April 11, 2024 • 42 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Wake that ass up in the morning, the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Morning.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
Everybody is DJ n V, Jess, Larry Scharlamaine the Guy.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
We are the Breakfast Club. We got some special guests
in the building from Bold and Bougie, Crystal and Tamika Foster.
Welcome ladies.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Hey y'all, good morning. What a title Bolden Boot I
mean you know.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Yeah, I mean like, did y'all Did all of y'all
know each other before?
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (00:28):
Because it's it's Crystal, it's Tamika, it's Malaysia.
Speaker 6 (00:32):
And Princess Precess. I always missed it up. Sorry, Princess bad,
but you know I love you.
Speaker 7 (00:41):
Did y'all know each other?
Speaker 8 (00:43):
Like?
Speaker 4 (00:43):
We all friends?
Speaker 6 (00:44):
I knew of Malaysia.
Speaker 9 (00:45):
We've been to like some birthday parties together, but it's
my first time me and all the ladies.
Speaker 10 (00:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:50):
Well, Princess and I were cool.
Speaker 5 (00:51):
She tried to get me on Housewives a few seasons
and I don't know. I thought it was gonna be messy,
but I guess it's still messy where we are some
type of way.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
The fire pan.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
So what is Bold and Boogie about if we haven't
seen it?
Speaker 4 (01:05):
I mean, I think all reality shows have the same premise.
Speaker 5 (01:08):
They followed the lives of each of the cast, so
they just follow us around each of our different lives.
Like she owns a restaurant, I have a clothing business,
and I have books and this and that, and they
follow us and then they have us come together and
argue about ship.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
We don't know that we're arguing about why did you say?
Why were you late to my event?
Speaker 5 (01:27):
Because I'd be like, because my name ain't on the cake,
it's not my birthday, like it's that kind of thing.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
So why did you decide to do it?
Speaker 3 (01:34):
Because if ya knew it was gonna beefing and and
you know what, they're gonna put it on TV. They
ain't gonnaut the night stuff. Theyin't gonna put your restaurant packed,
they ain't gonna put your No, they.
Speaker 9 (01:42):
Did, they did a good job of showcasing our business
and stuff like that. But for myself, I did it
because like I'm getting back out here, you know, single mom,
and so I'm getting to my bag period and that's it.
That's all my only focus period.
Speaker 5 (01:54):
So why didn't you You know, some some wives they
choose to keep the last name of the man.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
Why didn't you keep the last names.
Speaker 9 (02:02):
Well, he's not known as Neil Smith and those are
my name, so it was an easy decision.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (02:09):
Well, I mean people didn't know his name though he's
not known and that's not what they called him.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
But people do know his last name. Why you didn't
keep m I keep. I still use Raymond. It's easier.
It's easier to use Raymond.
Speaker 5 (02:19):
But on social media, I dropped it because they would
be on my page, like he got rid of you,
he signed them papers, you got to them. But my
kids have the same name, my passport. It's just so
much to change that stuff. Your credit cards, your bank accounts,
your passport, your social security.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
Got that kind of time trying to be in lighten
where like social media want me to change my name.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
Only black community really trip off of that. Yeah, think
about it. We be mad. That's because they're fans of
the artists, so they think that we took their husbands.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
And it's just.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Tell us more about these niggas.
Speaker 7 (02:51):
I like when people had those conversations.
Speaker 5 (02:55):
Not seriously though, it's only the black community that like
flip out over because you'll see the Hiltons and people
like that. They'll keep the same last name. It doesn't
matter matches their children. Black people be so worried about
your last name, and.
Speaker 9 (03:08):
It becomes your brand after a while, you know what
I'm saying. So I'm not gonna let let that go
for for social media.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Also, people people always want drama.
Speaker 10 (03:17):
So if they think y'all not together, they think you're
keeping the last name ya, that's right on.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
At all except these cheering that's it. That's all like, yeah,
that's it. Well, congratulations on your restaurant business.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
Girl.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
The first episode of Bold Bougie.
Speaker 6 (03:35):
You doing music, That's something I do for fun.
Speaker 9 (03:41):
You know you've heard some of they played with that scene.
They played hard with that.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
You're not taking it serious?
Speaker 6 (03:48):
No, it's just something I do for fun.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Okay. And but but you got a name and everything VVS.
What's up?
Speaker 6 (03:55):
So I mean, why not ride with it?
Speaker 4 (03:58):
Vv Jesus, I thought she was about to really really
drive something.
Speaker 6 (04:05):
No, she got I.
Speaker 5 (04:07):
Got like Hella songs like yeah and you So you're
that's something that you're never going to do.
Speaker 6 (04:14):
I don't. I don't think. I mean, I'm thirty seven.
I mean, you know, so I don't want to.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Be like a pediatric repper. I got on there too.
Speaker 9 (04:23):
I have so many things out on my plate right now.
That music is just like you know, it's it's it's
a slow like build to making money, and I need
I need the bag to come quicker than that, because.
Speaker 7 (04:33):
Reality if you be helping her like the overall brand
of everything.
Speaker 5 (04:36):
So the reason why I even agreed to do it
is because I have a clothing line, Eli Kish and
then of course my books, and so I was hoping, yeah,
here I stand in white bras and now have an
animated book coming out soon, and so I was really
hoping that it would really spotlight my businesses. And I
think it did. Yeah, it did a little bit. I
just think that they didn't get the like they want,
(04:58):
the drama of it. So like I had a fashion show,
for example, and we had too much power running, so
the generator, I mean, the lights went down for a second.
They highlighted that five seconds of the lights going down,
like it was a did they not pay their bill?
Speaker 4 (05:11):
I'm like, come on. It was at an art gallery
and bucket.
Speaker 5 (05:15):
It was fine and it was nice, but they made
it seem like instead of showing the clothes and how
beautiful the models were and all that, they didn't focus
on any It was a really nice show.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
It was a great show, and the clothes were banging, of.
Speaker 6 (05:26):
Course, so it hurts.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
It didn't hurt, It just didn't help.
Speaker 5 (05:29):
It was like, damn, we put all that money into
the fashion show and you know, selecting the models and
the makeup and the hair, and you guys want to
show the five seconds that the lights went out, that
that's what you wanted to focus on.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
Could y'all ever like have meetings or art? Is it
like complaints to someone that.
Speaker 6 (05:44):
You know the group chair.
Speaker 9 (05:46):
Let me tell you this one with the group chat
we get we get a message every day and is long.
Speaker 6 (05:52):
I don't read none of that. Love you to the
group chair. Take me out of it.
Speaker 5 (06:00):
I go off giving whole dissertations.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Who get a seven minute person?
Speaker 6 (06:08):
She will write you, you see, she likes to write.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Writer.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
She will write chapters. But I think that it's I memorialized.
Speaker 4 (06:16):
Check this out.
Speaker 11 (06:17):
We are bigger than this, We're above this.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
I was like, my brand is not that you know
what I mean?
Speaker 9 (06:22):
But I mean, I mean when you answer into something
like that, you know what you're signing up for. So
I think it's up to the individual on how you
conduct yourself and how you handle yourself. Like for me,
I feel like it was a benefit to me because
you know, I don't really speak out. I don't really
do all that kind of stuff, So it was able
to showcase like who I am as a person and
my morals and my standards.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
And how I am. So it worked out for me
actually very well.
Speaker 5 (06:43):
And we really started out rocky on the show. Because
it's the thing, I'm friends with her ex husband.
Speaker 4 (06:53):
First, I don't know, I.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Know friends with the ex husband's X.
Speaker 5 (07:00):
I'm friends with right because we did a show years ago,
and she's I'm just loyal like that.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
So when I met her, I was just like she
was drunk.
Speaker 6 (07:11):
They got her.
Speaker 9 (07:13):
Know, she wasn't Patty, she was just being she was
just being a realize bitch to me. I respected it.
But the thing I.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
Just said, Hi, I said, I am Tamika.
Speaker 5 (07:23):
I was like, I'm friends with Mo, like like, so
you know who I am, Like put a face with
the name whatever, and they made it like doom doom doo.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
Yeah, let's go to commercial like it was some drama.
I was just like, I'm just don't I'm friends with
Mo and that's it. But there is the way they
amplified it.
Speaker 11 (07:37):
They had the music in the awkward pause where her
month was.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
Like, and then gave you shots before before that shot it.
Speaker 6 (07:46):
Was actually, she's like one of my favorite people on
the show. Like we hang out in real life, like
bould y'all.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Think celebrities again, since you like your life is so
out there, like they pick in part everything that you
guys do.
Speaker 6 (07:58):
I think I want to man, I sit behind the
desk think I think I'm over it.
Speaker 9 (08:03):
Yeah, just over it, the whole lifestyle. I'll take the
forefront in the bed.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Would you ate a bus driver?
Speaker 4 (08:11):
Oh no, I don't know.
Speaker 6 (08:15):
I'm just a decent three kids.
Speaker 9 (08:17):
I'm a single mother, and my bills, the salary just
not covering my bills, and I just it's not for me.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
Then you ain't saying why his salar got to cover
your bills. You should be able to cover your bills.
I already know what you've got it. I'm just thinking,
but it's not just going to say are you living?
Speaker 6 (08:34):
I live in Atlanta, Lanta.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
Let me shoot that. Let's see the Marti bus driver
making Atlanta.
Speaker 5 (08:38):
She already said, no, no, no, shame your show twelve
to thirty in hours.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
School bus driving make between twenty four fifty a year.
Speaker 10 (08:50):
The average salary for drivers nineteen eleven per hour.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
But they got benefits better. They got benefits, my own benefits. Okay,
who's on the bus drive?
Speaker 4 (09:00):
That doesn't sound beneficial.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
I appreciate you. If Crystal doesn't, no shame.
Speaker 4 (09:05):
But you know I would date a bus driver if
he owned.
Speaker 5 (09:08):
The If you're on the bus, okay, shouts out.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
I'm gonna shout out.
Speaker 5 (09:18):
Carlos king too. What's up Carlos for bringing us together?
Black Production Company.
Speaker 6 (09:23):
Kingdom, Reign Entertainment, all the rain drops.
Speaker 4 (09:26):
So you guys got to catch up on our show.
It's not All Black now.
Speaker 5 (09:29):
I think they moved it over, you know, because we
finished our season. Hopefully we're gearing up for season two.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Then will you bring it back?
Speaker 4 (09:36):
I think people will bring just like the run so
you can see it. Yeah, I think they got it.
There is living on All Black.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Yeah. I want to ask you about your book here.
Speaker 10 (09:44):
I stand interesting title, uh, because someone could say it's
just a cliche term. All one could say, sure also
named his album here. I stand that's right. So why
did you decide to name it.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Here I stand, Well, here I stand.
Speaker 5 (09:58):
You remember that was a time where people were really
in love and you know, having their first child and
all kinds of stuff.
Speaker 4 (10:05):
And the album.
Speaker 5 (10:06):
Was dedicated to me, if you read the credits and
all that. And I was very kind of instrumental on
the album, which kind of flopped. So I guess my
musical taste.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
I want to come back.
Speaker 4 (10:19):
But anyway, so no, So here I stand.
Speaker 5 (10:23):
It has a double entendre because I've been through a
whole lot, you know what I mean. I lost a child,
I lost my mom. I've been through, you know, two marriages,
divorces rather and I've just had kind of a rough road,
you know.
Speaker 4 (10:36):
I think it started with you, Wendy, But wellcome back
to that.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
My first I don't think I was during that time
you were in the studio when I did my radio
interview with her.
Speaker 4 (10:49):
That's when that was the first negative press run. And
it's just.
Speaker 5 (10:54):
There was a long time ago, and I was so
happy to do her show. I was so excited, you know, me,
I was there.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
He changed. I mean it was part of me getting
kicked out of the studio. Let me explain.
Speaker 5 (11:13):
I met her in the Gamsboard hotel. I'm standing in
the hotel. My PR friend at worked at one of
the showrooms, was like, oh, have you ever met Wendy Williams.
I'm from California. I had not. I'd heard of her,
but I didn't know that she was like a shock jock,
Howard Stern Black you know. So I was like no,
and they were like yeah. So she was just like
(11:34):
this is stylist to the stars, this is to me.
Speaker 4 (11:36):
Would you like to come on my show?
Speaker 6 (11:38):
And I was like yes.
Speaker 5 (11:39):
I was thinking like, oh, it's gonna be great again
for my career. I'm gonna be on New York radio
and I'm gonna talk about my job as a stylist.
Speaker 6 (11:47):
Well, I got on here.
Speaker 5 (11:48):
The first question was like, so is that da da gay?
And does da da da get along with their mom?
It's just my clients. So she went right in with
those questions and my face was like that's why.
Speaker 6 (12:00):
I'm here, and I was did your research?
Speaker 10 (12:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (12:06):
I didn't have people because I met her one one
and she was like be there in the morning at
seven or something with krak of Don. So I was
excited about the press and it was all bad and
from there then.
Speaker 7 (12:17):
When I got Philly.
Speaker 4 (12:20):
That was no on Park Avenue. When she was asking
you those questions, he was sitting in the corner smiling.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
What was he doing when you didn't do when you
didn't do more?
Speaker 5 (12:29):
This whatever time it was, I was there and I
got kicked out of the studio because the questions that
she was asking. I was like, I don't I'm not
in my client's business.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
I would never tell it.
Speaker 5 (12:37):
They're paying me, you know, I'm a stylist. And she
was just like, that's not we can you guys got
to listen. You gotta find the.
Speaker 4 (12:44):
Interview kick her. She was like, there's the door, honey,
that's not what she said.
Speaker 5 (12:49):
She was going to give us the tea, But I
thought she was going to ask up like who had
a nip slip?
Speaker 4 (12:53):
Or just said who damaged the wardrobe?
Speaker 5 (12:56):
Like you know that kind of messy, not messy, like
who's this talk.
Speaker 7 (13:00):
To his mother?
Speaker 5 (13:01):
I didn't know, Yeah, I didn't know. I just thought
it was a big opportunity, absolutely as anyone would think, well,
epic fail.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
So then he's looking it up right now. I'm looking
at it already.
Speaker 5 (13:13):
Even in her documentary when she did the whole doc,
I'm in that like it was like she she went
on a tirade for many years four years ago and
many years after that. All the media just kind of
jumped on the bandwagon of she's a man, she looks
like a man.
Speaker 11 (13:29):
She's this, she's ugly, she's old, she's.
Speaker 5 (13:31):
You know, so I didn't have a chance. Damn God,
damn you ugly ass man.
Speaker 11 (13:38):
No, No, I don't want they.
Speaker 4 (13:42):
Call me a man. Having all these kids, I'm like,
wait a minute.
Speaker 10 (13:44):
But with the titles called here I Stand because the album.
Speaker 5 (13:48):
Here I Stand because I I You know, I've been
through a lot, and so it's about remaining in a
beautiful state despite it all.
Speaker 4 (13:54):
Like life happens. Life is gonna come at you.
Speaker 11 (13:56):
Things gonna have You're gonna lose people, You're gonna lose love, You're.
Speaker 5 (13:59):
Gonna have heart break. But you have to remain in
a beautiful state so things will happen. You have to
come back to being positive and just in a good space.
Don't you think I'm in a beautiful stay pretty much?
Speaker 4 (14:09):
You know, most of the time, when am.
Speaker 10 (14:11):
I not name of time, see that little When when
am I not?
Speaker 11 (14:19):
You don't be in a beautiful time on the show.
Speaker 5 (14:21):
Well, no, I mean, being in a beautiful state doesn't
mean you won't check somebody.
Speaker 4 (14:25):
That don't mean you won't get your point off.
Speaker 5 (14:27):
Go back, then you go back to like when we're
going to go eat, you know what I mean, I'll
cut you out and be like, let's yeah, I don't
stay in a in a suffering state.
Speaker 4 (14:37):
I stay in a beautiful state.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
Was the book the therapeutic for you to write? Oh?
Speaker 2 (14:40):
Man?
Speaker 4 (14:40):
It was like a big diary.
Speaker 5 (14:42):
So I just started writing it when I first was
going through a divorce. I started writing it and then
I put a pause on it because I was writing
from my perspective, like I wasn't taking ownership for anything.
Speaker 4 (14:53):
And so once I.
Speaker 5 (14:55):
Started writing again, then I started saying like, Okay, you
could have done that.
Speaker 4 (14:58):
So I have life lessons in the book.
Speaker 5 (15:00):
I talk about what I did to contribute to everything.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
Yeah, do you wish you never came from behind the.
Speaker 4 (15:06):
Scenes at times?
Speaker 5 (15:09):
At times I think, but it was kind of inevitable,
you know what I mean. Like if you marry someone
that's in front, you tell yourself, I'm just gonna play
the back. I'm gonna keep steaming your clothes I'm gonna
be back here. But then you go one appearance and
then there you are on the red carpet. Then they
start picking yourpart you out there. Then you have to
redeem yourself because you were like, yeah, I didn't put
oil on my feet that day, but wait till next time.
(15:31):
Then you ends up back on the red carpet again.
They need to mess up again. So then it's just
a whole snowball. Once you get out there, you're out there.
Speaker 1 (15:40):
You know.
Speaker 10 (15:40):
I saw I was reading the article that us you did,
I think in People magazine about about a month ago,
and he said he felt.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
Attacked and judged from fans. Oh yeah, after marrying you.
Speaker 7 (15:50):
I know, it just was should you care what the
fans think?
Speaker 1 (15:53):
You? Love?
Speaker 7 (15:54):
You love you do?
Speaker 5 (15:55):
But then I think it weighs on you if like
every day, every time you open any thing, it's somebody
saying something bad about your wife.
Speaker 4 (16:02):
You remember he went on.
Speaker 5 (16:03):
MTV like shut the hell up about her. He kind
of got tired of it. He was very judged. Very
we didn't have a chance in terms of the public
quart of public opinion.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
Yeah, you guys forgave a lot of people because there's
there were a lot of people crying, y'all and going
at yad and.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
Yeah, you guys showed a lot of grace. Was that difficult?
Speaker 4 (16:22):
I didn't. I was cussing him out. I was on Twitter.
Speaker 5 (16:24):
I had Twitter fingers bad as here, like should me
tell you something that?
Speaker 4 (16:30):
Yeah, unbig your back and then make your damnages.
Speaker 7 (16:36):
So on the.
Speaker 5 (16:39):
On the show, you said that Neil had never asked you.
Hell no, I just you know. But but if he
had no, no, I got.
Speaker 6 (16:54):
Clearly I did that already. There's no third party. I don't.
I'm not sharing my husband.
Speaker 5 (16:58):
Yeah, knowingly, right exactly, And so that was and that's
exactly what the problem was, like apparently so yeah, apparently,
so you know, so he had one of the three,
you wouldn't give it to him?
Speaker 4 (17:11):
He's yeah, men know who to ask?
Speaker 9 (17:16):
I was about to say it is that insulting for
a man? I don't think it's insulting. But like I
just I'm I'm old school. I'm not sharing my husband.
I'm not sharing ding a ling. I'm just not doing it.
Speaker 6 (17:29):
Like it's too much nasty ship in the world.
Speaker 9 (17:31):
And I just I don't. If you want something else,
you don't want me you know. So I'm straight with.
Speaker 5 (17:37):
That and where are you guys now? Because I know
it was a nasty I know it got nasty. You
know what I'm saying.
Speaker 9 (17:44):
I mean for him, I was I was in peace, yeah,
and I'm still in peace.
Speaker 1 (17:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (17:49):
I'm in a good place in my life right now.
Speaker 2 (17:51):
What was the decision that made you say, you know what,
enough stuff I need to move?
Speaker 1 (17:54):
Well?
Speaker 6 (17:54):
What's funny is it was the breakfast club.
Speaker 9 (18:03):
Jesus when y'all asked him of the question it would
he be okay if not knowing if his partner was she?
And he was like, I would live in a bliss
for bubble. So somebody sent me that and it was
like something in my stomach was like uh uh some
name right?
Speaker 6 (18:17):
Is that how he wants me to think?
Speaker 9 (18:19):
And then I found everything that I needed to find
that day and and I left that day find that.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
Did you go through the phone or how did you
find it?
Speaker 6 (18:29):
Was? It was a phone?
Speaker 1 (18:31):
It was a phone that is smart. He could have
been some type of detective.
Speaker 10 (18:36):
Listen to a person say something you like, you know what,
Let me he's projected.
Speaker 1 (18:41):
Let me go.
Speaker 7 (18:41):
Snoop around him and see what he got going Lord.
Speaker 9 (18:44):
So he just would because he because with me, he
was he has a little jealousy in him or whatever,
so I know that he would never be okay with.
Speaker 6 (18:51):
Me doing that, you know what I'm saying, Like, yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:55):
So it was like some right did he come clean
all the way?
Speaker 9 (18:58):
He had no choice, you know, choice, you know, And
I feel like that was just God's redirection for me.
Speaker 6 (19:03):
It was a situation that was no longer.
Speaker 9 (19:05):
Serving me, and he knew that that wasn't what I
wanted in a marriage, and he just removed me from
that situation. And I think that he did it in
a way that I had no choice to leave because
my values, my morals would never be involved in something
like that.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
Was it the first time you caught him cheating on him?
Speaker 9 (19:21):
Yeah, in twenty twenty. I thought that it was a
thing and I left him then. So if I thought
something and I know something, Yeah, are you sure?
Speaker 1 (19:30):
Because black men don't cheat?
Speaker 5 (19:35):
Studio triggering, I'm saying that, you know, I think that
all men cheat, I really do.
Speaker 1 (19:45):
No all the black men like no.
Speaker 4 (19:48):
No, no, all.
Speaker 9 (19:48):
But I think, yeah, I think there's different types, Like
there's men that have cheated and learned their lesson and
then like they find someone that like I would. And
then there's men that that's just what they do, you
know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6 (20:03):
So it's just, yeah, I don't think.
Speaker 5 (20:05):
I don't I don't think it's it's realistic to believe that.
Speaker 11 (20:08):
I don't even think that we're I don't know.
Speaker 5 (20:11):
I don't think we're going to be made for man,
not like that for the rest of your life, one man,
but the rest of your life.
Speaker 4 (20:22):
I don't believe.
Speaker 1 (20:23):
I believe.
Speaker 10 (20:23):
I think so if you find that, if you find
that one that actually fulfilled.
Speaker 4 (20:26):
One human beings the reason we say black.
Speaker 3 (20:30):
Boys cheap right, and most boys when they become a
man and that's what they realized, then step out.
Speaker 5 (20:36):
There's some that do it on a serial basis. And
I'm not saying from personal experience. I'm just saying, I
just think in general, I'm friends with a lot. I'm
a girl that loves guys, and then my homies and
I talk to them and they just do.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
I think if a woman is fulfilling you on every level.
Speaker 6 (20:51):
Of spiritual.
Speaker 5 (20:54):
One strip to Puchakana, there's that one time you and
your homies went and you accidentally just met somebody at the.
Speaker 2 (21:03):
I thinks, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 9 (21:10):
A woman can do everything under the sun clean? Do
you bedroom all of that? And if a man still
wants to cheat, that's what he's gonna do, you know
what I'm saying.
Speaker 6 (21:18):
So I don't think that has anything to get the woman.
Speaker 10 (21:21):
I'm telling you, if a woman fulfills you spiritually, mentally
and emotions, shouldn't the physical. You won't even think about
another woman.
Speaker 6 (21:29):
If that's the type of person that you are.
Speaker 4 (21:30):
Right, you have to be that, yeah, because you slip ups.
Speaker 5 (21:36):
I think you have cheaters at a Cereal and they
just have a whole other relationship on the side, Then
you have people to slip up. I just think that
something happens regarding another party at some point, and I'm
talking about in a lifetime. It may happen once, but
it still happened.
Speaker 4 (21:52):
I don't know.
Speaker 10 (21:52):
So how do you handle if you got that mentality
and you feel like a man gonna slip up anyway?
Speaker 1 (21:56):
How do you handle the slip up?
Speaker 4 (21:58):
I don't know. I haven't. I don't know because I'm
single now, so I don't. I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
You ever had somebody slip up.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (22:07):
I think we all have yeah.
Speaker 7 (22:10):
Sometimes and you don't leave them.
Speaker 4 (22:14):
I have, I have.
Speaker 5 (22:15):
I've left you over a slip up, for sure, But
in hindsight, I don't think that's big enough to ruin
your whole marriage.
Speaker 4 (22:22):
I don't think it should be.
Speaker 2 (22:24):
Have you guys ever say I disagree?
Speaker 9 (22:28):
Yeah, in a marriage, I feel like nobody's perfect, and
I guess the in the situation.
Speaker 6 (22:36):
It's situational. So some situations it's like, all right, I
might could give you a pass. I mean, you ain't
getting off easy, but I could give you a pass.
Speaker 9 (22:43):
But if it's something there's degrees to cheating, like you
in love, you have relationships, you cuddling and all that
kind of stuff, it's not just the one off and
you only get one pass, you know what I'm saying,
Because then at that point its repetitive.
Speaker 6 (22:55):
That's that's not a slip up. That's who you are,
you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 9 (22:58):
So if you if you that's something that you continue,
that's what you're always gonna do.
Speaker 1 (23:02):
Have up.
Speaker 5 (23:04):
I don't I don't like, but no, forget to slip up.
Speaker 11 (23:13):
I was just saying, I like how you guys decorated everything.
Speaker 4 (23:16):
Have you ever cheated? Yes?
Speaker 5 (23:19):
I have, Yes, I have, I have, and we were
we were both cheating on each other.
Speaker 4 (23:23):
I was in a relationship.
Speaker 5 (23:24):
I found out that my partner was cheating, and I cheated,
cheated back, cheated.
Speaker 4 (23:30):
Back, Okay, cheat it up, Okay you cheated up? Did
you get left?
Speaker 5 (23:35):
They should have just left each other.
Speaker 7 (23:39):
We did, We did.
Speaker 4 (23:40):
We left each other. It was no one and it
was it was no one's fault. We both.
Speaker 11 (23:45):
It was both of our fault. We knew, you know,
we both.
Speaker 1 (23:48):
She's not talking about us blogs.
Speaker 4 (23:49):
I'm not he cheated.
Speaker 5 (23:53):
I'm not talking about my marriages period. I'm just saying
I'm just talking about relationship. I think people don't realize
that you date.
Speaker 4 (23:59):
More than the people you married.
Speaker 5 (24:00):
And again, every time i'm speaking, they think I'm talking
about my ex husband or husband's But no, I've dated
since and before them. You know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (24:09):
I know other men, guys. I would marry again. I
sure would. I would marry again.
Speaker 11 (24:15):
The right person who's got his stuff together.
Speaker 5 (24:18):
He's got to have his stuff together because I'm always
trying to start a business or working on something.
Speaker 4 (24:23):
I'm really entrepreneurial. So you got to have your bread.
Speaker 3 (24:26):
Together, Neil clippers in there if you want to hear
what what Neil?
Speaker 1 (24:29):
I do want to hear it. I don't remember this.
Speaker 10 (24:32):
Than we're putting together the breakfast cub doctor trying to
find these moments that cause people trauma.
Speaker 8 (24:39):
Listen, I personally am am a person that is not
angry at living in a blissful bubble of ignorance. The
truth is rarely pretty in this world. In his life,
you have to choose your happy. So I choose to
believe that the truth that makes me happy as opposed
to such a for the ugly truth that's.
Speaker 2 (24:57):
Going to mess up my happy.
Speaker 8 (24:58):
I even tell my friends like, yo, if you have
found out anything about my wife, don't bring me that.
I'll wake up every morning and breakfast, just cook my
kids and taken care of. Every time we around each other,
we smiling and happy and things are blissful. And then
on my deathbed, somebody told me that you was cheating
on me. In my whole life, I.
Speaker 2 (25:12):
Lived a pretty good damn life. I'm not going trip
off that that's me. That was the part.
Speaker 4 (25:18):
Yeah, that that actual though, that's true, though.
Speaker 3 (25:21):
I suspected something before. Then, Yeah, you suspected something before.
Speaker 9 (25:26):
Them, so I would be a fool and a liar
to be like I didn't have suspicions or thinking like
you know that any man that was possibility that they're
gonna cheat. But to the extent of the way things happened,
I never in a million years would have you know, like,
wasn't that wasn't the person that that.
Speaker 6 (25:42):
I was in love with.
Speaker 10 (25:43):
I just wonder why you're telling me that on my deathbed.
You're trying to make me go faster and enjoying my
final moments. Why would you call me that kind of
stress and trauma on my deathbed?
Speaker 5 (25:51):
I think I was just so surprised because being around
y'all were like best friends, Like it wasn't just like
you know, everything wasn't always romantic like they was cool,
like y'all were like real best friends.
Speaker 4 (26:03):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (26:04):
It's not worth it to lead well girl, what well
wait wait, actually.
Speaker 6 (26:09):
Just that is your disposition.
Speaker 9 (26:11):
However, it's different yea, no, thank you, Yeah, because I
know my worth and I and I'm not gonna settle
for just sharing somebody when I know I deserve a
whole man.
Speaker 4 (26:21):
So think I'm just older we met.
Speaker 9 (26:24):
He had picked me for it was he was going
to do a mini movie for his nonfiction album, and
he had picked me for the lead role. And that's
how we met. The movie never got shot, so I
don't know. Maybe it was a setup.
Speaker 4 (26:36):
He wanted you. That was the way he was gonna
catch you.
Speaker 10 (26:39):
You know.
Speaker 7 (26:39):
To me, that's something just now she said, you're oldest.
You probably just won.
Speaker 5 (26:42):
It took it took a long time to get to
the way I think now, because I was the person
that if you even look somewhere else, I was ready
to snatch your neck, you know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (26:51):
So I'm like, bring your eyes back over here.
Speaker 5 (26:53):
What you're doing and what you're doing looking at him,
I was like I was on that hot wire stuff.
I just think I'm in a different I'm in a
different place, and that it took time to get here.
Speaker 4 (27:02):
So trust me, I used to be like that, like,
first of all, I'm gonna pull up.
Speaker 6 (27:08):
I respect your.
Speaker 4 (27:09):
Mind, am.
Speaker 5 (27:11):
But I think what she's saying is she knows what
she's not gonna take, like.
Speaker 4 (27:17):
Just telling you, I'm not sharing my man.
Speaker 6 (27:20):
Like long.
Speaker 5 (27:21):
So I gotta be willing to share my man because
I don't know when I'm gonna die.
Speaker 4 (27:27):
No one wants to hold on. Let's just let's clarify this.
Speaker 5 (27:29):
Yes, please, girl, I am one hundred percent not down
to share anything. I don't even want to share my
damn sandwich. So I definitely not sharing my man.
Speaker 4 (27:37):
I am not that person.
Speaker 5 (27:38):
But I'm just saying that when it comes to a
relationship something I so death do us part if he
makes a mistake. I don't think that that is the.
Speaker 6 (27:46):
Depth of the relationship and we're partying.
Speaker 4 (27:49):
No for me, Well, I used to.
Speaker 5 (27:52):
I'm telling you, like I said, were thirteen years younger,
I definitely would.
Speaker 4 (27:56):
Have said that I would agree. But just get to
your fifties you might feel a little different. You may
We'll just see.
Speaker 2 (28:07):
You would lik to Safaria one time too.
Speaker 9 (28:09):
I don't know why y'all say people could be in
the same room together.
Speaker 3 (28:13):
Lord Jesus, because you said you love hip hop Landa
that your link that you would dating.
Speaker 6 (28:17):
I was all love hip hop.
Speaker 2 (28:18):
They said that you're going to do the next season.
Speaker 6 (28:20):
I don't know why they said that. I would never.
I was already I was already contracted. I don't know
why they said that.
Speaker 4 (28:28):
You know, but y'all were never No, it's cool, but
I plan.
Speaker 9 (28:33):
To be single for a while because I have a
lot of healing to go through and do or whatever,
and I don't want to distract myself from what I
have going on because I'm so focused on my career
right now.
Speaker 6 (28:45):
You know, I'm acting now, I.
Speaker 9 (28:47):
Just did a movie, about to do another movie, so
I'm I'm focused on Crystal right now for the first time.
I'm I'm happy and content and just being with myself.
Speaker 3 (28:56):
Christ did you ever key Neo's calls? Because it seems
like you still got a little hurt something. No, nothing,
nothing hit his hats in the world.
Speaker 4 (29:14):
I got you now, just get the story.
Speaker 9 (29:18):
No, no, I I walked away peacefully because when you
when you fight and areg you it's because you still
want to be there. And although I mean, one of
the hardest things to do is to walk away from
somebody you're still in love with.
Speaker 6 (29:29):
But I love myself more.
Speaker 9 (29:31):
And I knew that I was going to go crazy
if I chose to try to work it out and stay.
Speaker 6 (29:35):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 9 (29:36):
And I always have love for him, but it's it's
different now, you know.
Speaker 4 (29:41):
So the kids are good.
Speaker 6 (29:44):
The kids are good.
Speaker 9 (29:45):
You know, they go and spend time with Daddy. They
love their their their father, and they're good. I let
him be a father and and not be keep communication
at a minimal just because I'm focused on rebuilding my
life and what that means for me. So I don't
want to surround myself with what the past was that
could potentially put me in a place where I'm emotional
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and all those things.
Speaker 6 (30:06):
So I choose to just.
Speaker 2 (30:08):
So there was no drunk less like, hey, big head.
Speaker 5 (30:10):
Nothing, but did he tried? Okay, what that he tried?
Speaker 6 (30:21):
Listen?
Speaker 9 (30:22):
I think at this point he knows that there's there's
no coming back. So we we're trying to figure out
what Cole parents and looks like for us because I
just I.
Speaker 6 (30:32):
Just don't want to be around the situation.
Speaker 9 (30:34):
And you know, I all the respects, all love to
him and no shade, but I just when somebody hurts
you to a certain extent, I don't want to be
in that environment.
Speaker 6 (30:43):
You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 2 (30:45):
Did ya try therapy? Did you try to make it? Men?
So he was done. He was like, there's no therapy.
Speaker 5 (30:48):
Was I fought the next day and Crystal filed the
next day after hearing that breakfast club ship.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
Really it wasn't it wasn't really know.
Speaker 6 (31:00):
That that is that is what prompted me to.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
To look around.
Speaker 2 (31:04):
How you getting his phone?
Speaker 6 (31:06):
He was the same past and all.
Speaker 1 (31:10):
He wasn't trying to hide anything.
Speaker 4 (31:11):
Some of them smart, that's what you get out of her.
Speaker 5 (31:14):
Yeah, she'd be like, hold on, where the other phone is?
Speaker 4 (31:19):
Another phone?
Speaker 2 (31:20):
He was sleeping, and he just picked up the phone
and just.
Speaker 4 (31:22):
Yeaheah, No, he was here, he was here.
Speaker 6 (31:26):
He was doing another interview. Yes, he was at the
radio station. I was at the hotel. He was like
in New York, you scrolling down.
Speaker 10 (31:32):
So when he came back, So by the time he
got back to the hotel from the interview, you was
on his head.
Speaker 6 (31:40):
I was gone.
Speaker 1 (31:40):
I know.
Speaker 6 (31:41):
I didn't say anything or you left the Oh.
Speaker 2 (31:44):
My god, you didn't tell nothing. You ain't tell nothing.
You just know.
Speaker 9 (31:47):
I mean, he he he knew that his phone was
was missing, and so he realized and and you know, oh.
Speaker 1 (31:52):
My god, he took the phone and left.
Speaker 4 (31:55):
They took the phone.
Speaker 6 (31:56):
I am a black woman. I am not done.
Speaker 11 (32:00):
You can just least say I would put it all
back like nothing happened.
Speaker 7 (32:02):
Yeah, he didn't try to apologize and nothing like you don't.
Speaker 9 (32:05):
I mean, of course he apologized, and you know, he
didn't want me to get a divorce or whatever. But
he knows, he knows how I value myself and he
knows what I'm not playing in and that situation.
Speaker 6 (32:14):
I think he just he knew they was no coming back.
Speaker 1 (32:17):
You know, So what it is you love to know
what he learned?
Speaker 6 (32:21):
We had.
Speaker 9 (32:21):
We had a beautiful relationship, a beautiful marriage, a beautiful friendship.
Speaker 6 (32:25):
And I don't regret it. I don't take it back.
Speaker 9 (32:28):
And I'm appreciative to the love that we did have
because a lot of people don't experience the love like
that that I had. You know, but that season it's gone,
that that that chapter is closed.
Speaker 6 (32:36):
And how long were we all together? Almost ten years?
Speaker 4 (32:41):
Damn?
Speaker 1 (32:43):
Oh.
Speaker 10 (32:43):
I got a question for both of you on your
on your healing journeys that you're on your healing journeys
of self? What have you learned about yourself that you're
most passionate.
Speaker 9 (32:51):
About my my strength and my perseverance. I didn't I
don't think that I thought that I would be in
the mind state that I am now because a lot
of people would have broken, you know, And I have
my moments, but I'm proud of myself for the way
that i have maintained my grace.
Speaker 6 (33:10):
In this situation.
Speaker 9 (33:11):
Yeah, you know so, because it's easy to the fame
a black man and tear him down and tell all
the business and do all those things. I refuse to
do that because and it's not for him, it's for
me and my children, you know what I'm saying. So
I don't I don't benefit by tearing him down.
Speaker 6 (33:25):
I wish him nothing but the best. I want to
see him succeed, but just not with me.
Speaker 5 (33:29):
What about you, I'm really committed to remaining in a
beautiful state because I really, like I say this, I said,
and I mean, I think we share a friend. It's
not to major in the miners. Absolutely don't major in
the miners, and I really I'm really passionate about that.
Speaker 4 (33:49):
I am.
Speaker 5 (33:51):
You know, you really question your self worth when you're
in a public relationship because your life becomes about them,
like everything is about their schedule, where they have.
Speaker 4 (34:01):
To be, what time the flight is, what you're gonna wear.
Speaker 5 (34:05):
Because you got to be with them, And so you
do lose the sense of yourself when you're in that situation.
Speaker 4 (34:10):
I'm happy now. I just I feel so free. I
always say that, I just feel free.
Speaker 5 (34:14):
I'm just able to move around without you know, having
that pressure anymore.
Speaker 4 (34:18):
The peace, the peace.
Speaker 6 (34:20):
That you have.
Speaker 3 (34:21):
And I can't imagine because they scrutinize you if you're
taking kids to the game, I'm sure they're taking pictures
of what you're wearing.
Speaker 4 (34:27):
They're looking at everything.
Speaker 3 (34:28):
You go to the grocery store, I'm sure they're looking
at what you're wearing.
Speaker 5 (34:31):
I don't even care about what I'm wearing because I
ain't never worried about that.
Speaker 4 (34:35):
It's always Oh even at the super Bowl when you
went and he.
Speaker 5 (34:39):
Was there and he performed halftime, how did you feel
about that being there?
Speaker 6 (34:42):
It was great?
Speaker 4 (34:43):
No, I went, Yeah, I went, My kids were there.
Speaker 5 (34:45):
He did a great job. You know, he's dope like
that that I can always say. He's a phenomenal person
and phenomenal artists.
Speaker 4 (34:52):
Yeah, it was good. They were looking.
Speaker 5 (34:54):
Yeah, they're always looking at my reaction everything like did
she clap?
Speaker 4 (34:58):
Does she cry? Did she like?
Speaker 5 (35:00):
Sounded like his music like everybody else? And you got
to realize everything he performed.
Speaker 4 (35:05):
These are things.
Speaker 5 (35:05):
I was his stylist, so I did all those videos.
I was a part of the imaging for the whole thing.
It was important for me to be there.
Speaker 11 (35:12):
I was sad that I wasn't in charge of the
whole imaging for it.
Speaker 4 (35:15):
To be honest, That's what I'm came from. I love
j D. Don't talk about it, not too much.
Speaker 5 (35:26):
On l Did you like that little socks the way?
Speaker 6 (35:32):
No, I don't know the way.
Speaker 4 (35:33):
I don't know everything.
Speaker 1 (35:38):
You know what I think it is.
Speaker 10 (35:39):
I think people aren't used to seeing, uh, healthy functioning
co parenting.
Speaker 5 (35:44):
Yes, I have a healthy functioning co parenting situation because
my kids are you know, fifteen and sixteen, and they
basically say where they want to be, and like we
have and we are very supportive of each other's like
I'm here, I'm in New York. The kids are with him,
and when he's busy, the kids are with me. We
just we we kind of got rid of that whole
(36:04):
schedule thing, like you have him on.
Speaker 4 (36:06):
Thursday to Wednesday and no, we just are you traveling? Okay?
Speaker 1 (36:11):
Cool?
Speaker 5 (36:11):
We are you gonna be home? Are the kids gonna
be with me? Are they gonna be with you, and
I think we get along. Find our kids are super
vocal and grown as hell, so they tell you what
they want to They be like, I need to be
a dad because my game setup is over here.
Speaker 4 (36:23):
He's got better Wi Fi than you. I'd be like,
of course he's got better. Everything's better.
Speaker 2 (36:35):
Entertainment industry. When you want you kids to be.
Speaker 9 (36:37):
My oldest he he he his father is his idol,
like he wants to do me and that he needs
trying to make his own beats.
Speaker 6 (36:44):
He think he got a YouTube channel. It's tall.
Speaker 9 (36:47):
So I mean, I I know the the negative that
comes with it. I don't want that for my kids,
you know, but I do want him to, you know,
whatever his dreams are to do it, you know, if
that's what he wants. But I would prefer him to
go to college, get a degree and you know, do
something else. But if that's what he wants to.
Speaker 5 (37:04):
Do it, well, my son Sinko, he's the fifth Uh,
he's sixteen. He's a gamer, so he really wants to
do this gaming thing on a high level, like that's his.
Speaker 2 (37:20):
Money.
Speaker 5 (37:20):
He is focused. He didn't go on vacation. We went
to Angleill and all this for spring break. He stayed
with his setup. He was serious about like I can't
take my computers.
Speaker 4 (37:28):
I can't take all my monitors and my hard drop.
Speaker 5 (37:31):
I was like, okay, it's a serious thing now literally
better Wi Fi and Usherton.
Speaker 4 (37:36):
Girl, you gotta let this man make this money.
Speaker 5 (37:37):
On these I'm we're supporting. We both are supporting him
doing my son did the create. He did a lot
of creative direction for the super Bowl. That's no, he's
now he's so serious he wants to be an artist.
I don't love that idea because I know what the
scrutiny that comes with it. But behind the scenes, if
he wants to do lighting and creative direction. And he
(38:00):
really was very involved in that super Bowl performance, more
than he even.
Speaker 4 (38:04):
Got credit for.
Speaker 5 (38:05):
He really was like, no, not that song and when
you come out the chair, you need to stand and
look that way.
Speaker 4 (38:13):
No, he was definitely involved.
Speaker 7 (38:15):
Yeah, because you said earlier here, I can't flopped.
Speaker 10 (38:18):
And we were talking about this, talking about that this week,
and we were talking about that that that particular, we're
talking about chance to rap him and you know what
happened when an artist makes an album dedicated.
Speaker 4 (38:30):
To his wife.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
Yeah, and the album this album is whack.
Speaker 5 (38:35):
The album was good, understand, was a banging album. And
let me tell you this, I'm gonna say this. This
is in defense of him really quick, and I don't
want to talk about his ask I'm okay.
Speaker 4 (38:44):
It was enough on Usher, But Here I.
Speaker 5 (38:47):
Stand was so solid because he was ahead of his time.
He got married before anybody before.
Speaker 4 (38:53):
This was before J and B. This is before justin Chimberlake.
Speaker 5 (38:56):
This is before he was an outlier in like trying
to be mature and wear suits.
Speaker 4 (39:01):
That suit and tied ship. That was we did that already.
Speaker 5 (39:04):
Sorry, no offense, JT, but you know what I mean,
Like we were trying to make him go to the
next level. The fans weren't ready for him to evolve
and get to that level. And then now it's cool,
everybody's married, and see, we just were ahead of our time,
but we did it too soon.
Speaker 4 (39:19):
So they were like, he.
Speaker 5 (39:20):
Married this old ass lady and she's whack and that's
that and we hate him. And so Here I Stand
wasn't received the way it should have been. But it
was solid songs on that album Flop Fly, but it
didn't do a million a million copies in the first week,
like you know all the other albums.
Speaker 1 (39:38):
Did you blame yourself for that in some way?
Speaker 4 (39:40):
I didn't. I think that. I think I blamed that.
Speaker 5 (39:42):
I think that the label pulled back on it real fast,
like they put it out and it wasn't received the
way they thought, and I think they're just like.
Speaker 4 (39:49):
All right, let's let's hide that to me.
Speaker 5 (39:51):
Can stay home, have a baby, just don't come outside
no more.
Speaker 7 (39:55):
They hate you?
Speaker 5 (39:56):
Yeah, no, I I think I got a lot of backlash,
like you're making his whole thing flop, and I'm like
that dude been married again and again after that.
Speaker 4 (40:04):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 10 (40:06):
Is the goal for both of y'all, because y'all have
so much going on, It's the goal for both of
y'all to get to a place where nobody asks you
about them, is what I say.
Speaker 6 (40:14):
I want the world to know Crystal or not.
Speaker 11 (40:16):
But it's impossible, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (40:18):
And that's what people always say. You don't want people
to ask you about him, but you still have his
last name.
Speaker 6 (40:23):
But I'm still I'm still.
Speaker 4 (40:24):
My own Perton, you know what I mean. Diane von
Furstenberg is Diane von Furstenberg.
Speaker 5 (40:28):
She was married to Count von Furstenberg, but she's still
an amazing designer.
Speaker 4 (40:32):
Like I just again, it's our community.
Speaker 2 (40:36):
Do you still do styling like that or not too much?
Speaker 4 (40:38):
I have a clothing line called Eli Kish.
Speaker 5 (40:40):
I will style certain artists if they have certain people,
if they have a budget. It's not even artists, it's
just if you have a budget and you can afford
to pay me.
Speaker 3 (40:48):
A stylist a lost art now, like you don't really
see them as like growing up in the two thousands,
you'd see stylists niggas.
Speaker 1 (40:55):
You see these niggas.
Speaker 11 (40:56):
Yes, it's a.
Speaker 5 (41:00):
Styling is a lost art because it's so it's oversaturated
with people who have taken the title.
Speaker 4 (41:05):
You can work a gap for three days.
Speaker 5 (41:07):
And all you guys rolling a trench code.
Speaker 4 (41:10):
You be like, I'm a stylist in the stars.
Speaker 11 (41:13):
That's that's all you need. You walk out and say
you're the top stylist.
Speaker 6 (41:18):
I'm looking like.
Speaker 4 (41:19):
It happens in every league.
Speaker 5 (41:21):
Listening people can get what to viral videos now their
comedy you can you know, you can get act now
you're a radio person now, yeah, yeah, you know.
Speaker 1 (41:30):
So.
Speaker 4 (41:30):
I think it's the oversaturation in every lane, every lane.
Speaker 5 (41:33):
It probably is because you know why, I'm not just
not too much on our people, but it's low hanging fruit.
They people don't. You don't see too many people fighting
to be scientists or doctors or lawyers. You know what
I'm saying. It requires a lot of work that requires
work in reading, like actual reading, like read hello, read
if you would read? No, they want to do what's
(41:53):
you know, the easiest thing, like I'm a stylist.
Speaker 4 (41:56):
I love clothes. That's not how it works. Why's so delicious?
Speaker 1 (42:00):
Here? Put them on?
Speaker 4 (42:00):
Yeah? Yeah, girl, that's right.
Speaker 2 (42:02):
All right, thank you ladies for joining us.
Speaker 10 (42:05):
Man make comments, screamboled and boogie on all black. Right now,
go get Tamika Tamika Raymonds book here, I stand.
Speaker 11 (42:12):
Here, I stand in a beautiful state.
Speaker 1 (42:14):
That's right. That's right.
Speaker 2 (42:15):
It's Krystal Renee and Tamika Foster. It's the Breakfast Club.
Good morning, wake tail An's up in the morning.
Speaker 1 (42:21):
Breakfast Club
Wake that ass up in the morning, the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Morning.
Speaker 3 (00:05):
Everybody is DJ n V, Jess, Larry Scharlamaine the Guy.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
We are the Breakfast Club. We got some special guests
in the building from Bold and Bougie, Crystal and Tamika Foster.
Welcome ladies.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Hey y'all, good morning. What a title Bolden Boot I
mean you know.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Yeah, I mean like, did y'all Did all of y'all
know each other before?
Speaker 1 (00:27):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (00:28):
Because it's it's Crystal, it's Tamika, it's Malaysia.
Speaker 6 (00:32):
And Princess Precess. I always missed it up. Sorry, Princess bad,
but you know I love you.
Speaker 7 (00:41):
Did y'all know each other?
Speaker 8 (00:43):
Like?
Speaker 4 (00:43):
We all friends?
Speaker 6 (00:44):
I knew of Malaysia.
Speaker 9 (00:45):
We've been to like some birthday parties together, but it's
my first time me and all the ladies.
Speaker 10 (00:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:50):
Well, Princess and I were cool.
Speaker 5 (00:51):
She tried to get me on Housewives a few seasons
and I don't know. I thought it was gonna be messy,
but I guess it's still messy where we are some
type of way.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
The fire pan.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
So what is Bold and Boogie about if we haven't
seen it?
Speaker 4 (01:05):
I mean, I think all reality shows have the same premise.
Speaker 5 (01:08):
They followed the lives of each of the cast, so
they just follow us around each of our different lives.
Like she owns a restaurant, I have a clothing business,
and I have books and this and that, and they
follow us and then they have us come together and
argue about ship.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
We don't know that we're arguing about why did you say?
Why were you late to my event?
Speaker 5 (01:27):
Because I'd be like, because my name ain't on the cake,
it's not my birthday, like it's that kind of thing.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
So why did you decide to do it?
Speaker 3 (01:34):
Because if ya knew it was gonna beefing and and
you know what, they're gonna put it on TV. They
ain't gonnaut the night stuff. Theyin't gonna put your restaurant packed,
they ain't gonna put your No, they.
Speaker 9 (01:42):
Did, they did a good job of showcasing our business
and stuff like that. But for myself, I did it
because like I'm getting back out here, you know, single mom,
and so I'm getting to my bag period and that's it.
That's all my only focus period.
Speaker 5 (01:54):
So why didn't you You know, some some wives they
choose to keep the last name of the man.
Speaker 4 (02:00):
Why didn't you keep the last names.
Speaker 9 (02:02):
Well, he's not known as Neil Smith and those are
my name, so it was an easy decision.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (02:09):
Well, I mean people didn't know his name though he's
not known and that's not what they called him.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
But people do know his last name. Why you didn't
keep m I keep. I still use Raymond. It's easier.
It's easier to use Raymond.
Speaker 5 (02:19):
But on social media, I dropped it because they would
be on my page, like he got rid of you,
he signed them papers, you got to them. But my
kids have the same name, my passport. It's just so
much to change that stuff. Your credit cards, your bank accounts,
your passport, your social security.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
Got that kind of time trying to be in lighten
where like social media want me to change my name.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
Only black community really trip off of that. Yeah, think
about it. We be mad. That's because they're fans of
the artists, so they think that we took their husbands.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
And it's just.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Tell us more about these niggas.
Speaker 7 (02:51):
I like when people had those conversations.
Speaker 5 (02:55):
Not seriously though, it's only the black community that like
flip out over because you'll see the Hiltons and people
like that. They'll keep the same last name. It doesn't
matter matches their children. Black people be so worried about
your last name, and.
Speaker 9 (03:08):
It becomes your brand after a while, you know what
I'm saying. So I'm not gonna let let that go
for for social media.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Also, people people always want drama.
Speaker 10 (03:17):
So if they think y'all not together, they think you're
keeping the last name ya, that's right on.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
At all except these cheering that's it. That's all like, yeah,
that's it. Well, congratulations on your restaurant business.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
Girl.
Speaker 4 (03:32):
The first episode of Bold Bougie.
Speaker 6 (03:35):
You doing music, That's something I do for fun.
Speaker 9 (03:41):
You know you've heard some of they played with that scene.
They played hard with that.
Speaker 4 (03:47):
You're not taking it serious?
Speaker 6 (03:48):
No, it's just something I do for fun.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
Okay. And but but you got a name and everything VVS.
What's up?
Speaker 6 (03:55):
So I mean, why not ride with it?
Speaker 4 (03:58):
Vv Jesus, I thought she was about to really really
drive something.
Speaker 6 (04:05):
No, she got I.
Speaker 5 (04:07):
Got like Hella songs like yeah and you So you're
that's something that you're never going to do.
Speaker 6 (04:14):
I don't. I don't think. I mean, I'm thirty seven.
I mean, you know, so I don't want to.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Be like a pediatric repper. I got on there too.
Speaker 9 (04:23):
I have so many things out on my plate right now.
That music is just like you know, it's it's it's
a slow like build to making money, and I need
I need the bag to come quicker than that, because.
Speaker 7 (04:33):
Reality if you be helping her like the overall brand
of everything.
Speaker 5 (04:36):
So the reason why I even agreed to do it
is because I have a clothing line, Eli Kish and
then of course my books, and so I was hoping, yeah,
here I stand in white bras and now have an
animated book coming out soon, and so I was really
hoping that it would really spotlight my businesses. And I
think it did. Yeah, it did a little bit. I
just think that they didn't get the like they want,
(04:58):
the drama of it. So like I had a fashion show,
for example, and we had too much power running, so
the generator, I mean, the lights went down for a second.
They highlighted that five seconds of the lights going down,
like it was a did they not pay their bill?
Speaker 4 (05:11):
I'm like, come on. It was at an art gallery
and bucket.
Speaker 5 (05:15):
It was fine and it was nice, but they made
it seem like instead of showing the clothes and how
beautiful the models were and all that, they didn't focus
on any It was a really nice show.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
It was a great show, and the clothes were banging, of.
Speaker 6 (05:26):
Course, so it hurts.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
It didn't hurt, It just didn't help.
Speaker 5 (05:29):
It was like, damn, we put all that money into
the fashion show and you know, selecting the models and
the makeup and the hair, and you guys want to
show the five seconds that the lights went out, that
that's what you wanted to focus on.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
Could y'all ever like have meetings or art? Is it
like complaints to someone that.
Speaker 6 (05:44):
You know the group chair.
Speaker 9 (05:46):
Let me tell you this one with the group chat
we get we get a message every day and is long.
Speaker 6 (05:52):
I don't read none of that. Love you to the
group chair. Take me out of it.
Speaker 5 (06:00):
I go off giving whole dissertations.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
Who get a seven minute person?
Speaker 6 (06:08):
She will write you, you see, she likes to write.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Writer.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
She will write chapters. But I think that it's I memorialized.
Speaker 4 (06:16):
Check this out.
Speaker 11 (06:17):
We are bigger than this, We're above this.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
I was like, my brand is not that you know
what I mean?
Speaker 9 (06:22):
But I mean, I mean when you answer into something
like that, you know what you're signing up for. So
I think it's up to the individual on how you
conduct yourself and how you handle yourself. Like for me,
I feel like it was a benefit to me because
you know, I don't really speak out. I don't really
do all that kind of stuff, So it was able
to showcase like who I am as a person and
my morals and my standards.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
And how I am. So it worked out for me
actually very well.
Speaker 5 (06:43):
And we really started out rocky on the show. Because
it's the thing, I'm friends with her ex husband.
Speaker 4 (06:53):
First, I don't know, I.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Know friends with the ex husband's X.
Speaker 5 (07:00):
I'm friends with right because we did a show years ago,
and she's I'm just loyal like that.
Speaker 4 (07:06):
So when I met her, I was just like she
was drunk.
Speaker 6 (07:11):
They got her.
Speaker 9 (07:13):
Know, she wasn't Patty, she was just being she was
just being a realize bitch to me. I respected it.
But the thing I.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
Just said, Hi, I said, I am Tamika.
Speaker 5 (07:23):
I was like, I'm friends with Mo, like like, so
you know who I am, Like put a face with
the name whatever, and they made it like doom doom doo.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
Yeah, let's go to commercial like it was some drama.
I was just like, I'm just don't I'm friends with
Mo and that's it. But there is the way they
amplified it.
Speaker 11 (07:37):
They had the music in the awkward pause where her
month was.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
Like, and then gave you shots before before that shot it.
Speaker 6 (07:46):
Was actually, she's like one of my favorite people on
the show. Like we hang out in real life, like
bould y'all.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Think celebrities again, since you like your life is so
out there, like they pick in part everything that you
guys do.
Speaker 6 (07:58):
I think I want to man, I sit behind the
desk think I think I'm over it.
Speaker 9 (08:03):
Yeah, just over it, the whole lifestyle. I'll take the
forefront in the bed.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Would you ate a bus driver?
Speaker 4 (08:11):
Oh no, I don't know.
Speaker 6 (08:15):
I'm just a decent three kids.
Speaker 9 (08:17):
I'm a single mother, and my bills, the salary just
not covering my bills, and I just it's not for me.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
Then you ain't saying why his salar got to cover
your bills. You should be able to cover your bills.
I already know what you've got it. I'm just thinking,
but it's not just going to say are you living?
Speaker 6 (08:34):
I live in Atlanta, Lanta.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
Let me shoot that. Let's see the Marti bus driver
making Atlanta.
Speaker 5 (08:38):
She already said, no, no, no, shame your show twelve
to thirty in hours.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
School bus driving make between twenty four fifty a year.
Speaker 10 (08:50):
The average salary for drivers nineteen eleven per hour.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
But they got benefits better. They got benefits, my own benefits. Okay,
who's on the bus drive?
Speaker 4 (09:00):
That doesn't sound beneficial.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
I appreciate you. If Crystal doesn't, no shame.
Speaker 4 (09:05):
But you know I would date a bus driver if
he owned.
Speaker 5 (09:08):
The If you're on the bus, okay, shouts out.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
I'm gonna shout out.
Speaker 5 (09:18):
Carlos king too. What's up Carlos for bringing us together?
Black Production Company.
Speaker 6 (09:23):
Kingdom, Reign Entertainment, all the rain drops.
Speaker 4 (09:26):
So you guys got to catch up on our show.
It's not All Black now.
Speaker 5 (09:29):
I think they moved it over, you know, because we
finished our season. Hopefully we're gearing up for season two.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Then will you bring it back?
Speaker 4 (09:36):
I think people will bring just like the run so
you can see it. Yeah, I think they got it.
There is living on All Black.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Yeah. I want to ask you about your book here.
Speaker 10 (09:44):
I stand interesting title, uh, because someone could say it's
just a cliche term. All one could say, sure also
named his album here. I stand that's right. So why
did you decide to name it.
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Here I stand, Well, here I stand.
Speaker 5 (09:58):
You remember that was a time where people were really
in love and you know, having their first child and
all kinds of stuff.
Speaker 4 (10:05):
And the album.
Speaker 5 (10:06):
Was dedicated to me, if you read the credits and
all that. And I was very kind of instrumental on
the album, which kind of flopped. So I guess my
musical taste.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
I want to come back.
Speaker 4 (10:19):
But anyway, so no, So here I stand.
Speaker 5 (10:23):
It has a double entendre because I've been through a
whole lot, you know what I mean. I lost a child,
I lost my mom. I've been through, you know, two marriages,
divorces rather and I've just had kind of a rough road,
you know.
Speaker 4 (10:36):
I think it started with you, Wendy, But wellcome back
to that.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
My first I don't think I was during that time
you were in the studio when I did my radio
interview with her.
Speaker 4 (10:49):
That's when that was the first negative press run. And
it's just.
Speaker 5 (10:54):
There was a long time ago, and I was so
happy to do her show. I was so excited, you know, me,
I was there.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
He changed. I mean it was part of me getting
kicked out of the studio. Let me explain.
Speaker 5 (11:13):
I met her in the Gamsboard hotel. I'm standing in
the hotel. My PR friend at worked at one of
the showrooms, was like, oh, have you ever met Wendy Williams.
I'm from California. I had not. I'd heard of her,
but I didn't know that she was like a shock jock,
Howard Stern Black you know. So I was like no,
and they were like yeah. So she was just like
(11:34):
this is stylist to the stars, this is to me.
Speaker 4 (11:36):
Would you like to come on my show?
Speaker 6 (11:38):
And I was like yes.
Speaker 5 (11:39):
I was thinking like, oh, it's gonna be great again
for my career. I'm gonna be on New York radio
and I'm gonna talk about my job as a stylist.
Speaker 6 (11:47):
Well, I got on here.
Speaker 5 (11:48):
The first question was like, so is that da da gay?
And does da da da get along with their mom?
It's just my clients. So she went right in with
those questions and my face was like that's why.
Speaker 6 (12:00):
I'm here, and I was did your research?
Speaker 10 (12:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (12:06):
I didn't have people because I met her one one
and she was like be there in the morning at
seven or something with krak of Don. So I was
excited about the press and it was all bad and
from there then.
Speaker 7 (12:17):
When I got Philly.
Speaker 4 (12:20):
That was no on Park Avenue. When she was asking
you those questions, he was sitting in the corner smiling.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
What was he doing when you didn't do when you
didn't do more?
Speaker 5 (12:29):
This whatever time it was, I was there and I
got kicked out of the studio because the questions that
she was asking. I was like, I don't I'm not
in my client's business.
Speaker 4 (12:36):
I would never tell it.
Speaker 5 (12:37):
They're paying me, you know, I'm a stylist. And she
was just like, that's not we can you guys got
to listen. You gotta find the.
Speaker 4 (12:44):
Interview kick her. She was like, there's the door, honey,
that's not what she said.
Speaker 5 (12:49):
She was going to give us the tea, But I
thought she was going to ask up like who had
a nip slip?
Speaker 4 (12:53):
Or just said who damaged the wardrobe?
Speaker 5 (12:56):
Like you know that kind of messy, not messy, like
who's this talk.
Speaker 7 (13:00):
To his mother?
Speaker 5 (13:01):
I didn't know, Yeah, I didn't know. I just thought
it was a big opportunity, absolutely as anyone would think, well,
epic fail.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
So then he's looking it up right now. I'm looking
at it already.
Speaker 5 (13:13):
Even in her documentary when she did the whole doc,
I'm in that like it was like she she went
on a tirade for many years four years ago and
many years after that. All the media just kind of
jumped on the bandwagon of she's a man, she looks
like a man.
Speaker 11 (13:29):
She's this, she's ugly, she's old, she's.
Speaker 5 (13:31):
You know, so I didn't have a chance. Damn God,
damn you ugly ass man.
Speaker 11 (13:38):
No, No, I don't want they.
Speaker 4 (13:42):
Call me a man. Having all these kids, I'm like,
wait a minute.
Speaker 10 (13:44):
But with the titles called here I Stand because the album.
Speaker 5 (13:48):
Here I Stand because I I You know, I've been
through a lot, and so it's about remaining in a
beautiful state despite it all.
Speaker 4 (13:54):
Like life happens. Life is gonna come at you.
Speaker 11 (13:56):
Things gonna have You're gonna lose people, You're gonna lose love, You're.
Speaker 5 (13:59):
Gonna have heart break. But you have to remain in
a beautiful state so things will happen. You have to
come back to being positive and just in a good space.
Don't you think I'm in a beautiful stay pretty much?
Speaker 4 (14:09):
You know, most of the time, when am.
Speaker 10 (14:11):
I not name of time, see that little When when
am I not?
Speaker 11 (14:19):
You don't be in a beautiful time on the show.
Speaker 5 (14:21):
Well, no, I mean, being in a beautiful state doesn't
mean you won't check somebody.
Speaker 4 (14:25):
That don't mean you won't get your point off.
Speaker 5 (14:27):
Go back, then you go back to like when we're
going to go eat, you know what I mean, I'll
cut you out and be like, let's yeah, I don't
stay in a in a suffering state.
Speaker 4 (14:37):
I stay in a beautiful state.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
Was the book the therapeutic for you to write? Oh?
Speaker 2 (14:40):
Man?
Speaker 4 (14:40):
It was like a big diary.
Speaker 5 (14:42):
So I just started writing it when I first was
going through a divorce. I started writing it and then
I put a pause on it because I was writing
from my perspective, like I wasn't taking ownership for anything.
Speaker 4 (14:53):
And so once I.
Speaker 5 (14:55):
Started writing again, then I started saying like, Okay, you
could have done that.
Speaker 4 (14:58):
So I have life lessons in the book.
Speaker 5 (15:00):
I talk about what I did to contribute to everything.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
Yeah, do you wish you never came from behind the.
Speaker 4 (15:06):
Scenes at times?
Speaker 5 (15:09):
At times I think, but it was kind of inevitable,
you know what I mean. Like if you marry someone
that's in front, you tell yourself, I'm just gonna play
the back. I'm gonna keep steaming your clothes I'm gonna
be back here. But then you go one appearance and
then there you are on the red carpet. Then they
start picking yourpart you out there. Then you have to
redeem yourself because you were like, yeah, I didn't put
oil on my feet that day, but wait till next time.
(15:31):
Then you ends up back on the red carpet again.
They need to mess up again. So then it's just
a whole snowball. Once you get out there, you're out there.
Speaker 1 (15:40):
You know.
Speaker 10 (15:40):
I saw I was reading the article that us you did,
I think in People magazine about about a month ago,
and he said he felt.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
Attacked and judged from fans. Oh yeah, after marrying you.
Speaker 7 (15:50):
I know, it just was should you care what the
fans think?
Speaker 1 (15:53):
You? Love?
Speaker 7 (15:54):
You love you do?
Speaker 5 (15:55):
But then I think it weighs on you if like
every day, every time you open any thing, it's somebody
saying something bad about your wife.
Speaker 4 (16:02):
You remember he went on.
Speaker 5 (16:03):
MTV like shut the hell up about her. He kind
of got tired of it. He was very judged. Very
we didn't have a chance in terms of the public
quart of public opinion.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
Yeah, you guys forgave a lot of people because there's
there were a lot of people crying, y'all and going
at yad and.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
Yeah, you guys showed a lot of grace. Was that difficult?
Speaker 4 (16:22):
I didn't. I was cussing him out. I was on Twitter.
Speaker 5 (16:24):
I had Twitter fingers bad as here, like should me
tell you something that?
Speaker 4 (16:30):
Yeah, unbig your back and then make your damnages.
Speaker 7 (16:36):
So on the.
Speaker 5 (16:39):
On the show, you said that Neil had never asked you.
Hell no, I just you know. But but if he
had no, no, I got.
Speaker 6 (16:54):
Clearly I did that already. There's no third party. I don't.
I'm not sharing my husband.
Speaker 5 (16:58):
Yeah, knowingly, right exactly, And so that was and that's
exactly what the problem was, like apparently so yeah, apparently,
so you know, so he had one of the three,
you wouldn't give it to him?
Speaker 4 (17:11):
He's yeah, men know who to ask?
Speaker 9 (17:16):
I was about to say it is that insulting for
a man? I don't think it's insulting. But like I
just I'm I'm old school. I'm not sharing my husband.
I'm not sharing ding a ling. I'm just not doing it.
Speaker 6 (17:29):
Like it's too much nasty ship in the world.
Speaker 9 (17:31):
And I just I don't. If you want something else,
you don't want me you know. So I'm straight with.
Speaker 5 (17:37):
That and where are you guys now? Because I know
it was a nasty I know it got nasty. You
know what I'm saying.
Speaker 9 (17:44):
I mean for him, I was I was in peace, yeah,
and I'm still in peace.
Speaker 1 (17:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (17:49):
I'm in a good place in my life right now.
Speaker 2 (17:51):
What was the decision that made you say, you know what,
enough stuff I need to move?
Speaker 1 (17:54):
Well?
Speaker 6 (17:54):
What's funny is it was the breakfast club.
Speaker 9 (18:03):
Jesus when y'all asked him of the question it would
he be okay if not knowing if his partner was she?
And he was like, I would live in a bliss
for bubble. So somebody sent me that and it was
like something in my stomach was like uh uh some
name right?
Speaker 6 (18:17):
Is that how he wants me to think?
Speaker 9 (18:19):
And then I found everything that I needed to find
that day and and I left that day find that.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
Did you go through the phone or how did you
find it?
Speaker 6 (18:29):
Was? It was a phone?
Speaker 1 (18:31):
It was a phone that is smart. He could have
been some type of detective.
Speaker 10 (18:36):
Listen to a person say something you like, you know what,
Let me he's projected.
Speaker 1 (18:41):
Let me go.
Speaker 7 (18:41):
Snoop around him and see what he got going Lord.
Speaker 9 (18:44):
So he just would because he because with me, he
was he has a little jealousy in him or whatever,
so I know that he would never be okay with.
Speaker 6 (18:51):
Me doing that, you know what I'm saying, Like, yeah.
Speaker 2 (18:55):
So it was like some right did he come clean
all the way?
Speaker 9 (18:58):
He had no choice, you know, choice, you know, And
I feel like that was just God's redirection for me.
Speaker 6 (19:03):
It was a situation that was no longer.
Speaker 9 (19:05):
Serving me, and he knew that that wasn't what I
wanted in a marriage, and he just removed me from
that situation. And I think that he did it in
a way that I had no choice to leave because
my values, my morals would never be involved in something
like that.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
Was it the first time you caught him cheating on him?
Speaker 9 (19:21):
Yeah, in twenty twenty. I thought that it was a
thing and I left him then. So if I thought
something and I know something, Yeah, are you sure?
Speaker 1 (19:30):
Because black men don't cheat?
Speaker 5 (19:35):
Studio triggering, I'm saying that, you know, I think that
all men cheat, I really do.
Speaker 1 (19:45):
No all the black men like no.
Speaker 4 (19:48):
No, no, all.
Speaker 9 (19:48):
But I think, yeah, I think there's different types, Like
there's men that have cheated and learned their lesson and
then like they find someone that like I would. And
then there's men that that's just what they do, you
know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6 (20:03):
So it's just, yeah, I don't think.
Speaker 5 (20:05):
I don't I don't think it's it's realistic to believe that.
Speaker 11 (20:08):
I don't even think that we're I don't know.
Speaker 5 (20:11):
I don't think we're going to be made for man,
not like that for the rest of your life, one man,
but the rest of your life.
Speaker 4 (20:22):
I don't believe.
Speaker 1 (20:23):
I believe.
Speaker 10 (20:23):
I think so if you find that, if you find
that one that actually fulfilled.
Speaker 4 (20:26):
One human beings the reason we say black.
Speaker 3 (20:30):
Boys cheap right, and most boys when they become a
man and that's what they realized, then step out.
Speaker 5 (20:36):
There's some that do it on a serial basis. And
I'm not saying from personal experience. I'm just saying, I
just think in general, I'm friends with a lot. I'm
a girl that loves guys, and then my homies and
I talk to them and they just do.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
I think if a woman is fulfilling you on every level.
Speaker 6 (20:51):
Of spiritual.
Speaker 5 (20:54):
One strip to Puchakana, there's that one time you and
your homies went and you accidentally just met somebody at the.
Speaker 2 (21:03):
I thinks, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 9 (21:10):
A woman can do everything under the sun clean? Do
you bedroom all of that? And if a man still
wants to cheat, that's what he's gonna do, you know
what I'm saying.
Speaker 6 (21:18):
So I don't think that has anything to get the woman.
Speaker 10 (21:21):
I'm telling you, if a woman fulfills you spiritually, mentally
and emotions, shouldn't the physical. You won't even think about
another woman.
Speaker 6 (21:29):
If that's the type of person that you are.
Speaker 4 (21:30):
Right, you have to be that, yeah, because you slip ups.
Speaker 5 (21:36):
I think you have cheaters at a Cereal and they
just have a whole other relationship on the side, Then
you have people to slip up. I just think that
something happens regarding another party at some point, and I'm
talking about in a lifetime. It may happen once, but
it still happened.
Speaker 4 (21:52):
I don't know.
Speaker 10 (21:52):
So how do you handle if you got that mentality
and you feel like a man gonna slip up anyway?
Speaker 1 (21:56):
How do you handle the slip up?
Speaker 4 (21:58):
I don't know. I haven't. I don't know because I'm
single now, so I don't. I don't know. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
You ever had somebody slip up.
Speaker 2 (22:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (22:07):
I think we all have yeah.
Speaker 7 (22:10):
Sometimes and you don't leave them.
Speaker 4 (22:14):
I have, I have.
Speaker 5 (22:15):
I've left you over a slip up, for sure, But
in hindsight, I don't think that's big enough to ruin
your whole marriage.
Speaker 4 (22:22):
I don't think it should be.
Speaker 2 (22:24):
Have you guys ever say I disagree?
Speaker 9 (22:28):
Yeah, in a marriage, I feel like nobody's perfect, and
I guess the in the situation.
Speaker 6 (22:36):
It's situational. So some situations it's like, all right, I
might could give you a pass. I mean, you ain't
getting off easy, but I could give you a pass.
Speaker 9 (22:43):
But if it's something there's degrees to cheating, like you
in love, you have relationships, you cuddling and all that
kind of stuff, it's not just the one off and
you only get one pass, you know what I'm saying,
Because then at that point its repetitive.
Speaker 6 (22:55):
That's that's not a slip up. That's who you are,
you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 9 (22:58):
So if you if you that's something that you continue,
that's what you're always gonna do.
Speaker 1 (23:02):
Have up.
Speaker 5 (23:04):
I don't I don't like, but no, forget to slip up.
Speaker 11 (23:13):
I was just saying, I like how you guys decorated everything.
Speaker 4 (23:16):
Have you ever cheated? Yes?
Speaker 5 (23:19):
I have, Yes, I have, I have, and we were
we were both cheating on each other.
Speaker 4 (23:23):
I was in a relationship.
Speaker 5 (23:24):
I found out that my partner was cheating, and I cheated,
cheated back, cheated.
Speaker 4 (23:30):
Back, Okay, cheat it up, Okay you cheated up? Did
you get left?
Speaker 5 (23:35):
They should have just left each other.
Speaker 7 (23:39):
We did, We did.
Speaker 4 (23:40):
We left each other. It was no one and it
was it was no one's fault. We both.
Speaker 11 (23:45):
It was both of our fault. We knew, you know,
we both.
Speaker 1 (23:48):
She's not talking about us blogs.
Speaker 4 (23:49):
I'm not he cheated.
Speaker 5 (23:53):
I'm not talking about my marriages period. I'm just saying
I'm just talking about relationship. I think people don't realize
that you date.
Speaker 4 (23:59):
More than the people you married.
Speaker 5 (24:00):
And again, every time i'm speaking, they think I'm talking
about my ex husband or husband's But no, I've dated
since and before them. You know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (24:09):
I know other men, guys. I would marry again. I
sure would. I would marry again.
Speaker 11 (24:15):
The right person who's got his stuff together.
Speaker 5 (24:18):
He's got to have his stuff together because I'm always
trying to start a business or working on something.
Speaker 4 (24:23):
I'm really entrepreneurial. So you got to have your bread.
Speaker 3 (24:26):
Together, Neil clippers in there if you want to hear
what what Neil?
Speaker 1 (24:29):
I do want to hear it. I don't remember this.
Speaker 10 (24:32):
Than we're putting together the breakfast cub doctor trying to
find these moments that cause people trauma.
Speaker 8 (24:39):
Listen, I personally am am a person that is not
angry at living in a blissful bubble of ignorance. The
truth is rarely pretty in this world. In his life,
you have to choose your happy. So I choose to
believe that the truth that makes me happy as opposed
to such a for the ugly truth that's.
Speaker 2 (24:57):
Going to mess up my happy.
Speaker 8 (24:58):
I even tell my friends like, yo, if you have
found out anything about my wife, don't bring me that.
I'll wake up every morning and breakfast, just cook my
kids and taken care of. Every time we around each other,
we smiling and happy and things are blissful. And then
on my deathbed, somebody told me that you was cheating
on me. In my whole life, I.
Speaker 2 (25:12):
Lived a pretty good damn life. I'm not going trip
off that that's me. That was the part.
Speaker 4 (25:18):
Yeah, that that actual though, that's true, though.
Speaker 3 (25:21):
I suspected something before. Then, Yeah, you suspected something before.
Speaker 9 (25:26):
Them, so I would be a fool and a liar
to be like I didn't have suspicions or thinking like
you know that any man that was possibility that they're
gonna cheat. But to the extent of the way things happened,
I never in a million years would have you know, like,
wasn't that wasn't the person that that.
Speaker 6 (25:42):
I was in love with.
Speaker 10 (25:43):
I just wonder why you're telling me that on my deathbed.
You're trying to make me go faster and enjoying my
final moments. Why would you call me that kind of
stress and trauma on my deathbed?
Speaker 5 (25:51):
I think I was just so surprised because being around
y'all were like best friends, Like it wasn't just like
you know, everything wasn't always romantic like they was cool,
like y'all were like real best friends.
Speaker 4 (26:03):
That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (26:04):
It's not worth it to lead well girl, what well
wait wait, actually.
Speaker 6 (26:09):
Just that is your disposition.
Speaker 9 (26:11):
However, it's different yea, no, thank you, Yeah, because I
know my worth and I and I'm not gonna settle
for just sharing somebody when I know I deserve a
whole man.
Speaker 4 (26:21):
So think I'm just older we met.
Speaker 9 (26:24):
He had picked me for it was he was going
to do a mini movie for his nonfiction album, and
he had picked me for the lead role. And that's
how we met. The movie never got shot, so I
don't know. Maybe it was a setup.
Speaker 4 (26:36):
He wanted you. That was the way he was gonna
catch you.
Speaker 10 (26:39):
You know.
Speaker 7 (26:39):
To me, that's something just now she said, you're oldest.
You probably just won.
Speaker 5 (26:42):
It took it took a long time to get to
the way I think now, because I was the person
that if you even look somewhere else, I was ready
to snatch your neck, you know what I mean.
Speaker 4 (26:51):
So I'm like, bring your eyes back over here.
Speaker 5 (26:53):
What you're doing and what you're doing looking at him,
I was like I was on that hot wire stuff.
I just think I'm in a different I'm in a
different place, and that it took time to get here.
Speaker 4 (27:02):
So trust me, I used to be like that, like,
first of all, I'm gonna pull up.
Speaker 6 (27:08):
I respect your.
Speaker 4 (27:09):
Mind, am.
Speaker 5 (27:11):
But I think what she's saying is she knows what
she's not gonna take, like.
Speaker 4 (27:17):
Just telling you, I'm not sharing my man.
Speaker 6 (27:20):
Like long.
Speaker 5 (27:21):
So I gotta be willing to share my man because
I don't know when I'm gonna die.
Speaker 4 (27:27):
No one wants to hold on. Let's just let's clarify this.
Speaker 5 (27:29):
Yes, please, girl, I am one hundred percent not down
to share anything. I don't even want to share my
damn sandwich. So I definitely not sharing my man.
Speaker 4 (27:37):
I am not that person.
Speaker 5 (27:38):
But I'm just saying that when it comes to a
relationship something I so death do us part if he
makes a mistake. I don't think that that is the.
Speaker 6 (27:46):
Depth of the relationship and we're partying.
Speaker 4 (27:49):
No for me, Well, I used to.
Speaker 5 (27:52):
I'm telling you, like I said, were thirteen years younger,
I definitely would.
Speaker 4 (27:56):
Have said that I would agree. But just get to
your fifties you might feel a little different. You may
We'll just see.
Speaker 2 (28:07):
You would lik to Safaria one time too.
Speaker 9 (28:09):
I don't know why y'all say people could be in
the same room together.
Speaker 3 (28:13):
Lord Jesus, because you said you love hip hop Landa
that your link that you would dating.
Speaker 6 (28:17):
I was all love hip hop.
Speaker 2 (28:18):
They said that you're going to do the next season.
Speaker 6 (28:20):
I don't know why they said that. I would never.
I was already I was already contracted. I don't know
why they said that.
Speaker 4 (28:28):
You know, but y'all were never No, it's cool, but
I plan.
Speaker 9 (28:33):
To be single for a while because I have a
lot of healing to go through and do or whatever,
and I don't want to distract myself from what I
have going on because I'm so focused on my career
right now.
Speaker 6 (28:45):
You know, I'm acting now, I.
Speaker 9 (28:47):
Just did a movie, about to do another movie, so
I'm I'm focused on Crystal right now for the first time.
I'm I'm happy and content and just being with myself.
Speaker 3 (28:56):
Christ did you ever key Neo's calls? Because it seems
like you still got a little hurt something. No, nothing,
nothing hit his hats in the world.
Speaker 4 (29:14):
I got you now, just get the story.
Speaker 9 (29:18):
No, no, I I walked away peacefully because when you
when you fight and areg you it's because you still
want to be there. And although I mean, one of
the hardest things to do is to walk away from
somebody you're still in love with.
Speaker 6 (29:29):
But I love myself more.
Speaker 9 (29:31):
And I knew that I was going to go crazy
if I chose to try to work it out and stay.
Speaker 6 (29:35):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 9 (29:36):
And I always have love for him, but it's it's
different now, you know.
Speaker 4 (29:41):
So the kids are good.
Speaker 6 (29:44):
The kids are good.
Speaker 9 (29:45):
You know, they go and spend time with Daddy. They
love their their their father, and they're good. I let
him be a father and and not be keep communication
at a minimal just because I'm focused on rebuilding my
life and what that means for me. So I don't
want to surround myself with what the past was that
could potentially put me in a place where I'm emotional
(30:05):
and all those things.
Speaker 6 (30:06):
So I choose to just.
Speaker 2 (30:08):
So there was no drunk less like, hey, big head.
Speaker 5 (30:10):
Nothing, but did he tried? Okay, what that he tried?
Speaker 6 (30:21):
Listen?
Speaker 9 (30:22):
I think at this point he knows that there's there's
no coming back. So we we're trying to figure out
what Cole parents and looks like for us because I
just I.
Speaker 6 (30:32):
Just don't want to be around the situation.
Speaker 9 (30:34):
And you know, I all the respects, all love to
him and no shade, but I just when somebody hurts
you to a certain extent, I don't want to be
in that environment.
Speaker 6 (30:43):
You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 2 (30:45):
Did ya try therapy? Did you try to make it? Men?
So he was done. He was like, there's no therapy.
Speaker 5 (30:48):
Was I fought the next day and Crystal filed the
next day after hearing that breakfast club ship.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
Really it wasn't it wasn't really know.
Speaker 6 (31:00):
That that is that is what prompted me to.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
To look around.
Speaker 2 (31:04):
How you getting his phone?
Speaker 6 (31:06):
He was the same past and all.
Speaker 1 (31:10):
He wasn't trying to hide anything.
Speaker 4 (31:11):
Some of them smart, that's what you get out of her.
Speaker 5 (31:14):
Yeah, she'd be like, hold on, where the other phone is?
Speaker 4 (31:19):
Another phone?
Speaker 2 (31:20):
He was sleeping, and he just picked up the phone
and just.
Speaker 4 (31:22):
Yeaheah, No, he was here, he was here.
Speaker 6 (31:26):
He was doing another interview. Yes, he was at the
radio station. I was at the hotel. He was like
in New York, you scrolling down.
Speaker 10 (31:32):
So when he came back, So by the time he
got back to the hotel from the interview, you was
on his head.
Speaker 6 (31:40):
I was gone.
Speaker 1 (31:40):
I know.
Speaker 6 (31:41):
I didn't say anything or you left the Oh.
Speaker 2 (31:44):
My god, you didn't tell nothing. You ain't tell nothing.
You just know.
Speaker 9 (31:47):
I mean, he he he knew that his phone was
was missing, and so he realized and and you know, oh.
Speaker 1 (31:52):
My god, he took the phone and left.
Speaker 4 (31:55):
They took the phone.
Speaker 6 (31:56):
I am a black woman. I am not done.
Speaker 11 (32:00):
You can just least say I would put it all
back like nothing happened.
Speaker 7 (32:02):
Yeah, he didn't try to apologize and nothing like you don't.
Speaker 9 (32:05):
I mean, of course he apologized, and you know, he
didn't want me to get a divorce or whatever. But
he knows, he knows how I value myself and he
knows what I'm not playing in and that situation.
Speaker 6 (32:14):
I think he just he knew they was no coming back.
Speaker 1 (32:17):
You know, So what it is you love to know
what he learned?
Speaker 6 (32:21):
We had.
Speaker 9 (32:21):
We had a beautiful relationship, a beautiful marriage, a beautiful friendship.
Speaker 6 (32:25):
And I don't regret it. I don't take it back.
Speaker 9 (32:28):
And I'm appreciative to the love that we did have
because a lot of people don't experience the love like
that that I had. You know, but that season it's gone,
that that that chapter is closed.
Speaker 6 (32:36):
And how long were we all together? Almost ten years?
Speaker 4 (32:41):
Damn?
Speaker 1 (32:43):
Oh.
Speaker 10 (32:43):
I got a question for both of you on your
on your healing journeys that you're on your healing journeys
of self? What have you learned about yourself that you're
most passionate.
Speaker 9 (32:51):
About my my strength and my perseverance. I didn't I
don't think that I thought that I would be in
the mind state that I am now because a lot
of people would have broken, you know, And I have
my moments, but I'm proud of myself for the way
that i have maintained my grace.
Speaker 6 (33:10):
In this situation.
Speaker 9 (33:11):
Yeah, you know so, because it's easy to the fame
a black man and tear him down and tell all
the business and do all those things. I refuse to
do that because and it's not for him, it's for
me and my children, you know what I'm saying. So
I don't I don't benefit by tearing him down.
Speaker 6 (33:25):
I wish him nothing but the best. I want to
see him succeed, but just not with me.
Speaker 5 (33:29):
What about you, I'm really committed to remaining in a
beautiful state because I really, like I say this, I said,
and I mean, I think we share a friend. It's
not to major in the miners. Absolutely don't major in
the miners, and I really I'm really passionate about that.
Speaker 4 (33:49):
I am.
Speaker 5 (33:51):
You know, you really question your self worth when you're
in a public relationship because your life becomes about them,
like everything is about their schedule, where they have.
Speaker 4 (34:01):
To be, what time the flight is, what you're gonna wear.
Speaker 5 (34:05):
Because you got to be with them, And so you
do lose the sense of yourself when you're in that situation.
Speaker 4 (34:10):
I'm happy now. I just I feel so free. I
always say that, I just feel free.
Speaker 5 (34:14):
I'm just able to move around without you know, having
that pressure anymore.
Speaker 4 (34:18):
The peace, the peace.
Speaker 6 (34:20):
That you have.
Speaker 3 (34:21):
And I can't imagine because they scrutinize you if you're
taking kids to the game, I'm sure they're taking pictures
of what you're wearing.
Speaker 4 (34:27):
They're looking at everything.
Speaker 3 (34:28):
You go to the grocery store, I'm sure they're looking
at what you're wearing.
Speaker 5 (34:31):
I don't even care about what I'm wearing because I
ain't never worried about that.
Speaker 4 (34:35):
It's always Oh even at the super Bowl when you
went and he.
Speaker 5 (34:39):
Was there and he performed halftime, how did you feel
about that being there?
Speaker 6 (34:42):
It was great?
Speaker 4 (34:43):
No, I went, Yeah, I went, My kids were there.
Speaker 5 (34:45):
He did a great job. You know, he's dope like
that that I can always say. He's a phenomenal person
and phenomenal artists.
Speaker 4 (34:52):
Yeah, it was good. They were looking.
Speaker 5 (34:54):
Yeah, they're always looking at my reaction everything like did
she clap?
Speaker 4 (34:58):
Does she cry? Did she like?
Speaker 5 (35:00):
Sounded like his music like everybody else? And you got
to realize everything he performed.
Speaker 4 (35:05):
These are things.
Speaker 5 (35:05):
I was his stylist, so I did all those videos.
I was a part of the imaging for the whole thing.
It was important for me to be there.
Speaker 11 (35:12):
I was sad that I wasn't in charge of the
whole imaging for it.
Speaker 4 (35:15):
To be honest, That's what I'm came from. I love
j D. Don't talk about it, not too much.
Speaker 5 (35:26):
On l Did you like that little socks the way?
Speaker 6 (35:32):
No, I don't know the way.
Speaker 4 (35:33):
I don't know everything.
Speaker 1 (35:38):
You know what I think it is.
Speaker 10 (35:39):
I think people aren't used to seeing, uh, healthy functioning
co parenting.
Speaker 5 (35:44):
Yes, I have a healthy functioning co parenting situation because
my kids are you know, fifteen and sixteen, and they
basically say where they want to be, and like we
have and we are very supportive of each other's like
I'm here, I'm in New York. The kids are with him,
and when he's busy, the kids are with me. We
just we we kind of got rid of that whole
(36:04):
schedule thing, like you have him on.
Speaker 4 (36:06):
Thursday to Wednesday and no, we just are you traveling? Okay?
Speaker 1 (36:11):
Cool?
Speaker 5 (36:11):
We are you gonna be home? Are the kids gonna
be with me? Are they gonna be with you, and
I think we get along. Find our kids are super
vocal and grown as hell, so they tell you what
they want to They be like, I need to be
a dad because my game setup is over here.
Speaker 4 (36:23):
He's got better Wi Fi than you. I'd be like,
of course he's got better. Everything's better.
Speaker 2 (36:35):
Entertainment industry. When you want you kids to be.
Speaker 9 (36:37):
My oldest he he he his father is his idol,
like he wants to do me and that he needs
trying to make his own beats.
Speaker 6 (36:44):
He think he got a YouTube channel. It's tall.
Speaker 9 (36:47):
So I mean, I I know the the negative that
comes with it. I don't want that for my kids,
you know, but I do want him to, you know,
whatever his dreams are to do it, you know, if
that's what he wants. But I would prefer him to
go to college, get a degree and you know, do
something else. But if that's what he wants to.
Speaker 5 (37:04):
Do it, well, my son Sinko, he's the fifth Uh,
he's sixteen. He's a gamer, so he really wants to
do this gaming thing on a high level, like that's his.
Speaker 2 (37:20):
Money.
Speaker 5 (37:20):
He is focused. He didn't go on vacation. We went
to Angleill and all this for spring break. He stayed
with his setup. He was serious about like I can't
take my computers.
Speaker 4 (37:28):
I can't take all my monitors and my hard drop.
Speaker 5 (37:31):
I was like, okay, it's a serious thing now literally
better Wi Fi and Usherton.
Speaker 4 (37:36):
Girl, you gotta let this man make this money.
Speaker 5 (37:37):
On these I'm we're supporting. We both are supporting him
doing my son did the create. He did a lot
of creative direction for the super Bowl. That's no, he's
now he's so serious he wants to be an artist.
I don't love that idea because I know what the
scrutiny that comes with it. But behind the scenes, if
he wants to do lighting and creative direction. And he
(38:00):
really was very involved in that super Bowl performance, more
than he even.
Speaker 4 (38:04):
Got credit for.
Speaker 5 (38:05):
He really was like, no, not that song and when
you come out the chair, you need to stand and
look that way.
Speaker 4 (38:13):
No, he was definitely involved.
Speaker 7 (38:15):
Yeah, because you said earlier here, I can't flopped.
Speaker 10 (38:18):
And we were talking about this, talking about that this week,
and we were talking about that that that particular, we're
talking about chance to rap him and you know what
happened when an artist makes an album dedicated.
Speaker 4 (38:30):
To his wife.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
Yeah, and the album this album is whack.
Speaker 5 (38:35):
The album was good, understand, was a banging album. And
let me tell you this, I'm gonna say this. This
is in defense of him really quick, and I don't
want to talk about his ask I'm okay.
Speaker 4 (38:44):
It was enough on Usher, But Here I.
Speaker 5 (38:47):
Stand was so solid because he was ahead of his time.
He got married before anybody before.
Speaker 4 (38:53):
This was before J and B. This is before justin Chimberlake.
Speaker 5 (38:56):
This is before he was an outlier in like trying
to be mature and wear suits.
Speaker 4 (39:01):
That suit and tied ship. That was we did that already.
Speaker 5 (39:04):
Sorry, no offense, JT, but you know what I mean,
Like we were trying to make him go to the
next level. The fans weren't ready for him to evolve
and get to that level. And then now it's cool,
everybody's married, and see, we just were ahead of our time,
but we did it too soon.
Speaker 4 (39:19):
So they were like, he.
Speaker 5 (39:20):
Married this old ass lady and she's whack and that's
that and we hate him. And so Here I Stand
wasn't received the way it should have been. But it
was solid songs on that album Flop Fly, but it
didn't do a million a million copies in the first week,
like you know all the other albums.
Speaker 1 (39:38):
Did you blame yourself for that in some way?
Speaker 4 (39:40):
I didn't. I think that. I think I blamed that.
Speaker 5 (39:42):
I think that the label pulled back on it real fast,
like they put it out and it wasn't received the
way they thought, and I think they're just like.
Speaker 4 (39:49):
All right, let's let's hide that to me.
Speaker 5 (39:51):
Can stay home, have a baby, just don't come outside
no more.
Speaker 7 (39:55):
They hate you?
Speaker 5 (39:56):
Yeah, no, I I think I got a lot of backlash,
like you're making his whole thing flop, and I'm like
that dude been married again and again after that.
Speaker 4 (40:04):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 10 (40:06):
Is the goal for both of y'all, because y'all have
so much going on, It's the goal for both of
y'all to get to a place where nobody asks you
about them, is what I say.
Speaker 6 (40:14):
I want the world to know Crystal or not.
Speaker 11 (40:16):
But it's impossible, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (40:18):
And that's what people always say. You don't want people
to ask you about him, but you still have his
last name.
Speaker 6 (40:23):
But I'm still I'm still.
Speaker 4 (40:24):
My own Perton, you know what I mean. Diane von
Furstenberg is Diane von Furstenberg.
Speaker 5 (40:28):
She was married to Count von Furstenberg, but she's still
an amazing designer.
Speaker 4 (40:32):
Like I just again, it's our community.
Speaker 2 (40:36):
Do you still do styling like that or not too much?
Speaker 4 (40:38):
I have a clothing line called Eli Kish.
Speaker 5 (40:40):
I will style certain artists if they have certain people,
if they have a budget. It's not even artists, it's
just if you have a budget and you can afford
to pay me.
Speaker 3 (40:48):
A stylist a lost art now, like you don't really
see them as like growing up in the two thousands,
you'd see stylists niggas.
Speaker 1 (40:55):
You see these niggas.
Speaker 11 (40:56):
Yes, it's a.
Speaker 5 (41:00):
Styling is a lost art because it's so it's oversaturated
with people who have taken the title.
Speaker 4 (41:05):
You can work a gap for three days.
Speaker 5 (41:07):
And all you guys rolling a trench code.
Speaker 4 (41:10):
You be like, I'm a stylist in the stars.
Speaker 11 (41:13):
That's that's all you need. You walk out and say
you're the top stylist.
Speaker 6 (41:18):
I'm looking like.
Speaker 4 (41:19):
It happens in every league.
Speaker 5 (41:21):
Listening people can get what to viral videos now their
comedy you can you know, you can get act now
you're a radio person now, yeah, yeah, you know.
Speaker 1 (41:30):
So.
Speaker 4 (41:30):
I think it's the oversaturation in every lane, every lane.
Speaker 5 (41:33):
It probably is because you know why, I'm not just
not too much on our people, but it's low hanging fruit.
They people don't. You don't see too many people fighting
to be scientists or doctors or lawyers. You know what
I'm saying. It requires a lot of work that requires
work in reading, like actual reading, like read hello, read
if you would read? No, they want to do what's
(41:53):
you know, the easiest thing, like I'm a stylist.
Speaker 4 (41:56):
I love clothes. That's not how it works. Why's so delicious?
Speaker 1 (42:00):
Here? Put them on?
Speaker 4 (42:00):
Yeah? Yeah, girl, that's right.
Speaker 2 (42:02):
All right, thank you ladies for joining us.
Speaker 10 (42:05):
Man make comments, screamboled and boogie on all black. Right now,
go get Tamika Tamika Raymonds book here, I stand.
Speaker 11 (42:12):
Here, I stand in a beautiful state.
Speaker 1 (42:14):
That's right. That's right.
Speaker 2 (42:15):
It's Krystal Renee and Tamika Foster. It's the Breakfast Club.
Good morning, wake tail An's up in the morning.
Speaker 1 (42:21):
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