April 19, 2023 • 7 mins
Marques Houston Explains Why He Didn’t Like Dating Women His Own Age
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
Everybody is DJ Envy, Charlamagne de God. We are the
Breakfast Club. Now if you're just joining us, we're talking
about Marcus Houston.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
Now.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
You know, Marcus Houston was in the news recently because
it came out that he married a nineteen year old
woman and he was talking about why he wanted to
marry a younger woman opposed to women his age, and
this is what he said.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
You know, a lot of women my age are very independent.
They are very like, you know, I don't need a
man to do this with me because I could do
this with myself. And I also, I come from a
generation that I'm very very you know, love to provide
for my wife. I love to provide for my woman.
And I'm very in that generation like the old days.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
You know, I would never.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
Want to be with a woman that felt like, oh,
I don't need you out of you know what I'm
saying like that, So, you know, and there's a lot
of women my age. I've dated women my age, and
you know, they may have baggage, they may have kids,
they may have not you know, it's just there's so
many different women that I've dated throughout my life, and
this just so happened to be the won that heart.
Speaker 5 (01:01):
That could be wrong, but I didn't hear Marcus Houston
say I don't date older women, you know, because they
come with baggage. That's why I'm dating a younger woman,
because they don't have any baggage.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
I didn't. I didn't get that from what he said.
Speaker 5 (01:13):
Just now, the internet might feel like he said that,
but I didn't hear him say that.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Yeah, he said, women that are my age, like a
lot of women my age, very independent. He says, they
are like, I don't need a man to do this
with me because I can do it for myself. He said,
sometimes dating older women, they come with baggage, they have kids,
And yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
He did say that, Well they didn't, but he didn't say.
Speaker 5 (01:33):
That's why he didn't say I'm dating an older I'm
dating a younger woman because they don't have no baggage.
Like I don't know, he didn't say that. I didn't
get that from that what he said. But everybody has
baggage at a certain age. I think, like you know
what I mean, Like, if you, you know, forty plus
years old, you're going to have, you know, a traumas
that you might come into a situation with That's why
we always tell people like to go do the work.
(01:55):
Like that's why we encourage people to go to therapy,
you know what I mean, so they can deal with
their traumas before their traumas deal with them. And if
they don't deal with their traumas, they'll bring those traumas
into their relationship, and then those traumas will be projected
onto the person that they're in a relationship with, you
know what I mean. And how many older men we know
over forty that got kids as well? So what does
he mean when he says baggage If you're if you're
(02:15):
of a certain age, you're gonna have some baggage.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Baggage. I'm putting baggage in parenthesies, by the way.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
But I do feel like a lot of older men
date younger women for one reason, because they feel like
a younger woman possibly can be controlled easier or more
because they haven't lived their life. They don't really know
as much as an older woman. They haven't lived, as.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
People would say.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
I also feel like a lot of men would date
young women because they feel like younger women.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Uh, their body hasn't met gravity yet. Right, This boy
a lot of.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
Them shows violence. Wow, I thought Marcaus Houston chose violence.
Sean Kasey, DJ Andvy just chose violence. Tell me and
be explained more. What do you mean What do you
mean their bodies haven't met gravity yet?
Speaker 1 (02:55):
What are you saying? I mean we all, our bodies
all meet gravity. Your balls, your balls sit the same way?
Yes they do? Actually? Okay, no, no, no no. I want
you to know.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
You have to explain this. You shouldn't just get out
of this one. What did you mean by that statement?
Speaker 2 (03:07):
When people are older, the ass starts to drop, sometimes
their breast start to drop.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
It is gravity in two days something.
Speaker 5 (03:14):
These forty year old women, these fifty some of your
old women, are killing these young girls. Nowadays, every woman
that I think is beautiful is way over the age
of forty. I don't care if they're in entertainment, are
just walking around in everyday life. These forty old women
are These forty old women know how to take care
of theirself way better than a lot of these younger girls.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
And why a lot of older men too young. I'm married, bro,
don't even look at me. I'm married, My wife.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Is You're not making no sense.
Speaker 5 (03:40):
I'm saying that the older women are killing these young
girls in the look department, and you saying that's why
older men.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
You are saying a lot of times, the reason why
older men the moonwalk.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
You just keep fighting. You are just trying to prove
this stupid ass point. You just told all these women
that when they get old, everything drops. That's what you
just said, Mike. You say these older women is out
here saggy, flabby and sick.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
That's what you just said. You just chose big violence.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Why hello, Mike, Mike get fifty years old and you
dated younger women.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
Why, Mike, Why?
Speaker 4 (04:18):
I mean, like, like my man said, the older women
that come with a lot of package in a lot
of ways.
Speaker 5 (04:23):
Mike, you ain't got no baggage, Mike, Mike, you ain't
got no baggage. You let Mike finish because this is
just a silly conversation. Mike, you're fifty years old, you're
a black man in America. You ain't got no baggage.
You ain't got no trauma.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Nah, not really, you're a liar. You've been in therapy.
Speaker 5 (04:35):
Nah.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Okay, yeah, nothing's ever happened to you in your life.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
You got I'm just saying.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
I'm just saying you got kids.
Speaker 4 (04:41):
I mean, a man likes to feel special, you know.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Mike, do you have kids? Mike, do you have kids?
Speaker 4 (04:47):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (04:48):
Okay, so you got mad baggage according to Marcus Houston,
because if you were a fifty year old woman with
four kids, you'd be having mad baggage.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Mike, come on, let's stop be in there.
Speaker 4 (04:57):
My kids are over thirty.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
All my kids are grown, should be you fifty, so.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
They're not really bagging.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Mike is saying what Marcus Houston is saying, and not
that I agree, but I'm saying that a young a
lot of older men choose younger women because one they
feel like they can mold them and make them do
what they want. And two, a lot of people feel
that younger women their bodies are not reaching gravity.
Speaker 5 (05:21):
Man, you don't stop saying that.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
That is definitely what people say. Who is people?
Speaker 5 (05:29):
You gotta stop this, bro. This is crazy. This is
crazy talking talking this morning. This guy is crazy. This
guy is out there telling all the older women y'all
flabby and sick. Did I say that older women looking
like Larry Holmes flabby and sick?
Speaker 1 (05:42):
That's what you're saying.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
You're not saying. But listen, this is a good point
to Marcus made. They don't need a man. That's how
they talk. Men need to feel needed and wanted, not
they don't need to be with a woman that. I
don't need no man to do this. I don't need
no fan fit I mean, then, I mean what I mean?
What do they need you for?
Speaker 5 (06:00):
Y'all act like older women don't do that? By the way,
I'm envy knows. I'm a I'm a You know I
love older women. You like them over fifty?
Speaker 1 (06:09):
I do? I love I love sixty. So that's what
I like them seasoned. Okay, that's what I like, all right.
Speaker 5 (06:16):
But me and my wife have a great relationship and
we protect and provide for each other like we need
each other. Like, what is this thing that y'all have
where y'all need a woman to like want?
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Y'all y'all say I need to mold a woman like that?
Don't know. I'm just telling you what this is. I
don't know. I don't agree.
Speaker 5 (06:31):
I need to feel wanted. I don't need I need
a woman to want me and need me? And what
is that?
Speaker 1 (06:35):
What is that?
Speaker 5 (06:36):
Kevin More the insecurities y'all haven't dealt with Kevin.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
We're talking about consusedon what's your thoughts?
Speaker 4 (06:42):
I think you but I think her parents are crazy.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Talk to me, brother, right right.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
I want a woman to want me too, but I
want an interpaent woman at the same time. I want
a woman.
Speaker 5 (06:54):
At you said what you said, you're saying you want
a woman that uh that that that that's still that
need you, but can also do her own thing.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Yeah, I mean, like he said, And I don't I
don't know how long they've been talking, how long they've
been speaking. But for myself, the fact that they married
at nineteen or whatever it was, it means they had
to know each other, right, And I don't think I
would allow, and I'm gonna say it allowed, but allow
my eighteen year old daughter to be around somebody that old.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
That's just name. First of all, we got I got
four daughters. You got four daughters.
Speaker 5 (07:23):
Imagine a man, a grown ass man like that, saying
I can mold her. What does that even mean? Like
you didn't do your you didn't do your job as
a father. I didn't do my job as a father.
If it's an old man out here talking about I'm
going to mold her, all.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Right, Well, eight hundred and five eighty five, one oh
five to one. Let's have this discussion some more with
taking your calls to.
Speaker 5 (07:42):
Choose more violence. I don't know who called more violence
this morning. You and Marcus Houston, what are you talking?
V said everything drops after this guy is crazy.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Let's talk about it at the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:00):
Everybody is DJ Envy, Charlamagne de God. We are the
Breakfast Club. Now if you're just joining us, we're talking
about Marcus Houston.
Speaker 1 (00:08):
Now.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
You know, Marcus Houston was in the news recently because
it came out that he married a nineteen year old
woman and he was talking about why he wanted to
marry a younger woman opposed to women his age, and
this is what he said.
Speaker 3 (00:21):
You know, a lot of women my age are very independent.
They are very like, you know, I don't need a
man to do this with me because I could do
this with myself. And I also, I come from a
generation that I'm very very you know, love to provide
for my wife. I love to provide for my woman.
And I'm very in that generation like the old days.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
You know, I would never.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
Want to be with a woman that felt like, oh,
I don't need you out of you know what I'm
saying like that, So, you know, and there's a lot
of women my age. I've dated women my age, and
you know, they may have baggage, they may have kids,
they may have not you know, it's just there's so
many different women that I've dated throughout my life, and
this just so happened to be the won that heart.
Speaker 5 (01:01):
That could be wrong, but I didn't hear Marcus Houston
say I don't date older women, you know, because they
come with baggage. That's why I'm dating a younger woman,
because they don't have any baggage.
Speaker 1 (01:11):
I didn't. I didn't get that from what he said.
Speaker 5 (01:13):
Just now, the internet might feel like he said that,
but I didn't hear him say that.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Yeah, he said, women that are my age, like a
lot of women my age, very independent. He says, they
are like, I don't need a man to do this
with me because I can do it for myself. He said,
sometimes dating older women, they come with baggage, they have kids,
And yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
He did say that, Well they didn't, but he didn't say.
Speaker 5 (01:33):
That's why he didn't say I'm dating an older I'm
dating a younger woman because they don't have no baggage.
Like I don't know, he didn't say that. I didn't
get that from that what he said. But everybody has
baggage at a certain age. I think, like you know
what I mean, Like, if you, you know, forty plus
years old, you're going to have, you know, a traumas
that you might come into a situation with That's why
we always tell people like to go do the work.
(01:55):
Like that's why we encourage people to go to therapy,
you know what I mean, so they can deal with
their traumas before their traumas deal with them. And if
they don't deal with their traumas, they'll bring those traumas
into their relationship, and then those traumas will be projected
onto the person that they're in a relationship with, you
know what I mean. And how many older men we know
over forty that got kids as well? So what does
he mean when he says baggage If you're if you're
(02:15):
of a certain age, you're gonna have some baggage.
Speaker 1 (02:18):
Baggage. I'm putting baggage in parenthesies, by the way.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
But I do feel like a lot of older men
date younger women for one reason, because they feel like
a younger woman possibly can be controlled easier or more
because they haven't lived their life. They don't really know
as much as an older woman. They haven't lived, as.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
People would say.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
I also feel like a lot of men would date
young women because they feel like younger women.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Uh, their body hasn't met gravity yet. Right, This boy
a lot of.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
Them shows violence. Wow, I thought Marcaus Houston chose violence.
Sean Kasey, DJ Andvy just chose violence. Tell me and
be explained more. What do you mean What do you
mean their bodies haven't met gravity yet?
Speaker 1 (02:55):
What are you saying? I mean we all, our bodies
all meet gravity. Your balls, your balls sit the same way?
Yes they do? Actually? Okay, no, no, no no. I want
you to know.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
You have to explain this. You shouldn't just get out
of this one. What did you mean by that statement?
Speaker 2 (03:07):
When people are older, the ass starts to drop, sometimes
their breast start to drop.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
It is gravity in two days something.
Speaker 5 (03:14):
These forty year old women, these fifty some of your
old women, are killing these young girls. Nowadays, every woman
that I think is beautiful is way over the age
of forty. I don't care if they're in entertainment, are
just walking around in everyday life. These forty old women
are These forty old women know how to take care
of theirself way better than a lot of these younger girls.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
And why a lot of older men too young. I'm married, bro,
don't even look at me. I'm married, My wife.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Is You're not making no sense.
Speaker 5 (03:40):
I'm saying that the older women are killing these young
girls in the look department, and you saying that's why
older men.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
You are saying a lot of times, the reason why
older men the moonwalk.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
You just keep fighting. You are just trying to prove
this stupid ass point. You just told all these women
that when they get old, everything drops. That's what you
just said, Mike. You say these older women is out
here saggy, flabby and sick.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
That's what you just said. You just chose big violence.
Speaker 2 (04:10):
Why hello, Mike, Mike get fifty years old and you
dated younger women.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
Why, Mike, Why?
Speaker 4 (04:18):
I mean, like, like my man said, the older women
that come with a lot of package in a lot
of ways.
Speaker 5 (04:23):
Mike, you ain't got no baggage, Mike, Mike, you ain't
got no baggage. You let Mike finish because this is
just a silly conversation. Mike, you're fifty years old, you're
a black man in America. You ain't got no baggage.
You ain't got no trauma.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
Nah, not really, you're a liar. You've been in therapy.
Speaker 5 (04:35):
Nah.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Okay, yeah, nothing's ever happened to you in your life.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
You got I'm just saying.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
I'm just saying you got kids.
Speaker 4 (04:41):
I mean, a man likes to feel special, you know.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Mike, do you have kids? Mike, do you have kids?
Speaker 4 (04:47):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (04:48):
Okay, so you got mad baggage according to Marcus Houston,
because if you were a fifty year old woman with
four kids, you'd be having mad baggage.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Mike, come on, let's stop be in there.
Speaker 4 (04:57):
My kids are over thirty.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
All my kids are grown, should be you fifty, so.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
They're not really bagging.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Mike is saying what Marcus Houston is saying, and not
that I agree, but I'm saying that a young a
lot of older men choose younger women because one they
feel like they can mold them and make them do
what they want. And two, a lot of people feel
that younger women their bodies are not reaching gravity.
Speaker 5 (05:21):
Man, you don't stop saying that.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
That is definitely what people say. Who is people?
Speaker 5 (05:29):
You gotta stop this, bro. This is crazy. This is
crazy talking talking this morning. This guy is crazy. This
guy is out there telling all the older women y'all
flabby and sick. Did I say that older women looking
like Larry Holmes flabby and sick?
Speaker 1 (05:42):
That's what you're saying.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
You're not saying. But listen, this is a good point
to Marcus made. They don't need a man. That's how
they talk. Men need to feel needed and wanted, not
they don't need to be with a woman that. I
don't need no man to do this. I don't need
no fan fit I mean, then, I mean what I mean?
What do they need you for?
Speaker 5 (06:00):
Y'all act like older women don't do that? By the way,
I'm envy knows. I'm a I'm a You know I
love older women. You like them over fifty?
Speaker 1 (06:09):
I do? I love I love sixty. So that's what
I like them seasoned. Okay, that's what I like, all right.
Speaker 5 (06:16):
But me and my wife have a great relationship and
we protect and provide for each other like we need
each other. Like, what is this thing that y'all have
where y'all need a woman to like want?
Speaker 1 (06:26):
Y'all y'all say I need to mold a woman like that?
Don't know. I'm just telling you what this is. I
don't know. I don't agree.
Speaker 5 (06:31):
I need to feel wanted. I don't need I need
a woman to want me and need me? And what
is that?
Speaker 1 (06:35):
What is that?
Speaker 5 (06:36):
Kevin More the insecurities y'all haven't dealt with Kevin.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
We're talking about consusedon what's your thoughts?
Speaker 4 (06:42):
I think you but I think her parents are crazy.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Talk to me, brother, right right.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
I want a woman to want me too, but I
want an interpaent woman at the same time. I want
a woman.
Speaker 5 (06:54):
At you said what you said, you're saying you want
a woman that uh that that that that's still that
need you, but can also do her own thing.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
Yeah, I mean, like he said, And I don't I
don't know how long they've been talking, how long they've
been speaking. But for myself, the fact that they married
at nineteen or whatever it was, it means they had
to know each other, right, And I don't think I
would allow, and I'm gonna say it allowed, but allow
my eighteen year old daughter to be around somebody that old.
Speaker 1 (07:20):
That's just name. First of all, we got I got
four daughters. You got four daughters.
Speaker 5 (07:23):
Imagine a man, a grown ass man like that, saying
I can mold her. What does that even mean? Like
you didn't do your you didn't do your job as
a father. I didn't do my job as a father.
If it's an old man out here talking about I'm
going to mold her, all.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Right, Well, eight hundred and five eighty five, one oh
five to one. Let's have this discussion some more with
taking your calls to.
Speaker 5 (07:42):
Choose more violence. I don't know who called more violence
this morning. You and Marcus Houston, what are you talking?
V said everything drops after this guy is crazy.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
Let's talk about it at the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
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