February 12, 2021 • 6 mins
My Boyfriend's Ex Doesn't Acknowledge Me When We're In Public
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Speaker 1 (00:07):
Good morning, is asking Testy, Yes, okay, I was trying
to see my boyfriend seen his ex girlfriend. Is it
okay to give her a hug in front of me
and not acknowledge me or a knowledge the situation that
made me mad? So what happened with his ex girlfriend
that you in particular don't like her? It's not that
I don't like her because I don't know her. It's
(00:28):
just a simple fact that she didn't acknowledge me. She
just ran up straight to him and seen us together
and gave him a hug, and he gave her a
hug back, and still didn't acknowledge me. So I just
wanted the way, and he thought that it was okay. Well, yes,
seeing a boy then it will be okay to hug him.
I think that it's not the hug. I think it's
also the fact that there was no acknowledgement. She didn't
(00:48):
acknowledge you, and then he didn't say, and this is
my girlfriend, Testy, Yeah, and that's the that's how you
have to let him know. That's what's not okay. I
think you can't control somebody giving your boyfriend a hug
obviously like this, What are you supposed to do about that.
You can't get mad at him for that, but what
you can hold him responsible for is, Okay, you hugged
her back, and then you didn't even say, this is
my girlfriend, and you gotta be started a conversation. I'm sorry. Yeah,
(01:12):
did you insert yourself and like, hey, how you doing?
I'm his girlfriend? No? I just looked at it like
she was crazy, and they just kept talking. So I
walked away. Yeah, I think, I well, but that is
on him. I wouldn't. And the truth is you can't
even be mad at her for that. That's on him.
She did that. He should have never allowed that to happen.
And it's the sad part is he don't understand nothing
(01:33):
that hurts me. I'm I'm his real real relationship. So
everything I tell him that don't that I don't like.
He think it's okay. I think it was meant to be.
And And the best way for you to explain it
to him is not that he's doing these things purposefully
to her too, but they do, and so you have
to tell him this is how this makes me feel
(01:54):
when you do things like this. When that happened, I
felt like I wasn't respected and I just want to
feel respected, and you have to be able to explain
that to him. That's in terms of it's not factual,
it's just an emotional thing how you feel. And I'm
sure that in his head he's thinking it's no big deal.
And you also know you would never do that to him.
Whether or not he said he's okay with it, that's
not how you move. That is exactly it. And I
(02:17):
told him that and I cry to him and pleasing him.
He just look at me like I'm crazy. Yeah, now
that's not cool at all, and you should play this
for him, but it's really just about him, you know,
being proud of you. Also not letting her feel like
she could get away with things like that, because that's
the type of thing she go home and tell her friends, Oh,
you know I did this, I did that, I get
my hug. Females taught like that, and he don't you
(02:40):
think it's okay. He think it's okay to have female friends.
And he didn't in a path on his Facebook page
and stuff like that, and you know how females is, Matthew,
So they put anything on Facebook for the people to
look at, and he just thinks, ah, that is Okay, yeah,
respect the relationship. Don't act like you out here single.
That's crazy. You can hear talking here, dude, you know
(03:02):
what we're gonna I'm sorry if I'm on the radio.
This is terrible. You know what we can call right now?
Call them on three bake ahead, Okay, give me one minute. Hello,
we are not available now. Please leave your name and
(03:25):
phone number after the big returning your call. Okay, angela, Um,
he's on voicemail right now. All right, well you can
leave it on there. You know we're on the phone
right now with your women who I would hope that
you love and she loves you too, and we want
you to be more respectful of how she feels in
certain situations and understand and represent for your women. We
(03:46):
don't need you talking to these girls that could come
out between your relationship. You gave your extra hug. You'll
didn't acknowledge your girlfriend was standing right there. You knew
she was uncomfortable, she walked away, You stayed and had
a conversation. And you cannot do things like that because
she don't felt like she had too much hour. So
you cannot let the X or any of these other
women feel like they're more important to you than your
woman or her feelings and would add anything to leave
(04:08):
something on Facebook that I'm not comfortable with. He should
understand that. Yeah, And look, this is all about her
wanting to be in this relationship and caring about you
and wanting to make things work. You should never let
outside people interfere with what you guys have going on.
If something makes her uncomfortable and it's reasonable and it's
not that bigger deal, I would assume deleting a comment
on Facebook is not a big deal. I would assume
(04:30):
that you would be able to let these women know
I have a relationship, I'm happy and she's not comfortable.
But that that's a grown and mature man thing to do. Yeah, bro,
just take it off, make your wife you happy? Man,
take it off. What's the problem? Man? You have to
let a little girl take it off? That's right. And
you can't cheat on your woman during the pandemic. Bro,
you fool around and get COVID and clamydia from a
woman during this time and we call that. He's not
(04:51):
a cheater. He's not a cheater. He's an also man.
He's not a cheater. It's just a simple thing. That
you don't acknowledge what's wrong. So if I'm telling him
does something as wrong, he tastes it and he wrong
with it. And he said, well, it's not like it is,
and it's not how you say and make it seen,
and it is. If you're looking at if somebody, mama
and somebody reach out to me and try to tell
(05:11):
me about my man that he used to have text with,
are used to why you want to let them off
your Facebook page? To your man is sleeping with people? Mama,
here real mother. You know he's not sleeping with the mama.
He's sleeping with the mama's daughter. But they both reach
out to me that was in a past, protect your
(05:35):
woman like he's doing it now. And the last thing
I want to say is don't act stupid to hang up. Yeah, yeah,
y'all said all that. That's pretty dope. Yes, that's it,
And I hope he checks his voice. Smeil got the
voicemail going, yes, hey man, you gotta stop cheating. You're
gonna get clamidia and covid broil again and we call
(05:57):
that hovid. You have to get two vaccine. Oh my goodness.
All right, thank you so much. One for clap, and
one for the COVID A don't delete, run it into
hear all of that anything, don't delete nothing, emergency sin
(06:25):
before sending with importance, press the button that makes it important,
since you gotta listen to it alright, asking eight hundred
five eight five one on five one. If you need
relationship advice, hit and the Breakfast Club group on it
Good morning, is asking Testy, Yes, okay, I was trying
to see my boyfriend seen his ex girlfriend. Is it
okay to give her a hug in front of me
and not acknowledge me or a knowledge the situation that
made me mad? So what happened with his ex girlfriend
that you in particular don't like her? It's not that
I don't like her because I don't know her. It's
(00:28):
just a simple fact that she didn't acknowledge me. She
just ran up straight to him and seen us together
and gave him a hug, and he gave her a
hug back, and still didn't acknowledge me. So I just
wanted the way, and he thought that it was okay. Well, yes,
seeing a boy then it will be okay to hug him.
I think that it's not the hug. I think it's
also the fact that there was no acknowledgement. She didn't
(00:48):
acknowledge you, and then he didn't say, and this is
my girlfriend, Testy, Yeah, and that's the that's how you
have to let him know. That's what's not okay. I
think you can't control somebody giving your boyfriend a hug
obviously like this, What are you supposed to do about that.
You can't get mad at him for that, but what
you can hold him responsible for is, Okay, you hugged
her back, and then you didn't even say, this is
my girlfriend, and you gotta be started a conversation. I'm sorry. Yeah,
(01:12):
did you insert yourself and like, hey, how you doing?
I'm his girlfriend? No? I just looked at it like
she was crazy, and they just kept talking. So I
walked away. Yeah, I think, I well, but that is
on him. I wouldn't. And the truth is you can't
even be mad at her for that. That's on him.
She did that. He should have never allowed that to happen.
And it's the sad part is he don't understand nothing
(01:33):
that hurts me. I'm I'm his real real relationship. So
everything I tell him that don't that I don't like.
He think it's okay. I think it was meant to be.
And And the best way for you to explain it
to him is not that he's doing these things purposefully
to her too, but they do, and so you have
to tell him this is how this makes me feel
(01:54):
when you do things like this. When that happened, I
felt like I wasn't respected and I just want to
feel respected, and you have to be able to explain
that to him. That's in terms of it's not factual,
it's just an emotional thing how you feel. And I'm
sure that in his head he's thinking it's no big deal.
And you also know you would never do that to him.
Whether or not he said he's okay with it, that's
not how you move. That is exactly it. And I
(02:17):
told him that and I cry to him and pleasing him.
He just look at me like I'm crazy. Yeah, now
that's not cool at all, and you should play this
for him, but it's really just about him, you know,
being proud of you. Also not letting her feel like
she could get away with things like that, because that's
the type of thing she go home and tell her friends, Oh,
you know I did this, I did that, I get
my hug. Females taught like that, and he don't you
(02:40):
think it's okay. He think it's okay to have female friends.
And he didn't in a path on his Facebook page
and stuff like that, and you know how females is, Matthew,
So they put anything on Facebook for the people to
look at, and he just thinks, ah, that is Okay, yeah,
respect the relationship. Don't act like you out here single.
That's crazy. You can hear talking here, dude, you know
(03:02):
what we're gonna I'm sorry if I'm on the radio.
This is terrible. You know what we can call right now?
Call them on three bake ahead, Okay, give me one minute. Hello,
we are not available now. Please leave your name and
(03:25):
phone number after the big returning your call. Okay, angela, Um,
he's on voicemail right now. All right, well you can
leave it on there. You know we're on the phone
right now with your women who I would hope that
you love and she loves you too, and we want
you to be more respectful of how she feels in
certain situations and understand and represent for your women. We
(03:46):
don't need you talking to these girls that could come
out between your relationship. You gave your extra hug. You'll
didn't acknowledge your girlfriend was standing right there. You knew
she was uncomfortable, she walked away, You stayed and had
a conversation. And you cannot do things like that because
she don't felt like she had too much hour. So
you cannot let the X or any of these other
women feel like they're more important to you than your
woman or her feelings and would add anything to leave
(04:08):
something on Facebook that I'm not comfortable with. He should
understand that. Yeah, And look, this is all about her
wanting to be in this relationship and caring about you
and wanting to make things work. You should never let
outside people interfere with what you guys have going on.
If something makes her uncomfortable and it's reasonable and it's
not that bigger deal, I would assume deleting a comment
on Facebook is not a big deal. I would assume
(04:30):
that you would be able to let these women know
I have a relationship, I'm happy and she's not comfortable.
But that that's a grown and mature man thing to do. Yeah, bro,
just take it off, make your wife you happy? Man,
take it off. What's the problem? Man? You have to
let a little girl take it off? That's right. And
you can't cheat on your woman during the pandemic. Bro,
you fool around and get COVID and clamydia from a
woman during this time and we call that. He's not
(04:51):
a cheater. He's not a cheater. He's an also man.
He's not a cheater. It's just a simple thing. That
you don't acknowledge what's wrong. So if I'm telling him
does something as wrong, he tastes it and he wrong
with it. And he said, well, it's not like it is,
and it's not how you say and make it seen,
and it is. If you're looking at if somebody, mama
and somebody reach out to me and try to tell
(05:11):
me about my man that he used to have text with,
are used to why you want to let them off
your Facebook page? To your man is sleeping with people? Mama,
here real mother. You know he's not sleeping with the mama.
He's sleeping with the mama's daughter. But they both reach
out to me that was in a past, protect your
(05:35):
woman like he's doing it now. And the last thing
I want to say is don't act stupid to hang up. Yeah, yeah,
y'all said all that. That's pretty dope. Yes, that's it,
And I hope he checks his voice. Smeil got the
voicemail going, yes, hey man, you gotta stop cheating. You're
gonna get clamidia and covid broil again and we call
(05:57):
that hovid. You have to get two vaccine. Oh my goodness.
All right, thank you so much. One for clap, and
one for the COVID A don't delete, run it into
hear all of that anything, don't delete nothing, emergency sin
(06:25):
before sending with importance, press the button that makes it important,
since you gotta listen to it alright, asking eight hundred
five eight five one on five one. If you need
relationship advice, hit and the Breakfast Club group on it
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