This is not that Podcast with Shirley Dor and Cirocobama
Weekly, join Shirley Dor and Cirocobama as they hold space for unapologetic conversations and laughter. Open minded chit chats on everything. Love! Sex! Friendship! Wellness! Success! Relationships! Anime and more! This is Not That Podcast is a show for therapeutic advice, risque stories, and self-discovery. This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts. Keep up with us: https://instagram.com/thisisnotthatpod https://tiktok.com/@thisisnotthatpod For more great content, new videos every Thursday on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@thisisnotthatpod
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There's a huge conflation of what people are looking for in a relationship on social media. So we dug into the research on what people are REALLY looking for in partnership to give you social media versus reality. Take a moment to rank the most important traits for you in a partner before listening to the episode. Here are the common 5 on social media:
-Wealth
-Health
-Intelligence
-Being Fine or Hot
-Being Funny
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Welcome back! It's your audio besties here. We think women who have experienced love and partnership have great insight on what qualities of a good woman. At the end of the day, they were chosen and clearly they did something right to be chosen for however long that partnership was active. Here are qualities of a good woman from single women whose exes still try to spend the block.
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Welcome back! It's your audio besties here. We feel a little passionate today and we really need you guys to leave so much in 2023. From Chrisean and Blueface to baby hairs that touch your eyebrows. This is Part I of Bring it or Leave it into 2024.
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Welcome back! Its your audio besties here. We are talking about red flags to lookout for in romantic relationships and should not ignore.
- How to spot the difference between red flags and drawing boundaries?
- How to deal with a guy who keeps asking you for your car?
- What nationalities to be on the lookout for
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Your audio besties are back and we got so much questions about modern women being labeled alpha women. What is a Black woman's place? DO WOMEN SUBMIT TO MEN ANYMORE ?
On this episode we talk about:
- Modern women and submission
- What does submission look like in reality?
- Reasons Black women struggle with submission
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Your audio besties are back and we’re digging into the history of butt play and reading out your dirty little secrets to Shirley.
This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts.
In this episode we discuss:
How did butt play come to life
Read your dirty little secrets
What are signs of cheating other than penetrative and emotional intimacy.
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We have two new segments you will love, but first, a bunch of conspiracies' we need to debunk with ConspiracyGate. Hace you ever thought of people you would expeditiously send to jail for heinous crimes? Let's talk about our Citizens Arrests.
This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts
On this episode we talk about:
- Trolls who talk behind private accounts
- JP Morgan Chase and Cocaine Ship
- Terrance J ...
Your audio besties are back and with a new segment, Anime Banter. Listen to us nerd out about our favorite Anime movies and shows and fully dissect what may or may not be your favorite Anime.
This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts. In this episode we discuss:
- The difference between being a Blerd, Dweeb, and Geek
- One Piece is not the superior anime
- Get to know us, Anime edition.
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Wonder what it’s like for someone to not be into you.? Yeah? We got you covered. Shirley Dor and Cirocobama share the true signs that she’s just not that into you.
This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts.
In this episode we discuss:
- Signs that a woman simply isn't into you
- The red flag date of Shirley getting flewed out by escape room guy
- The story of Cirocobama date that's favorite wings is Wi...
Welcome back! We missed you a lot and we are so excited to be back. We decided this season return would be best to address some ignant sh*t we found around the interest. Shirley Dor and Cirocobama talk new segments and more.
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In this episode, Cirocobama and Shirley Dor crush the misconceptions on This Is Not That Podcast. They delve into a wide range of topics and challenge conventional thinking showcasing how the entertainers explore alternative perspectives, questioning assumptions, and embracing open-mindedness. Being Caribbean Heritage Month, we discuss:
HIV/AIDS in the Caribbean Community
Caribbean American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day
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By embracing sexual well-being you are nurturing wholeness in your life // Lè w anbrase byennèt seksyèl w ap pran swen sante w nan lavi w.
Join hosts Shirley Dor and CirocObama on an engaging episode of This is Not That Podcast, as they delve into the multifaceted world of sexuality in the Haitian community. Together with special guests, they navigate attitudes, beliefs, and societal factors that shape discussions about sex.
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As Shirley Dor and Cirocobama close out this season of This is Not That Podcast, we reflect on previous season while doing a mukbang. Topics we explored:
Relationships dynamics
Dating partnered men
Interests in finding a romantic partner
Dating blue collar men
Dating as an entrepreneur
What makes a woman masculine
Prioritizing mental wellness and preventing burnout, we will see you next season in the thick of summer.
Shirley Dor goes viral on Twitter and people were not happy about it. It is unfortunately all too common for men to feel entitled to a woman's time and attention simply because they have financial stability. The idea that a woman's decision not to date someone who is financially unstable is not a reflection of their character or worth as a person is explored. Shirley Dor and CirocObama dives into why it's important for ...
Entrepreneurship often requires a constant hustle that can easily lead to neglecting one's own well-being and suffering from burnout and stress. We decided to practice what we preach and get facials at Talia V Skincare. In this episode, we share our personal experiences and discuss tips for taking care of yourself and being mindful of your busy schedule. We had the pleasure of interviewing Talia, a esthetician based in Orlando ...
This is obviously NOT the podcast you thought it was. Romantic friendships, in contrast to sneaky links, involve the development of deeper intimacy and a form of platonic love, while avoiding sexual politics and crossing traditional boundaries. As professional conversationalists who does this for the views, Shirley Dor and Cirocobama dives into Sneaky links vs Friends With Benefits vs Romantic Friendships. We open the door to the d...
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