thenotes below, and you're gonna
find links to everywhere youwant to find me there.
I'm looking forward to seeingyou in all of the places.
So now let's dive in to how tomake penetration unforgettable
and give her big O's that willchange her life.

(03:02):
Cheers.
So let's start with the bigmistake.
The big mistake is equating deepwith hard.
Too many people try to createintensity through speed and
force, missing the mostsensitive zones entirely.
When the vaginal canal tense oropens, and I talked about that

(03:23):
in my last video, poundingactually works against her body.
A 2018 study found that gentle,consistent pressure on deeper
erogenous zones like the A-spotand interior fornex produces
more intense pleasure than fast,shallow movements.
So translation is deep big O'sare about precision, rhythm, and

(03:49):
timing, not impact.
If she feels like you're tryingto jackhammer your way to
pleasure, her body will tense upinstead of opening up.
Now let's address three bigmyths that are sabotaging you in
the bedroom.
The first myth is that harderequals deeper, more intense big

(04:10):
O's.
False.
A body actually pulls away fromoverly forceful thrusts.

Myth number two (04:17):
one angle works for everyone.
Wrong.
Everybody is different.
Upward angles stimulate the acespot, the front wall.
Downward angles can hit theposterior fornex.
Which one gets her there?
Every woman and vulva owner isunique.

(04:38):
And what's going to work for oneisn't going to work for the
other.
And even though these aregeneral locations, where they
are specifically placed on eachbody can vary.
So that angle is going to dependon her unique body.
Myth number three is speed iswhat she wants.

(05:00):
Fast can be fun, but when you'retrying to get her to that deep,
big O place, speed is yourenemy.
But slow, consistent pressure iswhat makes her body bloom.
Precision beats pounding everysingle time.
Why do deeper big O's feeldifferent?

(05:24):
This is about what happens onceshe's already there.
Shallow penetration tends to hitmore surface nerve endings.
It's immediate and buzzy.
Emotional connection matterstoo.
When her body feels safe andseen, pelvic floor tension
softens and deeper pleasurebecomes possible.

(05:45):
Deep penetration, especiallywith slow controlled rhythm,
stimulates the a spot and theanterior fornix, which connect
to the pelvic plexus nervepathways tied to full body O's.
This kind of stimulation oftencreates sensations described as
melting waves or emotionalreleases.

(06:08):
It's less friction and moredepth of feeling.
So the big O's that we'retalking about here go beyond
just the physical spasming thatwomen will experience in your
basic climax.
Here we are searching for deep,full-body, mental, physical,
soul-bending orgasms, which aretruly possible.

(06:32):
Deep big O's aren't justphysical, they're neurological
as well.
When you are slow andintentional, her parasympathetic
nervous system stays engaged,meaning her body relaxes, opens,
and rides the sensation insteadof just bracing or even
clinching through it.

(06:53):
A study found that the sameareas activated during a big O
also light up during emotionalbonding.
So this is part of why you aregoing to be memorable,
desirable, and sought out againafter you give her this kind of
big O.

(07:13):
You can't force her body toopen.
You can only make it feel safeenough to open for you.
And you don't need to go harderto go deeper.
You need to go smarter.
So now let's talk about how togive her deeper, stronger big
O's.
Here's a step-by-step guide.
First of all, warm up like itmatters.

(07:35):
The goal isn't just arousal,it's expansion.
Start with emotionally settingthe stage for depth and
intensity.
I'm talking the pregame.
Talk with each other, touch,hold hands, kiss, hold each
other, sink your breathing, andbuild the electricity between
you before initiating genitaltouch.

(07:56):
Then we're going to move on toclitoral stimulation and outer
touch to help the vaginal canaltent naturally.
Think of this as opening thedoor, not knocking it down.
So step two is slow pressure isbetter than fast thrusting.
So start shallow, ease deeper,use a rolling or rocking motion,

(08:20):
not just jackhammering.
Whether you are using your hand,a dildo, or a penis.
Keep the rhythm steady so herbody can meet you.
Step three is angles areeverything.
Tilt upward to stimulate that Aspot or the front wall.
Tilt downward to explore theposterior fornix.

(08:41):
Adjust gradually and watch howher body responds.
Her breath, her pelvic tilt,soft moans.
These are your real-timefeedback loops.
And again, if you want to knowmore about what to look for,
you're going to go to lastweek's episode and I walk you
through all of those signs youshould be on high alert for.

(09:03):
Step four is follow her body.
Don't reread it.
This isn't about finding thesigns.
You already have them.
Now it's about staying on them.
Lock into the angle or pressurethat makes her hips rise and
keep your rhythm there.
Consistency is your superpower.

(09:25):
Once her body shows you the doorto the big full body O's, stay
there.
Don't wander off.
Step five, break the script.
Build unpredictability in withmicro pauses, slow grinds, or
subtle angle shifts.
That contrast is what pushesintensity higher without going

(09:46):
harder.
And then finally, step six, easeher down gently.
So once she has the big O, yourjob isn't over.
Your role is not done.
Don't pull away the second sheclimaxes.
Ease up slowly.
Keep contact soft.
Let the wave taper downnaturally.

(10:09):
This deepens intimacy and italso can lead to a surprise
second wave, which is always aplus.

So here's the real secret (10:18):
Deep big O's don't come from tricks,
they come from presence, rhythm,and timing.
Once you've learned to read herbody, this is the part that
makes her feel you in a way shewon't forget.
So whisper encouragement.
Match your breath to hers.
Stay connected afterwards.

(10:39):
Reading her body gets you to thedoor.
Rhythm is what walks her throughit.

Here's the truth (10:45):
making her climax deeper isn't about being
bigger, harder, or faster.
It's about angles, rhythm, andwhat you do once she's already
opened up to you.
If last week was about decodingthe signals, this week is about
riding the wave.
If you want to see what thislooks like in real time, I've

(11:07):
got a spot and rhythm demos overon my OF page.
And if you want morestep-by-step technique
breakdowns like this one, hitsubscribe and turn on the
notifications.
Now, if you're looking for a sexand intimacy coach, my books are
open.
You can find out more by goingto my website,
talksexwithanet.com.

(11:27):
If you have questions about thisepisode or you have a comment,
or you have experience after yougive it a try that you want to
share with me, make sure to dropa comment below the video on my
YouTube site.
That's at talksexwithanet onYouTube.
Or you can send me an email atAnnette at
talksexwithanette.com.

(11:48):
I'm looking forward to hearingabout your experience.
So until next time, folks, I'llsee you in the locker room.