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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
See you, thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 1 (00:03):
Ryan Air Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Sarah, good morning, How are you doing.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
I'm well, how are you guys doing?
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Doing well? So your single friend keeps responding to your
husband's workouts through their Apple Watches.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Yeah, so, like, you know, when you finish your workout,
if you're friends with people who also have the Apple
wash like to like the fitness app, they can see
that you finish and like those little automated responses will
come up and be like hey, like good job or
you know, just stuff to like kind of hype the
person up. Okay, every time he's yeah, every time he's
finishing a workout, she's sending him like, oh, like look
(00:42):
at you, you look great, like little fire emojis, and
it's like kind of coming off like kind.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Of flirty, and this is your friend.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Yes, this is like both of our one of our
single girlfriends that we met in college.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Does she do it to you when you finish workouts?
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Really, he'll do it to me, and like he'll take
screenshots of it and like show me what she's saying.
And he says that it's harmless, but it's still just
it's still bothering me.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
No, does she do it to you? Does she send
you good jobsge?
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Oh no, No, she does not. She's only sending him messages.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
And does she know? You know? I don't. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Because we've never said anything to her about it, because
he keeps saying it's kind of pointless and harmless. But
a part of me wants to bring it up to her.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Well, listen, either she thinks that you're so comfortable with
her doing that that you wouldn't mind, or she's doing
this to fire you out, to wind you up.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
The fact that she's not sending you messages makes me
question the whole thing.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
I mean, look, if it's on your mind, it would
be on my mind too. I would definitely say, why
are you sending fire her emojis to my husband? And
she's gonna say, oh, I just was like, you know,
be nice. What do you say then? Don't be nice?
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Yeah, you don't need to be that nice looking good?
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Yeah, it's clearly gotten to you, and so to let
it fester would be a bad idea. You should bring
it up. It's not cool, as Disney said, if if
she's just doing it to him and not to you.
Then that's clearly her focus.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Yeah, I agree, there's something fishy there, but's fire.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Is flirting for sure, like you don't send Everybody knows
when you use fire, it's a flirt, right hot. You
don't use fire with your friends like I use fire.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
To my girlfriends, but I would never use it to
another guy because you know.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
The meaning fire. Everybody knows the meaning of fire, So
she knows what she's doing. Yep, you need to talk
to her, Sarah.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
All right, I definitely will know after this.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Okay, thanks for con I mean there are just certain
emojis you kind of know that they are flirty and
not to cross like mixed message them.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Right.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
What are some of the other ones? Bless you, Tanya,
thank you so much. Like the purple cat? What is
that one?
Speaker 1 (03:02):
The purple cat? I mean, any of the kissy faces
of heart eyes anything, little heart flirty?
Speaker 4 (03:09):
I use this all the time.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
A heart eye one I probably would not send to
another guy.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Heard high one you would not send to another guy.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
That's one I've probably commented on your Instagram with like
hard eyes on stuff.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Yeah, but I don't read that.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
Okay, I'm still doing it. If it fall tree falls
in the woods and nobody hears it. Does the tree still fall?
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Yes, let me grab Rebecca who's on the line. Rebecca,
thank you for holding on there for five minutes. Sorry
about that. How are you pretty good?
Speaker 5 (03:37):
Thank you so much?
Speaker 6 (03:38):
Or actually, you know what, I'm not great because I'm
in a little bit of a dilemma. I'm hoping that
you guys can help me out.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
So you want some guidance here, what's the category?
Speaker 6 (03:49):
Yes, okay, So basically what happened is one of my
friends asked me to be a bridesmaid, and I'm just
not too sure how I feel about it. We met
in college and I have always like kind of kept
in touch, and she's really really sweet, like she'll always
come to birthdays and any like major events, like I
feel my boyfriend's surprise party and she came to that.
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And she looks like an hour away in LA that's
like long distance. So she's always been really really sweet,
but I just I don't know for that close. And yeah,
I just think she's always been a better friend to
me than I've been to her. And she asked me
in a kind of an old way. She asked me
over text, and it's a destination wedding. So I just
I feel my boyfriend says, if it's not a hell yeah,
(04:33):
so no.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Well your boyfriend's right, I don't understand. So just so
I'm clear. Uh, this is the thing with weddings. They
get overly complicated and become uncomfortable. But if you're not
that close to this person, and clearly you're not that
interested in being there as a bridesmaid, then decline or
just and it's a destination. She's given you the out.
(04:56):
You can't make it. Oh but why would you always?
Speaker 4 (05:00):
How do you tell somebody you can't make their wedding?
Speaker 2 (05:03):
It's a destination.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Whatever it is can afford it, so.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
We can't afford it.
Speaker 6 (05:11):
That's the thing too. We just went to another destination
wedding recently.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
So, Rebecca, why would you put yourself through pretending you
want to be there if you really don't want to
be there? Explain that to me.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
That's true.
Speaker 6 (05:24):
I think it's because she's always been such a good
friend At any like major events, she's always been there.
She always gives the sweetest gifts, So there's really nothing.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
These are not.
Speaker 4 (05:34):
Reason Wait, you guys know, listen, this is what a
beautiful person to have in your life.
Speaker 6 (05:38):
That's thoughtful friend. I wish I loved her more, But
I don't know why I'm not thrilled. I think I
should be thrilled, but I'm just not really thrilled.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
She's not your vibe.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Put her out of her nursery and let her stop
giving you nice gifts because you don't really like her.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Yeah, I've been in this situation. Would I didn't go
to her wedding, and then that was basically the end
of our friendship.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
And that's all that you want, Rebecca. All right, Well,
I'm glad you called for advice here.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
All right, Well, thank you.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Your boyfriend the right move. Here's what she's doing, a
disservice to that other, to the bride by pretending to
like her because she's been there for her and given
her good gifts. Put the bride out of her misery thing.
And she's got a friend in Rebecca. But you start
weddings are a disaster in different ways.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
You start feeling it as you get older, because your
time becomes more precious, and so you don't want to
waste it on people that you don't like, that you
don't get along with. Tony, don't vibe with.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
How many brides maids are you going to have?
Speaker 4 (06:43):
You know, it's funny you ask it's funny.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
That funny, it's actually appropriate.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
No, I know because I've thought about it and I
feel like it'll probably be excuse me for for yeah,
probably four for yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Perfect? How many people are coming to this wedding?
Speaker 4 (07:00):
Well, I don't know. I mean that's TBD.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Well, let's one step at a time here, Okay.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Guys, you know I'll see something to be you know,
it'd be really funny when I ask you about that tomorrow. Allie,
thank you for calling in. So you are a frustrated caller.
Speaker 7 (07:14):
Very frustrated.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Did we do something wrong?
Speaker 8 (07:18):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Was it us?
Speaker 2 (07:19):
It probably was? Oh, Ali, do you see us on
a scale of one through ten? What number would you say?
We are.
Speaker 7 (07:28):
Absolutely a ten?
Speaker 4 (07:30):
Nice?
Speaker 2 (07:31):
You see see ten? When you say that, I can't
believe it.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
Now you should believe it.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
Yeah, that's the problem. All right, Well, Ally you're so.
It says here you are frustrated with your mother in law.
Why what happened?
Speaker 7 (07:44):
Well, I'm a new mom, and like a new mom,
I have a lot of frustrations. But I'm returning to work,
and I'm really thankful to live close to my mother
in law. She's only like ten minutes away, and so
the first couple of months she's been over a lot,
which has been great. So assumes when I went back
to work she would continue to help. She's retired, And
(08:07):
when I burshed the conversation, she said she didn't have
the time to commit. She couldn't help me watch the
baby during the day, which is very reasonable. She has
her own life, I understand. However, when I started work,
she kept coming over at random times during the week
to spend an hour here, an hour there. So she
has enough time to stop by unannounced and spend time
(08:30):
with my child, but doesn't have the time to commit
and watch her one day week for a couple of hours.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
So this is your child's dad's mom. Correct, Yes, I
defer to you on this. Imagine that, you know it's
so tricky.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
I think what she's trying to say is I don't
have the time to commit to a schedule, but because
I'm grandma, I can come over whenever I want, unannounced,
and that's just how it is. And I feel like
that is how it is.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
Do you know what the problem is though. The root
of everything is expectation, your expectation for your mother in
law to babysit, and maybe you release those expectations and
then you'll be pleasantly surprised with how much she's around.
What do you have right?
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Do you have a nanny or do daycare? How are
you doing childcare right now?
Speaker 7 (09:31):
I have it nanny. I have a full time nanny,
which has been great, and we you know, signed her
up and started working with her because my mother in
law said she didn't have the time. So I completely
understood her initial reasoning. But then when she comes over,
you know, for a couple of hours in the afternoon,
and then nanny has to accommodate her, that feels a
little frustrating to me.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Yeah, I'm with Ali. I would have a little resentment
with that too myself. I don't release expectation.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
How long has this been going on now?
Speaker 7 (10:01):
Just for like four or five months?
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Oh, four or five months? Okay, okay, So now that
it's been four or five months, I think it's time
to maybe have another conversation with your mother in law.
And it's simple. I think you can say, we've you know,
noticed that you come over a lot, which we love.
We love that you spend time with your grand because
a granddaughter, grandson, Yes, granddaughter, granddaughter. And so what we
(10:24):
were thinking was, is there any way that you could
commit to just one day or one consistent day. We
want to keep a consistent schedule with her so that
it's not so crazy for our nanny. And then she
can know when you're coming, whatever it may be. And
then that every Thursday from two to four she knows
that grandma comes and that's her time. And would that
(10:44):
be helpful, like I don't know, you know, And then
and then maybe that saves you guys a little bit
of money and you don't have to pay the nanny
that day or whatever it may be. And I'm you know,
maybe she'll rethink it.
Speaker 7 (10:58):
Or no, I think that is exactly what I'm.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
Gonna well, good luck. Ay. The other side of this,
which I think is maybe the most pragmatic, is she's
always going to drive you a little crazy and just
need to deal with it, you know, but try Sistney's
guidance first.
Speaker 4 (11:10):
Good luck all right.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
I mean, sometimes you have to realize, like somebody's just
gonna always get under your skin, and maybe this is
the she's doing this. Now she's gonna do something else,
but try to resolve it.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Yeah, I don't know. I'm just so lucky. I love
my in laws.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Well you anybody who loves everyone in their family, you're lucky.
I mean that loves. But like it's a long right,
Like if you get along with everyone on both sides
of a family, that is a blessing.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
It's a blessing, blessing, blessing, blessing.
Speaker 2 (11:40):
On air with the Ryan Seacrest, what do you think
the germiest part of the kitchen is? You are going
to roll over when you hear this?
Speaker 1 (11:49):
M the germy ist part. Well, I can think, like
your sponge is probably the germist I.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
Thought so too. My sponge is filled with might to
be trash can Okay, but hey can it's your spice rack. Oh,
bacteria is all over your spices. Here's why you make
a patty right, and you put a little whatever you
(12:14):
use from the spice rack, and your hands have touched
their ale meat and you don't ever wash those those shakers.
Your spices are the germiest part of the kitchen. Gross,
Well go clean.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
It, yeah, I will clean sure, Well.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Clean up the cub and the cinnamon, clean up the tarragon.
You're all cleaned up. Today's quote. Hopefully this is good
for you. If you are not speaking it, you are
storing it and that gets heavy.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
Yes, all right, okay, blinked on you.
Speaker 4 (12:51):
I really like that quote. It's very good.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
The headlines with Ruby Gonzales right.
Speaker 9 (12:58):
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gifts to the office of Mayor Karen Bass, but her
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Speaker 8 (13:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 9 (13:06):
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a six hundred dollars goodie bag containing Kardashian branded hot sauce, liquor,
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gifts an elected official can receive to avoid misconduct, so
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four point eight million are Latino. According to the data,
Latinos are also the largest racial groups statewide.
Speaker 2 (13:55):
On there with Ryan Seacrest stuffing on TikTok? What is
cash stuffing? What is that?
Speaker 1 (14:03):
It's technically a new name but for an old school
money budgeting method once called cash envelope systems. So it's
all over TikTok right now. And it's kind of funny
because I think for gen zers they barely use cash.
For us, we grew up more using cash, especially in
our teen years and into our twenties. And so what
(14:23):
cash stuffing is. It's the process of only spending physical
cash on your expenses. So you pre divide everything that
you have, whether it's your utilities, your car expenses, things
like that, into different envelopes for the month. It's going
to prevent overspending and impulse buys, and it gives you
a set budget. So if you give yourself two hundred.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Dollars empty, it's empty, right, Yeah, I.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
Give yourself two hundred dollars for food that week, and
then you got to dinner with your girlfriends, you spend
sixty bucks. Like that's you already spend sixty bucks for
the whole week and it's Monday, you know, or whatever.
So it's an interesting concept. I don't know if I
could do this, but I do spend mindlessly with my
credit card, and I think we all do.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
Anything tangible feels different. Anything tangible has an impact because
there's a visual, there's a tangibility to it. And with
online ordering and not you don't even have to swipe.
They just like take my chip or they just like
there's like there's like you're just wave it over the
thing and you're done nothing.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
I mean, we tip with the cards now, like we
don't even tip with cash anymore. It's just it's so
crazy how mindlessly we spend.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
When you're like, I'm thinking about when I lived with
Tanaz and Louis and everybody in the five roommate place, right,
that would have been a good system. That would have
been a good system because we were all split in utilities,
We're splitting different things. We were only going out to
eat when we could certain times a week and certain
amount of times a week, but you kind of you
(15:55):
know what you're doing, and you're I was writing checks
and trying to bounce a check book, but it wasn't
great to balance my book. But this really, when you're out,
you're out, I know. So what you want to give yourself?
Speaker 4 (16:05):
Like one envelope on a Monday and you'd say, okay,
so this envelope is for dinners out this week?
Speaker 2 (16:10):
Yeah, you know right. I would want to treat myself
at the end of the week to go out for dinner.
But if I ordered in too many things during the week,
I wouldn't be able to go to the same place.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
Probably even if you ordered in, you would have to
use cash can right, that's your credit card, that's right.
Speaker 2 (16:23):
But I would order like I mean the Chinese chicken
salid from Chinchin with somebody ordered all the time, I'd
get it. Yeah, and that would go out of the
that would ding ding ding ding ding. I got it
to go out. What would be for the end of it?
It's not a I actually see why the concept works.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
Yeah, and all these you know, especially gen Z's, are
posting this on TikTok and showing how much they're saving
every single month, while like this person's been doing it
for like three years and she's like, look how much
money I've saved by doing this on air with.
Speaker 2 (16:50):
Ryan Seacret Marianna from the back room. Now, I don't
know if I should be alarmed or not, but I
saw now you are a generation what I think I'm in.
Speaker 10 (17:02):
The middle of gen Z and millennial?
Speaker 2 (17:04):
Like, okay, yeah, so you've quit all your social media,
so I need to check on your health. Are you
all right?
Speaker 4 (17:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (17:09):
Oh my god? Trust me. TikTok was the hard one.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
How long did you? Why?
Speaker 8 (17:14):
Why?
Speaker 9 (17:14):
Why?
Speaker 2 (17:14):
Why? Why?
Speaker 10 (17:15):
I was spending way too much time.
Speaker 11 (17:16):
It's like been almost it's been two weeks, it's gonna
be three weeks.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Yeah. Now I'm thinking of you know, the age range
you're in. That seems like a drastic step. However, I'm
all here for it, Like, I think it's fantastic. How
are you doing?
Speaker 10 (17:31):
I'm doing good? I actually love that for me.
Speaker 11 (17:33):
I feel like, even though I do miss social media,
I don't know, it just feels good to not wake
up and the first thing to look at my phone,
you know, like to see what's going on, and you know,
it just feels good.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
So usually when people that we play on the radio
do that they've got a new album coming out. Do
you have an album coming out?
Speaker 10 (17:54):
As Taylor deletes all.
Speaker 11 (17:57):
Of her yeah, Lounge, I don't have an album coming out, unfortunately.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
But maybe a new relationship.
Speaker 2 (18:05):
Okay, can I let me go back? So you, Marianna,
is it right to say that there's this guy that
you had a crush on back in high school that
wanted to take you out and you were reluctant to
do so to go out with him?
Speaker 10 (18:17):
Yeah, I was.
Speaker 11 (18:17):
I didn't really want to go out with him because
he had a crush on my friends in high school.
And then he reached out to me and he was like, oh,
you know, I want to hang out with you. I
want to take you on a date because you glowed
up or whatever, and I was like, should I go?
Speaker 10 (18:30):
I don't know, it's kind of weird, you know.
Speaker 2 (18:31):
Well I remember, I don't remember actually my advice, but
I'm guessing it was go out with him. It was okay,
So did you did? And is that why you're on
there's no social media presence for you?
Speaker 10 (18:41):
No, I didn't do it because of that.
Speaker 11 (18:43):
Yeah, that was before before he decided to take me
on on a date.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
So, so how'd that go?
Speaker 10 (18:49):
The date went good?
Speaker 1 (18:50):
Actually, where'd you go?
Speaker 10 (18:52):
We went out to eat.
Speaker 11 (18:53):
We had Korean food, which I love food, so you know,
for me, it was like, okay, knows that I like food.
So we went out to eat, and then after that
we got boba and we walked around the area. We
were just talking and then after that we oh, we
saw the menu. We went back to his place and
(19:14):
we saw the menu.
Speaker 10 (19:15):
But we got two rolls too.
Speaker 4 (19:16):
It's a long day.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
What time did you start? I like a long date.
But that's the extended.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
Version last guy that was limiting her on the amount
of wings that she ordered, So like this guy, two
rose the menu.
Speaker 2 (19:32):
It's like my favorite movie so far and it's real mass.
Speaker 6 (19:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 11 (19:34):
I was like, okay, I love this because we did
so many things in one day and it didn't feel
like it just.
Speaker 2 (19:40):
Because see that's how I like to date, right, Yeah.
I like to start at ten and make it a lunch,
an afternoon, a dinner and a movie.
Speaker 4 (19:48):
But what if it's horrible, then you're stuck. Well you
don't have to be stuck.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
Yeah, but if it keeps going, you know it's going well.
So what's the status? Are you going out again?
Speaker 10 (19:56):
I think so?
Speaker 1 (19:56):
Yeah, okay, this is cute.
Speaker 2 (19:58):
Four or five days at a time about this time. Indeed,
a week off date number two, she needs a week off.
Speaker 10 (20:05):
I was just kidding.
Speaker 11 (20:08):
No, yeah, I think we are going to go again.
I just don't know when that's exciting? To tell me
he is?
Speaker 2 (20:13):
How exciting is it that she was like reluctant a
few weeks ago and now she's on this three mil
date with of the Menu movie and wanting to go
out again. I don't want to ask what happened, but
Sistney does. What happened?
Speaker 1 (20:25):
Well, what do you mean like afterwards you guys kiss?
Speaker 10 (20:29):
We didn't kiss.
Speaker 2 (20:30):
You didn't know.
Speaker 11 (20:31):
So I've already been to his house like a lot
of times because men, jew I was friends with him,
like I've been friends with This is not a big step.
Speaker 10 (20:37):
Yeah exactly, so open house. Yeah, we didn't care.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
We'll pump the bricks.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
Are we friend zoned right now?
Speaker 2 (20:45):
No? Not with that many different things in a day,
you sure on a date?
Speaker 4 (20:49):
It's like it was do we think do we know
for sure? This was a date? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (20:55):
Okay, he said?
Speaker 4 (20:56):
She glowed up wants to take her out.
Speaker 11 (20:58):
He's also I don't know if I'm messed up, because
when I was leaving, I told him, all right, my friend,
the worst.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
Thing you could say. I mean, that's like saying, oh
your bad breath, I'm not going to kiss you.
Speaker 10 (21:12):
I didn't mean to say that.
Speaker 2 (21:15):
I come out.
Speaker 10 (21:19):
I think that he actually wanted to kiss me.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
But I kind of just got shin when you say,
hey buddy, hey pal, thanks for the day, appreciate the
three meals and that great psycho thriller menu movie. All right, well,
here's the thing. We've all put our foot in our
mouth and said the dumb thing in the end. We've
all been in that moment where you say and you cringe. Right, yeah,
so is he asked you out again?
Speaker 11 (21:41):
We've been talking, but he hasn't yet. He's we've talked about, like, why.
Speaker 2 (21:45):
Don't you say, let's go do something.
Speaker 4 (21:46):
You know, I have the future, like the future, you
know what you can do on the next one that
can like really help bring it back. You can look
at his lips, you know, like look at them and
be like, what chaps to.
Speaker 2 (22:01):
The back room is just they've all fallen.
Speaker 4 (22:04):
Make a point to look at his lips and like
comment on them something.
Speaker 2 (22:08):
Look at how she's not blinking and looking at her lips.
That would make me definitely put him in the friend zone.
I put you in the friend zone a second. No,
will keep us posted. I liked it. There's some goodness
here and you should definitely like make it easy for
him to take you out again.
Speaker 10 (22:21):
Yeah, yeah, I should. All right, Okay, I'll keep you
guys updating.
Speaker 2 (22:23):
That to look at his lips and don't blink. You
can say that. I know, I'm just I'm talking to
you about Tanya. I think i'd be freaked out.
Speaker 4 (22:34):
No, what kind of chaptic is out? Your lips look great?
Speaker 2 (22:38):
No blink, no blink, no blink. I love hearing about
all the dating trials and tribulations of the back room
Air on Air.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
With Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
This is your boyfriend, my boyfriend, my boyfriend. Robbie's on
the line.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
Are you going to grill him?
Speaker 2 (22:57):
Grill? Please? No grill anybody?
Speaker 9 (23:00):
You up girl, anybody get grilled.
Speaker 1 (23:04):
You grow everybody.
Speaker 2 (23:06):
No, there's no grilling at all. Robbie. How are you?
I miss you? I'm not seeing any I know.
Speaker 12 (23:11):
It's been too well. First of all, thank you so
much for the beautiful wine for the holidays. That was
really nice. You can't wait to u to crack that open?
Speaker 2 (23:19):
Have you not had to yet?
Speaker 4 (23:20):
No, we're saving it for Yeah, oh.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
Great, it's uh, it's biodynamic cabernet. You're gonna love it.
Speaker 12 (23:27):
Well, No, we had it. We had it at our
dinner and we loved it, and so we're excited to
have it again.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
I served it to you at the house.
Speaker 4 (23:36):
That's right listening.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
So, Robbie, I know your age, I should say, I
know how much wisdom you carry. And I felt like,
you know when when you're when you're a man with
your wisdom who's been on the planet and seen so much,
you're kind of set in certain ways with certain ceremonies.
And Tanya told me that the two of you have
decided to quit coffee. And the reason the reason I
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bring it up is because Sissy and I are bothered
by it, because she's a little edgy.
Speaker 1 (24:05):
Yeah, we have to, you know, we have to deal
with all of the side effects and her withdrawals of
her not having coffee in the morning. And she's snapping
at us.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
Like kind of mad at us if we don't agree,
And so.
Speaker 12 (24:19):
What does she do. She's being she's being snappy.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
Yeah, she's snappy, like she yelled at me the other day,
and then she like takes everything out on us. And
I think by the time she gets home to you,
she's probably had time to like calm down. Yeah, I
get it all out and then she's perfect for you.
But like we get this like.
Speaker 4 (24:37):
Raw, Tanya.
Speaker 12 (24:40):
No, it doesn't sound like her.
Speaker 2 (24:43):
No, that's the point. It doesn't sound like her, which
is why we know something changed. Then she said, funny,
you asked Robbie and I both quit coffee.
Speaker 12 (24:51):
No we haven't. We haven't quit yet. It's uh, it's
currently under discussion. So here's what happens. I get a
little background.
Speaker 2 (24:57):
Here, please, all right.
Speaker 12 (24:59):
So, uh, we were in bed the other night looking
at childhood photos of Ryan on her phone and.
Speaker 6 (25:10):
Kid.
Speaker 12 (25:11):
All right, So first of all, first of all, this
cop this our mostning coffee is one of our time
in my greatest joint in life. Okay, So like whether
we make it at home, you know, we have a
great coffee machine. She makes the most amazing all the
note going to go to our favorite coffee shop. It's
truly one of our greatest joys. So she comes to
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me the other day a couple of days ago, and
she says, I'm meaning off of coffee. And I was shocked.
I didn't understand what was going on, and said, what
we know why? And so there's another thing, which I
think you guys know. So she she was recently diagnosed
as Hashimoto's disease, and so as a result of that,
we're trying to do everything anti inflammatory. Right, so like
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anything that we eat, it's supposed to be an anti
inflammatory diet, et cetera, et cetera. So she said, she
aims to me that coffee is inflammatory. Now clean she
like declared, she declares it.
Speaker 5 (26:07):
She knew that.
Speaker 12 (26:08):
She was like, coffee is inflammatory, so we got to
cut it out. So I was shocked because I actually
had heard that coffee is antime planatory. But she said
some times like okay, well with the inflammatory, I'm out.
Let's go. We're getting out. Let's get into the macha game.
We like, we like went online. We found like this
beautiful ten piece macha set. It's coming today. We bought
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this amazing ceremonial lacha like we're going to become macha people.
But then yesterday I was like wait, let me get
like google this, let me see, let me see if
this coffee thing, this anti exlammatory thing, and the pilimacty
thing is really the case. So I googled it yesterday
and every article is about how coffee is actually anti inflammatory.
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So I sent her all yeah, yeah, so I sent
her all these links and now it's deeply under discussion,
so no decision has been made yet.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
Great, where did this misinformation come from? Doney that all
this sudden you don't trust everything they say because you're
and I'm worried for you, Robbie, you don't want to
quit coffee at this time in life.
Speaker 12 (27:17):
No, no, agree, it's too late for me.
Speaker 5 (27:18):
That's just exactly.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
That's like, I mean, that's a that's a big deal.
So tunny. If if he's right in his research, and
I trust it that it is anti inflammatory, why wouldn't
you start back up for all of us, for the
love of the Lord, Yeah.
Speaker 4 (27:36):
We yeah, we're back on. We're discussing were we to discuss?
Speaker 2 (27:40):
You're supposed to be anti flammatory? Done?
Speaker 8 (27:43):
Done?
Speaker 4 (27:43):
But what did this girl mean? This guru girl.
Speaker 2 (27:45):
What did it mean?
Speaker 12 (27:46):
Just right now? Yeah?
Speaker 6 (27:47):
What?
Speaker 12 (27:48):
What?
Speaker 5 (27:48):
What?
Speaker 12 (27:48):
What do you know about it being inflammatory.
Speaker 4 (27:51):
All I know is this woman looks like she's twelve,
and she doesn't drink coffee alcohol, and she goes about
at eight thirty.
Speaker 2 (27:58):
All right, Robbie, Well, thank you for the back on.
Con Text is always important.
Speaker 1 (28:01):
Yeah, and research, good research, well done.
Speaker 12 (28:04):
Yeah, anytime. I'll keep you guys up there.
Speaker 2 (28:06):
Enjoy the Macha ceremony, sayd, I wouldn't give it up
showing me all.
Speaker 4 (28:14):
These articles about how it's anti inflammatory.
Speaker 2 (28:17):
Share some mornings with Macha and share some other mornings.
Speaker 4 (28:19):
With okay, in moderation. Moderation might be the key, because
I drink like three cups a day.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
Oh my gosh, so maybe just cut back.
Speaker 2 (28:31):
I like that. Robbie's on board. He accepted your misinformation
and decided to order a ten piece ceremonial matcha kid.
I mean, this guy's invested. Oh so next week will
be easier for us listening here.
Speaker 1 (28:46):
Lifts the gods.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
I have the bat line to Robbie. I'll make sure
there's some coffee in that.
Speaker 1 (28:52):
Woe.
Speaker 4 (28:52):
Not been snappy on air with Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 2 (28:59):
So. I was actually out with Georgia the other day
and I saw other dogs and I started thinking, I wonder,
because what happens if I let George off the leash
and there's another dog. Sometimes the other dog's parent throws
the ball yeah to both my dog that we don't
know and their dog.
Speaker 1 (29:16):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (29:17):
And I always feel like, Okay, I get a break
from throwing the ball. But then after the ball has
been thrown, I go thank the person right, and then
I start I walk away, and I think should have
gotten their number, because maybe Georgia and that dog should
be out here more often playing balls.
Speaker 1 (29:31):
Yeah, yeah, like they should have a relationship, like Georgia
should have friends.
Speaker 2 (29:36):
Georgie has sat me down before and give me the look.
But this is a so is it a dating app?
So that dogs can find dogs that are similar and
play with them.
Speaker 1 (29:45):
It's essentially socializing for both pets and their owners. So yeah,
but I don't know if it's for everybody. I I
personally don't know that I could do it. So if
you go on the app Store and you search for
this app, it's literally called Doggie. It's like Doggy huge,
but then underneath it really small. It's a style, So
the app is called Doggy Style.
Speaker 4 (30:06):
Uh huh cute?
Speaker 2 (30:09):
I mean I see the back room laughing at that.
Speaker 4 (30:15):
It's a plan where.
Speaker 1 (30:19):
I was reading this article and it says like millennials
are more likely to have a pet now and save
getting married and buying a home and raising a family
and having kids and all that. And it's like I
did it, Like I had to code it for six
years before I did any of that stuff. And so
I feel like, and it's just like having a dog
is like the first step before you do any of
that stuff.
Speaker 2 (30:40):
I think people.
Speaker 1 (30:42):
I think so too, and especially in some towns and
some cities that don't have dog parks or maybe they
don't have dog beaches and things like that. So this
bills you a little community. So you go on this
app and then you essentially swipe for another dog and
and then you match and then you meet up. It's
kind of weird.
Speaker 2 (31:01):
It's like dog dating, but it's human dating.
Speaker 4 (31:04):
No, it's for dogs, but it's for.
Speaker 2 (31:05):
Dogs like humans that have to make this.
Speaker 1 (31:08):
It could be like me and Tanya, Like I'm not
interested in Tanya. It would be like I would be
interested in her dogs for Dakota, No, I.
Speaker 4 (31:15):
Know, I don't like this because all of Suddy's friends
are like far away and I can never let them together.
Speaker 1 (31:20):
A picture of Sonny and then you say that's a
mass Yeah, that'd be a match for Dakota, and I'd
be like, oh, I really think they would get along,
and so we lets meet at a park.
Speaker 4 (31:31):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (31:32):
It's so cute. It's like, what are we doing?
Speaker 2 (31:39):
There's a famous makeup artist that's used everything that you
have in your makeup bag and she's she's reorganized the
order of application and it's become a hot thing. Is
that as close to correct as I can go?
Speaker 4 (31:52):
Yes? And not just like the hot thing it is,
it is the thing, like it is the thing right now.
You can't I can't scroll for more than five minutes
without somebody talk about the Mary Phillips makeup technique trend and.
Speaker 2 (32:03):
This is how it takes off, right, They see it,
post it, and then everybody starts to do it.
Speaker 4 (32:06):
Yes, And also other celebrity makeup artists are using her
strategy now and saying how much more flawless the application
is because basically, so Mary Phillips does everybody from like
Hailey Bieber, Kendall Jenner, She's Jennifer Lopez. She really has
this way of kind of making the makeup look less.
Like you know, there's like lines you can always see
sometimes people when they put bronzer on, they have like
(32:27):
lines and stuff that they don't blend well. This is
like the key to making it blend well. So basically
what she does is she uses liquid for this stuff.
So she puts on her liquid bronzer and the like
the concealer, right, she puts that on first, and then
she takes like a big brush to put on the
foundation and she just kind of smooths it all together.
(32:47):
Normally you do that in reverse, so she does it
the opposite way, and it just makes everything blend in
more and there's not any harsh lines, and it helps
you just look totally snatched, like Hailey Bieber and Kendel Jenner.
Like I literally just be like I'm more snatched than
ever these days.
Speaker 2 (33:03):
Snatched.
Speaker 4 (33:03):
Yeah, Like my face just looks snatched.
Speaker 2 (33:08):
Can that is that?
Speaker 1 (33:10):
That's good?
Speaker 4 (33:11):
Yes? You want to look snapnatched? Yeah, Like some like.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
There was a time in the time of time that
snatched was not a good thing.
Speaker 4 (33:21):
I thought, oh no, snatched is good now, and it's
you want to look snatched.
Speaker 8 (33:26):
M.
Speaker 5 (33:28):
All right.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
So if you were to put on what's that makeup
trend where you put your eye pencil to the side
and make your eyes.
Speaker 4 (33:36):
Can I oh, like the flare, isn't that?
Speaker 2 (33:39):
Wasn't that the trend to flare? The eye flare? Wasn't
that the trend?
Speaker 12 (33:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (33:42):
Is that still the trend? Snatched?
Speaker 1 (33:44):
But that's different. That's that's like your eye makeup versus
their found So you could.
Speaker 2 (33:47):
Do you could snatch both.
Speaker 4 (33:48):
You can do you can you can do it all.
And I'm not one to hop on any makeup trends
because I really just kind of do the same thing
every day and don't really change it up. But this
one felt like easy enough, and it was really easy,
and it makes such difference on my face.
Speaker 2 (34:01):
I just I don't want you to set me up familiar.
But if I say, if I like you complimented us earlier,
if I were to say to somebody in my life,
you look snatched, they're gonna say thank you.
Speaker 4 (34:09):
Thank you, Yeah, thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
Give it a try this weekend.
Speaker 2 (34:15):
Okay, all right, So Urban dictionary Snatched takes the place
of on fleek. It's the new on fleek snatch. Right examples, Girl,
your outfit is snatched, Your makeup snatched? Your makeup snatched? Honey? Yeah,
another one in a sentence. They just hated because I'm
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always snatched. I don't know if I could say that, like.
Speaker 4 (34:41):
Look, this is my face, look snatched.
Speaker 2 (34:43):
It's like, let's see, let's see if it works.
Speaker 4 (34:49):
Oh my gosh, who are you calling your mom?
Speaker 2 (34:53):
No, I'm not calling my mother. We'll see if anybody
picks up. Hello, Hey, you look snatched. Yeah, you know
what that means.
Speaker 8 (35:06):
I do know what that means.
Speaker 2 (35:11):
Zach is on the phone here for a second, Zach,
how are you hi?
Speaker 12 (35:14):
Good?
Speaker 8 (35:15):
How are you good?
Speaker 2 (35:16):
So you're calling about your relationship.
Speaker 8 (35:19):
Yeah. So my fiance, who we got engaged this past summer,
she doesn't seem interested in planning our wedding together, and
I'm just starting to get really nervous. It's coming up. Yeah,
it's coming up in June, and it's going to be
like a low key wedding like our We picked a
(35:40):
small venue. The only thing is we have to pick
all like the vendors, like the caterer, florist and whatever.
Anytime I try to sit down with her to book
things and plan out what we want to do, she
keeps avoiding me and saying she's busy.
Speaker 2 (35:56):
So you're nervous. Do you think she thinks that this
is not a good idea to get married?
Speaker 8 (36:02):
Yeah, that's what I'm afraid of.
Speaker 2 (36:03):
So you think she's blowing you off because she doesn't
want this to happen, that's what you think?
Speaker 8 (36:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (36:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (36:12):
Does she have her dressed? Has she planned bachelorette parties?
Like is bridal showers? Has that happened?
Speaker 8 (36:19):
She has her dress, her bachelorette party soon, the showers
also soon. It's just the actual details of the weddings
she keeps avoiding.
Speaker 1 (36:30):
Okay, this could be a weird coincidence.
Speaker 2 (36:33):
Okay, So I think that in life there are certain
things that present themselves where you have to have the hey,
what's going on here? Conversation? True, and this is one
of them. I mean it's it starts with, Hey, what's
really going on here? That's what it's doing. Yeah, no,
you haven't been paying attention. The wedding's coming. Were in
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this together. We're partners for life, right, right, So what's
really going on here? Those are the words you should use.
That's how you set the tone to get an honest answer.
Speaker 1 (37:04):
I'm telling you what Zach why do you what are
you truly feeling deep down?
Speaker 7 (37:13):
Zach?
Speaker 1 (37:14):
Do you really feel like she's having cold feet?
Speaker 8 (37:18):
Yeah, that's what I'm afraid of. I mean when I
proposed last summer.
Speaker 12 (37:23):
Like she was excited.
Speaker 8 (37:24):
We've talked about getting married. We've been together for five years,
so like what this kind of like turnabout is very
alarming for me.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
Zach. You should not waste another second on the phone
with us. You need to find your fiance and have
the hey, what's really going on here? Conversation?
Speaker 4 (37:39):
What if she's just not like a planner and she's.
Speaker 2 (37:41):
Then she's going to answer that when he asked that question,
you can't dodge that question, what's really going on here?
Speaker 5 (37:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (37:49):
This really stresses me out. I'm not good with this stuff.
Speaker 2 (37:52):
You just pick or or she'll say, look, I gotta
tell you I'm having cold feet, or I got to
tell you I'm nervous, or I gotta tell you I'm double.
You know, I'm overthinking it, but you gotta have that
conversations act now.
Speaker 1 (38:08):
Zach, he's thinking this is a lot.
Speaker 2 (38:11):
Oh, Zach, I think he's gone. You know there are
those you know in life, what's really going on here? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (38:21):
I mean, it's strange. I couldn't have planned my wedding faster.
Speaker 2 (38:24):
Like you ever felt like you've been played by someone
played like in business, yeah, in your work, in your job,
in relationships. Right, it's like, what's really going on here?
You gotta say that it's hard, it's hard to do,
but you gotta do it right.
Speaker 4 (38:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (38:44):
I got a bad feeling about that. FYI, I don't great. Good.
I hope you're right.
Speaker 4 (38:51):
Decisions like, I don't know, some people don't like doing that.
Speaker 2 (38:58):
Planning wedding.
Speaker 4 (39:00):
Yeah, I mean like the decision yeah, right, Like I
feel like you'd be there. You would react the same way,
not that you don't want to get married, but thinking
about it.
Speaker 2 (39:07):
If I were, If I were, if I were doing that,
then I would be way into the planning. You know
that I'd be so obsessed with the planning. But the
planning would be very easy because it would be just
no one a little except for us. If you have
kids in school and they've had homework assignments, please feel
free to call us to help us with the answers.
It's one o two point seven kiss FM. You know
(39:27):
it's interesting you bring this up because I have thought
about two things if I ever have kids, one sport,
teaching them how to play baseball, like I'm not a
great catcher, Like I like I like outdoor activity, and
I like tennis, and I like running, and I like hiking,
and I like climbing, and I like swimming. I like
those things.
Speaker 4 (39:48):
Climbing when the last time you climb, I've.
Speaker 2 (39:50):
Never really climbed, but I like it, Okay, Like rock climbing. Yeah,
I see that machine in the gym. I've never done it,
but I could do it. Yeah, but I think you know,
I was fine at football, was great at all at
basketball or baseball. But what if I had a kid
that wanted to go out and play basketball all the time.
I wouldn't be so good at So I worry about it.
Speaker 1 (40:08):
And then I also though, but there's instructors for that,
the instructor. Okay, then be the instructor.
Speaker 2 (40:15):
But I won't be so good. So I worry about that.
And I also worry about the fact that I didn't
finish college. So some of the questions they are going
to come to me with as kids in high school
or junior high school or elementary school, I may not
remember how to do or know how to do.
Speaker 1 (40:28):
That is going to be tricky?
Speaker 2 (40:30):
Is that what you're doing?
Speaker 5 (40:30):
Now?
Speaker 1 (40:31):
No, right now, this is kind of fun, but it's
more tedious. It's kind of time consuming.
Speaker 2 (40:34):
Well, you're gonna have three of them coming to you
first and right now, old math. Yeah, it's two out
the gates, algebra, all that stuff. So this is what's happening.
Speaker 1 (40:43):
Homework assignment is one hundred days Smarter And it said
it's our one hundred day of school and it's coming up.
And basically they have to make a poster with one
hundred things on the poster. Z. I would like for
each student to create a poster board using one hundred
items to share with the class. It can be any
theme that you would like. And they put some examples
(41:03):
on this sheet of something looks like a fish bowl
with a hundred little fish on there. This other poster
looks like it has I don't know, it looks like
a hot air balloon that has a hundred little balloons.
When's a basketball hoop? And I was going to pick
your guys's brains and think, well.
Speaker 2 (41:20):
Hold on, let me talk about this extras for a second.
All teachers are fantastic and they're you know, they're amazing.
But doesn't this teacher know that this is an assignment
for you? Like this is not I mean I'm looking
at this is First of all, I don't know if
i'd understand the assignment myself as an adult.
Speaker 4 (41:36):
Well, no, it's easy to understand, but like you can't
execute that as a child.
Speaker 2 (41:41):
No, that means you have got to go get gumballs
and a poster board and some glue and put a
hundred little gumballs on a poster board.
Speaker 1 (41:48):
That's if I choose to do that exact thing, which
I don't want to do. These thing these are just example,
and these are the examples.
Speaker 2 (41:53):
So I have to say, the pressure on the parrot
is real, right, So you have to be creative.
Speaker 1 (41:57):
And so you have to try to make it kind
of you know, Asa loves you unicorns, so what would
it be something maybe around unicorns? What do I do?
Max and likes dinosaurs and so I don't know. And
I also try to make it easy, but I don't
want to make it too easy. And it's just I
don't think it involved.
Speaker 2 (42:11):
Could we also have just celebrated the twenty days of summer?
Why the one?
Speaker 1 (42:15):
And then it's a step Further, once supposers are done,
I have to dress them up like they're one hundred
years old, so they have to they have to look
like old people.
Speaker 2 (42:25):
I think when the parents have to do the homework,
the kids shouldn't have the homework yet, right Like, it.
Speaker 4 (42:30):
Could be good, It would be cute if it was
if they actually had to do it and they had
to draw like a hundred gumballs or a hundred leaves.
But no, nobody's doing that, and it's always just gonna
it looks like adults did it, And I know I
think so too.
Speaker 1 (42:42):
Right now, they have homework like every other night, which
they're practicing their letters and all that. I don't help
them with that. They do that on their own. That's
real homework.
Speaker 2 (42:49):
This is a Science Fair project, if we're really being honest,
is from the kids. He's one of the hundred things
supposed to be a different thing.
Speaker 1 (42:56):
I think I will that's stage.
Speaker 2 (42:58):
You have to like it's every gumbuf to represent a
different idea or thought.
Speaker 1 (43:03):
That's a good question for every.
Speaker 2 (43:04):
Day that they're smarter on hundred days are smarter?
Speaker 1 (43:07):
I think that just has to be a hundred items
on the poster. So I don't think they have to
be the same items.
Speaker 2 (43:11):
Can you transfer the kids, yeah, can transfer them.
Speaker 1 (43:16):
No, Well, you got to finish up the year, all right.
Speaker 2 (43:18):
So what about a dinosaur. I'm many teeth they have
in the mouth, not a hundred?
Speaker 4 (43:22):
Well you do whatever this in the middle and then
like a hundred leaves around him or something.
Speaker 1 (43:28):
Oh, that's a good idea.
Speaker 2 (43:29):
No, make a dinosaur mouth one hundred teeth, fifteen fifty,
make a big mouth.
Speaker 10 (43:33):
No, I'd like that idea too.
Speaker 4 (43:36):
Then you can do a unicorn in the middle and
then a hundred clouds around her.
Speaker 2 (43:44):
I think dinosaur teeth are easier.
Speaker 1 (43:45):
I do like the teeth idea.
Speaker 2 (43:47):
I'm going to use that one day maybe, so circulate
it now so it's not a real.
Speaker 1 (43:51):
I'll pitch that to Maxim and see if he likes.
Speaker 2 (43:53):
I'm with you, though, like these things are like, hey, Michael,
so much for well if it were last Friday, right
when they come.
Speaker 1 (44:00):
In now, I don't know when this case anniversary to see,
like what when these messages come in? I just happen
to stumble upon this. I was like, oh my god, this.
Speaker 2 (44:09):
Is due Sisney's got this three times, not one, but
three times. You're gonna have to do. It's fun, all right, Well,
it's fun now that we've heard it out, now that
we've gotten off our chest.
Speaker 7 (44:19):
It's fun.
Speaker 1 (44:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (44:20):
I just want to grab Frank here as they move
my concessions around. Yeah, glass bottle of tea, which is
I'm thank you for asking. It's penalty and it's cool, fenalty,
not hot.
Speaker 1 (44:38):
That's refreshing.
Speaker 2 (44:39):
I had enough coffee already, so I'm shifting. And also
when people ask you, hey, how many cups of coffee
do you have? Do you lie no?
Speaker 1 (44:46):
Because it's usually zero or one, okay, every day.
Speaker 2 (44:49):
I think people probably say one lesson they actually have
every day because people ask me how many cups coffee
do you have? And I say two? And they say
what time you stop drinking? And I say, I tell
the truth.
Speaker 4 (45:00):
There you see none.
Speaker 2 (45:02):
No, I stopped mid morning, eight eight thirty I stopped.
Speaker 1 (45:05):
And then I see Michael can have coffee at like
ten pm n And I actually.
Speaker 2 (45:09):
Have a little resentment for those people because I want
to have coffee at the end of the day or
late in the afternoon, but then I can't sleep.
Speaker 1 (45:16):
Yeah, there's no way if it's past eleven for me,
I'm messed up, Frank.
Speaker 2 (45:21):
I apologize for you having to hear this kitchen chat. Okay,
are you a coffee drinker?
Speaker 6 (45:26):
Frank?
Speaker 5 (45:28):
I'm actually not a coffee drinker. I just distressed Martinez.
Speaker 2 (45:32):
But those are halfway fun exactly, all right. So there's
an issue with your ex girlfriend. How can we help?
Speaker 5 (45:40):
Yeah, so I need to know the balls in my
court here. Son's girlfriend and I broke up about a
year ago, just at different stages than our lives. It
is amicable. We have mutual friends, but we don't followed
on social media and all that. But the other day
she added me as a friend on Snapchat. This is
about you know, I said about a year and talked
(46:00):
Tom got on Instagram and added me to the close
friends story, which, look, I know that sounds kind of lame,
but that means something, right. Yeah, So anyway, I mean,
it seems a little odd for not to just text
me or or call, but to read on social and
I don't want to read too much into it, or
it seemed desperate, but I'm kind of curious, is it
is the ball in my court to reach over say.
Speaker 2 (46:22):
Something or yeah, this is a this is a street
sign here, saying all right, our green light. This is
definitely a blatant move to symbolize the fact that there
is an open door to something. I don't know if
it's friendship or patching up what happened. But you don't
(46:42):
just READD assuming you won't see it. You do READD
knowing you will see that and then expecting you to
reach out exactly. So I think this is a blatant
and strategic move It get you to reach out.
Speaker 5 (46:59):
Yeah, you're probably right what you want. I'm a proponent
of not getting back with XES, because what's that definition
of that? That's saying doing the same thing over and
over and expecting a different result.
Speaker 2 (47:09):
But Frank, nobody, nobody points follows through with not getting
back together with the next a couple of times, it
just doesn't happen.
Speaker 3 (47:16):
You know.
Speaker 2 (47:17):
Everybody whoever says that's not telling the truth either, right,
get you end up going back a couple of times,
either works out or doesn't.
Speaker 1 (47:25):
It's so funny you do that.
Speaker 4 (47:29):
Yeah, it's not reality for everybody.
Speaker 2 (47:31):
Yeah, it's totally reality for you.
Speaker 8 (47:33):
For you.
Speaker 2 (47:35):
Okay, let's not point the fore fingers everywhere, that's okay, Frank, Yeah,
I think here's the thing. She wants you to see it,
or she wouldn't have added you as a close friend. Now,
I think you have a complete opportunity here to reach
out and say hi, if you want, if.
Speaker 1 (47:50):
You want that exactly. That is the key right there.
It's whatever you want, the balls in your court.
Speaker 2 (47:54):
Like you said, Frank, all right, I'll do it all right,
good luck, Frank. Than have you guys never gotten back
together with an ex?
Speaker 7 (48:04):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (48:04):
One time, Sisney once, Tanya.
Speaker 4 (48:07):
Once and it really was high.
Speaker 2 (48:11):
Really yes? Why just done that?
Speaker 1 (48:16):
Door shut?
Speaker 2 (48:16):
Move on because you guys have like bad things happen.
Speaker 1 (48:20):
No, like what bad things always like?
Speaker 2 (48:25):
Don't like your exes afterwards?
Speaker 1 (48:27):
No, we just move on, like I'm usually the one
that breaks up with them, so I already know.
Speaker 2 (48:31):
The fact I don't like them, like you always say
that you don't want to be friends with.
Speaker 1 (48:34):
Them, like I'm done before they knew it was over.
Speaker 2 (48:37):
So you just played it long like a charade for
a while.
Speaker 1 (48:40):
Probably most likely probably I can't remember it was so long.
Speaker 2 (48:43):
That what day of the week or what reason did
you decide then to just cut it off? Like if
you're waiting so long?
Speaker 1 (48:47):
These were early relationships this is we're talking like high
school on or early college days.
Speaker 2 (48:52):
I mean, but I always, I always think that these
early relationships are the relationships that sort of set the
tone for how you're going to be later.
Speaker 1 (49:01):
Well, I'll tell you I got my heart broken later,
so I got it back once.
Speaker 4 (49:05):
That that's something you should put on your resume.
Speaker 2 (49:08):
Honestly, is that we need? You know? We don't, But
like once is golden?
Speaker 1 (49:13):
Once was enough and then I met Michael right after first.
Speaker 2 (49:16):
Once is enough, but most of us don't just get
once totally totally. Once was enough. That was Yeah, like
the three and four times not so fun?
Speaker 5 (49:24):
Is it?
Speaker 2 (49:25):
Gosh? Times that heart and shadow of there under your
g I Joe sweatshirt once, I think.
Speaker 4 (49:36):
Everybody here.
Speaker 1 (49:38):
But no, it's not about bragging. I just think that
I hold more of a guard.
Speaker 4 (49:42):
Up, like you know, like that's actually interesting, So.
Speaker 1 (49:45):
I didn't allow myself to fall that hard the previous man, like.
Speaker 4 (49:51):
You hold your heart in like a cage, and I
put mine on a poo poo platter.
Speaker 2 (49:55):
You don't know what poo poo platter is, doesn't know.
Speaker 4 (49:58):
In my mind, I'm imagining it like on a tray,
like just going like.
Speaker 2 (50:01):
Yeah, that's fine. It's to say like an appetizer.
Speaker 4 (50:03):
So this is actually interesting point. We might want to
put a pin in this.
Speaker 2 (50:06):
And what we always put a pin in and your
job is to bring the pins back up, but you
always to get the pins.
Speaker 4 (50:10):
So put it because maybe she's got she's got the
right way to like protect our hearts a little bit.
Speaker 2 (50:16):
Well, then put a pin in it and bring it
back up later.
Speaker 1 (50:18):
Okay, on air On Air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (50:26):
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From Hollywood.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
See you, thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 1 (00:03):
Ryan Air Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Sarah, good morning, How are you doing.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
I'm well, how are you guys doing?
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Doing well? So your single friend keeps responding to your
husband's workouts through their Apple Watches.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Yeah, so, like, you know, when you finish your workout,
if you're friends with people who also have the Apple
wash like to like the fitness app, they can see
that you finish and like those little automated responses will
come up and be like hey, like good job or
you know, just stuff to like kind of hype the
person up. Okay, every time he's yeah, every time he's
finishing a workout, she's sending him like, oh, like look
(00:42):
at you, you look great, like little fire emojis, and
it's like kind of coming off like kind.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Of flirty, and this is your friend.
Speaker 3 (00:50):
Yes, this is like both of our one of our
single girlfriends that we met in college.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
Does she do it to you when you finish workouts?
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Really, he'll do it to me, and like he'll take
screenshots of it and like show me what she's saying.
And he says that it's harmless, but it's still just
it's still bothering me.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
No, does she do it to you? Does she send
you good jobsge?
Speaker 3 (01:10):
Oh no, No, she does not. She's only sending him messages.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
And does she know? You know? I don't. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:17):
Because we've never said anything to her about it, because
he keeps saying it's kind of pointless and harmless. But
a part of me wants to bring it up to her.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
Well, listen, either she thinks that you're so comfortable with
her doing that that you wouldn't mind, or she's doing
this to fire you out, to wind you up.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
The fact that she's not sending you messages makes me
question the whole thing.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
I mean, look, if it's on your mind, it would
be on my mind too. I would definitely say, why
are you sending fire her emojis to my husband? And
she's gonna say, oh, I just was like, you know,
be nice. What do you say then? Don't be nice?
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Yeah, you don't need to be that nice looking good?
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Yeah, it's clearly gotten to you, and so to let
it fester would be a bad idea. You should bring
it up. It's not cool, as Disney said, if if
she's just doing it to him and not to you.
Then that's clearly her focus.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
Yeah, I agree, there's something fishy there, but's fire.
Speaker 2 (02:19):
Is flirting for sure, like you don't send Everybody knows
when you use fire, it's a flirt, right hot. You
don't use fire with your friends like I use fire.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
To my girlfriends, but I would never use it to
another guy because you know.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
The meaning fire. Everybody knows the meaning of fire, So
she knows what she's doing. Yep, you need to talk
to her, Sarah.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
All right, I definitely will know after this.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
Okay, thanks for con I mean there are just certain
emojis you kind of know that they are flirty and
not to cross like mixed message them.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Right.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
What are some of the other ones? Bless you, Tanya,
thank you so much. Like the purple cat? What is
that one?
Speaker 1 (03:02):
The purple cat? I mean, any of the kissy faces
of heart eyes anything, little heart flirty?
Speaker 4 (03:09):
I use this all the time.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
A heart eye one I probably would not send to
another guy.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Heard high one you would not send to another guy.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
That's one I've probably commented on your Instagram with like
hard eyes on stuff.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Yeah, but I don't read that.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
Okay, I'm still doing it. If it fall tree falls
in the woods and nobody hears it. Does the tree still fall?
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Yes, let me grab Rebecca who's on the line. Rebecca,
thank you for holding on there for five minutes. Sorry
about that. How are you pretty good?
Speaker 5 (03:37):
Thank you so much?
Speaker 6 (03:38):
Or actually, you know what, I'm not great because I'm
in a little bit of a dilemma. I'm hoping that
you guys can help me out.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
So you want some guidance here, what's the category?
Speaker 6 (03:49):
Yes, okay, So basically what happened is one of my
friends asked me to be a bridesmaid, and I'm just
not too sure how I feel about it. We met
in college and I have always like kind of kept
in touch, and she's really really sweet, like she'll always
come to birthdays and any like major events, like I
feel my boyfriend's surprise party and she came to that.
(04:11):
And she looks like an hour away in LA that's
like long distance. So she's always been really really sweet,
but I just I don't know for that close. And yeah,
I just think she's always been a better friend to
me than I've been to her. And she asked me
in a kind of an old way. She asked me
over text, and it's a destination wedding. So I just
I feel my boyfriend says, if it's not a hell yeah,
(04:33):
so no.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Well your boyfriend's right, I don't understand. So just so
I'm clear. Uh, this is the thing with weddings. They
get overly complicated and become uncomfortable. But if you're not
that close to this person, and clearly you're not that
interested in being there as a bridesmaid, then decline or
just and it's a destination. She's given you the out.
(04:56):
You can't make it. Oh but why would you always?
Speaker 4 (05:00):
How do you tell somebody you can't make their wedding?
Speaker 2 (05:03):
It's a destination.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Whatever it is can afford it, so.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
We can't afford it.
Speaker 6 (05:11):
That's the thing too. We just went to another destination
wedding recently.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
So, Rebecca, why would you put yourself through pretending you
want to be there if you really don't want to
be there? Explain that to me.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
That's true.
Speaker 6 (05:24):
I think it's because she's always been such a good
friend At any like major events, she's always been there.
She always gives the sweetest gifts, So there's really nothing.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
These are not.
Speaker 4 (05:34):
Reason Wait, you guys know, listen, this is what a
beautiful person to have in your life.
Speaker 6 (05:38):
That's thoughtful friend. I wish I loved her more, But
I don't know why I'm not thrilled. I think I
should be thrilled, but I'm just not really thrilled.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
She's not your vibe.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Put her out of her nursery and let her stop
giving you nice gifts because you don't really like her.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Yeah, I've been in this situation. Would I didn't go
to her wedding, and then that was basically the end
of our friendship.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
And that's all that you want, Rebecca. All right, Well,
I'm glad you called for advice here.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
All right, Well, thank you.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Your boyfriend the right move. Here's what she's doing, a
disservice to that other, to the bride by pretending to
like her because she's been there for her and given
her good gifts. Put the bride out of her misery thing.
And she's got a friend in Rebecca. But you start
weddings are a disaster in different ways.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
You start feeling it as you get older, because your
time becomes more precious, and so you don't want to
waste it on people that you don't like, that you
don't get along with. Tony, don't vibe with.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
How many brides maids are you going to have?
Speaker 4 (06:43):
You know, it's funny you ask it's funny.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
That funny, it's actually appropriate.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
No, I know because I've thought about it and I
feel like it'll probably be excuse me for for yeah,
probably four for yeah?
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Perfect? How many people are coming to this wedding?
Speaker 4 (07:00):
Well, I don't know. I mean that's TBD.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Well, let's one step at a time here, Okay.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Guys, you know I'll see something to be you know,
it'd be really funny when I ask you about that tomorrow. Allie,
thank you for calling in. So you are a frustrated caller.
Speaker 7 (07:14):
Very frustrated.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Did we do something wrong?
Speaker 8 (07:18):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Was it us?
Speaker 2 (07:19):
It probably was? Oh, Ali, do you see us on
a scale of one through ten? What number would you say?
We are.
Speaker 7 (07:28):
Absolutely a ten?
Speaker 4 (07:30):
Nice?
Speaker 2 (07:31):
You see see ten? When you say that, I can't
believe it.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
Now you should believe it.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
Yeah, that's the problem. All right, Well, Ally you're so.
It says here you are frustrated with your mother in law.
Why what happened?
Speaker 7 (07:44):
Well, I'm a new mom, and like a new mom,
I have a lot of frustrations. But I'm returning to work,
and I'm really thankful to live close to my mother
in law. She's only like ten minutes away, and so
the first couple of months she's been over a lot,
which has been great. So assumes when I went back
to work she would continue to help. She's retired, And
(08:07):
when I burshed the conversation, she said she didn't have
the time to commit. She couldn't help me watch the
baby during the day, which is very reasonable. She has
her own life, I understand. However, when I started work,
she kept coming over at random times during the week
to spend an hour here, an hour there. So she
has enough time to stop by unannounced and spend time
(08:30):
with my child, but doesn't have the time to commit
and watch her one day week for a couple of hours.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
So this is your child's dad's mom. Correct, Yes, I
defer to you on this. Imagine that, you know it's
so tricky.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
I think what she's trying to say is I don't
have the time to commit to a schedule, but because
I'm grandma, I can come over whenever I want, unannounced,
and that's just how it is. And I feel like
that is how it is.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
Do you know what the problem is though. The root
of everything is expectation, your expectation for your mother in
law to babysit, and maybe you release those expectations and
then you'll be pleasantly surprised with how much she's around.
What do you have right?
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Do you have a nanny or do daycare? How are
you doing childcare right now?
Speaker 7 (09:31):
I have it nanny. I have a full time nanny,
which has been great, and we you know, signed her
up and started working with her because my mother in
law said she didn't have the time. So I completely
understood her initial reasoning. But then when she comes over,
you know, for a couple of hours in the afternoon,
and then nanny has to accommodate her, that feels a
little frustrating to me.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Yeah, I'm with Ali. I would have a little resentment
with that too myself. I don't release expectation.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
How long has this been going on now?
Speaker 7 (10:01):
Just for like four or five months?
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Oh, four or five months? Okay, okay, So now that
it's been four or five months, I think it's time
to maybe have another conversation with your mother in law.
And it's simple. I think you can say, we've you know,
noticed that you come over a lot, which we love.
We love that you spend time with your grand because
a granddaughter, grandson, Yes, granddaughter, granddaughter. And so what we
(10:24):
were thinking was, is there any way that you could
commit to just one day or one consistent day. We
want to keep a consistent schedule with her so that
it's not so crazy for our nanny. And then she
can know when you're coming, whatever it may be. And
then that every Thursday from two to four she knows
that grandma comes and that's her time. And would that
(10:44):
be helpful, like I don't know, you know, And then
and then maybe that saves you guys a little bit
of money and you don't have to pay the nanny
that day or whatever it may be. And I'm you know,
maybe she'll rethink it.
Speaker 7 (10:58):
Or no, I think that is exactly what I'm.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
Gonna well, good luck. Ay. The other side of this,
which I think is maybe the most pragmatic, is she's
always going to drive you a little crazy and just
need to deal with it, you know, but try Sistney's
guidance first.
Speaker 4 (11:10):
Good luck all right.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
I mean, sometimes you have to realize, like somebody's just
gonna always get under your skin, and maybe this is
the she's doing this. Now she's gonna do something else,
but try to resolve it.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Yeah, I don't know. I'm just so lucky. I love
my in laws.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Well you anybody who loves everyone in their family, you're lucky.
I mean that loves. But like it's a long right,
Like if you get along with everyone on both sides
of a family, that is a blessing.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
It's a blessing, blessing, blessing, blessing.
Speaker 2 (11:40):
On air with the Ryan Seacrest, what do you think
the germiest part of the kitchen is? You are going
to roll over when you hear this?
Speaker 1 (11:49):
M the germy ist part. Well, I can think, like
your sponge is probably the germist I.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
Thought so too. My sponge is filled with might to
be trash can Okay, but hey can it's your spice rack. Oh,
bacteria is all over your spices. Here's why you make
a patty right, and you put a little whatever you
(12:14):
use from the spice rack, and your hands have touched
their ale meat and you don't ever wash those those shakers.
Your spices are the germiest part of the kitchen. Gross,
Well go clean.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
It, yeah, I will clean sure, Well.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Clean up the cub and the cinnamon, clean up the tarragon.
You're all cleaned up. Today's quote. Hopefully this is good
for you. If you are not speaking it, you are
storing it and that gets heavy.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
Yes, all right, okay, blinked on you.
Speaker 4 (12:51):
I really like that quote. It's very good.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
The headlines with Ruby Gonzales right.
Speaker 9 (12:58):
The Kardashian family and other well the La residents sent
gifts to the office of Mayor Karen Bass, but her
office sent them back.
Speaker 8 (13:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 9 (13:06):
Records show that Kim Kardashian attempted to send the mayor
a six hundred dollars goodie bag containing Kardashian branded hot sauce, liquor,
makeup items, and clothing. The city has strict rules regarding
gifts an elected official can receive to avoid misconduct, so
the gifts were sent back. A man issuing the Angels
after an outfielder allegedly threw a baseball into a crowd
(13:26):
during a game last summer and blinded him in his
left eye. Despite being immediately taken to UCI Medical Center
for surgery, the plaintiff says his eyeball was crushed and
he is now disfigured and Latinos are the number one
racial group in La County. Newly released data from the
US Census Bureau breaks down the largest racial groups for
places nationwide. Of the ten million people in the county,
(13:48):
four point eight million are Latino. According to the data,
Latinos are also the largest racial groups statewide.
Speaker 2 (13:55):
On there with Ryan Seacrest stuffing on TikTok? What is
cash stuffing? What is that?
Speaker 1 (14:03):
It's technically a new name but for an old school
money budgeting method once called cash envelope systems. So it's
all over TikTok right now. And it's kind of funny
because I think for gen zers they barely use cash.
For us, we grew up more using cash, especially in
our teen years and into our twenties. And so what
(14:23):
cash stuffing is. It's the process of only spending physical
cash on your expenses. So you pre divide everything that
you have, whether it's your utilities, your car expenses, things
like that, into different envelopes for the month. It's going
to prevent overspending and impulse buys, and it gives you
a set budget. So if you give yourself two hundred.
Speaker 2 (14:44):
Dollars empty, it's empty, right, Yeah, I.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
Give yourself two hundred dollars for food that week, and
then you got to dinner with your girlfriends, you spend
sixty bucks. Like that's you already spend sixty bucks for
the whole week and it's Monday, you know, or whatever.
So it's an interesting concept. I don't know if I
could do this, but I do spend mindlessly with my
credit card, and I think we all do.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
Anything tangible feels different. Anything tangible has an impact because
there's a visual, there's a tangibility to it. And with
online ordering and not you don't even have to swipe.
They just like take my chip or they just like
there's like there's like you're just wave it over the
thing and you're done nothing.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
I mean, we tip with the cards now, like we
don't even tip with cash anymore. It's just it's so
crazy how mindlessly we spend.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
When you're like, I'm thinking about when I lived with
Tanaz and Louis and everybody in the five roommate place, right,
that would have been a good system. That would have
been a good system because we were all split in utilities,
We're splitting different things. We were only going out to
eat when we could certain times a week and certain
amount of times a week, but you kind of you
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know what you're doing, and you're I was writing checks
and trying to bounce a check book, but it wasn't
great to balance my book. But this really, when you're out,
you're out, I know. So what you want to give yourself?
Speaker 4 (16:05):
Like one envelope on a Monday and you'd say, okay,
so this envelope is for dinners out this week?
Speaker 2 (16:10):
Yeah, you know right. I would want to treat myself
at the end of the week to go out for dinner.
But if I ordered in too many things during the week,
I wouldn't be able to go to the same place.
Speaker 1 (16:19):
Probably even if you ordered in, you would have to
use cash can right, that's your credit card, that's right.
Speaker 2 (16:23):
But I would order like I mean the Chinese chicken
salid from Chinchin with somebody ordered all the time, I'd
get it. Yeah, and that would go out of the
that would ding ding ding ding ding. I got it
to go out. What would be for the end of it?
It's not a I actually see why the concept works.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
Yeah, and all these you know, especially gen Z's, are
posting this on TikTok and showing how much they're saving
every single month, while like this person's been doing it
for like three years and she's like, look how much
money I've saved by doing this on air with.
Speaker 2 (16:50):
Ryan Seacret Marianna from the back room. Now, I don't
know if I should be alarmed or not, but I
saw now you are a generation what I think I'm in.
Speaker 10 (17:02):
The middle of gen Z and millennial?
Speaker 2 (17:04):
Like, okay, yeah, so you've quit all your social media,
so I need to check on your health. Are you
all right?
Speaker 4 (17:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 10 (17:09):
Oh my god? Trust me. TikTok was the hard one.
Speaker 2 (17:12):
How long did you? Why?
Speaker 8 (17:14):
Why?
Speaker 9 (17:14):
Why?
Speaker 2 (17:14):
Why? Why?
Speaker 10 (17:15):
I was spending way too much time.
Speaker 11 (17:16):
It's like been almost it's been two weeks, it's gonna
be three weeks.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Yeah. Now I'm thinking of you know, the age range
you're in. That seems like a drastic step. However, I'm
all here for it, Like, I think it's fantastic. How
are you doing?
Speaker 10 (17:31):
I'm doing good? I actually love that for me.
Speaker 11 (17:33):
I feel like, even though I do miss social media,
I don't know, it just feels good to not wake
up and the first thing to look at my phone,
you know, like to see what's going on, and you know,
it just feels good.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
So usually when people that we play on the radio
do that they've got a new album coming out. Do
you have an album coming out?
Speaker 10 (17:54):
As Taylor deletes all.
Speaker 11 (17:57):
Of her yeah, Lounge, I don't have an album coming out, unfortunately.
Speaker 1 (18:03):
But maybe a new relationship.
Speaker 2 (18:05):
Okay, can I let me go back? So you, Marianna,
is it right to say that there's this guy that
you had a crush on back in high school that
wanted to take you out and you were reluctant to
do so to go out with him?
Speaker 10 (18:17):
Yeah, I was.
Speaker 11 (18:17):
I didn't really want to go out with him because
he had a crush on my friends in high school.
And then he reached out to me and he was like, oh,
you know, I want to hang out with you. I
want to take you on a date because you glowed
up or whatever, and I was like, should I go?
Speaker 10 (18:30):
I don't know, it's kind of weird, you know.
Speaker 2 (18:31):
Well I remember, I don't remember actually my advice, but
I'm guessing it was go out with him. It was okay,
So did you did? And is that why you're on
there's no social media presence for you?
Speaker 10 (18:41):
No, I didn't do it because of that.
Speaker 11 (18:43):
Yeah, that was before before he decided to take me
on on a date.
Speaker 2 (18:47):
So, so how'd that go?
Speaker 10 (18:49):
The date went good?
Speaker 1 (18:50):
Actually, where'd you go?
Speaker 10 (18:52):
We went out to eat.
Speaker 11 (18:53):
We had Korean food, which I love food, so you know,
for me, it was like, okay, knows that I like food.
So we went out to eat, and then after that
we got boba and we walked around the area. We
were just talking and then after that we oh, we
saw the menu. We went back to his place and
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we saw the menu.
Speaker 10 (19:15):
But we got two rolls too.
Speaker 4 (19:16):
It's a long day.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
What time did you start? I like a long date.
But that's the extended.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
Version last guy that was limiting her on the amount
of wings that she ordered, So like this guy, two
rose the menu.
Speaker 2 (19:32):
It's like my favorite movie so far and it's real mass.
Speaker 6 (19:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 11 (19:34):
I was like, okay, I love this because we did
so many things in one day and it didn't feel
like it just.
Speaker 2 (19:40):
Because see that's how I like to date, right, Yeah.
I like to start at ten and make it a lunch,
an afternoon, a dinner and a movie.
Speaker 4 (19:48):
But what if it's horrible, then you're stuck. Well you
don't have to be stuck.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
Yeah, but if it keeps going, you know it's going well.
So what's the status? Are you going out again?
Speaker 10 (19:56):
I think so?
Speaker 1 (19:56):
Yeah, okay, this is cute.
Speaker 2 (19:58):
Four or five days at a time about this time. Indeed,
a week off date number two, she needs a week off.
Speaker 10 (20:05):
I was just kidding.
Speaker 11 (20:08):
No, yeah, I think we are going to go again.
I just don't know when that's exciting? To tell me
he is?
Speaker 2 (20:13):
How exciting is it that she was like reluctant a
few weeks ago and now she's on this three mil
date with of the Menu movie and wanting to go
out again. I don't want to ask what happened, but
Sistney does. What happened?
Speaker 1 (20:25):
Well, what do you mean like afterwards you guys kiss?
Speaker 10 (20:29):
We didn't kiss.
Speaker 2 (20:30):
You didn't know.
Speaker 11 (20:31):
So I've already been to his house like a lot
of times because men, jew I was friends with him,
like I've been friends with This is not a big step.
Speaker 10 (20:37):
Yeah exactly, so open house. Yeah, we didn't care.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
We'll pump the bricks.
Speaker 2 (20:41):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
Are we friend zoned right now?
Speaker 2 (20:45):
No? Not with that many different things in a day,
you sure on a date?
Speaker 4 (20:49):
It's like it was do we think do we know
for sure? This was a date? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (20:55):
Okay, he said?
Speaker 4 (20:56):
She glowed up wants to take her out.
Speaker 11 (20:58):
He's also I don't know if I'm messed up, because
when I was leaving, I told him, all right, my friend,
the worst.
Speaker 2 (21:06):
Thing you could say. I mean, that's like saying, oh
your bad breath, I'm not going to kiss you.
Speaker 10 (21:12):
I didn't mean to say that.
Speaker 2 (21:15):
I come out.
Speaker 10 (21:19):
I think that he actually wanted to kiss me.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
But I kind of just got shin when you say,
hey buddy, hey pal, thanks for the day, appreciate the
three meals and that great psycho thriller menu movie. All right, well,
here's the thing. We've all put our foot in our
mouth and said the dumb thing in the end. We've
all been in that moment where you say and you cringe. Right, yeah,
so is he asked you out again?
Speaker 11 (21:41):
We've been talking, but he hasn't yet. He's we've talked about, like, why.
Speaker 2 (21:45):
Don't you say, let's go do something.
Speaker 4 (21:46):
You know, I have the future, like the future, you
know what you can do on the next one that
can like really help bring it back. You can look
at his lips, you know, like look at them and
be like, what chaps to.
Speaker 2 (22:01):
The back room is just they've all fallen.
Speaker 4 (22:04):
Make a point to look at his lips and like
comment on them something.
Speaker 2 (22:08):
Look at how she's not blinking and looking at her lips.
That would make me definitely put him in the friend zone.
I put you in the friend zone a second. No,
will keep us posted. I liked it. There's some goodness
here and you should definitely like make it easy for
him to take you out again.
Speaker 10 (22:21):
Yeah, yeah, I should. All right, Okay, I'll keep you
guys updating.
Speaker 2 (22:23):
That to look at his lips and don't blink. You
can say that. I know, I'm just I'm talking to
you about Tanya. I think i'd be freaked out.
Speaker 4 (22:34):
No, what kind of chaptic is out? Your lips look great?
Speaker 2 (22:38):
No blink, no blink, no blink. I love hearing about
all the dating trials and tribulations of the back room
Air on Air.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
With Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
This is your boyfriend, my boyfriend, my boyfriend. Robbie's on
the line.
Speaker 1 (22:56):
Are you going to grill him?
Speaker 2 (22:57):
Grill? Please? No grill anybody?
Speaker 9 (23:00):
You up girl, anybody get grilled.
Speaker 1 (23:04):
You grow everybody.
Speaker 2 (23:06):
No, there's no grilling at all. Robbie. How are you?
I miss you? I'm not seeing any I know.
Speaker 12 (23:11):
It's been too well. First of all, thank you so
much for the beautiful wine for the holidays. That was
really nice. You can't wait to u to crack that open?
Speaker 2 (23:19):
Have you not had to yet?
Speaker 4 (23:20):
No, we're saving it for Yeah, oh.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
Great, it's uh, it's biodynamic cabernet. You're gonna love it.
Speaker 12 (23:27):
Well, No, we had it. We had it at our
dinner and we loved it, and so we're excited to
have it again.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
I served it to you at the house.
Speaker 4 (23:36):
That's right listening.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
So, Robbie, I know your age, I should say, I
know how much wisdom you carry. And I felt like,
you know when when you're when you're a man with
your wisdom who's been on the planet and seen so much,
you're kind of set in certain ways with certain ceremonies.
And Tanya told me that the two of you have
decided to quit coffee. And the reason the reason I
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bring it up is because Sissy and I are bothered
by it, because she's a little edgy.
Speaker 1 (24:05):
Yeah, we have to, you know, we have to deal
with all of the side effects and her withdrawals of
her not having coffee in the morning. And she's snapping
at us.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
Like kind of mad at us if we don't agree,
And so.
Speaker 12 (24:19):
What does she do. She's being she's being snappy.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
Yeah, she's snappy, like she yelled at me the other day,
and then she like takes everything out on us. And
I think by the time she gets home to you,
she's probably had time to like calm down. Yeah, I
get it all out and then she's perfect for you.
But like we get this like.
Speaker 4 (24:37):
Raw, Tanya.
Speaker 12 (24:40):
No, it doesn't sound like her.
Speaker 2 (24:43):
No, that's the point. It doesn't sound like her, which
is why we know something changed. Then she said, funny,
you asked Robbie and I both quit coffee.
Speaker 12 (24:51):
No we haven't. We haven't quit yet. It's uh, it's
currently under discussion. So here's what happens. I get a
little background.
Speaker 2 (24:57):
Here, please, all right.
Speaker 12 (24:59):
So, uh, we were in bed the other night looking
at childhood photos of Ryan on her phone and.
Speaker 6 (25:10):
Kid.
Speaker 12 (25:11):
All right, So first of all, first of all, this
cop this our mostning coffee is one of our time
in my greatest joint in life. Okay, So like whether
we make it at home, you know, we have a
great coffee machine. She makes the most amazing all the
note going to go to our favorite coffee shop. It's
truly one of our greatest joys. So she comes to
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me the other day a couple of days ago, and
she says, I'm meaning off of coffee. And I was shocked.
I didn't understand what was going on, and said, what
we know why? And so there's another thing, which I
think you guys know. So she she was recently diagnosed
as Hashimoto's disease, and so as a result of that,
we're trying to do everything anti inflammatory. Right, so like
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anything that we eat, it's supposed to be an anti
inflammatory diet, et cetera, et cetera. So she said, she
aims to me that coffee is inflammatory. Now clean she
like declared, she declares it.
Speaker 5 (26:07):
She knew that.
Speaker 12 (26:08):
She was like, coffee is inflammatory, so we got to
cut it out. So I was shocked because I actually
had heard that coffee is antime planatory. But she said
some times like okay, well with the inflammatory, I'm out.
Let's go. We're getting out. Let's get into the macha game.
We like, we like went online. We found like this
beautiful ten piece macha set. It's coming today. We bought
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this amazing ceremonial lacha like we're going to become macha people.
But then yesterday I was like wait, let me get
like google this, let me see, let me see if
this coffee thing, this anti exlammatory thing, and the pilimacty
thing is really the case. So I googled it yesterday
and every article is about how coffee is actually anti inflammatory.
(26:52):
So I sent her all yeah, yeah, so I sent
her all these links and now it's deeply under discussion,
so no decision has been made yet.
Speaker 2 (27:02):
Great, where did this misinformation come from? Doney that all
this sudden you don't trust everything they say because you're
and I'm worried for you, Robbie, you don't want to
quit coffee at this time in life.
Speaker 12 (27:17):
No, no, agree, it's too late for me.
Speaker 5 (27:18):
That's just exactly.
Speaker 2 (27:20):
That's like, I mean, that's a that's a big deal.
So tunny. If if he's right in his research, and
I trust it that it is anti inflammatory, why wouldn't
you start back up for all of us, for the
love of the Lord, Yeah.
Speaker 4 (27:36):
We yeah, we're back on. We're discussing were we to discuss?
Speaker 2 (27:40):
You're supposed to be anti flammatory? Done?
Speaker 8 (27:43):
Done?
Speaker 4 (27:43):
But what did this girl mean? This guru girl.
Speaker 2 (27:45):
What did it mean?
Speaker 12 (27:46):
Just right now? Yeah?
Speaker 6 (27:47):
What?
Speaker 12 (27:48):
What?
Speaker 5 (27:48):
What?
Speaker 12 (27:48):
What do you know about it being inflammatory.
Speaker 4 (27:51):
All I know is this woman looks like she's twelve,
and she doesn't drink coffee alcohol, and she goes about
at eight thirty.
Speaker 2 (27:58):
All right, Robbie, Well, thank you for the back on.
Con Text is always important.
Speaker 1 (28:01):
Yeah, and research, good research, well done.
Speaker 12 (28:04):
Yeah, anytime. I'll keep you guys up there.
Speaker 2 (28:06):
Enjoy the Macha ceremony, sayd, I wouldn't give it up
showing me all.
Speaker 4 (28:14):
These articles about how it's anti inflammatory.
Speaker 2 (28:17):
Share some mornings with Macha and share some other mornings.
Speaker 4 (28:19):
With okay, in moderation. Moderation might be the key, because
I drink like three cups a day.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
Oh my gosh, so maybe just cut back.
Speaker 2 (28:31):
I like that. Robbie's on board. He accepted your misinformation
and decided to order a ten piece ceremonial matcha kid.
I mean, this guy's invested. Oh so next week will
be easier for us listening here.
Speaker 1 (28:46):
Lifts the gods.
Speaker 2 (28:49):
I have the bat line to Robbie. I'll make sure
there's some coffee in that.
Speaker 1 (28:52):
Woe.
Speaker 4 (28:52):
Not been snappy on air with Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 2 (28:59):
So. I was actually out with Georgia the other day
and I saw other dogs and I started thinking, I wonder,
because what happens if I let George off the leash
and there's another dog. Sometimes the other dog's parent throws
the ball yeah to both my dog that we don't
know and their dog.
Speaker 1 (29:16):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (29:17):
And I always feel like, Okay, I get a break
from throwing the ball. But then after the ball has
been thrown, I go thank the person right, and then
I start I walk away, and I think should have
gotten their number, because maybe Georgia and that dog should
be out here more often playing balls.
Speaker 1 (29:31):
Yeah, yeah, like they should have a relationship, like Georgia
should have friends.
Speaker 2 (29:36):
Georgie has sat me down before and give me the look.
But this is a so is it a dating app?
So that dogs can find dogs that are similar and
play with them.
Speaker 1 (29:45):
It's essentially socializing for both pets and their owners. So yeah,
but I don't know if it's for everybody. I I
personally don't know that I could do it. So if
you go on the app Store and you search for
this app, it's literally called Doggie. It's like Doggy huge,
but then underneath it really small. It's a style, So
the app is called Doggy Style.
Speaker 4 (30:06):
Uh huh cute?
Speaker 2 (30:09):
I mean I see the back room laughing at that.
Speaker 4 (30:15):
It's a plan where.
Speaker 1 (30:19):
I was reading this article and it says like millennials
are more likely to have a pet now and save
getting married and buying a home and raising a family
and having kids and all that. And it's like I
did it, Like I had to code it for six
years before I did any of that stuff. And so
I feel like, and it's just like having a dog
is like the first step before you do any of
that stuff.
Speaker 2 (30:40):
I think people.
Speaker 1 (30:42):
I think so too, and especially in some towns and
some cities that don't have dog parks or maybe they
don't have dog beaches and things like that. So this
bills you a little community. So you go on this
app and then you essentially swipe for another dog and
and then you match and then you meet up. It's
kind of weird.
Speaker 2 (31:01):
It's like dog dating, but it's human dating.
Speaker 4 (31:04):
No, it's for dogs, but it's for.
Speaker 2 (31:05):
Dogs like humans that have to make this.
Speaker 1 (31:08):
It could be like me and Tanya, Like I'm not
interested in Tanya. It would be like I would be
interested in her dogs for Dakota, No, I.
Speaker 4 (31:15):
Know, I don't like this because all of Suddy's friends
are like far away and I can never let them together.
Speaker 1 (31:20):
A picture of Sonny and then you say that's a
mass Yeah, that'd be a match for Dakota, and I'd
be like, oh, I really think they would get along,
and so we lets meet at a park.
Speaker 4 (31:31):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (31:32):
It's so cute. It's like, what are we doing?
Speaker 2 (31:39):
There's a famous makeup artist that's used everything that you
have in your makeup bag and she's she's reorganized the
order of application and it's become a hot thing. Is
that as close to correct as I can go?
Speaker 4 (31:52):
Yes? And not just like the hot thing it is,
it is the thing, like it is the thing right now.
You can't I can't scroll for more than five minutes
without somebody talk about the Mary Phillips makeup technique trend and.
Speaker 2 (32:03):
This is how it takes off, right, They see it,
post it, and then everybody starts to do it.
Speaker 4 (32:06):
Yes, And also other celebrity makeup artists are using her
strategy now and saying how much more flawless the application
is because basically, so Mary Phillips does everybody from like
Hailey Bieber, Kendall Jenner, She's Jennifer Lopez. She really has
this way of kind of making the makeup look less.
Like you know, there's like lines you can always see
sometimes people when they put bronzer on, they have like
(32:27):
lines and stuff that they don't blend well. This is
like the key to making it blend well. So basically
what she does is she uses liquid for this stuff.
So she puts on her liquid bronzer and the like
the concealer, right, she puts that on first, and then
she takes like a big brush to put on the
foundation and she just kind of smooths it all together.
(32:47):
Normally you do that in reverse, so she does it
the opposite way, and it just makes everything blend in
more and there's not any harsh lines, and it helps
you just look totally snatched, like Hailey Bieber and Kendel Jenner.
Like I literally just be like I'm more snatched than
ever these days.
Speaker 2 (33:03):
Snatched.
Speaker 4 (33:03):
Yeah, Like my face just looks snatched.
Speaker 2 (33:08):
Can that is that?
Speaker 1 (33:10):
That's good?
Speaker 4 (33:11):
Yes? You want to look snapnatched? Yeah, Like some like.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
There was a time in the time of time that
snatched was not a good thing.
Speaker 4 (33:21):
I thought, oh no, snatched is good now, and it's
you want to look snatched.
Speaker 8 (33:26):
M.
Speaker 5 (33:28):
All right.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
So if you were to put on what's that makeup
trend where you put your eye pencil to the side
and make your eyes.
Speaker 4 (33:36):
Can I oh, like the flare, isn't that?
Speaker 2 (33:39):
Wasn't that the trend to flare? The eye flare? Wasn't
that the trend?
Speaker 12 (33:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (33:42):
Is that still the trend? Snatched?
Speaker 1 (33:44):
But that's different. That's that's like your eye makeup versus
their found So you could.
Speaker 2 (33:47):
Do you could snatch both.
Speaker 4 (33:48):
You can do you can you can do it all.
And I'm not one to hop on any makeup trends
because I really just kind of do the same thing
every day and don't really change it up. But this
one felt like easy enough, and it was really easy,
and it makes such difference on my face.
Speaker 2 (34:01):
I just I don't want you to set me up familiar.
But if I say, if I like you complimented us earlier,
if I were to say to somebody in my life,
you look snatched, they're gonna say thank you.
Speaker 4 (34:09):
Thank you, Yeah, thank you so much.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
Give it a try this weekend.
Speaker 2 (34:15):
Okay, all right, So Urban dictionary Snatched takes the place
of on fleek. It's the new on fleek snatch. Right examples, Girl,
your outfit is snatched, Your makeup snatched? Your makeup snatched? Honey? Yeah,
another one in a sentence. They just hated because I'm
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always snatched. I don't know if I could say that, like.
Speaker 4 (34:41):
Look, this is my face, look snatched.
Speaker 2 (34:43):
It's like, let's see, let's see if it works.
Speaker 4 (34:49):
Oh my gosh, who are you calling your mom?
Speaker 2 (34:53):
No, I'm not calling my mother. We'll see if anybody
picks up. Hello, Hey, you look snatched. Yeah, you know
what that means.
Speaker 8 (35:06):
I do know what that means.
Speaker 2 (35:11):
Zach is on the phone here for a second, Zach,
how are you hi?
Speaker 12 (35:14):
Good?
Speaker 8 (35:15):
How are you good?
Speaker 2 (35:16):
So you're calling about your relationship.
Speaker 8 (35:19):
Yeah. So my fiance, who we got engaged this past summer,
she doesn't seem interested in planning our wedding together, and
I'm just starting to get really nervous. It's coming up. Yeah,
it's coming up in June, and it's going to be
like a low key wedding like our We picked a
(35:40):
small venue. The only thing is we have to pick
all like the vendors, like the caterer, florist and whatever.
Anytime I try to sit down with her to book
things and plan out what we want to do, she
keeps avoiding me and saying she's busy.
Speaker 2 (35:56):
So you're nervous. Do you think she thinks that this
is not a good idea to get married?
Speaker 8 (36:02):
Yeah, that's what I'm afraid of.
Speaker 2 (36:03):
So you think she's blowing you off because she doesn't
want this to happen, that's what you think?
Speaker 8 (36:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (36:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (36:12):
Does she have her dressed? Has she planned bachelorette parties?
Like is bridal showers? Has that happened?
Speaker 8 (36:19):
She has her dress, her bachelorette party soon, the showers
also soon. It's just the actual details of the weddings
she keeps avoiding.
Speaker 1 (36:30):
Okay, this could be a weird coincidence.
Speaker 2 (36:33):
Okay, So I think that in life there are certain
things that present themselves where you have to have the hey,
what's going on here? Conversation? True, and this is one
of them. I mean it's it starts with, Hey, what's
really going on here? That's what it's doing. Yeah, no,
you haven't been paying attention. The wedding's coming. Were in
(36:54):
this together. We're partners for life, right, right, So what's
really going on here? Those are the words you should use.
That's how you set the tone to get an honest answer.
Speaker 1 (37:04):
I'm telling you what Zach why do you what are
you truly feeling deep down?
Speaker 7 (37:13):
Zach?
Speaker 1 (37:14):
Do you really feel like she's having cold feet?
Speaker 8 (37:18):
Yeah, that's what I'm afraid of. I mean when I
proposed last summer.
Speaker 12 (37:23):
Like she was excited.
Speaker 8 (37:24):
We've talked about getting married. We've been together for five years,
so like what this kind of like turnabout is very
alarming for me.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
Zach. You should not waste another second on the phone
with us. You need to find your fiance and have
the hey, what's really going on here? Conversation?
Speaker 4 (37:39):
What if she's just not like a planner and she's.
Speaker 2 (37:41):
Then she's going to answer that when he asked that question,
you can't dodge that question, what's really going on here?
Speaker 5 (37:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (37:49):
This really stresses me out. I'm not good with this stuff.
Speaker 2 (37:52):
You just pick or or she'll say, look, I gotta
tell you I'm having cold feet, or I got to
tell you I'm nervous, or I gotta tell you I'm double.
You know, I'm overthinking it, but you gotta have that
conversations act now.
Speaker 1 (38:08):
Zach, he's thinking this is a lot.
Speaker 2 (38:11):
Oh, Zach, I think he's gone. You know there are
those you know in life, what's really going on here? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (38:21):
I mean, it's strange. I couldn't have planned my wedding faster.
Speaker 2 (38:24):
Like you ever felt like you've been played by someone
played like in business, yeah, in your work, in your job,
in relationships. Right, it's like, what's really going on here?
You gotta say that it's hard, it's hard to do,
but you gotta do it right.
Speaker 4 (38:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (38:44):
I got a bad feeling about that. FYI, I don't great. Good.
I hope you're right.
Speaker 4 (38:51):
Decisions like, I don't know, some people don't like doing that.
Speaker 2 (38:58):
Planning wedding.
Speaker 4 (39:00):
Yeah, I mean like the decision yeah, right, Like I
feel like you'd be there. You would react the same way,
not that you don't want to get married, but thinking
about it.
Speaker 2 (39:07):
If I were, If I were, if I were doing that,
then I would be way into the planning. You know
that I'd be so obsessed with the planning. But the
planning would be very easy because it would be just
no one a little except for us. If you have
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It's one o two point seven kiss FM. You know
(39:27):
it's interesting you bring this up because I have thought
about two things if I ever have kids, one sport,
teaching them how to play baseball, like I'm not a
great catcher, Like I like I like outdoor activity, and
I like tennis, and I like running, and I like hiking,
and I like climbing, and I like swimming. I like
those things.
Speaker 4 (39:48):
Climbing when the last time you climb, I've.
Speaker 2 (39:50):
Never really climbed, but I like it, Okay, Like rock climbing. Yeah,
I see that machine in the gym. I've never done it,
but I could do it. Yeah, but I think you know,
I was fine at football, was great at all at
basketball or baseball. But what if I had a kid
that wanted to go out and play basketball all the time.
I wouldn't be so good at So I worry about it.
Speaker 1 (40:08):
And then I also though, but there's instructors for that,
the instructor. Okay, then be the instructor.
Speaker 2 (40:15):
But I won't be so good. So I worry about that.
And I also worry about the fact that I didn't
finish college. So some of the questions they are going
to come to me with as kids in high school
or junior high school or elementary school, I may not
remember how to do or know how to do.
Speaker 1 (40:28):
That is going to be tricky?
Speaker 2 (40:30):
Is that what you're doing?
Speaker 5 (40:30):
Now?
Speaker 1 (40:31):
No, right now, this is kind of fun, but it's
more tedious. It's kind of time consuming.
Speaker 2 (40:34):
Well, you're gonna have three of them coming to you
first and right now, old math. Yeah, it's two out
the gates, algebra, all that stuff. So this is what's happening.
Speaker 1 (40:43):
Homework assignment is one hundred days Smarter And it said
it's our one hundred day of school and it's coming up.
And basically they have to make a poster with one
hundred things on the poster. Z. I would like for
each student to create a poster board using one hundred
items to share with the class. It can be any
theme that you would like. And they put some examples
(41:03):
on this sheet of something looks like a fish bowl
with a hundred little fish on there. This other poster
looks like it has I don't know, it looks like
a hot air balloon that has a hundred little balloons.
When's a basketball hoop? And I was going to pick
your guys's brains and think, well.
Speaker 2 (41:20):
Hold on, let me talk about this extras for a second.
All teachers are fantastic and they're you know, they're amazing.
But doesn't this teacher know that this is an assignment
for you? Like this is not I mean I'm looking
at this is First of all, I don't know if
i'd understand the assignment myself as an adult.
Speaker 4 (41:36):
Well, no, it's easy to understand, but like you can't
execute that as a child.
Speaker 2 (41:41):
No, that means you have got to go get gumballs
and a poster board and some glue and put a
hundred little gumballs on a poster board.
Speaker 1 (41:48):
That's if I choose to do that exact thing, which
I don't want to do. These thing these are just example,
and these are the examples.
Speaker 2 (41:53):
So I have to say, the pressure on the parrot
is real, right, So you have to be creative.
Speaker 1 (41:57):
And so you have to try to make it kind
of you know, Asa loves you unicorns, so what would
it be something maybe around unicorns? What do I do?
Max and likes dinosaurs and so I don't know. And
I also try to make it easy, but I don't
want to make it too easy. And it's just I
don't think it involved.
Speaker 2 (42:11):
Could we also have just celebrated the twenty days of summer?
Why the one?
Speaker 1 (42:15):
And then it's a step Further, once supposers are done,
I have to dress them up like they're one hundred
years old, so they have to they have to look
like old people.
Speaker 2 (42:25):
I think when the parents have to do the homework,
the kids shouldn't have the homework yet, right Like, it.
Speaker 4 (42:30):
Could be good, It would be cute if it was
if they actually had to do it and they had
to draw like a hundred gumballs or a hundred leaves.
But no, nobody's doing that, and it's always just gonna
it looks like adults did it, And I know I
think so too.
Speaker 1 (42:42):
Right now, they have homework like every other night, which
they're practicing their letters and all that. I don't help
them with that. They do that on their own. That's
real homework.
Speaker 2 (42:49):
This is a Science Fair project, if we're really being honest,
is from the kids. He's one of the hundred things
supposed to be a different thing.
Speaker 1 (42:56):
I think I will that's stage.
Speaker 2 (42:58):
You have to like it's every gumbuf to represent a
different idea or thought.
Speaker 1 (43:03):
That's a good question for every.
Speaker 2 (43:04):
Day that they're smarter on hundred days are smarter?
Speaker 1 (43:07):
I think that just has to be a hundred items
on the poster. So I don't think they have to
be the same items.
Speaker 2 (43:11):
Can you transfer the kids, yeah, can transfer them.
Speaker 1 (43:16):
No, Well, you got to finish up the year, all right.
Speaker 2 (43:18):
So what about a dinosaur. I'm many teeth they have
in the mouth, not a hundred?
Speaker 4 (43:22):
Well you do whatever this in the middle and then
like a hundred leaves around him or something.
Speaker 1 (43:28):
Oh, that's a good idea.
Speaker 2 (43:29):
No, make a dinosaur mouth one hundred teeth, fifteen fifty,
make a big mouth.
Speaker 10 (43:33):
No, I'd like that idea too.
Speaker 4 (43:36):
Then you can do a unicorn in the middle and
then a hundred clouds around her.
Speaker 2 (43:44):
I think dinosaur teeth are easier.
Speaker 1 (43:45):
I do like the teeth idea.
Speaker 2 (43:47):
I'm going to use that one day maybe, so circulate
it now so it's not a real.
Speaker 1 (43:51):
I'll pitch that to Maxim and see if he likes.
Speaker 2 (43:53):
I'm with you, though, like these things are like, hey, Michael,
so much for well if it were last Friday, right
when they come.
Speaker 1 (44:00):
In now, I don't know when this case anniversary to see,
like what when these messages come in? I just happen
to stumble upon this. I was like, oh my god, this.
Speaker 2 (44:09):
Is due Sisney's got this three times, not one, but
three times. You're gonna have to do. It's fun, all right, Well,
it's fun now that we've heard it out, now that
we've gotten off our chest.
Speaker 7 (44:19):
It's fun.
Speaker 1 (44:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (44:20):
I just want to grab Frank here as they move
my concessions around. Yeah, glass bottle of tea, which is
I'm thank you for asking. It's penalty and it's cool, fenalty,
not hot.
Speaker 1 (44:38):
That's refreshing.
Speaker 2 (44:39):
I had enough coffee already, so I'm shifting. And also
when people ask you, hey, how many cups of coffee
do you have? Do you lie no?
Speaker 1 (44:46):
Because it's usually zero or one, okay, every day.
Speaker 2 (44:49):
I think people probably say one lesson they actually have
every day because people ask me how many cups coffee
do you have? And I say two? And they say
what time you stop drinking? And I say, I tell
the truth.
Speaker 4 (45:00):
There you see none.
Speaker 2 (45:02):
No, I stopped mid morning, eight eight thirty I stopped.
Speaker 1 (45:05):
And then I see Michael can have coffee at like
ten pm n And I actually.
Speaker 2 (45:09):
Have a little resentment for those people because I want
to have coffee at the end of the day or
late in the afternoon, but then I can't sleep.
Speaker 1 (45:16):
Yeah, there's no way if it's past eleven for me,
I'm messed up, Frank.
Speaker 2 (45:21):
I apologize for you having to hear this kitchen chat. Okay,
are you a coffee drinker?
Speaker 6 (45:26):
Frank?
Speaker 5 (45:28):
I'm actually not a coffee drinker. I just distressed Martinez.
Speaker 2 (45:32):
But those are halfway fun exactly, all right. So there's
an issue with your ex girlfriend. How can we help?
Speaker 5 (45:40):
Yeah, so I need to know the balls in my
court here. Son's girlfriend and I broke up about a
year ago, just at different stages than our lives. It
is amicable. We have mutual friends, but we don't followed
on social media and all that. But the other day
she added me as a friend on Snapchat. This is
about you know, I said about a year and talked
(46:00):
Tom got on Instagram and added me to the close
friends story, which, look, I know that sounds kind of lame,
but that means something, right. Yeah, So anyway, I mean,
it seems a little odd for not to just text
me or or call, but to read on social and
I don't want to read too much into it, or
it seemed desperate, but I'm kind of curious, is it
is the ball in my court to reach over say.
Speaker 2 (46:22):
Something or yeah, this is a this is a street
sign here, saying all right, our green light. This is
definitely a blatant move to symbolize the fact that there
is an open door to something. I don't know if
it's friendship or patching up what happened. But you don't
(46:42):
just READD assuming you won't see it. You do READD
knowing you will see that and then expecting you to
reach out exactly. So I think this is a blatant
and strategic move It get you to reach out.
Speaker 5 (46:59):
Yeah, you're probably right what you want. I'm a proponent
of not getting back with XES, because what's that definition
of that? That's saying doing the same thing over and
over and expecting a different result.
Speaker 2 (47:09):
But Frank, nobody, nobody points follows through with not getting
back together with the next a couple of times, it
just doesn't happen.
Speaker 3 (47:16):
You know.
Speaker 2 (47:17):
Everybody whoever says that's not telling the truth either, right,
get you end up going back a couple of times,
either works out or doesn't.
Speaker 1 (47:25):
It's so funny you do that.
Speaker 4 (47:29):
Yeah, it's not reality for everybody.
Speaker 2 (47:31):
Yeah, it's totally reality for you.
Speaker 8 (47:33):
For you.
Speaker 2 (47:35):
Okay, let's not point the fore fingers everywhere, that's okay, Frank, Yeah,
I think here's the thing. She wants you to see it,
or she wouldn't have added you as a close friend. Now,
I think you have a complete opportunity here to reach
out and say hi, if you want, if.
Speaker 1 (47:50):
You want that exactly. That is the key right there.
It's whatever you want, the balls in your court.
Speaker 2 (47:54):
Like you said, Frank, all right, I'll do it all right,
good luck, Frank. Than have you guys never gotten back
together with an ex?
Speaker 7 (48:04):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (48:04):
One time, Sisney once, Tanya.
Speaker 4 (48:07):
Once and it really was high.
Speaker 2 (48:11):
Really yes? Why just done that?
Speaker 1 (48:16):
Door shut?
Speaker 2 (48:16):
Move on because you guys have like bad things happen.
Speaker 1 (48:20):
No, like what bad things always like?
Speaker 2 (48:25):
Don't like your exes afterwards?
Speaker 1 (48:27):
No, we just move on, like I'm usually the one
that breaks up with them, so I already know.
Speaker 2 (48:31):
The fact I don't like them, like you always say
that you don't want to be friends with.
Speaker 1 (48:34):
Them, like I'm done before they knew it was over.
Speaker 2 (48:37):
So you just played it long like a charade for
a while.
Speaker 1 (48:40):
Probably most likely probably I can't remember it was so long.
Speaker 2 (48:43):
That what day of the week or what reason did
you decide then to just cut it off? Like if
you're waiting so long?
Speaker 1 (48:47):
These were early relationships this is we're talking like high
school on or early college days.
Speaker 2 (48:52):
I mean, but I always, I always think that these
early relationships are the relationships that sort of set the
tone for how you're going to be later.
Speaker 1 (49:01):
Well, I'll tell you I got my heart broken later,
so I got it back once.
Speaker 4 (49:05):
That that's something you should put on your resume.
Speaker 2 (49:08):
Honestly, is that we need? You know? We don't, But
like once is golden?
Speaker 1 (49:13):
Once was enough and then I met Michael right after first.
Speaker 2 (49:16):
Once is enough, but most of us don't just get
once totally totally. Once was enough. That was Yeah, like
the three and four times not so fun?
Speaker 5 (49:24):
Is it?
Speaker 2 (49:25):
Gosh? Times that heart and shadow of there under your
g I Joe sweatshirt once, I think.
Speaker 4 (49:36):
Everybody here.
Speaker 1 (49:38):
But no, it's not about bragging. I just think that
I hold more of a guard.
Speaker 4 (49:42):
Up, like you know, like that's actually interesting, So.
Speaker 1 (49:45):
I didn't allow myself to fall that hard the previous man, like.
Speaker 4 (49:51):
You hold your heart in like a cage, and I
put mine on a poo poo platter.
Speaker 2 (49:55):
You don't know what poo poo platter is, doesn't know.
Speaker 4 (49:58):
In my mind, I'm imagining it like on a tray,
like just going like.
Speaker 2 (50:01):
Yeah, that's fine. It's to say like an appetizer.
Speaker 4 (50:03):
So this is actually interesting point. We might want to
put a pin in this.
Speaker 2 (50:06):
And what we always put a pin in and your
job is to bring the pins back up, but you
always to get the pins.
Speaker 4 (50:10):
So put it because maybe she's got she's got the
right way to like protect our hearts a little bit.
Speaker 2 (50:16):
Well, then put a pin in it and bring it
back up later.
Speaker 1 (50:18):
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