August 7, 2024 • 43 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood Toe you.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Air on air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
So Tanya, just headline us recap what a an attachment
style means with your significant other.
Speaker 4 (00:17):
An attachment style is basically the way that you attach
yourself to another human and it all boils down to
stuff from your childhood that you might not even know,
Like you might be traumatized from something that happened that
could have been like a quick thing at school that
is like lingering with you. But basically it's how you
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react inside a relationship. And there's four main types.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
And what are the four?
Speaker 4 (00:42):
It's securely attached, insecurely attached, avoidant, and.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Shoot, I'm missing the fourth one.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
You can't preach if you don't know them.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
I know I'm not any good. I'm not like the
expert here, So.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
I would be insecure and avoidant, right.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Yeah, you need to take the quiz and really see.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
I won't take the quiz. I live with me. I
know me.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Anxious, avoidant, disorganized, and securely attached.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Okay, so keep those Handy and Sydney, what were you?
Speaker 1 (01:10):
I was avoidant?
Speaker 2 (01:12):
I get that. I'm definitely insecure and then plus.
Speaker 5 (01:15):
Plus right right, the insecure doesn't really linger in my
relationships per se. But the avoidant kind of made sense
because like, if there's an issue, I'm just kind of
like forget it that we don't need to talk about it.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Yeah, avoidant is dismissive attachment.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Toney, what happened to us in our childhood that we're
insecure attachment?
Speaker 1 (01:29):
You gotta got a therapy to figure it out? What
time one o'clock?
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Can we share it over?
Speaker 6 (01:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:35):
No, I do it on zoom.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
Oh you don't even go?
Speaker 7 (01:38):
No, I go?
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Oh, then put me in the grid.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Yeah, it's great.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Claudia, good morning. How are you in Corona?
Speaker 8 (01:44):
Hello? Good morning. I am well driving to work?
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Well, thank you.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
We're in the business of trying to make you forget
about the drive while you're doing it. It's our gig.
So Kuidty, tell me what inspired you to call in?
What's happening in your relationship that made you want to
call in about this attachment?
Speaker 8 (02:02):
Well? I can say that I have been trying to
figure out why it is that every single person that
I have ever been involved with has always cheated on me.
So of course I have my guard up for a
very long time. And one step guard gets taken down,
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then I start noticing indifferences in the relationship, and then
I start I start noticing the red flags, only to
come find out each and every single time that yeah,
there's something else going on. So it's like a vicious cycle,
and I just wanted to try to figure out whether
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it's something deeper than just picking the wrong partner.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
Got it well, by the way, first of all, to
things Number one, thank you for reaching out to talk
vulnerably with us about this. And two, I love your
thoughtful approach, right, I mean, you're you're coming, You're you're
like trying to find a It's almost like an unemotional approach, right,
It's a thoughtful approach. Yeah, yeah, because you want to write,
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I mean, you really want to do some work on this,
some real work on this.
Speaker 8 (03:24):
Well, And you know it has not always always been
this way, to be honest with you, it's taking me
a long time to get to where I'm at. And
for the first time in my probably in my life,
I have been single for the past three or four years,
and I've actually have learned to be very happy single.
(03:46):
And before it was that ugly feeling that I just
did not want to be alone, and I think that
maybe that also led to the problem as far as
I'll take anything, I.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Guess you lower your bar.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
Well, Claudia, let me have time and they give you
a real quick and your real quick the study.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Yeah, how to get the quiz?
Speaker 4 (04:03):
Well, okay, you can just go to Google and literally
just type into Google attachment style quiz and that'll pop
right up and you can take it right then and
there and quit it.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Good luck.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
So attachment Style quiz and Google keep us posted. I
love what you said you found happiness being single. You
don't need someone that's not of like that gets to
be with you and deserve your time and your energy
and your wisdom. You don't need somebody to be there
all the time just to feel happy. And I think
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that's a big accomplishment in itself.
Speaker 8 (04:36):
That is a beautiful thing that I have learned.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Thank you, Claudia. We love you in Corona. You have
a great day and good luck on this journey. So
Siciny is working on a new traffic wave.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
Oh I've got this down and I'm so happy. I
will never change the way I wave to people ever.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Again, meaning when they let you do into the Yeah.
Speaker 5 (04:56):
So I'm a big person of like, if you don't
wave back to me after I've already let you get
in front of me or cross or whatever, and you
don't give me the wave, I get so irritated me too.
I'm just like why it's it takes two seconds.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Thank you.
Speaker 5 (05:09):
And so the other day I let the Coldwater Canyon
gets very backed up, like with traffic, and so you
can tell someone's trying to like cross into their neighborhood.
I like purposely like slowed down the traffic so that
person break exactly, make it break in the lane. And
so the person crosses in front of me and they
threw me the peace sign, and I was like, oh,
that is so cool. And so ever since that day
(05:31):
Janner cutting in front of you, I do the peace
sign now and it makes me feel so much better
than just the wave.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Like the peace sign is way cooler.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
I think the peace signs it really is.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
It brightened up my day. I was like, Wow, that's
natal that's.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Like a chill person in traffic front peace. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
They're like, you know, just like not the anxious wave,
just the peace exactly. So can you describe the person
didn't see what they were vibing?
Speaker 5 (05:52):
It was a guy it was a guy. It was
a sedan. I can't remember the make, but it was
a super.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Chill guy spanks man.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
True. I mean when you see me in my Ford Bronco.
By the way, it's just a basic it's factor.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Anything I know, but it's so it's a good one.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
Robbie saw it, Oh he did? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Uh so, I'm gonna the people in traffic in my
Ford Bronco.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
So switch it up to the piece. You'll be happier.
You're gonna be so cool in that car. I can't
wait to see it.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
I think I'm getting it from Ford next week.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Oh that's so exciting.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
From our local southern California four dealer.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
That's right.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
Let me grab this call eight hundred and five too, well,
want to two seven feel free anytime about anything?
Speaker 2 (06:32):
This is Andrew. So Andrew, you think that.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
Your girlfriend's guy friend is in love with her, but
you didn't have a problem with that until now.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
What's up? Tell me the situation?
Speaker 7 (06:43):
All right? So thanks taking the call. I mean we've
been doing it for about six months and it's going well.
And like I said, she's got this friend, like you said,
she says, this friend who it's like he's always hitting
on her, and he's a nice guy, but it's kind
of coming to a head because, well, they could take
a her here or there, but we're supposed to want
a trip together with some friends another two couples, and
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she wants to invite him, and I'm kind of like,
am I in the wrong here for telling my girlfriend
of six months that her lifelong friend coming on our
trip would make me uncomfortable. He's just he's really involved,
and it feels like one of those things where he
hopes it turns romantic with her, and I'm like, in
his rom com, I'm the bad guy, and it just you.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
You you. I think you told the back room that
you thought he was gay up until now? What changed?
Speaker 6 (07:31):
I did?
Speaker 7 (07:32):
Yeah, well he he They took him the phone every
day and and uh and she's he sent her gifts before,
like on Valentine's Day, sent her cupcakes to the office,
and I was like, oh, that's that's cute. That's nice
that her gave us friend to anything. And then she's like, oh, no,
he's he's great. He's dating girls. And he told me
about Daisy Goes and girls. I thought he was lying
or making it up, but uh no, apparently, but he
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wants to come along on this trip with us, and
I'm kind of not sure how to how to take.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
This is not okay. Yeah, it's a hard note for me.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
Yeah, have you presented a case to your girlfriend to well,
that's what I'm just saying, Like, can you, like, can
you just say to your girlfriend let me just tell
you how this feels to me from my point of view,
I get it, I get it, but like I just
feel like the guy tho's your best friend. Now she's
gonna go tell this guy everything you say, fy I
see anything about how you get back to him.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
So he's going to know that.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
And if he is into her, he's going to know
he's got leverage because you're focused on him stepping on
turf here, which is all complicated, But I do think
it's making you uncomfortable, and so you got to tell
her otherwise you're gonna be it's gonna be really awkward
if you're on this trip together.
Speaker 7 (08:44):
A couple of times and but it's never been a
serious conversation. It's at least just something like, hey, what's
going on there? Or are you sure he's not into you?
And she said, oh, no, No, he's just a friend,
just a friend. But I mean sending gifts to the office.
I mean, that's not our relationship, me and her. So
I wasn't like mad that I didn't do that. We
we had dinner and do our own thing. But it's
just I don't know, this seems like it's going past
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the point of friendship. And when we're out, it's just yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
It's about talking to the guy.
Speaker 7 (09:12):
No too, I don't. I don't. I mean I feel
like that's going to cause more drama than it than
it should. I mean, obviously it's probably worth a conversation
at some point, but I don't want to be the
guy that tells them to back off. Because they're good friends.
I mean, they're lifelong friends. What am I going to
do pick a fight with his.
Speaker 4 (09:29):
Friend sending cupcakes to someone else like a woman.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
But hold on for a second. Let me just put
on the shoes of your girlfriend. Hey babe, Andrew, Uh,
you don't trust me, Like, come on, it's my friend.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Don't worry about it. I mean, there you go, that's
what she's gonna say.
Speaker 5 (09:46):
You're mad over cupcakes like all that. Oh, it's so hard.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
I don't love it at all.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
You know what that is what gaslighting?
Speaker 4 (09:55):
Because you know why, because he feels and your role, Yeah,
because he's allowed to feel these feelings and she should
be open to those feelings and say, you know, like,
that's not my intention. I'm sorry that it makes you
feel that way. There's no romantic you know, like, she
shouldn't make you feel silly for having those feelings.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
Well, there you have it. That's our take. Take take, yes,
So that's all.
Speaker 7 (10:24):
Thank you. I appreciate that.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
Good luck. It's going to be difficult no matter what.
Speaker 7 (10:30):
I appreciate your health. Thanks the go bye at.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
Yeah, it was like, is that a giggle or.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
I think it's a giggle of relief? Got no clarity
from us. What do you think the germiest part of
the kitchen is? You are going to roll over when
you hear this.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
The jermyest part, well, I can think of Your sponge
is probably the germist.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
I thought so too. My sponge is filled with.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
Trash can guy.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Okay, but hey it's your spice rack.
Speaker 3 (11:05):
Oh, bacteria is all over your spices. Here's why you
make a patty, right, and you put a little whatever
you use from the spice rack and your hands have
touched their ale meat, and you don't ever wash those
those shakers. Your spices are the germiest part of the kitchen.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Gross.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
Well, go clean it.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
Yeah, I will clean sure.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
Well, clean up the cub and the cinnamon, Clean up
the tarragon. You're all cleaned up. Today's quote Hopefully this
is good for you. If you are not speaking it,
you are storing it.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
Oh FM headlines.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Well did you feel it last night?
Speaker 5 (11:48):
A magnitude five point three earthquake struck in Kern County
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Speaker 2 (12:28):
On Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (12:32):
So I was on BuzzFeed and I saw this and
I thought of you guys, and it's like men shared
habits of women in their lives and they didn't really
say these women had these habits until they moved in together.
So one of the guys was like, is it just
me or why do women take showers with boiling hot water?
Speaker 1 (12:49):
I do? That's more, Michael, I.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
Do too, That's what I thought. I actually I turn
it up hot. I have to turn it down when
someone else gets in the show.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
I'm the same. I'm like a tomato when I come out.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
Of the shower, because you do, you're really hot, so hot, scolding. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
Now the bathtub, I struggle with a very very very
hot bathtub to get into. That causes pain for me.
But the shower, I can crank it, he said. One
of the guys says, why is it that my girlfriend
never finishes their drink?
Speaker 2 (13:17):
Like she never finishes a drink. It's always a half drink.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
My coffee is always half full, he said.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
There's two half full cups of coffee around the house
every day.
Speaker 5 (13:24):
Yep, I'll never finish it. Michael handed to me and
he's like, here's your half cup of coffee that you're
not gonna How.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
Are you guys with black hair ties? Because I know
they're they're everywhere, but they're never with you. I lose
them all the time, right, Like they're everywhere. Do you
have a million of them but they're never with you?
Speaker 2 (13:37):
Yep? Where do you keep them on your wrist?
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Usually have it on today?
Speaker 6 (13:42):
Now?
Speaker 2 (13:43):
Should we be keeping a black hairtie on our wrist?
Speaker 1 (13:45):
That could be cutey?
Speaker 5 (13:47):
First, when you're out and you need to put your
hair up and you don't have a hair.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
Tie, and you're just like, man, where do they go?
Like socks? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (13:55):
I know for a fact you can buy them in
like forty packs correct on that little piece of cardboard.
Speaker 7 (14:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (14:01):
Yeah, it's a good gift. Let's see, women are either
cold or hungry. This guy says his girlfriend's either cold
or hungry. I'm not, Yeah, hold much, I'm always And
then my girlfriend, what's with decorative pillows? So he moves
in and he can't figure out why they have to
be so many decorative pillows.
Speaker 5 (14:19):
You need variety, and then you have to switch them
out because you get bored of looking at the same ones.
Speaker 7 (14:23):
Well.
Speaker 3 (14:24):
This is from BuzzFeed guys talking about what they learn
when they moved in with their significant others. Is there
anything that like Michael, when you first started living together,
he's like, wait, what you do this? They think stand out?
Speaker 5 (14:36):
Anything that stands out to me, It's more like the
stuff with him. It was like he would leave his
rolled up socks like all over the house and he
still does that.
Speaker 2 (14:45):
Shoes just like he put them in a ball.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
Well, like I don't even know.
Speaker 5 (14:47):
So it's like a process like he comes home and
like he takes off his shoes like just there, like
it's like they're in the middle of the living room.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
Like it's not even off to the side or it's
almost like he.
Speaker 5 (14:56):
Just like stepped out of them, and then the rolled
up socks around the puch, you know, like its like
sometimes you would find him like under yep.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
That's because when we grew up, I think his boys
that's how we treated our bedroom.
Speaker 5 (15:07):
It's almost like you're like watching TV and at that
mom was I'm gonna take my sols off and just
peeled them off with his toes and then just leaves
them there.
Speaker 3 (15:14):
Hey, did you get up this morning and have a
great coffee grinder. Beans make it right. Listen, here's the grinder.
I smell the beans right now, it's time to grind
your beans.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (15:34):
You know, a Sistani doesn't operate on coffee, doesn't need it.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
Michael's off coffee too. He's starting to drink tea.
Speaker 2 (15:41):
I don't like it.
Speaker 3 (15:43):
He's trying to ban he's drinking Mountain tea. Please come
back to home.
Speaker 5 (15:47):
Ah, because he was drinking so much coffee. He was
drinking like six cups a day, and so now he
was just like, at least now I'm drinking tea, and
maybe it's better.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
He just stopped drinking coffee at nine.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
He can't. He drinks it like it's just it's something
to do.
Speaker 4 (16:00):
Did you know Pedro Pascal's Do you know his Starbucks
order is like something venty six shots?
Speaker 2 (16:06):
Wow? Oh no, I didn't know that. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (16:07):
So, like he had encountered a fan at Starbucks and
everybody was saying, zoom in on his drink so we
could see what it is.
Speaker 3 (16:13):
Well, maybe that's just a one time thing because the
guy's working around the clock.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
Maybe it's a one time thing.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
Ma yeh?
Speaker 3 (16:18):
Is that so by choice? He you're Michael by choice
no coffee.
Speaker 5 (16:24):
Well, he got really sick last week, remember he got
like the virus that all the kids got, and so
ever since then he's been on the tee.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
I got this kind of settling in.
Speaker 2 (16:33):
I got to fix myself.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
I cannot think the way I think when people tell
me they don't drink.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
Coffee, Like I know you're a number now.
Speaker 2 (16:41):
Yeah, I don't like it. You know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (16:43):
Like it doesn't like I feel like one less connective tissue.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
He'll be back.
Speaker 5 (16:47):
I think heating up the water and then getting the
tea bag out. I think it's all too many steps.
Speaker 3 (16:51):
I mean, Tanya, you and your are wash mushroom preserves.
Speaker 1 (16:58):
I watched Wa Ganda.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
I don't know whatever, but I want you back with
the coffee beans.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
I know, please, I know I.
Speaker 3 (17:08):
Have so much more fun when you drink coffee. I know, Mark,
don't you agree?
Speaker 2 (17:13):
One hundred?
Speaker 6 (17:14):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (17:15):
Please put over the mushroom drink. We are all over.
Speaker 3 (17:20):
We were giving you a week and now we're like, guys, please,
we have a show to do.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
Coffee.
Speaker 3 (17:25):
I mean, I don't want to push coffee, but I
am I am coffee pure.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
I am I'm down here it's it's it's good. It's good.
It's good for all of us to bond over there.
Speaker 1 (17:35):
I know it's the ceremony of it. I'm with you.
I get it.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
We all come in and we sit it and we.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
Smile, and I know I missed that with us. I
do too.
Speaker 2 (17:43):
All right, I'll be back, okay, good, all right.
Speaker 1 (17:46):
Well how often do you wash your we're.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
Supposed to do here. That's it, Thank you.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
I a would like to get us back on track.
Speaker 2 (17:52):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 7 (17:54):
Guy.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
Wash now I used the reusable pathway. Well you should wash.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
Doesn't mean that you can just keep refilling.
Speaker 3 (18:00):
It, because they say it's if you don't watch its dirty.
It's my toilet seat.
Speaker 5 (18:03):
Yeah, you should be washing it all the time. It
turns out that they're super dirty. Reusable water bottles can
harbor forty thousand times more bacteria than.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
Forty average times.
Speaker 5 (18:14):
Seeing the average toilet seats, so researchers swapped parts of
different water bottles three times each, including the spout, the
spout lid, the straw lid, and the squeeze top lid,
and found two types of bacteria present, one that was
called gram negative rods and one that was called baccilous.
(18:34):
Grab negative bacteria can cause infections that are increasingly resistant
to antibiotics, while certain types of vaculus can result in
stomach issues, which then got me thinking, what if all
my kids got this.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
From there water bottles?
Speaker 5 (18:51):
Because they all take water bottles to school every single day,
and I'm like, we clean them, but I wasn't cleaning
them every single day.
Speaker 1 (18:56):
And I'll be honest, clear once a month, once a month.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
So this is good.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
Clean them out. You clean that mason jar of your
as you put your coal brewin every day? And how
dirty is my toilets?
Speaker 7 (19:08):
Heat?
Speaker 3 (19:08):
Like I probably touch my toilet seat and neat almonds,
but I wash my hands.
Speaker 4 (19:13):
I mean, I don't know, like the all right, your
toilet seat is probably pretty clean if you.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
Think, are you talking of my later my seat, my seat,
my you my horseshoe?
Speaker 1 (19:20):
Right, probably like the.
Speaker 2 (19:22):
The underneath, the underneath. I don't know how clean the
underneath of my horseshoe is.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
Well, they does.
Speaker 5 (19:28):
They does some more comparisons, So the they contain twice
the germs as the kitchen sink, so there was another comparison.
They can harbor four times of bacteria as a computer
mouse and fourteen times more than a pet drinking bull.
Speaker 1 (19:43):
How gross is that?
Speaker 2 (19:44):
Hold on, how often you clean these mice?
Speaker 1 (19:47):
Have the mice on like that is a whole those Uh,
Actually he keeps it pretty tight over there for you.
Speaker 2 (19:54):
He does. I see the actually have.
Speaker 1 (19:56):
Seen him wipe down and microphone once week. Maybe the
microphones the mice so much Judez.
Speaker 3 (20:05):
So my fingers, my fingers scroller part, my fingers touching
it, and then my finger eats my little bag of gojie
berries with the same fingers.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
It's pretty gnar.
Speaker 5 (20:17):
Anyways, Experts recommend that you wash your water bottles at
least once a day.
Speaker 1 (20:21):
They say every day.
Speaker 5 (20:23):
Hot hot, hot, the hottest you can do the hot
water and soapy water. It's like a real thorough and
they say if you can sanitize it, do that often
as well, once a week, twice a week.
Speaker 3 (20:33):
Well, this is very needed this publisher, thank you Sisty
for that. Talking about the water bottle back terry. You
gotta clean them out.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
Let me.
Speaker 3 (20:40):
Krying to think, let's do this. I'm gonna grab Cliff
for a second. So Cliff in la I was talking
about this. A friend of mine who's going through a breakup,
and her friend said to take her mind off the breakup,
she was sending her Torking videos. I said, well, when
your your best friend goes through a breakup, like, what
do you do? You? Oh, you talk? Do you go
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see them? Do you make them dinner? Do you take
them out for ice cream? She's like, no, I send
Towrking videos. Everybody loves those.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
It's kind of funny.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
Is that how you get through a breakup? You look
at torking videos.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
I would never think of it, but sure, Cliff, what
do you do?
Speaker 9 (21:15):
So what we like to do is we'll take a
friend and we'll say, hey, we're taking to a special place.
We can't tell you about it. We're gonna blindfold you,
put you in the back of the car, and we're
gonna drive you into downtown LA. And so when we
get there, it's typically like a really kind of you know,
iffy type building and there's a club guy out front
who's checking IDs and going, okay, well who are you?
Speaker 2 (21:36):
Come on in?
Speaker 9 (21:37):
And when you get inside it's koreating karaoke and so
it typically just it creates a laugh. It's fun for them,
and they're also like, where we go and this is
like the CD place where you know, we're blindfolded and
it's you won't tell us where it's at, And then
you get there, just have a great time. You eat
some green food and do some karaoke, and she like
gets their mind off the whole deal.
Speaker 3 (21:55):
I mean that might make people want to go through
a break up. That's fun. Yeah, you're so. Have you
gone through a breakup and had something like this happened
to you before?
Speaker 7 (22:07):
I have not.
Speaker 9 (22:08):
I'm one of my only friends I think that's been
married for like twenty years.
Speaker 2 (22:11):
Oh so yeah, yeah, guys, this sport for you.
Speaker 9 (22:15):
Yeah, it's just I'm the guy that kind of helps
out and gets them back in track, and you know,
it tells them, you know, relationships work and just hang
in there and you'll find somebody else. I'm not kind
of like the support guy exactly.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
Cliff will keep your number, Thanks for calling. Thank you,
all right, that's great.
Speaker 1 (22:30):
I mean karaoke is always fun.
Speaker 3 (22:33):
Honestly, the way he described it, I'm in it's not
for me generally. It doesn't put me in that place generally.
Really me too, I dodge karaoke invitations. All the Cliffs
sold it.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
Pretty well, I want to get going.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
So other tactics. You know, you can text this show
to four one o two seven. I hope we look
at it all show, you know, like we're constantly trying
to look at it.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
We do.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
Some people get shy and you don't want to call
in and I get it.
Speaker 3 (22:55):
So just text, yeah, text so easy four one on
two seven right now. So other tactics. People say this
in the eight one to eight uh for what to
do for a friend when they're going through a breakup,
talk about all the reasons why he sucks.
Speaker 5 (23:06):
Oh that's see, that's tricky because if they get back together, then.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
You're in a weird pickle, and odds are they are
going to get back to you for a second.
Speaker 2 (23:16):
Another one. If my best he went through a breakup,
We're going to a kickboxing class.
Speaker 1 (23:21):
That's fun.
Speaker 2 (23:22):
From the Anne Valley.
Speaker 3 (23:23):
If my friend is going through a breakup, we put
our PJS on and listen to I Hate Men music
and get drunk.
Speaker 1 (23:29):
That's fun.
Speaker 3 (23:30):
And then I set her up with a guy that
takes her mind off of it all. That's great until
maybe thirty six hours later that might all not end.
Speaker 1 (23:38):
Well, that's actually that that's what I've done in the past.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
It's a quick fix.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
It's a quick fix.
Speaker 2 (23:44):
So let me grab Caitlyn. It's very important to get
to Kitlyn right now. Caitlyn. We want to help you
out here.
Speaker 3 (23:49):
Everybody is on mic, everybody's leaned in, everybody's their glasses on,
so it's a full focus moment. So you looked up
with a guy and when you were leaving, you gave
him him your phone number. Then what did he say
that you were wondering if it's a red flag or not?
Speaker 10 (24:06):
Well, I I asked him. I was like, oh, so
I don't think you have my phone number, And he
was like, oh, that's okay, I have your Instagram.
Speaker 2 (24:20):
The automatic red flag.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
Those are my That was my jaw falling to the crown.
Speaker 3 (24:24):
He was the automatic red flag that we we can't control.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
It just sounds off.
Speaker 1 (24:29):
Okay, it's not such a red flag. You met you
you thought you were meeting him for the first time.
Speaker 10 (24:37):
Well, I had a crush on him for like a
little bit. I met him through a mutual friend and
we were like at his house and like all night
we were like hanging out and talking and so I
don't know, I kind of thought he was into me.
But after he said that, I was like, well maybe
he's not.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
So you know, he's your Instagram so you can direct
message you. Why do you think he's not. It's like
if he's looking you up on Instagram, he's into you. Yeah,
and he's searching, he's looking at your photos.
Speaker 5 (25:01):
Do you have so many followers that you didn't realize
that he was following you?
Speaker 7 (25:06):
No?
Speaker 10 (25:06):
No, I knew he was, but I just like to communicate.
Speaker 5 (25:09):
I thought like, oh, I you know, so now it's
almost like he didn't even care to want my phone
number because it might not be as serious for him.
Speaker 11 (25:20):
Exactly.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
I think if somebody's looking at your Instagram, they want
to actually understand a little bit about you, right, they
want to check out what you like.
Speaker 5 (25:27):
But not if he denies the phone number, she literally like,
here's my here are my digits, and.
Speaker 3 (25:30):
He's like, how are you going to get the number?
It's like hard to put a phone number in a phone.
Speaker 4 (25:36):
Well, it's not that, but like some people don't like
to give their phone number because what if it goes bad,
then that person of your phone number. Like I never
gave my phone number when I was on dating apps, but.
Speaker 2 (25:47):
I had a guy to Jim, I mean a lot
of guys at the gym lately. Huh.
Speaker 3 (25:50):
I had a guy at the gym and he's like, uh,
what do we go out of common? What did we like?
We both liked something. I forgot what it was. Anyway,
He's like, no, it's not all of it. What food related?
But anyway, I'm like, dude, that's so funny. We should
we should hang She's like, yeah, you want my number?
He takes my phone. They types his number into my
phone and calls me.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
Yeah what what?
Speaker 6 (26:13):
What?
Speaker 7 (26:13):
What?
Speaker 6 (26:13):
What?
Speaker 1 (26:14):
He calls himself.
Speaker 3 (26:16):
I know he called somebody and I'm like, I don't
know your number. You got my number? What am I
supposed to do?
Speaker 2 (26:21):
Now? Hit save, hit info, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
Hit save contact and put his name in their gym guy.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
Didn't didn't get there.
Speaker 3 (26:29):
So, Caitlin, I'm not so sure it's a red flag.
And I think the red flag als will sing something.
Speaker 7 (26:33):
This morning.
Speaker 2 (26:36):
That's like pac Man, it is all right, well, good luck,
thank you.
Speaker 3 (26:43):
Yeah, there's so many other worse red flags, right, Maybe
I think that's a red flag.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
I kind of like that one.
Speaker 2 (26:56):
That's so awful.
Speaker 3 (27:01):
What song is that it's one of the greats, right
said Red. It's good Rember, Right said Fred. It's his brother,
right said Red. All right, what do we do here?
Let's find out what you think about these debates going
on online.
Speaker 2 (27:18):
Uh, here we go.
Speaker 3 (27:19):
So feel free to weigh in eight hundred and five
to two O one two seven or send us a
talk back on that iHeart radio app inside the kiss
page at red microphone.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
So here here's a couple of debates online. I'm just
curious what you think.
Speaker 3 (27:29):
Is your wedding being planned and if so, if your
wedding guests missed the RSVP deadline, do you want to
invite them? A couple on Twitter sent out invites with
a reasonable RSVP and guests who rsvp'ed after we're told
RSVP is closed.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
I mean, it's super harsh, that's so savage, but I
kind of love it, honestly, Like it's there.
Speaker 5 (27:52):
You probably got the invitations three months, two months investment.
Speaker 3 (27:55):
You get a reminder too, Like I feel like those
things come with auto reminders as well.
Speaker 5 (27:59):
They would have to be very apologetic and like call
me personally to be like, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry.
We you know, obviously, we want to be there, they
go whatever, But otherwise I think you kind of move on.
Speaker 3 (28:10):
Non RSVPs are an honest mistake, Like I don't necessary
RCP immediate because don't want to be the first one RSVP.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
But then I forget to do it later.
Speaker 3 (28:19):
Because I get it immediately and I'm like, oh my gosh,
I sent that too fast. They're going to think. They're
going to think I have nothing to do in my life, right,
So anyway, all right, well, I think that that's harsh
for me. It's harsh, little rigid. Here's another one. These
are questions dividing the world at the grocery store. Is
it rude to always take items from the back of
the shelf? So grocery store workers on Instagram say this
(28:39):
makes their jobs harder and say this leads to more
food going bad.
Speaker 5 (28:44):
Oh that's interesting because you want the milk that's like
the furthest expiration date versus.
Speaker 12 (28:50):
Eggs fresh salad.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
I don't think it's that bad. If you like, rearrange
the shelf back, you just clean it up. Come on,
tell me.
Speaker 2 (29:03):
Next time I told you this earlier.
Speaker 3 (29:05):
I'm obsessed with the smell of grocery stores right now,
I go in, I take a I take three deep
press in, and every grocery store it close your eye
smells the same.
Speaker 1 (29:14):
Yeah, right, I know what you means.
Speaker 2 (29:16):
It's all that stuff together.
Speaker 3 (29:18):
It's the refrigerator section, the light, the bubblegum, the cereal,
the bakery, the meat. All it smells the same. Or
here's another great debate ken an ex husband asked his
ex wife to return to her maiden name. A woman
posted on Reddit that her ex husband asked for her
to drop his last name because it was awkward for
his new fiance.
Speaker 1 (29:38):
I thought that was a fair ask. I think I
think it's a fair ask too.
Speaker 3 (29:46):
Right here, here's the one that I don't get. Is
it inconsiderate to peel an orange on a plane? Person
asked this question on Reddit. Some said it's fine. Some
say eating anything with an odor on a plane is
rood to me, and orange does not have an odor,
that's just citrus.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
I agreed, roll smells delicious, it's fine with me.
Speaker 5 (30:04):
But if you're opening up your to go sushi on
an airplane or anything that has like just a strong.
Speaker 2 (30:12):
Your heart, you're much worse than the orange person, like
a stink bo orange.
Speaker 3 (30:18):
The thing with the orange is that it gets the
trade table sticky. So if you leave the trade table
sticky for others, that's a problem. But I like the scent.
Speaker 1 (30:24):
I like the scent of an orange too. Eggs.
Speaker 3 (30:28):
I mean, if you're traveling next to me, breakout the eucalyptus,
the lavender.
Speaker 2 (30:32):
I want to smell all that.
Speaker 1 (30:33):
I share I offer to people around me.
Speaker 2 (30:36):
No one's going to share your eggs made heart boiled eggs.
Speaker 1 (30:39):
I offer, yes, of course, to the person next to you.
Speaker 2 (30:41):
Can I give you a can I give you a
healthy recipe? Trick.
Speaker 3 (30:44):
I just was in the store the other day and
I bought mustard powder. Have you ever purchased mustard powder?
Speaker 1 (30:48):
I didn't even know mustard could be powdered.
Speaker 2 (30:50):
Here's what you do, you everything can be powdered.
Speaker 3 (30:53):
What you do is you take your heart boled eggs
and maybe two yolks and a bunch of egg whites.
Put them in a bowl. Don't make mayonnaise, a little
olive oil, a little feti cheese. I know, cheese issue
for you, but this is good.
Speaker 1 (31:05):
That is fine.
Speaker 2 (31:06):
I'm good with feta, right, so FET's fine.
Speaker 3 (31:08):
Toss it up, pickled halapinos and mustard powder, olive oil.
Speaker 2 (31:14):
Mix it up. It's fantastic. It's really a great healthy salad.
Speaker 5 (31:17):
It's like your homemade dressing or conniment reaching down in
tur bag.
Speaker 4 (31:23):
I can try this recipe because I'm very into egg
salad these days. I love egg salad and I have
it every day. So can you send me that recipe
or maybe post it online?
Speaker 2 (31:33):
I just told you it's like.
Speaker 1 (31:37):
Mustard powder, And here's.
Speaker 2 (31:39):
The mustard powder. Coleman's mustard powder right there.
Speaker 1 (31:42):
Mustard powder, olive oil, egg white, and what else? Why
do you have a picture of the mustard powder ready
to go and buy it?
Speaker 2 (31:50):
I get excited about these things. I got pictures of
who would you send that to?
Speaker 3 (31:57):
I just kept it because I knew its asked me
about my latest condiment.
Speaker 2 (32:01):
Yeah, so yeah, here we go. I got pictures of
my my malk.
Speaker 1 (32:05):
Wait, it's like displayed. You're like modeling them. No, it's
probably so that he gets the right kind at the
grocery store.
Speaker 2 (32:11):
I have to do. That's Robbie.
Speaker 1 (32:13):
Oh, I love a good infrared mask. Which one is?
That's a good one. This thing.
Speaker 5 (32:24):
Literally like Maxim's Iron Man mask.
Speaker 2 (32:27):
Good morning, Good morning, my name is Ryan. Who am
I speaking with.
Speaker 6 (32:35):
A concerned listener?
Speaker 2 (32:38):
Oh so we're gonna call you, okay, anonymous?
Speaker 1 (32:45):
Anonymous?
Speaker 2 (32:47):
I did think that went through.
Speaker 3 (32:48):
I didn't think how to spell anonymous for a second
before I called you.
Speaker 6 (33:01):
I just want to say one thing. I love you guys' show.
I listen to it every morning and just you guys
are great.
Speaker 7 (33:09):
But please you.
Speaker 12 (33:12):
The other day on the hack about the sequence order
of the birth and all that, and how you know
this is a perfect match and this isn't for effects?
Speaker 3 (33:23):
You should well, they say science, not Ryan, science, your
birth order effects who you should marry? And let me
just recap. So if you're firstborn, you have to marry
a last born. If you're a middle child, you have
to marry a last born, And if you're a last born,
you have to marry a firstborn.
Speaker 2 (33:38):
What do you disagree with everything?
Speaker 6 (33:42):
My first marriage, I am a firstborn. I marry the
last born, divorced in five years. Oh my second marriage,
I'm a firstborn, he's a firstborn and we are seventeen
years strong.
Speaker 2 (33:57):
Let's look at the common denominator who was in both
relationships here. You can't mean.
Speaker 1 (34:03):
Are you sure that you're both the firstborn.
Speaker 7 (34:06):
Positive.
Speaker 6 (34:08):
Well, and I know I'm not the problem because he
chooses on me the first one.
Speaker 3 (34:15):
Well, look, I think any scientists would say, there's always
that variable. I mean, you look at the exit polls
when it comes to the elections, and they always have
that little margin of error. Right, you're inside the margin
of error.
Speaker 1 (34:27):
Or I appreciate you.
Speaker 4 (34:29):
Maybe your husband now you're seventeen years strong. Is he
an only child?
Speaker 6 (34:33):
No?
Speaker 1 (34:34):
Oh, first one.
Speaker 2 (34:38):
But that's great, that's great. You're challenging the science. I
love that. And so everything is going.
Speaker 6 (34:42):
On because could have said he was the youngest too,
was right?
Speaker 5 (34:46):
Right?
Speaker 1 (34:46):
Exactly?
Speaker 6 (34:48):
I know.
Speaker 2 (34:48):
I have a question for you. Question for you?
Speaker 3 (34:51):
How long how long between when you left or divorced
or he you know, went away your first husband until
you got married? Like, how much time in twelve years
twelve years between marriages? Did you ever think you get
married again?
Speaker 6 (35:07):
Uh? No. I met my current husband and we became
best friends, and then we started dating, and then two
years after we dated, we got engaged, and two years
after that we got married. Wow.
Speaker 3 (35:22):
Well, congratulations, I love it. And if you were to
look back, I mean, now you sit with the luxury
of having seen your past and knowing that it works out.
But I'm sure along the way you thought, why did
I even get married in the first place? This was
a bad idea, And now you have the perfect, most
beautiful marriage of seventeen years and that's just the beginning.
Speaker 7 (35:41):
Right, yeight?
Speaker 2 (35:43):
Correct? Okay, So in.
Speaker 3 (35:46):
Most cases, if you're a firstborn Marriya last, if you're
a middle child Mary a last, if you're a last
Mary at first, but not in every.
Speaker 2 (35:52):
Case, Anonymous, that is correct. What's your husband's name?
Speaker 6 (36:00):
He is, mister Anonymous.
Speaker 3 (36:05):
You're the best. Thank you for listening to us in Palmdale.
Continued success in your marriage.
Speaker 12 (36:09):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (36:10):
Bye.
Speaker 3 (36:12):
I thought I might get her with that one. Yeah,
all right, missus Anonymie. Listen to us on.
Speaker 1 (36:19):
On air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (36:25):
All right, Amy, what can we do for you? We're
here to help.
Speaker 7 (36:29):
Oh, let me tell you this. So.
Speaker 11 (36:30):
I've been dating my boyfriend for three years now. He
started his current job like a year ago or so.
He's made some friends at work. I met them, hung
out with them. I love every single one of them.
Except there's this one girl, and she is all over
my boyfriend, like constantly alerting with him and touching him
like schol click cress his arm more like his back,
(36:53):
and it makes me very annoyed. And I know he
has other women in his work, and I'm not I
don't have any issues with them. It's just her, so
I know it's not jealousy. But I did talk to
him and he did tell me that he does agree
with me, and he is trying to back off. But
now he's telling me that she's trying to be his
(37:14):
work wife at work and even though she has a Beyonce,
he thinks it's nothing really serious. But I don't know.
That is kind of weird to me, phil and it's
sugging me. Should I confront her about this or what
should I do?
Speaker 2 (37:29):
Interesting?
Speaker 3 (37:29):
So the woman is somebody who works with and do
you are you around her to notice this or do
you just know about this from somebody telling you?
Speaker 11 (37:39):
It's when we hang out, like once in a while
she'll be there with all the rest of the coworkers
and everything, and I'll notice it once in a while
here it are you know?
Speaker 2 (37:47):
And some people tell me I think do we have
a sense.
Speaker 3 (37:51):
I think you can sense from somebody's body whatever they're
given off. If they're trying to cause some tension. Do
you thought she's intentionally trying to cause tension when you're around.
Speaker 2 (37:59):
By you in this.
Speaker 6 (38:02):
Sense?
Speaker 11 (38:02):
Yes, I feel like it.
Speaker 4 (38:04):
Well, then you're probably write and don't confront her because
that's what she wants.
Speaker 3 (38:08):
No, I was gonna say, confront her, look her in
the eye and say this is inappropriate.
Speaker 4 (38:13):
She's gonna know then if you do that, that she's
getting under your skin, and that's exactly what she wants
to do.
Speaker 3 (38:18):
Is she gonna stop? No, what isn't she gonna She's
not gonna stop. She's gonna do She's gonna do more
of the caressing of his forearm and his back. Actor
she's confronted by his girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (38:29):
Yes, you know this type like it happened to you.
Oh my gosh, I feel like we all know this
type of person the.
Speaker 2 (38:35):
Person don't yeh basically Okay.
Speaker 1 (38:38):
So yeah, it has happened to me where.
Speaker 4 (38:41):
Boundaries I feel like had been crossed and I did
not like it. But I feel like that is what
these type of people, narcissists, They like that, they like
to know that they get under your skin and you
just have to ignore it.
Speaker 3 (38:55):
You just have to totally more about This is more
about the woman at work wanting to get under Amy
skin or the woman at work actually liking her boyfriend's.
Speaker 4 (39:03):
It's it's her wanting to be this like, that's her
wanting to like flirt and have that you know, that attention.
Speaker 5 (39:11):
Yeah, I don't mind having the conversation with her and
being like, back off either.
Speaker 2 (39:14):
I'm so true with you.
Speaker 3 (39:16):
Sisney's gonna role play Amy Amy action sistany you're playing
the role of Amy, what.
Speaker 2 (39:19):
Do you say?
Speaker 5 (39:20):
Hey, you know, I'm I think you're a great person
and you have a very bubbly personality, but I feel
like sometimes you get a little too close to my boyfriend,
and I don't like the way it makes me feel.
Speaker 1 (39:28):
You're great, but I think.
Speaker 2 (39:31):
To start with, you're a great person.
Speaker 5 (39:33):
I don't think she's not killing kindness at first.
Speaker 2 (39:36):
She's not a great person.
Speaker 1 (39:37):
Yeah, I agree, she could be a great person in
other fields.
Speaker 5 (39:41):
It's just that she doesn't realize her flirtiness. So it's
like that's the issue. Stay waiting, my mand.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
You keep doing this, and I'm going to tell your fiance.
Speaker 2 (39:49):
I like that. Like the way you're sounding in there. Yeah,
I like the fire in your belly. Easy.
Speaker 1 (39:56):
If you keep doing this, you can't come to my
birthday party.
Speaker 3 (39:58):
Yeah, Amy, So if it's me, I'm addressing it with her.
Speaker 5 (40:07):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 11 (40:09):
May I'll go with the with what you guys are saying.
I will approach her. But if she's not understanding, you know, yeah,
we'll go to the fiance and help him.
Speaker 3 (40:17):
Yeah, take a little hybrid of the advice and go
for it. Thanks, good luck on this one.
Speaker 5 (40:22):
He's like, I think I'm gonna take a little piece
of everything you guys said and figure it out on
my own.
Speaker 3 (40:27):
Yeah, all right, I'm actually gonna forget I called you guys,
that's what.
Speaker 1 (40:30):
What was the sound effects? What was that?
Speaker 2 (40:33):
Those get some new stuff up here to you know,
punch it up?
Speaker 1 (40:37):
Distracting?
Speaker 2 (40:39):
Why is that distracting? Where is Mark?
Speaker 1 (40:41):
Anyway?
Speaker 2 (40:42):
Left?
Speaker 1 (40:44):
Peace a lot?
Speaker 3 (40:45):
Have you heard of a delusion ship here at Kiss
FM this morning? Sisney came in very excited to get
to this this hour.
Speaker 1 (40:53):
I saw this and I'm like, I for sure have
been in these We've.
Speaker 2 (40:57):
All never heard of it, never heard it.
Speaker 5 (41:00):
So a delusionship would be like, let's say you just
can't stop daydreaming about the barista that you see every
single day. And then it was the way they handed
you their coffee that morning and they said, here you go, love,
and now you're in You're like, oh my gosh, they
totally like me. And then you go home and I'm like,
I'm planning my wedding and it's like it's the whole
thing starts tod. That's a delusionship, Like that's not real,
(41:20):
Like he probably doesn't think you're his love, et cetera,
et cetera. So if you find yourself spending more time
thinking about someone else who either doesn't exist or the
relationship doesn't even exist, that's a delusionship.
Speaker 2 (41:36):
So does it a delusionship? Like for people?
Speaker 3 (41:39):
Right, you find you see somebody in a movie and
you have a crushed on them in a movie you
never meet them, But is that a delusionship?
Speaker 5 (41:44):
It is if you start actually acting out the fact that,
like they're your partner, you.
Speaker 1 (41:51):
Know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (41:52):
I think I can say we've all done this.
Speaker 3 (41:55):
I've seen somebody to stop light and decided I'm going
to marry them, but I don't even want to get married.
Speaker 5 (41:59):
Well, or have you been like on a first date
where you've been ghosted? And you still kind of just
like accept that they've ghosted you. They're like, oh, they're
probably just like on vacation, and like, I'm still very
much dating them, but you're not dating run.
Speaker 2 (42:12):
Ships.
Speaker 1 (42:13):
He set up dinner for two, and it's just me, Oh,
remember you used to leave an empty space in the closet.
Speaker 3 (42:19):
At the table for she set the table for two
in our apartment when nobody in.
Speaker 1 (42:22):
A pit of me of a delusion shop. Let me
tell you, I left.
Speaker 4 (42:27):
The space in the closet, and I left a drawer
my bedside table.
Speaker 1 (42:30):
And guess who came a knock in rob A bunch
of guys before.
Speaker 3 (42:36):
Dudes before Robbie is actually no, there was. Yeah, the
guy came, the guy.
Speaker 2 (42:40):
On the course.
Speaker 1 (42:41):
And you know what space in his closet?
Speaker 3 (42:44):
Right, Yeah, did Robbie have a space. And this wouldn't
have been a match if Robby had a space in
his closet.
Speaker 2 (42:49):
And he was setting the dinner table.
Speaker 1 (42:50):
For exactly No, he was, He was not such like that.
Speaker 2 (42:54):
Delusions of grande are the only knocking.
Speaker 5 (42:57):
The only cure for this is cold turkey. Just like,
stop stop following them on Instagram. You have to just
stop going to that coffee shop. You have to break
it out.
Speaker 2 (43:07):
Have no interest to me.
Speaker 1 (43:08):
You know what we need to find that?
Speaker 2 (43:10):
We google that during the break. I feel like that
went fast.
Speaker 1 (43:14):
We did it.
Speaker 2 (43:15):
Do you like?
Speaker 3 (43:16):
Do you like whipped cream or cool whipped sysan'ty ah.
Speaker 2 (43:21):
I want to know one more thing about all of us.
Speaker 1 (43:23):
I guess whipped if I had to choose, but.
Speaker 2 (43:25):
Really, whipped cream or cool whip? Whipped cream or cool whip?
Speaker 1 (43:28):
Tanya whipped cream all day.
Speaker 2 (43:30):
I don't like either.
Speaker 1 (43:32):
Really, I don't know that was a choice, but yeah.
Speaker 2 (43:36):
Careful chewing ice.
Speaker 1 (43:37):
Sorry.
Speaker 3 (43:37):
Coming up tomorrow, We've got Ryan's roses. We're into it
right here, so it's fun to learn one more thing
before you go.
Speaker 7 (43:43):
Right.
Speaker 2 (43:44):
Thanks for listening So on Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make
sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow
From Hollywood Toe you.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Air on air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
So Tanya, just headline us recap what a an attachment
style means with your significant other.
Speaker 4 (00:17):
An attachment style is basically the way that you attach
yourself to another human and it all boils down to
stuff from your childhood that you might not even know,
Like you might be traumatized from something that happened that
could have been like a quick thing at school that
is like lingering with you. But basically it's how you
(00:37):
react inside a relationship. And there's four main types.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
And what are the four?
Speaker 4 (00:42):
It's securely attached, insecurely attached, avoidant, and.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Shoot, I'm missing the fourth one.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
You can't preach if you don't know them.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
I know I'm not any good. I'm not like the
expert here, So.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
I would be insecure and avoidant, right.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Yeah, you need to take the quiz and really see.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
I won't take the quiz. I live with me. I
know me.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Anxious, avoidant, disorganized, and securely attached.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Okay, so keep those Handy and Sydney, what were you?
Speaker 1 (01:10):
I was avoidant?
Speaker 2 (01:12):
I get that. I'm definitely insecure and then plus.
Speaker 5 (01:15):
Plus right right, the insecure doesn't really linger in my
relationships per se. But the avoidant kind of made sense
because like, if there's an issue, I'm just kind of
like forget it that we don't need to talk about it.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Yeah, avoidant is dismissive attachment.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Toney, what happened to us in our childhood that we're
insecure attachment?
Speaker 1 (01:29):
You gotta got a therapy to figure it out? What
time one o'clock?
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Can we share it over?
Speaker 6 (01:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:35):
No, I do it on zoom.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
Oh you don't even go?
Speaker 7 (01:38):
No, I go?
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Oh, then put me in the grid.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
Yeah, it's great.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Claudia, good morning. How are you in Corona?
Speaker 8 (01:44):
Hello? Good morning. I am well driving to work?
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Well, thank you.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
We're in the business of trying to make you forget
about the drive while you're doing it. It's our gig.
So Kuidty, tell me what inspired you to call in?
What's happening in your relationship that made you want to
call in about this attachment?
Speaker 8 (02:02):
Well? I can say that I have been trying to
figure out why it is that every single person that
I have ever been involved with has always cheated on me.
So of course I have my guard up for a
very long time. And one step guard gets taken down,
(02:27):
then I start noticing indifferences in the relationship, and then
I start I start noticing the red flags, only to
come find out each and every single time that yeah,
there's something else going on. So it's like a vicious cycle,
and I just wanted to try to figure out whether
(02:50):
it's something deeper than just picking the wrong partner.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
Got it well, by the way, first of all, to
things Number one, thank you for reaching out to talk
vulnerably with us about this. And two, I love your
thoughtful approach, right, I mean, you're you're coming, You're you're
like trying to find a It's almost like an unemotional approach, right,
It's a thoughtful approach. Yeah, yeah, because you want to write,
(03:21):
I mean, you really want to do some work on this,
some real work on this.
Speaker 8 (03:24):
Well, And you know it has not always always been
this way, to be honest with you, it's taking me
a long time to get to where I'm at. And
for the first time in my probably in my life,
I have been single for the past three or four years,
and I've actually have learned to be very happy single.
(03:46):
And before it was that ugly feeling that I just
did not want to be alone, and I think that
maybe that also led to the problem as far as
I'll take anything, I.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Guess you lower your bar.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
Well, Claudia, let me have time and they give you
a real quick and your real quick the study.
Speaker 2 (04:02):
Yeah, how to get the quiz?
Speaker 4 (04:03):
Well, okay, you can just go to Google and literally
just type into Google attachment style quiz and that'll pop
right up and you can take it right then and
there and quit it.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Good luck.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
So attachment Style quiz and Google keep us posted. I
love what you said you found happiness being single. You
don't need someone that's not of like that gets to
be with you and deserve your time and your energy
and your wisdom. You don't need somebody to be there
all the time just to feel happy. And I think
(04:33):
that's a big accomplishment in itself.
Speaker 8 (04:36):
That is a beautiful thing that I have learned.
Speaker 3 (04:39):
Thank you, Claudia. We love you in Corona. You have
a great day and good luck on this journey. So
Siciny is working on a new traffic wave.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
Oh I've got this down and I'm so happy. I
will never change the way I wave to people ever.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
Again, meaning when they let you do into the Yeah.
Speaker 5 (04:56):
So I'm a big person of like, if you don't
wave back to me after I've already let you get
in front of me or cross or whatever, and you
don't give me the wave, I get so irritated me too.
I'm just like why it's it takes two seconds.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Thank you.
Speaker 5 (05:09):
And so the other day I let the Coldwater Canyon
gets very backed up, like with traffic, and so you
can tell someone's trying to like cross into their neighborhood.
I like purposely like slowed down the traffic so that
person break exactly, make it break in the lane. And
so the person crosses in front of me and they
threw me the peace sign, and I was like, oh,
that is so cool. And so ever since that day
(05:31):
Janner cutting in front of you, I do the peace
sign now and it makes me feel so much better
than just the wave.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Like the peace sign is way cooler.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
I think the peace signs it really is.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
It brightened up my day. I was like, Wow, that's
natal that's.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
Like a chill person in traffic front peace. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
They're like, you know, just like not the anxious wave,
just the peace exactly. So can you describe the person
didn't see what they were vibing?
Speaker 5 (05:52):
It was a guy it was a guy. It was
a sedan. I can't remember the make, but it was
a super.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Chill guy spanks man.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
True. I mean when you see me in my Ford Bronco.
By the way, it's just a basic it's factor.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Anything I know, but it's so it's a good one.
Speaker 2 (06:06):
Robbie saw it, Oh he did? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (06:08):
Uh so, I'm gonna the people in traffic in my
Ford Bronco.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
So switch it up to the piece. You'll be happier.
You're gonna be so cool in that car. I can't
wait to see it.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
I think I'm getting it from Ford next week.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Oh that's so exciting.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
From our local southern California four dealer.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
That's right.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
Let me grab this call eight hundred and five too, well,
want to two seven feel free anytime about anything?
Speaker 2 (06:32):
This is Andrew. So Andrew, you think that.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
Your girlfriend's guy friend is in love with her, but
you didn't have a problem with that until now.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
What's up? Tell me the situation?
Speaker 7 (06:43):
All right? So thanks taking the call. I mean we've
been doing it for about six months and it's going well.
And like I said, she's got this friend, like you said,
she says, this friend who it's like he's always hitting
on her, and he's a nice guy, but it's kind
of coming to a head because, well, they could take
a her here or there, but we're supposed to want
a trip together with some friends another two couples, and
(07:04):
she wants to invite him, and I'm kind of like,
am I in the wrong here for telling my girlfriend
of six months that her lifelong friend coming on our
trip would make me uncomfortable. He's just he's really involved,
and it feels like one of those things where he
hopes it turns romantic with her, and I'm like, in
his rom com, I'm the bad guy, and it just you.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
You you. I think you told the back room that
you thought he was gay up until now? What changed?
Speaker 6 (07:31):
I did?
Speaker 7 (07:32):
Yeah, well he he They took him the phone every
day and and uh and she's he sent her gifts before,
like on Valentine's Day, sent her cupcakes to the office,
and I was like, oh, that's that's cute. That's nice
that her gave us friend to anything. And then she's like, oh, no,
he's he's great. He's dating girls. And he told me
about Daisy Goes and girls. I thought he was lying
or making it up, but uh no, apparently, but he
(07:55):
wants to come along on this trip with us, and
I'm kind of not sure how to how to take.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
This is not okay. Yeah, it's a hard note for me.
Speaker 3 (08:03):
Yeah, have you presented a case to your girlfriend to well,
that's what I'm just saying, Like, can you, like, can
you just say to your girlfriend let me just tell
you how this feels to me from my point of view,
I get it, I get it, but like I just
feel like the guy tho's your best friend. Now she's
gonna go tell this guy everything you say, fy I
see anything about how you get back to him.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
So he's going to know that.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
And if he is into her, he's going to know
he's got leverage because you're focused on him stepping on
turf here, which is all complicated, But I do think
it's making you uncomfortable, and so you got to tell
her otherwise you're gonna be it's gonna be really awkward
if you're on this trip together.
Speaker 7 (08:44):
A couple of times and but it's never been a
serious conversation. It's at least just something like, hey, what's
going on there? Or are you sure he's not into you?
And she said, oh, no, No, he's just a friend,
just a friend. But I mean sending gifts to the office.
I mean, that's not our relationship, me and her. So
I wasn't like mad that I didn't do that. We
we had dinner and do our own thing. But it's
just I don't know, this seems like it's going past
(09:04):
the point of friendship. And when we're out, it's just yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
It's about talking to the guy.
Speaker 7 (09:12):
No too, I don't. I don't. I mean I feel
like that's going to cause more drama than it than
it should. I mean, obviously it's probably worth a conversation
at some point, but I don't want to be the
guy that tells them to back off. Because they're good friends.
I mean, they're lifelong friends. What am I going to
do pick a fight with his.
Speaker 4 (09:29):
Friend sending cupcakes to someone else like a woman.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
But hold on for a second. Let me just put
on the shoes of your girlfriend. Hey babe, Andrew, Uh,
you don't trust me, Like, come on, it's my friend.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Don't worry about it. I mean, there you go, that's
what she's gonna say.
Speaker 5 (09:46):
You're mad over cupcakes like all that. Oh, it's so hard.
Speaker 2 (09:49):
I don't love it at all.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
You know what that is what gaslighting?
Speaker 4 (09:55):
Because you know why, because he feels and your role, Yeah,
because he's allowed to feel these feelings and she should
be open to those feelings and say, you know, like,
that's not my intention. I'm sorry that it makes you
feel that way. There's no romantic you know, like, she
shouldn't make you feel silly for having those feelings.
Speaker 2 (10:19):
Well, there you have it. That's our take. Take take, yes,
So that's all.
Speaker 7 (10:24):
Thank you. I appreciate that.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
Good luck. It's going to be difficult no matter what.
Speaker 7 (10:30):
I appreciate your health. Thanks the go bye at.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
Yeah, it was like, is that a giggle or.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
I think it's a giggle of relief? Got no clarity
from us. What do you think the germiest part of
the kitchen is? You are going to roll over when
you hear this.
Speaker 1 (10:50):
The jermyest part, well, I can think of Your sponge
is probably the germist.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
I thought so too. My sponge is filled with.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
Trash can guy.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Okay, but hey it's your spice rack.
Speaker 3 (11:05):
Oh, bacteria is all over your spices. Here's why you
make a patty, right, and you put a little whatever
you use from the spice rack and your hands have
touched their ale meat, and you don't ever wash those
those shakers. Your spices are the germiest part of the kitchen.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Gross.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
Well, go clean it.
Speaker 1 (11:29):
Yeah, I will clean sure.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
Well, clean up the cub and the cinnamon, Clean up
the tarragon. You're all cleaned up. Today's quote Hopefully this
is good for you. If you are not speaking it,
you are storing it.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
Oh FM headlines.
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Well did you feel it last night?
Speaker 5 (11:48):
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Speaker 2 (12:28):
On Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3 (12:32):
So I was on BuzzFeed and I saw this and
I thought of you guys, and it's like men shared
habits of women in their lives and they didn't really
say these women had these habits until they moved in together.
So one of the guys was like, is it just
me or why do women take showers with boiling hot water?
Speaker 1 (12:49):
I do? That's more, Michael, I.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
Do too, That's what I thought. I actually I turn
it up hot. I have to turn it down when
someone else gets in the show.
Speaker 1 (12:56):
I'm the same. I'm like a tomato when I come out.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
Of the shower, because you do, you're really hot, so hot, scolding. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
Now the bathtub, I struggle with a very very very
hot bathtub to get into. That causes pain for me.
But the shower, I can crank it, he said. One
of the guys says, why is it that my girlfriend
never finishes their drink?
Speaker 2 (13:17):
Like she never finishes a drink. It's always a half drink.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
My coffee is always half full, he said.
Speaker 3 (13:21):
There's two half full cups of coffee around the house
every day.
Speaker 5 (13:24):
Yep, I'll never finish it. Michael handed to me and
he's like, here's your half cup of coffee that you're
not gonna How.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
Are you guys with black hair ties? Because I know
they're they're everywhere, but they're never with you. I lose
them all the time, right, Like they're everywhere. Do you
have a million of them but they're never with you?
Speaker 2 (13:37):
Yep? Where do you keep them on your wrist?
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Usually have it on today?
Speaker 6 (13:42):
Now?
Speaker 2 (13:43):
Should we be keeping a black hairtie on our wrist?
Speaker 1 (13:45):
That could be cutey?
Speaker 5 (13:47):
First, when you're out and you need to put your
hair up and you don't have a hair.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
Tie, and you're just like, man, where do they go?
Like socks? Yeah?
Speaker 3 (13:55):
I know for a fact you can buy them in
like forty packs correct on that little piece of cardboard.
Speaker 7 (14:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (14:01):
Yeah, it's a good gift. Let's see, women are either
cold or hungry. This guy says his girlfriend's either cold
or hungry. I'm not, Yeah, hold much, I'm always And
then my girlfriend, what's with decorative pillows? So he moves
in and he can't figure out why they have to
be so many decorative pillows.
Speaker 5 (14:19):
You need variety, and then you have to switch them
out because you get bored of looking at the same ones.
Speaker 7 (14:23):
Well.
Speaker 3 (14:24):
This is from BuzzFeed guys talking about what they learn
when they moved in with their significant others. Is there
anything that like Michael, when you first started living together,
he's like, wait, what you do this? They think stand out?
Speaker 5 (14:36):
Anything that stands out to me, It's more like the
stuff with him. It was like he would leave his
rolled up socks like all over the house and he
still does that.
Speaker 2 (14:45):
Shoes just like he put them in a ball.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
Well, like I don't even know.
Speaker 5 (14:47):
So it's like a process like he comes home and
like he takes off his shoes like just there, like
it's like they're in the middle of the living room.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
Like it's not even off to the side or it's
almost like he.
Speaker 5 (14:56):
Just like stepped out of them, and then the rolled
up socks around the puch, you know, like its like
sometimes you would find him like under yep.
Speaker 3 (15:04):
That's because when we grew up, I think his boys
that's how we treated our bedroom.
Speaker 5 (15:07):
It's almost like you're like watching TV and at that
mom was I'm gonna take my sols off and just
peeled them off with his toes and then just leaves
them there.
Speaker 3 (15:14):
Hey, did you get up this morning and have a
great coffee grinder. Beans make it right. Listen, here's the grinder.
I smell the beans right now, it's time to grind
your beans.
Speaker 2 (15:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (15:34):
You know, a Sistani doesn't operate on coffee, doesn't need it.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
Michael's off coffee too. He's starting to drink tea.
Speaker 2 (15:41):
I don't like it.
Speaker 3 (15:43):
He's trying to ban he's drinking Mountain tea. Please come
back to home.
Speaker 5 (15:47):
Ah, because he was drinking so much coffee. He was
drinking like six cups a day, and so now he
was just like, at least now I'm drinking tea, and
maybe it's better.
Speaker 2 (15:55):
He just stopped drinking coffee at nine.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
He can't. He drinks it like it's just it's something
to do.
Speaker 4 (16:00):
Did you know Pedro Pascal's Do you know his Starbucks
order is like something venty six shots?
Speaker 2 (16:06):
Wow? Oh no, I didn't know that. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (16:07):
So, like he had encountered a fan at Starbucks and
everybody was saying, zoom in on his drink so we
could see what it is.
Speaker 3 (16:13):
Well, maybe that's just a one time thing because the
guy's working around the clock.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
Maybe it's a one time thing.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
Ma yeh?
Speaker 3 (16:18):
Is that so by choice? He you're Michael by choice
no coffee.
Speaker 5 (16:24):
Well, he got really sick last week, remember he got
like the virus that all the kids got, and so
ever since then he's been on the tee.
Speaker 1 (16:31):
I got this kind of settling in.
Speaker 2 (16:33):
I got to fix myself.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
I cannot think the way I think when people tell
me they don't drink.
Speaker 1 (16:38):
Coffee, Like I know you're a number now.
Speaker 2 (16:41):
Yeah, I don't like it. You know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (16:43):
Like it doesn't like I feel like one less connective tissue.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
He'll be back.
Speaker 5 (16:47):
I think heating up the water and then getting the
tea bag out. I think it's all too many steps.
Speaker 3 (16:51):
I mean, Tanya, you and your are wash mushroom preserves.
Speaker 1 (16:58):
I watched Wa Ganda.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
I don't know whatever, but I want you back with
the coffee beans.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
I know, please, I know I.
Speaker 3 (17:08):
Have so much more fun when you drink coffee. I know, Mark,
don't you agree?
Speaker 2 (17:13):
One hundred?
Speaker 6 (17:14):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (17:15):
Please put over the mushroom drink. We are all over.
Speaker 3 (17:20):
We were giving you a week and now we're like, guys, please,
we have a show to do.
Speaker 2 (17:24):
Coffee.
Speaker 3 (17:25):
I mean, I don't want to push coffee, but I
am I am coffee pure.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
I am I'm down here it's it's it's good. It's good.
It's good for all of us to bond over there.
Speaker 1 (17:35):
I know it's the ceremony of it. I'm with you.
I get it.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
We all come in and we sit it and we.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
Smile, and I know I missed that with us. I
do too.
Speaker 2 (17:43):
All right, I'll be back, okay, good, all right.
Speaker 1 (17:46):
Well how often do you wash your we're.
Speaker 2 (17:49):
Supposed to do here. That's it, Thank you.
Speaker 1 (17:51):
I a would like to get us back on track.
Speaker 2 (17:52):
Thank you so much.
Speaker 7 (17:54):
Guy.
Speaker 2 (17:54):
Wash now I used the reusable pathway. Well you should wash.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
Doesn't mean that you can just keep refilling.
Speaker 3 (18:00):
It, because they say it's if you don't watch its dirty.
It's my toilet seat.
Speaker 5 (18:03):
Yeah, you should be washing it all the time. It
turns out that they're super dirty. Reusable water bottles can
harbor forty thousand times more bacteria than.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
Forty average times.
Speaker 5 (18:14):
Seeing the average toilet seats, so researchers swapped parts of
different water bottles three times each, including the spout, the
spout lid, the straw lid, and the squeeze top lid,
and found two types of bacteria present, one that was
called gram negative rods and one that was called baccilous.
(18:34):
Grab negative bacteria can cause infections that are increasingly resistant
to antibiotics, while certain types of vaculus can result in
stomach issues, which then got me thinking, what if all
my kids got this.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
From there water bottles?
Speaker 5 (18:51):
Because they all take water bottles to school every single day,
and I'm like, we clean them, but I wasn't cleaning
them every single day.
Speaker 1 (18:56):
And I'll be honest, clear once a month, once a month.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
So this is good.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
Clean them out. You clean that mason jar of your
as you put your coal brewin every day? And how
dirty is my toilets?
Speaker 7 (19:08):
Heat?
Speaker 3 (19:08):
Like I probably touch my toilet seat and neat almonds,
but I wash my hands.
Speaker 4 (19:13):
I mean, I don't know, like the all right, your
toilet seat is probably pretty clean if you.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
Think, are you talking of my later my seat, my seat,
my you my horseshoe?
Speaker 1 (19:20):
Right, probably like the.
Speaker 2 (19:22):
The underneath, the underneath. I don't know how clean the
underneath of my horseshoe is.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
Well, they does.
Speaker 5 (19:28):
They does some more comparisons, So the they contain twice
the germs as the kitchen sink, so there was another comparison.
They can harbor four times of bacteria as a computer
mouse and fourteen times more than a pet drinking bull.
Speaker 1 (19:43):
How gross is that?
Speaker 2 (19:44):
Hold on, how often you clean these mice?
Speaker 1 (19:47):
Have the mice on like that is a whole those Uh,
Actually he keeps it pretty tight over there for you.
Speaker 2 (19:54):
He does. I see the actually have.
Speaker 1 (19:56):
Seen him wipe down and microphone once week. Maybe the
microphones the mice so much Judez.
Speaker 3 (20:05):
So my fingers, my fingers scroller part, my fingers touching
it, and then my finger eats my little bag of gojie
berries with the same fingers.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
It's pretty gnar.
Speaker 5 (20:17):
Anyways, Experts recommend that you wash your water bottles at
least once a day.
Speaker 1 (20:21):
They say every day.
Speaker 5 (20:23):
Hot hot, hot, the hottest you can do the hot
water and soapy water. It's like a real thorough and
they say if you can sanitize it, do that often
as well, once a week, twice a week.
Speaker 3 (20:33):
Well, this is very needed this publisher, thank you Sisty
for that. Talking about the water bottle back terry. You
gotta clean them out.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
Let me.
Speaker 3 (20:40):
Krying to think, let's do this. I'm gonna grab Cliff
for a second. So Cliff in la I was talking
about this. A friend of mine who's going through a breakup,
and her friend said to take her mind off the breakup,
she was sending her Torking videos. I said, well, when
your your best friend goes through a breakup, like, what
do you do? You? Oh, you talk? Do you go
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see them? Do you make them dinner? Do you take
them out for ice cream? She's like, no, I send
Towrking videos. Everybody loves those.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
It's kind of funny.
Speaker 2 (21:07):
Is that how you get through a breakup? You look
at torking videos.
Speaker 1 (21:10):
I would never think of it, but sure, Cliff, what
do you do?
Speaker 9 (21:15):
So what we like to do is we'll take a
friend and we'll say, hey, we're taking to a special place.
We can't tell you about it. We're gonna blindfold you,
put you in the back of the car, and we're
gonna drive you into downtown LA. And so when we
get there, it's typically like a really kind of you know,
iffy type building and there's a club guy out front
who's checking IDs and going, okay, well who are you?
Speaker 2 (21:36):
Come on in?
Speaker 9 (21:37):
And when you get inside it's koreating karaoke and so
it typically just it creates a laugh. It's fun for them,
and they're also like, where we go and this is
like the CD place where you know, we're blindfolded and
it's you won't tell us where it's at, And then
you get there, just have a great time. You eat
some green food and do some karaoke, and she like
gets their mind off the whole deal.
Speaker 3 (21:55):
I mean that might make people want to go through
a break up. That's fun. Yeah, you're so. Have you
gone through a breakup and had something like this happened
to you before?
Speaker 7 (22:07):
I have not.
Speaker 9 (22:08):
I'm one of my only friends I think that's been
married for like twenty years.
Speaker 2 (22:11):
Oh so yeah, yeah, guys, this sport for you.
Speaker 9 (22:15):
Yeah, it's just I'm the guy that kind of helps
out and gets them back in track, and you know,
it tells them, you know, relationships work and just hang
in there and you'll find somebody else. I'm not kind
of like the support guy exactly.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
Cliff will keep your number, Thanks for calling. Thank you,
all right, that's great.
Speaker 1 (22:30):
I mean karaoke is always fun.
Speaker 3 (22:33):
Honestly, the way he described it, I'm in it's not
for me generally. It doesn't put me in that place generally.
Really me too, I dodge karaoke invitations. All the Cliffs
sold it.
Speaker 1 (22:43):
Pretty well, I want to get going.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
So other tactics. You know, you can text this show
to four one o two seven. I hope we look
at it all show, you know, like we're constantly trying
to look at it.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
We do.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
Some people get shy and you don't want to call
in and I get it.
Speaker 3 (22:55):
So just text, yeah, text so easy four one on
two seven right now. So other tactics. People say this
in the eight one to eight uh for what to
do for a friend when they're going through a breakup,
talk about all the reasons why he sucks.
Speaker 5 (23:06):
Oh that's see, that's tricky because if they get back together, then.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
You're in a weird pickle, and odds are they are
going to get back to you for a second.
Speaker 2 (23:16):
Another one. If my best he went through a breakup,
We're going to a kickboxing class.
Speaker 1 (23:21):
That's fun.
Speaker 2 (23:22):
From the Anne Valley.
Speaker 3 (23:23):
If my friend is going through a breakup, we put
our PJS on and listen to I Hate Men music
and get drunk.
Speaker 1 (23:29):
That's fun.
Speaker 3 (23:30):
And then I set her up with a guy that
takes her mind off of it all. That's great until
maybe thirty six hours later that might all not end.
Speaker 1 (23:38):
Well, that's actually that that's what I've done in the past.
Speaker 2 (23:42):
It's a quick fix.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
It's a quick fix.
Speaker 2 (23:44):
So let me grab Caitlyn. It's very important to get
to Kitlyn right now. Caitlyn. We want to help you
out here.
Speaker 3 (23:49):
Everybody is on mic, everybody's leaned in, everybody's their glasses on,
so it's a full focus moment. So you looked up
with a guy and when you were leaving, you gave
him him your phone number. Then what did he say
that you were wondering if it's a red flag or not?
Speaker 10 (24:06):
Well, I I asked him. I was like, oh, so
I don't think you have my phone number, And he
was like, oh, that's okay, I have your Instagram.
Speaker 2 (24:20):
The automatic red flag.
Speaker 1 (24:21):
Those are my That was my jaw falling to the crown.
Speaker 3 (24:24):
He was the automatic red flag that we we can't control.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
It just sounds off.
Speaker 1 (24:29):
Okay, it's not such a red flag. You met you
you thought you were meeting him for the first time.
Speaker 10 (24:37):
Well, I had a crush on him for like a
little bit. I met him through a mutual friend and
we were like at his house and like all night
we were like hanging out and talking and so I
don't know, I kind of thought he was into me.
But after he said that, I was like, well maybe
he's not.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
So you know, he's your Instagram so you can direct
message you. Why do you think he's not. It's like
if he's looking you up on Instagram, he's into you. Yeah,
and he's searching, he's looking at your photos.
Speaker 5 (25:01):
Do you have so many followers that you didn't realize
that he was following you?
Speaker 7 (25:06):
No?
Speaker 10 (25:06):
No, I knew he was, but I just like to communicate.
Speaker 5 (25:09):
I thought like, oh, I you know, so now it's
almost like he didn't even care to want my phone
number because it might not be as serious for him.
Speaker 11 (25:20):
Exactly.
Speaker 3 (25:22):
I think if somebody's looking at your Instagram, they want
to actually understand a little bit about you, right, they
want to check out what you like.
Speaker 5 (25:27):
But not if he denies the phone number, she literally like,
here's my here are my digits, and.
Speaker 3 (25:30):
He's like, how are you going to get the number?
It's like hard to put a phone number in a phone.
Speaker 4 (25:36):
Well, it's not that, but like some people don't like
to give their phone number because what if it goes bad,
then that person of your phone number. Like I never
gave my phone number when I was on dating apps, but.
Speaker 2 (25:47):
I had a guy to Jim, I mean a lot
of guys at the gym lately. Huh.
Speaker 3 (25:50):
I had a guy at the gym and he's like, uh,
what do we go out of common? What did we like?
We both liked something. I forgot what it was. Anyway,
He's like, no, it's not all of it. What food related?
But anyway, I'm like, dude, that's so funny. We should
we should hang She's like, yeah, you want my number?
He takes my phone. They types his number into my
phone and calls me.
Speaker 1 (26:12):
Yeah what what?
Speaker 6 (26:13):
What?
Speaker 7 (26:13):
What?
Speaker 6 (26:13):
What?
Speaker 1 (26:14):
He calls himself.
Speaker 3 (26:16):
I know he called somebody and I'm like, I don't
know your number. You got my number? What am I
supposed to do?
Speaker 2 (26:21):
Now? Hit save, hit info, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
Hit save contact and put his name in their gym guy.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
Didn't didn't get there.
Speaker 3 (26:29):
So, Caitlin, I'm not so sure it's a red flag.
And I think the red flag als will sing something.
Speaker 7 (26:33):
This morning.
Speaker 2 (26:36):
That's like pac Man, it is all right, well, good luck,
thank you.
Speaker 3 (26:43):
Yeah, there's so many other worse red flags, right, Maybe
I think that's a red flag.
Speaker 1 (26:54):
I kind of like that one.
Speaker 2 (26:56):
That's so awful.
Speaker 3 (27:01):
What song is that it's one of the greats, right
said Red. It's good Rember, Right said Fred. It's his brother,
right said Red. All right, what do we do here?
Let's find out what you think about these debates going
on online.
Speaker 2 (27:18):
Uh, here we go.
Speaker 3 (27:19):
So feel free to weigh in eight hundred and five
to two O one two seven or send us a
talk back on that iHeart radio app inside the kiss
page at red microphone.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
So here here's a couple of debates online. I'm just
curious what you think.
Speaker 3 (27:29):
Is your wedding being planned and if so, if your
wedding guests missed the RSVP deadline, do you want to
invite them? A couple on Twitter sent out invites with
a reasonable RSVP and guests who rsvp'ed after we're told
RSVP is closed.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
I mean, it's super harsh, that's so savage, but I
kind of love it, honestly, Like it's there.
Speaker 5 (27:52):
You probably got the invitations three months, two months investment.
Speaker 3 (27:55):
You get a reminder too, Like I feel like those
things come with auto reminders as well.
Speaker 5 (27:59):
They would have to be very apologetic and like call
me personally to be like, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry.
We you know, obviously, we want to be there, they
go whatever, But otherwise I think you kind of move on.
Speaker 3 (28:10):
Non RSVPs are an honest mistake, Like I don't necessary
RCP immediate because don't want to be the first one RSVP.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
But then I forget to do it later.
Speaker 3 (28:19):
Because I get it immediately and I'm like, oh my gosh,
I sent that too fast. They're going to think. They're
going to think I have nothing to do in my life, right,
So anyway, all right, well, I think that that's harsh
for me. It's harsh, little rigid. Here's another one. These
are questions dividing the world at the grocery store. Is
it rude to always take items from the back of
the shelf? So grocery store workers on Instagram say this
(28:39):
makes their jobs harder and say this leads to more
food going bad.
Speaker 5 (28:44):
Oh that's interesting because you want the milk that's like
the furthest expiration date versus.
Speaker 12 (28:50):
Eggs fresh salad.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
I don't think it's that bad. If you like, rearrange
the shelf back, you just clean it up. Come on,
tell me.
Speaker 2 (29:03):
Next time I told you this earlier.
Speaker 3 (29:05):
I'm obsessed with the smell of grocery stores right now,
I go in, I take a I take three deep
press in, and every grocery store it close your eye
smells the same.
Speaker 1 (29:14):
Yeah, right, I know what you means.
Speaker 2 (29:16):
It's all that stuff together.
Speaker 3 (29:18):
It's the refrigerator section, the light, the bubblegum, the cereal,
the bakery, the meat. All it smells the same. Or
here's another great debate ken an ex husband asked his
ex wife to return to her maiden name. A woman
posted on Reddit that her ex husband asked for her
to drop his last name because it was awkward for
his new fiance.
Speaker 1 (29:38):
I thought that was a fair ask. I think I
think it's a fair ask too.
Speaker 3 (29:46):
Right here, here's the one that I don't get. Is
it inconsiderate to peel an orange on a plane? Person
asked this question on Reddit. Some said it's fine. Some
say eating anything with an odor on a plane is
rood to me, and orange does not have an odor,
that's just citrus.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
I agreed, roll smells delicious, it's fine with me.
Speaker 5 (30:04):
But if you're opening up your to go sushi on
an airplane or anything that has like just a strong.
Speaker 2 (30:12):
Your heart, you're much worse than the orange person, like
a stink bo orange.
Speaker 3 (30:18):
The thing with the orange is that it gets the
trade table sticky. So if you leave the trade table
sticky for others, that's a problem. But I like the scent.
Speaker 1 (30:24):
I like the scent of an orange too. Eggs.
Speaker 3 (30:28):
I mean, if you're traveling next to me, breakout the eucalyptus,
the lavender.
Speaker 2 (30:32):
I want to smell all that.
Speaker 1 (30:33):
I share I offer to people around me.
Speaker 2 (30:36):
No one's going to share your eggs made heart boiled eggs.
Speaker 1 (30:39):
I offer, yes, of course, to the person next to you.
Speaker 2 (30:41):
Can I give you a can I give you a
healthy recipe? Trick.
Speaker 3 (30:44):
I just was in the store the other day and
I bought mustard powder. Have you ever purchased mustard powder?
Speaker 1 (30:48):
I didn't even know mustard could be powdered.
Speaker 2 (30:50):
Here's what you do, you everything can be powdered.
Speaker 3 (30:53):
What you do is you take your heart boled eggs
and maybe two yolks and a bunch of egg whites.
Put them in a bowl. Don't make mayonnaise, a little
olive oil, a little feti cheese. I know, cheese issue
for you, but this is good.
Speaker 1 (31:05):
That is fine.
Speaker 2 (31:06):
I'm good with feta, right, so FET's fine.
Speaker 3 (31:08):
Toss it up, pickled halapinos and mustard powder, olive oil.
Speaker 2 (31:14):
Mix it up. It's fantastic. It's really a great healthy salad.
Speaker 5 (31:17):
It's like your homemade dressing or conniment reaching down in
tur bag.
Speaker 4 (31:23):
I can try this recipe because I'm very into egg
salad these days. I love egg salad and I have
it every day. So can you send me that recipe
or maybe post it online?
Speaker 2 (31:33):
I just told you it's like.
Speaker 1 (31:37):
Mustard powder, And here's.
Speaker 2 (31:39):
The mustard powder. Coleman's mustard powder right there.
Speaker 1 (31:42):
Mustard powder, olive oil, egg white, and what else? Why
do you have a picture of the mustard powder ready
to go and buy it?
Speaker 2 (31:50):
I get excited about these things. I got pictures of
who would you send that to?
Speaker 3 (31:57):
I just kept it because I knew its asked me
about my latest condiment.
Speaker 2 (32:01):
Yeah, so yeah, here we go. I got pictures of
my my malk.
Speaker 1 (32:05):
Wait, it's like displayed. You're like modeling them. No, it's
probably so that he gets the right kind at the
grocery store.
Speaker 2 (32:11):
I have to do. That's Robbie.
Speaker 1 (32:13):
Oh, I love a good infrared mask. Which one is?
That's a good one. This thing.
Speaker 5 (32:24):
Literally like Maxim's Iron Man mask.
Speaker 2 (32:27):
Good morning, Good morning, my name is Ryan. Who am
I speaking with.
Speaker 6 (32:35):
A concerned listener?
Speaker 2 (32:38):
Oh so we're gonna call you, okay, anonymous?
Speaker 1 (32:45):
Anonymous?
Speaker 2 (32:47):
I did think that went through.
Speaker 3 (32:48):
I didn't think how to spell anonymous for a second
before I called you.
Speaker 6 (33:01):
I just want to say one thing. I love you guys' show.
I listen to it every morning and just you guys
are great.
Speaker 7 (33:09):
But please you.
Speaker 12 (33:12):
The other day on the hack about the sequence order
of the birth and all that, and how you know
this is a perfect match and this isn't for effects?
Speaker 3 (33:23):
You should well, they say science, not Ryan, science, your
birth order effects who you should marry? And let me
just recap. So if you're firstborn, you have to marry
a last born. If you're a middle child, you have
to marry a last born, And if you're a last born,
you have to marry a firstborn.
Speaker 2 (33:38):
What do you disagree with everything?
Speaker 6 (33:42):
My first marriage, I am a firstborn. I marry the
last born, divorced in five years. Oh my second marriage,
I'm a firstborn, he's a firstborn and we are seventeen
years strong.
Speaker 2 (33:57):
Let's look at the common denominator who was in both
relationships here. You can't mean.
Speaker 1 (34:03):
Are you sure that you're both the firstborn.
Speaker 7 (34:06):
Positive.
Speaker 6 (34:08):
Well, and I know I'm not the problem because he
chooses on me the first one.
Speaker 3 (34:15):
Well, look, I think any scientists would say, there's always
that variable. I mean, you look at the exit polls
when it comes to the elections, and they always have
that little margin of error. Right, you're inside the margin
of error.
Speaker 1 (34:27):
Or I appreciate you.
Speaker 4 (34:29):
Maybe your husband now you're seventeen years strong. Is he
an only child?
Speaker 6 (34:33):
No?
Speaker 1 (34:34):
Oh, first one.
Speaker 2 (34:38):
But that's great, that's great. You're challenging the science. I
love that. And so everything is going.
Speaker 6 (34:42):
On because could have said he was the youngest too,
was right?
Speaker 5 (34:46):
Right?
Speaker 1 (34:46):
Exactly?
Speaker 6 (34:48):
I know.
Speaker 2 (34:48):
I have a question for you. Question for you?
Speaker 3 (34:51):
How long how long between when you left or divorced
or he you know, went away your first husband until
you got married? Like, how much time in twelve years
twelve years between marriages? Did you ever think you get
married again?
Speaker 6 (35:07):
Uh? No. I met my current husband and we became
best friends, and then we started dating, and then two
years after we dated, we got engaged, and two years
after that we got married. Wow.
Speaker 3 (35:22):
Well, congratulations, I love it. And if you were to
look back, I mean, now you sit with the luxury
of having seen your past and knowing that it works out.
But I'm sure along the way you thought, why did
I even get married in the first place? This was
a bad idea, And now you have the perfect, most
beautiful marriage of seventeen years and that's just the beginning.
Speaker 7 (35:41):
Right, yeight?
Speaker 2 (35:43):
Correct? Okay, So in.
Speaker 3 (35:46):
Most cases, if you're a firstborn Marriya last, if you're
a middle child Mary a last, if you're a last
Mary at first, but not in every.
Speaker 2 (35:52):
Case, Anonymous, that is correct. What's your husband's name?
Speaker 6 (36:00):
He is, mister Anonymous.
Speaker 3 (36:05):
You're the best. Thank you for listening to us in Palmdale.
Continued success in your marriage.
Speaker 12 (36:09):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (36:10):
Bye.
Speaker 3 (36:12):
I thought I might get her with that one. Yeah,
all right, missus Anonymie. Listen to us on.
Speaker 1 (36:19):
On air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2 (36:25):
All right, Amy, what can we do for you? We're
here to help.
Speaker 7 (36:29):
Oh, let me tell you this. So.
Speaker 11 (36:30):
I've been dating my boyfriend for three years now. He
started his current job like a year ago or so.
He's made some friends at work. I met them, hung
out with them. I love every single one of them.
Except there's this one girl, and she is all over
my boyfriend, like constantly alerting with him and touching him
like schol click cress his arm more like his back,
(36:53):
and it makes me very annoyed. And I know he
has other women in his work, and I'm not I
don't have any issues with them. It's just her, so
I know it's not jealousy. But I did talk to
him and he did tell me that he does agree
with me, and he is trying to back off. But
now he's telling me that she's trying to be his
(37:14):
work wife at work and even though she has a Beyonce,
he thinks it's nothing really serious. But I don't know.
That is kind of weird to me, phil and it's
sugging me. Should I confront her about this or what
should I do?
Speaker 2 (37:29):
Interesting?
Speaker 3 (37:29):
So the woman is somebody who works with and do
you are you around her to notice this or do
you just know about this from somebody telling you?
Speaker 11 (37:39):
It's when we hang out, like once in a while
she'll be there with all the rest of the coworkers
and everything, and I'll notice it once in a while
here it are you know?
Speaker 2 (37:47):
And some people tell me I think do we have
a sense.
Speaker 3 (37:51):
I think you can sense from somebody's body whatever they're
given off. If they're trying to cause some tension. Do
you thought she's intentionally trying to cause tension when you're around.
Speaker 2 (37:59):
By you in this.
Speaker 6 (38:02):
Sense?
Speaker 11 (38:02):
Yes, I feel like it.
Speaker 4 (38:04):
Well, then you're probably write and don't confront her because
that's what she wants.
Speaker 3 (38:08):
No, I was gonna say, confront her, look her in
the eye and say this is inappropriate.
Speaker 4 (38:13):
She's gonna know then if you do that, that she's
getting under your skin, and that's exactly what she wants
to do.
Speaker 3 (38:18):
Is she gonna stop? No, what isn't she gonna She's
not gonna stop. She's gonna do She's gonna do more
of the caressing of his forearm and his back. Actor
she's confronted by his girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (38:29):
Yes, you know this type like it happened to you.
Oh my gosh, I feel like we all know this
type of person the.
Speaker 2 (38:35):
Person don't yeh basically Okay.
Speaker 1 (38:38):
So yeah, it has happened to me where.
Speaker 4 (38:41):
Boundaries I feel like had been crossed and I did
not like it. But I feel like that is what
these type of people, narcissists, They like that, they like
to know that they get under your skin and you
just have to ignore it.
Speaker 3 (38:55):
You just have to totally more about This is more
about the woman at work wanting to get under Amy
skin or the woman at work actually liking her boyfriend's.
Speaker 4 (39:03):
It's it's her wanting to be this like, that's her
wanting to like flirt and have that you know, that attention.
Speaker 5 (39:11):
Yeah, I don't mind having the conversation with her and
being like, back off either.
Speaker 2 (39:14):
I'm so true with you.
Speaker 3 (39:16):
Sisney's gonna role play Amy Amy action sistany you're playing
the role of Amy, what.
Speaker 2 (39:19):
Do you say?
Speaker 5 (39:20):
Hey, you know, I'm I think you're a great person
and you have a very bubbly personality, but I feel
like sometimes you get a little too close to my boyfriend,
and I don't like the way it makes me feel.
Speaker 1 (39:28):
You're great, but I think.
Speaker 2 (39:31):
To start with, you're a great person.
Speaker 5 (39:33):
I don't think she's not killing kindness at first.
Speaker 2 (39:36):
She's not a great person.
Speaker 1 (39:37):
Yeah, I agree, she could be a great person in
other fields.
Speaker 5 (39:41):
It's just that she doesn't realize her flirtiness. So it's
like that's the issue. Stay waiting, my mand.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
You keep doing this, and I'm going to tell your fiance.
Speaker 2 (39:49):
I like that. Like the way you're sounding in there. Yeah,
I like the fire in your belly. Easy.
Speaker 1 (39:56):
If you keep doing this, you can't come to my
birthday party.
Speaker 3 (39:58):
Yeah, Amy, So if it's me, I'm addressing it with her.
Speaker 5 (40:07):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 11 (40:09):
May I'll go with the with what you guys are saying.
I will approach her. But if she's not understanding, you know, yeah,
we'll go to the fiance and help him.
Speaker 3 (40:17):
Yeah, take a little hybrid of the advice and go
for it. Thanks, good luck on this one.
Speaker 5 (40:22):
He's like, I think I'm gonna take a little piece
of everything you guys said and figure it out on
my own.
Speaker 3 (40:27):
Yeah, all right, I'm actually gonna forget I called you guys,
that's what.
Speaker 1 (40:30):
What was the sound effects? What was that?
Speaker 2 (40:33):
Those get some new stuff up here to you know,
punch it up?
Speaker 1 (40:37):
Distracting?
Speaker 2 (40:39):
Why is that distracting? Where is Mark?
Speaker 1 (40:41):
Anyway?
Speaker 2 (40:42):
Left?
Speaker 1 (40:44):
Peace a lot?
Speaker 3 (40:45):
Have you heard of a delusion ship here at Kiss
FM this morning? Sisney came in very excited to get
to this this hour.
Speaker 1 (40:53):
I saw this and I'm like, I for sure have
been in these We've.
Speaker 2 (40:57):
All never heard of it, never heard it.
Speaker 5 (41:00):
So a delusionship would be like, let's say you just
can't stop daydreaming about the barista that you see every
single day. And then it was the way they handed
you their coffee that morning and they said, here you go, love,
and now you're in You're like, oh my gosh, they
totally like me. And then you go home and I'm like,
I'm planning my wedding and it's like it's the whole
thing starts tod. That's a delusionship, Like that's not real,
(41:20):
Like he probably doesn't think you're his love, et cetera,
et cetera. So if you find yourself spending more time
thinking about someone else who either doesn't exist or the
relationship doesn't even exist, that's a delusionship.
Speaker 2 (41:36):
So does it a delusionship? Like for people?
Speaker 3 (41:39):
Right, you find you see somebody in a movie and
you have a crushed on them in a movie you
never meet them, But is that a delusionship?
Speaker 5 (41:44):
It is if you start actually acting out the fact that,
like they're your partner, you.
Speaker 1 (41:51):
Know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (41:52):
I think I can say we've all done this.
Speaker 3 (41:55):
I've seen somebody to stop light and decided I'm going
to marry them, but I don't even want to get married.
Speaker 5 (41:59):
Well, or have you been like on a first date
where you've been ghosted? And you still kind of just
like accept that they've ghosted you. They're like, oh, they're
probably just like on vacation, and like, I'm still very
much dating them, but you're not dating run.
Speaker 2 (42:12):
Ships.
Speaker 1 (42:13):
He set up dinner for two, and it's just me, Oh,
remember you used to leave an empty space in the closet.
Speaker 3 (42:19):
At the table for she set the table for two
in our apartment when nobody in.
Speaker 1 (42:22):
A pit of me of a delusion shop. Let me
tell you, I left.
Speaker 4 (42:27):
The space in the closet, and I left a drawer
my bedside table.
Speaker 1 (42:30):
And guess who came a knock in rob A bunch
of guys before.
Speaker 3 (42:36):
Dudes before Robbie is actually no, there was. Yeah, the
guy came, the guy.
Speaker 2 (42:40):
On the course.
Speaker 1 (42:41):
And you know what space in his closet?
Speaker 3 (42:44):
Right, Yeah, did Robbie have a space. And this wouldn't
have been a match if Robby had a space in
his closet.
Speaker 2 (42:49):
And he was setting the dinner table.
Speaker 1 (42:50):
For exactly No, he was, He was not such like that.
Speaker 2 (42:54):
Delusions of grande are the only knocking.
Speaker 5 (42:57):
The only cure for this is cold turkey. Just like,
stop stop following them on Instagram. You have to just
stop going to that coffee shop. You have to break
it out.
Speaker 2 (43:07):
Have no interest to me.
Speaker 1 (43:08):
You know what we need to find that?
Speaker 2 (43:10):
We google that during the break. I feel like that
went fast.
Speaker 1 (43:14):
We did it.
Speaker 2 (43:15):
Do you like?
Speaker 3 (43:16):
Do you like whipped cream or cool whipped sysan'ty ah.
Speaker 2 (43:21):
I want to know one more thing about all of us.
Speaker 1 (43:23):
I guess whipped if I had to choose, but.
Speaker 2 (43:25):
Really, whipped cream or cool whip? Whipped cream or cool whip?
Speaker 1 (43:28):
Tanya whipped cream all day.
Speaker 2 (43:30):
I don't like either.
Speaker 1 (43:32):
Really, I don't know that was a choice, but yeah.
Speaker 2 (43:36):
Careful chewing ice.
Speaker 1 (43:37):
Sorry.
Speaker 3 (43:37):
Coming up tomorrow, We've got Ryan's roses. We're into it
right here, so it's fun to learn one more thing
before you go.
Speaker 7 (43:43):
Right.
Speaker 2 (43:44):
Thanks for listening So on Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make
sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow
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