If you’ve been feeling deeply exhausted, disoriented, and like you don’t recognize yourself lately — you’re not alone. I’ve been feeling it too. In this episode of The Femme Cast, I’m sharing a raw, unscripted, channeled message about what I believe is really going on beneath the surface.
So many of us are going through what I’m calling a “quiet reset.” It’s not a breakdown. It’s not self-sabotage. It’s your soul calling you to slow down, tune in, and surrender the patterns that have been weighing you down — many of which didn’t even begin with you.
This season is inviting us to let go of who we thought we had to be, so we can remember who we really are — underneath the trauma, people-pleasing, perfectionism, and pressure to prove ourselves.
I’m speaking to the spiritual exhaustion so many of us are carrying — the weight of healing, of breaking generational cycles, and of constantly trying to keep it all together. If your body is saying “rest” but your mind is yelling “push through,” I hope this episode brings the permission, perspective, and peace you’ve been needing.
Inside this episode:
- Why burnout often signals spiritual misalignment, not failure
- The connection between inherited trauma and our relationships
- Why your soul chose this life, this path, these lessons
- What it really means to rest and let the Universe meet you halfway
- How to stop filling the emptiness and make space for the miraculous
You’re not broken — you’re becoming. This isn’t the end. It’s the beginning of your next level.
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Stop begging to be chosen. Choose yourself instead.
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MARIA @THEFEMMECAST (00:00):
Hey you guys, what is up and welcome
back to the show.
I am very excited and gratefulto have you here.
I am terribly sorry it has beenquiet here at the Femcast For
the last couple of weeks.
I had recorded some episodesand I deleted them.
There's definitely a shifthappening.
We're going to change gears fora little bit in terms of the
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kind of content we put out.
So hopefully this resonateswith those of you who have been
following me for quite some time.
Um, many of you know, um, I didused to channel quite a bit and
I've kind of moved away fromthat, but I'm feeling kind of
called to move back intochanneling a little bit again.
Um, which is basically just,you know, speaking from
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intuition and not having a planfor what it is that I'm going to
talk about.
There are some things that havebeen unfolding that I think
will be relevant for a lot ofyou guys and that is how a lot
of the relation, toxicrelationship patterns that we
talk about here on the Femcast,the disempowering beliefs, the
limiting beliefs that you knowwe, we often, I often share with
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you guys, and the strugglesthat I've had in the patterns
that I've had, you know how theyreally all stem from
generational conditioning andpatterns and cycles and how you
know, there's a part of you knowwhy I'm here and why I do what
I do.
That I think will resonate witha lot of you, because I think a
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lot of you are actually doingthe same thing that our lineage
has been perpetuating from onegeneration to the next for
centuries.
And I think that this is not myfirst reset and I am going
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through a massive reset rightnow.
And I am going through amassive reset right now, not my
first reset, probably not mylast, and that's okay.
One of the things that youstart to realize when you're on
this journey is that you will bereset several times until you
get to your you know, whateveryou want to call it final
destination, or you know who itis that you are meant to be, but
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we're always becoming, weremeant to be, but we're always
becoming.
You know, and I always enjoyexplaining I don't always enjoy
being in the process of becoming, but I always enjoy explaining
the process of becoming.
You know we come into this worldas pure as can be, and you know
.
Then we're conditioned, thenwe're traumatized, then we're
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hurt, then we're abandoned, thenwe're rejected.
Then you know we take on thebeliefs and the fears and the
projections of the people aroundus.
And then you know we veer fromour truth.
And then you know that happensin childhood and then, up until
probably, you know, in our teens.
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Childhood and then up untilprobably, you know, in our teens
.
And then we slowly start torecognize and or we hope, we
hope most of us will, and Ithink many of us who are alive
in in in this era are goingthrough this, but hopefully, you
know, we'll wake up and realizethat um start to see our
patterns, we'll start to see thebeliefs that aren't serving us
and we start to, one by one,work through them and evolve
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through them.
Right, and I think and I thinkit's very important to mention
that everything that happens tous is very intentional and by
divine design.
I believe that as souls and youknow we're going to get a little
bit more woo than we have beenhere on the femcast for quite
some times, but I do believe assouls, we come here, we choose
the life that we're going toexperience, we choose the
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lessons we're here to learn, wechoose the relationships we're
going to engage with andenergetically exchange with,
because our soul wants to learnsomething, our soul wants to
evolve through our experienceshere.
And so, yes, of course, ofcourse we pick our family, we
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pick our friends, we pick ourlovers, we pick our partners, we
pick our bosses.
We pick all of it.
We handpick each and every one,no matter how painful we think
it is.
We pick each and everyexperience that we're going to
have and we decide what lessonswe're going to learn and evolve
through in this lifetime, whattroubles, trials, hurts, traumas
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we're going to experience andhow we're going to use them to
evolve as spiritual beings.
And sometimes I have to askmyself, like what the fuck was I
thinking when I chose this life?
Me and my friend actually hadthis conversation the other day
Like were we high, were we in,like I don't know, some sort of
like heaven, peyote or somethingwhen we chose this life?
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Because, honest to God, we'relike, how did we even choose to
go through all these things thatwe've been through?
But nonetheless, here we areand she's an amazing soul too
and you know, she's been throughher fair share as well, and
she's also a generational cyclebreaker and I believe, I really
do believe that, if you'relistening to this podcast.
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If you followed me, you'velistened to this podcast and
you've struggled with yourrelationships, for, you know,
with a lot of the patterns thatwe've talked about on the show,
you are also a generationalcycle breaker.
You know, and, um, you knowwhether that's conditioning that
you know was passed downthrough your lineage, whether
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it's just generic.
You know patriarchalconditioning that we've all been
exposed to, especially as women.
You know all of those are arereally starting to crack and
break open so that we can evolvethrough them.
Right, and you know, not justpast them, but through them,
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like, what have they taught us?
What?
Where have, where have we givenour power away to these cycles
and beliefs?
And you know, who would we beif it wasn't for these cycles
and beliefs that were handed,kind of handed down to us and
kind of spoon fed to us ourentire lives, right, and the
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examples that people made aroundus that we learned from, too
right?
That's also another big one.
You know, sometimes we don'tknow what we don't know, right.
So when we see people behavinga certain way and we think
that's normal, we think that'sright and we think that's
healthy, we tend to model thesame behaviors and that's where
family conditioning comes in.
But sometimes we don't knowthat those behaviors that we're
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learning are not normal, they'renot healthy, they're not meant
to be perpetuated any longer.
And it's not because the peoplearound us were bad, I mean.
Some cases, yeah, they could be.
But in many cases, you know,it's how they learn to love,
it's how they learn to be, it'show they learned what was right
and wrong.
Whether it is right or wrong isa different conversation.
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You know they were doing thebest they could with what they
knew.
You know, and you know I candefinitely say that for my
family and I've seen patterns.
It's been so evident latelywhere I've been seeing patterns,
not just within my own familybut like my distant family, and
you know we're calling cyclesthat.
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You know I saw it play out withmy aunts and my uncles and you
know that lived all the way onthe other side of the world for
me and I'm like there'ssomething bigger here, there's a
bigger conversation here,because I don't think, you know,
it's not just environment,because if it was environment it
wouldn't be with family thatwas, you know, thousands of
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miles away.
You know I have very littleexposure to them, but yet in my
life I relived a lot of thosesame patterns.
I perpetuated a lot of thosesame cycles and beliefs.
So it was an environment a lotof those same cycles and beliefs
.
So it was an environment.
Sure, some of the beliefs couldhave been passed down from my
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family, absolutely.
But I think it goes bigger thanthat because, you know, as I've
done the spiritual work and asI've dug into my lineage, what
I've been learning is that thesecycles have been perpetuating
in my family for manygenerations.
And you know, I do believe thatmany of us alive today are
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breaking a lot of our patternsthat have been evident in our
lineage, that have been passeddown from generation to
generation to generation,because we're meant to do things
differently.
Now.
We're meant to live different,we're meant to be different,
we're meant to feel different,we're meant to believe different
things, we're meant to be amore evolved spiritual being and
therefore, the beliefs thatwe've carried with us for these
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last several generations can'tcome with us where we're going.
And so I really do believe thata lot of us who are here and if
you're listening to thispodcast, I do believe that you
fall into the same category too,where you know you have had one
toxic relationship afteranother.
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No matter how many times youhave set an intention that
you're going to find healthylove and you're going to find a
healthy relationship, you keepperpetuating these same patterns
over and over again.
You have been unable to breakaway and be yourself and you
know you've struggled with thepeople pleasing aspect and
people trying to please thepeople around you, and over
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giving and selfandoning andputting everyone else's
prioritizing, what everyone elsethinks before what you think
and what you believe and what'struly right for you.
And you know if that's beenyour story, that's something
that you've struggled to break,even though you've been trying
to.
You know oftentimes you knowyou set the intention that
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you're going to, but as soon asyou get pushback, as soon as you
know someone makes you feel bador you get the idea that
someone's about to, you know,call you out or be upset with
you or reject you in some way orwhatever, you know you
immediately want to backtrackand take back whatever power you
just took and you you want,you're so tempted to just do
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what that person needs you to door wants you to do in order to
feel loved and accepted by thatperson.
So you know, there's a reasonwhy we've been perpetuating
these cycles, there's a reasonwhy we've had to face them over
and over again and for many ofus like we've had We've carried
emotional baggage doesn't evenbelong to us.
And so sometimes, you know,we'll have an emotional response
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to an experience that seemscompletely what's it called Like
.
It just doesn't like thepunishment doesn't fit the crime
y'all Like.
It just feels like it's waymore intense than it needs to be
.
But we feel it.
It's very real, it's veryvisceral and it comes from a
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very real place.
And that's because we've passedthe karma, the trauma, the pain
, the hurt, the fears, thebeliefs have all been passed
down to us from othergenerations.
So sometimes we can be having atraumatic response to something
that doesn't isn't really allthat traumatic, but just because
it reminds, it's reminiscent.
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The energy, the feeling, the,the, the, the, the, how it's
making us feel, the sounds, thesmells, the is, is, is bringing
us back to a place in time thatwe can't even remember.
But we just know it doesn'tfeel safe and that's all we can
kind of recognize.
So I'm going through, and areason why I share all this with
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you is because I do believethat many of you fall into this
category if you've beenlistening to this podcast and if
so, like my heart goes out toyou it's not easy work and even
in this period that I findmyself in right now, you know
where it's kind of like.
You know, I know I've beenmisaligned, you know, and I have
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been for quite and I've beensensing it.
I've known that it's beencoming up for quite some time
and it's not to say that it waswrong, like what we were talking
about and what we were sharing,but it's come to a point where
it needs to evolve and start.
We need to start talking aboutdifferent things, and I think
I've been very resistant indoing that Because I've been
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trying to hold on to, you know,mentally, what I thought was the
right thing for us to betalking about, the right
conversations for us to behaving.
You know, and we're still goingto be talking about a lot of
these toxic patterns that westruggle with.
But I want to go a little bitdeeper with you guys in terms of
where they come from and whywe're experiencing them, because
I think there's a much biggerreason why we go through these
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things, or a bigger reason whywe yeah, a bigger, much more
important benefit to breaking alot of these patterns and
experiences that we're movingthrough, these cycles that we're
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moving through.
And, yes, it means relationship, but also there is a higher
purpose to all of this and Ithink that you know, what's
become evidently clear for me inmy life like, not just recently
, this has been an ongoing thingis how much more I'm capable of
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when I'm not being sucked intothese toxic dynamics constantly,
you know, being sucked intothese toxic dynamics constantly,
you know and when I'm actuallyjust taking my power back from a
lot of these situations andreally being intentional about
where I place my energy and myand, and, yeah, my energy, my
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emotions, my thoughts, myhealing, when I get really
intentional on those things andI'm not diluting my energy
because I'm focused on a toxicdynamic here or there, I can
move mountains with that energyand I've only begun to scrape
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the surface.
And that's the real scary part,and I think that, oh, it's
scary and exciting, but I thinkthat there is a part of our soul
that is afraid of that, or, youknow, our ego that is afraid of
that power, and sometimes, whatbetter way to keep us
disempowered than to keep us inthese toxic patterns.
To keep us disempowered than tokeep us in these toxic patterns
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.
And maybe people knew just howpowerful we as women really are
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and what better way to keep usdisempowered than to keep us
believing that we needed tochase being chosen and being
caught in these toxic cycles inrelationship so that we can be
chosen, so that we can jumpthrough hoops and perform and do
our best to be perfect, so wecan be chosen by a partner
because our survival depended onit, when we were already chosen
from the moment we were bornand had the power to create
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worlds.
And yet we've been squanderingthat energy focused on being
chosen in toxic relationships Atleast that was my story.
Like I was doing, I wasliterally jumping through hoops
of fire to be chosen from someof these duds I was dating for
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like the longest time you know,and it's like why?
Why?
My throat's actually startingto hurt right now.
It's feeling very uncomfortable.
There's so much that's wantingto come through.
I actually pulled some cardsbefore coming on here from the
Magdalene deck.
I haven't pulled on Mags in avery long time.
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Mags is my girl and every timeI've been going through, every
time I've ever gone through adifficult time.
I pulled out these cards and Ihaven't pulled them out in a
very long time and the cardsthat came out were Purgatory
Code, creation, secret andSurrender, which is really where
I'm at right now and I'mholding up, like the Surrender
card is like right at the top,and I am.
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I'm at a point right now where Iam literally surrendering to
what wants to come through me,literally surrendering to what
wants to come through me,because I think that we get into
our head about what we'resupposed to be doing, the
decisions we're supposed to bemaking, how we're supposed to be
moving, moving through life andthe life that it is that we
want to create.
But I think that sometimes thatthat that perspective you know,
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moving through the whole,figuring it out mentally,
mentally deciding what you wantyour life to be, in itself is a
trap, because we know on a soullevel what we want our life to
be and when we start todetermine that mentally, that
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can often be distorted.
It can be distorted with whatour ego thinks we need to be in
order to be loved and respectedand cared for and chosen.
It could be influenced by whatother people think we should
want and have in this life.
But our heart, our soul, knowswhat it came here to do and
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create.
And so when we surrender and wejust kind of let the our
intuition guide us to where itwants to go, beautiful things
can happen beyond ourcomprehension.
Because if you think about it,you know, many of us believe
that we've kind of entered intoa new world, a new era, and I'm
looking at the co-creation cardand I'm also looking at the
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purgatory card, which is allabout letting go of everything
that doesn't serve you.
So I think we're in a placeright now and, you know, let me
know if you're feeling this butI was in a position where I was
just ready to burn it all downand start over again, right, and
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then my intuition just quietlysaid no, no, no, no, we're not
burning things down again.
We've been there, done that.
Sometimes you do need to burnyour life down and start over.
It is what it is.
I actually did a couple ofepisodes on the time when I
literally burnt my life down.
This is different.
This is a very quiet, very softsurrender, because, because
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I've, I've kind of I've sensedthe misalignment for quite some
time, and again, it wasn'tbecause I, what I was doing, was
wrong.
It's just that it was asking toevolve and I was resisting in
the evolution because for somereason, I mistook that to mean,
oh, it must've been, I've beendoing it wrong.
It's not.
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It's not that I've been doingit wrong.
It's just literally asking tobe evolved, and I've been trying
to think of it mentally insteadof surrendering to it
intuitively.
And so my invitation to you guystoday and the reason why I've
rambled on and I think I'verambled on for 20 minutes now is
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to reflect when are you in yourlife right now?
Are you in this place right nowwhere it feels like swimming
through quicksand to get throughyour day?
Does everything that youthought you wanted feel
excruciatingly hard?
Are you doubting whether or notyou're in the right place, on
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the right path, with the rightpeople, in the right
relationships, in the right job?
Are you constantly feeling likeyou're having to push and fight
against yourself to get throughyour day and show up in all the
places that you're showing upto, because deep down, there's
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something bigger that wants tobe evolved through you?
And if so, I would invite you tolisten to the upcoming episodes
, because we're going to betalking a lot more about that as
I move through this periodmyself.
Now, I don't know what theoutcome is yet of this.
I'm just and this is why thisepisode is probably very
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scattered to you I don't evenknow what I'm going to call it.
To be honest, I really don't.
I don't know what I'm going tocall it.
I'm looking at these cards andI'm like what am I going to call
this episode?
What the fuck are we talkingabout here today?
What I will say is you know,where in your life are you
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misaligned?
What's been feeling wrong off?
Today's a powerful day.
It's a day of the scorpion thescorpion Scorpio.
Full moon, the flower moon May11th, I believe.
What's been, what is it that'sbeen kind of nudging at you to
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say, hey, this isn't right, thisdoesn't feel right anymore.
We don't belong here.
This isn't right for us.
This isn't where we're meant tobe.
I don't like it here.
This isn't what I would havechosen for myself if I had to do
it over.
You know, and it's not to saythat you know.
It's not to say that we shouldlike.
You know, and it's not to saythat you know.
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It's not to say that we should,like you know, throw the baby
out with the bath water, like,just because things feel
misaligned.
You know, it's not necessarilytime to start pulling the plug,
like I said, it's notnecessarily time to burn it down
, but it is time to get quiet,and this is my invitation to you
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today, if you're moving throughsomething similar, is to get
quiet.
Cut out the fluff.
You know we all have aginormous list of things that we
have to do.
How can you trim that down tothe bare minimum?
So do the bare minimum that youneed to do in order to stay on
top of things and get just theabsolute priorities done and
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leave the rest.
Let it go.
Just let it go.
Create space, create time forself-reflection, for exploration
, for listening to and hearingwhat your intuition is trying to
tell you about what it is thatyou truly want and what your
next steps might look like, anddo not try and rush this process
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.
Do things you enjoy, that lightyou up, that give you energy.
I know I've been feeling burnoutlately, and that's because I've
been resisting this change.
I've been fighting againstmyself.
Burnout is literally youfighting against yourself, your
natural rhythm, where your soulis calling you to go.
You're fighting, going in adifferent direction, and that is
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exhausting and that's whatcreates burnout.
So stop Stop forcing, stopforcing, stop pushing, stop
doing anything that doesn't feel, that feels like you have to
force yourself to do it.
You know, unless it's liketruly, you know, it's truly
necessity, right, like my God,obviously we have to feed our
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children, if we have children.
Happy Mother's Day.
By the way, you won't belistening to this on Mother's
Day, but I am recording it onMother's Day, so my intention is
there for you.
But, yeah, no, like I know thatthere's certain things that we
have to do.
I guess put them in bucketswhat are the things that you
hate doing, that you feel forcedto do, and then what are the
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things that you could kind oflive with or without.
You know what I mean.
And then look at the things thatyou feel forced to do and then
break that down into two morelists of things that you have to
do, like you absolutely have todo it, and another list of you
know what.
Maybe I believe, I think I haveto do these things, but maybe I
don't, maybe I can just not dothem, you know, and the world
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will keep spinning and I'll Ihave to do these things, but
maybe I don't, maybe I can justnot do them, you know, and the
world will keep spinning andI'll still have food on the
table and you know it's notgoing to be the end of the world
.
So, and then, only do thethings that you absolutely have
to do, and if you don't have todo it, leave it.
And that extra time that youmake in your, in your day, in
your week, you are only to useit for timeout, rest, reflection
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, meditation, journaling,whatever, whatever connection
you know, tools that you have toconnect with yourself, that
that work for you.
Do that time out in nature, um,walks in nature, um, listening
Time out in nature, walks innature, listening to meditation,
music, painting, whatever youenjoy doing and how you enjoy
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quieting your mind.
Do that.
And then do some things thatlet you up, that inspire you,
that get you motivated, that getyou interested and see what
happens.
Something is trying to be, Ibelieve, co-created through us
in this moment and unless westop the thinking, stop the
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rationalizing, stop the you know, the, the mind, the monkey mind
, from trying to jump ahead andtell us what is the best thing
for us to be working on, unlesswe quiet all that down and quiet
the noise and get really stilland in a state of surrender
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where we are being guided andbeing led.
I believe you know we're notgoing to get as much out of this
moment as we could Think of itthis way.
If we are truly in a new space,in a new world, in a world, a
new timeline, what if the waythat we're meant to do things is
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unlike anything we've ever seenbefore?
So we don't even know whatexists?
So then how would we be able tothink, oh, that's what I'm
meant to be doing, if we have noconscious thought of that ever
having happened before, orexisting before, or even knowing
that's an option because we'venever actually seen it?
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I know this is extreme the wayI'm explaining it, but we have
to think about it.
Like the world changes, itchanges all the time New
technologies come into being.
There was a time when we didn'tthink the iPhone was even a
thing.
There was a time that we didn'teven think the cell phone was a
thing.
I was born in the day of thephone, with the cord that you
used to like.
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You know, they used to hang onthe wall.
It used to have a rotary dialand it had a long ass.
You hoped you hope to hell thatit had a long ass cord that you
could then wrap around theentire kitchen into your bedroom
under the door and into yourcloset so you can try and get
some privacy.
While you were talking to guyson the phone and hope to God,
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your father didn't pick up theother phone.
Okay, and here we are.
We have internet, we have email, we have text messaging, we
have fucking cell phones.
Okay, we didn't have cellphones.
We didn't have cordless phones.
So imagine if, back in the day,when all we had was the rotary
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dial phones and we were supposedto develop a new phone, we only
looked at what we knew alreadyexisted.
We would never have come upwith the cell phone.
I know it's like a stupidexample.
It's not a stupid example.
It's a good example, I think.
But you know it's like a stupidexample.
It's not a stupid example.
It's a good example, I think,but it's like a very logical
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example to a very illogicalconversation that we're having.
You need to stay open forsomething that may not be like
anything that you've seen orexperienced before or that you
know to be true, or maybe weneed to just be in this place of
questioning everything we thinkis true.
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I don't know.
But something's happening andthere is a shift and I am
feeling it and I you know.
I put this out there because Ido believe that, if you follow
me, that you're probably feelingit too, and so my invitation to
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you is get quiet, make space,do less, take time, do things
that nurture you body, mind andsoul and see what wants to come
through.
You See what where maybe youfelt misaligned.
Just take note of what has feltmisaligned for you and start to
pull your energy back from itand don't immediately run out
and try and fill that time withsomething else.
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Let the vacuum be there for alittle bit, let the space be
there for a little bit and seewhat the universe wants to bring
in to replace it.
I just feel like this is a verymagical time, and again I'm
being drawn to the co-creationcard.
Okay, so we are obviouslyco-creators, we're constantly
co-creating with the universe.
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So let the universe give theuniverse space to do its part is
the message that I'm hearing.
Give the universe space to doits part is the message that I'm
hearing.
Give the universe space to doits part.
If you're feeling misaligned, myinvitation to you is do less,
take time, stop pushing, stopstriving, stop filling your
schedule, you know.
Cut back on the things that youthink you need to do every day
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and leave spaciousness, leavetime, Leave energy stores the
things that you think you needto do every day and leave
spaciousness, leave time, leaveenergy stores so that when the
universe comes in to presentsomething to you, there's space
for it, there's energy for itand there's time for it.
Right, universe can't come inif we're not leaving space for
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it.
So I think that's the messagefor today is leave some space,
especially if you've beenfeeling misaligned.
Stop doing the things that arefeeling misaligned to you.
If you can Focus, do only thethings you have to do and focus
on taking that time out andmaking space.
I have a feeling and I justtotally punched my mic I have a
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feeling and I just totallypunched my mic I have a feeling
that you're not going to bedisappointed on the other side
of this experience, and I knowit's hard, because I know that
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there's this energy ofconstantly needing to do and be
and produce and bring value, andI want to challenge that belief
.
And what would the world looklike?
How would life and the worldand how we show up be different
if we recognize that just bybeing part of this world and
co-creating with it, we'realready bringing value?
Value, wow, I mean, you know.
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Think about it.
If you're, if you're really youknow, if you're really breaking
generational patterns that havebeen in your lineage for
hundreds of years, isn't justyou being here in this
experience and doing thespiritual work to break a lot of
those patterns a monumentalcontribution to society without
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having to feel like you need to?
You know what I mean.
I want you to start thinking ofthings a little bit more
outside the norms of what we'vebeen taught to believe and how
we bring value and how work is.
These are all conversationswe're going to be having.
I don't even know if I'm goingto post this episode, because I
feel like I still don't knowwhat the fuck I'm talking about.
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I just know I needed to sharethis, so we'll see.
If you're listening to this,then I decided to post it.
If not, then it's in my trashfolder somewhere.
So, anyway, let me know whichpart of this message resonated
for you.
Hopefully more to come on thisand hopefully I'd like to share
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how I'm moving through thisevolution, because I don't think
this is something that's goingto be very quick.
I don't think it'll take toolong, but I think it's going to
be a season of evolution and Idon't want to pause the show for
a whole fucking season.
And you know, maybe throughthis evolution you know we can
kind of evolve together.
So we'll see.
Anyway, that is my message foryou today Massive love.
Hey you guys, what is up and welcome
back to the show.
I am very excited and gratefulto have you here.
I am terribly sorry it has beenquiet here at the Femcast For
the last couple of weeks.
I had recorded some episodesand I deleted them.
There's definitely a shifthappening.
We're going to change gears fora little bit in terms of the
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kind of content we put out.
So hopefully this resonateswith those of you who have been
following me for quite some time.
Um, many of you know, um, I didused to channel quite a bit and
I've kind of moved away fromthat, but I'm feeling kind of
called to move back intochanneling a little bit again.
Um, which is basically just,you know, speaking from
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intuition and not having a planfor what it is that I'm going to
talk about.
There are some things that havebeen unfolding that I think
will be relevant for a lot ofyou guys and that is how a lot
of the relation, toxicrelationship patterns that we
talk about here on the Femcast,the disempowering beliefs, the
limiting beliefs that you knowwe, we often, I often share with
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you guys, and the strugglesthat I've had in the patterns
that I've had, you know how theyreally all stem from
generational conditioning andpatterns and cycles and how you
know, there's a part of you knowwhy I'm here and why I do what
I do.
That I think will resonate witha lot of you, because I think a
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lot of you are actually doingthe same thing that our lineage
has been perpetuating from onegeneration to the next for
centuries.
And I think that this is not myfirst reset and I am going
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through a massive reset rightnow.
And I am going through amassive reset right now, not my
first reset, probably not mylast, and that's okay.
One of the things that youstart to realize when you're on
this journey is that you will bereset several times until you
get to your you know, whateveryou want to call it final
destination, or you know who itis that you are meant to be, but
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we're always becoming, weremeant to be, but we're always
becoming.
You know, and I always enjoyexplaining I don't always enjoy
being in the process of becoming, but I always enjoy explaining
the process of becoming.
You know we come into this worldas pure as can be, and you know
.
Then we're conditioned, thenwe're traumatized, then we're
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hurt, then we're abandoned, thenwe're rejected.
Then you know we take on thebeliefs and the fears and the
projections of the people aroundus.
And then you know we veer fromour truth.
And then you know that happensin childhood and then, up until
probably, you know, in our teens.
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Childhood and then up untilprobably, you know, in our teens
.
And then we slowly start torecognize and or we hope, we
hope most of us will, and Ithink many of us who are alive
in in in this era are goingthrough this, but hopefully, you
know, we'll wake up and realizethat um start to see our
patterns, we'll start to see thebeliefs that aren't serving us
and we start to, one by one,work through them and evolve
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through them.
Right, and I think and I thinkit's very important to mention
that everything that happens tous is very intentional and by
divine design.
I believe that as souls and youknow we're going to get a little
bit more woo than we have beenhere on the femcast for quite
some times, but I do believe assouls, we come here, we choose
the life that we're going toexperience, we choose the
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lessons we're here to learn, wechoose the relationships we're
going to engage with andenergetically exchange with,
because our soul wants to learnsomething, our soul wants to
evolve through our experienceshere.
And so, yes, of course, ofcourse we pick our family, we
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pick our friends, we pick ourlovers, we pick our partners, we
pick our bosses.
We pick all of it.
We handpick each and every one,no matter how painful we think
it is.
We pick each and everyexperience that we're going to
have and we decide what lessonswe're going to learn and evolve
through in this lifetime, whattroubles, trials, hurts, traumas
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we're going to experience andhow we're going to use them to
evolve as spiritual beings.
And sometimes I have to askmyself, like what the fuck was I
thinking when I chose this life?
Me and my friend actually hadthis conversation the other day
Like were we high, were we in,like I don't know, some sort of
like heaven, peyote or somethingwhen we chose this life?
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Because, honest to God, we'relike, how did we even choose to
go through all these things thatwe've been through?
But nonetheless, here we areand she's an amazing soul too
and you know, she's been throughher fair share as well, and
she's also a generational cyclebreaker and I believe, I really
do believe that, if you'relistening to this podcast.
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If you followed me, you'velistened to this podcast and
you've struggled with yourrelationships, for, you know,
with a lot of the patterns thatwe've talked about on the show,
you are also a generationalcycle breaker.
You know, and, um, you knowwhether that's conditioning that
you know was passed downthrough your lineage, whether
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it's just generic.
You know patriarchalconditioning that we've all been
exposed to, especially as women.
You know all of those are arereally starting to crack and
break open so that we can evolvethrough them.
Right, and you know, not justpast them, but through them,
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like, what have they taught us?
What?
Where have, where have we givenour power away to these cycles
and beliefs?
And you know, who would we beif it wasn't for these cycles
and beliefs that were handed,kind of handed down to us and
kind of spoon fed to us ourentire lives, right, and the
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examples that people made aroundus that we learned from, too
right?
That's also another big one.
You know, sometimes we don'tknow what we don't know, right.
So when we see people behavinga certain way and we think
that's normal, we think that'sright and we think that's
healthy, we tend to model thesame behaviors and that's where
family conditioning comes in.
But sometimes we don't knowthat those behaviors that we're
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learning are not normal, they'renot healthy, they're not meant
to be perpetuated any longer.
And it's not because the peoplearound us were bad, I mean.
Some cases, yeah, they could be.
But in many cases, you know,it's how they learn to love,
it's how they learn to be, it'show they learned what was right
and wrong.
Whether it is right or wrong isa different conversation.
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You know they were doing thebest they could with what they
knew.
You know, and you know I candefinitely say that for my
family and I've seen patterns.
It's been so evident latelywhere I've been seeing patterns,
not just within my own familybut like my distant family, and
you know we're calling cyclesthat.
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You know I saw it play out withmy aunts and my uncles and you
know that lived all the way onthe other side of the world for
me and I'm like there'ssomething bigger here, there's a
bigger conversation here,because I don't think, you know,
it's not just environment,because if it was environment it
wouldn't be with family thatwas, you know, thousands of
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miles away.
You know I have very littleexposure to them, but yet in my
life I relived a lot of thosesame patterns.
I perpetuated a lot of thosesame cycles and beliefs.
So it was an environment a lotof those same cycles and beliefs
.
So it was an environment.
Sure, some of the beliefs couldhave been passed down from my
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family, absolutely.
But I think it goes bigger thanthat because, you know, as I've
done the spiritual work and asI've dug into my lineage, what
I've been learning is that thesecycles have been perpetuating
in my family for manygenerations.
And you know, I do believe thatmany of us alive today are
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breaking a lot of our patternsthat have been evident in our
lineage, that have been passeddown from generation to
generation to generation,because we're meant to do things
differently.
Now.
We're meant to live different,we're meant to be different,
we're meant to feel different,we're meant to believe different
things, we're meant to be amore evolved spiritual being and
therefore, the beliefs thatwe've carried with us for these
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last several generations can'tcome with us where we're going.
And so I really do believe thata lot of us who are here and if
you're listening to thispodcast, I do believe that you
fall into the same category too,where you know you have had one
toxic relationship afteranother.
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No matter how many times youhave set an intention that
you're going to find healthylove and you're going to find a
healthy relationship, you keepperpetuating these same patterns
over and over again.
You have been unable to breakaway and be yourself and you
know you've struggled with thepeople pleasing aspect and
people trying to please thepeople around you, and over
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giving and selfandoning andputting everyone else's
prioritizing, what everyone elsethinks before what you think
and what you believe and what'struly right for you.
And you know if that's beenyour story, that's something
that you've struggled to break,even though you've been trying
to.
You know oftentimes you knowyou set the intention that
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you're going to, but as soon asyou get pushback, as soon as you
know someone makes you feel bador you get the idea that
someone's about to, you know,call you out or be upset with
you or reject you in some way orwhatever, you know you
immediately want to backtrackand take back whatever power you
just took and you you want,you're so tempted to just do
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what that person needs you to door wants you to do in order to
feel loved and accepted by thatperson.
So you know, there's a reasonwhy we've been perpetuating
these cycles, there's a reasonwhy we've had to face them over
and over again and for many ofus like we've had We've carried
emotional baggage doesn't evenbelong to us.
And so sometimes, you know,we'll have an emotional response
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to an experience that seemscompletely what's it called Like
.
It just doesn't like thepunishment doesn't fit the crime
y'all Like.
It just feels like it's waymore intense than it needs to be
.
But we feel it.
It's very real, it's veryvisceral and it comes from a
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very real place.
And that's because we've passedthe karma, the trauma, the pain
, the hurt, the fears, thebeliefs have all been passed
down to us from othergenerations.
So sometimes we can be having atraumatic response to something
that doesn't isn't really allthat traumatic, but just because
it reminds, it's reminiscent.
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The energy, the feeling, the,the, the, the, the, how it's
making us feel, the sounds, thesmells, the is, is, is bringing
us back to a place in time thatwe can't even remember.
But we just know it doesn'tfeel safe and that's all we can
kind of recognize.
So I'm going through, and areason why I share all this with
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you is because I do believethat many of you fall into this
category if you've beenlistening to this podcast and if
so, like my heart goes out toyou it's not easy work and even
in this period that I findmyself in right now, you know
where it's kind of like.
You know, I know I've beenmisaligned, you know, and I have
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been for quite and I've beensensing it.
I've known that it's beencoming up for quite some time
and it's not to say that it waswrong, like what we were talking
about and what we were sharing,but it's come to a point where
it needs to evolve and start.
We need to start talking aboutdifferent things, and I think
I've been very resistant indoing that Because I've been
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trying to hold on to, you know,mentally, what I thought was the
right thing for us to betalking about, the right
conversations for us to behaving.
You know, and we're still goingto be talking about a lot of
these toxic patterns that westruggle with.
But I want to go a little bitdeeper with you guys in terms of
where they come from and whywe're experiencing them, because
I think there's a much biggerreason why we go through these
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things, or a bigger reason whywe yeah, a bigger, much more
important benefit to breaking alot of these patterns and
experiences that we're movingthrough, these cycles that we're
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moving through.
And, yes, it means relationship, but also there is a higher
purpose to all of this and Ithink that you know, what's
become evidently clear for me inmy life like, not just recently
, this has been an ongoing thingis how much more I'm capable of
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when I'm not being sucked intothese toxic dynamics constantly,
you know, being sucked intothese toxic dynamics constantly,
you know and when I'm actuallyjust taking my power back from a
lot of these situations andreally being intentional about
where I place my energy and myand, and, yeah, my energy, my
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emotions, my thoughts, myhealing, when I get really
intentional on those things andI'm not diluting my energy
because I'm focused on a toxicdynamic here or there, I can
move mountains with that energyand I've only begun to scrape
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the surface.
And that's the real scary part,and I think that, oh, it's
scary and exciting, but I thinkthat there is a part of our soul
that is afraid of that, or, youknow, our ego that is afraid of
that power, and sometimes, whatbetter way to keep us
disempowered than to keep us inthese toxic patterns.
To keep us disempowered than tokeep us in these toxic patterns
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.
And maybe people knew just howpowerful we as women really are
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and what better way to keep usdisempowered than to keep us
believing that we needed tochase being chosen and being
caught in these toxic cycles inrelationship so that we can be
chosen, so that we can jumpthrough hoops and perform and do
our best to be perfect, so wecan be chosen by a partner
because our survival depended onit, when we were already chosen
from the moment we were bornand had the power to create
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worlds.
And yet we've been squanderingthat energy focused on being
chosen in toxic relationships Atleast that was my story.
Like I was doing, I wasliterally jumping through hoops
of fire to be chosen from someof these duds I was dating for
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like the longest time you know,and it's like why?
Why?
My throat's actually startingto hurt right now.
It's feeling very uncomfortable.
There's so much that's wantingto come through.
I actually pulled some cardsbefore coming on here from the
Magdalene deck.
I haven't pulled on Mags in avery long time.
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Mags is my girl and every timeI've been going through, every
time I've ever gone through adifficult time.
I pulled out these cards and Ihaven't pulled them out in a
very long time and the cardsthat came out were Purgatory
Code, creation, secret andSurrender, which is really where
I'm at right now and I'mholding up, like the Surrender
card is like right at the top,and I am.
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I'm at a point right now where Iam literally surrendering to
what wants to come through me,literally surrendering to what
wants to come through me,because I think that we get into
our head about what we'resupposed to be doing, the
decisions we're supposed to bemaking, how we're supposed to be
moving, moving through life andthe life that it is that we
want to create.
But I think that sometimes thatthat that perspective you know,
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moving through the whole,figuring it out mentally,
mentally deciding what you wantyour life to be, in itself is a
trap, because we know on a soullevel what we want our life to
be and when we start todetermine that mentally, that
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can often be distorted.
It can be distorted with whatour ego thinks we need to be in
order to be loved and respectedand cared for and chosen.
It could be influenced by whatother people think we should
want and have in this life.
But our heart, our soul, knowswhat it came here to do and
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create.
And so when we surrender and wejust kind of let the our
intuition guide us to where itwants to go, beautiful things
can happen beyond ourcomprehension.
Because if you think about it,you know, many of us believe
that we've kind of entered intoa new world, a new era, and I'm
looking at the co-creation cardand I'm also looking at the
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purgatory card, which is allabout letting go of everything
that doesn't serve you.
So I think we're in a placeright now and, you know, let me
know if you're feeling this butI was in a position where I was
just ready to burn it all downand start over again, right, and
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then my intuition just quietlysaid no, no, no, no, we're not
burning things down again.
We've been there, done that.
Sometimes you do need to burnyour life down and start over.
It is what it is.
I actually did a couple ofepisodes on the time when I
literally burnt my life down.
This is different.
This is a very quiet, very softsurrender, because, because
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I've, I've kind of I've sensedthe misalignment for quite some
time, and again, it wasn'tbecause I, what I was doing, was
wrong.
It's just that it was asking toevolve and I was resisting in
the evolution because for somereason, I mistook that to mean,
oh, it must've been, I've beendoing it wrong.
It's not.
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It's not that I've been doingit wrong.
It's just literally asking tobe evolved, and I've been trying
to think of it mentally insteadof surrendering to it
intuitively.
And so my invitation to you guystoday and the reason why I've
rambled on and I think I'verambled on for 20 minutes now is
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to reflect when are you in yourlife right now?
Are you in this place right nowwhere it feels like swimming
through quicksand to get throughyour day?
Does everything that youthought you wanted feel
excruciatingly hard?
Are you doubting whether or notyou're in the right place, on
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the right path, with the rightpeople, in the right
relationships, in the right job?
Are you constantly feeling likeyou're having to push and fight
against yourself to get throughyour day and show up in all the
places that you're showing upto, because deep down, there's
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something bigger that wants tobe evolved through you?
And if so, I would invite you tolisten to the upcoming episodes
, because we're going to betalking a lot more about that as
I move through this periodmyself.
Now, I don't know what theoutcome is yet of this.
I'm just and this is why thisepisode is probably very
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scattered to you I don't evenknow what I'm going to call it.
To be honest, I really don't.
I don't know what I'm going tocall it.
I'm looking at these cards andI'm like what am I going to call
this episode?
What the fuck are we talkingabout here today?
What I will say is you know,where in your life are you
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misaligned?
What's been feeling wrong off?
Today's a powerful day.
It's a day of the scorpion thescorpion Scorpio.
Full moon, the flower moon May11th, I believe.
What's been, what is it that'sbeen kind of nudging at you to
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say, hey, this isn't right, thisdoesn't feel right anymore.
We don't belong here.
This isn't right for us.
This isn't where we're meant tobe.
I don't like it here.
This isn't what I would havechosen for myself if I had to do
it over.
You know, and it's not to saythat you know.
It's not to say that we shouldlike.
You know, and it's not to saythat you know.
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It's not to say that we should,like you know, throw the baby
out with the bath water, like,just because things feel
misaligned.
You know, it's not necessarilytime to start pulling the plug,
like I said, it's notnecessarily time to burn it down
, but it is time to get quiet,and this is my invitation to you
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today, if you're moving throughsomething similar, is to get
quiet.
Cut out the fluff.
You know we all have aginormous list of things that we
have to do.
How can you trim that down tothe bare minimum?
So do the bare minimum that youneed to do in order to stay on
top of things and get just theabsolute priorities done and
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leave the rest.
Let it go.
Just let it go.
Create space, create time forself-reflection, for exploration
, for listening to and hearingwhat your intuition is trying to
tell you about what it is thatyou truly want and what your
next steps might look like, anddo not try and rush this process
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.
Do things you enjoy, that lightyou up, that give you energy.
I know I've been feeling burnoutlately, and that's because I've
been resisting this change.
I've been fighting againstmyself.
Burnout is literally youfighting against yourself, your
natural rhythm, where your soulis calling you to go.
You're fighting, going in adifferent direction, and that is
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exhausting and that's whatcreates burnout.
So stop Stop forcing, stopforcing, stop pushing, stop
doing anything that doesn't feel, that feels like you have to
force yourself to do it.
You know, unless it's liketruly, you know, it's truly
necessity, right, like my God,obviously we have to feed our
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children, if we have children.
Happy Mother's Day.
By the way, you won't belistening to this on Mother's
Day, but I am recording it onMother's Day, so my intention is
there for you.
But, yeah, no, like I know thatthere's certain things that we
have to do.
I guess put them in bucketswhat are the things that you
hate doing, that you feel forcedto do, and then what are the
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things that you could kind oflive with or without.
You know what I mean.
And then look at the things thatyou feel forced to do and then
break that down into two morelists of things that you have to
do, like you absolutely have todo it, and another list of you
know what.
Maybe I believe, I think I haveto do these things, but maybe I
don't, maybe I can just not dothem, you know, and the world
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will keep spinning and I'll Ihave to do these things, but
maybe I don't, maybe I can justnot do them, you know, and the
world will keep spinning andI'll still have food on the
table and you know it's notgoing to be the end of the world
.
So, and then, only do thethings that you absolutely have
to do, and if you don't have todo it, leave it.
And that extra time that youmake in your, in your day, in
your week, you are only to useit for timeout, rest, reflection
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, meditation, journaling,whatever, whatever connection
you know, tools that you have toconnect with yourself, that
that work for you.
Do that time out in nature, um,walks in nature, um, listening
Time out in nature, walks innature, listening to meditation,
music, painting, whatever youenjoy doing and how you enjoy
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quieting your mind.
Do that.
And then do some things thatlet you up, that inspire you,
that get you motivated, that getyou interested and see what
happens.
Something is trying to be, Ibelieve, co-created through us
in this moment and unless westop the thinking, stop the
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rationalizing, stop the you know, the, the mind, the monkey mind
, from trying to jump ahead andtell us what is the best thing
for us to be working on, unlesswe quiet all that down and quiet
the noise and get really stilland in a state of surrender
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where we are being guided andbeing led.
I believe you know we're notgoing to get as much out of this
moment as we could Think of itthis way.
If we are truly in a new space,in a new world, in a world, a
new timeline, what if the waythat we're meant to do things is
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unlike anything we've ever seenbefore?
So we don't even know whatexists?
So then how would we be able tothink, oh, that's what I'm
meant to be doing, if we have noconscious thought of that ever
having happened before, orexisting before, or even knowing
that's an option because we'venever actually seen it?
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I know this is extreme the wayI'm explaining it, but we have
to think about it.
Like the world changes, itchanges all the time New
technologies come into being.
There was a time when we didn'tthink the iPhone was even a
thing.
There was a time that we didn'teven think the cell phone was a
thing.
I was born in the day of thephone, with the cord that you
used to like.
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You know, they used to hang onthe wall.
It used to have a rotary dialand it had a long ass.
You hoped you hope to hell thatit had a long ass cord that you
could then wrap around theentire kitchen into your bedroom
under the door and into yourcloset so you can try and get
some privacy.
While you were talking to guyson the phone and hope to God,
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your father didn't pick up theother phone.
Okay, and here we are.
We have internet, we have email, we have text messaging, we
have fucking cell phones.
Okay, we didn't have cellphones.
We didn't have cordless phones.
So imagine if, back in the day,when all we had was the rotary
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dial phones and we were supposedto develop a new phone, we only
looked at what we knew alreadyexisted.
We would never have come upwith the cell phone.
I know it's like a stupidexample.
It's not a stupid example.
It's a good example, I think.
But you know it's like a stupidexample.
It's not a stupid example.
It's a good example, I think,but it's like a very logical
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example to a very illogicalconversation that we're having.
You need to stay open forsomething that may not be like
anything that you've seen orexperienced before or that you
know to be true, or maybe weneed to just be in this place of
questioning everything we thinkis true.
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I don't know.
But something's happening andthere is a shift and I am
feeling it and I you know.
I put this out there because Ido believe that, if you follow
me, that you're probably feelingit too, and so my invitation to
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you is get quiet, make space,do less, take time, do things
that nurture you body, mind andsoul and see what wants to come
through.
You See what where maybe youfelt misaligned.
Just take note of what has feltmisaligned for you and start to
pull your energy back from itand don't immediately run out
and try and fill that time withsomething else.
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Let the vacuum be there for alittle bit, let the space be
there for a little bit and seewhat the universe wants to bring
in to replace it.
I just feel like this is a verymagical time, and again I'm
being drawn to the co-creationcard.
Okay, so we are obviouslyco-creators, we're constantly
co-creating with the universe.
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So let the universe give theuniverse space to do its part is
the message that I'm hearing.
Give the universe space to doits part is the message that I'm
hearing.
Give the universe space to doits part.
If you're feeling misaligned, myinvitation to you is do less,
take time, stop pushing, stopstriving, stop filling your
schedule, you know.
Cut back on the things that youthink you need to do every day
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and leave spaciousness, leavetime, Leave energy stores the
things that you think you needto do every day and leave
spaciousness, leave time, leaveenergy stores so that when the
universe comes in to presentsomething to you, there's space
for it, there's energy for itand there's time for it.
Right, universe can't come inif we're not leaving space for
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it.
So I think that's the messagefor today is leave some space,
especially if you've beenfeeling misaligned.
Stop doing the things that arefeeling misaligned to you.
If you can Focus, do only thethings you have to do and focus
on taking that time out andmaking space.
I have a feeling and I justtotally punched my mic I have a
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feeling and I just totallypunched my mic I have a feeling
that you're not going to bedisappointed on the other side
of this experience, and I knowit's hard, because I know that
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there's this energy ofconstantly needing to do and be
and produce and bring value, andI want to challenge that belief
.
And what would the world looklike?
How would life and the worldand how we show up be different
if we recognize that just bybeing part of this world and
co-creating with it, we'realready bringing value?
Value, wow, I mean, you know.
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Think about it.
If you're, if you're really youknow, if you're really breaking
generational patterns that havebeen in your lineage for
hundreds of years, isn't justyou being here in this
experience and doing thespiritual work to break a lot of
those patterns a monumentalcontribution to society without
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having to feel like you need to?
You know what I mean.
I want you to start thinking ofthings a little bit more
outside the norms of what we'vebeen taught to believe and how
we bring value and how work is.
These are all conversationswe're going to be having.
I don't even know if I'm goingto post this episode, because I
feel like I still don't knowwhat the fuck I'm talking about.
(32:18):
I just know I needed to sharethis, so we'll see.
If you're listening to this,then I decided to post it.
If not, then it's in my trashfolder somewhere.
So, anyway, let me know whichpart of this message resonated
for you.
Hopefully more to come on thisand hopefully I'd like to share
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how I'm moving through thisevolution, because I don't think
this is something that's goingto be very quick.
I don't think it'll take toolong, but I think it's going to
be a season of evolution and Idon't want to pause the show for
a whole fucking season.
And you know, maybe throughthis evolution you know we can
kind of evolve together.
So we'll see.
Anyway, that is my message foryou today Massive love.
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