Tanya Rad Needs Help Writing Her Vows

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Valentine's Day. Thanks for being with us. See Christ here
more people celebrating than ever before today on this Valentine's Day,
were talking about that earlier. I got your quote for
a Friday morning and just a little bit. Today is
Nationale Ferris Wheel Day. Farris will put you in a
good mood, you know, and then you know over the
last I guess the modern Ferris wheels are really cool, right,

(00:21):
the big, big week in Vegas, the one, those are
super cool. Those are not like the Ferris Wheels I
grew up as a kid with.

Speaker 2 (00:27):
But the one a Coachella really terrifies me.

Speaker 1 (00:30):
Why is it terrifying?

Speaker 3 (00:31):
Because of the high winds? I feel like sometimes and
it's a huge one, right, it's big?

Speaker 1 (00:35):
Yes? Is it enclosed?

Speaker 2 (00:38):
I don't think so.

Speaker 1 (00:39):
I can the one in a lot of a lot
of our glass they're like glass bubbles and some of them, Yeah,
classes are pretty cool. Yeah, all right. So Tanya meets
up with their wedding vowels and we are here. This
is a family. We pride ourselves in pitching in and
frankly wedding vows. I've never been asked to participate in helping.

Speaker 4 (00:57):
With I have never obviously.

Speaker 5 (00:58):
I mean I've never written any and I don't even
know where to begin, Like, I don't know are they
supposed to be? Like do you start from the beginning?
Do you start from well, promise, So it's that's what
it is, just promises.

Speaker 3 (01:11):
It's not like and you can express your love and
gratitude and things you're probably about them.

Speaker 1 (01:17):
Is there a time or a list like a like
a for some framework here to work like three, five, seven?
How many do you go with?

Speaker 4 (01:23):
Minutes?

Speaker 1 (01:24):
Minutes?

Speaker 2 (01:25):
Really?

Speaker 3 (01:25):
Sure?

Speaker 2 (01:26):
Yeah, your dope, I love you.

Speaker 1 (01:28):
I wasn't talking about minutes. Somebody like items like here.

Speaker 5 (01:31):
Oh, I was like that feels like a lot of
outs audience.

Speaker 3 (01:35):
What you just do, like get like your like your
favorite bullet points that you kind of want to incorporate.

Speaker 2 (01:40):
Doesn't need to be like structured and put it in chatchpt.

Speaker 1 (01:44):
But then you know that for the rest of your marriage.

Speaker 2 (01:46):
I just think I can use our copy and like
say it verbatim. You're gonna get an idea, it'll get
some juices flowing, and then you go in and edit
and make it your own.

Speaker 3 (01:56):
It's you, guys, you could do it, not tell us
on aim telling you.

Speaker 4 (02:01):
I'm down to lean on ai, but not for my
wedding valves.

Speaker 1 (02:06):
Where do you have so far? Where can we help you?

Speaker 4 (02:08):
I literally have nothing. I don't even know where to start.

Speaker 1 (02:10):
Like I was just like with how you how he
makes you feel, how you met, Like why he's so different?
Like what it is that you resonates with you when
you're with him? About his essence?

Speaker 4 (02:18):
I mean, that guy could talk for days about that.

Speaker 1 (02:20):
I know. But that's why we're here to help you edit.
Why don't you start with a pass? He gave us
a first draft, and then we'll help you with the edit.

Speaker 5 (02:27):
Yeah, but the promise is actually a really good idea.
Like I'm I actually what I vowed? What kind of
partner I vow to be?

Speaker 4 (02:32):
Our vows?

Speaker 1 (02:33):
Yeah, did you google any like popular ways to put
your vows together? Just to to get an idea of how?

Speaker 2 (02:39):
Definitely did.

Speaker 3 (02:40):
We had some sort of template that we found either
online or given to us from our efficient But and
then from there we just kind of made.

Speaker 2 (02:47):
Him our own.

Speaker 3 (02:47):
And he's obviously said something different than I said something different,
and so you.

Speaker 1 (02:52):
Don't you don't know each other's vows. That's how this
whole wedding thing works correct.

Speaker 3 (02:56):
Yeah, but Michael and I did a weird not weird,
I think, but like an stinking with our vows. We
both started our vows the same way, so it's like,
Isisaney take you Michael? It almost like the very traditional way,
and then it went into different.

Speaker 4 (03:09):
Oh interesting, and.

Speaker 1 (03:11):
There's some funny things too, right, I'll always love you for.

Speaker 3 (03:13):
Your Oh yeah, he said, I'm going to love you
and then I'll let you keep it with the cards, right, Oh.

Speaker 4 (03:19):
Yeah, throw something funny in there.

Speaker 1 (03:22):
You know, it's like, okay, it's enough of the love stuff.

Speaker 2 (03:25):
But you watch your shows.

Speaker 1 (03:26):
People are playing. You know that people are playing, like
putting bets on So people are betting on things at
your wedding. So I don't know if you know about this,
but there's a backdoor bet about how long you will
make it through your vowels before crying. That's one of
the bets.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
She's not gonna make it down the aisle before.

Speaker 4 (03:42):
I don't think I'm gonna.

Speaker 1 (03:43):
Make bets that we're all doing backstage.

Speaker 3 (03:46):
This is really funny. I like he's joking, but we
should do that.

Speaker 1 (03:52):
I'm down, I leave that department.

Speaker 2 (03:54):
We'll do that bingo card.

Speaker 1 (03:56):
Yeah, why did you start with the heart of your
vows and then you have to read them to us?
But maybe just run some of the notions by so
or at least the length in that kind of thing.

Speaker 4 (04:05):
But yeah, and the jokes, maybe.

Speaker 1 (04:08):
I don't do jokes. It's not saying a monologue. She's
just saying, like, some really personal, funny things that are
funny about your relationship.

Speaker 4 (04:17):
Okay, got it?

Speaker 5 (04:18):
Do you have any you mean like his like hot hands,
like a vow to like drool over your hands whenever
you're cooking steak for the rest of my life?

Speaker 1 (04:28):
Can I leave? During this part?

Speaker 2 (04:32):
I loved it, but I was also uncomfortable.

Speaker 4 (04:34):
She during that part you can't walk out. You're officiating.

Speaker 2 (04:38):
But during this part, give me your notes. I'm going
to put them in chat chypt.

Speaker 1 (04:41):
I'm maybe you make a joke about your Harry styles
pillowcase or something like that, like thank you for sleeping
with me and Harry, Oh.

Speaker 4 (04:48):
You little too personal of a string to tug with him?

Speaker 2 (04:51):
Yeah he really is not. Yeah, yeah, he doesn't vie
with that joke.

Speaker 1 (04:56):
The Harry.

Speaker 2 (04:57):
The Harry is the.

Speaker 5 (04:57):
Only thing that like he's like, oh yeah, Harry, So
the skin, Yeah, all.

Speaker 1 (05:02):
Right, Well then don't don't ask us for it, should like,
did you have his Pillowkay? You have a pillowcase of
Harry Style's face on in your bed. I would be
upset too.

Speaker 2 (05:12):
She was white. Helven give yeah,