April 18, 2023 • 8 mins
They met on Bumble…went out…shared a Tik Tok experience with each other and then…she ghosted him. Why?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Thank you for it.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
Listening to us on your radio or streaming at the
Ihet radio app. I saw a TV commercial for the
iHeart radio app. I was watching TV and there it
was actually there. We were yeah, so whoa, hey, that's fun.
Whoa You ever see yourself on TV and you don't
know you're gonna be on?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
No?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
No, oh well I didn't know.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
It's like I remember when I was a fourteen year
old boy in Atlanta and I went to six Flags
and it was like summer break and the Channel five
was doing a local news segment on kids out of
school for summer and what they're doing. And I got
interviewed by the news and I went home and it
(00:39):
came on and it was like, oh my gosh, that
was it, you know, that was it?
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Well that was the start.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
Was that their first time on TV?
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Yeah? Wow, look at you now? Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Now I'm on less TV now. But yeah, but thank
you iHeart for that commercial. That was really nice. All right,
let's get to Brian. So Brian is going through it
needs a little advice. Brian, good morning, how are you.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
I'm doing fantastic. I'm doing fantastic.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
All right, Well, we are here to help you.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Now, we've all been in situations of dating and confusion,
and that's kind of where we are here, and that's
what it sounds like the situation is with you. So, Brian,
you are in Wittier, you reach out to us, and
what you tell me is that you went and you
met this girl on bumble and then you went on
a first date.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Right, what'd y'all do for your first day?
Speaker 3 (01:32):
For our first dance? I went, we went to dinner
and while we were waiting for dinner, we were just
having a good time and uh, and then afterwards we
went back to my place to make candy grapes.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Candy grapes, grapes.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
Candy grapes. While we were at dinner, we're looking at
TikTok videos and we were like, you know, just sharing
TikTok videos and we saw candy grapes and it's basically
where you take grapes and you get jolly ranchers in
nerds and he melt down the jolly ranchers and he
dip the grapes in there, and then you dip them
in the nerds. Uh. They're they're really delicious, really sweet,
(02:08):
but they're really delicious.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
I mean it sounds fun.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
I just went, like looking at tiktoks while you're on
the first date, I guess, but the activity of that
sounds fun.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
So then what happened?
Speaker 2 (02:17):
You come back to your place, you make your candy grapes,
and then what yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:22):
So yeah, I was getting vibes the whole night. We
make the candy grapes, and then while we're doing that,
more vibes, and then we end up kissing. And then
I could see she kind of like was debating on
whether to stay the night or not. So she decided
not to which is okay?
Speaker 1 (02:39):
And wait, wait, wait, wait wait debate did what was
the debate?
Speaker 4 (02:42):
Like, I mean, it's the first date?
Speaker 3 (02:44):
Oh yeah it was. It wasn't verbalized, but you can
kind of see it in her face. She's kind of like,
I don't know, just kind of toying the things kind
of nervously. And then she decided not to stay to night,
and I end up calling her an uber uh. And
then I went to texture and I have received nothing.
I haven't got a response back yet.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
H now do you so?
Speaker 2 (03:08):
And everything seemed to be going playfully with the candy
grape activity.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Oh, the whole night was seemed like picture perfect. It was.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
It was why did she just I like you?
Speaker 2 (03:19):
I know you, I've known you for two minutes and
thirty seconds. I like you, like you sound like a
good guy. Don't you get the sound of his voices?
Like I want to spend more time with you.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Was there any other conversations that were had that night
that maybe, like, did you guys bring up politics? Did
you guys think that that maybe could have rubbed her
the wrong way?
Speaker 3 (03:38):
No, the whole night was fun. Even in the restaurant.
We were laughing and like she was getting like touchy
philly like when she would laughed, she grabbed my arm.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Till what what went? I don't right? Do me a favorite?
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Stay there. Her name is Callie. We have her number.
I think she's agreed to come on. So let's get
to that next. Brian stand by, Okay, I don't get it. Well,
that sounds totally perfect.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
What could it be? On air on Air with Ryan Seacrets.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
On Air with Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
We had Callie on the phone, so Brian and she bailed,
but I think she spoke to Ruby. So let me
just say this. Brian meets this woman Callie on Bumble
they hang out, they watch TikTok videos and they decide
to go freeze grapes because of the tiktoks they were one,
(04:39):
so they go back to his place. They freeze the grapes,
and then Brian tells us she was thinking about staying
or not staying. She ended up not staying, but then
she ghosted him completely after that, and he's like, no, no,
weird conversation, nothing went wrong. It was all like playful
and fun. And then she disappears and he wants peace
of mind, like why why, Like why don't even tell me?
So then, Brian and you need to know this. She
(05:00):
agreed to come on the air with us CALLI and
as we were playing that song, she hung up, but
apparently she doesn't want her voice on the air, but
she did tell Ruby what happened. Ruby works in our
back room here. So, Brian, do you want to know?
Speaker 3 (05:19):
I mean, yeah, I have to The night went perfectly,
I thought, I don't know what could have went wrong?
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Now Ruby, yes, Hi, So what's going on in the
back room? Who's back there with you?
Speaker 5 (05:32):
We got Mikaylak So let's hear Colett's laugh.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
It is my favorite laugh. That's signature, So Brian Ruby knows.
Now we have no idea why didn't she just didn't
want her voice on the air.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Ruby, Yeah, I.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
Think she kind of got cold feet. But she did
give me a clue. She said that Brian ordered an
uber pool for her at the end of the night.
M hm, So I think that was kind of the issue.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Oh so she shared the car with people.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
Uh to go home from his house, right, Brian, did
you get a pool uber pool?
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Yeah? Yeah, that's my that's my default.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Usually, what's the issue that you don't want to be
with other people at the end of the night like that.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
I mean definitely not at the end of the night.
I mean definitely not every Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Well, you know I've ordered it on accident before and
then people came in a car and.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
I'm like, you guys, well, also, it's like it takes
you so much longer to get home to make the stops.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
So did you think maybe you just spent a little
extra on the date and say, hey, here's you by yourself,
not with a group of people in a carpool.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
Yeah, I didn't even I didn't even think about it.
That's my default. When I used I.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Mean it really or you didn't think about it. You
use it all the time.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
No, I didn't think about it at all.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
To bail on, Brian, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:02):
It seems I maybe would bail really, it.
Speaker 5 (07:06):
Seems, especially because they make you walk sometimes a few blocks.
So if it's like late at.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Night and I just don't, I don't see.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
That's the thing, Like Brian doesn't even get to share
that it was an honest mistake.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
And I like Brian. I like you.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Sometimes first impressions, you know, yeah, you gotta think.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
I guess it is a lesson in thinking through your detail.
Don't let anything slip through the cracks, especially when you're
trying to make those first impressions. You've gotta like Brian,
I love logistics. In another life, I'm going to be
a logistics manager because I love planning and timing and
like thinking about how it's all going to map out,
Like it's part of what I love.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
To make myself crazy and the people around me crazy
about it, but I love it.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
So maybe you just need to like obsess a little
bit more on the detail of planning, especially coming out
of the gate, bro, because I like you, like you
seem like a good dude.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
Yeah, it's just a little attention to detail. It's like
it's late at night, you should have thought about. I
don't want to send her home in an uber pool.
I want to make sure she's comfortable.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
Yeah. Ah, man, so this is because I actually put
her in an uberpool. Man, it's just that such a bummer.
I really liked her.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
Well, maybe she'll hear about this. Ruby does have her number,
So if you want a message to go through Ruby
to CALLI say it now or text.
Speaker 4 (08:25):
Text her Brian like it's it's still not over. Hit
her up, say you're so sorry. Make it up to her.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
I mean, I just I just don't know she's gonna
read it and not respond to that.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Who cares? Yeah, there's nothing to lose.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Your shot. Yeah, shoot your shot, Brian. Thank you so
much for reaching out to us in good luck.
Speaker 3 (08:45):
All right, thank you?
Speaker 1 (08:46):
All right?
Speaker 2 (08:47):
See you man. Yeah, I agree with this, Sisneat. Go
for it, you know, honest mistake.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
Go for it.
Thank you for it.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
Listening to us on your radio or streaming at the
Ihet radio app. I saw a TV commercial for the
iHeart radio app. I was watching TV and there it
was actually there. We were yeah, so whoa, hey, that's fun.
Whoa You ever see yourself on TV and you don't
know you're gonna be on?
Speaker 3 (00:15):
No?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
No, oh well I didn't know.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
It's like I remember when I was a fourteen year
old boy in Atlanta and I went to six Flags
and it was like summer break and the Channel five
was doing a local news segment on kids out of
school for summer and what they're doing. And I got
interviewed by the news and I went home and it
(00:39):
came on and it was like, oh my gosh, that
was it, you know, that was it?
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Well that was the start.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
Was that their first time on TV?
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Yeah? Wow, look at you now? Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Now I'm on less TV now. But yeah, but thank
you iHeart for that commercial. That was really nice. All right,
let's get to Brian. So Brian is going through it
needs a little advice. Brian, good morning, how are you.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
I'm doing fantastic. I'm doing fantastic.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
All right, Well, we are here to help you.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Now, we've all been in situations of dating and confusion,
and that's kind of where we are here, and that's
what it sounds like the situation is with you. So, Brian,
you are in Wittier, you reach out to us, and
what you tell me is that you went and you
met this girl on bumble and then you went on
a first date.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Right, what'd y'all do for your first day?
Speaker 3 (01:32):
For our first dance? I went, we went to dinner
and while we were waiting for dinner, we were just
having a good time and uh, and then afterwards we
went back to my place to make candy grapes.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Candy grapes, grapes.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
Candy grapes. While we were at dinner, we're looking at
TikTok videos and we were like, you know, just sharing
TikTok videos and we saw candy grapes and it's basically
where you take grapes and you get jolly ranchers in
nerds and he melt down the jolly ranchers and he
dip the grapes in there, and then you dip them
in the nerds. Uh. They're they're really delicious, really sweet,
(02:08):
but they're really delicious.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
I mean it sounds fun.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
I just went, like looking at tiktoks while you're on
the first date, I guess, but the activity of that
sounds fun.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
So then what happened?
Speaker 2 (02:17):
You come back to your place, you make your candy grapes,
and then what yeah?
Speaker 3 (02:22):
So yeah, I was getting vibes the whole night. We
make the candy grapes, and then while we're doing that,
more vibes, and then we end up kissing. And then
I could see she kind of like was debating on
whether to stay the night or not. So she decided
not to which is okay?
Speaker 1 (02:39):
And wait, wait, wait, wait wait debate did what was
the debate?
Speaker 4 (02:42):
Like, I mean, it's the first date?
Speaker 3 (02:44):
Oh yeah it was. It wasn't verbalized, but you can
kind of see it in her face. She's kind of like,
I don't know, just kind of toying the things kind
of nervously. And then she decided not to stay to night,
and I end up calling her an uber uh. And
then I went to texture and I have received nothing.
I haven't got a response back yet.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
H now do you so?
Speaker 2 (03:08):
And everything seemed to be going playfully with the candy
grape activity.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Oh, the whole night was seemed like picture perfect. It was.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
It was why did she just I like you?
Speaker 2 (03:19):
I know you, I've known you for two minutes and
thirty seconds. I like you, like you sound like a
good guy. Don't you get the sound of his voices?
Like I want to spend more time with you.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Was there any other conversations that were had that night
that maybe, like, did you guys bring up politics? Did
you guys think that that maybe could have rubbed her
the wrong way?
Speaker 3 (03:38):
No, the whole night was fun. Even in the restaurant.
We were laughing and like she was getting like touchy
philly like when she would laughed, she grabbed my arm.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Till what what went? I don't right? Do me a favorite?
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Stay there. Her name is Callie. We have her number.
I think she's agreed to come on. So let's get
to that next. Brian stand by, Okay, I don't get it. Well,
that sounds totally perfect.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
What could it be? On air on Air with Ryan Seacrets.
Speaker 4 (04:14):
On Air with Ryan Seacret.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
We had Callie on the phone, so Brian and she bailed,
but I think she spoke to Ruby. So let me
just say this. Brian meets this woman Callie on Bumble
they hang out, they watch TikTok videos and they decide
to go freeze grapes because of the tiktoks they were one,
(04:39):
so they go back to his place. They freeze the grapes,
and then Brian tells us she was thinking about staying
or not staying. She ended up not staying, but then
she ghosted him completely after that, and he's like, no, no,
weird conversation, nothing went wrong. It was all like playful
and fun. And then she disappears and he wants peace
of mind, like why why, Like why don't even tell me?
So then, Brian and you need to know this. She
(05:00):
agreed to come on the air with us CALLI and
as we were playing that song, she hung up, but
apparently she doesn't want her voice on the air, but
she did tell Ruby what happened. Ruby works in our
back room here. So, Brian, do you want to know?
Speaker 3 (05:19):
I mean, yeah, I have to The night went perfectly,
I thought, I don't know what could have went wrong?
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Now Ruby, yes, Hi, So what's going on in the
back room? Who's back there with you?
Speaker 5 (05:32):
We got Mikaylak So let's hear Colett's laugh.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
It is my favorite laugh. That's signature, So Brian Ruby knows.
Now we have no idea why didn't she just didn't
want her voice on the air.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Ruby, Yeah, I.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
Think she kind of got cold feet. But she did
give me a clue. She said that Brian ordered an
uber pool for her at the end of the night.
M hm, So I think that was kind of the issue.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Oh so she shared the car with people.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
Uh to go home from his house, right, Brian, did
you get a pool uber pool?
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Yeah? Yeah, that's my that's my default.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Usually, what's the issue that you don't want to be
with other people at the end of the night like that.
Speaker 4 (06:28):
I mean definitely not at the end of the night.
I mean definitely not every Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Well, you know I've ordered it on accident before and
then people came in a car and.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
I'm like, you guys, well, also, it's like it takes
you so much longer to get home to make the stops.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
So did you think maybe you just spent a little
extra on the date and say, hey, here's you by yourself,
not with a group of people in a carpool.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
Yeah, I didn't even I didn't even think about it.
That's my default. When I used I.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Mean it really or you didn't think about it. You
use it all the time.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
No, I didn't think about it at all.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
To bail on, Brian, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:02):
It seems I maybe would bail really, it.
Speaker 5 (07:06):
Seems, especially because they make you walk sometimes a few blocks.
So if it's like late at.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Night and I just don't, I don't see.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
That's the thing, Like Brian doesn't even get to share
that it was an honest mistake.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
And I like Brian. I like you.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Sometimes first impressions, you know, yeah, you gotta think.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
I guess it is a lesson in thinking through your detail.
Don't let anything slip through the cracks, especially when you're
trying to make those first impressions. You've gotta like Brian,
I love logistics. In another life, I'm going to be
a logistics manager because I love planning and timing and
like thinking about how it's all going to map out,
Like it's part of what I love.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
To make myself crazy and the people around me crazy
about it, but I love it.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
So maybe you just need to like obsess a little
bit more on the detail of planning, especially coming out
of the gate, bro, because I like you, like you
seem like a good dude.
Speaker 4 (08:02):
Yeah, it's just a little attention to detail. It's like
it's late at night, you should have thought about. I
don't want to send her home in an uber pool.
I want to make sure she's comfortable.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
Yeah. Ah, man, so this is because I actually put
her in an uberpool. Man, it's just that such a bummer.
I really liked her.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
Well, maybe she'll hear about this. Ruby does have her number,
So if you want a message to go through Ruby
to CALLI say it now or text.
Speaker 4 (08:25):
Text her Brian like it's it's still not over. Hit
her up, say you're so sorry. Make it up to her.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
I mean, I just I just don't know she's gonna
read it and not respond to that.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Who cares? Yeah, there's nothing to lose.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Your shot. Yeah, shoot your shot, Brian. Thank you so
much for reaching out to us in good luck.
Speaker 3 (08:45):
All right, thank you?
Speaker 1 (08:46):
All right?
Speaker 2 (08:47):
See you man. Yeah, I agree with this, Sisneat. Go
for it, you know, honest mistake.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
Go for it.
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