September 5, 2023 • 24 mins
Are you ready to unlock the secrets of mastering manifestation in your career and personal life? As your host, Dr. Norma Reyes, I invite you to join me on this enlightening journey where we'll demystify the process of manifestation.
We dive into the significance of being crystal clear about your desires, the blend of intuition, strategy, and logic, and the patience to allow your manifestations to happen in their own timeline.
Drawing from my personal experiences, I unfold how I manifested my career and life successes, and how you too, can tread the same path.
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Along this journey, we'll explore the different types of manifestors and I'll share practical tips to assist you on your path to master the art of manifestation.
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Are you ready to stop feeling stuck, lost or confused
about what to do next in yourcareer?
Then the Manifest your CareerPodcast is just right for you.
With me, your host, dr NormaReyes, the Manifest your Career
Podcast offers you career advicethat integrates your mind, body
and spirit.
(00:22):
It's time you start listeningto your own inner guidance.
Learn in each week to learn howto combine your intuition,
strategy and logic so that youcan manifest a career of your
dreams.
Hey everyone, welcome back.
(00:43):
This is episode 102, and today Iwill be talking to you about
manifesting and give you fivesteps that you can do to
manifest everything and anythingyou want into your life.
Before we get there, let megive a little I don't know what
(01:03):
to call it my two cents aboutmanifesting.
For the longest time I had toreally be okay with the word
manifesting.
I absolutely believe inmanifesting.
I also believe that it's not assimple as wishing or hoping,
(01:27):
and that's why I really leaninto mindset work, because for
me, manifesting and mindset gohand in hand.
I will say the disclaimer thereis because I'm a very logical
person If you've been listeningto the podcast, you've heard me
(01:48):
mention it before that I comefrom a very masculine energy and
because of that, it's verylogic driven, which is okay.
Some of us have more masculineenergy, naturally, and then some
of us have more feminine energy.
This is not a one is betterthan the other.
(02:08):
Both are great.
It's important to activate bothwithin you and it's a balance.
That balance is unique to you.
It might mean that you're 80%masculine energy with a 20%
feminine energy, or that you area blend of 60% feminine energy
and 40% masculine energy.
(02:28):
There's no measurement of whatyou are in this, but what's
important is that it is therecipe for you.
That is the balance that isimportant to you, because what
can happen, which is what wouldhappen with me, is that I would
be 80% masculine energy and 0%feminine energy.
(02:49):
What does that mean?
It means that you're notlistening to your intuition,
you're not listening to your gut, you're not listening to your
emotions, not being open andreally pushing hard.
That can lead to burnout.
That can lead to frustration,whole long list of other things.
(03:10):
Manifesting is not this getquick, rich scheme.
It takes some work, but ifyou're willing to work with your
shadow self, your inner mindset, work that you need to do, and
you follow these steps tomanifesting.
You can manifest everythingthat you want in your life.
So let's start with step numberone.
(03:32):
This is super important if youdon't do any of the other steps,
to start with this one.
You need to be clear with whatyou want.
You have to make a choice inwhat you want, and if you are
more on the feminine side, youmight feel like I don't want to
(03:55):
have to make a decision.
That's okay.
If you can't be clear, likespecific details, on what you
want, I want you to focus on themotion, the feeling that you
want in your life.
So close your eyes and imaginehow do I want to feel?
(04:16):
And then start to think aboutwhat that would look like.
What would that mean?
What would change in your life?
And the more specific that youcan be, the better.
So it's important to not justsay I want to be happy.
Instead, you wanna saysomething like I want a life
(04:38):
that fills my cup with love andexperiences that bring me joy.
I also wanna point out thatthere's two types of manifestors
.
There is the non-specific andthe specific manifestors.
I'm a non-specific manifesterand this has to do with human
design.
If you wanna know what you are,send me a DM and we can talk a
(05:03):
little bit about that to figureout what you are.
This doesn't mean that if youare one or the other, that one's
not gonna work.
You can still follow the samesteps.
Just know that a non-specificone needs to be able to release
the specifics like how exactlyit's gonna happen, and a
(05:24):
specific one needs to have thatdetailed plan.
The irony here is, a lot oftimes the people that are
specific manifestors are thepeople that don't like being
specific and the people that arenon-specific aka me don't want
to be non-specific.
So it's really about a growththing.
(05:46):
The non-specific people justneed to render to the feelings
to render that it may not happenin your timeline.
It happens in the universe'stimeline and actually, oh sure.
So last year, in 2022, I hadwritten down as one of my goals
for the business was to getthree paid speaking engagements.
(06:08):
I just wrote that down, Ididn't write anything else, and
then then I wanted to do othertypes of engagements that
weren't paid.
Well, all of 2022, I didn't doanything specific for it, I
didn't really dwell on it, andthen it didn't happen and I was
just like, okay, whatever, right, I think I probably forgot
about it and then fast forwardto spring 2023, and back to back
(06:31):
.
I had these opportunities comeup that came to me, that were
requesting me to speak for them,and they were paid.
And they actually brought upthe payment thing right Because,
again, as a woman of color,growing up, asking for payment
(06:52):
isn't something that I'm soreadily easy to ask for, but I
was so glad that they asked okay, and what's your payment like?
What do you?
What's the fee?
Blah, blah, blah.
And it was so nice and so superimportant that, when you were
writing down your manifestationsthat you want to create, that
you allow them to happen intheir own timeline.
(07:13):
There is a reason why theyhappen when they need to.
Honestly, in 2022, I was not inthe place for speaking
engagements, not that I couldn'tdo them, but there was some
growth that needed to happenwithin me for it to be the right
time Now.
Had that growth happenedearlier, I believe that they
would have come earlier.
(07:33):
So know that what shows up inyour life is there because you
are ready for it, and what isn'tthere is because either it's
not meant for you or you haven'thad the growth that you need to
get there.
Alright, step number two, whichgoes back to mindset Believe
that you can achieve it.
You have to believe in it.
(07:56):
It is the key, essential thinghere in order for it to happen.
If you don't believe that youcan manifest your desire, then
it's really unlikely to happen.
So start to tell yourself thatyou are worthy of what you want,
that you are capable ofachieving it.
(08:17):
So there's two things there inbelieving that you can achieve
something and believing that youcan manifest what you want and
that is that one you have tofeel worthy worthy of your
desire.
It is in your heart for areason.
It means it is meant for you,but you have to know that you
(08:40):
are worth it.
It's not ever going to comeuntil you start to do that work
and you have to figure out whyyou believe you're not worthy of
the desire.
If I reflect back to the exampleI was giving you guys, if I
didn't feel like I should getpaid for speaking engagements, I
wasn't at a place where Ibelieved myself to have the
(09:03):
value to get paid, even though Iknow that I'm knowledgeable,
even though logically, I knowthat what I share is valuable.
Having the logical thought isdifferent than what you feel
inside, and that is actuallycalled conditiveness.
When you have two conflictingbeliefs, one that supports
(09:29):
what's going on and one thatdoesn't, that's when you start
to feel stuck and lost, becauseyou know internally that you are
worthy.
I know internally that I amworthy, but then there's
limiting beliefs in there thattell you know you're not.
So you have to dig in deep andask yourself why do I believe
(09:50):
this?
When did I start to believethat I wasn't worth getting paid
?
This has come from somethingthat I've encountered.
This has come from something Iwas told by my parents, friends,
family.
Is this something that happenedgenerations ago, that has been
passed down to me, and there'sno simple answer other than
(10:12):
taking the time to delve intothat.
What does that mean?
What makes you believe that youare not worthy of the desire
that you want?
And then the next belief isthat you have to believe that
you're capable of achieving it.
Maybe you believe that you areworthy.
(10:32):
There's no doubt in your mind.
You're like bitch, I am worthyof this.
Well, maybe you doubt yourabilities to achieve it.
Reflect on that the same way.
Is this belief something thatcame from me internally?
Is this belief something thatcame from outside, externally?
(10:53):
And then reflect on it and then, if you still need more help in
believing that you can achieveyour manifestation, start to
reflect and find proof of theways that you have manifested
before.
I'm gonna say I'm gonna think Ihave plenty of times that I've
manifested things.
(11:13):
When they're tangible, theyfeel so good, but when they're
intangible it feels even better.
So then it comes to myintangible.
Why is this thing?
No-transcript.
Getting my job in 2016,.
I had created a vision board.
I think it must have been inthe beginning of 2016.
(11:33):
Come August 2016, I manifestedgetting a job at a fortune 500.
I had just written like I wannawork at a fortune 500.
I wanna get a promotion.
So I got the job and then,about nine to 10 months later, I
got a promotion.
So I ended up getting like a$30,000 raise in like a year and
(11:56):
that in itself feels amazing.
But then there's thenon-tangible manifestations that
come with that too, right theemotions and the feelings that I
had when that happened.
And actually I had reallyforgotten what I wrote in my
vision board and then I forgotwhen I looked at it again.
(12:17):
And whenever I looked at it, Ireally was very, very shocked.
I was like, oh my God, I hadwritten a timeline of, like I
wanna do these things within thenext five years and they
happened and oh wow, justthinking about that, just
reflecting on the house too thehouse was on there, which looks
(12:38):
very similar to the house we'rein now, and the vision board
from 2016, and it was a fiveyear plan and we got the house
in 2020.
So it was within the five years.
So you have to reflect.
I really forgot that I hadwritten that it was five years,
so you have to go back and lookand see.
You also just have to give time.
(12:59):
So find the proof that you'vedone it before, whether you did
it with intention or not.
So sometimes you might manifestthings without intention.
So, if you missed it on myInstagram, I am currently
pregnant and due in February.
(13:20):
It will be an Aquarius baby.
I'm very interested to see whatthis personality would be like,
and I had always wanted at leastthree to four children.
Right, I have my niece, who Iadopted when she was four and a
half, and so I'm like, okay,there's one, now I need three
(13:43):
more, and so we had our two boys.
My husband was not open to athird biological child.
He was like I'm done.
And I was like, well, you needto make up your mind before I
turn 40, because I don't want tobe, I don't have children after
40.
(14:03):
So I never wrote down likeanywhere that I'm gonna have
this many children.
It was just something that Ihad said that I wanted, right,
and I had closed the chapterwhen it had already passed my
39th birthday, which was lastDecember.
(14:23):
I was like, okay, we're notgoing to have a baby.
I had already made a lot oflike final decisions in my mind
to be okay with the decision,like, okay, we're moving forward
.
Of course, I'm leaving my nineto five, so you know all of
these things that come to mindwhen you're going to have a
(14:43):
child.
Well, surprise, totallyunexpected, unplanned.
I will say we knew the risk.
I was ovulating and we knew.
But this was also the time wewere on our trip, our first trip
alone.
So, yeah, it was like, well, Ithink we both just assumed that
(15:05):
it would be hard to get pregnant.
I mean, if you've ever tried tohave a child, you know that it
doesn't just happen each timethat you ovulate, you have to
take turns.
But yeah, I'm still in shock,even though I am 16 weeks as of
the recording.
I'll be 17 weeks when theepisode is released.
I'm just very like I can't.
(15:27):
I still can't wrap my brainaround this.
Yeah, yeah, so, and we don'tknow what we're having yet.
Soon we will so finallyschedule the blood work to get
that done and as soon as I do,I'll share it on social media
with you guys.
But, yeah, so when we found out,my husband was very happy.
(15:51):
I was like what you know.
So internally, we both, youknow, made the decision.
Even if consciously we had madethe decision, we were done.
I do believe thatsubconsciously, I always knew I
wanted three children andsubconsciously, there is
something in him that was opento the idea in order for this to
(16:14):
happen.
And, like I said, I was verysurprised by his reaction
because he was very adamant onnot wanting to have a third one.
So here we are, and I sharethat so that you remember that
you have to like it's really hasto be deep rooted inside of you
to happen, and I really thinkthat it's what happened here,
like it was the universe'sopportunity to give us something
(16:37):
that we both subconsciouslywanted.
I mean, I know that I wanted,but I had consciously told
myself I was done with with thatchapter.
So now next thing, next step.
So the first two because I knowI've taken this off tangent is
be clear about what you want.
You have to be clear about it.
(16:57):
And then step two is you haveto believe you can achieve it.
So you have to believe inyourself and you have to believe
in the capabilities.
And the third step is visualizeit regularly.
Now, regularly can be daily, itcan be weekly, monthly,
quarterly, whatever works foryou.
(17:18):
What's most important is thatyou don't overwhelm yourself
visualizing.
So whatever works for you.
I personally have my visionboards, usually somewhere around
me, that I can see them.
I don't actively visualize themon a daily, but I do look at
(17:39):
them occasionally, at least oncea month, to be able to refresh
my vision.
I want to be able to refreshmyself on what I'm wanting to
bring into my life.
So when you are practicing yourvisualizations, I want you to
close your eyes and imagineyourself already having what you
want.
You can see it, you can feel it, you can smell it, taste it,
(18:04):
hear it.
The more vividly you canvisualize it, the stronger your
desire and the magnetization ofit will come Right, the more
active you are in the process ofvisualizing it as if you
already have it, the more thatyou begin to attract it into
(18:28):
your life.
You are telling yoursubconscious, you are telling
the universe this is what I want, bring this to me.
It's kind of like when you geta new car right and you happen
to have this particular brand ofcar and particular color and
all of a sudden you see iteverywhere, because you have
(18:50):
told the universe you like thiscar and it keeps bringing it to
you and you're just like, oh myGod, now everybody has drives
this car.
But in reality it was alwaysthere, you just didn't see it
before.
Now the next step you can takeand it's an important step is
that you take action.
(19:11):
Manifestation is not aboutsitting around and waiting for
things to happen.
It's about taking steps towardsyour goals.
So you don't just dream aboutyour dream life, you start
working towards it.
You can ask yourself what's mynext best step to manifest my
(19:33):
desire?
So if you are desiring to get apromotion, to have more money
to bring in love, you need toask yourself what's my next best
step?
If you're not sure, take amoment to close your eyes.
Connect with your higher self,god, universe, whatever you
(19:56):
believe in, do some clearingbreaths and ask yourself what's
my next boss to reach my desire?
What's my next best step toreach my desire?
You know, as I'm saying this,I'm hearing show up, show up,
(20:17):
okay.
Well, what does that mean?
So for me, what that means is Ineed to show up on social media
.
I need to show up on email.
I need to show up on thepodcast and tell clients I'm
open for service.
Right, I'm open for you to comehire me as your manifesting
coach so we can work one on one.
(20:38):
I need to put that message outthere.
Right, I need to show up andlead, and if I'm not doing that,
then I'm not going to attractmore claims.
Right, I'm not going to reachmy goal of having five coaching
clients by the end of the year.
So I saw it, I was clear.
I believe I can achieve it, andyou just have visualized it
(21:00):
because I haven't started doingthat.
But I will and I'm takingaction by showing up on the
podcast, by showing up in emails, by showing up in Instagram,
which is my favorite place to be.
So if you are not on my emaillist, be sure to sign up.
You can go to currently and ifyou're listening to this, in a
(21:24):
few weeks it'll probably changebut you can always find a link
in the show notes that iscurrent and active.
But right now you can go tomanifestyourcareercom slash
freebie.
But I may be updating that soon.
So if it doesn't work, you canalways send me a DM asking to be
(21:44):
on my newsletter email list.
Okay, step number five.
I'm going to review them.
Be clear on what you want.
Believe that it's possible,visualize it, take action.
And the last one is probablythe artist.
One is to be patient.
(22:07):
Manifestation takes time.
Longer discourage if you don'tsee results immediately.
Just keep believing,visualizing, taking action, and
eventually your desire willmanifest.
This is one of the hardest ones, not because we don't
understand that manifestationtakes time, it's because we live
(22:30):
in a current society of instantgratification.
You see something on Amazon,you can order it and get it
within a day or two.
Now, amazon probably takes liketwo days versus like one day,
or taking three days, and youknow, of course we get all upset
when before it would have takenway longer, right?
If that, whatever you wereordering, was even available in
(22:52):
your area.
So remind yourself that it willcome when you are ready.
It will come when you have hadthe growth that you need.
So do the work, do the work andtake the actions you need to do
in order for you to manifestwhat you want faster.
So those are the five stepsthat you can take to manifest
(23:13):
everything you want and,starting in a couple of weeks,
every Monday, I will be sharingmanifesting tips and particular
skills that you can develop tocreate better rituals, routines
and practices for manifesting.
If you are ready to work withthe coach, be sure to book a
discovery call with me and learnhow manifesting and spiritual
(23:36):
tools can help you throughmanifesting everything you want.
The link is in the show notes.
Send me a DM if you havequestions.
Remember that everything thatyou are trying to manifest is a
deep desire in your heart and itis meant for you.
Just keep believing, keepvisualizing, taking action and
(23:58):
being clear on what you want and, of course, be patient to the
process.
I will talk to you guys nextweek.
Are you ready to stop feeling stuck, lost or confused
about what to do next in yourcareer?
Then the Manifest your CareerPodcast is just right for you.
With me, your host, dr NormaReyes, the Manifest your Career
Podcast offers you career advicethat integrates your mind, body
and spirit.
(00:22):
It's time you start listeningto your own inner guidance.
Learn in each week to learn howto combine your intuition,
strategy and logic so that youcan manifest a career of your
dreams.
Hey everyone, welcome back.
(00:43):
This is episode 102, and today Iwill be talking to you about
manifesting and give you fivesteps that you can do to
manifest everything and anythingyou want into your life.
Before we get there, let megive a little I don't know what
(01:03):
to call it my two cents aboutmanifesting.
For the longest time I had toreally be okay with the word
manifesting.
I absolutely believe inmanifesting.
I also believe that it's not assimple as wishing or hoping,
(01:27):
and that's why I really leaninto mindset work, because for
me, manifesting and mindset gohand in hand.
I will say the disclaimer thereis because I'm a very logical
person If you've been listeningto the podcast, you've heard me
(01:48):
mention it before that I comefrom a very masculine energy and
because of that, it's verylogic driven, which is okay.
Some of us have more masculineenergy, naturally, and then some
of us have more feminine energy.
This is not a one is betterthan the other.
(02:08):
Both are great.
It's important to activate bothwithin you and it's a balance.
That balance is unique to you.
It might mean that you're 80%masculine energy with a 20%
feminine energy, or that you area blend of 60% feminine energy
and 40% masculine energy.
(02:28):
There's no measurement of whatyou are in this, but what's
important is that it is therecipe for you.
That is the balance that isimportant to you, because what
can happen, which is what wouldhappen with me, is that I would
be 80% masculine energy and 0%feminine energy.
(02:49):
What does that mean?
It means that you're notlistening to your intuition,
you're not listening to your gut, you're not listening to your
emotions, not being open andreally pushing hard.
That can lead to burnout.
That can lead to frustration,whole long list of other things.
(03:10):
Manifesting is not this getquick, rich scheme.
It takes some work, but ifyou're willing to work with your
shadow self, your inner mindset, work that you need to do, and
you follow these steps tomanifesting.
You can manifest everythingthat you want in your life.
So let's start with step numberone.
(03:32):
This is super important if youdon't do any of the other steps,
to start with this one.
You need to be clear with whatyou want.
You have to make a choice inwhat you want, and if you are
more on the feminine side, youmight feel like I don't want to
(03:55):
have to make a decision.
That's okay.
If you can't be clear, likespecific details, on what you
want, I want you to focus on themotion, the feeling that you
want in your life.
So close your eyes and imaginehow do I want to feel?
(04:16):
And then start to think aboutwhat that would look like.
What would that mean?
What would change in your life?
And the more specific that youcan be, the better.
So it's important to not justsay I want to be happy.
Instead, you wanna saysomething like I want a life
(04:38):
that fills my cup with love andexperiences that bring me joy.
I also wanna point out thatthere's two types of manifestors
.
There is the non-specific andthe specific manifestors.
I'm a non-specific manifesterand this has to do with human
design.
If you wanna know what you are,send me a DM and we can talk a
(05:03):
little bit about that to figureout what you are.
This doesn't mean that if youare one or the other, that one's
not gonna work.
You can still follow the samesteps.
Just know that a non-specificone needs to be able to release
the specifics like how exactlyit's gonna happen, and a
(05:24):
specific one needs to have thatdetailed plan.
The irony here is, a lot oftimes the people that are
specific manifestors are thepeople that don't like being
specific and the people that arenon-specific aka me don't want
to be non-specific.
So it's really about a growththing.
(05:46):
The non-specific people justneed to render to the feelings
to render that it may not happenin your timeline.
It happens in the universe'stimeline and actually, oh sure.
So last year, in 2022, I hadwritten down as one of my goals
for the business was to getthree paid speaking engagements.
(06:08):
I just wrote that down, Ididn't write anything else, and
then then I wanted to do othertypes of engagements that
weren't paid.
Well, all of 2022, I didn't doanything specific for it, I
didn't really dwell on it, andthen it didn't happen and I was
just like, okay, whatever, right, I think I probably forgot
about it and then fast forwardto spring 2023, and back to back
(06:31):
.
I had these opportunities comeup that came to me, that were
requesting me to speak for them,and they were paid.
And they actually brought upthe payment thing right Because,
again, as a woman of color,growing up, asking for payment
(06:52):
isn't something that I'm soreadily easy to ask for, but I
was so glad that they asked okay, and what's your payment like?
What do you?
What's the fee?
Blah, blah, blah.
And it was so nice and so superimportant that, when you were
writing down your manifestationsthat you want to create, that
you allow them to happen intheir own timeline.
(07:13):
There is a reason why theyhappen when they need to.
Honestly, in 2022, I was not inthe place for speaking
engagements, not that I couldn'tdo them, but there was some
growth that needed to happenwithin me for it to be the right
time Now.
Had that growth happenedearlier, I believe that they
would have come earlier.
(07:33):
So know that what shows up inyour life is there because you
are ready for it, and what isn'tthere is because either it's
not meant for you or you haven'thad the growth that you need to
get there.
Alright, step number two, whichgoes back to mindset Believe
that you can achieve it.
You have to believe in it.
(07:56):
It is the key, essential thinghere in order for it to happen.
If you don't believe that youcan manifest your desire, then
it's really unlikely to happen.
So start to tell yourself thatyou are worthy of what you want,
that you are capable ofachieving it.
(08:17):
So there's two things there inbelieving that you can achieve
something and believing that youcan manifest what you want and
that is that one you have tofeel worthy worthy of your
desire.
It is in your heart for areason.
It means it is meant for you,but you have to know that you
(08:40):
are worth it.
It's not ever going to comeuntil you start to do that work
and you have to figure out whyyou believe you're not worthy of
the desire.
If I reflect back to the exampleI was giving you guys, if I
didn't feel like I should getpaid for speaking engagements, I
wasn't at a place where Ibelieved myself to have the
(09:03):
value to get paid, even though Iknow that I'm knowledgeable,
even though logically, I knowthat what I share is valuable.
Having the logical thought isdifferent than what you feel
inside, and that is actuallycalled conditiveness.
When you have two conflictingbeliefs, one that supports
(09:29):
what's going on and one thatdoesn't, that's when you start
to feel stuck and lost, becauseyou know internally that you are
worthy.
I know internally that I amworthy, but then there's
limiting beliefs in there thattell you know you're not.
So you have to dig in deep andask yourself why do I believe
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this?
When did I start to believethat I wasn't worth getting paid
?
This has come from somethingthat I've encountered.
This has come from something Iwas told by my parents, friends,
family.
Is this something that happenedgenerations ago, that has been
passed down to me, and there'sno simple answer other than
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taking the time to delve intothat.
What does that mean?
What makes you believe that youare not worthy of the desire
that you want?
And then the next belief isthat you have to believe that
you're capable of achieving it.
Maybe you believe that you areworthy.
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There's no doubt in your mind.
You're like bitch, I am worthyof this.
Well, maybe you doubt yourabilities to achieve it.
Reflect on that the same way.
Is this belief something thatcame from me internally?
Is this belief something thatcame from outside, externally?
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And then reflect on it and then, if you still need more help in
believing that you can achieveyour manifestation, start to
reflect and find proof of theways that you have manifested
before.
I'm gonna say I'm gonna think Ihave plenty of times that I've
manifested things.
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When they're tangible, theyfeel so good, but when they're
intangible it feels even better.
So then it comes to myintangible.
Why is this thing?
No-transcript.
Getting my job in 2016,.
I had created a vision board.
I think it must have been inthe beginning of 2016.
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Come August 2016, I manifestedgetting a job at a fortune 500.
I had just written like I wannawork at a fortune 500.
I wanna get a promotion.
So I got the job and then,about nine to 10 months later, I
got a promotion.
So I ended up getting like a$30,000 raise in like a year and
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that in itself feels amazing.
But then there's thenon-tangible manifestations that
come with that too, right theemotions and the feelings that I
had when that happened.
And actually I had reallyforgotten what I wrote in my
vision board and then I forgotwhen I looked at it again.
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And whenever I looked at it, Ireally was very, very shocked.
I was like, oh my God, I hadwritten a timeline of, like I
wanna do these things within thenext five years and they
happened and oh wow, justthinking about that, just
reflecting on the house too thehouse was on there, which looks
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very similar to the house we'rein now, and the vision board
from 2016, and it was a fiveyear plan and we got the house
in 2020.
So it was within the five years.
So you have to reflect.
I really forgot that I hadwritten that it was five years,
so you have to go back and lookand see.
You also just have to give time.
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So find the proof that you'vedone it before, whether you did
it with intention or not.
So sometimes you might manifestthings without intention.
So, if you missed it on myInstagram, I am currently
pregnant and due in February.
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It will be an Aquarius baby.
I'm very interested to see whatthis personality would be like,
and I had always wanted at leastthree to four children.
Right, I have my niece, who Iadopted when she was four and a
half, and so I'm like, okay,there's one, now I need three
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more, and so we had our two boys.
My husband was not open to athird biological child.
He was like I'm done.
And I was like, well, you needto make up your mind before I
turn 40, because I don't want tobe, I don't have children after
40.
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So I never wrote down likeanywhere that I'm gonna have
this many children.
It was just something that Ihad said that I wanted, right,
and I had closed the chapterwhen it had already passed my
39th birthday, which was lastDecember.
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I was like, okay, we're notgoing to have a baby.
I had already made a lot oflike final decisions in my mind
to be okay with the decision,like, okay, we're moving forward
.
Of course, I'm leaving my nineto five, so you know all of
these things that come to mindwhen you're going to have a
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child.
Well, surprise, totallyunexpected, unplanned.
I will say we knew the risk.
I was ovulating and we knew.
But this was also the time wewere on our trip, our first trip
alone.
So, yeah, it was like, well, Ithink we both just assumed that
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it would be hard to get pregnant.
I mean, if you've ever tried tohave a child, you know that it
doesn't just happen each timethat you ovulate, you have to
take turns.
But yeah, I'm still in shock,even though I am 16 weeks as of
the recording.
I'll be 17 weeks when theepisode is released.
I'm just very like I can't.
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I still can't wrap my brainaround this.
Yeah, yeah, so, and we don'tknow what we're having yet.
Soon we will so finallyschedule the blood work to get
that done and as soon as I do,I'll share it on social media
with you guys.
But, yeah, so when we found out,my husband was very happy.
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I was like what you know.
So internally, we both, youknow, made the decision.
Even if consciously we had madethe decision, we were done.
I do believe thatsubconsciously, I always knew I
wanted three children andsubconsciously, there is
something in him that was opento the idea in order for this to
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happen.
And, like I said, I was verysurprised by his reaction
because he was very adamant onnot wanting to have a third one.
So here we are, and I sharethat so that you remember that
you have to like it's really hasto be deep rooted inside of you
to happen, and I really thinkthat it's what happened here,
like it was the universe'sopportunity to give us something
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that we both subconsciouslywanted.
I mean, I know that I wanted,but I had consciously told
myself I was done with with thatchapter.
So now next thing, next step.
So the first two because I knowI've taken this off tangent is
be clear about what you want.
You have to be clear about it.
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And then step two is you haveto believe you can achieve it.
So you have to believe inyourself and you have to believe
in the capabilities.
And the third step is visualizeit regularly.
Now, regularly can be daily, itcan be weekly, monthly,
quarterly, whatever works foryou.
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What's most important is thatyou don't overwhelm yourself
visualizing.
So whatever works for you.
I personally have my visionboards, usually somewhere around
me, that I can see them.
I don't actively visualize themon a daily, but I do look at
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them occasionally, at least oncea month, to be able to refresh
my vision.
I want to be able to refreshmyself on what I'm wanting to
bring into my life.
So when you are practicing yourvisualizations, I want you to
close your eyes and imagineyourself already having what you
want.
You can see it, you can feel it, you can smell it, taste it,
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hear it.
The more vividly you canvisualize it, the stronger your
desire and the magnetization ofit will come Right, the more
active you are in the process ofvisualizing it as if you
already have it, the more thatyou begin to attract it into
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your life.
You are telling yoursubconscious, you are telling
the universe this is what I want, bring this to me.
It's kind of like when you geta new car right and you happen
to have this particular brand ofcar and particular color and
all of a sudden you see iteverywhere, because you have
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told the universe you like thiscar and it keeps bringing it to
you and you're just like, oh myGod, now everybody has drives
this car.
But in reality it was alwaysthere, you just didn't see it
before.
Now the next step you can takeand it's an important step is
that you take action.
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Manifestation is not aboutsitting around and waiting for
things to happen.
It's about taking steps towardsyour goals.
So you don't just dream aboutyour dream life, you start
working towards it.
You can ask yourself what's mynext best step to manifest my
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desire?
So if you are desiring to get apromotion, to have more money
to bring in love, you need toask yourself what's my next best
step?
If you're not sure, take amoment to close your eyes.
Connect with your higher self,god, universe, whatever you
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believe in, do some clearingbreaths and ask yourself what's
my next boss to reach my desire?
What's my next best step toreach my desire?
You know, as I'm saying this,I'm hearing show up, show up,
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okay.
Well, what does that mean?
So for me, what that means is Ineed to show up on social media
.
I need to show up on email.
I need to show up on thepodcast and tell clients I'm
open for service.
Right, I'm open for you to comehire me as your manifesting
coach so we can work one on one.
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I need to put that message outthere.
Right, I need to show up andlead, and if I'm not doing that,
then I'm not going to attractmore claims.
Right, I'm not going to reachmy goal of having five coaching
clients by the end of the year.
So I saw it, I was clear.
I believe I can achieve it, andyou just have visualized it
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because I haven't started doingthat.
But I will and I'm takingaction by showing up on the
podcast, by showing up in emails, by showing up in Instagram,
which is my favorite place to be.
So if you are not on my emaillist, be sure to sign up.
You can go to currently and ifyou're listening to this, in a
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few weeks it'll probably changebut you can always find a link
in the show notes that iscurrent and active.
But right now you can go tomanifestyourcareercom slash
freebie.
But I may be updating that soon.
So if it doesn't work, you canalways send me a DM asking to be
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on my newsletter email list.
Okay, step number five.
I'm going to review them.
Be clear on what you want.
Believe that it's possible,visualize it, take action.
And the last one is probablythe artist.
One is to be patient.
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Manifestation takes time.
Longer discourage if you don'tsee results immediately.
Just keep believing,visualizing, taking action, and
eventually your desire willmanifest.
This is one of the hardest ones, not because we don't
understand that manifestationtakes time, it's because we live
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in a current society of instantgratification.
You see something on Amazon,you can order it and get it
within a day or two.
Now, amazon probably takes liketwo days versus like one day,
or taking three days, and youknow, of course we get all upset
when before it would have takenway longer, right?
If that, whatever you wereordering, was even available in
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your area.
So remind yourself that it willcome when you are ready.
It will come when you have hadthe growth that you need.
So do the work, do the work andtake the actions you need to do
in order for you to manifestwhat you want faster.
So those are the five stepsthat you can take to manifest
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everything you want and,starting in a couple of weeks,
every Monday, I will be sharingmanifesting tips and particular
skills that you can develop tocreate better rituals, routines
and practices for manifesting.
If you are ready to work withthe coach, be sure to book a
discovery call with me and learnhow manifesting and spiritual
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tools can help you throughmanifesting everything you want.
The link is in the show notes.
Send me a DM if you havequestions.
Remember that everything thatyou are trying to manifest is a
deep desire in your heart and itis meant for you.
Just keep believing, keepvisualizing, taking action and
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being clear on what you want and, of course, be patient to the
process.
I will talk to you guys nextweek.
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