(06/26) GaS Hour 3 - #Swampwatch

Gary and Shannon talk with Justin Worsham about Teen's mental health, Will you child be a drunk, and #Swampwatch.

Episode Transcript

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This is Gary and Shannon and you'relistening to KFI AM six forty, the
Gary and Shannon Show on demand onthe iHeartRadio app. We've got some answers.
K CAL nine is reporting the originaldriver of this Audi Suv was taken
into custody during an initial traffic stopin Costa Mesa. Yes, a female

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passenger jumps behind the wheel and takesoff. I knew it, and the
chase begins. Yep, you wereright, So okay, they have found
the car again. By the way, Yes, they have found the car.
It appears that the helicopter, theSheriff's Department helicopter, never lost it,
so the TV stations because of allof the air restrictions flight restrictions around
lax I, had a hard timekeeping track of it and basically just followed

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the Sheriff's Department helicopter where they could. And they have picked it back up
to pull it a ball boulevard exitat Venice Boulevard. Yes, I forgot,
this is right where I told herto go. Because this is a
Culver City area, you're gonna runinto a lot more of these SUVs,
probably big white Audi suv appears tobe an x five recent within the last

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couple of years, so it's apretty pretty new vehicle. Channel seven has
here clocked at ninety miles. Howballsy her boyfriend or whoever gets taken into
custody, she jumps behind the wheeland takes off. Holy hell, that
is one ballsy broad Were they fighting, No, they were not fighting.

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They may have been fighting well,because they've obviously been engaged in some sort
of criminal behavior today. It's earlytoo, it's eleven o'clock. You've been
lunchtime, not even lunch time,and we're involved in criminal behavior. You
got to get some food in you. That's probably what it is. People
have listened to this show. Sometimesyou're just hungry. I had to get
a bag of goldfish. I washungry. You also ate a bag of
peanuts. Yes, I offered youan apple. I know, but look

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at that size of that apple.She just came dangerously close to mowing down
a pedestrian and the crosswalk. Sowhat'd you say, I said, look
at the size of it. SouthSupulveda and National Boulevard there in La and
flying through some of these intersections,reaching speeds of looked like ninety miles an

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hour. Earlier on Sepulvida. Ido like these smaller apples because then I
can eat one without wasting any ofit, and that don't feel bad.
And then if you don't finish it, you know, in one commercial break,
then it just gets brown. SoI end up wasting a lot of
the big apple. So the smallerapples make more sense. You got to
eat it faster, That's what I'vedone. Still on Sepulvita, approaching exhibition

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there in the Cheviot Hills area,making their way under the the rail line.
It looked like this is right wheremy news vehicle caught fire. Is
that what the black spot on thepavement was? No, it was contained
to the vehicle on to Pico.Made a left onto Pico, so heading
west on Pico away from Sint Pulvida. Now behind a building for one of

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these cameras or we're not seeing exactly, but looks like it's headed under the
freeway there west Pico head. Andagain it's getting a headache thinking of all
this traffic in that area. Thereshe is, yeah, man, just
moving along too. Do you thinkshe's waiting for Justin Worsham and the parenting

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segment? She could be. Imean for what you watch on Wednesday.
She wants to stay in the caruntil she gets to hear that. You
ever run through one of these?I mean, we've been in LA for
twenty years, right in pursuit?Yeah? No, Unfortunately I've had one
past me before. Did you hearthe story about Laura Ingle and Sacramento?

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I was there when she were there? Okay, Yeah, where she rolled
up It was a guy who stolea big rig. Yeah, it was
right, and she drove up nextto him. It's so awesome. I
love that so much. She gotin a little bit of trouble for that.
Well what are you gonna do?Why you make friends with the cops?
Well, right there at the Olympicand the four five, it appears

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that they've lost it again. I'mtelling you, it's a mess out there
West La. And again SUVs.One of the lessons I think we can
learn from today is if you're goingto run for the cops, do it
in a relatively new mid size whitesuv. Yes, because there's a million
of them out there, right,Okay, Well, we'll keep it.
It's probably the most common color ofsuv. White is definitely the most common

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color of cars. So anyway,we'll check, we'll keep an eye on
it. It's time for swamp watch. How about that swamp is horrible?
Government doesn't work. It makes itlike a reality TV show. Bad.
Always a pleasure to be anywhere fromWashington, d c. Hey, Joe,

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A town hall to clearly built ona swamp and in so many ways
still a swamp. I have abunch of malarkee, he said the swamp.
I said, Oh, that's sohe'll keep you happen. Mansh.
You know the thing. A coupleof big rulings that came out of the
Supreme Court today, one of themon purpose and the other one may have
been an accident. Will explain.But the Supreme Court has rejected a challenge

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against the Biden administration that accused itof improperly colluding with social media companies to
censor social media posts that were deemedmisinformation. Whether it was Elections COVID nineteen
something like that. Sixty six tothree decision not along ideological lines. The
High Court said that the plaintiffs didnot have standing. So you had Samuel

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Alito, Clarence Thomas, and NeilGorsuch as the dissent Amy Cony Barrett wrote
in the majority opinion. To establishstanding, the plaintiffs must demonstrate a substantial
risk that in the near future they'regoing to suffer an injury that is traceable
to a government defendant and redress bythe injunction they seek, and no plaintiff
carried that burden. Basically that thepeople who sued in this case Attorney's General

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a couple social media users that theycould not prove that they would have been
harmed. The only ones, basedon that kind of logic, the only
ones that would have been able tosue, would have been the social media
companies themselves. So this is dismissedon standing, but it could still be
brought up if social media companies eventuallysued the government to try to prevent this

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from happening. It will be somethingthat comes up again. It'll be an
ongoing conversation because the lines are alittle blurred, all right, Gillory Clinton
is way. The other ruling thatapparently came out was the Supreme Court inadvertently
and briefly uploaded what it said wasa document, not necessarily the opinion,
but a document about a ruling thathad to do with Idaho's ban on abortions.

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It appears to indicate that Idaho wouldbe required to will allow emergency access
to abortions, even though otherwise Idahoahas banned abortions altogether. That apparently is
supposed to come out maybe tomorrow orFriday, but somehow it got posted to
the Supreme Court website for a shorttime earlier today. Hillary Clinton is weighing

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in on the debate tomorrow night betweenBiden and Trump. We'll tell you what
her thoughts were. I don't knowwho asked or who wanted to know,
but they're mildly interesting. And sawa talkback that demonstrates the problem with political
discussions. Oh okay, is itsomebody else calling me a dumbass? Nope,
got it. Gary and Shannon willcontinue right after this. You're listening

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to Gary and Shannon on demand fromKFI AM six forty. This stolen suv
and a police pursuit. This hasbeen going on for quite some time.
Apparently started in Costa Rica, CostaRica. No, sorry, Coasta Mesa.
He's wrong. This is such directkarma for everything I've said about Joe

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Biden. It's Costa Rica. Mybrother's going to Costa Rica in a couple
of weeks it started, Costa Ricamade its way to Orange Kelly, Costa.
Mesa had started when they were takinga guy into custody who was driving

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the car. There was a femalein the car. She jumps behind the
wheel as they're taking him into custodyand she takes off ends up in West
LA. Now she's in del Reyright now, that's not it. Everybody's
gotten lost because there's so many whiteSUVs. Yeah, you're going to see
this driving around later today when youdrive home, you're going to see a

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million white of those kind of midsized SUVs. And this is one of
them that they're chasing. It's alate model Auti. It appears to be
an X five so and it's white. And there's I mean, every time
this thing goes under a bridge orbehind a building or something like that,
the TV crews have a hard timepicking it up again because like even that
chat shot right there, it's rightnext to a BMW and they look similar

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in very similar. Everybody from aboveuh huh, you can't tell where it
is. A point earlier, whenthey were close to Lax and they kind
of got they had to pull backbecause of the flight restrictions and the whole
thing just turned into a mess.I have breaking swamp news. Oh Okay.
At six pm tomorrow here in LosAngeles, RFK Junior will hold what

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he's calling the Real Debate in responseto his exclusion from Thursday night's CNN debate
with Joe Biden and Donald Trump.The Real Debate, the location of which
has not been disclosed, but theywill say that it's going to be held
at a studio in LA with alive audience and will let voters see the
presidential debate as it's supposed to be. Okay, Biden, Trump, Kennedy

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to decide for themselves which candidate willbest serve them over the coming four years
with work. I don't know,with all due respect, I think what
r f K. Well, it'llbe they'll tape it, it'll be available
ast. Is it something where theyplay the real debate and then they hit
pause and he responds, uh,I guess, but then you extended out,

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you know, instead of ninety minutes. But at least you'll get his
comment on whatever they're talking about.It's actually it's a smart move to do
it. Yeah, I just wantedto get coverage. I know A lot
of people are upset that he's noton the stage, and I know a
lot of people want to. Alot of people have decisions or may have
made conclusions about who he is andwhat he thinks. But to hear him

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answer questions, I think he couldpotentially change a lot of minds. We
talked yesterday about the poll out ofGeorgia, specifically that Atlanta Atlanta Journal Constitution
poll that said that Joe Biden supportamong the younger voters between eighteen and twenty
nine has absolutely cratered RFK Junior.So it puts Donald Trump at getting like

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thirty seven percent of the vote eighteento twenty nine in Georgia. That RFK
comes in at about twenty seven percent, like a ridiculously high number, and
Joe Biden somewhere down around twelve percent. That that many younger voters are interested
in RFK Junior, And if theydo that right and play up whatever that
turns into whatever the video ends upbeing and blasted on social media, they

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have a better chance of attracting thoseyounger voters. Do they like RFK Junior
because he is RFK Junior or dothey like him because he's someone that's not
Biden or Trump. I think that'sthe I don't think they if you're if
you're under the age of fifty orsixty, you don't care about the connection
to Kennedy, like you don't careabout the name. It doesn't mean the

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same to you as if you're avoter over the age of sixty. Yeah,
so eighteen to twenty. I thinkit's just that they're not that he's
not the old guy, and hecan walk around without a shirt on,
and he can and he's a burder, I mean a falcon or not a
birder. That's a different thing.And he hikes works out a lot.
Okay, what are you my wife? Of course he works out. That's

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what people do. They stay healthy. No, not that one. I
was going to play this one.This is the problem I think with what
we talk about when it comes topolitics. Well, i'll tell you what.
Let's do that after we talk aboutHillary Clinton. Okay. Hillary Clinton
says that Joe Biden is at adisadvantage for the debate. She wrote an

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op ed in The New York Times, and she says that Trump unleashed a
blizzard of interruptions, insults, andlies that overwhelmed the moderators and did a
disservice to the voters during her threedebates against Trump. She also says it
was a waste of time to tryto refute Trump's arguments like in a normal
debate. She accused him of wantingto rant and rave in part because he

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likes to avoid giving straight answers abouthis unpopular positions like abortion, tax breaks,
selling our planet to big oil companies. Huh. She says, Unfortunately,
mister Biden starts from a disadvantage becausethere's no way he can spend as
much time preparing as I did eightyears ago. Being president isn't just a

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day job. It's an everything,everywhere, all at once job. Okay,
so wait a minute. Now,she's lowering expectations for Joe Biden when
even Republicans and Donald Trump are saying, you know, he's a pretty good
debater, He's pretty good at whathe does well. They want to say
that. So it looks even worsefor Biden, right, and she wants
to temper expectations. Okay, Sohere's my point. We were talking earlier

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about how Gavin Newsom is going tobe at the debate, and we were
discussing that It's probably not the greatestlook for Democrats to invite this guy who
is such a contrast to Joe Biden, very least if all you did was
look at public speaking. Gavin Newsomis a much better public speaker than Joe
Biden is. And I said,you said, that's an awful idea to

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show that contrast and bring it intosuch a bright light. That is the
debate, which, of course youcan hear the CNN Presidential Debate tomorrow night
at six pm on CNN and simulcasthere on Cafe Den Gay is flaring up.
This is the issue. How doyou declare your love for Donald Trump?
We done? Thank you love him? Gary. That was quite a
rant, and you just did declareyour love for Trump. Okay. It's

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that binary black and white thinking thathas us in this position where seventy percent
of Americans don't want those two guysto be the only two choices that we
have for president. Right, Soyou hate this guy, that means you
must love that guy. You lovethat guy, which means you must hate
that It's a very silly binary wayof speaking. And unfortunately, I'll say

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this out loud because I don't thinkanybody it's lazy, it's intellectually lazy.
Well, go ahead, enjoy yourday driving around. Would you like you
jeopardy question that seems to bring Americatogether. Yes, medical abbreviations for one
thousand dollars In met speak, aheart attack is an m I. This

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infarction myocardial? Yes, what ismyocardio? Ding? Ding ding? Justin
Worsham. When we come back,we'll be talking about teenager's mental health.
Also parenting styles that land your kidin the drunk tank. Oh great,
bye bye, have fun in thedrunk tank. You're listening to Gary and

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Shannon on demand from KFI AM sixforty. The Supreme Court may have slipped
up somehow. Today it appears poisedto allow emergency abortions in Idaho if a
pregnant patient's health is at risk.It's according to a new report. Bloomberg
was first to say that a copyof the opinion was briefly posted today on

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the Court's website, even though theyweren't expected to rule on this. Today
suggest the Court will conclude that itshould not have gotten involved in the case
so quickly, and will actually reinstatea court order that had allowed hospitals in
Idaho to perform emergency abortions to protecta pregnant patient's Oh does the Supreme Court
continue to screw up like this?How do you accidentally post a document from

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the Supreme Court on a decision thatis a hotly contested issue in the country
right now. I don't know,but this is the second time something has
been accidentally upliftding. You never drunkdialed someone. I'm not the Supreme Court.
I think people are drunk at thesame they're human beings that we put
on a pestal. I mean,come on, well, and I also
don't think it's Sonya soda myor sittingin front of her keyboard going right,

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exactly which folder do I put itin? Listen, I'm gonna tell you.
An unpopped the story about when Iwas a board op here and we
have to do the test of theemergency broadcast system. I was mistrained and
I thought that I was supposed toplay. This would be my fault because
I put I didn't run the test. I thought I was just supposed to
log it, so it didn't goout. One of the engineers came in

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and said, did you do it? I said, yep, I did
it, thought I did it right. A month and a half goes by
and an old boss that we hadhere came in and said, hey,
there was a mistake and you didn'tdo the emergency test and that could lead
to a quarter of a million dollarfine. And I said, oh,
is there a binder somewhere that sayswhen we're supposed to do it or somewhere
not. He's like, well,no, as well, is there one
of those signs of the eighteen piecesof paper behind me that I was supposed

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to read. He's like, well, no, people just know it.
I said, seems like a lotof trust to put in somebody making barely
minimum wage my guy. For aquarter of a dollar fine, I bet
you that's what happened, right.The company would cover it for Did we
just admit that we didn't play theemergency we a test? Did I?
Did? I am here? Phil? Come after me? I was at

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the board seven years ago. Ifyou want to come get some it's I
think it's knocking on the door.Ten Actually Statute to Limitations seven O seven
and a day. Yeah, we'regood, you're good. Justin Warsham has
joined us. Sorry to interrupt yourhead about parentings, parenting stuff with Justin
and he comes in here and Ithink we're just start charging you for the

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time the time that we give youbecause more than fair, I feel like
we're helping you out quite a bit. How did that work if I sponsored
my own segment? Like, isthat it's done? It's done for all
the time? All right, Okay, Well I'll talk to DMAC and sales.
And this is a great topic.Yale Medicine actually put out this article

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Kafe Caatella about specifically about how socialmedia affects mental health, and it's a
guide for parents. It is important, it's a it's a topic that's gaining
momentum. We saw the Unified SchoolDistrict talk about banning phones in school,
not necessarily just because of the phones. I think the most egregious part of

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the smartphones right now in terms ofaffecting our kids is the social media aspect.
The whole thing about the Anxious generation. That book, the great book
I just finished by doctor Jonathan Hateis all specifically about the impact that social
media has through the smartphone, andthere's so many different ways that it can
affect your kid. And what's interestingis that in this article that I found

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they actually talk about some benefits whichI have not really heard a lot about.
Some actual survey data from twenty twentytwo that said that social media helps
teenagers feel more accepted. That's fiftyeight percent of those surveyed like they have
people who can support them through toughtimes, sixty seven percent they have a
place to show their creative side,seventy one percent, and eighty percent said

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that they are more connected to what'sgoing on in their friends' lives. So
this has me wondering that not thatI'm saying that it's worth bullying or all
of the horrible things that come withthe negatives of it, but I just
I just feel like there's lots ofsituations, like I feel like when I
was a kid, there were twoit was cable TV and it was video
games, and then maybe peppered inthere's some rap music for a while,

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that that's going to that's going todestroy American society as we know it,
and it's ruining our children. AndI'm not getting up on a soapbox saying
that everybody should have social media,but I do believe that there is a
chance here that that as an Idon't like it. I'm not a fan.
If I didn't need it for myjob, I wouldn't use it.
My wife loves it, it's justnot I don't know. I think certain

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people are drawn to it. Well, I would say this in that In
that is that your wife? Nope? Okay, In that poll, you're
asking kids about what they feel agood point. Yeah, And those those
polls of high school kids are neveraccurate because they're so they at least don't
reflect the reality of it. Theyreflect the perception of what these kids think

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about social media. I feel likeI'm more accepted. I feel like I'm
in touch with more friends than Iwas before. I feel like the you
know, that's an outlet for mycreativity. But none of that comes true
in the real world. None ofthat exists. I mean, if they
know that they want it and they'remaking excuses for why they need it,

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but is that everybody sure? Butwe're talking about at a time when because
they tell me all the time,as a realtor, I need to have
a social media presence. Yeah,And I don't know if I hate it.
I don't know anybody who needs tohave a social media presence. I
think I do that because I getmy news alerts, so it's like,
if I have a couple of daysoff, like, well, I've got
to look at my phone to seewhat the news is. Do I really
need to or here's catch up whenI come back to work. Here's where

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I completely contradict myself is that Iwould argue that you guys are public figures,
that there is an element to socialmedia that your audience wants to feel
like they have a direct line ofconnection. That's why you have this talk
back feature, which is awesome asa as a listener to the show.
It's awesome that I can just hita button and I can talk to the
people that I love to listen to, and that you get to hear other
people and their thoughts in that instance. So the connection, I think is

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there, and I hope it's notcoming across. Like I'm arguing with you,
I think the whole world could existwithout it. What your mouth.
I like to talk back because youcan hear people's voices and they're real,
you know, there's a more realpoint. And the farther we get away
from the actual face to face interaction, right, that's the best way to
do it. Think about the eventsthat we've done news and rules where we

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get to actually see and talk topeople, that's the ultimate. Yes,
we get to hear their voices,but we don't get to see their faces
or read their body language. Sothat's a step down, you know.
After that, it's like an emailwhere we get to see their language,
see it, read it, butwe don't hear the tone of voice,
and we lose all that other stuff. And that's when you get into that
social media aspect of as the mostbasic simple like or heart or thumbs up,

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you don't get to know anything aboutit. Is somebody being sarcastic when
they did that because you just postedthis, describe or the screen about how
you were so sad because something happened, and somebody thumbs up your wait,
like you just like the context ofa text message, you can't tell.
Yeah. So I think where weall could probably agree in which we come

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down on a lot of these overalltopics, is that moderation, right,
some form of balance. If yourkid is hyper obsessed with what other people
think about them, whether social mediaexists or not, they have an issue
that needs they need help and theyneed support with and if your kid is
not sleeping because they're death scrolling allnight and they can't get up and go
to school. Then yes, yougot to do the Gary Hoffman technology rule

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where it's not in the bedroom.That's one of the advices that they give.
It's also important that they talk aboutin the points that parents follow the
rules that they suggest for their kids, so you can't be jokingly or making
fun of your kid calling them ascreen ager when you're at the dinner table
just looking through your Facebook feed.It's a excellent time, all right.
Coming up next to study published inthe Journal of Behavioral Sciences points out what

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parenting style may lead your kid tohit the old bottle. You're listening to
Gary and Shannon on demand from KFIA M six forty. I totally agree
with you about not being able toread somebody's body language on this talkback feature.
And I would love for you tobe able to read my body language.

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So maybe we could set that up, all right, talk to later.
What do you think I mean?You could give them my number right
now? I think it was tome specifically? Really, Oh, I
thought it was me. Oh itwas Gary, Oh for you? Okay,
it doesn't make me any more comfortable. What do you think he was
doing with his body while he leftthat talkback feature that? How do I
turn these headphones off in this momenther voices, I want to use the

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noise cancelation of the over the earfeature without hearing the radio sounds coming into
my tubes. Justin Warsham was joined. A parenting is parenting styles that affect
whether a child uses drinking to copewith stress. Yeah, This research was
published in the journal Behavioral Sciences,So they did that. Robert Lehman,

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a professor and chair of Health SciencesDepartment at Northwestern University, worked on this
team where he went back and lookedat data to see if there was some
kind of connection between a parenting styleand what that predicted as far as drinking
habits of the children that grew upwith that. To me, it's not
shocking that if you are on thepolar opposite end, so you could be
a permissive or authoritarian parent, becausethis is the one where I always get

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mixed up. Authoritative is what youwant to be. Authoritarian is too far
super strict, right, like atyrant. If you are super strict or
super permissive, your children are morelikely to develop drinking habits. If you're
permissive, especially if you have apermissive mother, it's more likely because the
kid has more anxiety and stress.I think it's that thing that kids need

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boundaries, they need kind of structure, and when they're just kind of left
their own devices, they feel lost. And then if you're authoritarian too strict,
then when they get away from you, they don't know how to handle
anything because they've never been exposed toany of it. Wow. There's also
which I thought was interesting because Iwould argue, and maybe I'm wrong,
that all of us sitting here todayhad parents who would like let us take

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a hit off of their beer whenwe were probably in the ten to thirteen
age range, and that was nobig deal in the houses that you grew
up in. Am I wrong?Uh? I don't know. If it
was permitted, it wasn't protect Theywouldn't protect their glasses. How's that?
So? If dad had a beerwhile he's sitting on the fence, while
he's in the garage doing something,I'd run up in the front yard and

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make sure he wasn't looking and takea little hit of that. How old
were you when that started to bea thing. I don't know nine or
ten, okay, just I wasmore curious than anything. It's not like
I like it. I remember whenmy mom had a can't Now my mom
was not a drinker, but Iremember two specific instances when we were watching

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TV with the tray tables and shehad a can of is with Olympia Gold,
the Gold can beer, and Ihad a sip of that and I
said, oh, what's that?You know it? And she says,
oh, this is a beer andI said, oh, can I have
a sip? Sure? I tryit? Not for me. Gross.
Another time she had a glass ofbrandy. Again my mom's not a drinker,

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making her sound a little bit likeI have two memories, and I
said, oh, there, canI taste that. That was the first
and last time I ever drank brandybecause I thought it was so gross.
I think exposing kids at a youngage to alcohol because I don't drink beer.
I don't drink brandy. It's like, ew is you kind of a
good impression to leave them with wehave before they start drinking Bartles and James

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and it tastes like candy. Ihave four nieces and nephews and two children
of my own. I have astepmother who is Portuguese, who after she
would get out of kindergarten, shewould go to the local deli and have
a glass of wine and cheese whenshe was like five or six years old,
right, goddess, Yeah, sheand all of the kids would do
the thing of dipping their pacifier uncoached, dip the pacifier in her wine and
just put it in their mouth.None of them really grew up with like

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big drinking problems. Nobody, they'reall it's all the same thing, that
curious age of around ten, whereeverybody seems to be curious. But according
to the data in this research,the later that your kids starts to experience
any kind of alcoholic beverage the betteras far as developing a drinking problem.
The other thing is, I'm curiousabout and it doesn't really say much in
this study specifically, but if youhad a family where you knew that there

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were problems with addiction or alcohol,do you tell your kids that, ooh,
you know what if they when theyget into that age where they were
kids probably know, sixteen, seventeen, eighteen, something like that, and
you go, hey, just soyou know, it's kind of been in
our side of the family or thekids know if there Bob's a drunk,
right, But I mean, dothey know it? Do they know that

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that's something they have to watch outfor in themselves? That Yeah, it's
like it's a prance because I don'twant to give him a complex. I
don't want to give them a complex. I don't want to give them an
excuse right where they're like, oh, I can't control it, it's in
my gene. I wouldn't. Yeah, and then I would not have that
conversation. I could tell you thatmy wife has I don't think anything was
official, like nobody went to anymeetings, but she has said that both

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of her parents are alcoholics and sobut she she had kind of an aversion
to it until she hit about hermid to late thirties. And now she
likes to have a glass of wine. And she'd been married to you for
long enough, I got y.Yeah. Now she's the leaders of Vodka
Lunch where she found this sweet.Yes, if I hadn't been married to
her since she was twenty one,I would cry right now. But because

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I know that's way too long,because I give her a lot of me
there is I don't hold back.When I'm in the house, she gets
all the emotions get you get justinputting on a song and dance number here
with moments of weakness, I feellike we get all a good emotion.
As scary as it makes out,she gets way more, really, way

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more an angel. In that experimentwhere you look at something through the little
toilet paper tube, like you don'tsee the rest of the world, I
feel like, justin right now thisis the toilet paper tube, might get
like a tube that you would poura concrete post in. You might get
that wide a tube as opposed toa toilet paper tube, and that the
rest of the world gets like alittle bit of a feel forget. I'm

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on radio a lot. When I'mhearing do you not feel safe enough with
us to show us the whole pie? Because I've only here thirty minutes.
If we started having more dinners,like once a month or something like that,
then you guys would probably either startdrinking more or our friendship would decline.
Well, at some point, we'regoing to have to do a live
that I'm just spitballing here. We'regoing, okay, some sort of a

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live event, not on the air, okay, but with an audience,
so maybe okay, or just goto dinner and have the event that way.
Okay, just a'll set dinner somewhere. What is the purpose of this?
I don't know. I don't know. Let's just see more of Justin
outside of you know, to makemy too. Yeah, he wants to

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make your two bigger yes, sohe can get more of me. The
bigger view is what he's Okay,Justin, thank you, Yes, but
your faith is no get out allright, enjoy the rest. Thank you
for the time. One. We'lltalk trending when we come back to Gary
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