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March 20, 2025 38 mins
We have 3 passive-aggressive comments you're using and not even realizing it. She’s convinced that her father-in-law is cheating on her mother-in-law. However, she needs solid proof because…she’s already got a not-so-great relationship with her mother-in-law. Sounds messy...

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
From Hollywood to you, Thank you.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest, Los Angeles. Well
we can. I think it was a very cold winter.
I mean we got rained when we didn't necessarily need it,
not when we really desperately needed it, and cold, colder
than I can. I wore a scarf a couple of times.

Speaker 1 (00:23):
Cold.

Speaker 3 (00:25):
But now it's screening is here, it's coming and it's
going to be a nice.

Speaker 2 (00:30):
Oh it's here. It actually started this morning today. That's
why my my pheromones were in line? Or what do
I have? What do I have?

Speaker 4 (00:39):
I have?

Speaker 1 (00:39):
I think we all have pheromones?

Speaker 2 (00:41):
Do I have pheromones? Can we look that up? You have, Phonzie,
you look up a pheromont to stosterone? What do I got?

Speaker 4 (00:47):
You?

Speaker 3 (00:48):
Women have to stop? We all have everything, don't we?

Speaker 1 (00:50):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (00:51):
Do you men have estrogen on?

Speaker 2 (00:53):
I don't know. I don't know. I attached into that, Phonzie.
We'll look it all up or makada, somebody get back
to me here in a minute. Yeah, we'll good morning.
Whatever we have. That's why I'm feeling spring because it's here. Yes,
it's here.

Speaker 1 (01:05):
Right, happiness.

Speaker 5 (01:07):
How do you even spell pheromones with the pH the
pH mostly sunny today, highs in the mid seventies this weekend.

Speaker 1 (01:18):
Ah, humans produce pheromones.

Speaker 2 (01:21):
Okay, great, then that's what I felt this morning, the
connection to spring pheromone. Okay, okay, all right.

Speaker 6 (01:28):
So testosterone is the male hormone, Estrogen is the female hormone.

Speaker 2 (01:33):
Seratonin and oxytocin are happy hormones.

Speaker 3 (01:37):
That are those are the ones we have.

Speaker 2 (01:38):
That's what we want. Yeah, so yeah, I'll tell you
what I got serotonin, because you know what I did
for the first time yesterday?

Speaker 3 (01:46):
Oh oh, I was not pilates.

Speaker 7 (01:50):
Bro.

Speaker 2 (01:51):
I looked at this guy named Jimmy John whatever plate.
This man there was eighty three years old who mended pilates.
Real guy, I want to look like that one day. Right,
eighty three looks like a stud. So I got into.

Speaker 3 (02:03):
It that you took a walk around in nature.

Speaker 1 (02:06):
Come with me sometime. I love pilates. It would be
so cute on the.

Speaker 2 (02:10):
Together started and I'm getting you know, I'm tapping into
a conditioning of all the different little muscles. So once
I get my brain wrapped around the movements, absolutely, okay, great, absolutely,
But I rolled in. There's a bunch of people in
there and I rolled in and did it and squeezed
all my unsqueezables.

Speaker 3 (02:27):
Make sure you squeeze.

Speaker 2 (02:29):
I think all squeezibles you have, but I have a
lot of unsqueezing.

Speaker 5 (02:32):
It just like gets into the nitty gritty, you know,
like those like little tiny places that you don't even realize.

Speaker 2 (02:37):
I can get released a serotonin.

Speaker 1 (02:39):
It sure does.

Speaker 2 (02:40):
Let's get into our highs and lows around the breakfast table.

Speaker 3 (02:43):
Let's do it and.

Speaker 2 (02:47):
Those and those first thing this morning, and you can participate,
reach out to us, give us a talk back your
highs and lows of the last twenty hour ssiny high.

Speaker 3 (02:55):
I don't know if you guys notice, but the parking
garage gate entry that I usually use all California is
now open.

Speaker 2 (03:03):
And that was close.

Speaker 4 (03:04):
It was.

Speaker 3 (03:05):
They were repaving it and repainting it and adding the
new arrows and all whatever. But it was a close
for a week, and every day I would still I
would still go to it because that's my natural tendency.

Speaker 1 (03:13):
And now today you.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
Should actually get through. It was a big deal parking
at work. Hassle yes, tany you're high of the last
twenty hours.

Speaker 5 (03:23):
I know this might sound really silly, but we finally
unpacked all of our bags from our wedding.

Speaker 1 (03:29):
Oh my gosh, I haven't even done that yet.

Speaker 5 (03:30):
So yeah, it was a big It was a big,
big uh accomplishment.

Speaker 2 (03:35):
Yeah, all right, my high coffee this morning, iced coffee
with some almond milk. That is, I sucked it down
like you, but I sucked it down fast.

Speaker 3 (03:45):
You have been switching up your coffee lately.

Speaker 2 (03:47):
No no, no, no, no no no, I've not been
switching up my coffee.

Speaker 3 (03:50):
You've been adding milks and almond and no I get
that part, but I meant like milks. I don't know,
but you mentioned it before.

Speaker 2 (03:57):
Well, you guys are having your impact on me, all right,
loads over the last twenty hours.

Speaker 3 (04:02):
I have a scab on my knee that will not
heal and because it's your knee, so that it keeps me.
And then it reopened at Tanya's wedding because we were
in the pool, so it got all like moist and
basically it was a brand new wound.

Speaker 1 (04:13):
So it sucks.

Speaker 2 (04:14):
Tanya. You're low.

Speaker 5 (04:16):
Since we unpacked, now I have piles and piles and
piles of laundry to do.

Speaker 2 (04:21):
Okay, fun, Yeah, my low. I noticed the hair growing
on my ear and I don't like it, so I
have to maintain this hair follicle off the top of
my ear.

Speaker 3 (04:28):
It's tucket.

Speaker 2 (04:29):
Well I shave it, yeah, cut myself doing eventually, I know.

Speaker 3 (04:32):
Yeah, but if you can pluck it, it'll take long
for it to grow back.

Speaker 2 (04:35):
There are three passive aggressive comments you might be using
that you don't even know are being received as passive aggressive.
We all have somebody in our life that's so passive aggressive.
It's so annoying, and you know that they know that
they're doing it, but you don't call them out. But
it's so annoying and we need not annoying people in
our lives. Year of no annoying people. Yeah, by if

(04:56):
you annoy edit edit all right, So that's coming up
in just a second. Ruby, I want to go back
to this. Mark was just telling me here, Oh, Mark's
incredible dancer. I got to witness his dance moves at
the wedding of Kanya and Robbie.

Speaker 3 (05:10):
You were giddy about him.

Speaker 2 (05:12):
Well, you guys circulated video of me dancing. Never showed
that again.

Speaker 7 (05:15):
I thought you would like it, and seeing the ones
I have on my phone, did you get the video
of me kissing the uncle.

Speaker 2 (05:21):
Whose video is that I kissed this for? Is top
of this?

Speaker 3 (05:25):
I remember seeing that. I don't know that I captured it,
but I have so much video it's overwhelming.

Speaker 5 (05:29):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (05:30):
I think I kissed the top of the bald headed,
naked guy from the cold plunge his head.

Speaker 1 (05:35):
You had a moment with him.

Speaker 2 (05:36):
Well whatever, I felt like I knew one.

Speaker 3 (05:38):
Robbi's family are all kissers, like Robbie's dad came up
to a lost uncle.

Speaker 2 (05:46):
Wipe it down, brouh All right, so Rey, let's go
back to this. You brought this up to me, and
Mark tells me that it's finally happened. Your neighbors had
their Christmas lights up until now they finally took him down.

Speaker 8 (05:57):
Oh, it was when we talked about it initially. Pro
probably within five days they were down.

Speaker 2 (06:02):
Did they hear you talking about I don't know.

Speaker 8 (06:05):
They still say hi to me, so I'm assuming you know,
but they didn't address it like, oh we heard, no
we should take these down?

Speaker 4 (06:11):
No?

Speaker 1 (06:11):
No, no, no they heard.

Speaker 2 (06:12):
But does it look empty?

Speaker 4 (06:15):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (06:15):
Do you miss it now?

Speaker 6 (06:16):
No?

Speaker 8 (06:16):
I just I literally pulled into my driveway and I
looked back and I was like, oh.

Speaker 2 (06:21):
They're down, they took them down.

Speaker 8 (06:23):
I was like someone heard something or maybe one of
the neighbors was like, you know, chease me on, though,
like telling everyone in the neighborhood.

Speaker 2 (06:28):
I don't know, but I just like, I just from
experience doing this job, I have to assume they or
someone they know mentioned something because I've had things like
this occur in my life, and generally when you broadcast it,
it gets back everyone.

Speaker 3 (06:42):
Yeah, somebody tells somebody I know.

Speaker 2 (06:44):
That's what I figured.

Speaker 4 (06:45):
It was.

Speaker 8 (06:45):
Like, if they didn't hear, maybe someone you know in
the neighborhood heard or something I don't know.

Speaker 2 (06:49):
And if if you're listening, she adores you, guys, I
love spring. Right, come on, let's get to the quote
of the day in a second. Right now. Three passive
aggressive things you may say you don't realize you're passive aggressive?
Are you that person? One? No offense, but oh now
you know its defenses. But at any time a butt

(07:12):
is used, nothing mattered before the butt.

Speaker 3 (07:14):
What about what you do you do with all due respects.

Speaker 2 (07:17):
All due respects. So I feel like that's kind of
do respect. That's probably passive aggressive. Another one, uh, cicany
I looked at your vacation schedule, and I say it
must be nice.

Speaker 3 (07:30):
Oh police, I know.

Speaker 2 (07:34):
I mean the first year he started, there was vacation
right away.

Speaker 3 (07:37):
I did not know that I was going to take
over this when vacation ten years ago. It will never
let it go.

Speaker 2 (07:46):
Passive, aggressive statement, whatever, it's fine.

Speaker 3 (07:49):
Whatever these are by the way you say all of
these things, so fine, aggressive, whatever, it's fine.

Speaker 2 (07:56):
You literally just did it right there. You're fine. And
today's quotes. Becoming less reactive is a huge part of
growth and decreasing stress. If you let everything get you
worked up, you're damaging your mind, you're damaging your body,
and you're damaging your spirit.

Speaker 3 (08:15):
Ain't that the truth.

Speaker 2 (08:18):
You need to learn? Not my problem, and you can't
say whatever, so not my problems.

Speaker 3 (08:24):
A good one headlines, Well it's kind of crazy, actually.
The City of Los Angeles is facing a budget shortage
of about well a billion dollars, which could lead to
thousands of layoffs of city employees, so the University of
California system has implemented a hiring freeze to help with
the threat of budget cuts from state and federal governments.

(08:48):
The one to one freeway closed for at least an
hour yesterday? Were you a part of this? After crates
full of oranges spilled across several lanes right there? Near
universal students and March Madness gets underway today with the
first games starting at nine to fifteen this morning. You
Cla plays Utah State at six twenty five tonight on

(09:11):
TNT and Max.

Speaker 2 (09:13):
All right, let's see Ryan's Roses is coming up here
in just a few minutes. I want to just give
you a heads up so you can stick around, maybe
arrange your schedule if you need to a little bit,
just to hear it. She's convinced that her father in
law is cheating on her mother in law, but she
wants solid proof because she doesn't want to they don't
have a good relationship. She doesn't want to go to
the mother in law until she has proved. I don't
know how this is gonna go, honestly, I don't know.

(09:34):
And we've never done this, and.

Speaker 3 (09:35):
We're supposed to be the solid evidence like that she's
gonna get.

Speaker 2 (09:38):
Well, we're supposed to try and get the solid evidence,
but we have never done this before. On Oryan's Roses
in however many years seven forty seven, forty minutes away.
Let's play password for Wingo Tango tickets. I'm looking forward
to Wango Tango and that's going to be her It's
first day of spring almost wango Tango time.

Speaker 1 (09:54):
Oh, that's gonna be your a a squaring to Wango Tango.
I like, is it cold at night in May? Yes?

Speaker 3 (09:59):
Yes, it gets chilly, especially on the beach.

Speaker 2 (10:01):
Yes.

Speaker 3 (10:02):
So you got to have like two outfits.

Speaker 2 (10:04):
Oh no, I'm gonna have a Pilates bod by then,
so who knows you watch out? Watch Out day one
of Pilate's yesterday, and who knows by then when I'm gonna.

Speaker 3 (10:12):
Do, You're gonna be over it.

Speaker 2 (10:14):
By the way, this is something sticking with. It's not
my surfing chapter, my French language chapter.

Speaker 3 (10:20):
You're tracking your sleep chapter, whether you're reading my ring chapter,
money chapter, that chapter.

Speaker 1 (10:28):
We used to ride bikes?

Speaker 2 (10:29):
No, no bike riding. No bike riding. This is my
stick to it. But we've been there in twenty one years.
There's been a lot of chapters that we one every week.
But the free thing is that I'm very committed generally.

Speaker 1 (10:44):
Yeah, you go all in, you get all the gear
for it, and then all.

Speaker 2 (10:47):
The gear and then I lose. I think we.

Speaker 1 (10:49):
All do it though to something. Oh the DJ chapter.

Speaker 2 (10:51):
Remember that. I gotta get back into by the way,
because I need to do some Veggas dates. Everybody's got
a Vegas date, a Vegas date. I want to be
out there doing it. But I could be pool party guy,
like a.

Speaker 1 (11:02):
Tango about it.

Speaker 2 (11:03):
Actually, hold up, what if I opened Forgetta once I
learned how to DJ.

Speaker 3 (11:08):
The we've heard this before.

Speaker 2 (11:11):
Well, I mean, it's not like I could get that slot,
but it would be awesome. It would if I, like
I warmed up the crowd up and then friends, David Ghetta.

Speaker 1 (11:21):
There you go. All I remember from your DJ era
is like the velvet blue chair.

Speaker 2 (11:26):
Yeah, I understand. All right, let's go, Michelle. Sorry, we're distracted. California. Password.
That's what our plans gonna be real easy. We want
to get your tickets to Wango Tango. So we're going
to give you clues that our one word clues that
leads you to the past one word. Okay, one word
past word here we go. Put you on hold and
be one second here so we can all get it

(11:47):
and everybody listening and play long mark. The password is
some screen okay, so easy, all right, and start the
first clue lotion, lotion lotion or motion lotion lotion with
an L.

Speaker 9 (12:08):
So it's a password for lotion.

Speaker 2 (12:10):
Yeah, well, it's like a word that's synonymous with lotiontion.
No no, no, not sounds like, but means that means yes, yes,
really cream exactly. Okay, it's not cream, yes, but uh,
you v A A lotion, u v A.

Speaker 6 (12:31):
Sunscreen.

Speaker 1 (12:32):
I wonder how you got that?

Speaker 2 (12:33):
What is wrong with u v A?

Speaker 1 (12:35):
You've never you like, literally never get it right.

Speaker 2 (12:38):
That's one word. Okayell, congratulations, pack your sunscreen. We'll see
a maintent that our wango tango. Has anybody been thinking
over time about all the earthquakes we've had lately. I
have me too. I don't love it. I don't know
what it means and you can't predict, but I still
would like to have somebody.

Speaker 3 (12:58):
Is a good thing to have, like these little quakes
because the place kind Yeah, the pressure releases a little bit.

Speaker 2 (13:04):
Well, you're asking me, you shouldn't. Let's ask Robert Michael Degrut,
who's with the US Geological Survey. He helped develop the
Shake alert app, is inventor. He is a scientist and
he is with us right now. Robert Michael Degrut, thanks
for coming on.

Speaker 9 (13:20):
Great to be with you today.

Speaker 2 (13:22):
Well, is it great or is it not great? Is
the question? What do all these earthquakes mean to you?

Speaker 9 (13:29):
We live an earthquake country and we know that people
don't like it when the ground shakes. But we have
something for them that they can add to their toolbox
to help protect them even more from upcoming earthquakes. And
it's called SHAKE Alert Earthquake Early Warning SHAKE.

Speaker 2 (13:44):
What's that mean? What does that do?

Speaker 9 (13:47):
It's the earthquake Early Warning system for the West coast
of the US sports fifty million people, and it's the
system that actually ends up getting alerts to your phone,
or slowing trains or firehouse stores, or setting off a
PA system telling students at a school to drop cover
and hold on. So it's that basically something that works

(14:08):
lightning quick to detect the earthquake when it reaches the
surface and then to get that information to where it
needs to go to protect people.

Speaker 2 (14:15):
Okay, so that is something you can use. But what
does it mean that we're having all these small earthquakes?
Is it a q that a large one is coming?
Is there somebody to think about. It's the same fault
line a concern. How should we look at it?

Speaker 9 (14:29):
Yeah, so this is just a sign that we live
in earthquake country. And yes, we've had, you know, in
the order of three sequences of magnitude for earthquakes since
since last year. And it's been a very active year
in terms of these kinds of earthquakes, and a lot
of them been popping up, you know, around Malibu. And

(14:49):
I live in West LA and I've been feeling all
of those earthquakes every time that they happen, and the
last there's been more activity in this area last year
than over the last twenty five years. But the one
thing that we've been doing, it's only been really studying
earthquakes over the last one hundred years in a very
systematic way. So this could be part of the pattern

(15:11):
that we see over the long term a zoo areas
times where things are more active and then when things
are not so active. One thing we do know is
that the entire southern California region is under the squeeze. Basically,
palas Ards is getting closer to the San Gabra Mountains
every day, and that's part of the reason why we're
getting these earthquakes is everything's being squished.

Speaker 4 (15:32):
So the fact that we have.

Speaker 9 (15:32):
Earthquakes like this in places like Malibu and northwardge back
in nineteen ninety four. Is it's fine that this that
everything is moving.

Speaker 2 (15:40):
But is it moving more than it should be?

Speaker 9 (15:44):
No's that's the idea that there are times when things
move more than others. So the idea is that we
only have about one hundred years worth of information about
really studying earthquakes systematically. So we need much more information.
And I know that sounds like kind of like not

(16:04):
really answering the question, but we need a much bigger
data set. Yes, we know that more earthquakes have been
happening around the Malibu area over the last year or so,
but how is this sort of pan out over much
much more time? It probably is just the pattern of
what the way things work. And we've had a lot
of earthquakes this last year so in southern California, and

(16:26):
so this is the way it is. We live in
earthquake country. We want people to be safe, so know
that that's going to happen and what to do to
be safe.

Speaker 3 (16:32):
Is it ever weather related? Like you know, when they
say it's really hot weather, right.

Speaker 9 (16:37):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know there's some people say, well,
it's earthquake weather, right, and it's truly hot.

Speaker 4 (16:42):
Yeah.

Speaker 9 (16:43):
Well, so one thing to think about is, well, sure,
it's really great that people are thinking about these things.
They're being very thoughtful about patterns that they see in nature,
like earthquakes happening in the early morning is one of
the things we hear about, or it's very hot outside.
One thing we try to do is try to make
connections and see what does this idea pan out scientifically,

(17:05):
And it turns out that there's no connection between the
temperature outside or the day time of day and when
those earthquakes happen. The you know, Northward earthquake happened really
early in the morning. The Ridgecrests earthquake magnitude seven point
one happened until on July fifth and the late evening,
so it's really still pretty random. We just know that

(17:27):
those earthquakes are happening, and that's I know, that's pretty
much it.

Speaker 2 (17:30):
Okay, all right, Robert Michael Degrut, I think I feel better.
US Geological Survey, the Shake Alert app you can get
that warnings before the shaken begins, and we appreciate your
time and your expertise. My friend, have a great.

Speaker 9 (17:43):
Day, great to talk with you.

Speaker 2 (17:45):
Thank you you too. I see earthquake weather for hot, ink,
cold and right earthquake.

Speaker 3 (17:52):
What it drastically changes like we were in the sixties,
four a few days ago and right ninety next week.

Speaker 2 (17:58):
Rest assured. He seemed comfortable.

Speaker 4 (18:00):
It's fine.

Speaker 2 (18:00):
It's like watching a flight attending day. He's on the
west side, so calm.

Speaker 1 (18:05):
Right.

Speaker 2 (18:05):
It's one o two point seven. Kiss FM. It's time
for Ryan's roses. Here we go, Dear Ryan, Sisaney and
then newly married Tanya. I'm convinced my husband's father is
cheating on his mother. The issue is his mother and
I don't get along very well, so I need evidence
I can take to her. Oh yeah, you don't want
to get into that if you don't know for sure,

(18:26):
Otherwise she'll think I'm just trying to cause problems. I
got that. My husband knows I'm doing this. Oh wow,
this is so this is so interesting, Jeannette, I understand
it completely. You and your husband are in on this.
You need hard evidence before you go rock the boat.
Why are you convinced that your husband's father is cheating

(18:48):
on his mother.

Speaker 10 (18:50):
Okay, so this all started like about a year ago.
I was up the nails lawn and uh, we live
in a pretty small and they were talking about this
guy been cheating on his wife three years and has
a whole other family nearby, like Dan de Miss nearby,
very close, and I was just listening because it was interesting.

(19:14):
But then when they started giving details about what he
does for living, the car he drives, et cetera, it
just it sounded a lot like my father in law.
So I started looking into it. And the whole family
always says like, oh, he's never around, he's a workaholic,
and he's a flirt, Like he's a flirt. He's always

(19:37):
flirting with younger women, and everyone's just fine with it. Anyway,
a friend of mine thinks she saw him at a
bar with another woman and they were being very physical
with each other. So I filled my husband in on
all of this and told him, convinced him that we
should make this call.

Speaker 2 (19:59):
WHOA, this is so difficult, So all right, I get it.
You don't want to get involved if there's nothing clear
in terms of the evidence. You don't want to have a
great relationship with his mother, and your husband's fine with
all of this, or at least has blessed this call.

Speaker 10 (20:16):
I mean, at first he completely denied it, like it's
crazy whatever. But the more things I pointed out, the
more evidence I gave, he kind of started to come
around and like it's hard because he really looks up
to his dad.

Speaker 2 (20:29):
Obviously, it's the call we're making now on Ryan's roses.
Her husband, Jeanette's husband knows that she's doing this. But basically,
Janette has reason to believe that her husband's dad is
cheating on her husband's mom. Big deal, but she does
not want to go to reveal this to her mother

(20:54):
in law until she's got hard evidence. Her husband, Jeannett's husband,
she's doing this, And I understand you don't want to
get This is a sticky situation, but let's see what
we can find out. Uh do need you to say, Ryan,
you have my permission to call? And then your husband's father's.

Speaker 10 (21:15):
Name, Ryan, you have my permission to call.

Speaker 2 (21:20):
We're going to offer roses to him, Sistan you will,
And let's see what's his mom's name?

Speaker 10 (21:26):
Catherine?

Speaker 2 (21:27):
Catherine is his mom's name. All right, here we go,
be very quiet let's see what we can find out and
assistiny you're on.

Speaker 10 (21:47):
Hello.

Speaker 3 (21:48):
Hi is this Pete?

Speaker 4 (21:50):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (21:51):
It is Hi there.

Speaker 1 (21:52):
My name is Denise.

Speaker 3 (21:53):
I'm calling from Glendora Blooms. How are you doing this morning?

Speaker 4 (21:57):
Uh? Okay, I guess great.

Speaker 3 (22:00):
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Speaker 4 (22:13):
A dozen free roses?

Speaker 3 (22:15):
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about once a month. Hopefully, if you're pleased with our arrangements,
then you come back as a customer one day, or
you refers to friends and family.

Speaker 1 (22:25):
Does that sound good?

Speaker 4 (22:26):
Well, it does sound good, maybe even too good to
be true. A dozen free roses are expensive? Are you
sure this is a smart promotion? You know?

Speaker 3 (22:36):
I have been asked that question in the past, and
it seems to be working out perfectly for our business.
We love doing it. It's almost like we're giving back
to the community.

Speaker 4 (22:46):
I see. Well, what's the name of your business.

Speaker 3 (22:50):
Glendora Blooms. We can start with the name of the
person you want to send them to in a note. So,
is there anybody in your life that you'd like to
send these flowers to?

Speaker 4 (23:01):
Well, yeah, you know there's several people. But you know, look,
I say, look, okay, I'll tell you what I think
at this juncture. Let's let's take your roses and donate
them to a local hospital or a nursing home or
BSW whatever you know. And you know, but thanks for calling.

(23:22):
I appreciate it.

Speaker 3 (23:23):
Well, who would you want to send the flowers to anyways?

Speaker 2 (23:28):
Well, you know, because we can do both.

Speaker 3 (23:31):
We can do the hospital if you want, I can
do a hospital donation, and then I can also send
them to a loved one of yours to brighten up
their day.

Speaker 4 (23:39):
Yeah, well, listen, I'm sure brighten up anybody's day getting
a dozen free roses, you know, maybe send them to
how about this, send them to a funeral home. Listen,
I'm sorry, but I gotta go.

Speaker 2 (23:52):
Pete, your voice is being broadcast on the radio. I
got to pin you down on this. Pete. I appreciate
your generosity and wanting to send these to others, But Pete,
I have something. Well, let me just share something with
you that's a bit uncomfortable, to be frank, for me
to tell you. I have been speaking with your daughter

(24:13):
in law, Jeanette England, Dora Jeannette, Jeanette England door and Pete.
I don't know you, and I know that she's married
to your son. I know that you're married to Catherine,
your wife of my years, and so why is it

(24:35):
that there is an apparent affair going on with another woman?
Why does Jeannette feel as if you are cheating on
her husband's mother, your wife, Pete, because that's why we're here.
Are you, Pete? Yes, Pete, your silence is guilt. Are

(25:04):
you cheating on your wife, the mother in law of Jeanette,
who's on the phone right now listening. Oh really, it's
a yes? Or I know, Pete? Are you cheating on Catherine?

Speaker 4 (25:22):
You know what?

Speaker 7 (25:24):
Pete?

Speaker 2 (25:24):
Peets Pete, say no more? Say no more? The answers
yes or you would say no. Jeannette, what would you
like to say to Pete?

Speaker 10 (25:33):
I have reason to believe that you have another family
in San Dimas, and I've talked to Matthew about it
as well, and I just want to know if that's true.

Speaker 4 (25:48):
What are you doing?

Speaker 9 (25:52):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (25:52):
What are you doing?

Speaker 1 (25:54):
She wants the truth?

Speaker 4 (25:57):
Look, so, so what's your plan here? Are you trying
to break up my family? Are you trying to turn
my own son against me?

Speaker 2 (26:05):
Well? No, you might be trying to break up your family,
is it true?

Speaker 4 (26:11):
Hey, well listen, wait a minute. Just who the hell
are you anyway? I don't even know who you are.
You just came on your boy.

Speaker 2 (26:18):
My name is Ryan.

Speaker 4 (26:19):
A woman near here, I.

Speaker 2 (26:20):
Understand my name is Ryan. I'm just sort of in
between here on this. And it sounds like I don't
know if you have another family or not, but it
does sound like you're cheating on your wife. So thank
you for your honesty. There. Is it true that you've
also got another family that no one knows about? Pete?

Speaker 4 (26:42):
Let me tell you about Janette. Okay, she shows up
out of nowhere, she marries my son after a few
months together, and now they're trying to turn him against
his own father. That's ridiculous.

Speaker 10 (26:55):
I just answer the question, are you cheating on?

Speaker 2 (27:00):
This is not too complicate.

Speaker 4 (27:01):
My marriage with my wife is thirty two years. By
the way, that's a long time, thirty two years. It's
none of your business.

Speaker 2 (27:08):
Yeah, well, it sounds like you can't answer the question
answer I understood.

Speaker 4 (27:11):
Does Matt know you're doing this?

Speaker 2 (27:13):
Yes he does, yes, yes, yeah, he's yeah.

Speaker 4 (27:16):
Yeah, yeah, because you're brainwashing him my guests.

Speaker 2 (27:19):
Yeah, Pete, how about a little, how about a little
I'm about tone it down in a little notchy hare
and uh, your guilt is obvious. Your guilt is a parent.
You're lying as a parent. I don't know how to
what extent it goes to. But Jeanette, there is your answer.
Ryan's rose is a few minutes ago. This is an
interesting one. Would you would you? So Jeanette reaches out,

(27:40):
She's like, you know what, I don't have a good
relationship with my mother in law, but I think my
husband's dad, father in law, is cheating on his mother.
And I want to go to her because she deserves
to know. But I cannot go to her if I
don't know for sure. I need evidence or it'll ruin
our relationship. So that's restarted. Those are the stakes. My

(28:02):
question for you is, as the daughter in law, would
you even do this?

Speaker 3 (28:07):
No, Lass, that was like hard evidence, like you witness
it with your own eyeballs and you have video proof.

Speaker 1 (28:16):
But even then I would make my husband.

Speaker 2 (28:18):
Exactly doing this, not having they have a strained relationship already,
Where's Matthew, her husband, the son of these parents, he
should have been the one making the call. I was
very uncomfortable with Janette doing it. I still am. I
don't think Janett should present the evidence. I think her husband,
Matthew has to.

Speaker 3 (28:38):
Do this, do this at all, or maybe he's already
kind of known his whole life and it's been like
in denial about it, so he's like, sure, you do it.

Speaker 2 (28:46):
Like Pete could not answer a question, he was gas lighting.
You're trying to turn against me. So I would not
get involved, especially as the spouse. And it's not your
mom and dad. Now one two seven here at Kiss FM,

(29:08):
So good morning, thanks for calling. I know you heard
the Ryans Roses. Shouldn't it have been the son that
made the call to get the evidence on the cheating father?

Speaker 3 (29:22):
Yeah, I mean.

Speaker 6 (29:25):
At first I was thinking Jeanette should back, but if
it happened, I'd want to know. But I would be
afraid to talk to my mother in law, and I'm
afraid for her to talk to her mother in law.
So yeah, Matthew should probably be the one to intercede.

Speaker 2 (29:39):
I totally agree. We have not done one of those
like that. No, I don't think we've seen one like that.
And I clearly think that he is cheating. I don't
know if he's got another family on the side, that
would be an unbelievable bombshell. And Matthew kind of made
it tough on his wife. He put his wife in
a tough position. The relationship was already strained, and so
I didn't love that. Matthew. I don't know him, but
I didn't love it. Karen, thank you for listening to

(30:00):
north Ridge there. I've not yet been inside this fear
in Las Vegas. Who see a concert. I've been near
this fear because we had our radio festival music festival
right next door, so I could see the far.

Speaker 1 (30:15):
Sphere spear sphere.

Speaker 2 (30:17):
When you have to say it on the air, you
think overthink it like you overanalyze it. Fear, note sphere.

Speaker 7 (30:24):
How do you say it, spear say it spear sphere,
it spear mark sphere, sphere, sphere.

Speaker 2 (30:34):
It's like fear with the sphere. You say it out
lout in your car right now, it sounds weird.

Speaker 1 (30:40):
Everyone's doing it.

Speaker 2 (30:41):
Fear, I spit anyway, big moves big. Everybody says Harry's coming,
then I read Harry's not coming. Is he doing a
residency in the Sphere.

Speaker 3 (30:48):
Before we get to Harry, I want to talk about
the mini spheres.

Speaker 2 (30:52):
That one of the mini spheares, how they actually.

Speaker 3 (30:54):
Are going to be happening, So think five thousand seats
instead of like the seventeen thousand.

Speaker 2 (30:58):
Same thing that Vegas. No.

Speaker 3 (31:01):
So the the cool thing here is that they want
to create the same company. They want to create mini
spheres that are going to be in different cities. The
cities have not been announced yet, so I'm hoping l
A would be one of them. But remember we talked
about that information with almost the exact same thing, like
a mini sphere happening on Sunset Boulevard and how there

(31:23):
was plans for that. That's a completely different company. So
we're gonna have multiple spheres. If bands have happened, can they.

Speaker 2 (31:28):
Call it the sphere if it's not the same sphere
it was, it's called sphere on.

Speaker 1 (31:32):
Sunset Well is really a shape?

Speaker 10 (31:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (31:34):
You can't claim.

Speaker 2 (31:35):
That claim copyright sphere. I don't.

Speaker 3 (31:37):
I don't, I don't unless the company name is Sphere entertainment.

Speaker 2 (31:41):
So well they own that it's Harry coming or.

Speaker 1 (31:44):
Not Harry's not coming. Sound that's the bummer's news.

Speaker 3 (31:47):
Yeah, they they confirmed that there was never any talks
about Harry doing the sphere.

Speaker 2 (31:53):
How does that even start in the basically.

Speaker 1 (31:55):
Talks like maybe they like lobbed it out.

Speaker 3 (31:57):
No, I know how it happened because Harry went to
a concert there.

Speaker 1 (32:03):
I forget whose concert, John mayor John Mayer and.

Speaker 2 (32:05):
The thank you Yeah.

Speaker 3 (32:06):
So he went to that country spotted there and a
lot of people thought that he was there kind of
like checking out the Sphere and seeing if you would
be able to do a show there too.

Speaker 2 (32:14):
So SNL did a sketch do you say this with
Lady Gaga about how we need to stop saying sleigh
yeah and calling a song a bop.

Speaker 1 (32:22):
I love calling songs bob.

Speaker 2 (32:25):
I say drop like music's dropping.

Speaker 3 (32:27):
That one's hard to get rid of.

Speaker 2 (32:29):
So New York Times had an article about the phrase
it's all good and how it needs to stop, and
I'm with them on.

Speaker 1 (32:34):
There, it's all good, You're right, it's good.

Speaker 2 (32:36):
So it makes me really not feel good when you say.

Speaker 1 (32:39):
That it's all good man. That's really from not make
you feel good.

Speaker 3 (32:44):
Or you just now after reading this article you're like, oh, yeah, no,
I always thought something was wrong with people that said that,
and now I know.

Speaker 2 (32:50):
Now I know, So here are some others that could
be annoying. No worries, I use that too much? What
would you use instead of no worries?

Speaker 3 (32:57):
No worries? I don't trip.

Speaker 2 (33:01):
No, that's worse.

Speaker 3 (33:02):
I mean, I'm trying to think of different ways.

Speaker 4 (33:05):
Uh.

Speaker 2 (33:05):
Another one is these are Do you find these phrases
annoying when people say it is what it is?

Speaker 1 (33:11):
Oh? Yeah, if you have it is what it is.

Speaker 2 (33:15):
I mean, there's a way to say it, like, look,
here's where we are, So it doesn't matter what was
it's where we are.

Speaker 3 (33:20):
We're going to know what's annoying for it is what
it is? Is what in the context, Like if it's
something that's like really major for that person's life and
you say that, then that's very annoying.

Speaker 2 (33:28):
Well what about saying what's the solution? But cut out
is what it is?

Speaker 4 (33:32):
Like?

Speaker 2 (33:32):
Do we need to find a solution with you?

Speaker 1 (33:34):
Feel like I'm in a post meeting with you.

Speaker 2 (33:36):
That's what a postman sounds like, That's what it.

Speaker 1 (33:38):
Sounds like that's what Ryan said.

Speaker 2 (33:39):
Thought, so what's the solution, Like, I don't need to
hear the history of why we got here. Just tell
me what we're doing to go forward. Stop the pain
of the history of the problem. What's going forward of
the problem. Yeah, it's like, God, I got got to understand.
I understand and understand, but why and what do we
do now? And then I'm just saying that's another one
that people annoyed. But I'm just saying, I'm just.

Speaker 3 (33:56):
Saying, Oh, that is such a crutch for me. So
I say that all the time.

Speaker 2 (34:00):
All right, anything else that I overuse or you overuse
or we ever use.

Speaker 5 (34:04):
My girlfriends actually just told me that I say, you
actually look really pretty?

Speaker 2 (34:08):
Right now, why do you say actually right? And I
don't said to the wedding you actually looked better than say.

Speaker 5 (34:14):
Actually, And I don't mean it like you did say
it the other times, but I do write it's like
a it's.

Speaker 10 (34:19):
Like a sound.

Speaker 2 (34:20):
I'm so surprised that it's off putting.

Speaker 1 (34:22):
Yeah, So I'm trying to be more minded.

Speaker 3 (34:24):
You know what I am mindful about is saying honestly
because I would always incorporate that in my dialect, and
it's when you say honestly before something, it feels like
you're not being honest.

Speaker 2 (34:35):
So I used to be clear a lot, so just
to be clear, I want to understand.

Speaker 4 (34:39):
Just to be.

Speaker 2 (34:40):
Clear, we all have not on my bingo card. That's
another annoying one. There's so many, so many, they're endless.
It's the International Astrology Day and it's National Ravioli Day.
Something for everybody to get behind on this first day
of spring and beautiful out and hot. Dare I say
hot this weekend? Like I might have my door open

(35:00):
this weekend. I might sit outside in my shorts this weekend.

Speaker 1 (35:05):
That's lovely.

Speaker 2 (35:06):
I need some tan. I need some color, little tan, springtan.

Speaker 1 (35:12):
Get those uvs.

Speaker 2 (35:14):
Yeah, the good ones. Okay, So Tanya with the trending report,
let's get into it.

Speaker 5 (35:19):
So social media is important today's entertainment world. Some casting
people consider follower counts when they're actually casting a project,
and it was a big point of frustration a few
years ago because established actors were losing out on their
roles to social media stars just based on their follower
count and Hollywood heavy hitters like Scarlett Johansson are still

(35:41):
getting pressured to do things that they don't want to do,
like join Instagram, so she said. I mean, even today
I got an email from Universal and they're like, hey,
would you consider joining Instagram and tandem? With the release
of Jurassic World Rebirth, I get a lot of pressure
to join social media. And even though I don't understand
and Scarlet Jorhansson because I love social media, I appreciate

(36:03):
that she's sticking to something that matters to her and
not letting the pressures of the industry force her to
do something that in her gut she feels isn't right
for her. And I respect the hell out of that.

Speaker 2 (36:14):
So let me be clear on this one. Good on you,
Scarlett Johansson for not diving in, because once you're in,
it's kind of endless anxiety and I feel like you
gotta fulfill right. I mean, can be fun too, but
it's like, yeah, I also understand the studio asking. Yeah,
that's part of their role. I've asked a lot by
partners of Mind to do things, and I'm fine with it.

(36:35):
But I understand what she's saying, and it's a slippery
stuf because once you dive in, then it's just one
more thing and she's got one more thing, probably too
many things.

Speaker 1 (36:42):
Yeah, her right boundaries are like such a huge thing
in life.

Speaker 2 (36:45):
But the broader point, go with your gut. Yeah, the
first choice you make is the best. Like, there's something
that came my way that it's in the work, it's
in the business world, right, and my gut is no,
My gut is to not do it.

Speaker 1 (37:01):
I feel like your gut's always yes.

Speaker 2 (37:04):
Right, But my gut is know now, And I have
people trying to talk me into it, and I don't
really want to. I don't think I want to do it.
And it's one of.

Speaker 3 (37:11):
Those things where you can sleep on it because your
might change.

Speaker 2 (37:14):
I don't think it's going to change because my gut
is pretty strong on this one and I think that.
But hearing this reinforces go with your gut. Usually are
curious what it is you got to tell me? No,
me too, I don't. It's nothing that I mean, you
wouldn't find it interesting. It's a bit boring business.

Speaker 5 (37:27):
No, But I feel like maybe this trending report, maybe
this was like a sign from your gaming to you, from.

Speaker 2 (37:32):
Me to you, spring Day, spring Day News. Anyway, I
like it. Thanks for that report. Thanks for the sign.
It's going to do it for us friends. It is
a free gas Friday tomorrow, free gas every hour. I
like it. If you're going out this weekend and you
spot someone you're interested in, we're gonna tell you about
the sticky eyes technique that will summon them over to you.

(37:55):
Sticky eyes tiny I fick. You have these all the time.

Speaker 1 (37:58):
I love a sticky eye or Katie.

Speaker 2 (38:00):
Perry tickets, Chema Lamar tickets. If you missed anything on
the show, Ryan's Roses, anything on the show, the Real
Seismologist that we asked about all these earthquakes, what's the delio?
Anything you missed on Air with Ryan Seacrest, the podcast
to the back room. We'll see you tomorrow.

Speaker 3 (38:15):
Let's do it again.

Speaker 2 (38:17):
Bye, enjoy his beautiful day. Thanks for listening to On
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