November 27, 2024 • 42 mins
MORNING HACK: The one place you should never put perfume and/or cologne And Sisanie breaks down the newest dating trend in LA
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
Thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 1 (00:03):
Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Do you follow at Secret dot Los Angeles on Instagram?
You on Instagram, So it's a good follow. A lot
of local recommendations here, and there is something cool about
living in southern California where you know what you're talking about.
When you say, for example, I gotta go over the hill.
It doesn't mean you gotta get old no, no, no, right,
but where I grub. If you're over the hill, you're
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over forty. That was the mile marker.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Not here.
Speaker 4 (00:32):
If you're say over the hill, you're going to be
stuck on Coldwater Canyon or Laurel Canyon.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Traffic.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Over the hill means which way from the valley to
the west side or the west side to the valley. Exactly,
I gotta get over the hill. Oh it's going to
take me an hour and a half.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Exactly.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
You don't have to go over the hill. I gotta
go over the hill.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Spend your whole day over the hill because you can't
get back and forth the hill right right, and you're
going over the hill today.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
I got a pack a bag of going over the hill.
Speaker 5 (00:55):
Not for going over the hill on the opposite of traffic.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Well, then you have to have the right schedule, right,
But how about when you are relieved that you want
your job is over the hill, and then you move
over the hill.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
You no longer have to go over the hill to
get it to work.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
So the other day they asked, what are some phrases
only people in LA would understand?
Speaker 2 (01:14):
And it's so true. It's so true. Like when it rains.
What did people say when it rains?
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Oh, we need it, we need it right matter what
we need it. Oh, we need it, we need it.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Yeah it's raining again. Yeah, but we need it.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
We need it.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Do you are you checking?
Speaker 3 (01:33):
How do you know we need it? Like we've had
a lot lately, but we still need it.
Speaker 5 (01:37):
Yeah, we need it.
Speaker 6 (01:38):
Uh.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Here's another one that's so good.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
That you're waiting for your friend to get to your
apartment and they're like here looking for parking.
Speaker 5 (01:46):
Yeah, me too.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Some people do it.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Like as a short They just short it to l
LFP or something for parking.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Oh, so La, Oh, this one's so good. We're coming.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
You're el sisting at three for a barbecue, and then
you reply, bring a jacket just in case.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
It might get cold.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
I honestly will probably get cold if it's not summertime.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
I need a blazer. Why are we dressing up?
Speaker 7 (02:11):
No?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
It might get cold? Yes, did you feel that? What
is that? Laism?
Speaker 5 (02:16):
Earthquake?
Speaker 3 (02:18):
There's no second guessing. Did you feel that? And all
we do is google for earthquake?
Speaker 8 (02:23):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:23):
I got an x May Gray or June Gloom this one.
I'm I'm burnt out on these two. Right, these are laisms,
so Myra said. She wrote to said, you know, Runyon,
that's a big laism right. Also, Jerry said to us
here listens geographically undesirable. That's something we use in something
California a lot because it's so spread out. And Leilah
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slash Ryan said she ate that outfit, which means what
it was great.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Crushed it crushed, it look fantastic.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
And you can tell someone is from la when they
get you distance and minutes, as in how far away
do you live? Like thirty minutes but you would just
say like next door, but it's not it's thirty minutes, right, Or.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
You can say I live I don't know, thirty minutes
without traffic or forty five minutes with traffic.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
The what without traffic.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Yeah, those are laisms. I love him so much. If
you want to add to those, reach out to us.
Let's get the salespeople in here for this one.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
One. Two kids up.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
They're always yeah, I mean I got an email the
other day.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
They want to They want to know if I've had
if I've.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Ever flooded a house or something, because they're looking for
an advertiser for house flooding.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Has My house is not flooded, But if anybody has.
Greg Ashlock's looking for.
Speaker 6 (03:43):
You, they should talk to the house three houses down
from ours.
Speaker 5 (03:45):
It just keeps gushing over.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
To tell Greg that because he's looking for somebody to
do a commercially I will sales department. You might want
to listen to this story because it's going to get
some airtime right now. And it is a major cruise line,
isn't it.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
Yeah, the Norwegian Pearl, which will be renamed to the
Big Nude Boat.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
But for the journey is it a Norwegian cruise line ship?
Speaker 1 (04:07):
It is Norwegian.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
I feel like they advertise in a lot of places.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
So this is an interesting What if we gave this away,
would people want to win it?
Speaker 4 (04:14):
That would be very interesting. I would I'm actually curious
to know.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
So listen to the story and tell me.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
If it's a prize you'd want to win, I would
put it like nine thirty in every day, but I
don't know, right, you don't want to do it in
early because it's an adult win. But it's a nude
cruise out of Miami to the Caribbean, Sissy, what do you.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Have for eleven day nude cruise?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
You would be able to hold twenty three hundred passengers,
so quite a few people that are nude. But if
it makes stops in Bahamas, Puerto Rico, and Saint Martin,
And there's one place on the boat where you have
to wear clothing and do you want to guess where?
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Let me oh, the water.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
This is like the one place that you have to
wear clothing. Dinner the gym, right ding ding ding? Indoor
dining rooms, yeah, you can't, but they do have outdoor buffets.
If you do want to just continue the nudity, you
can go grab some food in the buffet.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Out Can you also wear a banding suit? Is it
nude optional? Does everybody be naked? Or can you go
and look at people but wear a bathing sit?
Speaker 1 (05:17):
It's sounding like you could wear bottoms.
Speaker 4 (05:20):
I don't know about the top because when I was
reading about the hygiene, they were saying that nudists will
have to put a towel down before sitting anywhere, So
like the lounge chairs things like that, if you're not
wearing that, if you're not wearing bottoms, those lounge chase
lounge straps could really leave a mark. I always want
to put a towel down anyways, even if I am
wearing a banting suit.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Question is there entertainment is like the entertainment like they
have shows.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
I would imagine show.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
Yeah, it's like a full crew eleven days. There's going
to be tons of entertainment marks.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
And to be dimbar let's talk to them.
Speaker 4 (05:52):
When you disembark, you have to wear clothing and the
bahamas and interested in this.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Just take it's bizarreeam bonding.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
Guys.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
Imagine if you're in into somebody you knew on one
of these dreadful.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
That's not what you want.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
No, this is not for me.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
I can't well, I don't know Tanya likes to walk
around like this? You guys, tell me I do?
Speaker 7 (06:15):
I like?
Speaker 6 (06:16):
I enjoy being nude, but I don't know if I
would enjoy it around other people.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
Does that make sense?
Speaker 2 (06:23):
I think I'm I think I'm with you on it,
like I.
Speaker 6 (06:26):
Do enjoy I love being nude in the in my home,
but I don't love it.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
I don't know if I would love to go to
the grocery store nude.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
Oh so I want to know the demographics of the
people that are doing a cruise like this.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Is it all you know? Older people?
Speaker 4 (06:39):
Or because they did they did a little survey and
they basically found out that, uh, when you get older,
you feel a little bit more comfortable in your skin,
so you're more comfortable being nude.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
So I could see it being on the older end.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Maybe we'll find the spokesperson for that. What's it called,
the big Nude boat, the.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
Big Nude Boat, Marigian Pearl.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
We'll see it.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
I don't if we're any way trips or not, but
we'll see how this goes. Interesting picture. I don't where
to get these pictures you showed us. But these pictures
or is this like rendering?
Speaker 1 (07:11):
No, no, no, this is these are real from uh
the New York.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Post of the thousands of people in the pool naked. Yeah,
that's crazy. I mean, it covered everything in the photo,
so you don't know but.
Speaker 5 (07:23):
The big nude boat.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
So are you dating or trying to date? And how
do you feel about it? It's just not It's just
not so easy most of the time. So there is
this trend. Tanya clearly is for it. Sisney's gonna explain
it and then we can all weigh in. But it
is a new dating trend here in Los Angeles where
you give a PowerPoint presentation about your friend and why
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they shouldn't be single, exaactly exactly.
Speaker 4 (07:51):
I think dating in general has probably got a big struggle,
especially here in LA.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Why why why don't we say that? Though, I mean
I say it too, but why here.
Speaker 4 (07:58):
In La Because this is such a fast moving city.
And then also public transportation here is not the easiest,
so you need to have a car to get to
somebody on the west side, and then you're dealing with traffic,
and so then you just.
Speaker 6 (08:10):
Give up and the city is like the bigger, better
deal syndrome.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Not everywhere, that's that's the blocks you.
Speaker 5 (08:17):
Walk, Okay, just saying there's not.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
The blocks everywhere, all right, So explain this to me.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
So now I imagine you're instead of having to do
the apps, your best friend is the one that's pitching
you to strangers. And so this group in LA called
the Next Fun Thing throws regular dating events.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
I just did one.
Speaker 4 (08:36):
Yeah, well yeah, and they actually just did this specific
one this past weekend.
Speaker 7 (08:40):
Seen.
Speaker 4 (08:40):
But before this, they've done like speed dating, like the
traditional speed dating and all that stuff, or mingles and
things like that. But this is the first power point
one where your friends are just explaining to.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
A group of strangers.
Speaker 4 (08:52):
Are up on stage and they're explaining to a group
of strangers why.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
You are personal? Why is it so insane that you're
still single?
Speaker 4 (08:59):
Why you just go on and on and on about
your best friend to like shine this huge light on them.
And I think coming from a friend or a family
member or whatever is is so much better than you
on a dating app because you're kind of just like
speaking for yourself on a dating app. You're like, this
is why I'm great, and it's kind of if you
were to do.
Speaker 6 (09:17):
This for me, yeah, oh my gosh, I would be
what what would you say?
Speaker 3 (09:21):
Because I mean, I will tell you a week doesn't
go by where someone doesn't say to me, how come
you've never been married. Oh every week, every single week.
I mean I circulate, I'm out in the wild. You
know these people I don't know. They're just curious why,
and I don't have all the answers. But I say,
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if you were to do this for me, Tanya, yes,
what would you say?
Speaker 5 (09:45):
Okay, Well, first of all, you.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
Take some time to come back next week.
Speaker 6 (09:48):
Yeah, because I would do like a full presentation, like
I would have to really think about it, but I'd
say at the top, I'd put one of the top
things at the top of my list. I would say,
you're very loyal, and then I would go in to explain,
like my PowerPoint would have different like.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
How long does a presentation? There must be a time.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Let's just say it's three minutes, right, she has three minutes.
You have to have like bullets.
Speaker 6 (10:07):
So like loyalty would be at the top of my list,
and I would say, how long you've worked at this show,
how long you've worked on other shows, like your commitment,
So that is huge loyalty right there, bing bing bing.
I would say, you're romantic, and I would go and
explain some of the very don't.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Give examples of him while he's romantic. With ex girlfriends. Well,
I love that.
Speaker 6 (10:28):
I'd love to hear about candles and like romantic weekend,
like getaway is what are you doing for the next
forty hours?
Speaker 5 (10:34):
What a great line.
Speaker 6 (10:35):
Yeah, so I'd put that in there, and then i'd
button it up with your relationship with your mom and say,
everybody wants a mama's boy, and he is the quintessential
mama's boy.
Speaker 5 (10:47):
He loves and.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
Take need, not needy like a mama's boy.
Speaker 5 (10:51):
No, no, no, I didn't say needy.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
Sometimes I love, I love it could be a negative.
Speaker 3 (10:58):
By the way, Remember it was like viral news that
I said, I call my mom every day.
Speaker 2 (11:04):
We talked about it here. All of a sudden I
read it on et or So that's.
Speaker 4 (11:08):
So funny, you know, you know, I would add that
you're also witty, So like if you want to laugh
in a relationship, this guy will, this guy will crack
you up.
Speaker 5 (11:15):
Humor humor.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
Gosh, all right, do you know the founder? I think
you do.
Speaker 4 (11:19):
Actually, do I know the founder of the next We
should have found her.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
We should have her.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
On And so that's a great idea, And let's find
out the success rate and hear what the presentations are that's.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
Idea, but who is she actually just was on a
talk show because one of the couples that met at
one of our events is now married and like they're
having inky babies.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
It's just it's so beautiful. I love it. The next
fun thing.
Speaker 3 (11:40):
This is the new dating trend here in la. Are
you a person that wears a fragrance? Some people are anti,
you know, they don't like cilantro, they don't like cologne,
they don't want to wear it, they don't like the
taste of like they're just anti, they're against it. Other
people will say, oh, what's that scent? Like I've had
people say to me, what's that sense? The truth is,
for my scent, I don't know. I bought two different
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colognes at a gift shop and I combined them.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
One is sandily and one is rosy.
Speaker 5 (12:06):
Thallium and something else.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
Used to be a thallium.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
Now it's two things that I just combined because I
was traveling and I grabbed them at a gift shop
and I happened to like them. I don't even know
the name, but there one is like rosy and one
is sandily. When you put them together, they're kind of
unique scent.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
Quite the chemist over there.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
So if you want to stay looking young, stop putting
Perfumer colone on your neck.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
Young.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
The alcohol causes wrinkles on your neck.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
Are you hearing me?
Speaker 1 (12:40):
Everything causes wrinkles.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
But I spray my neck all the time.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
But don't you all, I'm also lotion your neck.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
I do losee in my neck, but not as much
as I sprayed my neck. I didn't.
Speaker 5 (12:52):
Yeah, I don't really lotion my neck so much every night.
Speaker 3 (12:56):
Make your skin more sensitive to the sun too, So
apply frank is to your wrists, only your wrists, not
your neck.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
Didn't know that you?
Speaker 2 (13:06):
Yeah, well, I'm just telling you it's gonna cause wrinkles.
Speaker 3 (13:10):
Fun fact, right, Today's quote one of the most freeing
things We do a quote every morning. Yeah, here's today's
One of the most freeing things we learn in life
is that we don't like everyone. Everyone doesn't like us. Great,
and that's okay, and that's okay.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
On Air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
These are some of this stuff just strikes me as nuts,
but let's get into it. So these are the most
talked about TikTok trends right now. Some are dangerous, Some
don't work.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
Some do work.
Speaker 3 (13:44):
But the one I that struck me the belly button one.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
I don't like my belly button.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
Okay, tell me why.
Speaker 3 (13:51):
I don't know if I've ever told you that I
don't like it.
Speaker 2 (13:55):
It goes so far in.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
Oh, it's like a deep one.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
It's a deep one. Sometimes I don't even see the back.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
Yeah, mine's kind of like that too. And then and
then when I was pregnant, it like reversed out. Oh,
then it goes back in.
Speaker 3 (14:10):
I always wanted I always like looked up to people
that had Audi's really not the car, the Audi. Yeah,
I always felt like, gosh, I wanted an oudy anyway.
Speaker 2 (14:18):
I ever wanted a castor oil in your belly button?
Speaker 3 (14:21):
A TikToker with a bunch of followers says it fights
bacterial infections, improves gut health, and stimulates weight loss.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Why is it safe? No? And does it work?
Speaker 3 (14:35):
No? It can cause irritation and clog your pores cause
acne does all this stuff you don't want. But I
think common sense says, putting oiled cast or oil deep
in there probably Yeah, a bad idea.
Speaker 5 (14:44):
It's so weird.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
Next one, this is about coffee part of my morning.
Look forward to it every day. But if you ever
put brood coffee on your scalp, there is a TikTok trend.
Some people put brood coffee in a spray bottle, spray
it on their hand, and they say it encourages hair growth.
It does well.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
Is it safe?
Speaker 3 (15:06):
Yes, it's caffeine. It's safe and it could has lots
of benefits for the hair. It just feels weird to me,
like there's other options. It feels like a little grosser
spray coffee into its natural I don't know.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Just coffee. It's a cidic. It doesn't feel right.
Speaker 1 (15:23):
I know I'm in like too much caffeine, but in
just into your body. It scares me.
Speaker 3 (15:29):
Tanya who tapes her mouth shut at night. Have you
heard about this? One duct tape to remove warts? By
the way, if you haven't heard, Tanya has a sleeping
ceremony where she likes to tape her mouth shut for
some Do you still do that every night?
Speaker 6 (15:45):
And let me tell you, I sleep like I am
under a rock under a dark, dark tunnel, and I'm
not this morning.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
Yeah, that's why you got here so late.
Speaker 5 (15:56):
It is the best sleep ever.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
Maybe too good a sleep.
Speaker 3 (15:59):
Maybe it's but half the tape. So you get here
a few minutes earlier. All right, duct tape to remove warts.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
Listen to this.
Speaker 3 (16:07):
They say, putting duct tape over a wart once every
four to seven days will remove them from your hands
or your feet. It is safe and dermatologists agree that
it does work. So if you are warting right now,
duck is gross, but duct tape it.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
Warts are gross, not the duct tape.
Speaker 3 (16:27):
Duct tape to remove your warts, the derm say, is okay.
The weirdest trends on TikTok right now. So we were
talking earlier about meditation, and Tony's a very rigid definition
of what meditation is, and I just think for me
it is.
Speaker 5 (16:42):
The definition of what it is.
Speaker 3 (16:44):
I don't believe you because I say I can't, and
Sydney I agree, we can't. I'm not good at mantraing
meditation or doing what a lot a lot of people
do and I know it's good for you where they
can go sit on a bench and take ten minutes
and not think about stuff, or try not think about
stuff and repeat mantra.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
I can't do that.
Speaker 3 (17:03):
I do find it meditative to go to the coast
to go to the beach, to go not get in
the water because I think it's polluted right now, but
go to the beach and watch the sun set if
I have an opportunity to do that, especially in the summer.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Nights when it's a year later version of it.
Speaker 3 (17:15):
That's a version of meditation to me. Another version of
meditation to me is running.
Speaker 5 (17:20):
I can see that meditation.
Speaker 4 (17:23):
It can be.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
You can see how it clears the mind.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
So you are the reason I bring this uping is
you're cutting down Tanya on your social media, and you're
cutting down on drinking.
Speaker 5 (17:34):
I'm trying to cut down on those two things.
Speaker 2 (17:36):
And when how long has this attempt been active?
Speaker 5 (17:39):
About five days?
Speaker 4 (17:41):
Why would you try cutting down on drinking in the
summer summers, Like, because that's the problem.
Speaker 3 (17:48):
You keep saying that it's Tuesdays right right, Wednesday.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
Thursday all the time.
Speaker 6 (17:58):
And I'm just like, I don't sleep my best when
I drink alcohol, so I it's I always regret it
the next day, and I'm like, why am I doing this?
So I'm trying to cut down to two drinks a week,
meaning my enjoy Robbie no like two sessions like.
Speaker 2 (18:16):
Okay, so two nights of knoxing out.
Speaker 5 (18:23):
Correct or like whatever am I choosing is.
Speaker 3 (18:25):
That was a very aste details you shouldn't be more
than that's.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Not cutting back.
Speaker 3 (18:34):
For me. And then how many sessions of social media
are you cutting?
Speaker 6 (18:38):
So that's the other thing I've found. I've been becoming
very Stagnan's not the right word.
Speaker 5 (18:44):
Uh, it takes me a lot.
Speaker 6 (18:46):
No, it gives me a lot longer to get something
done than it ever has my life. And I'm like,
this is crazy that this just took me an hour
and it should have taken me ten minutes. And I
realize it's because I get distracted and I go and
I start looking through my phone like it sucked into
TikTok sucked in or whatever.
Speaker 5 (19:02):
No, so now I'm.
Speaker 6 (19:03):
Trying to put my phone down whenever I'm doing tasks
and I'm not allowed to look at it until I
finish the task.
Speaker 4 (19:08):
What happens if you need your phone for the task?
Sometimes that happens to me, and then I do get lost,
Like I'll always say, I'm like on Instagram when I
wanted to check my email.
Speaker 6 (19:16):
Right, or like you just need to send a quick text,
like what time is this appointment.
Speaker 5 (19:19):
To start scrowling.
Speaker 2 (19:20):
Yeah, I can't do it.
Speaker 5 (19:21):
I can't do it. It hasn't happened yet.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
Get a ship phone.
Speaker 5 (19:26):
That feels it feels way harsh.
Speaker 2 (19:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (19:29):
I like what you I like what you're trying to do.
It is tough to do it in summer. I feel
like this is a fall. This is like an October.
Speaker 5 (19:35):
Over in September.
Speaker 1 (19:36):
January first type of thing.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
Yeah, this is the drive January, no social January program.
Speaker 5 (19:41):
I know, like this is like social months.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
Whatever you need.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
Uh, I'm really with you on the putting the phone
down in a way when trying to focus on something,
because I too find that, oh my gosh, I can't
get through a page I'm trying to read because I've
got my phone in my lap and I keep having
to reread the same page over and over again.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
I'm trying to respond to what I'm reading and it's
just too overwhelming.
Speaker 5 (20:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (20:03):
Like I was doing this a global entry application that
should take five minutes and it took me forty five
minutes the other day because I was just like.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
They should not let you enter. Yeah, so it's something I.
Speaker 3 (20:15):
Have done before, just to torture myself on a flight.
But it's become a trend. Why is it just guys
doing it?
Speaker 1 (20:21):
I don't know that part.
Speaker 4 (20:22):
I don't know why it's men that are kind of
leading the way with this. But the only thing I
can think of is that they are trying to one
up each other with their records, and so it's almost
like a pride thing to.
Speaker 2 (20:32):
Post how long ragging?
Speaker 7 (20:34):
Right?
Speaker 1 (20:34):
Yeah, how many hours you raw dogged on a flight?
Et cetera, et cetera.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
Okay, explain what it is because there's some confusion.
Speaker 4 (20:41):
In men are foregoing the modern comforts of flying with
basically no music, no streaming, no food, no drinks.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
That's the raw part, and that is the raw part.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
So that is what they what they mean when they
say I just raw dog that seven hour flight.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
Basically they stare at They.
Speaker 4 (20:58):
Just stare and so it's it has to be a
flight that doesn't have the little TV in front of
you to be able to stream movies, or if it does,
you just.
Speaker 1 (21:05):
Don't use it. The only thing they are able to
use is the flight tracker, so they can see.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
Yes, I watched that the flight tracker. I meditate watching.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
Them, and that's what they're saying.
Speaker 4 (21:14):
They're saying, it's like a form of meditation for them,
especially if it's an hour long more than an hour
long flight, they just sit there and stare.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
They don't ever.
Speaker 5 (21:24):
Grab to your neighbor.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
No.
Speaker 4 (21:27):
Yeah, I don't know that that was on the list
of things to do or not do, but it made
it seem like it was just like it's their own
personal like quiet time.
Speaker 3 (21:37):
Not bringing anything to listen do, not bringing headphones, not
bringing something to read, not bringing a scroll, not looking
at their phone, I mean not not not so they
can then post the amount of time this.
Speaker 2 (21:45):
Way, do it like fifteen hours.
Speaker 4 (21:47):
Yeah, so, I guess I saw one that said fifteen
hour flight back to LA But I could never do this.
I mean forty five minutes maybe the Vegas but max, I.
Speaker 3 (21:56):
Mean, I'm not good in my car and I'm occupied
driving it getting home in traffic.
Speaker 5 (22:00):
I could do it if I could talk to the
person next to me.
Speaker 2 (22:03):
But that's not I think that would be a flag.
It's not because that's not wrong. Raw. No, it's not.
It's not raw.
Speaker 6 (22:10):
It's like the epitome, because that's like that codependency.
Speaker 1 (22:14):
It is codependency. You're right, I will.
Speaker 2 (22:17):
Tell you that map strikes me as so interesting.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
That's like a dude thing.
Speaker 2 (22:22):
When I see the airplane in the line and how
much we don't.
Speaker 4 (22:25):
Make it too, I quite like, I think it's all right,
but I don't even stare at it and.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
So excited when we've tracked more than half of what
we have to get through.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
I don't like the line more than half.
Speaker 4 (22:36):
And then what if it's not more than half of
You're like, oh, we have so much long anxiety on air.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
With a Ryan Seacrets.
Speaker 3 (22:44):
My coworkers stiffed my daughter. Why don't two point seven
kids FM? That's the headline of this call. You know,
not giving a wedding gift? You remember who doesn't give
you away?
Speaker 1 (22:53):
Still either?
Speaker 4 (22:54):
Five people that came to my two hundred person wedding
that did not give wedding gifts.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
And I remember who those people are?
Speaker 5 (23:00):
Hundred people.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
There was a lot of guest that's a way.
Speaker 3 (23:07):
That's why she invited so many people, all those kiss
she's taken names, taking names. I remember, you want to
throw anybody out there? Is there still on that list.
Speaker 4 (23:18):
That I'm meant that I'm that it's in my life, yes,
because you know what, maybe they had the reasons.
Speaker 1 (23:24):
Maybe they forgot, maybe they thought their wife was going
to do it.
Speaker 2 (23:26):
Who knows that it's impacted their friendship with you?
Speaker 9 (23:29):
It's not.
Speaker 2 (23:31):
I mean, you are holding a grudge match.
Speaker 1 (23:33):
It's not a grudge. It's just a messarage.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
You think a definition of a grudge.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
It's not a grudges.
Speaker 4 (23:38):
I don't think about it every time I see them,
full and grudge. But when this topic comes up, I
do think about it.
Speaker 2 (23:44):
Way you do think about it when you see them.
I guarantee you know, I really I really don't think
about when you see anyway, Rachel.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
I'm sorry, Rachel, this is the thing.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
Holds grudges. Let's just be clear.
Speaker 3 (23:57):
So, Rachel, your coworker did not give your daughter a
wedding gift. Tell us what happened and about the awkwardness.
Speaker 7 (24:04):
Now, well, the awkwardness is very awkward. But okay, So
my daughter.
Speaker 9 (24:11):
Just got married, and my husband and I helped pay
for half the wedding, so of course we were entitled
to invite coworkers. I've been working at this company a
long time, so these coworkers have known my daughter, they've
seen her grow up, they know a boyfriend she dated,
They knew this this husband before he was the husband.
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You know, all the things that led up to this
special day, so they were like involved and part of it.
And of course I found out at the end that
one of my coworks who attended the wedding wasn't invited
and not attended the wedding, didn't give her a gift.
So it's extremely awkward because we work together, and I
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don't know how to handle it because I think that
it's very rude to my daughter and my else and
I'm not sure if there's a way that I can
say something to her.
Speaker 1 (25:09):
But when was the wedding.
Speaker 9 (25:12):
A month and a half ago?
Speaker 4 (25:14):
Tradition shows they have up to a year to give
a gift. I mean, you could wait the full year.
You never know, but tradition shows you have up to
a year to give a gift.
Speaker 9 (25:25):
And then is it extra special because they spent that
much time to pick it.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
I don't know.
Speaker 9 (25:31):
Something had a whole year to do it.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
How is it? How is it?
Speaker 4 (25:35):
Like?
Speaker 2 (25:36):
How are you feeling when you see this coworker regularly?
Speaker 9 (25:40):
Hurt and and mad?
Speaker 7 (25:43):
I hate to say it, hurt and mad?
Speaker 9 (25:46):
I mean I know that the point of a wedding
is not to be given gifts, and that you're there
to celebrate the newlywed couples.
Speaker 7 (25:56):
But if you attended, you know that it's.
Speaker 9 (26:00):
An X amount of money per head and I don't
know we call that little either. But if you didn't attend,
there's people gifts you don't.
Speaker 1 (26:10):
Yeah, did she come to the bridle shower?
Speaker 7 (26:14):
She did, and she wrote a gift.
Speaker 4 (26:15):
Okay, that's probably she's justifying it that that's what she
gave a gift already, that's what happened.
Speaker 9 (26:21):
Well, here's the other scenario. If you gave the gifts
at the time of the shower, not a year later.
Speaker 7 (26:26):
Wouldn't you give a gift at the wedding.
Speaker 2 (26:28):
I just want to tell you.
Speaker 3 (26:29):
I've only known you for three minutes and three seconds.
I think you have the skills and the character to
address this directly with your.
Speaker 2 (26:37):
Coworker at work.
Speaker 1 (26:38):
You don't address you even.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
Think you are now in front of all these people
in the air, Rach, I think you can. I want
you to handle this directly, face to face with heart work.
Speaker 1 (26:47):
Don't Rachel.
Speaker 2 (26:48):
Let us know who knows more about weddings.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
It's not it's not about the gift. At this point,
it's just more like, look, she didn't give a gift.
It is what it is.
Speaker 4 (26:57):
But she did like a bridle shower gift. So I
think she's yeah, boring.
Speaker 3 (27:02):
Let's have some fun address this awkwardly face to face
at work. Come on, guys, because I agree Rachel. Let
us know after the confrontation. You let us know. Thank
you for calling. I'm fired up for you.
Speaker 2 (27:18):
Good luck, she's got it.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
Maybe you should talk to.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
That advantage, Rachel. He's a tennis.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
Term mad mama.
Speaker 3 (27:28):
But by the way, there's one person that's not shy
about handling something. Handle it. Oh got me fired up.
So I don't know if you know, but Sisney's husband,
Michael is it's a rock band. Yeah, he's a garage
band essentially, and he takes it pretty seriously.
Speaker 4 (27:46):
Right, They do take it seriously. They're recording music, they're
doing all the things. But I have a home office
where I have our studio equipment in and it's my
own little like sanctuary. It's taken me a really long
time to get it looking cute. It was basically like
the storage room for the longest time. We moved in
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because room that we would fix, we would just put
the extra boxes in the office. So I finally, over
the holiday break found the time to make it super
cute in my space, Like I cleared out all the
boxes and it's just it's a great room to walk
into now. And the next day Michael puts all of
his guitars, all of his amps, all of his records
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in there.
Speaker 2 (28:32):
I don't know how much stuff.
Speaker 4 (28:33):
That's what it looks like. Honestly, they're like stacked amps
in the corner the car if you take over your space.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
No, he didn't tell me, but then he told me.
Speaker 4 (28:42):
He was like, this is necessary because it's so hot.
They can't be in the garage.
Speaker 2 (28:45):
It's not right, right, lose the equipment.
Speaker 1 (28:48):
And not about losing the equipments. He says it's gonna
warp with the heat.
Speaker 4 (28:51):
They could warp, which I understand, sure, but he did
not run it by me.
Speaker 1 (28:55):
And now I'm like, well cool, now it's just back
to the storage.
Speaker 3 (28:58):
I mean, I don't know what it's like, Michael.
Speaker 2 (29:01):
It's a hobby. Don't take it so seriously.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
It's so serious, right.
Speaker 3 (29:04):
Like sometimes people take their hobbies so seriously. You often
have to say, just make it fun.
Speaker 4 (29:11):
I mean, I understand that's expensive equipment. We don't want
it to warp.
Speaker 2 (29:13):
Or are you really investing in this hobby being in
a garage band.
Speaker 4 (29:17):
Yeah, Like, if there's like an opportunity to get him
a gift for like a special birthday, a special anniversary,
like I always go music based because it's going to
make him the happiest.
Speaker 2 (29:26):
Well, here's what you should do.
Speaker 3 (29:28):
I don't know what you've got, dresses, shoes, closed, whatever,
putting stuff in his closet space and tell him that
you've run out of your space, you know, like just
put your shoes where he.
Speaker 5 (29:37):
Normally passive aggressive. I think it's not quite the answer.
Speaker 4 (29:42):
Passive aggressive has already left the building with me talking
about it on the air and not to him.
Speaker 2 (29:46):
What's the name of the band? When are they going
on tour?
Speaker 3 (29:48):
What I need to know access dot com Echo Bird.
Speaker 4 (29:51):
They officially have an Instagram now if you want to
look them.
Speaker 3 (29:54):
Up Echobird, Echobird. Are they performing the Iredy of Music Festival?
Speaker 2 (29:58):
Is that just Jgent?
Speaker 3 (30:00):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (30:00):
That's just yeah, du Alipa and Hall.
Speaker 2 (30:02):
You know the Black Crows.
Speaker 5 (30:05):
What does ech word stand for?
Speaker 4 (30:08):
I don't know what it means. You no I was like, cool,
cool name.
Speaker 1 (30:14):
Actually that wasn't of all the name that they were choosing,
that wasn't it. One was not my favorite, but they
chose it. Do you guys talk beyond.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
Ever since we were talking about pizza, my stomach is growling.
Speaker 1 (30:24):
Yeah, I'm getting hungry, camean.
Speaker 2 (30:26):
Look, you know I also do this.
Speaker 3 (30:28):
Sometimes I'll pick up I'll be traveling, I'll pick up
a food magazine and I can't look at the food
without needing it, like wanting. It's like you're trying to
fat intermitt it fast. You're trying not to, you know,
have some. But then you look at that picture and
it's like my stomach can't help itself. But speak to
me out loud.
Speaker 1 (30:45):
Yeah, that's like torture.
Speaker 3 (30:47):
That's good for you sometimes. All right, let's get to
Kyle Kyle and Los Angeles. Kyle, good morning, Hi Ryan.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
How you doing?
Speaker 7 (30:58):
You know, not too well. I only need some advice.
Speaker 3 (31:02):
Okay, And this is in the dating department about your
girlfriend's family. Tell us what's happening.
Speaker 7 (31:08):
Yeah, So I just so we've been dating for about
a year now and things are going great between us,
but her families just really mean, like as I've been
spending more time with them. They make a lot of
snide little comments and you know, bigger comments sometimes, and
I'm she says it's fine and she's used to it,
but you know, I'm wondering if it's overstepping my bound
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if I step in?
Speaker 2 (31:32):
What they what do they do? What do they give
us an example of what's happening that you're noticing.
Speaker 7 (31:37):
Like, you know, when we're out to eat for like
a family lunch or something, someone like her mom or
something will say like, oh, are you sure you want
to get that? Like you know, it's really it's like
it's real, you know, comments about her body weight and
body and stuff, and it's just kind of like it's
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it's it's not cool, but you know it.
Speaker 2 (32:00):
It's not cool at all.
Speaker 3 (32:02):
Sometimes though, it's a I got what you're questioning, because
like sometimes families or people close to each other have
a certain way that they do speak to each other,
or certain things that they say. Like I've heard really
close friends call close friends crazy words, but they mean
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it in terms of endearment, right, you know what I'm saying,
And like if you were to say that to somebody,
like what But yet like they call each other that,
so it it's not yeah, and looking in it is
not a good It's not a good situation.
Speaker 2 (32:40):
But I don't know how you get involved.
Speaker 4 (32:43):
Have you talked to your girlfriend to like say, does
it bother her? Does she tell you it bothers her?
Speaker 7 (32:49):
I mean, she says it doesn't bother her, But sometimes
when they say that, she just kind of like it
takes the wind out of her sales, you know, she
she just kind of starts looking down then gets caught.
So I can tell it bothers. It's just I don't
know what to say about it.
Speaker 4 (33:06):
I know it's so tough because it's like I don't
know that it's your place to step in and like
change the way that her family I might say her, I.
Speaker 3 (33:13):
Might say this too, and again this is probably not
the best way to do it, but I might say
this to that family member as in aside, like not
at the table. I might say, you know, I don't
want to step on any toes here, but that I
just want to know that does make sometimes she feels
bad like somebody, she feels bad when she hears that.
I just want you to know that. And she would
never say it to you, but I wanted you to
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know that's a good thing.
Speaker 1 (33:36):
That's not a bad way to approach it, right.
Speaker 2 (33:37):
And she would never say it to you.
Speaker 3 (33:39):
I just wanted you to know that sometimes she feels
bad about that and then get out, like don't let
it linger, like get out and use that sort of
like inflection your voice.
Speaker 4 (33:46):
And I think kind of starting it off by saying
like I don't want to step on any toes like.
Speaker 3 (33:50):
And she would never want to say it, but I
just want you to know, like sometimes she feels bad
and then boom, move on.
Speaker 2 (33:55):
That might be an effective way to do it.
Speaker 6 (33:56):
Or you can encourage her to stand up for herself. Yeah,
so that way it's coming from her and you just
kind of give her and like encourage her to say,
you know, if you don't really don't like it, they
may not realize it's bothering you.
Speaker 5 (34:08):
You should say something.
Speaker 7 (34:12):
Yeah, yeah, I can get some good advice.
Speaker 2 (34:15):
So I think you have a plan. Kyle. Good luck
and thank you for Colin.
Speaker 3 (34:18):
It's really thoughtful of you to think that way for
someone you love.
Speaker 7 (34:23):
All right, thank you you take care so much.
Speaker 2 (34:25):
Bye too.
Speaker 3 (34:28):
Someways that thing in life where like do I get involved,
do I not get involved.
Speaker 2 (34:32):
Do I open up this and do it.
Speaker 3 (34:34):
But it's like, if it's if it's bothering the person
he loves and it's bothering him, there might be a
way to finesse it so that there can be progress. Right.
Speaker 2 (34:42):
So, uh, the Love Language Quiz, we like it.
Speaker 3 (34:45):
We took it. We all got our results. I can't
remember who was what, but you know it was pretty close.
Speaker 5 (34:50):
Well, you're getting to my next point.
Speaker 4 (34:52):
I think, like my I remember mind being act of
service that was mine?
Speaker 1 (34:57):
No, no, no words of affirmation.
Speaker 3 (34:58):
That was the exactly service. What was I?
Speaker 2 (35:00):
No?
Speaker 1 (35:01):
Mark has the results from like that?
Speaker 2 (35:03):
It definitely has the probably has.
Speaker 1 (35:06):
I want to retake mine too.
Speaker 4 (35:07):
I want, like my Michael and I to retake it
because I feel like you're different from five years old.
Speaker 6 (35:11):
Okay, thank you, Sisney. This is exactly so I sent Robbie.
I was like, I think we should retake and he goes,
I already took the Love Language test.
Speaker 5 (35:19):
Why would I retake it?
Speaker 6 (35:19):
I was like, it's been four and a half years,
and I think, you know, things change, people change, The
way we want to love changes, and I think it's
a good refresher to retake the quiz, and I think
we all should retake the quiz because we change, we evolve.
Speaker 1 (35:34):
I remember it being kind of long.
Speaker 5 (35:36):
It's like it is long.
Speaker 3 (35:37):
Yeah, yeah, why do we change? Do we change because
we learned that our language needs to evolve because of
the way that we're loving somebody that has a language
that needs to be heard, or like, why do we change?
Speaker 2 (35:49):
I'm not so sure my love language?
Speaker 1 (35:50):
What was it?
Speaker 7 (35:51):
Mark?
Speaker 2 (35:51):
I think it's like.
Speaker 5 (35:52):
Acts of service? I think was yours?
Speaker 1 (35:54):
Yeah, you and I remember were very synced up.
Speaker 2 (35:56):
I remember I love language was words of affirmation.
Speaker 4 (35:59):
Yeah, the top one, and then like maybe the next
one was physical touch or something like that.
Speaker 2 (36:03):
I doubt it. This was, however, almost seven years ago.
Speaker 5 (36:07):
Time to retake quiz.
Speaker 2 (36:10):
Finding we should all redtake it.
Speaker 1 (36:12):
Yes, pregnant with the twins, I was probably like, no physical.
Speaker 5 (36:15):
Touch nothing, Yeah, see things change.
Speaker 2 (36:18):
Wait what so what's the what are the results of Robbie?
Speaker 6 (36:21):
Well, so I had him retake it, and I think
I sent him the wrong quiz because it was like
ten questions.
Speaker 1 (36:26):
Well, that sounds nice.
Speaker 5 (36:27):
Ten questions is no more not accurate.
Speaker 6 (36:30):
It was not accurate, and I need to go to
the official Love languageh.
Speaker 3 (36:35):
Go, get the official questionnaire, get his results, share with us.
Speaker 2 (36:38):
I like this.
Speaker 1 (36:39):
Homework better than eating in the shower.
Speaker 3 (36:41):
Yeah, we can do this fast too, Right, and there's
a quick quiz. We'll do it right here, right here,
starting six. We'll do the results at nine.
Speaker 5 (36:46):
I'm more worried about you doing it, Ryan than Sisney.
And Sisney will do it.
Speaker 3 (36:49):
Why are you so worried about me taking the love
language quiz?
Speaker 1 (36:52):
You'll do it, bring it home activity.
Speaker 2 (36:55):
Wait, how many questions?
Speaker 5 (36:56):
Is it like a hundred?
Speaker 3 (36:57):
No?
Speaker 2 (36:57):
I don't want to do that one.
Speaker 4 (36:58):
Let me have the don't say it like that, Tanya,
it's like ten. It's like ten pages on the website.
Speaker 1 (37:04):
You just you know, folks.
Speaker 5 (37:05):
Easy, it's like and then it gives.
Speaker 4 (37:07):
You the bar that tells you like, oh my gosh,
you're fifty percent complete, you're sixty percent excited.
Speaker 1 (37:12):
Okay, it's gonna be.
Speaker 6 (37:13):
No, this is going to be the gate, the key
that opens the gate to feeling loved and giving love the.
Speaker 5 (37:20):
Way your partner wants to.
Speaker 1 (37:21):
Sit down with this. Let's do it before Valentine's Day.
Speaker 2 (37:23):
So I'm the bad guy if I'm not down. So
I'm down with this, okay.
Speaker 1 (37:26):
Great, yeah, wait, but I like his Nobody said that.
Speaker 2 (37:29):
Nobody said, by the way, I'm excited to do it.
Speaker 4 (37:32):
Can you do the same thing my kids do when
like I say something like well, I guess you, I
guess you guess you'll love me?
Speaker 3 (37:38):
No, that's whay I feel. That's the way that those
are your words of non affirmation to me. I'm like, asa,
let me grab Emma on the line. Emma, good morning.
How are you doing.
Speaker 7 (37:51):
Hi, I'm good.
Speaker 2 (37:52):
How are you super good? How can we help you?
Speaker 7 (37:55):
Okay?
Speaker 8 (37:56):
So I work at this restaurant and I was serving
from tables outside and this cute guy walked past. This
happened a couple weeks ago, and we made eye contact
and he asked to sit in my section, and we're flirting,
and he asked to take me out for a drink
after work, and I was like sure, And we go
and sit for hours and drink and talk about like
how much we have in common, and he was like,
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I found out that he got out of a six
year relationship, and which is great for me because I
got out of a ten year relationship. And so we
had all this in common, and there was this huge
spark and so we like get together again for a
second date and we hook up, and then after the
second date, he texted me and is like, hey, like
I thought I should let you know, like I did
some Instagram stocking and I'm ninety nine percent sure our
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exes are dating. And I was like, how is that
even possible because they don't even live in the same
state as we do, Like they live in Wisconsin and
we live in LA And I don't even know how
that could have happened because it's not like we met
on Instagram or through some algorithm that like was designed
to connect. It was like a happenstance thing. And I
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feel like he maybe did it on purpose, and I
don't know what to think or do, and it's it's
just like, honestly, the craziest coincidence. If it is a coincidence,
kind of wild.
Speaker 4 (39:14):
And how did the conversation come up with the whole
exes in general? Are you guys talking about your exes
that he just said it or blurted it out.
Speaker 8 (39:20):
Of no one, because yeah, yeah, because he was really
upfront and he was like, well, I just want to
let you know, like I was in a long term
relationship and I was like, try me. I was also
in a long term relationship, and it's like, you know,
when you're in a relationship that long, like it's kind
of important to disclose it, Like if you're hopefully, you know,
going to be dating this person.
Speaker 2 (39:39):
Hold on, is it possible that he sought you out
up with seeing? I mean that, like, is what you
think is happening here? That's what we think by that. Okay,
how well do you like the guy? Emma?
Speaker 9 (39:55):
I like him a lot.
Speaker 3 (39:56):
I like the whole scenario. I actually like him more
that that's happening, Like, I like your connection better because
your exes are hooking up, and that means they're there.
Drama's done, like they're together, they're doing their thing. I
like him better for you, Emma, because this is happening.
Speaker 8 (40:17):
Do I have to call my ex though and tell him, like, no, no,
you don't know that.
Speaker 4 (40:22):
This guy seems like he I want to know what
his intentions were exactly.
Speaker 8 (40:27):
That was my question. That's what I'm worried about. So
should I call him out on it?
Speaker 1 (40:31):
I think he should.
Speaker 2 (40:31):
Yes, I still like it though it makes it kind
of fun.
Speaker 1 (40:35):
No, we've done it makes it kind of stalker.
Speaker 5 (40:37):
Ish sketch, really sketch.
Speaker 3 (40:39):
But I feel like you have a connection, you have
a bond. Like clearly you guys have something in common
because you have x's that are the same, that are.
Speaker 2 (40:45):
With each other.
Speaker 4 (40:46):
But it's the way he went about it. If he
like researched Emma, it's yeah, you gotta talk talk to
him and get to the bottom of it.
Speaker 3 (40:53):
Yeah, get to the bottom of it. But if you
like him a lot, remember that. I think he's great.
Your exes are fine.
Speaker 2 (41:01):
Good on.
Speaker 3 (41:02):
Everybody wins in the scenario. Everybody wins. The ex'es are happy,
they're seeing each other.
Speaker 2 (41:06):
You like the guy. Everybody wins.
Speaker 8 (41:09):
So if it goes well, do I just hard launch
it on Instagram and watch the drama unfold.
Speaker 2 (41:14):
That's how I do it.
Speaker 5 (41:15):
Kay, yeah's a hard lunch.
Speaker 3 (41:19):
Yeah all right?
Speaker 2 (41:21):
Well good, Like just the laughter in your voice. There's
happiness here. That's what we wanted, right.
Speaker 3 (41:27):
Yeah, you understand they're both with each other, their happy.
Speaker 1 (41:33):
So now I don't agree with she's happy.
Speaker 5 (41:34):
Yeah, I'm with on this one. Honestly.
Speaker 2 (41:37):
Hm, it's weird.
Speaker 3 (41:42):
Let's understand how it happened, and then if she really
likes it, it's going to bring them closer.
Speaker 6 (41:47):
Like let's say Tubbs and I were dating, and then
you and Sysney were dating, and then Tubbs and I
break up, you and Sysney break up, and then me
and you start dating, and then Sisney up start dating.
Speaker 2 (42:00):
That is so whack. You just described their scenario.
Speaker 1 (42:05):
If it happened organically, it's not.
Speaker 4 (42:07):
But if it happened with ill intentions, like he found
her on Instagram and the.
Speaker 2 (42:14):
Connection, let's see what happened. She's into the guy.
Speaker 3 (42:17):
That's what I'm trying to say. She's happy, all right,
that's it is that the whole show. Wow did it, guys,
We did it.
Speaker 2 (42:22):
I was ready for more.
Speaker 4 (42:24):
Me too.
Speaker 5 (42:25):
We'll come back tomorrow, all.
Speaker 3 (42:26):
Right, So let me look at we're gonna do tomorrow.
It's Ryan Roses. That's probably only one. No, Ryan Roses tomorrow, backroom,
Thank you. Let's get through Wednesday. Yes, bye bye you
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Speaker 2 (42:41):
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From Hollywood to you.
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Thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 1 (00:03):
Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Do you follow at Secret dot Los Angeles on Instagram?
You on Instagram, So it's a good follow. A lot
of local recommendations here, and there is something cool about
living in southern California where you know what you're talking about.
When you say, for example, I gotta go over the hill.
It doesn't mean you gotta get old no, no, no, right,
but where I grub. If you're over the hill, you're
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over forty. That was the mile marker.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
Not here.
Speaker 4 (00:32):
If you're say over the hill, you're going to be
stuck on Coldwater Canyon or Laurel Canyon.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Traffic.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Over the hill means which way from the valley to
the west side or the west side to the valley. Exactly,
I gotta get over the hill. Oh it's going to
take me an hour and a half.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Exactly.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
You don't have to go over the hill. I gotta
go over the hill.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Spend your whole day over the hill because you can't
get back and forth the hill right right, and you're
going over the hill today.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
I got a pack a bag of going over the hill.
Speaker 5 (00:55):
Not for going over the hill on the opposite of traffic.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Well, then you have to have the right schedule, right,
But how about when you are relieved that you want
your job is over the hill, and then you move
over the hill.
Speaker 2 (01:06):
You no longer have to go over the hill to
get it to work.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
So the other day they asked, what are some phrases
only people in LA would understand?
Speaker 2 (01:14):
And it's so true. It's so true. Like when it rains.
What did people say when it rains?
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Oh, we need it, we need it right matter what
we need it. Oh, we need it, we need it.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Yeah it's raining again. Yeah, but we need it.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
We need it.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Do you are you checking?
Speaker 3 (01:33):
How do you know we need it? Like we've had
a lot lately, but we still need it.
Speaker 5 (01:37):
Yeah, we need it.
Speaker 6 (01:38):
Uh.
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Here's another one that's so good.
Speaker 3 (01:41):
That you're waiting for your friend to get to your
apartment and they're like here looking for parking.
Speaker 5 (01:46):
Yeah, me too.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Some people do it.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Like as a short They just short it to l
LFP or something for parking.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Oh, so La, Oh, this one's so good. We're coming.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
You're el sisting at three for a barbecue, and then
you reply, bring a jacket just in case.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
It might get cold.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
I honestly will probably get cold if it's not summertime.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
I need a blazer. Why are we dressing up?
Speaker 7 (02:11):
No?
Speaker 2 (02:11):
It might get cold? Yes, did you feel that? What
is that? Laism?
Speaker 5 (02:16):
Earthquake?
Speaker 3 (02:18):
There's no second guessing. Did you feel that? And all
we do is google for earthquake?
Speaker 8 (02:23):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:23):
I got an x May Gray or June Gloom this one.
I'm I'm burnt out on these two. Right, these are laisms,
so Myra said. She wrote to said, you know, Runyon,
that's a big laism right. Also, Jerry said to us
here listens geographically undesirable. That's something we use in something
California a lot because it's so spread out. And Leilah
(02:46):
slash Ryan said she ate that outfit, which means what
it was great.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Crushed it crushed, it look fantastic.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
And you can tell someone is from la when they
get you distance and minutes, as in how far away
do you live? Like thirty minutes but you would just
say like next door, but it's not it's thirty minutes, right, Or.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
You can say I live I don't know, thirty minutes
without traffic or forty five minutes with traffic.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
The what without traffic.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Yeah, those are laisms. I love him so much. If
you want to add to those, reach out to us.
Let's get the salespeople in here for this one.
Speaker 2 (03:24):
One. Two kids up.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
They're always yeah, I mean I got an email the
other day.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
They want to They want to know if I've had
if I've.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Ever flooded a house or something, because they're looking for
an advertiser for house flooding.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:38):
Has My house is not flooded, But if anybody has.
Greg Ashlock's looking for.
Speaker 6 (03:43):
You, they should talk to the house three houses down
from ours.
Speaker 5 (03:45):
It just keeps gushing over.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
To tell Greg that because he's looking for somebody to
do a commercially I will sales department. You might want
to listen to this story because it's going to get
some airtime right now. And it is a major cruise line,
isn't it.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
Yeah, the Norwegian Pearl, which will be renamed to the
Big Nude Boat.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
But for the journey is it a Norwegian cruise line ship?
Speaker 1 (04:07):
It is Norwegian.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
I feel like they advertise in a lot of places.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
So this is an interesting What if we gave this away,
would people want to win it?
Speaker 4 (04:14):
That would be very interesting. I would I'm actually curious
to know.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
So listen to the story and tell me.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
If it's a prize you'd want to win, I would
put it like nine thirty in every day, but I
don't know, right, you don't want to do it in
early because it's an adult win. But it's a nude
cruise out of Miami to the Caribbean, Sissy, what do you.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
Have for eleven day nude cruise?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
You would be able to hold twenty three hundred passengers,
so quite a few people that are nude. But if
it makes stops in Bahamas, Puerto Rico, and Saint Martin,
And there's one place on the boat where you have
to wear clothing and do you want to guess where?
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Let me oh, the water.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
This is like the one place that you have to
wear clothing. Dinner the gym, right ding ding ding? Indoor
dining rooms, yeah, you can't, but they do have outdoor buffets.
If you do want to just continue the nudity, you
can go grab some food in the buffet.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Out Can you also wear a banding suit? Is it
nude optional? Does everybody be naked? Or can you go
and look at people but wear a bathing sit?
Speaker 1 (05:17):
It's sounding like you could wear bottoms.
Speaker 4 (05:20):
I don't know about the top because when I was
reading about the hygiene, they were saying that nudists will
have to put a towel down before sitting anywhere, So
like the lounge chairs things like that, if you're not
wearing that, if you're not wearing bottoms, those lounge chase
lounge straps could really leave a mark. I always want
to put a towel down anyways, even if I am
wearing a banting suit.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Question is there entertainment is like the entertainment like they
have shows.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
I would imagine show.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
Yeah, it's like a full crew eleven days. There's going
to be tons of entertainment marks.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
And to be dimbar let's talk to them.
Speaker 4 (05:52):
When you disembark, you have to wear clothing and the
bahamas and interested in this.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Just take it's bizarreeam bonding.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
Guys.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
Imagine if you're in into somebody you knew on one
of these dreadful.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
That's not what you want.
Speaker 1 (06:09):
No, this is not for me.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
I can't well, I don't know Tanya likes to walk
around like this? You guys, tell me I do?
Speaker 7 (06:15):
I like?
Speaker 6 (06:16):
I enjoy being nude, but I don't know if I
would enjoy it around other people.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
Does that make sense?
Speaker 2 (06:23):
I think I'm I think I'm with you on it,
like I.
Speaker 6 (06:26):
Do enjoy I love being nude in the in my home,
but I don't love it.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
I don't know if I would love to go to
the grocery store nude.
Speaker 4 (06:32):
Oh so I want to know the demographics of the
people that are doing a cruise like this.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Is it all you know? Older people?
Speaker 4 (06:39):
Or because they did they did a little survey and
they basically found out that, uh, when you get older,
you feel a little bit more comfortable in your skin,
so you're more comfortable being nude.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
So I could see it being on the older end.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Maybe we'll find the spokesperson for that. What's it called,
the big Nude boat, the.
Speaker 5 (06:57):
Big Nude Boat, Marigian Pearl.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
We'll see it.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
I don't if we're any way trips or not, but
we'll see how this goes. Interesting picture. I don't where
to get these pictures you showed us. But these pictures
or is this like rendering?
Speaker 1 (07:11):
No, no, no, this is these are real from uh
the New York.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Post of the thousands of people in the pool naked. Yeah,
that's crazy. I mean, it covered everything in the photo,
so you don't know but.
Speaker 5 (07:23):
The big nude boat.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
So are you dating or trying to date? And how
do you feel about it? It's just not It's just
not so easy most of the time. So there is
this trend. Tanya clearly is for it. Sisney's gonna explain
it and then we can all weigh in. But it
is a new dating trend here in Los Angeles where
you give a PowerPoint presentation about your friend and why
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they shouldn't be single, exaactly exactly.
Speaker 4 (07:51):
I think dating in general has probably got a big struggle,
especially here in LA.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
Why why why don't we say that? Though, I mean
I say it too, but why here.
Speaker 4 (07:58):
In La Because this is such a fast moving city.
And then also public transportation here is not the easiest,
so you need to have a car to get to
somebody on the west side, and then you're dealing with traffic,
and so then you just.
Speaker 6 (08:10):
Give up and the city is like the bigger, better
deal syndrome.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Not everywhere, that's that's the blocks you.
Speaker 5 (08:17):
Walk, Okay, just saying there's not.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
The blocks everywhere, all right, So explain this to me.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
So now I imagine you're instead of having to do
the apps, your best friend is the one that's pitching
you to strangers. And so this group in LA called
the Next Fun Thing throws regular dating events.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
I just did one.
Speaker 4 (08:36):
Yeah, well yeah, and they actually just did this specific
one this past weekend.
Speaker 7 (08:40):
Seen.
Speaker 4 (08:40):
But before this, they've done like speed dating, like the
traditional speed dating and all that stuff, or mingles and
things like that. But this is the first power point
one where your friends are just explaining to.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
A group of strangers.
Speaker 4 (08:52):
Are up on stage and they're explaining to a group
of strangers why.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
You are personal? Why is it so insane that you're
still single?
Speaker 4 (08:59):
Why you just go on and on and on about
your best friend to like shine this huge light on them.
And I think coming from a friend or a family
member or whatever is is so much better than you
on a dating app because you're kind of just like
speaking for yourself on a dating app. You're like, this
is why I'm great, and it's kind of if you
were to do.
Speaker 6 (09:17):
This for me, yeah, oh my gosh, I would be
what what would you say?
Speaker 3 (09:21):
Because I mean, I will tell you a week doesn't
go by where someone doesn't say to me, how come
you've never been married. Oh every week, every single week.
I mean I circulate, I'm out in the wild. You
know these people I don't know. They're just curious why,
and I don't have all the answers. But I say,
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if you were to do this for me, Tanya, yes,
what would you say?
Speaker 5 (09:45):
Okay, Well, first of all, you.
Speaker 2 (09:46):
Take some time to come back next week.
Speaker 6 (09:48):
Yeah, because I would do like a full presentation, like
I would have to really think about it, but I'd
say at the top, I'd put one of the top
things at the top of my list. I would say,
you're very loyal, and then I would go in to explain,
like my PowerPoint would have different like.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
How long does a presentation? There must be a time.
Speaker 1 (10:03):
Let's just say it's three minutes, right, she has three minutes.
You have to have like bullets.
Speaker 6 (10:07):
So like loyalty would be at the top of my list,
and I would say, how long you've worked at this show,
how long you've worked on other shows, like your commitment,
So that is huge loyalty right there, bing bing bing.
I would say, you're romantic, and I would go and
explain some of the very don't.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Give examples of him while he's romantic. With ex girlfriends. Well,
I love that.
Speaker 6 (10:28):
I'd love to hear about candles and like romantic weekend,
like getaway is what are you doing for the next
forty hours?
Speaker 5 (10:34):
What a great line.
Speaker 6 (10:35):
Yeah, so I'd put that in there, and then i'd
button it up with your relationship with your mom and say,
everybody wants a mama's boy, and he is the quintessential
mama's boy.
Speaker 5 (10:47):
He loves and.
Speaker 1 (10:48):
Take need, not needy like a mama's boy.
Speaker 5 (10:51):
No, no, no, I didn't say needy.
Speaker 1 (10:53):
Sometimes I love, I love it could be a negative.
Speaker 3 (10:58):
By the way, Remember it was like viral news that
I said, I call my mom every day.
Speaker 2 (11:04):
We talked about it here. All of a sudden I
read it on et or So that's.
Speaker 4 (11:08):
So funny, you know, you know, I would add that
you're also witty, So like if you want to laugh
in a relationship, this guy will, this guy will crack
you up.
Speaker 5 (11:15):
Humor humor.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
Gosh, all right, do you know the founder? I think
you do.
Speaker 4 (11:19):
Actually, do I know the founder of the next We
should have found her.
Speaker 1 (11:23):
We should have her.
Speaker 3 (11:24):
On And so that's a great idea, And let's find
out the success rate and hear what the presentations are that's.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
Idea, but who is she actually just was on a
talk show because one of the couples that met at
one of our events is now married and like they're
having inky babies.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
It's just it's so beautiful. I love it. The next
fun thing.
Speaker 3 (11:40):
This is the new dating trend here in la. Are
you a person that wears a fragrance? Some people are anti,
you know, they don't like cilantro, they don't like cologne,
they don't want to wear it, they don't like the
taste of like they're just anti, they're against it. Other
people will say, oh, what's that scent? Like I've had
people say to me, what's that sense? The truth is,
for my scent, I don't know. I bought two different
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colognes at a gift shop and I combined them.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
One is sandily and one is rosy.
Speaker 5 (12:06):
Thallium and something else.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
Used to be a thallium.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
Now it's two things that I just combined because I
was traveling and I grabbed them at a gift shop
and I happened to like them. I don't even know
the name, but there one is like rosy and one
is sandily. When you put them together, they're kind of
unique scent.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
Quite the chemist over there.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
So if you want to stay looking young, stop putting
Perfumer colone on your neck.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
Young.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
The alcohol causes wrinkles on your neck.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
Are you hearing me?
Speaker 1 (12:40):
Everything causes wrinkles.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
But I spray my neck all the time.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
But don't you all, I'm also lotion your neck.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
I do losee in my neck, but not as much
as I sprayed my neck. I didn't.
Speaker 5 (12:52):
Yeah, I don't really lotion my neck so much every night.
Speaker 3 (12:56):
Make your skin more sensitive to the sun too, So
apply frank is to your wrists, only your wrists, not
your neck.
Speaker 1 (13:04):
Didn't know that you?
Speaker 2 (13:06):
Yeah, well, I'm just telling you it's gonna cause wrinkles.
Speaker 3 (13:10):
Fun fact, right, Today's quote one of the most freeing
things We do a quote every morning. Yeah, here's today's
One of the most freeing things we learn in life
is that we don't like everyone. Everyone doesn't like us. Great,
and that's okay, and that's okay.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
On Air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
These are some of this stuff just strikes me as nuts,
but let's get into it. So these are the most
talked about TikTok trends right now. Some are dangerous, Some
don't work.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
Some do work.
Speaker 3 (13:44):
But the one I that struck me the belly button one.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
I don't like my belly button.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
Okay, tell me why.
Speaker 3 (13:51):
I don't know if I've ever told you that I
don't like it.
Speaker 2 (13:55):
It goes so far in.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
Oh, it's like a deep one.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
It's a deep one. Sometimes I don't even see the back.
Speaker 1 (14:02):
Yeah, mine's kind of like that too. And then and
then when I was pregnant, it like reversed out. Oh,
then it goes back in.
Speaker 3 (14:10):
I always wanted I always like looked up to people
that had Audi's really not the car, the Audi. Yeah,
I always felt like, gosh, I wanted an oudy anyway.
Speaker 2 (14:18):
I ever wanted a castor oil in your belly button?
Speaker 3 (14:21):
A TikToker with a bunch of followers says it fights
bacterial infections, improves gut health, and stimulates weight loss.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Why is it safe? No? And does it work?
Speaker 3 (14:35):
No? It can cause irritation and clog your pores cause
acne does all this stuff you don't want. But I
think common sense says, putting oiled cast or oil deep
in there probably Yeah, a bad idea.
Speaker 5 (14:44):
It's so weird.
Speaker 3 (14:46):
Next one, this is about coffee part of my morning.
Look forward to it every day. But if you ever
put brood coffee on your scalp, there is a TikTok trend.
Some people put brood coffee in a spray bottle, spray
it on their hand, and they say it encourages hair growth.
It does well.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
Is it safe?
Speaker 3 (15:06):
Yes, it's caffeine. It's safe and it could has lots
of benefits for the hair. It just feels weird to me,
like there's other options. It feels like a little grosser
spray coffee into its natural I don't know.
Speaker 2 (15:20):
Just coffee. It's a cidic. It doesn't feel right.
Speaker 1 (15:23):
I know I'm in like too much caffeine, but in
just into your body. It scares me.
Speaker 3 (15:29):
Tanya who tapes her mouth shut at night. Have you
heard about this? One duct tape to remove warts? By
the way, if you haven't heard, Tanya has a sleeping
ceremony where she likes to tape her mouth shut for
some Do you still do that every night?
Speaker 6 (15:45):
And let me tell you, I sleep like I am
under a rock under a dark, dark tunnel, and I'm
not this morning.
Speaker 2 (15:54):
Yeah, that's why you got here so late.
Speaker 5 (15:56):
It is the best sleep ever.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
Maybe too good a sleep.
Speaker 3 (15:59):
Maybe it's but half the tape. So you get here
a few minutes earlier. All right, duct tape to remove warts.
Speaker 2 (16:06):
Listen to this.
Speaker 3 (16:07):
They say, putting duct tape over a wart once every
four to seven days will remove them from your hands
or your feet. It is safe and dermatologists agree that
it does work. So if you are warting right now,
duck is gross, but duct tape it.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
Warts are gross, not the duct tape.
Speaker 3 (16:27):
Duct tape to remove your warts, the derm say, is okay.
The weirdest trends on TikTok right now. So we were
talking earlier about meditation, and Tony's a very rigid definition
of what meditation is, and I just think for me
it is.
Speaker 5 (16:42):
The definition of what it is.
Speaker 3 (16:44):
I don't believe you because I say I can't, and
Sydney I agree, we can't. I'm not good at mantraing
meditation or doing what a lot a lot of people
do and I know it's good for you where they
can go sit on a bench and take ten minutes
and not think about stuff, or try not think about
stuff and repeat mantra.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
I can't do that.
Speaker 3 (17:03):
I do find it meditative to go to the coast
to go to the beach, to go not get in
the water because I think it's polluted right now, but
go to the beach and watch the sun set if
I have an opportunity to do that, especially in the summer.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Nights when it's a year later version of it.
Speaker 3 (17:15):
That's a version of meditation to me. Another version of
meditation to me is running.
Speaker 5 (17:20):
I can see that meditation.
Speaker 4 (17:23):
It can be.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
You can see how it clears the mind.
Speaker 3 (17:27):
So you are the reason I bring this uping is
you're cutting down Tanya on your social media, and you're
cutting down on drinking.
Speaker 5 (17:34):
I'm trying to cut down on those two things.
Speaker 2 (17:36):
And when how long has this attempt been active?
Speaker 5 (17:39):
About five days?
Speaker 4 (17:41):
Why would you try cutting down on drinking in the
summer summers, Like, because that's the problem.
Speaker 3 (17:48):
You keep saying that it's Tuesdays right right, Wednesday.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
Thursday all the time.
Speaker 6 (17:58):
And I'm just like, I don't sleep my best when
I drink alcohol, so I it's I always regret it
the next day, and I'm like, why am I doing this?
So I'm trying to cut down to two drinks a week,
meaning my enjoy Robbie no like two sessions like.
Speaker 2 (18:16):
Okay, so two nights of knoxing out.
Speaker 5 (18:23):
Correct or like whatever am I choosing is.
Speaker 3 (18:25):
That was a very aste details you shouldn't be more
than that's.
Speaker 2 (18:32):
Not cutting back.
Speaker 3 (18:34):
For me. And then how many sessions of social media
are you cutting?
Speaker 6 (18:38):
So that's the other thing I've found. I've been becoming
very Stagnan's not the right word.
Speaker 5 (18:44):
Uh, it takes me a lot.
Speaker 6 (18:46):
No, it gives me a lot longer to get something
done than it ever has my life. And I'm like,
this is crazy that this just took me an hour
and it should have taken me ten minutes. And I
realize it's because I get distracted and I go and
I start looking through my phone like it sucked into
TikTok sucked in or whatever.
Speaker 5 (19:02):
No, so now I'm.
Speaker 6 (19:03):
Trying to put my phone down whenever I'm doing tasks
and I'm not allowed to look at it until I
finish the task.
Speaker 4 (19:08):
What happens if you need your phone for the task?
Sometimes that happens to me, and then I do get lost,
Like I'll always say, I'm like on Instagram when I
wanted to check my email.
Speaker 6 (19:16):
Right, or like you just need to send a quick text,
like what time is this appointment.
Speaker 5 (19:19):
To start scrowling.
Speaker 2 (19:20):
Yeah, I can't do it.
Speaker 5 (19:21):
I can't do it. It hasn't happened yet.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
Get a ship phone.
Speaker 5 (19:26):
That feels it feels way harsh.
Speaker 2 (19:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (19:29):
I like what you I like what you're trying to do.
It is tough to do it in summer. I feel
like this is a fall. This is like an October.
Speaker 5 (19:35):
Over in September.
Speaker 1 (19:36):
January first type of thing.
Speaker 2 (19:38):
Yeah, this is the drive January, no social January program.
Speaker 5 (19:41):
I know, like this is like social months.
Speaker 2 (19:44):
Whatever you need.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
Uh, I'm really with you on the putting the phone
down in a way when trying to focus on something,
because I too find that, oh my gosh, I can't
get through a page I'm trying to read because I've
got my phone in my lap and I keep having
to reread the same page over and over again.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
I'm trying to respond to what I'm reading and it's
just too overwhelming.
Speaker 5 (20:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (20:03):
Like I was doing this a global entry application that
should take five minutes and it took me forty five
minutes the other day because I was just like.
Speaker 2 (20:10):
They should not let you enter. Yeah, so it's something I.
Speaker 3 (20:15):
Have done before, just to torture myself on a flight.
But it's become a trend. Why is it just guys
doing it?
Speaker 1 (20:21):
I don't know that part.
Speaker 4 (20:22):
I don't know why it's men that are kind of
leading the way with this. But the only thing I
can think of is that they are trying to one
up each other with their records, and so it's almost
like a pride thing to.
Speaker 2 (20:32):
Post how long ragging?
Speaker 7 (20:34):
Right?
Speaker 1 (20:34):
Yeah, how many hours you raw dogged on a flight?
Et cetera, et cetera.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
Okay, explain what it is because there's some confusion.
Speaker 4 (20:41):
In men are foregoing the modern comforts of flying with
basically no music, no streaming, no food, no drinks.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
That's the raw part, and that is the raw part.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
So that is what they what they mean when they
say I just raw dog that seven hour flight.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
Basically they stare at They.
Speaker 4 (20:58):
Just stare and so it's it has to be a
flight that doesn't have the little TV in front of
you to be able to stream movies, or if it does,
you just.
Speaker 1 (21:05):
Don't use it. The only thing they are able to
use is the flight tracker, so they can see.
Speaker 2 (21:09):
Yes, I watched that the flight tracker. I meditate watching.
Speaker 1 (21:13):
Them, and that's what they're saying.
Speaker 4 (21:14):
They're saying, it's like a form of meditation for them,
especially if it's an hour long more than an hour
long flight, they just sit there and stare.
Speaker 1 (21:24):
They don't ever.
Speaker 5 (21:24):
Grab to your neighbor.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
No.
Speaker 4 (21:27):
Yeah, I don't know that that was on the list
of things to do or not do, but it made
it seem like it was just like it's their own
personal like quiet time.
Speaker 3 (21:37):
Not bringing anything to listen do, not bringing headphones, not
bringing something to read, not bringing a scroll, not looking
at their phone, I mean not not not so they
can then post the amount of time this.
Speaker 2 (21:45):
Way, do it like fifteen hours.
Speaker 4 (21:47):
Yeah, so, I guess I saw one that said fifteen
hour flight back to LA But I could never do this.
I mean forty five minutes maybe the Vegas but max, I.
Speaker 3 (21:56):
Mean, I'm not good in my car and I'm occupied
driving it getting home in traffic.
Speaker 5 (22:00):
I could do it if I could talk to the
person next to me.
Speaker 2 (22:03):
But that's not I think that would be a flag.
It's not because that's not wrong. Raw. No, it's not.
It's not raw.
Speaker 6 (22:10):
It's like the epitome, because that's like that codependency.
Speaker 1 (22:14):
It is codependency. You're right, I will.
Speaker 2 (22:17):
Tell you that map strikes me as so interesting.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
That's like a dude thing.
Speaker 2 (22:22):
When I see the airplane in the line and how
much we don't.
Speaker 4 (22:25):
Make it too, I quite like, I think it's all right,
but I don't even stare at it and.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
So excited when we've tracked more than half of what
we have to get through.
Speaker 2 (22:34):
I don't like the line more than half.
Speaker 4 (22:36):
And then what if it's not more than half of
You're like, oh, we have so much long anxiety on air.
Speaker 2 (22:41):
With a Ryan Seacrets.
Speaker 3 (22:44):
My coworkers stiffed my daughter. Why don't two point seven
kids FM? That's the headline of this call. You know,
not giving a wedding gift? You remember who doesn't give
you away?
Speaker 1 (22:53):
Still either?
Speaker 4 (22:54):
Five people that came to my two hundred person wedding
that did not give wedding gifts.
Speaker 1 (22:58):
And I remember who those people are?
Speaker 5 (23:00):
Hundred people.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
There was a lot of guest that's a way.
Speaker 3 (23:07):
That's why she invited so many people, all those kiss
she's taken names, taking names. I remember, you want to
throw anybody out there? Is there still on that list.
Speaker 4 (23:18):
That I'm meant that I'm that it's in my life, yes,
because you know what, maybe they had the reasons.
Speaker 1 (23:24):
Maybe they forgot, maybe they thought their wife was going
to do it.
Speaker 2 (23:26):
Who knows that it's impacted their friendship with you?
Speaker 9 (23:29):
It's not.
Speaker 2 (23:31):
I mean, you are holding a grudge match.
Speaker 1 (23:33):
It's not a grudge. It's just a messarage.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
You think a definition of a grudge.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
It's not a grudges.
Speaker 4 (23:38):
I don't think about it every time I see them,
full and grudge. But when this topic comes up, I
do think about it.
Speaker 2 (23:44):
Way you do think about it when you see them.
I guarantee you know, I really I really don't think
about when you see anyway, Rachel.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
I'm sorry, Rachel, this is the thing.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
Holds grudges. Let's just be clear.
Speaker 3 (23:57):
So, Rachel, your coworker did not give your daughter a
wedding gift. Tell us what happened and about the awkwardness.
Speaker 7 (24:04):
Now, well, the awkwardness is very awkward. But okay, So
my daughter.
Speaker 9 (24:11):
Just got married, and my husband and I helped pay
for half the wedding, so of course we were entitled
to invite coworkers. I've been working at this company a
long time, so these coworkers have known my daughter, they've
seen her grow up, they know a boyfriend she dated,
They knew this this husband before he was the husband.
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You know, all the things that led up to this
special day, so they were like involved and part of it.
And of course I found out at the end that
one of my coworks who attended the wedding wasn't invited
and not attended the wedding, didn't give her a gift.
So it's extremely awkward because we work together, and I
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don't know how to handle it because I think that
it's very rude to my daughter and my else and
I'm not sure if there's a way that I can
say something to her.
Speaker 1 (25:09):
But when was the wedding.
Speaker 9 (25:12):
A month and a half ago?
Speaker 4 (25:14):
Tradition shows they have up to a year to give
a gift. I mean, you could wait the full year.
You never know, but tradition shows you have up to
a year to give a gift.
Speaker 9 (25:25):
And then is it extra special because they spent that
much time to pick it.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
I don't know.
Speaker 9 (25:31):
Something had a whole year to do it.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
How is it? How is it?
Speaker 4 (25:35):
Like?
Speaker 2 (25:36):
How are you feeling when you see this coworker regularly?
Speaker 9 (25:40):
Hurt and and mad?
Speaker 7 (25:43):
I hate to say it, hurt and mad?
Speaker 9 (25:46):
I mean I know that the point of a wedding
is not to be given gifts, and that you're there
to celebrate the newlywed couples.
Speaker 7 (25:56):
But if you attended, you know that it's.
Speaker 9 (26:00):
An X amount of money per head and I don't
know we call that little either. But if you didn't attend,
there's people gifts you don't.
Speaker 1 (26:10):
Yeah, did she come to the bridle shower?
Speaker 7 (26:14):
She did, and she wrote a gift.
Speaker 4 (26:15):
Okay, that's probably she's justifying it that that's what she
gave a gift already, that's what happened.
Speaker 9 (26:21):
Well, here's the other scenario. If you gave the gifts
at the time of the shower, not a year later.
Speaker 7 (26:26):
Wouldn't you give a gift at the wedding.
Speaker 2 (26:28):
I just want to tell you.
Speaker 3 (26:29):
I've only known you for three minutes and three seconds.
I think you have the skills and the character to
address this directly with your.
Speaker 2 (26:37):
Coworker at work.
Speaker 1 (26:38):
You don't address you even.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
Think you are now in front of all these people
in the air, Rach, I think you can. I want
you to handle this directly, face to face with heart work.
Speaker 1 (26:47):
Don't Rachel.
Speaker 2 (26:48):
Let us know who knows more about weddings.
Speaker 1 (26:52):
It's not it's not about the gift. At this point,
it's just more like, look, she didn't give a gift.
It is what it is.
Speaker 4 (26:57):
But she did like a bridle shower gift. So I
think she's yeah, boring.
Speaker 3 (27:02):
Let's have some fun address this awkwardly face to face
at work. Come on, guys, because I agree Rachel. Let
us know after the confrontation. You let us know. Thank
you for calling. I'm fired up for you.
Speaker 2 (27:18):
Good luck, she's got it.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
Maybe you should talk to.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
That advantage, Rachel. He's a tennis.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
Term mad mama.
Speaker 3 (27:28):
But by the way, there's one person that's not shy
about handling something. Handle it. Oh got me fired up.
So I don't know if you know, but Sisney's husband,
Michael is it's a rock band. Yeah, he's a garage
band essentially, and he takes it pretty seriously.
Speaker 4 (27:46):
Right, They do take it seriously. They're recording music, they're
doing all the things. But I have a home office
where I have our studio equipment in and it's my
own little like sanctuary. It's taken me a really long
time to get it looking cute. It was basically like
the storage room for the longest time. We moved in
(28:07):
because room that we would fix, we would just put
the extra boxes in the office. So I finally, over
the holiday break found the time to make it super
cute in my space, Like I cleared out all the
boxes and it's just it's a great room to walk
into now. And the next day Michael puts all of
his guitars, all of his amps, all of his records
(28:30):
in there.
Speaker 2 (28:32):
I don't know how much stuff.
Speaker 4 (28:33):
That's what it looks like. Honestly, they're like stacked amps
in the corner the car if you take over your space.
Speaker 1 (28:40):
No, he didn't tell me, but then he told me.
Speaker 4 (28:42):
He was like, this is necessary because it's so hot.
They can't be in the garage.
Speaker 2 (28:45):
It's not right, right, lose the equipment.
Speaker 1 (28:48):
And not about losing the equipments. He says it's gonna
warp with the heat.
Speaker 4 (28:51):
They could warp, which I understand, sure, but he did
not run it by me.
Speaker 1 (28:55):
And now I'm like, well cool, now it's just back
to the storage.
Speaker 3 (28:58):
I mean, I don't know what it's like, Michael.
Speaker 2 (29:01):
It's a hobby. Don't take it so seriously.
Speaker 1 (29:03):
It's so serious, right.
Speaker 3 (29:04):
Like sometimes people take their hobbies so seriously. You often
have to say, just make it fun.
Speaker 4 (29:11):
I mean, I understand that's expensive equipment. We don't want
it to warp.
Speaker 2 (29:13):
Or are you really investing in this hobby being in
a garage band.
Speaker 4 (29:17):
Yeah, Like, if there's like an opportunity to get him
a gift for like a special birthday, a special anniversary,
like I always go music based because it's going to
make him the happiest.
Speaker 2 (29:26):
Well, here's what you should do.
Speaker 3 (29:28):
I don't know what you've got, dresses, shoes, closed, whatever,
putting stuff in his closet space and tell him that
you've run out of your space, you know, like just
put your shoes where he.
Speaker 5 (29:37):
Normally passive aggressive. I think it's not quite the answer.
Speaker 4 (29:42):
Passive aggressive has already left the building with me talking
about it on the air and not to him.
Speaker 2 (29:46):
What's the name of the band? When are they going
on tour?
Speaker 3 (29:48):
What I need to know access dot com Echo Bird.
Speaker 4 (29:51):
They officially have an Instagram now if you want to
look them.
Speaker 3 (29:54):
Up Echobird, Echobird. Are they performing the Iredy of Music Festival?
Speaker 2 (29:58):
Is that just Jgent?
Speaker 3 (30:00):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (30:00):
That's just yeah, du Alipa and Hall.
Speaker 2 (30:02):
You know the Black Crows.
Speaker 5 (30:05):
What does ech word stand for?
Speaker 4 (30:08):
I don't know what it means. You no I was like, cool,
cool name.
Speaker 1 (30:14):
Actually that wasn't of all the name that they were choosing,
that wasn't it. One was not my favorite, but they
chose it. Do you guys talk beyond.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
Ever since we were talking about pizza, my stomach is growling.
Speaker 1 (30:24):
Yeah, I'm getting hungry, camean.
Speaker 2 (30:26):
Look, you know I also do this.
Speaker 3 (30:28):
Sometimes I'll pick up I'll be traveling, I'll pick up
a food magazine and I can't look at the food
without needing it, like wanting. It's like you're trying to
fat intermitt it fast. You're trying not to, you know,
have some. But then you look at that picture and
it's like my stomach can't help itself. But speak to
me out loud.
Speaker 1 (30:45):
Yeah, that's like torture.
Speaker 3 (30:47):
That's good for you sometimes. All right, let's get to
Kyle Kyle and Los Angeles. Kyle, good morning, Hi Ryan.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
How you doing?
Speaker 7 (30:58):
You know, not too well. I only need some advice.
Speaker 3 (31:02):
Okay, And this is in the dating department about your
girlfriend's family. Tell us what's happening.
Speaker 7 (31:08):
Yeah, So I just so we've been dating for about
a year now and things are going great between us,
but her families just really mean, like as I've been
spending more time with them. They make a lot of
snide little comments and you know, bigger comments sometimes, and
I'm she says it's fine and she's used to it,
but you know, I'm wondering if it's overstepping my bound
(31:31):
if I step in?
Speaker 2 (31:32):
What they what do they do? What do they give
us an example of what's happening that you're noticing.
Speaker 7 (31:37):
Like, you know, when we're out to eat for like
a family lunch or something, someone like her mom or
something will say like, oh, are you sure you want
to get that? Like you know, it's really it's like
it's real, you know, comments about her body weight and
body and stuff, and it's just kind of like it's
(31:57):
it's it's not cool, but you know it.
Speaker 2 (32:00):
It's not cool at all.
Speaker 3 (32:02):
Sometimes though, it's a I got what you're questioning, because
like sometimes families or people close to each other have
a certain way that they do speak to each other,
or certain things that they say. Like I've heard really
close friends call close friends crazy words, but they mean
(32:23):
it in terms of endearment, right, you know what I'm saying,
And like if you were to say that to somebody,
like what But yet like they call each other that,
so it it's not yeah, and looking in it is
not a good It's not a good situation.
Speaker 2 (32:40):
But I don't know how you get involved.
Speaker 4 (32:43):
Have you talked to your girlfriend to like say, does
it bother her? Does she tell you it bothers her?
Speaker 7 (32:49):
I mean, she says it doesn't bother her, But sometimes
when they say that, she just kind of like it
takes the wind out of her sales, you know, she
she just kind of starts looking down then gets caught.
So I can tell it bothers. It's just I don't
know what to say about it.
Speaker 4 (33:06):
I know it's so tough because it's like I don't
know that it's your place to step in and like
change the way that her family I might say her, I.
Speaker 3 (33:13):
Might say this too, and again this is probably not
the best way to do it, but I might say
this to that family member as in aside, like not
at the table. I might say, you know, I don't
want to step on any toes here, but that I
just want to know that does make sometimes she feels
bad like somebody, she feels bad when she hears that.
I just want you to know that. And she would
never say it to you, but I wanted you to
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know that's a good thing.
Speaker 1 (33:36):
That's not a bad way to approach it, right.
Speaker 2 (33:37):
And she would never say it to you.
Speaker 3 (33:39):
I just wanted you to know that sometimes she feels
bad about that and then get out, like don't let
it linger, like get out and use that sort of
like inflection your voice.
Speaker 4 (33:46):
And I think kind of starting it off by saying
like I don't want to step on any toes like.
Speaker 3 (33:50):
And she would never want to say it, but I
just want you to know, like sometimes she feels bad
and then boom, move on.
Speaker 2 (33:55):
That might be an effective way to do it.
Speaker 6 (33:56):
Or you can encourage her to stand up for herself. Yeah,
so that way it's coming from her and you just
kind of give her and like encourage her to say,
you know, if you don't really don't like it, they
may not realize it's bothering you.
Speaker 5 (34:08):
You should say something.
Speaker 7 (34:12):
Yeah, yeah, I can get some good advice.
Speaker 2 (34:15):
So I think you have a plan. Kyle. Good luck
and thank you for Colin.
Speaker 3 (34:18):
It's really thoughtful of you to think that way for
someone you love.
Speaker 7 (34:23):
All right, thank you you take care so much.
Speaker 2 (34:25):
Bye too.
Speaker 3 (34:28):
Someways that thing in life where like do I get involved,
do I not get involved.
Speaker 2 (34:32):
Do I open up this and do it.
Speaker 3 (34:34):
But it's like, if it's if it's bothering the person
he loves and it's bothering him, there might be a
way to finesse it so that there can be progress. Right.
Speaker 2 (34:42):
So, uh, the Love Language Quiz, we like it.
Speaker 3 (34:45):
We took it. We all got our results. I can't
remember who was what, but you know it was pretty close.
Speaker 5 (34:50):
Well, you're getting to my next point.
Speaker 4 (34:52):
I think, like my I remember mind being act of
service that was mine?
Speaker 1 (34:57):
No, no, no words of affirmation.
Speaker 3 (34:58):
That was the exactly service. What was I?
Speaker 2 (35:00):
No?
Speaker 1 (35:01):
Mark has the results from like that?
Speaker 2 (35:03):
It definitely has the probably has.
Speaker 1 (35:06):
I want to retake mine too.
Speaker 4 (35:07):
I want, like my Michael and I to retake it
because I feel like you're different from five years old.
Speaker 6 (35:11):
Okay, thank you, Sisney. This is exactly so I sent Robbie.
I was like, I think we should retake and he goes,
I already took the Love Language test.
Speaker 5 (35:19):
Why would I retake it?
Speaker 6 (35:19):
I was like, it's been four and a half years,
and I think, you know, things change, people change, The
way we want to love changes, and I think it's
a good refresher to retake the quiz, and I think
we all should retake the quiz because we change, we evolve.
Speaker 1 (35:34):
I remember it being kind of long.
Speaker 5 (35:36):
It's like it is long.
Speaker 3 (35:37):
Yeah, yeah, why do we change? Do we change because
we learned that our language needs to evolve because of
the way that we're loving somebody that has a language
that needs to be heard, or like, why do we change?
Speaker 2 (35:49):
I'm not so sure my love language?
Speaker 1 (35:50):
What was it?
Speaker 7 (35:51):
Mark?
Speaker 2 (35:51):
I think it's like.
Speaker 5 (35:52):
Acts of service? I think was yours?
Speaker 1 (35:54):
Yeah, you and I remember were very synced up.
Speaker 2 (35:56):
I remember I love language was words of affirmation.
Speaker 4 (35:59):
Yeah, the top one, and then like maybe the next
one was physical touch or something like that.
Speaker 2 (36:03):
I doubt it. This was, however, almost seven years ago.
Speaker 5 (36:07):
Time to retake quiz.
Speaker 2 (36:10):
Finding we should all redtake it.
Speaker 1 (36:12):
Yes, pregnant with the twins, I was probably like, no physical.
Speaker 5 (36:15):
Touch nothing, Yeah, see things change.
Speaker 2 (36:18):
Wait what so what's the what are the results of Robbie?
Speaker 6 (36:21):
Well, so I had him retake it, and I think
I sent him the wrong quiz because it was like
ten questions.
Speaker 1 (36:26):
Well, that sounds nice.
Speaker 5 (36:27):
Ten questions is no more not accurate.
Speaker 6 (36:30):
It was not accurate, and I need to go to
the official Love languageh.
Speaker 3 (36:35):
Go, get the official questionnaire, get his results, share with us.
Speaker 2 (36:38):
I like this.
Speaker 1 (36:39):
Homework better than eating in the shower.
Speaker 3 (36:41):
Yeah, we can do this fast too, Right, and there's
a quick quiz. We'll do it right here, right here,
starting six. We'll do the results at nine.
Speaker 5 (36:46):
I'm more worried about you doing it, Ryan than Sisney.
And Sisney will do it.
Speaker 3 (36:49):
Why are you so worried about me taking the love
language quiz?
Speaker 1 (36:52):
You'll do it, bring it home activity.
Speaker 2 (36:55):
Wait, how many questions?
Speaker 5 (36:56):
Is it like a hundred?
Speaker 3 (36:57):
No?
Speaker 2 (36:57):
I don't want to do that one.
Speaker 4 (36:58):
Let me have the don't say it like that, Tanya,
it's like ten. It's like ten pages on the website.
Speaker 1 (37:04):
You just you know, folks.
Speaker 5 (37:05):
Easy, it's like and then it gives.
Speaker 4 (37:07):
You the bar that tells you like, oh my gosh,
you're fifty percent complete, you're sixty percent excited.
Speaker 1 (37:12):
Okay, it's gonna be.
Speaker 6 (37:13):
No, this is going to be the gate, the key
that opens the gate to feeling loved and giving love the.
Speaker 5 (37:20):
Way your partner wants to.
Speaker 1 (37:21):
Sit down with this. Let's do it before Valentine's Day.
Speaker 2 (37:23):
So I'm the bad guy if I'm not down. So
I'm down with this, okay.
Speaker 1 (37:26):
Great, yeah, wait, but I like his Nobody said that.
Speaker 2 (37:29):
Nobody said, by the way, I'm excited to do it.
Speaker 4 (37:32):
Can you do the same thing my kids do when
like I say something like well, I guess you, I
guess you guess you'll love me?
Speaker 3 (37:38):
No, that's whay I feel. That's the way that those
are your words of non affirmation to me. I'm like, asa,
let me grab Emma on the line. Emma, good morning.
How are you doing.
Speaker 7 (37:51):
Hi, I'm good.
Speaker 2 (37:52):
How are you super good? How can we help you?
Speaker 7 (37:55):
Okay?
Speaker 8 (37:56):
So I work at this restaurant and I was serving
from tables outside and this cute guy walked past. This
happened a couple weeks ago, and we made eye contact
and he asked to sit in my section, and we're flirting,
and he asked to take me out for a drink
after work, and I was like sure, And we go
and sit for hours and drink and talk about like
how much we have in common, and he was like,
(38:19):
I found out that he got out of a six
year relationship, and which is great for me because I
got out of a ten year relationship. And so we
had all this in common, and there was this huge
spark and so we like get together again for a
second date and we hook up, and then after the
second date, he texted me and is like, hey, like
I thought I should let you know, like I did
some Instagram stocking and I'm ninety nine percent sure our
(38:41):
exes are dating. And I was like, how is that
even possible because they don't even live in the same
state as we do, Like they live in Wisconsin and
we live in LA And I don't even know how
that could have happened because it's not like we met
on Instagram or through some algorithm that like was designed
to connect. It was like a happenstance thing. And I
(39:02):
feel like he maybe did it on purpose, and I
don't know what to think or do, and it's it's
just like, honestly, the craziest coincidence. If it is a coincidence,
kind of wild.
Speaker 4 (39:14):
And how did the conversation come up with the whole
exes in general? Are you guys talking about your exes
that he just said it or blurted it out.
Speaker 8 (39:20):
Of no one, because yeah, yeah, because he was really
upfront and he was like, well, I just want to
let you know, like I was in a long term
relationship and I was like, try me. I was also
in a long term relationship, and it's like, you know,
when you're in a relationship that long, like it's kind
of important to disclose it, Like if you're hopefully, you know,
going to be dating this person.
Speaker 2 (39:39):
Hold on, is it possible that he sought you out
up with seeing? I mean that, like, is what you
think is happening here? That's what we think by that. Okay,
how well do you like the guy? Emma?
Speaker 9 (39:55):
I like him a lot.
Speaker 3 (39:56):
I like the whole scenario. I actually like him more
that that's happening, Like, I like your connection better because
your exes are hooking up, and that means they're there.
Drama's done, like they're together, they're doing their thing. I
like him better for you, Emma, because this is happening.
Speaker 8 (40:17):
Do I have to call my ex though and tell him, like, no, no,
you don't know that.
Speaker 4 (40:22):
This guy seems like he I want to know what
his intentions were exactly.
Speaker 8 (40:27):
That was my question. That's what I'm worried about. So
should I call him out on it?
Speaker 1 (40:31):
I think he should.
Speaker 2 (40:31):
Yes, I still like it though it makes it kind
of fun.
Speaker 1 (40:35):
No, we've done it makes it kind of stalker.
Speaker 5 (40:37):
Ish sketch, really sketch.
Speaker 3 (40:39):
But I feel like you have a connection, you have
a bond. Like clearly you guys have something in common
because you have x's that are the same, that are.
Speaker 2 (40:45):
With each other.
Speaker 4 (40:46):
But it's the way he went about it. If he
like researched Emma, it's yeah, you gotta talk talk to
him and get to the bottom of it.
Speaker 3 (40:53):
Yeah, get to the bottom of it. But if you
like him a lot, remember that. I think he's great.
Your exes are fine.
Speaker 2 (41:01):
Good on.
Speaker 3 (41:02):
Everybody wins in the scenario. Everybody wins. The ex'es are happy,
they're seeing each other.
Speaker 2 (41:06):
You like the guy. Everybody wins.
Speaker 8 (41:09):
So if it goes well, do I just hard launch
it on Instagram and watch the drama unfold.
Speaker 2 (41:14):
That's how I do it.
Speaker 5 (41:15):
Kay, yeah's a hard lunch.
Speaker 3 (41:19):
Yeah all right?
Speaker 2 (41:21):
Well good, Like just the laughter in your voice. There's
happiness here. That's what we wanted, right.
Speaker 3 (41:27):
Yeah, you understand they're both with each other, their happy.
Speaker 1 (41:33):
So now I don't agree with she's happy.
Speaker 5 (41:34):
Yeah, I'm with on this one. Honestly.
Speaker 2 (41:37):
Hm, it's weird.
Speaker 3 (41:42):
Let's understand how it happened, and then if she really
likes it, it's going to bring them closer.
Speaker 6 (41:47):
Like let's say Tubbs and I were dating, and then
you and Sysney were dating, and then Tubbs and I
break up, you and Sysney break up, and then me
and you start dating, and then Sisney up start dating.
Speaker 2 (42:00):
That is so whack. You just described their scenario.
Speaker 1 (42:05):
If it happened organically, it's not.
Speaker 4 (42:07):
But if it happened with ill intentions, like he found
her on Instagram and the.
Speaker 2 (42:14):
Connection, let's see what happened. She's into the guy.
Speaker 3 (42:17):
That's what I'm trying to say. She's happy, all right,
that's it is that the whole show. Wow did it, guys,
We did it.
Speaker 2 (42:22):
I was ready for more.
Speaker 4 (42:24):
Me too.
Speaker 5 (42:25):
We'll come back tomorrow, all.
Speaker 3 (42:26):
Right, So let me look at we're gonna do tomorrow.
It's Ryan Roses. That's probably only one. No, Ryan Roses tomorrow, backroom,
Thank you. Let's get through Wednesday. Yes, bye bye you
guys hit the post show meeting, No you won't.
Speaker 2 (42:41):
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