May 13, 2021 • 8 mins
Ask Yee: Charlamagne & DJ Envy Give Destructive Relationship Advice
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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Want everybody's d j Envy Angela ye showman that we
are to breakfast club. He is out, so it's tough
for a c And if you need relationship advice, and
who do we have on the line? Good morning? Good morning? Hey?
What's your name? What's the matter? Verna? Why you sounds
so upset? Mama? Um, my boyfriend and I we lived together,
(00:26):
but he decided he does not want to be in
a relationship with me anymore. But we still live together.
We have to co exist. He doesn't drive to work
and drive him to work every morning. Oh, that has
to stop. He broke up with you, and now he
still wants the benefits of being able to be able
to sleep with you and get your car and be
able to use your car and use your lights and
your electricity and all of that. Yeah, n I gotta
(00:49):
stop right there, mama. And he doesn't have a driver's
license or a drive so I feel I wouldn't feel
bad if he did. He feel bad when he just
broke your heart and broke up with you and say
he want to be with you no more? Did he
feels like you're driving That's why he broke up with you.
You don't like your dr um. Even call him on
(01:13):
three way. Call him on three way right now, call
him on three way. I don't care. Call him on call.
What's his name? Let me he'll pick up. He don't
pick up. He don't love you. What kind of job
you got? He didn't pick up? So what do you
want us to do? Um? I just want advice? Like
(01:36):
you don't think I should stop driving him to work
and together? Yes, you love that man. You ain't going nowhere.
That pp too good. You've been having too much unprotected sex.
You ain't ready to walk in and it's a five
year relationship. So I don't want to leave exactly. Yeah,
but you gotta you know right now he's just using you.
(01:56):
The fact that he broke up with you, he could
still sleep with you, He could still use you to
take him around. You gotta stop that. You gotta let
him know, like look like like, oh, if it's over,
it's over. I'm not driving you around. No, I'm not
doing that no more. You find you're find your new
bitch to drive you that. I agree with. You gotta
set boundaries and being that he don't want to be
your man is certain um perks you don't get so
you can't be a lubra no more. Nope, you know
(02:16):
what I'm saying. You can't give him the poom poom,
you know what, none of that stuff. You gotta do
all that on his own. Treat him like a roommate.
That's right, that's it. Tell him so, I guess we're
roommates now, So treat him like a roommate. Don't have
sex with roommates. He got to sleep on the couch.
He can't sleep with you in the same bed. I
don't drive my roommates to work. That's right, all right.
You ain't gonna listen. You're gonna sleep with him the night.
(02:37):
You better listen. Watch all right, I'm gonna sleep with
him to night. Don't lie an give us I want to.
I want you to call us back next week and
tell us how this went. Please, now, Hello, who's this?
Hey mama? What's up at cne? Yes? I have a question.
(02:58):
I want to know. Do I have be mad? Or
if I being pittied? Uh? Me and my fiance and
we've been together for five years and we spend every
full holiday together like we don't even have to have
a conversation about It's just automatic and um, but this
year for Eather. He just told me two days ago that, um,
(03:19):
he was going to church and then work without you,
and like very last minute. So he told you. He's
very organized, very prompt. He is very very organized. Hong
y'all been together five years. Wait a minute, So he
said he's going to church and going to work, hanging
out with his family and didn't tell you and invite you. Yes,
(03:42):
I was talking about it the other day, trying to
see what I'm going to wear to church, and he
was like, oh, no, I'm going to church and then
I'm going to work. Well, listen, he's making he's he's
he's he's uh doing something he really shouldn't be doing
right now. He's breaking a rule. A rule is spending
holidays with his side checks. His side chick invited him
to church on Sunday and he's going with her. Yeah,
I'm not gonna lie. Sounds kind of odd that he's
(04:03):
not taking you to church and not taking you to
work when you've been together five years, You've been doing
everything with him, and that all of a sudden he
doesn't want to go with you. I'm sorry to say that.
He might he might have another family on the side. Now,
I don't think he got another family because you'll been
together five years. But he has been with this side
check for way too long, and he's getting too close
to her, and he's going with her the church on Sunday.
You go to church on Sunday. You make sure you
(04:24):
take your way as to church with him on Sunday,
and you're gonna find him east hunting with another family
and you're gonna have a fisture. You better go. What
that means? You got a call, you got over here,
you got money. You better pop up at that church
if you know what I know. That's right, pop up
at that church the way Jesus popped up on Resurrection Sunday.
(04:46):
A good luck and tell us how it works out. Okay,
thank you, alright, see that we helping lives. Love it
as eight five eight five one O five one. If
you need relationship advice, hit this now. It's the Breakfast Club.
Good morning, and let the record show a camera. Gott
Nick and Dramas brought up said that we give terrible advice.
I thought it was great advice. I think it's great.
(05:07):
Us two couples in a matter of four minutes. Well
at least we give him a reason. We're never telling
him to leave like Angela and would be like leave,
just leave. We were given him options. Hello, who's this
all right? This is Bow? How are you? Hey, Doe?
What's up? What's your question for? See any close close? Bow?
My question, it's okay. My question is, so I've been
(05:30):
with this guy for about five six years, and I'm
pan sexual, so I'm pretty much attracted to anyone with
you know, the right vibe, and we've you know, had
this open relationship going since like its inception, and he's
never utilized it. He's never been with another woman, and
I haven't been with anyone else either, And it just
(05:50):
makes me wonder, are we actolutely monogagous or why? Why
won't he utilize the option? Because it makes me not
want to utilize it? With use it yet in the relationship? No,
I haven't. He's satisfied with you. Your pain is enough,
that's right. He don't want another pain yet yet. That's
all the fact that he doesn't want another guy or
(06:13):
another girl. He just satisfied with you. You should be happy, like,
that's that's great. How long you'll been together for five years?
Come on? Yeah, you're happy with you right now? How
old y'all? Oh? Come on, yeah, I mean if if,
if your relationship lasts, you know, maybe later on in life,
y'all start exploring other things like that. But he's happy
(06:33):
with you right now. It sound to me like you
ready to get it popping with something else. Though. I
just always wondered, you know, like he's always been the
type because I look bad, but I'm really good, I promise,
So he just has this whole thing. I guess, like,
h he's wondering, like am I just gonna randomly sleep
with someone? And I'm not that type? Y'all stay together
(06:55):
and then if you decide to, you know, bring him
along or talk to him about it first. But the
fact that you'll five being strong and you haven't been
painting around, you're good. Who's the other person? Just tell us?
I know if somebody else you're interested in, who's the
other person? Don't lie? God is watching you. I have
interested in women. I really want a girlfriend, but I
don't want to like to start off and just you know,
(07:17):
get no girlfriends out here without my you know, man's
approval or anything like that. We'll start showing him the
Instagrams that you're looking at. That's all like, yeah, what
do you think of her? What do you think of her?
You know what I mean? You know, like alright, well
we got rumors on the way. We'll tell you about
Travis Scott's he's making a lot of money and we'll
tell you all about it. The Breakfast Club go more
Want everybody's d j Envy Angela ye showman that we
are to breakfast club. He is out, so it's tough
for a c And if you need relationship advice, and
who do we have on the line? Good morning? Good morning? Hey?
What's your name? What's the matter? Verna? Why you sounds
so upset? Mama? Um, my boyfriend and I we lived together,
(00:26):
but he decided he does not want to be in
a relationship with me anymore. But we still live together.
We have to co exist. He doesn't drive to work
and drive him to work every morning. Oh, that has
to stop. He broke up with you, and now he
still wants the benefits of being able to be able
to sleep with you and get your car and be
able to use your car and use your lights and
your electricity and all of that. Yeah, n I gotta
(00:49):
stop right there, mama. And he doesn't have a driver's
license or a drive so I feel I wouldn't feel
bad if he did. He feel bad when he just
broke your heart and broke up with you and say
he want to be with you no more? Did he
feels like you're driving That's why he broke up with you.
You don't like your dr um. Even call him on
(01:13):
three way. Call him on three way right now, call
him on three way. I don't care. Call him on call.
What's his name? Let me he'll pick up. He don't
pick up. He don't love you. What kind of job
you got? He didn't pick up? So what do you
want us to do? Um? I just want advice? Like
(01:36):
you don't think I should stop driving him to work
and together? Yes, you love that man. You ain't going nowhere.
That pp too good. You've been having too much unprotected sex.
You ain't ready to walk in and it's a five
year relationship. So I don't want to leave exactly. Yeah,
but you gotta you know right now he's just using you.
(01:56):
The fact that he broke up with you, he could
still sleep with you, He could still use you to
take him around. You gotta stop that. You gotta let
him know, like look like like, oh, if it's over,
it's over. I'm not driving you around. No, I'm not
doing that no more. You find you're find your new
bitch to drive you that. I agree with. You gotta
set boundaries and being that he don't want to be
your man is certain um perks you don't get so
you can't be a lubra no more. Nope, you know
(02:16):
what I'm saying. You can't give him the poom poom,
you know what, none of that stuff. You gotta do
all that on his own. Treat him like a roommate.
That's right, that's it. Tell him so, I guess we're
roommates now, So treat him like a roommate. Don't have
sex with roommates. He got to sleep on the couch.
He can't sleep with you in the same bed. I
don't drive my roommates to work. That's right, all right.
You ain't gonna listen. You're gonna sleep with him the night.
(02:37):
You better listen. Watch all right, I'm gonna sleep with
him to night. Don't lie an give us I want to.
I want you to call us back next week and
tell us how this went. Please, now, Hello, who's this?
Hey mama? What's up at cne? Yes? I have a question.
(02:58):
I want to know. Do I have be mad? Or
if I being pittied? Uh? Me and my fiance and
we've been together for five years and we spend every
full holiday together like we don't even have to have
a conversation about It's just automatic and um, but this
year for Eather. He just told me two days ago that, um,
(03:19):
he was going to church and then work without you,
and like very last minute. So he told you. He's
very organized, very prompt. He is very very organized. Hong
y'all been together five years. Wait a minute, So he
said he's going to church and going to work, hanging
out with his family and didn't tell you and invite you. Yes,
(03:42):
I was talking about it the other day, trying to
see what I'm going to wear to church, and he
was like, oh, no, I'm going to church and then
I'm going to work. Well, listen, he's making he's he's
he's he's uh doing something he really shouldn't be doing
right now. He's breaking a rule. A rule is spending
holidays with his side checks. His side chick invited him
to church on Sunday and he's going with her. Yeah,
I'm not gonna lie. Sounds kind of odd that he's
(04:03):
not taking you to church and not taking you to
work when you've been together five years, You've been doing
everything with him, and that all of a sudden he
doesn't want to go with you. I'm sorry to say that.
He might he might have another family on the side. Now,
I don't think he got another family because you'll been
together five years. But he has been with this side
check for way too long, and he's getting too close
to her, and he's going with her the church on Sunday.
You go to church on Sunday. You make sure you
(04:24):
take your way as to church with him on Sunday,
and you're gonna find him east hunting with another family
and you're gonna have a fisture. You better go. What
that means? You got a call, you got over here,
you got money. You better pop up at that church
if you know what I know. That's right, pop up
at that church the way Jesus popped up on Resurrection Sunday.
(04:46):
A good luck and tell us how it works out. Okay,
thank you, alright, see that we helping lives. Love it
as eight five eight five one O five one. If
you need relationship advice, hit this now. It's the Breakfast Club.
Good morning, and let the record show a camera. Gott
Nick and Dramas brought up said that we give terrible advice.
I thought it was great advice. I think it's great.
(05:07):
Us two couples in a matter of four minutes. Well
at least we give him a reason. We're never telling
him to leave like Angela and would be like leave,
just leave. We were given him options. Hello, who's this
all right? This is Bow? How are you? Hey, Doe?
What's up? What's your question for? See any close close? Bow?
My question, it's okay. My question is, so I've been
(05:30):
with this guy for about five six years, and I'm
pan sexual, so I'm pretty much attracted to anyone with
you know, the right vibe, and we've you know, had
this open relationship going since like its inception, and he's
never utilized it. He's never been with another woman, and
I haven't been with anyone else either, And it just
(05:50):
makes me wonder, are we actolutely monogagous or why? Why
won't he utilize the option? Because it makes me not
want to utilize it? With use it yet in the relationship? No,
I haven't. He's satisfied with you. Your pain is enough,
that's right. He don't want another pain yet yet. That's
all the fact that he doesn't want another guy or
(06:13):
another girl. He just satisfied with you. You should be happy, like,
that's that's great. How long you'll been together for five years?
Come on? Yeah, you're happy with you right now? How
old y'all? Oh? Come on, yeah, I mean if if,
if your relationship lasts, you know, maybe later on in life,
y'all start exploring other things like that. But he's happy
(06:33):
with you right now. It sound to me like you
ready to get it popping with something else. Though. I
just always wondered, you know, like he's always been the
type because I look bad, but I'm really good, I promise,
So he just has this whole thing. I guess, like,
h he's wondering, like am I just gonna randomly sleep
with someone? And I'm not that type? Y'all stay together
(06:55):
and then if you decide to, you know, bring him
along or talk to him about it first. But the
fact that you'll five being strong and you haven't been
painting around, you're good. Who's the other person? Just tell us?
I know if somebody else you're interested in, who's the
other person? Don't lie? God is watching you. I have
interested in women. I really want a girlfriend, but I
don't want to like to start off and just you know,
(07:17):
get no girlfriends out here without my you know, man's
approval or anything like that. We'll start showing him the
Instagrams that you're looking at. That's all like, yeah, what
do you think of her? What do you think of her?
You know what I mean? You know, like alright, well
we got rumors on the way. We'll tell you about
Travis Scott's he's making a lot of money and we'll
tell you all about it. The Breakfast Club go more
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