Second Date Update

Episode Transcript

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It's the second date update Mojo inthe morning. Why are you not getting
a call back after you went ona date? We're going to find out,
Uh, Tanner on with us thismorning, Tanner? Did you guys?
You guys met on which was it? Tinderbund? Where was it?
It was Hinge? It was ahinge Okay, so you guys met on
Hinge, which I always still tryto figure out which one of these apps

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was like the best one, yeah, or any of them? Right,
it's hard. So you guys metand then what happened? You guys just
started talking to each other? Yeah, you know, we started messaging back
and forth, chatting back and forth, texting, and then did you guys
finally get together and go out?Yeah? Yeah, so we met like

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halfway between our places where where welive, and like get a little pub.
And how do you think things wentwhen you guys met? You know,
I thought it started well because ourtext conversations were so good, but
yeah, it sort of smell offpretty quickly as we started ordering food.

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It's just kind of tank. Idon't really know what happened, all right,
So we're going to find out what'sgoing on. Why is it that
things went well in the beginning,and then all of a sudden, you're
not getting any messages back. Lenais on the phone with us. Lina,
you've been a tough one to trackdown. Are you okay with your
voice on the radio? Yeah?Hey, Lena, it's Mojo in the

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morning. We're doing a thing calledthe Second Date Update. Will you say
hello to Tanner? Hi? Hey? That ha hi kind of was interesting?
Is that? A? Ha haha ha? Hi? Like I'm
embarrassed that I haven't called you?Or what was that? I don't,

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I don't, I don't know.He's fine, he's fine. Is there
a guy that's listening to this thingwould want to be told you're just fine?
What's going on? What? So? Are you purposely not given Tanner
any response to any of his messages? Uh? Yeah, you know,

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I just didn't really work out.Can you explain why? Just to give
him a little bit of a thoughtor Tanner, do you have any questions
you want to ask her? Yeah? Just why? Real? Well,
I mean, you didn't do anythingwrong. I just don't like have feelings
for you, and I don't thinkthat's gonna happen. Like it's all good,

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Okay, Just weren't feeling it didn'tdidn't Yeah, there wasn't something specific
that happened or that he did orsaid or yeah I want to know.
Uh. Well, it's just likehe's not like he's perfectly cool, but
he's just not that like chill andlike we like ordered food, like we

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went out. He's cool. Iordered food and he like didn't really eat
anything, and I was like,do you want some of this? And
he's like no, I'm training fora fitness show. And it's just like,
you know, it's all good,but that's not very fun and I
just like want to be with someonewho can like eat fries with me.

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Wait, so you guys met ata pubby said, and he was ordering
healthy he didn't order anything. Iordered some apps and like just you know,
stuff to like eat as we chat, and he didn't eat anything.
That is kind of that's the worst. If I order how greenopoverse, you

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better be eating those of me.What's what's the story? What? What
are you training for? It's aBodybild competition. I've been training for it
for a couple of months. Now, what did you drink? Water?
Water? Wait? So the guygoes on a date. He doesn't eat,

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he doesn't drink, he's having water. But I like to give it
up for Lena, for the factthat Lena actually still was true to herself
and she ordered a bunch of stuff. I appreciate that. Do people hate
that when they go on a datewith somebody and the date doesn't doesn't order,
or doesn't eat, or doesn't doanything. It's so weird. I

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feel very like I don't like Lena'sattitude about this because I think if the
shoe was on the other foot andsomebody wouldn't call me back, ghosted me
over the fact that I did ordid not eat something, it would make
me so uncomfortable. I think that'sweird behavior. So have you ever gone
on a date, Megan and youdidn't feel comfortable eating in front of another

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person? Oh? All the time? Every time. I don't like eating
in front of anybody. I wonderif, though, and Lina, please
correct me if I'm wrong, becauseI'm totally putting words in your mouth right
now. But if if that wereme in that position, I would think
to myself, is this what arelationship is going to be? Like?
He's gonna he's gonna be on theselike crazy kicks all the time, and

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maybe she is just thinking I can'tdo that. But why does it matter?
It's not like does but I thinkI think it would matter if he
said we shouldn't be eating that.That's not that's a great point. Great,
I'm just not really interested in eatingthat. I'm working towards the goal
mark. What did you want tosay? Buddy? So I don't understand.

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If it didn't go wrong, justtake them And I would say that
with every second day update though,Yes, yeah, you know, why
why not just get back to himand say, listen, I'm just not
interested. I mean, you knowwhatever. It's just like some guy I
met didn't seem to go that well. I thought he also thought that,
so I was just like, whatever, okay, so you didn't even with

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his messaging you, you didn't thinkthat the guy still wanted to hear from
you. Yeah, I don't know. They should have just went bowling if
I know for a fact that I'mnot going to eat anyway, and then
why would I sit down at it? You know, we're smoothie, yeah,
yeah, by yourself like a weirdo, and that's not fun. Eight
four four Mojo Live eight four foursix six five six five for it.

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I would love to turn this alittle bit. I would like to maybe
not make it about just Lena andTanner. I'd like to make it about
you who went on a date andwent all out ordering and that person that
they went on a date with,like ordered like a side Caesar salad or
something. Yeah, or water eightfour four Mojo Live. Because there is
nothing at all worse than having somethinglike that happened. My first day with

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Chelsea was Olive Garden. We didall you can eat breadsticks and salad and
pasta and all the rest of thatstuff, and I knew that I was
going to be able to eat forthe rest of my life. Adam,
what's going on? Megan just convincedme to change my mind because I thought,
you know, this isn't a bigdeal. He's training. You should
see, this is what he's into. But she's right, because if the

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shoe was flipped on the other side, I think it would be some type
of feelings. But yeah, I'mI'm with Megan on this and it's just
come along that it's a weird.It's the whole thing is weird. Yeah,
he probably should have went somewhere else. And formed of. But she
probably was attracted to him partly becauseit looks I'm assuming I came in late.
Yeah yeah, what what attracted you? Let's ask her? What attracted

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you? Lena to Tanner? Imean he's cute and he seemed funny,
and then it turns out but hewas just like a little like look truly
all good, but like he justis a little more you know, a
tape then you know, is hisconversation as boring as is ordering at a
at a restaurant? He's what's thatis? He? Is he good?

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Can he? Can he have conversation? Yeah? I mean you know,
yeah, okay, because I'm wonderingwhat the hell they're talking about and how
pissed off that waitress was at thatbar that you went to that you guys
aren't ordering? What's going on?Brie? Hi? Hi? Hey?
So I have. First of all, I had my two ten year old
daughters in the car and we listenedto every single morning. We love it,

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We love you guys, Thank you. We'll keep it clean too with
them. This is actually a veryclean second date update. Speaking of clean,
how clean is this man's eating?What's going on? I was the
one who ordered just talktails and mydate ordered food and I just ate the
Texas Roadhouse rolls and butter are yougoing to eat? And I was like,

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no, these rolls are good.Yeah, that I ended up pregnant.
I'm that one too more. Hencethe child in the car right now,
I love that too. Shoes inthe back seat from that I called
about last week. But by theway, I just want you to know

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I never knew that the roles fromTexas Roadhouse could get a woman pregnant,
but they can. Uh, Liz, what did you want to say about
dating Tanner? I'm just saying datinga bodybuilder does not sound like a fun
thing in the fitness and you're tryingto like go on a date with someone
and then you find out they're oneof those people that like goes on these

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kicks and no offense to bodybuilders.That's their thing, right, But I'm
just saying, and that was thatwould sound awful. That's kind of my
point is I think if if shefigured out why he wasn't eating and what
he does, and she's just thinking, I don't I can't be with somebody
who that is their their life.I do understand that. I mean that

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is a lifestyle that is very,very hard to be a part of if
you are not into it. Bythe way, I can say that because
I know a lot of people whoare in that industry. So it's you
know, just so you just soyou know, dating a bodybuilder is not
any worse than dating a radio personthat talks about their show the entire time.
So that I be so bold,I have it in my profile,

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so it's not like I coud it. It says bodybuilder who eats water Hayley,
what's up? Yeah. So Iwent on a first date with a
guy who during dinner was naming allthese red flags, including girls who only
eats galad while I was eating asalad because it didn't like anything on the

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vendial. So he said a redflag was a girl that just orders salad
in there you were at a restaurant, Yeah, yep. And then after
the date, after he named allthe red flags, which ninety percent of
them were saying, I did that, I didn't say the flag. After
a second date and I had totell now, that's funny, what's up,
Morgan High, it's moje in themorning, Hi, I say run.

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My ex boyfriend was very in thefitness and he wouldn't even eat my
birthday cake. Oh hey, doyou like Yeah? This is the home
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