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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us
Air on air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Flipping through my feed and I saw this one wanted
to bring it to you, guys.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
One of two point seven kids set up.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
But hopefully no one in this room has ever had
any career regrets, right I career.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Regrets, no, no regrets at all.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Fortunately we kind of picked the path that we're lucky
to be on and have a job that is not
really a job.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
Yeah, but I'm sure you have regrets of things in
your career that you wish you would have tried to
different different yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Timing, sure, But all in all, I feel lucky that
this is our job. Why do you think I've done
this for twenty years? Same in other stations, right yeah.
Uh so think about that if it happened to you,
and if you're just like new and young and starting
out in the workforce, listen to this. Don't make the
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same mistakes that a lot of people say they made.
In fact, from Generation Boomers to Generation Z, the number
one career regret not asking for a raise. That's the
one career regret that across the board, all ages, looking back,
young and wise have had asking for it because hard
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to do sometimes, and you also don't want the hurt.
The feeling you think about having if someone denies you
that and how it makes you feel about your own
value is all a bunch of hurt.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
And I take it personally, right, hunter take.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Step any even Like remember when we used to have
to sit in a program director's office and they play
back tapes of us. It's called an air check meeting. Yeah, yeah,
that thing they tell you all the bad things you
do on the air. How do I not take it personally?
I took it personally.
Speaker 5 (01:48):
I have my time, hated.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Myself after those things. Really. Oh yeah, I used to
beat myself up.
Speaker 5 (01:54):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
I would cry during those during it as constructive criticism, and.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
In this of this skin Nope, I didn't take it
as that. I took it as personal attack. I did anyway.
So So also on the list not prioritizing work life balance,
I guess a lot of people after they've done it,
they say, wait, I wish I would have spent more time.
I think now today more and more people are trying
to after COVID, especially trying to make that a priority.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
I agree.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Also, staying at a job for a long time.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Guilty, Well, I think we're biased in that sense.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
No, this is the one we want to do for
forty years.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Yeah, exactly, we made it.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
How about not speaking up in a meeting. I find
this to be I mean I do it now, but
I think for a long time, I don't want to
say anything. Or when they ask you're a manager, asked
you a question, you don't want to you don't want
to ask anything. I had to do a zoom for
iHeart with the sales It wasn't with some salespeople from
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other parts of the country, and they were asking questions
like someone from iHeart was asking questions to.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Me like a pan totally and in front of like
all these salespeople, like what can we do differently to
execute blah blah blah exactly.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
And then I actually at the end they said, would
you like to ask the crowd here of people anything.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
They weren't I Heart salespeople.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
They were outside salespeople or something like that, and we
were advertising people. And they said, yeah, tell me, what
are your greatest challenges? What's on your mind?
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Oh, your greatest challenge fifty people, not one person's spook, right,
what could we do differently in the company.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
No, it wasn't. It wasn't even that.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
It was just like general And I thought, oh my gosh,
I've asked a question no one wants to answer. But
no one really wants to speak up and out, you know,
or they just wanted the meaning to be over, which
I'm totally fair. But those are things, just like it
is interesting after you work for a while you go
back and look at these similar things that you wish
you would have done. So think about those if you're
starting out, or if you're at that place where you've
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been thinking about a career move or a raise, ask
go for it. Don't have to always play it safe.
Uh okay Siciny lot of people are talking about AI constantly,
but this is something very seemingly useful that has to
do with fashion and AI and how you dress yourself.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Yes, so I don't know about you. When when I'm
online shopping, I you know, see the models wearing whatever,
the dress or the shirt that I would probably want
to buy, but then I'm like, how is that going
to look like on me? And it looks great on her,
but how it look on me? Well, now, the next
time you shopping on Google you might see a little
tag that says virtual try on, and essentially it's going
to be an AI model, But you can go through.
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I think they have eighty different models that you can
choose from, and they'll all have different body types, different ethnicities,
different in just so that you can maybe find a
model that resembles your body type, and then they put
the clothes on that model virtually.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
So I think it's great. But if it's AI, why
can't they just put it on me and let me
see me?
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Maybe this is like the first step, but.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Because like, right, if it's a it's all this AI
craziness technology I've been hearing about, then put it on
me right now.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
One thing might be if you put it on me,
I might not buy it?
Speaker 3 (05:08):
Right, Maybe that thing.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
On a model my size.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
There's a lot of models like walking around my size,
and there might be there are a lot of five
nine and a half models out there, Tanya.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Right right right, I'm sorry your five nine you're kind
of like mannequin body vibes.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
No, yeah, you are mannekin body, yes, Like the kids
are solid time.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
Like I feel like a little like everything looks great
on you.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Oh, being so nice to me it's supposed to be nice.
We did your photo shoot.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
It's actually do photo shoots together. And you see like
the twenty photos that we all took, and I'm like
blinking in one or my eyes are in Bryan's face,
like you're exactly the same in all twenty photos.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Can tell you why I want to be done. I
want to be over. So I just hold the one
look of it. They got it changing it up. So
what's this thing called.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
It's called virtual try on And I was actually on Google.
I was trying to see if I could find it,
but it probably will just depend on the company that
wants to use these as a feature. And so it'll
just kind of drape the clothes on it, It'll stretch
it and kind of just puld out all the wrinkles
and stuff like that. It's not they're actually not really
trying it on. It's like a digital imprint of the
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clothes on top of that model. But it gives you
a great idea, I think for me, I just I
I hate chopping online because I'll get it in at
home and then it doesn't fit right or it's too
tight in this area.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Figure out sizes online.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
I can't either I always I generally think I reach
for the stars and say medium, and I get it,
and I'm like, oh, I should have gotten this small.
Then I get into sad head, right, sad head kicks
in and all that. Well, it's a step into a
good direction. But really, if it's a I put me
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in the photo.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
In the close.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Yeah, and let me see how I look. Let's see
how I vibe with myself. Okay, I need to bring
in the back room. Mikayla.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
This might be interesting for you because you've got that
real interesting uh wow opening line from the guy that
was creepy and yeah, I think made made people not
want to be.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
On some still thinking about that line.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
In the line he said.
Speaker 6 (07:24):
If you're regularly taking birth control, you should match with me.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
That's what the guy said as an opening line on
hinge with people.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
It was hinge hinge.
Speaker 5 (07:34):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Well, Erica ETI. You might want to meet her, Mikayla.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
I'm excited.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
She's an online dating coach. She think everybody's excited. Hell,
online dating coach, Erica.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
And how you doing.
Speaker 7 (07:49):
I'm great, I'm glad you found me.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Wow, we listen this guy.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
We have a couple of staff members here who are
single and looking and are on different dating apps, and
it's really astonishing how tricky it can be and how
difficult it can be for starters. One of the pickup
lines that we heard here from a guy that was
reaching out to Mikhayela on Hinge was just weird and
creepy and you know, kind of made her run the
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opposite direction.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
So do you what do you? What do you do?
What is your work?
Speaker 7 (08:21):
Okay, so a good question. So I'm an online dating coach.
I help people with all aspects of online dating. So
think your profile, your pictures, the messaging, what do you say,
all the way to the point of the first date,
because that is where people struggle. And you know, it's
not rocket science on how to send a good message
or not, but when it comes down to it, people
seem to lose common sense sometimes. And so I guide
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people through that process because I really just want to
get them on dates and.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
Is the biggest or most important thing to do out
of the gate, just coming up with that initial way
of connecting.
Speaker 7 (08:54):
Yeah, I put people on what I call a how
are you cleans. I don't allow hey, how are you?
How is your day? How's it going. All you can
do is read the profile, find something anything in the
profile you want to comment on, and ask a question
about it. So like, for example, I just wrote for
someone this morning. A guy said he was a pilot,
and as you know, I suggested to her to write,
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were you one of those kids who was always playing
with Foy airplanes?
Speaker 3 (09:19):
Like?
Speaker 7 (09:19):
That's cute. It shows that you read the profile and
it gets the conversation started.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
I like that because how are you doing? What was
your daily I'm not so benign, right, But here's the thing, so, Carka,
let's say that one of us has your assistance and
your expertise helping us along.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Will I be a worst performer without you?
Speaker 2 (09:40):
I worry that, Like, okay, well my game's going to
go not as strong once you aren't with me.
Speaker 7 (09:45):
Well, also, way you can learn from everything I do,
so I do I can sort of my work. So
for some people, I do their work with them, which
is coaching. So they'll actually get on a zoom with me.
They'll share their screen and I will watch them twipe
and I will be very direct feedback when we're doing that.
Why are you picking this person? Why aren't you picking
this person?
Speaker 8 (10:03):
Right?
Speaker 7 (10:04):
And then for some people, as crazy as this sounds,
they do hire me to actually do the legwork of
the online dating for them. They want to go on
the dates that they don't want to do that work,
and so many people get stuck in the you know,
in the texting game and they can't actually get on
the date. I try to keep that conversation as short
as possible, because ultimately I just want to give people opportunities.
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I want to put them on dates. So if they're smart,
even when we're working together, they take all of the
tools that I provide. I give a lot of tips
and tricks like how to you know what words to
say to get to the dates faster. If they use
all of both on their own, great, And.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
You must check in with people when there's success. It's
got to feel pretty good if you help them out, it.
Speaker 7 (10:46):
Does feel pretty good. The most frustrating part of my job, though,
is that people love telling me when they go on
bad dates, and I won't really hear the books. So
I encourage people to tell me the good. But if
I'm going to give you one tip or trick or anything,
if your conversation is taking too long on the dating
apps and you just want to get to the date.
Just say to the other person, Hey, I'm really enjoying
our conversation. Where should we go from here?
Speaker 3 (11:09):
You will have a move where should we go?
Speaker 2 (11:11):
That's a good thing for us to use in our
meetings sometimes because they go long as well.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
Through all of that, that's a great through all it's
a great way of saying it. I loved is here.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
You can go on Instagram at a little nudge at
a little nudge on Instagram, and she can help you
out when it comes to the dating. Uh, Michael, hopefully
glean a little something there. I think somebody different. Oh,
I know, I wanted to ask you. We liked this one.
This is when we saw ranked as a great opening
line on a dating app. Okay, what's your go to appetizer?
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And when are we splitting it this weekend? Is that
too forward?
Speaker 7 (11:48):
I love it? It's it's horrible. It's a little forward.
And I would only write that if somebody actually mentioned
food in their profiles. Again, I mean, you want to
comment on something someone has written because it shows that
you actually read the profile. But what you just said
is clever and cute and still better than how's it going?
Speaker 2 (12:07):
Yes, thank you for coming on. I think we all
feel better about ourself right now. Okay, you take care
and good luck. I think the appetizer line people should
write it down and use it. I love you, I
love it, Tony's purpooing. All right, here is your morning hack,
and then I've got the quote of the day. First
the hack. It's interesting these are things that we are
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taught as kids, and a lot of parents still teach
their kids, and child experts say they shouldn't, They're not
in their best interest. And if you think about when
we were growing up, we always heard our parents say, hey,
it's rude to say no. It's rude to say no.
(12:49):
I remember hearing that. Of course, it's not rude to
say no. No is one of the most empowering words
in our vocabulary. Also, finish the food on your plate.
This was a big deal. I still feel this way.
Speaker 3 (13:04):
Same and I feel guilty leaving it at the restaurant.
I ask for a to go box because I feel
like I'm wasty.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
With something or was something wrong with your meal?
Speaker 2 (13:13):
You know, in the blue zones that we've talked about,
where people live the longest lo Molinda here in California
is one, then there's one in Italy and Japan. Around
the world, they say, stop eating when you're eighty percent full,
because that twenty percent's coming.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
You just don't know it yet.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
How do you know that though you feel it, well,
you're almost full and you could eat a little bit more,
but you when you're almost full, you are full. Your
brain just hasn't calculated it yet. Yes, it's not a delay.
But I too grew up where like, hey, you put
it on your plate, and also if you didn't eat it,
you'd have to sit at the table to finish it.
Speaker 3 (13:52):
I mean I kind of do that with my kids too.
They eat like nothing, and so I'm just like, can
you just take one more bite? Like one more bite?
It's like a battle, that's meal.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
I mean, if they're not eating, that's that's good.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
And the other one they say, if someone is picking
on you, it means they like you.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
Remember that, Oh yeah, yeah, the biggest one.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
They're making funny you only because they like you, not
the case.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
No, it sets you up for problems later in life.
So those are that's very interesting. Today's quote.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
You never really see how toxic someone is until you
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Speaker 3 (14:28):
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Lakers legend.
Speaker 1 (15:18):
On air with the Ryan.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Seacrets, good morning, it's great to be here. Think about
something we're grateful for, or many things were grateful for, right,
it's a good way.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
I woke up this.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
Morning just moaning in pain, tightened stiffness, okay, and then
I stretched and I said, you know, I'm grateful for
the moment I took to stretch nice, open it all up.
I think I'm gonna start doing hot pilates.
Speaker 3 (15:47):
Yeah. Can we please do it together?
Speaker 1 (15:49):
Okay? Can I just work out on my own?
Speaker 2 (15:51):
Yeah, I'm working it with Don Francisco, So let's all
do it together.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
I can invite him to hotts please. Where we're gonna
go wherever. I'll go wherever you want and find a
good one.
Speaker 5 (16:07):
I know tons of good ones.
Speaker 1 (16:08):
Can we do on a Saturday?
Speaker 5 (16:10):
Oh, Saturday? That makes it tricky? Okay?
Speaker 1 (16:12):
Okay, great, perfect Saturday it is.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
I'll figure it out.
Speaker 5 (16:15):
I'll figure it out. I'll figure it out, all right.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
Get back to us on it.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
Veronica's with us now, Veronica, I've got everybody in here.
We're all listening about your boyfriend. Tell us what's happening.
He's going to be teaching at an all girls college.
Speaker 9 (16:28):
Yes, he is.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Are you're worried.
Speaker 8 (16:32):
A little bit?
Speaker 10 (16:33):
I mean he's very attractive, and you know the very
typical hot teachers that you know is teaching in class,
and you know the girls are usually fawning over him.
Speaker 9 (16:48):
That's definitely most.
Speaker 10 (16:49):
Likely going to be the scenario.
Speaker 9 (16:52):
So I just don't know. I don't know what to do.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
Well, here's my first question. How much do you not
trust him that this makes you nervous? This is a
fundamental issue in the relationship in my mind, if you're
worried about him going to work at a place.
Speaker 11 (17:10):
Like this, yeah, I mean, he hasn't given me a
reason not to trust him.
Speaker 10 (17:16):
It's just I think I don't know.
Speaker 9 (17:19):
You know, obviously I don't have control over what other
girls do or him. You know, he's gonna do whatever
he like.
Speaker 2 (17:25):
He can't, I mean, you can't. I mean, you know,
talking about him, you're not trusting him in a relationship.
You're saying that he would violate policies as an employee.
Speaker 9 (17:37):
I mean, I don't think he would go.
Speaker 7 (17:39):
I don't think he would.
Speaker 9 (17:40):
I'm just saying the setting, you know, is obviously very difficult.
Like I said, you know, he's going to be surrounded
by all these girls, you know, and they might you know,
try and flirt with him or you know, act a
certain way, And I just I don't know, is.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
It jealousy or trust at the issue? Is that? What
issue is?
Speaker 3 (18:02):
It sounds like both.
Speaker 9 (18:05):
Yeah, I mean maybe a little bit of both.
Speaker 2 (18:08):
I don't know, jealousy, Okay, trust something that's a real
issue in your relationship that if you don't have it,
then forget where he works.
Speaker 3 (18:20):
You don't have trust, okay, No, but it shouldn't matter
where he works.
Speaker 4 (18:24):
But this could be not necessarily an issue in your relationship.
This could be a you issue. Do you know your
attachment style?
Speaker 5 (18:29):
By chance?
Speaker 9 (18:32):
I don't.
Speaker 5 (18:33):
I would look into it because you might be.
Speaker 4 (18:36):
No, you should definitely do the test because you might
be insecurely attached, which is just stuff that is in you.
It's like rooted in you from deep childhood things, and
it projects itself into your relationship in different ways. And
I think maybe getting to the root of that and
explaining that to him maybe will help him understand you
a little bit better. And it's not like you're saying
I don't trust you.
Speaker 5 (18:56):
I don't you know.
Speaker 4 (18:57):
It's just saying I have this insecurely attacked matched thing
that goes on inside me and it's being projected right now.
So I just want you to know that. But I
do trust you, and I love you, and I just
want you to know what's going on inside me.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
Yeah, that sounds like Honestly, I was like, is this
you talk all the time like it's like full therapy
session everything.
Speaker 4 (19:17):
No, I think learning your attachment is so fascinating.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
Sitting down, sitting you down, they during a fight or
something that is like, we need to talk about our attachment, kitty.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
It is great advice if you can handle it, right, Yeah.
Speaker 9 (19:32):
I mean I definitely do want to.
Speaker 11 (19:35):
I mean, obviously I've been in a relationship with them
for three years, so I think I definitely need to
kind of take that next step and you know, talk
to them about it. I think he'll definitely be willing
to listen to me. So it's just kind of something
that I gotta work on myself.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
All right, Well, take Tanya's approach. It's a good one.
It's a thoughtful one, and it's one he'll understand. Yeah,
and thank you for listening. Good luck, keep us posted
if we can do anything else.
Speaker 11 (19:57):
Okay, thank you?
Speaker 1 (19:58):
How nice?
Speaker 2 (20:00):
I mean, really you as if you've taken that clock
you went to that in a good way. Yeah, that's beneficial.
I think that is very good advice if you have
the patience to do it.
Speaker 4 (20:08):
Because I think a lot of the time we project
a lot of stuff that's inside us. And I think
when you really get to learn who you are and
how you deal with situations, it's like easier to express
that to your partner, and then neither one of you
take it personal.
Speaker 3 (20:21):
It doesn't come usually until you're a little bit older.
Speaker 7 (20:23):
One.
Speaker 1 (20:23):
Yeah, I might learn that one year.
Speaker 3 (20:25):
Take take the test.
Speaker 5 (20:26):
I'll send it to you.
Speaker 3 (20:27):
Say never.
Speaker 2 (20:27):
Okay, I'm just trying to go to a hot yoga
class on a Saturday with you, one step.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
At a time. Over there, tea rad Can we get
into a second date update?
Speaker 10 (20:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (20:36):
Right, we've got some uh worried about the advice non
attached here. Let me grab Aaron. So Aaron reaches out
to us. He's like, well, I can need some help here.
I went on his date and here's the deal. So
he met an amazing woman in San Francisco, right, he says,
I live in that area.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
We had an amazing weekend together date date date.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
We immediately made plans for him to come visit her
in La I was supposed to spend a week at
her place, but three days after she ended it Aaron,
good morning. We've all sort of been in situations like
this on one side of the other. So you're talking
to uh, some folks with familiarity. But what happened like
and how did she say it's over in the middle
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of the trip?
Speaker 12 (21:15):
Oh man, like three days in she just said, I
don't think this is going to work out. And that
was pretty much it. There wasn't much of a discussion.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
Did you find.
Speaker 2 (21:23):
Generally people feel things. Did you feel anything off during
this day?
Speaker 12 (21:28):
Absolutely nothing.
Speaker 13 (21:29):
Nope.
Speaker 12 (21:30):
We were having a great time, great time. We went
like the Holy she wasn't there like we No, I
guess not. I mean I thought it was great. We
went to Disneyland, we we did, went to Getty, Getty Center,
just all the iconic places that you go with go
in LA And I just was with her, so it
was it was great to me. I had a blast
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and we were talking. We're getting along.
Speaker 1 (21:54):
But she give you any reason why she ended it.
Speaker 12 (21:58):
She said her landlord apparently had like an issue with
long stay people, like long stay friends or something like that.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
Yeah, when I when I was the renter of an apartment,
I couldn't have multiple guests.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
Stay over.
Speaker 3 (22:14):
For I did this once guy, and it was it
was truly just because I got the ick. So I'm
wondering if you're ready to hear what you might not
want to hear.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
He is he reached out to us, But I'm all right,
so Aaron, hold on, We're going to find out why
she broke it off in the middle.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
What the assistance is?
Speaker 3 (22:36):
The ick was, Yeah, I meta got in Vegas and
then brought him back.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
I'm not bad.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
Yeah, all right, she's an Encino.
Speaker 1 (22:45):
Let's see if we can link this up. It's a
second day update.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
Can we get Miranda and Encino to explain why she
dropped him off in the middle of the week. I
need to grab Miranda right now so we don't lose her.
It's been a whole for a few minutes. Miranda, thank
you for coming on. Uh hold on one second, Okay,
right there, I'm doing a second date update to you listening.
I just want to tell you that I forgot to
say that before I got right because I don't want
(23:09):
to say we're in the middle of second date up there,
but didn't want to tell her that, right, So we've
got I got it, Aaron, I screwed this whole thing up, Aaron. Aaron, Sorry, Aaron,
I'm trying to rush this. She doesn't hang up because
I feel like.
Speaker 1 (23:19):
She might Aaron. We got Miranda should be quiet and
on't say anything. Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
So he lives in San Francisco. She invited him. They
met one to date. She says, come stay with me
for a week. It's gonna be great. Three days in,
she says, you're out. It's not working out. Yeah, he
has no idea.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
He said it was great, It's perfect.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
I don't right here we go all right, Sorry, Miranda,
thanks for holding Sorry about the way. So we're calling
you on the air here at Kiss FM about a
guy named Aaron who came to stay with you from
San Francisco. Does that make sense?
Speaker 8 (23:47):
You are?
Speaker 2 (23:47):
Why why did you go out with a guy named
Aaron invite him to stay with you in l I?
Speaker 6 (23:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (23:54):
And how did it go?
Speaker 14 (23:58):
I mean like we had a good time, like for
the weekend. I was in San Francisco for a bachelorette
party and that's how we met, and it was the time.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
How was to stay with you when he came down?
How'd that go?
Speaker 14 (24:14):
I mean, like we all make mistakes, so.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
It didn't go. We understand that he was supposed to
be there for a week.
Speaker 3 (24:21):
Was he so he made a mistake while he was
with you.
Speaker 14 (24:25):
Yeah, I would say it was a mistake. It definitely
turned me off. He wasn't there for the whole week.
He only stayed for a couple of days.
Speaker 2 (24:34):
And did you tell him to leave sooner than you
thought he was gonna leave?
Speaker 14 (24:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (24:39):
And do you want to tell us why?
Speaker 13 (24:42):
I mean, I just.
Speaker 14 (24:43):
Barely knew him, and I just realized like he wasn't
for me.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
But who invited him to stay with you?
Speaker 3 (24:50):
I invited him, Okay, so you.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
Knew it could go either way when you bring somebody
in for about I say, a long period of time.
Speaker 3 (24:59):
But she didn't mean to like suck it up and
finish out the week even though she's not into him,
and be like I did the same thing.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
What was the mistake he made?
Speaker 15 (25:07):
Like?
Speaker 14 (25:07):
Okay, I was feeling it at first, but then he
was like he was smoking weed in my car and
I have a nice car, so it was super gross
and I just realized, like, this is not the type
of guy that I want in my life.
Speaker 1 (25:21):
Did he ask you if you could smoke the week?
Speaker 14 (25:23):
Not only that when he was in the car, he
was posting on Instagram acting like my car was his car,
and that was a huge dick.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
What do you mean? All right, well, what do you
mean he made people think it was his car? What
do you do? How do you do that?
Speaker 14 (25:40):
Because he was posting on Instagram acting like the car
that he was in with his and it was driving
it's mine, it was my car.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
So do you want to go out with him again? Ever?
Speaker 2 (25:50):
No?
Speaker 8 (25:51):
No?
Speaker 1 (25:52):
Do you want him to know this is why you
blow him off?
Speaker 14 (25:57):
I mean I just stopped talking to him. I don't
think I necessarily like I wouldn't like divulged all of this.
I just stopped talking to him.
Speaker 1 (26:06):
Well what do you mean, Aaron?
Speaker 12 (26:14):
Yeah, yeah, you said yeah, you said weed wasn't you
didn't you were cool with weed? And I don't. I mean,
I'm really I didn't I had.
Speaker 2 (26:23):
Did you did you post there? Did you post that
it was your car on Instagram?
Speaker 13 (26:27):
No?
Speaker 3 (26:28):
It was.
Speaker 12 (26:29):
I mean it's a nice whip like really nice car.
I don't have one like that. So I posted a
lot of pictures of the car because it was nice.
But I mean, it was us in the car. It
was me in the car. It was the car. It
was you know, it was part of the part of
the whole trip, the.
Speaker 3 (26:44):
Cool car part of the LA weekend.
Speaker 14 (26:46):
I really I didn't like that you were posting on
social media when we were together, and like, it's okay
that you smoke weed, but I'm more of like an edible,
like I take edible like you're smoker, and I just
didn't realize how much and it was just a turn off.
Speaker 1 (27:07):
I'm totally uncomfortable. That's why i'm quiet.
Speaker 12 (27:11):
Yeah, I'm uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (27:14):
Okay, let's let's end this uncomfortableness.
Speaker 2 (27:16):
Then, I think so soon, Miranda, it's not going to
work out. That's our view. I think you would agree
with that, and good luck. We appreciate you Miranda coming
on to tell the story. And Aaron, thank you for
listening and reaching out. I think you're gonna find somebody
that fits you both perfectly.
Speaker 12 (27:29):
Yeah, I hope so.
Speaker 6 (27:32):
Shoot, than I really appreciate it a.
Speaker 10 (27:35):
Pleasure meeting you.
Speaker 7 (27:36):
But I can't believe you called kiss FM to track
me down and you gave me the ache and this
isn't even bigger.
Speaker 14 (27:43):
So have a great life.
Speaker 1 (27:45):
Oh wow, Okay, bye, guys. Life life is dark, have
a great day. Life is harsh.
Speaker 3 (27:51):
Yeah, all right, I don't think she.
Speaker 2 (27:53):
Is, well, fine, should we call the guy from all
those years ago that gave you the itck and let
him know what happens?
Speaker 3 (28:02):
Oh my gosh, No, he like hates me. He wanted
me to pay for his flight because he was from
New York and so he's like, you owe me for
the fly. Afterwards, yes, afterwards he was like so mad
at me.
Speaker 4 (28:16):
Honestly, I'm impressed that you guys like kick them out.
I just suck it through the whole.
Speaker 1 (28:21):
I would the same.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
Yeah, like anytime, even if I have something with like
hair in it at a restaurant.
Speaker 3 (28:29):
You'll still eat.
Speaker 1 (28:31):
And they asked me, how's the meal.
Speaker 2 (28:33):
I'm like, it's great, it's great, perfect, And I just
pulled curly hair out.
Speaker 3 (28:40):
I kind of know what you mean.
Speaker 1 (28:42):
Yeah, I don't ruin anybody's day.
Speaker 3 (28:43):
Yeah, you can deal with it.
Speaker 1 (28:44):
It's hair, right, we'll pe okay.
Speaker 2 (28:48):
So Tanya Scott has taken the kind of attached, insecure,
secure person.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
Are you to your spouse?
Speaker 5 (28:55):
Yeah, it's your attachment style, right, So.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
She said, if you can figure out your attachment style,
are are you insecure?
Speaker 1 (29:00):
Are you secure? Are you void? What was the other one?
Speaker 5 (29:03):
Avoidant?
Speaker 2 (29:03):
Avoidant? Then it's going to move mountains in your relationship.
So yeah, that going on on one plate, right, I'm
still not done with it, Disney saunters in here with
this one. It's going to help you create better friends.
All the different trends and tests, we're just gond have
the greatest relationships of all time romantic and friendship.
Speaker 3 (29:24):
That's true, true, So go ahead.
Speaker 2 (29:26):
What is this sixth besties theory on TikTok? When it
comes to friends?
Speaker 1 (29:29):
Now?
Speaker 3 (29:29):
Well, and I think this one because friendships are something
that like, as you get older, they're more difficult to keep.
People move away. You're not you know. I think in
high school and college your friends are your world. You know,
you see them every day, they live down the house.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
I always thought the friends I was going to school with,
we would never not see each other every day exactly,
would always live in the same place exactly.
Speaker 3 (29:51):
And life happens, people move away, and you really have
to make an effort. So a lot of people think
and they expect so much out of a friendship, and
that might be your problem. You expect too much out
of a one person and they can't fulfill all of
these needs for you. So that's with this six bestie
theory on TikTok kind of went viral, and when you
break it down like this, I'm like, oh, this makes sense.
(30:12):
So what you're supposed to have is six different types
of besties. So these are the six that you should
have to really kind of like balance out with your friends.
Speaker 1 (30:22):
Six best friends. Is that a problem.
Speaker 4 (30:25):
Because I think like some of your one of your
friends could could be two of these.
Speaker 3 (30:29):
Maybe yeah, but but having one person be all six
is like, there's that would be crazy. So one of
the besties that you should have is a dead body bestie. Okay,
so this person is a no judgment friend. You can
tell them anything, any major screw up, you can go
to them and they.
Speaker 1 (30:46):
Will probably have one of those yes.
Speaker 3 (30:49):
Okay, here's the good time bestie, the perfect plus one
who is always down for a fun night and adventure.
That's like Nelson for me.
Speaker 2 (30:57):
But it's not a bestie, he's my best friend. Oh well, sorry,
you have a few best friends that I've heard about
over the last twenty year.
Speaker 3 (31:06):
But this is the thing. So these are like I
all have.
Speaker 1 (31:09):
Different You plug and you plug and play for fun
for him.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
Right. Then there's the work bestie, someone who already knows
all the work drama, and then you can discuss more
of it like off slack theory, similar ambitions bestie, So
the friend who is on a similar journey as you.
Sure this is Don Francisco for you. For me, you
have the og bestie, someone who knows your biography like
(31:35):
it's their own. They know you like the you know
the back of their hand. And you guys are just
og bestI is that's like Tasa. For me, we go
back to like middle school. And then your north star bestie,
the ultimate bestie who fully sees you like almost like
your twin flame.
Speaker 2 (31:50):
Okay, I need to take this down at three, and
people need to double up because this is way too
many best.
Speaker 4 (31:56):
No, like like the north start, my north Star bestie
is like my good time best It's the same girl.
But they would she would be my good time bestie
and my north star.
Speaker 2 (32:04):
But so let me take Kurt, right, Let's see God
buddy Kurt, So Kurt, dead body, busty bestie. All right,
I'm reading your thing here, doesn't okay? Yeah, he could
be that good time he's that work. No he's not
that No, he's not that similar ambition. No, no, you're different.
Speaker 3 (32:22):
O G.
Speaker 2 (32:23):
Yeah, he's that north Star. Hey, I don't know if
he's a north Star.
Speaker 5 (32:28):
So he does.
Speaker 2 (32:29):
So we covered a couple bases there. All right, Well,
who's our best friend here? Let's talk about our work
besties while we're on it. I don't want to point.
Speaker 3 (32:36):
Fingers like Tubbs is yours?
Speaker 1 (32:39):
You think Tubbs is mine? You don't think y'all's is mine.
Speaker 3 (32:41):
No, I think you and Tubbs have like this weird
like bond.
Speaker 1 (32:45):
Why do you think that?
Speaker 3 (32:47):
I think just because you are listening smiling about it.
I don't know. It's like the closeness that you two
share and like this bronus.
Speaker 5 (32:55):
Yeah, you guys have a bromance.
Speaker 1 (32:56):
Well, we just don't have to speak so nice.
Speaker 3 (32:59):
Well that's the thing. It's like he knows what you're
thinking without you even have literally nodding his head.
Speaker 1 (33:04):
Yes, you guys, I have to speak. I have to talk,
yes myself.
Speaker 15 (33:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (33:08):
And there's a lot of emotions being besties with Tanya
and I. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (33:12):
Oh, thank you for recognizing that.
Speaker 3 (33:13):
I mean, look, we're a lot. Thank you.
Speaker 2 (33:17):
Like Tubbs is just chill waiting for this day. Good morning,
Los Angeles, Orange County. I'm grabbing Jasmine on the phone. Here, Jasmin,
good Morning's Seacrest, it's Tanya, it's Cistin.
Speaker 1 (33:27):
It's the back room. Even Tubbs is listening.
Speaker 8 (33:30):
Hey guys, good morning.
Speaker 1 (33:32):
Got our attention. How are you doing this morning?
Speaker 8 (33:35):
You know it's a great day to be alive, and uh.
Speaker 2 (33:38):
Yeah, I agree with you. Of all the days to live,
I like this one because we got it.
Speaker 8 (33:44):
Right now, and that's all that matters is right now.
Speaker 2 (33:47):
I'll look at you with the positive spirit. Got my
spirit stick. I love that.
Speaker 1 (33:51):
It's so good.
Speaker 8 (33:52):
I got stuff to start with you that. I don't
know if it's too positive, but I want to try
to make it positive or make okay.
Speaker 1 (33:58):
What's going on in Silver Lake? How can we help?
Speaker 4 (34:00):
All right?
Speaker 8 (34:01):
Ryan ain't true. Here's the deal. I'm a girl's girl.
I mean here skin nails that they mean everything to me.
So here's the hair affector. I needed a last minute
haircut and I forgot to get my employment. So you know,
I ran into my girls to salon where my girl
is and unfortunately she wasn't there. So there was another
(34:24):
woman I ended up sitting with who did my hair.
And here's the kickers. She did a way better job than.
Speaker 13 (34:32):
My normal girl.
Speaker 1 (34:34):
You're feeling guilty and a.
Speaker 8 (34:36):
Lot of guilt. But here's the thing, Like, I pay
my money, I want to get great service in the
best service at that, you know. So all is well.
I get in the chair, she cuts my hair. I
love it. It's fabulous. So as I'm leaving out of
the salon, guess who I see.
Speaker 3 (34:53):
Your other hairstack girl?
Speaker 8 (34:55):
No, my girl. So there was like a awkward exchange
for a second, and she was like, oh hey, and
it wasn't me, but it wasn't too nice. And I
were with you.
Speaker 2 (35:09):
When you were with the substitute hairstyle and you ran
into your main hairstylist.
Speaker 8 (35:15):
Exactly, That's exactly what happened. Wait, Ryan, listen, I tried
to get an appointment with her. I tried to go
at the last minute, but she wasn't there. So what
was I.
Speaker 13 (35:23):
Supposed to do?
Speaker 5 (35:24):
But then that's fine, Yeah, totally fine.
Speaker 1 (35:26):
Yea, I was going to know that she was too
booked up for you.
Speaker 3 (35:28):
That's a weird, well, because she's price surprised to even
see you and not have an appointment on the books
with her.
Speaker 8 (35:37):
Okay, so you're you're thinking, how I'm thinking, man, So
me immediately I tell her, I'm like, oh my gosh,
you know, I just went with whomever's there. But you know,
you know when somebody's bothered by something, So she kind
of just gave a look like, you know, like whatever.
And now I don't know what to do. And I
say that because I want to go to the other file.
(36:00):
How am I supposed to do?
Speaker 2 (36:02):
You want to go to the new stylist that you
just discovered exactly?
Speaker 3 (36:06):
I think you just do it.
Speaker 2 (36:08):
Yeah, I mean, by the way, your your regular stylist
didn't have the room for you in her book, and
so you had to enterprisingly go find someone to get
your hair done, and you did it.
Speaker 1 (36:19):
Are they in the same salon? Yeah, they're in the
same build.
Speaker 8 (36:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (36:25):
I mean, probably be awkward, but you'll get through it.
Speaker 2 (36:28):
I've been through this, okay. I've actually had to do
this in my boxing gym. So yeah, one of the
one of the guys you know, boxes and he boxes
with me, but every time we're boxing, he is preparing
me for an actual boxing match. I'm not in there
to box. I'm in there to lose my waist, right,
I'm in there to get fit.
Speaker 1 (36:48):
I don't need to. I'm not getting ready for a fight.
Speaker 2 (36:51):
So the one guy, you know, when I go in there,
they said, well, who you want to box with today?
And I say guy Too. But Guy one is there,
and Guy One's just watched to me with Guy Too.
And I had to actually say to Guy one, hey,
I'm with Guy Too because I don't want to prepare
for a fight. I just want to burn calories. And
so now I see Guy one all the time with
Guy Too, and I think you're gonna have to do
(37:13):
the same thing.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
Just be honest. You want to be with stylist two?
Speaker 3 (37:18):
Yeah, your service, and you'd like I feel the guilt
the other service.
Speaker 1 (37:22):
She's not hurting. Sounds like she's booked up.
Speaker 2 (37:25):
True, her books are full, books are full. Just think
about my boxing, think about my boxing scenario. When you're
doing this and you are not tripping jazzm and nobody
here is tripping on anything.
Speaker 1 (37:37):
Okay. I appreciate you, Thank you guys.
Speaker 5 (37:40):
I appreciate you all so funny. I can't do that.
Speaker 4 (37:46):
I literally only left my old hairstylace because she moved
to Florida.
Speaker 3 (37:49):
It's tough. We just have to rip the band it off.
Speaker 2 (37:51):
But I would say, like I thought, Tony, you would
have gone in one of those uh workbooks that has
to do with not carrying guilt like you've done all
the other ones.
Speaker 5 (37:59):
I know, but.
Speaker 4 (38:01):
I don't know what it is. I think when it
comes to that kind of stuff, I feel like loyal.
I think I'm very loyal, and so it's hard for
me to jump.
Speaker 1 (38:10):
Do you still go to the Dennis and tu La Vista?
Speaker 5 (38:12):
Yes? I do?
Speaker 3 (38:14):
I do.
Speaker 5 (38:15):
It's hard for me.
Speaker 1 (38:16):
You go to San Diego for you dn't.
Speaker 3 (38:17):
Jewel a Vista?
Speaker 5 (38:18):
No, No, it's in for Tondo Beach.
Speaker 3 (38:20):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (38:21):
I was making a geography joke, but.
Speaker 3 (38:24):
Everyone's head city before Mexico. Yeah, I got it.
Speaker 5 (38:27):
I was picking up what you're thrown down.
Speaker 1 (38:29):
You were picking it up. I was throwing it down there,
way down there. Yeahs St.
Speaker 2 (38:33):
Clementi, I was sitting it down beyond San Clemente. I
went past San Diego almost.
Speaker 1 (38:37):
Yeah, you did right.
Speaker 3 (38:40):
On air with a Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 1 (38:45):
Hey can I grab Sarah here? Sarah? Good morning, Sarah?
How are you good morning? How are you super good?
So you're calling us about your sister and what's the issue.
Speaker 13 (38:55):
I am called out my sister. But first I want
to say quick congratulations to An. I know she recently
got engaged, so she did.
Speaker 4 (39:03):
Thank you, thank you so much, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2 (39:07):
We're so relieved, I mean excited. We're just in the
planning phase. Now, in the planning phase.
Speaker 3 (39:15):
We he says, we are.
Speaker 1 (39:18):
This is going to be a group.
Speaker 8 (39:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (39:22):
By the way, no, I know, guys, we're gonna start planning.
But we wanted to enjoy the bubble of this engagement.
Speaker 3 (39:30):
What did I tell you? I was like, enjoy being
engaged because you're only going to be engaged for like
a small.
Speaker 5 (39:34):
Portion, right, because once we start planning, it's.
Speaker 3 (39:37):
That's going to save the date coming within the next
few weeks.
Speaker 1 (39:41):
Oh my god.
Speaker 5 (39:42):
Really, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (39:43):
I'm just trying to chill.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
Shut him up.
Speaker 10 (39:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (39:50):
By the way, Mikayla, did you hear Ruby got a reservation.
Speaker 3 (39:52):
At no Idea? You got it?
Speaker 1 (39:55):
We got it? Mark, did you hear.
Speaker 3 (39:58):
It's gonna be so excited?
Speaker 1 (40:00):
Well, bunch, you text her okay and ask her how
it was.
Speaker 2 (40:02):
I think she did it. Yeah, Ruby, Mexico City. Still
when she's coming back ever.
Speaker 1 (40:10):
Sarah, anyway, Sorry, we digress. Go ahead, that's.
Speaker 13 (40:14):
Okay, I no, Yeah, onto my sister. So you know,
I've had my sister. She's staying with me for a
couple of months. I'm really excited, but I'm a few
weeks in and she started making these really offhand, kind
of rude comments about my decor, like about like the
wallpaper and the mirrors and like the things that I've chosen,
(40:35):
and I'm just you know, at first, I like let
it slide. I wasn't even sure how to react to it.
But then Amazon boxes started showing up and she's like
like literally ordering stuff from my house and like trying
to put it up, and so I don't know, I
just am not sure how to even react.
Speaker 2 (40:51):
Or like always like this, do you know what you're
getting when your sister's around?
Speaker 13 (40:56):
You know, she is kind of always like this, but
not to this degree. Like she definitely is a person
who will make her opinions known, so I understand that
about her, but this is like kind of passive aggressive
comments about ship lap like that is it's to a
new level.
Speaker 3 (41:13):
So how long is she staying with you?
Speaker 13 (41:16):
She's saying for about four months. She's just kind of
in between, you know, she's moving to a new place
things like that, So just.
Speaker 3 (41:24):
You just let it go. It's your sister. It's so
petty to try to get.
Speaker 1 (41:27):
I agree about it. Not worth it.
Speaker 2 (41:29):
And frankly, maybe she's got a few good ideas to
spruce up your place.
Speaker 5 (41:35):
What No, that's so annoying.
Speaker 3 (41:39):
And my sister does too. But my sister's an interior designer,
so I really have to let it go. Lucky you.
Speaker 1 (41:43):
What is her charge?
Speaker 3 (41:45):
We can talk off life if you want, But does
she up.
Speaker 1 (41:47):
Charge on a purchase?
Speaker 3 (41:49):
No, not for me.
Speaker 1 (41:51):
But for her clients.
Speaker 3 (41:52):
Yeah, she didn't give you a homeidation. I don't know that.
I'm disclosed to talk about that on.
Speaker 2 (41:58):
The industry standard is here, Sarah. So my mom does this,
She shows up and all of a sudden, there's a
new bath mat in my bathroom, Like what is that?
Speaker 3 (42:06):
She's going to think it's cute, it's endearing and like
at the end of the day, like it's always funny
because Michael even knows, Oh, like when Jeanette's gonna come over,
like some stuff is going to be either rearranged or
we're going to buy a new.
Speaker 1 (42:16):
Couch for the corner of this dread coming home.
Speaker 3 (42:19):
Now dreads it but like we know that she's going
to rearrange your bookshelves, like and you just you just
let it happen and then when they leave, you just
put it back to how you celebrate.
Speaker 1 (42:28):
I mean, yeah, exactly, Sarah.
Speaker 2 (42:31):
This is one of those things we think when it
comes to the picking our battles, we don't pick much.
Speaker 3 (42:35):
Yeah, don't pick this because you don't want to mess
with family and dynamics. And it's not it's so petty
to get in the argument about that.
Speaker 13 (42:43):
Totally. It's coming from a place of love. I hear you.
Speaker 2 (42:45):
It really is, all right, thanks Sarah. For a second,
I thought she's like, no, not what I want to
some else? Call you guys, have any other stations? I
can call it all slew them here. Uh okay what
talk backs? Yes, so this is really easy. If you
go inside our KISSFM page and Ietradio there's the red
microphone you can send us talkbacks and we love these.
Speaker 1 (43:08):
So here's the first. So this from Blondie listening in
the three to one.
Speaker 15 (43:11):
Oh, Ryan, Tanya and Siciny, good morning. So I have
a question right now that you guys are talking about
Tinder and Hinge, my boyfriend of six years. We broke
up in November and he moved down in December. I
haven't talked to him since January. I haven't seen him
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since January. Question, what is the okay time to download
an app like that just to look around and make friends?
Speaker 1 (43:41):
Now?
Speaker 5 (43:42):
Yeah, asap?
Speaker 1 (43:43):
Now?
Speaker 2 (43:43):
I think you can do it now. I mean you
guys broke up. You did it in November through December.
It's a new year, and I think it's start. I mean,
you've got to get out and socialize. You can't keeping
it all in the next day. Motion creates emotion. I say,
go for it. I don't think you should feel bad
about that at all. But thank you, Bunny. Love that question.
That's why these talkbacks are great. Could be anything. That's
the other part. It's a real Popori. Let's grab John
(44:07):
and Glynny.
Speaker 3 (44:09):
I was wanting to know where you go to per pedicure.
Speaker 2 (44:14):
I appreciate you being so covert with the question. Now
it kind of depends, like I can. I don't have
a regular place. There are a lot. You don't realize
how many places have signs out front and shopping center
that say nails any shopping center, John, Honestly, where you
see this on Big nails.
Speaker 1 (44:35):
That's for you. Don't be intimidated. I was at one point.
Speaker 2 (44:38):
I was little scared of going in some of those
places is it nails, because I didn't want much stuff
done in my nails.
Speaker 1 (44:43):
I just want them cleaned up. I'm clear.
Speaker 2 (44:45):
But they know, like all the nails places, know how
to do what you want if you want that shiny
buff simple.
Speaker 1 (44:53):
Also I am.
Speaker 2 (44:55):
Pedicure too, but I also try and John tell them like,
can we do it in twenty twenty minutes?
Speaker 5 (45:00):
Because maybe Jone wants a longer massage.
Speaker 1 (45:02):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (45:03):
There's a lot of guys that go to my salon.
Speaker 1 (45:05):
I don't mean the rub and the ankle.
Speaker 3 (45:07):
Yeah, the best part is going to be the whole thing.
I just grubbed down.
Speaker 2 (45:11):
If you can get in and out in twenty minutes, bro,
now maybe if you add the petty, it might be
thirty two minutes. But any sign that says nails, don't
be afraid. Okay, this is Heather in Canoga Park, one
of our talkbacks.
Speaker 10 (45:23):
I'm trying to find out when Ryan's roses is well.
Speaker 2 (45:26):
I'm here to tell you all right, thank you for asking.
If you've never heard Ryan's roses it's worth it. It's
worth checking out. If you've heard about it, it's worth
checking out. It is Mondays and Thursdays. It's seven forty
Ryan's roses. All right, one more up tubs. Guess who
it is? Tony and Virginia Beach your guy.
Speaker 16 (45:46):
So, guys, Tony from Virginia Beach talk back Tony as
you all put it. Hey, listen, Noah, No one listens
to you, guys, because you incentiviy things.
Speaker 6 (45:57):
All right.
Speaker 16 (45:58):
We listen because you know, over time we get to
know you. And it's kind of like each morning we
tune in, we're kind of hanging out.
Speaker 5 (46:04):
What people were getting to know.
Speaker 16 (46:05):
So you know, I love that alt centivizing things. That's
not why we do it.
Speaker 12 (46:09):
So just keep doing your thing.
Speaker 1 (46:11):
Chicken wigh. Yeah, Tony's a brother officially the show.
Speaker 3 (46:17):
He sounds like someone in my family.
Speaker 1 (46:20):
Like you got those one liners. Yeah, So all right, Tony.
Speaker 2 (46:24):
Then to that point, if you're just getting to know us,
what would you like to know more about us? Send
your next talk back to us, Tony, and uh, what
can we specifically reveal to you that would help you
know us and understand us better? Just use that red
microphone inside the page there, because I've been page on
IET radio talk back Tony Now Tubbs, that's the guy
that's gonna come jiu jitsu with you, and he's visiting
(46:47):
this summer. Yeah, I believe. So I don't believe. So
he talked him four times tough talkbacks.
Speaker 1 (46:51):
That's the guy. Yeah, bail on him, are you? Nope? No? No, no,
all right.
Speaker 2 (46:57):
You know Jess is online ten and has been holding
four a song or two. So let me grab Jess.
Good morning, Jess. You're calling about dating again? Yes, so
the question is when can you start dating again?
Speaker 6 (47:11):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (47:12):
What happened?
Speaker 8 (47:14):
Okay?
Speaker 6 (47:14):
So like basically, like long story short, like back in March,
I like called off my engagement and I'm not even
kidding you, Ryan, maybe like two weeks later, he already
has a new girlfriend's already out and about with her,
and I.
Speaker 9 (47:34):
Like I'm really having a hard.
Speaker 6 (47:35):
Time like shaking off feeling guilty and like obviously obviously
it like still hurts. And all my friends keep telling me, like,
you know, Jess, like you need to get back out there,
you need to do this for you. So like I
don't know, like what do you guys think?
Speaker 1 (47:50):
Well, why was the engagement called off.
Speaker 6 (47:54):
So he was very like manipulative and controlling and like
emotionally abusive, and it like got to the point where
like my friends and family were like so concerned about
me that they literally shut me down and was like,
you know, this is what we think. And I finally
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was able to snap out of it and realize that
I can't go through with it.
Speaker 2 (48:18):
Well, I'm happy that you got to that place for yourself.
Speaker 1 (48:22):
And I don't know why you feel guilt.
Speaker 2 (48:25):
Why do you feel guilt if you were in a
bad relationship with a person treating you badly? Where is
the guilt coming from?
Speaker 8 (48:34):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (48:34):
It just like feels weird, like or like why he
is okay? Just moving on so quickly, Like I don't look.
Speaker 1 (48:43):
I think that I can't possibly understand what you went through.
Speaker 2 (48:47):
But I want to say this that if you were
going through what you just described and you're now out
of it, that's positive. That's just that's very very good news.
I mean, you're you're starting with the clean slate. You're
in a positive hopefully stay in mind moving forward. And
so I don't even know if we should question anything
about why this and why that? The point is you
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realize that this was bad for you and you got
out of it, and that's great. So I don't think
you should focus on setting a date or or feeling
the guilt when you feel like you want to go
see somebody, have some fun, meet someone, go out, then
you just do it right.
Speaker 3 (49:25):
You'll know when you're ready.
Speaker 1 (49:28):
Yeah, So don't don't put the pressure on yourself.
Speaker 2 (49:32):
Don't if your friend look, friends want to get you
into you know, they're like, go have a good time.
You deserve it. But don't put pressure on yourself. You're
in a great place. You made the right decision. Know
that when you put your head on your pillow.
Speaker 3 (49:46):
Yeah, Easier said, I know.
Speaker 1 (49:49):
Yeah, good luck, Jess. I'm glad that you're in this
new chapter of your life.
Speaker 8 (49:55):
Thanks guys, Okay, take.
Speaker 1 (49:57):
Care, Okay bye.
Speaker 3 (49:59):
That's hard.
Speaker 1 (50:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (50:01):
I mean I'm starting to think, was that that guy
started seeing somebody two weeks after the breakup? Was he
already seeing somebody? I mean, he sounds like bad news anyway,
or or was he.
Speaker 3 (50:09):
Going to once they got married, like you know what
I mean, Like, yeah, like he didn't seem like the
right dude for her anyways.
Speaker 2 (50:14):
But I think It's like we all we do put
pressure on ourselves, you know, we put unneeded pressure on ourselves.
Sometimes she had the weight lifted off of her by
getting past this relationship.
Speaker 1 (50:26):
That's it for us. We'll see you tomorrow.
Speaker 3 (50:29):
You guys coming over tonight tonight Now, I have dinner plans.
Thank you so much for the invite.
Speaker 1 (50:35):
How about not the same day invite?
Speaker 5 (50:37):
Taco Tuesday broke kettle black? Yeah yeah, texting us an
hour before lunch. Hey, guys, want to be that noon?
Speaker 1 (50:45):
For not going all right, We'll see tomorrow. Guys. Thanks
for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure
to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow
From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us
Air on air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Flipping through my feed and I saw this one wanted
to bring it to you, guys.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
One of two point seven kids set up.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
But hopefully no one in this room has ever had
any career regrets, right I career.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Regrets, no, no regrets at all.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Fortunately we kind of picked the path that we're lucky
to be on and have a job that is not
really a job.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
Yeah, but I'm sure you have regrets of things in
your career that you wish you would have tried to
different different yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Timing, sure, But all in all, I feel lucky that
this is our job. Why do you think I've done
this for twenty years? Same in other stations, right yeah.
Uh so think about that if it happened to you,
and if you're just like new and young and starting
out in the workforce, listen to this. Don't make the
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same mistakes that a lot of people say they made.
In fact, from Generation Boomers to Generation Z, the number
one career regret not asking for a raise. That's the
one career regret that across the board, all ages, looking back,
young and wise have had asking for it because hard
(01:17):
to do sometimes, and you also don't want the hurt.
The feeling you think about having if someone denies you
that and how it makes you feel about your own
value is all a bunch of hurt.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
And I take it personally, right, hunter take.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Step any even Like remember when we used to have
to sit in a program director's office and they play
back tapes of us. It's called an air check meeting. Yeah, yeah,
that thing they tell you all the bad things you
do on the air. How do I not take it personally?
I took it personally.
Speaker 5 (01:48):
I have my time, hated.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
Myself after those things. Really. Oh yeah, I used to
beat myself up.
Speaker 5 (01:54):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
I would cry during those during it as constructive criticism, and.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
In this of this skin Nope, I didn't take it
as that. I took it as personal attack. I did anyway.
So So also on the list not prioritizing work life balance,
I guess a lot of people after they've done it,
they say, wait, I wish I would have spent more time.
I think now today more and more people are trying
to after COVID, especially trying to make that a priority.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
I agree.
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Also, staying at a job for a long time.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
Guilty, Well, I think we're biased in that sense.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
No, this is the one we want to do for
forty years.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Yeah, exactly, we made it.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
How about not speaking up in a meeting. I find
this to be I mean I do it now, but
I think for a long time, I don't want to
say anything. Or when they ask you're a manager, asked
you a question, you don't want to you don't want
to ask anything. I had to do a zoom for
iHeart with the sales It wasn't with some salespeople from
(02:53):
other parts of the country, and they were asking questions
like someone from iHeart was asking questions to.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Me like a pan totally and in front of like
all these salespeople, like what can we do differently to
execute blah blah blah exactly.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
And then I actually at the end they said, would
you like to ask the crowd here of people anything.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
They weren't I Heart salespeople.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
They were outside salespeople or something like that, and we
were advertising people. And they said, yeah, tell me, what
are your greatest challenges? What's on your mind?
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Oh, your greatest challenge fifty people, not one person's spook, right,
what could we do differently in the company.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
No, it wasn't. It wasn't even that.
Speaker 2 (03:28):
It was just like general And I thought, oh my gosh,
I've asked a question no one wants to answer. But
no one really wants to speak up and out, you know,
or they just wanted the meaning to be over, which
I'm totally fair. But those are things, just like it
is interesting after you work for a while you go
back and look at these similar things that you wish
you would have done. So think about those if you're
starting out, or if you're at that place where you've
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been thinking about a career move or a raise, ask
go for it. Don't have to always play it safe.
Uh okay Siciny lot of people are talking about AI constantly,
but this is something very seemingly useful that has to
do with fashion and AI and how you dress yourself.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Yes, so I don't know about you. When when I'm
online shopping, I you know, see the models wearing whatever,
the dress or the shirt that I would probably want
to buy, but then I'm like, how is that going
to look like on me? And it looks great on her,
but how it look on me? Well, now, the next
time you shopping on Google you might see a little
tag that says virtual try on, and essentially it's going
to be an AI model, But you can go through.
(04:35):
I think they have eighty different models that you can
choose from, and they'll all have different body types, different ethnicities,
different in just so that you can maybe find a
model that resembles your body type, and then they put
the clothes on that model virtually.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
So I think it's great. But if it's AI, why
can't they just put it on me and let me
see me?
Speaker 3 (04:56):
Maybe this is like the first step, but.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Because like, right, if it's a it's all this AI
craziness technology I've been hearing about, then put it on
me right now.
Speaker 1 (05:04):
One thing might be if you put it on me,
I might not buy it?
Speaker 3 (05:08):
Right, Maybe that thing.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
On a model my size.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
There's a lot of models like walking around my size,
and there might be there are a lot of five
nine and a half models out there, Tanya.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Right right right, I'm sorry your five nine you're kind
of like mannequin body vibes.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
No, yeah, you are mannekin body, yes, Like the kids
are solid time.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
Like I feel like a little like everything looks great
on you.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
Oh, being so nice to me it's supposed to be nice.
We did your photo shoot.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
It's actually do photo shoots together. And you see like
the twenty photos that we all took, and I'm like
blinking in one or my eyes are in Bryan's face,
like you're exactly the same in all twenty photos.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Can tell you why I want to be done. I
want to be over. So I just hold the one
look of it. They got it changing it up. So
what's this thing called.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
It's called virtual try on And I was actually on Google.
I was trying to see if I could find it,
but it probably will just depend on the company that
wants to use these as a feature. And so it'll
just kind of drape the clothes on it, It'll stretch
it and kind of just puld out all the wrinkles
and stuff like that. It's not they're actually not really
trying it on. It's like a digital imprint of the
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clothes on top of that model. But it gives you
a great idea, I think for me, I just I
I hate chopping online because I'll get it in at
home and then it doesn't fit right or it's too
tight in this area.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Figure out sizes online.
Speaker 2 (06:38):
I can't either I always I generally think I reach
for the stars and say medium, and I get it,
and I'm like, oh, I should have gotten this small.
Then I get into sad head, right, sad head kicks
in and all that. Well, it's a step into a
good direction. But really, if it's a I put me
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in the photo.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
In the close.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Yeah, and let me see how I look. Let's see
how I vibe with myself. Okay, I need to bring
in the back room. Mikayla.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
This might be interesting for you because you've got that
real interesting uh wow opening line from the guy that
was creepy and yeah, I think made made people not
want to be.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
On some still thinking about that line.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
In the line he said.
Speaker 6 (07:24):
If you're regularly taking birth control, you should match with me.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
That's what the guy said as an opening line on
hinge with people.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
It was hinge hinge.
Speaker 5 (07:34):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Well, Erica ETI. You might want to meet her, Mikayla.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
I'm excited.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
She's an online dating coach. She think everybody's excited. Hell,
online dating coach, Erica.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
And how you doing.
Speaker 7 (07:49):
I'm great, I'm glad you found me.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Wow, we listen this guy.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
We have a couple of staff members here who are
single and looking and are on different dating apps, and
it's really astonishing how tricky it can be and how
difficult it can be for starters. One of the pickup
lines that we heard here from a guy that was
reaching out to Mikhayela on Hinge was just weird and
creepy and you know, kind of made her run the
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opposite direction.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
So do you what do you? What do you do?
What is your work?
Speaker 7 (08:21):
Okay, so a good question. So I'm an online dating coach.
I help people with all aspects of online dating. So
think your profile, your pictures, the messaging, what do you say,
all the way to the point of the first date,
because that is where people struggle. And you know, it's
not rocket science on how to send a good message
or not, but when it comes down to it, people
seem to lose common sense sometimes. And so I guide
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people through that process because I really just want to
get them on dates and.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
Is the biggest or most important thing to do out
of the gate, just coming up with that initial way
of connecting.
Speaker 7 (08:54):
Yeah, I put people on what I call a how
are you cleans. I don't allow hey, how are you?
How is your day? How's it going. All you can
do is read the profile, find something anything in the
profile you want to comment on, and ask a question
about it. So like, for example, I just wrote for
someone this morning. A guy said he was a pilot,
and as you know, I suggested to her to write,
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were you one of those kids who was always playing
with Foy airplanes?
Speaker 3 (09:19):
Like?
Speaker 7 (09:19):
That's cute. It shows that you read the profile and
it gets the conversation started.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
I like that because how are you doing? What was
your daily I'm not so benign, right, But here's the thing, so, Carka,
let's say that one of us has your assistance and
your expertise helping us along.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Will I be a worst performer without you?
Speaker 2 (09:40):
I worry that, Like, okay, well my game's going to
go not as strong once you aren't with me.
Speaker 7 (09:45):
Well, also, way you can learn from everything I do,
so I do I can sort of my work. So
for some people, I do their work with them, which
is coaching. So they'll actually get on a zoom with me.
They'll share their screen and I will watch them twipe
and I will be very direct feedback when we're doing that.
Why are you picking this person? Why aren't you picking
this person?
Speaker 8 (10:03):
Right?
Speaker 7 (10:04):
And then for some people, as crazy as this sounds,
they do hire me to actually do the legwork of
the online dating for them. They want to go on
the dates that they don't want to do that work,
and so many people get stuck in the you know,
in the texting game and they can't actually get on
the date. I try to keep that conversation as short
as possible, because ultimately I just want to give people opportunities.
(10:25):
I want to put them on dates. So if they're smart,
even when we're working together, they take all of the
tools that I provide. I give a lot of tips
and tricks like how to you know what words to
say to get to the dates faster. If they use
all of both on their own, great, And.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
You must check in with people when there's success. It's
got to feel pretty good if you help them out, it.
Speaker 7 (10:46):
Does feel pretty good. The most frustrating part of my job, though,
is that people love telling me when they go on
bad dates, and I won't really hear the books. So
I encourage people to tell me the good. But if
I'm going to give you one tip or trick or anything,
if your conversation is taking too long on the dating
apps and you just want to get to the date.
Just say to the other person, Hey, I'm really enjoying
our conversation. Where should we go from here?
Speaker 3 (11:09):
You will have a move where should we go?
Speaker 2 (11:11):
That's a good thing for us to use in our
meetings sometimes because they go long as well.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
Through all of that, that's a great through all it's
a great way of saying it. I loved is here.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
You can go on Instagram at a little nudge at
a little nudge on Instagram, and she can help you
out when it comes to the dating. Uh, Michael, hopefully
glean a little something there. I think somebody different. Oh,
I know, I wanted to ask you. We liked this one.
This is when we saw ranked as a great opening
line on a dating app. Okay, what's your go to appetizer?
(11:44):
And when are we splitting it this weekend? Is that
too forward?
Speaker 7 (11:48):
I love it? It's it's horrible. It's a little forward.
And I would only write that if somebody actually mentioned
food in their profiles. Again, I mean, you want to
comment on something someone has written because it shows that
you actually read the profile. But what you just said
is clever and cute and still better than how's it going?
Speaker 2 (12:07):
Yes, thank you for coming on. I think we all
feel better about ourself right now. Okay, you take care
and good luck. I think the appetizer line people should
write it down and use it. I love you, I
love it, Tony's purpooing. All right, here is your morning hack,
and then I've got the quote of the day. First
the hack. It's interesting these are things that we are
(12:27):
taught as kids, and a lot of parents still teach
their kids, and child experts say they shouldn't, They're not
in their best interest. And if you think about when
we were growing up, we always heard our parents say, hey,
it's rude to say no. It's rude to say no.
(12:49):
I remember hearing that. Of course, it's not rude to
say no. No is one of the most empowering words
in our vocabulary. Also, finish the food on your plate.
This was a big deal. I still feel this way.
Speaker 3 (13:04):
Same and I feel guilty leaving it at the restaurant.
I ask for a to go box because I feel
like I'm wasty.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
With something or was something wrong with your meal?
Speaker 2 (13:13):
You know, in the blue zones that we've talked about,
where people live the longest lo Molinda here in California
is one, then there's one in Italy and Japan. Around
the world, they say, stop eating when you're eighty percent full,
because that twenty percent's coming.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
You just don't know it yet.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
How do you know that though you feel it, well,
you're almost full and you could eat a little bit more,
but you when you're almost full, you are full. Your
brain just hasn't calculated it yet. Yes, it's not a delay.
But I too grew up where like, hey, you put
it on your plate, and also if you didn't eat it,
you'd have to sit at the table to finish it.
Speaker 3 (13:52):
I mean I kind of do that with my kids too.
They eat like nothing, and so I'm just like, can
you just take one more bite? Like one more bite?
It's like a battle, that's meal.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
I mean, if they're not eating, that's that's good.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
And the other one they say, if someone is picking
on you, it means they like you.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
Remember that, Oh yeah, yeah, the biggest one.
Speaker 2 (14:10):
They're making funny you only because they like you, not
the case.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
No, it sets you up for problems later in life.
So those are that's very interesting. Today's quote.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
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Speaker 1 (15:18):
On air with the Ryan.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Seacrets, good morning, it's great to be here. Think about
something we're grateful for, or many things were grateful for, right,
it's a good way.
Speaker 1 (15:31):
I woke up this.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
Morning just moaning in pain, tightened stiffness, okay, and then
I stretched and I said, you know, I'm grateful for
the moment I took to stretch nice, open it all up.
I think I'm gonna start doing hot pilates.
Speaker 3 (15:47):
Yeah. Can we please do it together?
Speaker 1 (15:49):
Okay? Can I just work out on my own?
Speaker 2 (15:51):
Yeah, I'm working it with Don Francisco, So let's all
do it together.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
I can invite him to hotts please. Where we're gonna
go wherever. I'll go wherever you want and find a
good one.
Speaker 5 (16:07):
I know tons of good ones.
Speaker 1 (16:08):
Can we do on a Saturday?
Speaker 5 (16:10):
Oh, Saturday? That makes it tricky? Okay?
Speaker 1 (16:12):
Okay, great, perfect Saturday it is.
Speaker 3 (16:14):
I'll figure it out.
Speaker 5 (16:15):
I'll figure it out. I'll figure it out, all right.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
Get back to us on it.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
Veronica's with us now, Veronica, I've got everybody in here.
We're all listening about your boyfriend. Tell us what's happening.
He's going to be teaching at an all girls college.
Speaker 9 (16:28):
Yes, he is.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Are you're worried.
Speaker 8 (16:32):
A little bit?
Speaker 10 (16:33):
I mean he's very attractive, and you know the very
typical hot teachers that you know is teaching in class,
and you know the girls are usually fawning over him.
Speaker 9 (16:48):
That's definitely most.
Speaker 10 (16:49):
Likely going to be the scenario.
Speaker 9 (16:52):
So I just don't know. I don't know what to do.
Speaker 2 (16:57):
Well, here's my first question. How much do you not
trust him that this makes you nervous? This is a
fundamental issue in the relationship in my mind, if you're
worried about him going to work at a place.
Speaker 11 (17:10):
Like this, yeah, I mean, he hasn't given me a
reason not to trust him.
Speaker 10 (17:16):
It's just I think I don't know.
Speaker 9 (17:19):
You know, obviously I don't have control over what other
girls do or him. You know, he's gonna do whatever
he like.
Speaker 2 (17:25):
He can't, I mean, you can't. I mean, you know,
talking about him, you're not trusting him in a relationship.
You're saying that he would violate policies as an employee.
Speaker 9 (17:37):
I mean, I don't think he would go.
Speaker 7 (17:39):
I don't think he would.
Speaker 9 (17:40):
I'm just saying the setting, you know, is obviously very difficult.
Like I said, you know, he's going to be surrounded
by all these girls, you know, and they might you know,
try and flirt with him or you know, act a
certain way, And I just I don't know, is.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
It jealousy or trust at the issue? Is that? What
issue is?
Speaker 3 (18:02):
It sounds like both.
Speaker 9 (18:05):
Yeah, I mean maybe a little bit of both.
Speaker 2 (18:08):
I don't know, jealousy, Okay, trust something that's a real
issue in your relationship that if you don't have it,
then forget where he works.
Speaker 3 (18:20):
You don't have trust, okay, No, but it shouldn't matter
where he works.
Speaker 4 (18:24):
But this could be not necessarily an issue in your relationship.
This could be a you issue. Do you know your
attachment style?
Speaker 5 (18:29):
By chance?
Speaker 9 (18:32):
I don't.
Speaker 5 (18:33):
I would look into it because you might be.
Speaker 4 (18:36):
No, you should definitely do the test because you might
be insecurely attached, which is just stuff that is in you.
It's like rooted in you from deep childhood things, and
it projects itself into your relationship in different ways. And
I think maybe getting to the root of that and
explaining that to him maybe will help him understand you
a little bit better. And it's not like you're saying
I don't trust you.
Speaker 5 (18:56):
I don't you know.
Speaker 4 (18:57):
It's just saying I have this insecurely attacked matched thing
that goes on inside me and it's being projected right now.
So I just want you to know that. But I
do trust you, and I love you, and I just
want you to know what's going on inside me.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
Yeah, that sounds like Honestly, I was like, is this
you talk all the time like it's like full therapy
session everything.
Speaker 4 (19:17):
No, I think learning your attachment is so fascinating.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
Sitting down, sitting you down, they during a fight or
something that is like, we need to talk about our attachment, kitty.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
It is great advice if you can handle it, right, Yeah.
Speaker 9 (19:32):
I mean I definitely do want to.
Speaker 11 (19:35):
I mean, obviously I've been in a relationship with them
for three years, so I think I definitely need to
kind of take that next step and you know, talk
to them about it. I think he'll definitely be willing
to listen to me. So it's just kind of something
that I gotta work on myself.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
All right, Well, take Tanya's approach. It's a good one.
It's a thoughtful one, and it's one he'll understand. Yeah,
and thank you for listening. Good luck, keep us posted
if we can do anything else.
Speaker 11 (19:57):
Okay, thank you?
Speaker 1 (19:58):
How nice?
Speaker 2 (20:00):
I mean, really you as if you've taken that clock
you went to that in a good way. Yeah, that's beneficial.
I think that is very good advice if you have
the patience to do it.
Speaker 4 (20:08):
Because I think a lot of the time we project
a lot of stuff that's inside us. And I think
when you really get to learn who you are and
how you deal with situations, it's like easier to express
that to your partner, and then neither one of you
take it personal.
Speaker 3 (20:21):
It doesn't come usually until you're a little bit older.
Speaker 7 (20:23):
One.
Speaker 1 (20:23):
Yeah, I might learn that one year.
Speaker 3 (20:25):
Take take the test.
Speaker 5 (20:26):
I'll send it to you.
Speaker 3 (20:27):
Say never.
Speaker 2 (20:27):
Okay, I'm just trying to go to a hot yoga
class on a Saturday with you, one step.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
At a time. Over there, tea rad Can we get
into a second date update?
Speaker 10 (20:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (20:36):
Right, we've got some uh worried about the advice non
attached here. Let me grab Aaron. So Aaron reaches out
to us. He's like, well, I can need some help here.
I went on his date and here's the deal. So
he met an amazing woman in San Francisco, right, he says,
I live in that area.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
We had an amazing weekend together date date date.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
We immediately made plans for him to come visit her
in La I was supposed to spend a week at
her place, but three days after she ended it Aaron,
good morning. We've all sort of been in situations like
this on one side of the other. So you're talking
to uh, some folks with familiarity. But what happened like
and how did she say it's over in the middle
(21:13):
of the trip?
Speaker 12 (21:15):
Oh man, like three days in she just said, I
don't think this is going to work out. And that
was pretty much it. There wasn't much of a discussion.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
Did you find.
Speaker 2 (21:23):
Generally people feel things. Did you feel anything off during
this day?
Speaker 12 (21:28):
Absolutely nothing.
Speaker 13 (21:29):
Nope.
Speaker 12 (21:30):
We were having a great time, great time. We went
like the Holy she wasn't there like we No, I
guess not. I mean I thought it was great. We
went to Disneyland, we we did, went to Getty, Getty Center,
just all the iconic places that you go with go
in LA And I just was with her, so it
was it was great to me. I had a blast
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and we were talking. We're getting along.
Speaker 1 (21:54):
But she give you any reason why she ended it.
Speaker 12 (21:58):
She said her landlord apparently had like an issue with
long stay people, like long stay friends or something like that.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
Yeah, when I when I was the renter of an apartment,
I couldn't have multiple guests.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
Stay over.
Speaker 3 (22:14):
For I did this once guy, and it was it
was truly just because I got the ick. So I'm
wondering if you're ready to hear what you might not
want to hear.
Speaker 2 (22:27):
He is he reached out to us, But I'm all right,
so Aaron, hold on, We're going to find out why
she broke it off in the middle.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
What the assistance is?
Speaker 3 (22:36):
The ick was, Yeah, I meta got in Vegas and
then brought him back.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
I'm not bad.
Speaker 2 (22:42):
Yeah, all right, she's an Encino.
Speaker 1 (22:45):
Let's see if we can link this up. It's a
second day update.
Speaker 2 (22:48):
Can we get Miranda and Encino to explain why she
dropped him off in the middle of the week. I
need to grab Miranda right now so we don't lose her.
It's been a whole for a few minutes. Miranda, thank
you for coming on. Uh hold on one second, Okay,
right there, I'm doing a second date update to you listening.
I just want to tell you that I forgot to
say that before I got right because I don't want
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to say we're in the middle of second date up there,
but didn't want to tell her that, right, So we've
got I got it, Aaron, I screwed this whole thing up, Aaron. Aaron, Sorry, Aaron,
I'm trying to rush this. She doesn't hang up because
I feel like.
Speaker 1 (23:19):
She might Aaron. We got Miranda should be quiet and
on't say anything. Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
So he lives in San Francisco. She invited him. They
met one to date. She says, come stay with me
for a week. It's gonna be great. Three days in,
she says, you're out. It's not working out. Yeah, he
has no idea.
Speaker 1 (23:32):
He said it was great, It's perfect.
Speaker 2 (23:33):
I don't right here we go all right, Sorry, Miranda,
thanks for holding Sorry about the way. So we're calling
you on the air here at Kiss FM about a
guy named Aaron who came to stay with you from
San Francisco. Does that make sense?
Speaker 8 (23:47):
You are?
Speaker 2 (23:47):
Why why did you go out with a guy named
Aaron invite him to stay with you in l I?
Speaker 6 (23:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (23:54):
And how did it go?
Speaker 14 (23:58):
I mean like we had a good time, like for
the weekend. I was in San Francisco for a bachelorette
party and that's how we met, and it was the time.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
How was to stay with you when he came down?
How'd that go?
Speaker 14 (24:14):
I mean, like we all make mistakes, so.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
It didn't go. We understand that he was supposed to
be there for a week.
Speaker 3 (24:21):
Was he so he made a mistake while he was
with you.
Speaker 14 (24:25):
Yeah, I would say it was a mistake. It definitely
turned me off. He wasn't there for the whole week.
He only stayed for a couple of days.
Speaker 2 (24:34):
And did you tell him to leave sooner than you
thought he was gonna leave?
Speaker 14 (24:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (24:39):
And do you want to tell us why?
Speaker 13 (24:42):
I mean, I just.
Speaker 14 (24:43):
Barely knew him, and I just realized like he wasn't
for me.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
But who invited him to stay with you?
Speaker 3 (24:50):
I invited him, Okay, so you.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
Knew it could go either way when you bring somebody
in for about I say, a long period of time.
Speaker 3 (24:59):
But she didn't mean to like suck it up and
finish out the week even though she's not into him,
and be like I did the same thing.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
What was the mistake he made?
Speaker 15 (25:07):
Like?
Speaker 14 (25:07):
Okay, I was feeling it at first, but then he
was like he was smoking weed in my car and
I have a nice car, so it was super gross
and I just realized, like, this is not the type
of guy that I want in my life.
Speaker 1 (25:21):
Did he ask you if you could smoke the week?
Speaker 14 (25:23):
Not only that when he was in the car, he
was posting on Instagram acting like my car was his car,
and that was a huge dick.
Speaker 1 (25:33):
What do you mean? All right, well, what do you
mean he made people think it was his car? What
do you do? How do you do that?
Speaker 14 (25:40):
Because he was posting on Instagram acting like the car
that he was in with his and it was driving
it's mine, it was my car.
Speaker 1 (25:47):
So do you want to go out with him again? Ever?
Speaker 2 (25:50):
No?
Speaker 8 (25:51):
No?
Speaker 1 (25:52):
Do you want him to know this is why you
blow him off?
Speaker 14 (25:57):
I mean I just stopped talking to him. I don't
think I necessarily like I wouldn't like divulged all of this.
I just stopped talking to him.
Speaker 1 (26:06):
Well what do you mean, Aaron?
Speaker 12 (26:14):
Yeah, yeah, you said yeah, you said weed wasn't you
didn't you were cool with weed? And I don't. I mean,
I'm really I didn't I had.
Speaker 2 (26:23):
Did you did you post there? Did you post that
it was your car on Instagram?
Speaker 13 (26:27):
No?
Speaker 3 (26:28):
It was.
Speaker 12 (26:29):
I mean it's a nice whip like really nice car.
I don't have one like that. So I posted a
lot of pictures of the car because it was nice.
But I mean, it was us in the car. It
was me in the car. It was the car. It
was you know, it was part of the part of
the whole trip, the.
Speaker 3 (26:44):
Cool car part of the LA weekend.
Speaker 14 (26:46):
I really I didn't like that you were posting on
social media when we were together, and like, it's okay
that you smoke weed, but I'm more of like an edible,
like I take edible like you're smoker, and I just
didn't realize how much and it was just a turn off.
Speaker 1 (27:07):
I'm totally uncomfortable. That's why i'm quiet.
Speaker 12 (27:11):
Yeah, I'm uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (27:14):
Okay, let's let's end this uncomfortableness.
Speaker 2 (27:16):
Then, I think so soon, Miranda, it's not going to
work out. That's our view. I think you would agree
with that, and good luck. We appreciate you Miranda coming
on to tell the story. And Aaron, thank you for
listening and reaching out. I think you're gonna find somebody
that fits you both perfectly.
Speaker 12 (27:29):
Yeah, I hope so.
Speaker 6 (27:32):
Shoot, than I really appreciate it a.
Speaker 10 (27:35):
Pleasure meeting you.
Speaker 7 (27:36):
But I can't believe you called kiss FM to track
me down and you gave me the ache and this
isn't even bigger.
Speaker 14 (27:43):
So have a great life.
Speaker 1 (27:45):
Oh wow, Okay, bye, guys. Life life is dark, have
a great day. Life is harsh.
Speaker 3 (27:51):
Yeah, all right, I don't think she.
Speaker 2 (27:53):
Is, well, fine, should we call the guy from all
those years ago that gave you the itck and let
him know what happens?
Speaker 3 (28:02):
Oh my gosh, No, he like hates me. He wanted
me to pay for his flight because he was from
New York and so he's like, you owe me for
the fly. Afterwards, yes, afterwards he was like so mad
at me.
Speaker 4 (28:16):
Honestly, I'm impressed that you guys like kick them out.
I just suck it through the whole.
Speaker 1 (28:21):
I would the same.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
Yeah, like anytime, even if I have something with like
hair in it at a restaurant.
Speaker 3 (28:29):
You'll still eat.
Speaker 1 (28:31):
And they asked me, how's the meal.
Speaker 2 (28:33):
I'm like, it's great, it's great, perfect, And I just
pulled curly hair out.
Speaker 3 (28:40):
I kind of know what you mean.
Speaker 1 (28:42):
Yeah, I don't ruin anybody's day.
Speaker 3 (28:43):
Yeah, you can deal with it.
Speaker 1 (28:44):
It's hair, right, we'll pe okay.
Speaker 2 (28:48):
So Tanya Scott has taken the kind of attached, insecure,
secure person.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
Are you to your spouse?
Speaker 5 (28:55):
Yeah, it's your attachment style, right, So.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
She said, if you can figure out your attachment style,
are are you insecure?
Speaker 1 (29:00):
Are you secure? Are you void? What was the other one?
Speaker 5 (29:03):
Avoidant?
Speaker 2 (29:03):
Avoidant? Then it's going to move mountains in your relationship.
So yeah, that going on on one plate, right, I'm
still not done with it, Disney saunters in here with
this one. It's going to help you create better friends.
All the different trends and tests, we're just gond have
the greatest relationships of all time romantic and friendship.
Speaker 3 (29:24):
That's true, true, So go ahead.
Speaker 2 (29:26):
What is this sixth besties theory on TikTok? When it
comes to friends?
Speaker 1 (29:29):
Now?
Speaker 3 (29:29):
Well, and I think this one because friendships are something
that like, as you get older, they're more difficult to keep.
People move away. You're not you know. I think in
high school and college your friends are your world. You know,
you see them every day, they live down the house.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
I always thought the friends I was going to school with,
we would never not see each other every day exactly,
would always live in the same place exactly.
Speaker 3 (29:51):
And life happens, people move away, and you really have
to make an effort. So a lot of people think
and they expect so much out of a friendship, and
that might be your problem. You expect too much out
of a one person and they can't fulfill all of
these needs for you. So that's with this six bestie
theory on TikTok kind of went viral, and when you
break it down like this, I'm like, oh, this makes sense.
(30:12):
So what you're supposed to have is six different types
of besties. So these are the six that you should
have to really kind of like balance out with your friends.
Speaker 1 (30:22):
Six best friends. Is that a problem.
Speaker 4 (30:25):
Because I think like some of your one of your
friends could could be two of these.
Speaker 3 (30:29):
Maybe yeah, but but having one person be all six
is like, there's that would be crazy. So one of
the besties that you should have is a dead body bestie. Okay,
so this person is a no judgment friend. You can
tell them anything, any major screw up, you can go
to them and they.
Speaker 1 (30:46):
Will probably have one of those yes.
Speaker 3 (30:49):
Okay, here's the good time bestie, the perfect plus one
who is always down for a fun night and adventure.
That's like Nelson for me.
Speaker 2 (30:57):
But it's not a bestie, he's my best friend. Oh well, sorry,
you have a few best friends that I've heard about
over the last twenty year.
Speaker 3 (31:06):
But this is the thing. So these are like I
all have.
Speaker 1 (31:09):
Different You plug and you plug and play for fun
for him.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
Right. Then there's the work bestie, someone who already knows
all the work drama, and then you can discuss more
of it like off slack theory, similar ambitions bestie, So
the friend who is on a similar journey as you.
Sure this is Don Francisco for you. For me, you
have the og bestie, someone who knows your biography like
(31:35):
it's their own. They know you like the you know
the back of their hand. And you guys are just
og bestI is that's like Tasa. For me, we go
back to like middle school. And then your north star bestie,
the ultimate bestie who fully sees you like almost like
your twin flame.
Speaker 2 (31:50):
Okay, I need to take this down at three, and
people need to double up because this is way too
many best.
Speaker 4 (31:56):
No, like like the north start, my north Star bestie
is like my good time best It's the same girl.
But they would she would be my good time bestie
and my north star.
Speaker 2 (32:04):
But so let me take Kurt, right, Let's see God
buddy Kurt, So Kurt, dead body, busty bestie. All right,
I'm reading your thing here, doesn't okay? Yeah, he could
be that good time he's that work. No he's not
that No, he's not that similar ambition. No, no, you're different.
Speaker 3 (32:22):
O G.
Speaker 2 (32:23):
Yeah, he's that north Star. Hey, I don't know if
he's a north Star.
Speaker 5 (32:28):
So he does.
Speaker 2 (32:29):
So we covered a couple bases there. All right, Well,
who's our best friend here? Let's talk about our work
besties while we're on it. I don't want to point.
Speaker 3 (32:36):
Fingers like Tubbs is yours?
Speaker 1 (32:39):
You think Tubbs is mine? You don't think y'all's is mine.
Speaker 3 (32:41):
No, I think you and Tubbs have like this weird
like bond.
Speaker 1 (32:45):
Why do you think that?
Speaker 3 (32:47):
I think just because you are listening smiling about it.
I don't know. It's like the closeness that you two
share and like this bronus.
Speaker 5 (32:55):
Yeah, you guys have a bromance.
Speaker 1 (32:56):
Well, we just don't have to speak so nice.
Speaker 3 (32:59):
Well that's the thing. It's like he knows what you're
thinking without you even have literally nodding his head.
Speaker 1 (33:04):
Yes, you guys, I have to speak. I have to talk,
yes myself.
Speaker 15 (33:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (33:08):
And there's a lot of emotions being besties with Tanya
and I. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (33:12):
Oh, thank you for recognizing that.
Speaker 3 (33:13):
I mean, look, we're a lot. Thank you.
Speaker 2 (33:17):
Like Tubbs is just chill waiting for this day. Good morning,
Los Angeles, Orange County. I'm grabbing Jasmine on the phone. Here, Jasmin,
good Morning's Seacrest, it's Tanya, it's Cistin.
Speaker 1 (33:27):
It's the back room. Even Tubbs is listening.
Speaker 8 (33:30):
Hey guys, good morning.
Speaker 1 (33:32):
Got our attention. How are you doing this morning?
Speaker 8 (33:35):
You know it's a great day to be alive, and uh.
Speaker 2 (33:38):
Yeah, I agree with you. Of all the days to live,
I like this one because we got it.
Speaker 8 (33:44):
Right now, and that's all that matters is right now.
Speaker 2 (33:47):
I'll look at you with the positive spirit. Got my
spirit stick. I love that.
Speaker 1 (33:51):
It's so good.
Speaker 8 (33:52):
I got stuff to start with you that. I don't
know if it's too positive, but I want to try
to make it positive or make okay.
Speaker 1 (33:58):
What's going on in Silver Lake? How can we help?
Speaker 4 (34:00):
All right?
Speaker 8 (34:01):
Ryan ain't true. Here's the deal. I'm a girl's girl.
I mean here skin nails that they mean everything to me.
So here's the hair affector. I needed a last minute
haircut and I forgot to get my employment. So you know,
I ran into my girls to salon where my girl
is and unfortunately she wasn't there. So there was another
(34:24):
woman I ended up sitting with who did my hair.
And here's the kickers. She did a way better job than.
Speaker 13 (34:32):
My normal girl.
Speaker 1 (34:34):
You're feeling guilty and a.
Speaker 8 (34:36):
Lot of guilt. But here's the thing, Like, I pay
my money, I want to get great service in the
best service at that, you know. So all is well.
I get in the chair, she cuts my hair. I
love it. It's fabulous. So as I'm leaving out of
the salon, guess who I see.
Speaker 3 (34:53):
Your other hairstack girl?
Speaker 8 (34:55):
No, my girl. So there was like a awkward exchange
for a second, and she was like, oh hey, and
it wasn't me, but it wasn't too nice. And I
were with you.
Speaker 2 (35:09):
When you were with the substitute hairstyle and you ran
into your main hairstylist.
Speaker 8 (35:15):
Exactly, That's exactly what happened. Wait, Ryan, listen, I tried
to get an appointment with her. I tried to go
at the last minute, but she wasn't there. So what
was I.
Speaker 13 (35:23):
Supposed to do?
Speaker 5 (35:24):
But then that's fine, Yeah, totally fine.
Speaker 1 (35:26):
Yea, I was going to know that she was too
booked up for you.
Speaker 3 (35:28):
That's a weird, well, because she's price surprised to even
see you and not have an appointment on the books
with her.
Speaker 8 (35:37):
Okay, so you're you're thinking, how I'm thinking, man, So
me immediately I tell her, I'm like, oh my gosh,
you know, I just went with whomever's there. But you know,
you know when somebody's bothered by something, So she kind
of just gave a look like, you know, like whatever.
And now I don't know what to do. And I
say that because I want to go to the other file.
(36:00):
How am I supposed to do?
Speaker 2 (36:02):
You want to go to the new stylist that you
just discovered exactly?
Speaker 3 (36:06):
I think you just do it.
Speaker 2 (36:08):
Yeah, I mean, by the way, your your regular stylist
didn't have the room for you in her book, and
so you had to enterprisingly go find someone to get
your hair done, and you did it.
Speaker 1 (36:19):
Are they in the same salon? Yeah, they're in the
same build.
Speaker 8 (36:25):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (36:25):
I mean, probably be awkward, but you'll get through it.
Speaker 2 (36:28):
I've been through this, okay. I've actually had to do
this in my boxing gym. So yeah, one of the
one of the guys you know, boxes and he boxes
with me, but every time we're boxing, he is preparing
me for an actual boxing match. I'm not in there
to box. I'm in there to lose my waist, right,
I'm in there to get fit.
Speaker 1 (36:48):
I don't need to. I'm not getting ready for a fight.
Speaker 2 (36:51):
So the one guy, you know, when I go in there,
they said, well, who you want to box with today?
And I say guy Too. But Guy one is there,
and Guy One's just watched to me with Guy Too.
And I had to actually say to Guy one, hey,
I'm with Guy Too because I don't want to prepare
for a fight. I just want to burn calories. And
so now I see Guy one all the time with
Guy Too, and I think you're gonna have to do
(37:13):
the same thing.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
Just be honest. You want to be with stylist two?
Speaker 3 (37:18):
Yeah, your service, and you'd like I feel the guilt
the other service.
Speaker 1 (37:22):
She's not hurting. Sounds like she's booked up.
Speaker 2 (37:25):
True, her books are full, books are full. Just think
about my boxing, think about my boxing scenario. When you're
doing this and you are not tripping jazzm and nobody
here is tripping on anything.
Speaker 1 (37:37):
Okay. I appreciate you, Thank you guys.
Speaker 5 (37:40):
I appreciate you all so funny. I can't do that.
Speaker 4 (37:46):
I literally only left my old hairstylace because she moved
to Florida.
Speaker 3 (37:49):
It's tough. We just have to rip the band it off.
Speaker 2 (37:51):
But I would say, like I thought, Tony, you would
have gone in one of those uh workbooks that has
to do with not carrying guilt like you've done all
the other ones.
Speaker 5 (37:59):
I know, but.
Speaker 4 (38:01):
I don't know what it is. I think when it
comes to that kind of stuff, I feel like loyal.
I think I'm very loyal, and so it's hard for
me to jump.
Speaker 1 (38:10):
Do you still go to the Dennis and tu La Vista?
Speaker 5 (38:12):
Yes? I do?
Speaker 3 (38:14):
I do.
Speaker 5 (38:15):
It's hard for me.
Speaker 1 (38:16):
You go to San Diego for you dn't.
Speaker 3 (38:17):
Jewel a Vista?
Speaker 5 (38:18):
No, No, it's in for Tondo Beach.
Speaker 3 (38:20):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (38:21):
I was making a geography joke, but.
Speaker 3 (38:24):
Everyone's head city before Mexico. Yeah, I got it.
Speaker 5 (38:27):
I was picking up what you're thrown down.
Speaker 1 (38:29):
You were picking it up. I was throwing it down there,
way down there. Yeahs St.
Speaker 2 (38:33):
Clementi, I was sitting it down beyond San Clemente. I
went past San Diego almost.
Speaker 1 (38:37):
Yeah, you did right.
Speaker 3 (38:40):
On air with a Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 1 (38:45):
Hey can I grab Sarah here? Sarah? Good morning, Sarah?
How are you good morning? How are you super good?
So you're calling us about your sister and what's the issue.
Speaker 13 (38:55):
I am called out my sister. But first I want
to say quick congratulations to An. I know she recently
got engaged, so she did.
Speaker 4 (39:03):
Thank you, thank you so much, thank you, thank you.
Speaker 2 (39:07):
We're so relieved, I mean excited. We're just in the
planning phase. Now, in the planning phase.
Speaker 3 (39:15):
We he says, we are.
Speaker 1 (39:18):
This is going to be a group.
Speaker 8 (39:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (39:22):
By the way, no, I know, guys, we're gonna start planning.
But we wanted to enjoy the bubble of this engagement.
Speaker 3 (39:30):
What did I tell you? I was like, enjoy being
engaged because you're only going to be engaged for like
a small.
Speaker 5 (39:34):
Portion, right, because once we start planning, it's.
Speaker 3 (39:37):
That's going to save the date coming within the next
few weeks.
Speaker 1 (39:41):
Oh my god.
Speaker 5 (39:42):
Really, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (39:43):
I'm just trying to chill.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
Shut him up.
Speaker 10 (39:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (39:50):
By the way, Mikayla, did you hear Ruby got a reservation.
Speaker 3 (39:52):
At no Idea? You got it?
Speaker 1 (39:55):
We got it? Mark, did you hear.
Speaker 3 (39:58):
It's gonna be so excited?
Speaker 1 (40:00):
Well, bunch, you text her okay and ask her how
it was.
Speaker 2 (40:02):
I think she did it. Yeah, Ruby, Mexico City. Still
when she's coming back ever.
Speaker 1 (40:10):
Sarah, anyway, Sorry, we digress. Go ahead, that's.
Speaker 13 (40:14):
Okay, I no, Yeah, onto my sister. So you know,
I've had my sister. She's staying with me for a
couple of months. I'm really excited, but I'm a few
weeks in and she started making these really offhand, kind
of rude comments about my decor, like about like the
wallpaper and the mirrors and like the things that I've chosen,
(40:35):
and I'm just you know, at first, I like let
it slide. I wasn't even sure how to react to it.
But then Amazon boxes started showing up and she's like
like literally ordering stuff from my house and like trying
to put it up, and so I don't know, I
just am not sure how to even react.
Speaker 2 (40:51):
Or like always like this, do you know what you're
getting when your sister's around?
Speaker 13 (40:56):
You know, she is kind of always like this, but
not to this degree. Like she definitely is a person
who will make her opinions known, so I understand that
about her, but this is like kind of passive aggressive
comments about ship lap like that is it's to a
new level.
Speaker 3 (41:13):
So how long is she staying with you?
Speaker 13 (41:16):
She's saying for about four months. She's just kind of
in between, you know, she's moving to a new place
things like that, So just.
Speaker 3 (41:24):
You just let it go. It's your sister. It's so
petty to try to get.
Speaker 1 (41:27):
I agree about it. Not worth it.
Speaker 2 (41:29):
And frankly, maybe she's got a few good ideas to
spruce up your place.
Speaker 5 (41:35):
What No, that's so annoying.
Speaker 3 (41:39):
And my sister does too. But my sister's an interior designer,
so I really have to let it go. Lucky you.
Speaker 1 (41:43):
What is her charge?
Speaker 3 (41:45):
We can talk off life if you want, But does
she up.
Speaker 1 (41:47):
Charge on a purchase?
Speaker 3 (41:49):
No, not for me.
Speaker 1 (41:51):
But for her clients.
Speaker 3 (41:52):
Yeah, she didn't give you a homeidation. I don't know that.
I'm disclosed to talk about that on.
Speaker 2 (41:58):
The industry standard is here, Sarah. So my mom does this,
She shows up and all of a sudden, there's a
new bath mat in my bathroom, Like what is that?
Speaker 3 (42:06):
She's going to think it's cute, it's endearing and like
at the end of the day, like it's always funny
because Michael even knows, Oh, like when Jeanette's gonna come over,
like some stuff is going to be either rearranged or
we're going to buy a new.
Speaker 1 (42:16):
Couch for the corner of this dread coming home.
Speaker 3 (42:19):
Now dreads it but like we know that she's going
to rearrange your bookshelves, like and you just you just
let it happen and then when they leave, you just
put it back to how you celebrate.
Speaker 1 (42:28):
I mean, yeah, exactly, Sarah.
Speaker 2 (42:31):
This is one of those things we think when it
comes to the picking our battles, we don't pick much.
Speaker 3 (42:35):
Yeah, don't pick this because you don't want to mess
with family and dynamics. And it's not it's so petty
to get in the argument about that.
Speaker 13 (42:43):
Totally. It's coming from a place of love. I hear you.
Speaker 2 (42:45):
It really is, all right, thanks Sarah. For a second,
I thought she's like, no, not what I want to
some else? Call you guys, have any other stations? I
can call it all slew them here. Uh okay what
talk backs? Yes, so this is really easy. If you
go inside our KISSFM page and Ietradio there's the red
microphone you can send us talkbacks and we love these.
Speaker 1 (43:08):
So here's the first. So this from Blondie listening in
the three to one.
Speaker 15 (43:11):
Oh, Ryan, Tanya and Siciny, good morning. So I have
a question right now that you guys are talking about
Tinder and Hinge, my boyfriend of six years. We broke
up in November and he moved down in December. I
haven't talked to him since January. I haven't seen him
(43:32):
since January. Question, what is the okay time to download
an app like that just to look around and make friends?
Speaker 1 (43:41):
Now?
Speaker 5 (43:42):
Yeah, asap?
Speaker 1 (43:43):
Now?
Speaker 2 (43:43):
I think you can do it now. I mean you
guys broke up. You did it in November through December.
It's a new year, and I think it's start. I mean,
you've got to get out and socialize. You can't keeping
it all in the next day. Motion creates emotion. I say,
go for it. I don't think you should feel bad
about that at all. But thank you, Bunny. Love that question.
That's why these talkbacks are great. Could be anything. That's
the other part. It's a real Popori. Let's grab John
(44:07):
and Glynny.
Speaker 3 (44:09):
I was wanting to know where you go to per pedicure.
Speaker 2 (44:14):
I appreciate you being so covert with the question. Now
it kind of depends, like I can. I don't have
a regular place. There are a lot. You don't realize
how many places have signs out front and shopping center
that say nails any shopping center, John, Honestly, where you
see this on Big nails.
Speaker 1 (44:35):
That's for you. Don't be intimidated. I was at one point.
Speaker 2 (44:38):
I was little scared of going in some of those
places is it nails, because I didn't want much stuff
done in my nails.
Speaker 1 (44:43):
I just want them cleaned up. I'm clear.
Speaker 2 (44:45):
But they know, like all the nails places, know how
to do what you want if you want that shiny
buff simple.
Speaker 1 (44:53):
Also I am.
Speaker 2 (44:55):
Pedicure too, but I also try and John tell them like,
can we do it in twenty twenty minutes?
Speaker 5 (45:00):
Because maybe Jone wants a longer massage.
Speaker 1 (45:02):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (45:03):
There's a lot of guys that go to my salon.
Speaker 1 (45:05):
I don't mean the rub and the ankle.
Speaker 3 (45:07):
Yeah, the best part is going to be the whole thing.
I just grubbed down.
Speaker 2 (45:11):
If you can get in and out in twenty minutes, bro,
now maybe if you add the petty, it might be
thirty two minutes. But any sign that says nails, don't
be afraid. Okay, this is Heather in Canoga Park, one
of our talkbacks.
Speaker 10 (45:23):
I'm trying to find out when Ryan's roses is well.
Speaker 2 (45:26):
I'm here to tell you all right, thank you for asking.
If you've never heard Ryan's roses it's worth it. It's
worth checking out. If you've heard about it, it's worth
checking out. It is Mondays and Thursdays. It's seven forty
Ryan's roses. All right, one more up tubs. Guess who
it is? Tony and Virginia Beach your guy.
Speaker 16 (45:46):
So, guys, Tony from Virginia Beach talk back Tony as
you all put it. Hey, listen, Noah, No one listens
to you, guys, because you incentiviy things.
Speaker 6 (45:57):
All right.
Speaker 16 (45:58):
We listen because you know, over time we get to
know you. And it's kind of like each morning we
tune in, we're kind of hanging out.
Speaker 5 (46:04):
What people were getting to know.
Speaker 16 (46:05):
So you know, I love that alt centivizing things. That's
not why we do it.
Speaker 12 (46:09):
So just keep doing your thing.
Speaker 1 (46:11):
Chicken wigh. Yeah, Tony's a brother officially the show.
Speaker 3 (46:17):
He sounds like someone in my family.
Speaker 1 (46:20):
Like you got those one liners. Yeah, So all right, Tony.
Speaker 2 (46:24):
Then to that point, if you're just getting to know us,
what would you like to know more about us? Send
your next talk back to us, Tony, and uh, what
can we specifically reveal to you that would help you
know us and understand us better? Just use that red
microphone inside the page there, because I've been page on
IET radio talk back Tony Now Tubbs, that's the guy
that's gonna come jiu jitsu with you, and he's visiting
(46:47):
this summer. Yeah, I believe. So I don't believe. So
he talked him four times tough talkbacks.
Speaker 1 (46:51):
That's the guy. Yeah, bail on him, are you? Nope? No? No, no,
all right.
Speaker 2 (46:57):
You know Jess is online ten and has been holding
four a song or two. So let me grab Jess.
Good morning, Jess. You're calling about dating again? Yes, so
the question is when can you start dating again?
Speaker 6 (47:11):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (47:12):
What happened?
Speaker 8 (47:14):
Okay?
Speaker 6 (47:14):
So like basically, like long story short, like back in March,
I like called off my engagement and I'm not even
kidding you, Ryan, maybe like two weeks later, he already
has a new girlfriend's already out and about with her,
and I.
Speaker 9 (47:34):
Like I'm really having a hard.
Speaker 6 (47:35):
Time like shaking off feeling guilty and like obviously obviously
it like still hurts. And all my friends keep telling me, like,
you know, Jess, like you need to get back out there,
you need to do this for you. So like I
don't know, like what do you guys think?
Speaker 1 (47:50):
Well, why was the engagement called off.
Speaker 6 (47:54):
So he was very like manipulative and controlling and like
emotionally abusive, and it like got to the point where
like my friends and family were like so concerned about
me that they literally shut me down and was like,
you know, this is what we think. And I finally
(48:14):
was able to snap out of it and realize that
I can't go through with it.
Speaker 2 (48:18):
Well, I'm happy that you got to that place for yourself.
Speaker 1 (48:22):
And I don't know why you feel guilt.
Speaker 2 (48:25):
Why do you feel guilt if you were in a
bad relationship with a person treating you badly? Where is
the guilt coming from?
Speaker 8 (48:34):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (48:34):
It just like feels weird, like or like why he
is okay? Just moving on so quickly, Like I don't look.
Speaker 1 (48:43):
I think that I can't possibly understand what you went through.
Speaker 2 (48:47):
But I want to say this that if you were
going through what you just described and you're now out
of it, that's positive. That's just that's very very good news.
I mean, you're you're starting with the clean slate. You're
in a positive hopefully stay in mind moving forward. And
so I don't even know if we should question anything
about why this and why that? The point is you
(49:09):
realize that this was bad for you and you got
out of it, and that's great. So I don't think
you should focus on setting a date or or feeling
the guilt when you feel like you want to go
see somebody, have some fun, meet someone, go out, then
you just do it right.
Speaker 3 (49:25):
You'll know when you're ready.
Speaker 1 (49:28):
Yeah, So don't don't put the pressure on yourself.
Speaker 2 (49:32):
Don't if your friend look, friends want to get you
into you know, they're like, go have a good time.
You deserve it. But don't put pressure on yourself. You're
in a great place. You made the right decision. Know
that when you put your head on your pillow.
Speaker 3 (49:46):
Yeah, Easier said, I know.
Speaker 1 (49:49):
Yeah, good luck, Jess. I'm glad that you're in this
new chapter of your life.
Speaker 8 (49:55):
Thanks guys, Okay, take.
Speaker 1 (49:57):
Care, Okay bye.
Speaker 3 (49:59):
That's hard.
Speaker 1 (50:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (50:01):
I mean I'm starting to think, was that that guy
started seeing somebody two weeks after the breakup? Was he
already seeing somebody? I mean, he sounds like bad news anyway,
or or was he.
Speaker 3 (50:09):
Going to once they got married, like you know what
I mean, Like, yeah, like he didn't seem like the
right dude for her anyways.
Speaker 2 (50:14):
But I think It's like we all we do put
pressure on ourselves, you know, we put unneeded pressure on ourselves.
Sometimes she had the weight lifted off of her by
getting past this relationship.
Speaker 1 (50:26):
That's it for us. We'll see you tomorrow.
Speaker 3 (50:29):
You guys coming over tonight tonight Now, I have dinner plans.
Thank you so much for the invite.
Speaker 1 (50:35):
How about not the same day invite?
Speaker 5 (50:37):
Taco Tuesday broke kettle black? Yeah yeah, texting us an
hour before lunch. Hey, guys, want to be that noon?
Speaker 1 (50:45):
For not going all right, We'll see tomorrow. Guys. Thanks
for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure
to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow
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