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December 27, 2024 44 mins

In this episode join me as Ruby Raja and I dive into the complex realities of domestic violence and trauma. Ruby shares her journey from volunteering on a women’s helpline to working in the criminal justice system, where she gained a unique, holistic view of abuse. We discuss how recognizing abuse can be challenging when it’s emotional or psychological rather than physical, and Ruby shares insights on how abuse impacts not only victims but their children as well. Ruby explains how trauma experienced in abusive households can deeply affect children’s well-being and development, often manifesting in ways that are misunderstood. Together, we explore how safe, non-judgmental spaces can be a powerful tool for healing.

 

Meet my guest: Ruby Raja is a dedicated advocate for trauma survivors, with a background spanning the criminal justice system and extensive experience in domestic violence support. Her work aims to bring deeper understanding and healing to those impacted by abuse. Ruby is a Trauma-Informed Domestic Violence Trainer and Certified Trauma Facilitator, passionate about education and awareness. She shares her valuable insights on the dynamics of abuse, trauma recovery, and her approach to empowering survivors on their journeys to healing and freedom.

Quote/Piece of Advice: Whatever happens to you in your life....good, bad, and indifferent, your body keeps the score. 

 

Connect:

Her Website: www.inshiraa.com 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ruby-raja-681908302/ 

 

To connect with your host Kat:

@TheLotusEffectCoach or @KatPolsinelli 

My Website: www.the-lotus-effect.com AND Join our Facebook Community 👇 https://www.facebook.com/groups/thelotuseffectgroup

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