Why does it feel like people are constantly on the hunt for something to be offended by? A passing remark, a careless joke, even the tone of a post can ignite outrage that spreads like wildfire. In this episode of The Psychology of Us, Professor RJ Starr examines the psychology behind outrage culture and the human need to be offended.
Drawing on social identity theory, moral foundations research, and the cultural conditioning of American individualism, Starr unpacks the hidden functions of offense: how it defends our sense of identity, signals virtue in public, creates social belonging, and offers psychological control in moments of uncertainty. Offense feels personal, but it also operates as a cultural script that teaches us to turn difference into conflict.
This is not about left or right, sensitivity or toughness—it’s about the deeper mechanisms that drive human behavior. By understanding how offense works beneath the surface, we gain the freedom to respond differently: with maturity, curiosity, and a stronger grasp of our own psychology.
If you’ve ever wondered why outrage spreads so quickly, or why offense feels so irresistible, this conversation will help you see the pattern more clearly—and offer a way forward that isn’t chained to reflex.
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