Can You Please Talk to My Trauma? Insights on Healing from Karlee Holden on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #336

Karlee Holden joins Susan Guthrie for a deeply personal and insightful discussion of uncovering, exploring, and healing the trauma bonds that shape us. Karlee is a Trauma Practitioner, helping people with their trauma and mental and physical health for twenty years. 

Karlee explains that healing from trauma is not just talking about your problems; it's unwinding the fight-flight response from the nervous system and the body by developing boundaries. In this episode, Susan and Karlee discuss the importance of establishing boundaries, understanding unhealthy relationships and family patterns, and ultimately unwinding what has been holding us back from being our truest selves. 

You’ll hear:

• Why ignoring trauma only perpetuates its effects and leads to more stress.
• Setting healthy boundaries is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships. “Healthy boundaries are essential for our mental and emotional well-being."
• How to cultivate awareness of your emotions and triggers, and practice self-regulation to manage stress and anxiety.
• "Focus on what you can control. You can't control the external circumstances, but you can control your responses, behaviors, and self-care practices."
• Seek support. You can seek support from therapists, counselors, or support groups when dealing with trauma and emotional challenges.

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About this week's special guest: Karlee Holden

Karlee Holden is the Author of the Can You Please Talk To My...Book Series. She is a Trauma Practitioner, helping people with their trauma and mental and physical health for twenty years. Karlee’s passion is to share what she wishes she had known at the height of her trauma and all she has learned.

Karlee’s books: Can you please talk to my trauma: https://amzn.to/4bTp8lc

Can you please talk to my girlfriend: https://amzn.to/3Tl6E64 Karlee’s website: https://www.karleeholden.com/

Karlee on Instagram: http://instagram.com/Karlee.holden

Karlee on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/karleeholdenpodcast

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