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June 11, 2025 35 mins
How Do We Get The Jeff To Declutter?

Corey's in-laws are coming in town on Saturday, and she is desperately trying to get the house in order. She has her areas maintained, but Jeff's stuff is everywhere. He has a million pairs of Nike shoes, his hot rod tires, a tire jack, miscellaneous stuff everywhere, etc. How does she approach the subject without treating him like a child? She doesn't want to feel like his mom.

How Much Would You Spend For Peace & Quiet?
According to the poll of 2-thousand U.S. adults, the average American would pay $2,521 for just one day of peace and quiet. Sure, that’s a huge amount of money, but parents would be willing to shell out even more - $1,147 more, on average.
  • The average person only gets 9.5-hours a month to themselves.
  • The biggest things standing  are work (50%), family commitments (32%), financial constraints (24%), and social obligations (22%).
  • But 13% admit they actually feel guilty when they finally get free time.
  • More than half (53%) say they need more alone time than they’re getting now, and it turns out, they’re not above being dishonest to get it.
  • More than a third (38%) confess they’ve lied to friends, family, or even their partner to get some time to themselves.
  • “I’m not feeling well” is the most common lie told (54%), followed by “I have a lot of work to do” (40%), “I have a headache” (33%) and “I have an appointment” (33%).
  • To have just a lazy morning to themselves, parents would pay an average of $325, and people would be willing to spend $339.80 just for one extra hour of sleep.

Crazy Wedding Dress Mom
Everyone knows that only the bride should wear white to a wedding. It seems one mother of the groom didn’t mind making this major faux pas when her son tied the knot, but she took it to the next level and showed up in a full bridal gown and veil to match. A now-viral Reddit post from someone claiming it happened at their cousin’s wedding.
"Everything was going smoothly until the groom's mother walked into the hall in a full-length white gown. Lace sleeves. Sparkly belt. Veil," the guest writes. “She looked like she was about to walk down the aisle herself.” As you’d expect, everyone was shocked by her attire, even the bride and groom, and the mom reportedly told people it was “tradition” in their family for the mother of the groom to wear white.
“To make things worse, the groom’s mom tried to stand next to the bride and groom during the vows, and even held the bride’s bouquet at one point,” the post explains. During the reception, the mother was introducing herself to people as “the first woman in his life.” Despite her mother-in-law’s fashion choice, the bride managed to remain calm and her new husband reportedly kept telling her, “I’m so sorry” over and over. Let’s just hope this mom let the newlyweds go on their honeymoon alone!

Second Date Update: Amber calls us about Craig. She says they had a lovely meal together and now he's ghosting. Did she do something to his food?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's
Star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey just
before six o'clock. Good morning. Hello are you Corey?

Speaker 2 (00:07):
I am physically tired, uh huh out.

Speaker 1 (00:11):
A manual labor at your house yesterday.

Speaker 2 (00:13):
Yeah. I am trying to get the house ready for
my in laws. And it's not like the house isn't ready.
The second bedroom's good. I got all brand new sheets, right,
bed is made. It's more our garage slash bar slash
office basement.

Speaker 1 (00:28):
Why are you worried about that area that's kind of
off the beaten path, so cluttered, uh huh.

Speaker 2 (00:34):
And I'm embarrassed. I don't want someone to think I
live that way.

Speaker 1 (00:37):
Don't take them down there.

Speaker 2 (00:39):
But you have to work the one who go outside,
we're gonna go down the here. And also I want
to show him the bar because it's an interesting thing
because so this house we have has a bar.

Speaker 1 (00:47):
It's tell him you're in flux, tell him you're in process.
Let me just tell you.

Speaker 2 (00:52):
I know that I have got at least fourteen spider
bites from moving stuff and lifting stuff up and reloc stuff.
Like yesterday, I just kept feeling like I was rubbing
spiderwebs off me.

Speaker 1 (01:04):
And is she have somebody that comes down every couple
of months for what like a you know, like a
Planet Orange like we use Planet Orange. They come through
every couple of months and they spray.

Speaker 2 (01:13):
No, because it's not a problem. It's more like, I
move stuff that hasn't been moved in two years, okay,
And also it's a matter of removing a lot of
dog hair. And I'm kind of frustrated with my husband,
but we'll talk about that later. I mean, I did
so many crazy, crazy things yesterday. I hung up hockey skates.

Speaker 1 (01:35):
Okay, not yours. No, I have hockey skates. Oh you do,
I do. I got it for Christmas, just to make rooms.

Speaker 2 (01:42):
So I'm like putting up hockey skates and I'm putting
this away, and I'm clearing this and clearing that, and
Jeff gets home and I'm already irritated with him.

Speaker 1 (01:51):
So that's gonna be the big question in about fifteen
minutes that I need you to noodle. If you're listening
right now, how do we get the Jeff to jump
on the declutter train. Yeah, because he's got a lot
of his stuff.

Speaker 2 (02:02):
I keep getting the old. Well let me get to
the next couple of days. I'm like, okay, well the
next couple days, your parents are here on Saturday.

Speaker 1 (02:07):
Does anybody else deal with this with their significant other?
Because I know how my wife would manage me to
get me to pick up my things, but I think
it's vastly different in how we have to manage the Jeff,
because we're going to do it as a group. Yes,
we'll talk about that at six point thirty. Had a
funny interaction yesterday at the doctor's office as I ran

(02:28):
into somebody I hadn't seen in fifteen years, no kidding,
who was related to my ex wife. I went to
my chronologist's office and I'm you know, the ladies, you know,
the medical assistants taking me back, and then we get
to the examination room. She turns, she goes, I know
you well okay, and she goes yeah, she goes, you

(02:51):
know you were married. Oh, I'm I'm so and So's wife,
And I go, oh my god, And I literally hadn't
seen her fifteen years. Wow, it looks the same. She
was always very kind to me. I remember having very
good memories of her and how thankfully she had good
memories of me, and she goes and then she said, uh,
is this uncomfortable for you? Would you like me to

(03:12):
get someone else? Oh?

Speaker 2 (03:13):
My goodness?

Speaker 1 (03:13):
And I said, no, I'm fine.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
That's I mean, how long ago was that?

Speaker 1 (03:17):
Fifteen years? But you never know, she's being sensitive. She's
in the medical field. You have to make sure that
your patients are you know, because she doesn't know me
well enough to not know if I'm going to flip
out because one of my ex wife's cousins sitting there
knowing all my personal stuff. Yeah, but it just I
thought to myself, what a small world it really is.
A And so we caught up and it was I'll
be honest with you, it was. It was a little

(03:41):
not weird, but like interesting to be like, yeah, so
here's my new family, right showing her pictures you did.
Oh yeah, and how was that? Because my ex wife
knows my my current wife, right, they know each other.
She was fine. And I asked her about how she
was doing her husband's doing, you know, tell my ex
wife hello. Uh talked about on the air the other
day how much I miss her brother as my brother

(04:02):
in law, you know, all these things because he was
a good dude, Like I'm still ingrained with that family,
and the breakup was reasonably civil and so oh, but
it was it was just one of those moments, you
know what I mean, very odd, it was. It was odd,
but also lovely at the same time. He's a lovely
human at any rate. Okay, all right, six oh three.

(04:23):
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(04:45):
and Corey Wednesday. Good morning, Hi. We have discovered an
achilles heel in Corey's husband, the Jeff, an otherwise perfect man.

Speaker 2 (04:55):
Sorry I mean to laugh that hard.

Speaker 1 (04:57):
So Corey's been decluttering the last few days and we're
trying to figure out how to get the Jeff on
the declutter train because apparently he's got a lot of
stuff laying around and it's giving you anxiety.

Speaker 2 (05:07):
I don't like clutter. I don't like clutter. I love
everything to be organized. I loved spaces to be clean.
And so I've been really focusing on our garage slash
bar slash chef's office.

Speaker 1 (05:19):
So we're we need to get your help. How do
we approach.

Speaker 2 (05:22):
This because I've brought it up a couple times. He's like,
just you know, works really busy. Give me a couple
of days. I'm like, your parents are here on Saturday.
There's this huge pile in the garage part, and I've
noticed there are old tires. So my husband has a
hot rod that he built with his dad, and not
too long ago, his dad shipped it to us because
his parents are downsizing. He's got a jack that he

(05:45):
used to raise it up to replace the tires. There's
a box of miscellaneous parts and paperwork, just a Chevy
on it. Yeah, and then there's like all kinds of
miscellaneous auto parts used to work on this car.

Speaker 1 (05:59):
Anybody else live in dream with their significant other, it
ain't a dream. I was being sarcastic. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (06:05):
Then there's all his office stuff, and I noticed that
he got rid of a monitor. So there's just like
a monitor on the floor because he replaced it. Two
rifles that his dad gave him when he gave him
the hot rod, These hunting rifles.

Speaker 1 (06:18):
Those are just sitting on a chair.

Speaker 2 (06:20):
Let me just start with the Nikes, the Nikes shoes everywhere.

Speaker 1 (06:26):
There's a used to work at Nikes, so he's got
a grip of shoes and he still gets the discount,
so he's buying more.

Speaker 2 (06:32):
I'm like you have every time a new one comes in,
you have to get rid of an old one. And
so they're all over. They're in the guest bedroom, two
shoe racks in the garage. There's shelving in the office
right now.

Speaker 1 (06:44):
Just talking to I.

Speaker 2 (06:45):
Trip over them. They're everywhere. I just like, you've got
to help me clean because I can't move this stuff
because you'll get mad because this is a thing.

Speaker 1 (06:54):
I'll put his stuff away.

Speaker 2 (06:55):
And he's like, where's my blah blah blah, I put
it away, Well, weird, I never know where you put
my stuff. I'm like, well, if you put it away,
you know where it was.

Speaker 1 (07:03):
Okay, So I'll tell you what I might do. You
have to be very careful with Jeff. You don't want
to poke the parrage. He does a lot of things
around your house. Some would say he keeps that thing going.
I'm not saying that you don't do anything. I'm saying
he does a lot.

Speaker 2 (07:15):
Of stuff, and I'm happy to do it.

Speaker 1 (07:17):
Just tell me what to do. Step one introspection. Can
you truly look inside and go, Corey, your entire part
of it is in order? If you have you gotten
all of your clutter off the floor, I really have okay.
Step two for me would be, hey, don't forget your
parents are here this weekend.

Speaker 2 (07:35):
No, that's that he wouldn't do well with that.

Speaker 1 (07:37):
No, what would happen? His parents are coming, So you
look at him and say, are you comfortable with this
amount of clutter down here when they come to visit?
What would his answer be?

Speaker 2 (07:49):
I feel like he would think I was pandering to him,
that I was talking down to him.

Speaker 1 (07:53):
He knows. You could literally say, I don't know how
else to approach this. He knows because my wife would
just give me a list and oh, listen, your parents
are in town this weekend. I know you're very busy.
I know work is tough. Please can you handle these
five things by Saturday? You give me a list and
a deadline. I'm in maybe I should do the list,
because the other thing you could do is the other
thing she does, which is helpful for her but drives

(08:15):
me nuts. She will inexplicably start decluttering a section of
our house at eight pm on a Wednesday and just
start pulling stuff out? What are we doing with this? Hey?
What are we doing with this?

Speaker 2 (08:26):
I do that?

Speaker 1 (08:27):
Hey, I do that? What are we doing with this? Meanwhile,
I'm like trying to pay bills or trying to keep
the house together.

Speaker 2 (08:33):
Something, trying to play red Dead.

Speaker 1 (08:35):
So I'm a world leader at my house. All right,
nothing moves us, Daddy says, So listen to me. I'm
big man talking about my wife. How would you say
that if she was here now at any rate? Give
him a list, give him a deadline, right, and then
I'll pray for you.

Speaker 2 (08:50):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (08:51):
If you have any suggestions on how to get the
Jeff to start getting on that declutter train, would be
very helpful. Maybe you've gone through this at your house.
Lead a talk back a variety from the two thousands,
the nineties and today. It's Star one on one three,
It's Marcus and Coreo. It's Wednesday morning. These surveys. Crack
me up, man, They take them so seriously. Here's the
one for today. How much money would Americans spend for

(09:13):
some peace and quiet?

Speaker 2 (09:14):
This is so sad.

Speaker 1 (09:16):
According to the survey of over two thousand adults, we
would be willing to shell out two five and twenty
one dollars for one day of peace and quiet one day.
If you're a parent, you would then shell out an
additional one and forty seven dollars.

Speaker 2 (09:31):
This is staggering to me that the average person only
gets nine and a half hours a month to themselves.

Speaker 1 (09:38):
I think that's accurate. Most people blaming their job, their family, commitments,
and their finances. See, that's what you do.

Speaker 2 (09:44):
Don't make any commitments, don't agree to anything.

Speaker 1 (09:47):
Well, to your point, people aren't above lying about it
to get free time. We're straight lying to our friends
and family. The number one favorite excuses, I'm just not
feeling well.

Speaker 2 (09:58):
Oh, that's a good one.

Speaker 1 (09:59):
If you don't If you don't make commitments, then you
don't have to lie about them. That's true. You know
what word I find very strong that I've learned and
I use a lot is bandwidth. So invite me to
something really quick.

Speaker 2 (10:10):
Hey, listen, we're all going to Happy Hour later.

Speaker 1 (10:12):
You know what, man, I'm having a long day. I
do not have the bandwidth to put anything else on
my plate.

Speaker 2 (10:17):
I've also noticed as you get older, you can be
more honest. Like Kim asked me. My friend Kim asked
me to do something other day. I was like, I'm sorry,
I got too much stuff to do with my in
laws coming in town. It's nice to be have a
relationship where you can just be honest and you don't
have to lie.

Speaker 1 (10:32):
To pause, everybody gets it. Yeah, it's a combination of
I think at rh everybody gets it, and I don't
care as much what other people think now, if at all.

Speaker 2 (10:41):
Because I think you know, we're all at the same
place in our lives. We all have the same amount
of stuff to do. We all have responsibilities. Huh so
if I go, I don't have the bandwidth. Like you said,
people are going to understand.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
How much would you pay for a day of peace
and quiet or just a lazy morning. These numbers got me.
This is insane to have a lazy morning to themselves.
Parents would pay an average of three hundred and twenty
five dollars, and people in general would be willing to
spend three hundred and forty dollars just for an extra
hour of sleep.

Speaker 2 (11:09):
I'll tell you what, though, my alarm's going off at
four o'clock in the morning, I would give somebody three
hundred and forty dollars.

Speaker 1 (11:14):
Would be to sleep until five? Yeah, hilarious.

Speaker 2 (11:17):
Maybe not that much, but sometimes it's like if I
didn't get a good night's sleep, woof.

Speaker 1 (11:22):
I mean, why not hire your babysitter. My babysitter makes
twelve bucks an hour, that's it, and she's killing it.
That seems low. I know. I don't know why that
was her number.

Speaker 2 (11:32):
Not mine, because I would think I would just ask
for whatever minimum wages, right.

Speaker 3 (11:37):
You know.

Speaker 1 (11:37):
The one thing I'm always on the fence about is
when I see somebody and they have a nanny on
vacation with them, because it sounds glorious. It sounds glorious,
but also if you do this, I'm not judging, I'm curious,
do you feel like you lose time with your kids? Like?
Are you losing out on some very definitive family moments
when you have somebody else taking care of them?

Speaker 2 (11:58):
Wasn't a family vacation The point to spend time family, right,
and so did you bring the nanny along so you
don't have to spend time with family?

Speaker 1 (12:05):
Right? And I'll couple that with going to Europe by yourselves,
no kids. Getting a weekend away for adult time is
one thing. We just did it. We just went to Vegas.
But I personally feel like I would be doing a
disservice to my child not taking her to Spain. It
depends on their age, I guess, so it depends on
their age. Not judging. I'm genuinely curious if you do
any of these things. Listen, if you've got some comments

(12:27):
on this again, what's your number? How much would you
spend for a day of peace and quiet? Used to
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Speaker 4 (12:44):
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the day, and everything people are talking about today in
the vey.

Speaker 2 (12:51):
McDonald's shares fell about one point seven percent yesterday after
research says appetite suppressing GLP one drugs like ozepic could
pull twenty eight million in annual customer visits from the
chain and shave roughly four hundred and eighty two million
in revenue. So, you know, one of the things we've
learned about these weight loss drugs is that they suppress

(13:13):
your appetites correct And so not only are they suppressing
your appetites, but because these drugs are so expensive, people
are cutting down on eating out.

Speaker 1 (13:24):
They're saving their money. So it's a double whammy, especially
for the fast food industry. I have a feeling that
McDonald's is not going to be the only one hit.
This is literally revolutionize the way that we eat. Right.

Speaker 2 (13:35):
So only six percent of adults now use the drugs,
which seems really low to me from what I've been seeing,
but within a few years they think that's going to
be a bigger number. And also, people have menu price fatigue.

Speaker 1 (13:47):
Yes, a lot of these fast foods, and I don't
want to sing a lot of McDonald's, but a lot
of these fast food places they're just getting way more expensive.

Speaker 2 (13:53):
It's all of them. It's all of them.

Speaker 1 (13:55):
It's not a cheap option anymore. No, that was the
whole thing fast food is supposed to be quick and cheap.

Speaker 2 (14:00):
Macklemore's Seattle home was broken into over the weekend. Burglars
stole thousands of dollars of items, including jewelry, watches, and shoes.
They sprayed the nanny that works there with bear mace
Gees was home. She was there, Oh, scary. She was
able to get away and call nine one one. Macklemore
was not there, but there were three children present. They

(14:20):
were not injured.

Speaker 1 (14:21):
Why would you spray the nanny? What's she gonna do?

Speaker 2 (14:25):
I don't know. It was two suspects. They took off
when she called nine one one, and everybody's okay.

Speaker 1 (14:33):
Scary, yeah.

Speaker 2 (14:34):
Twenty three and me is being sued by at least
twenty six states. The DNA genealogy company filed for bankruptcy,
and the lawsuit seeks to stop the company from auctioning
off the private genetic data of about fifteen million people.
The lawsuit argues DNA data, health related traits and medical
records are too sensitive to be sold without each person's consent.

(14:56):
That's the thing with these DNA places. It's like, I
don't think people realize that you're putting all this information
in there. And they're like, oh, thanks, threw the heads up.

Speaker 1 (15:04):
The same could be said for Amazon and Google.

Speaker 2 (15:07):
Yeah, but Amazon doesn't know my blood type. They could.
I don't know, but I feel like because I haven't
done one of these, but my sister did it, so
I feel like I'm already kind of my informations out there.

Speaker 1 (15:20):
Customer data is big business. Yeah, there is a guy
who is facing heavy jail time for posing as a
flight attendant. Did you hear this? I saw that Florida
man facing up to thirty years in prison. He was
convicted of wireflowd wire fraud unlawfully entering a secure airport
area under false pretenses. He pretended to be a flight attendant,

(15:42):
got about one hundred and twenty three flights before he
got caught. Oh my god, yeah, I know he was
on fire.

Speaker 2 (15:47):
I thought this was like a one and done.

Speaker 1 (15:49):
Oh my guy was on tour.

Speaker 2 (15:54):
That's hilarious.

Speaker 1 (15:55):
Do we know?

Speaker 2 (15:56):
Was it different airlines?

Speaker 1 (15:57):
Don't know. I got to do a deeper dive, but
I don't have. And the only other thing I wanted
to mention was Tom Brady has a line of gummies
coming out, and not those kind of gummies, but just
like Snagcky gummies. Yeah, and you know he's a He's
a real health nut. So these are vegan gummy snacks
and all kinds of flavors, no artificial sweeteners, dies, and

(16:18):
purported to have real fruit. My only question is they're
called goat gummies. Yeah? Does that infringe on my guy
Jerry Rice from the forty nine ers and his goat fuel.

Speaker 2 (16:27):
I want to know how these are made because if
you ever want a good laugh, go on like Amazon,
look up sugar free gummy bears and read the reviews.
Oh boy, it is hilarious.

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Randy from the two thousands to nineties and today it's
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with second Date Update.

Speaker 2 (17:24):
Let's go Second Date Update. This is where we get
you on the phone to ask you about a date.
You tell us how it went, and then we call
this other person to see where the wheels fell off.

Speaker 1 (17:35):
Let's get going Amber. Are you there?

Speaker 4 (17:39):
Hi?

Speaker 1 (17:40):
I'm not suggesting the wheels came off, because who knows.
Maybe this guy Craig has just been busy. Maybe you
don't know.

Speaker 3 (17:46):
But I know I need yeah help on this.

Speaker 1 (17:49):
Let's figure this out. So tell us about how you
guys met and then tell us about the first date.

Speaker 3 (17:54):
Okay, So me and Craig met on hinge and on,
like I'm just so overdating at that point. It was
I don't know, I felt like there were some hopes
for Craig. You know, he just kind of seemed really mature,
he like actually was looking for like a real relationship
and not just like a hookup. And I thought we

(18:15):
got along really well, he had a great sense of humor,
you know, and like we decided to go on a
lunch date. We both live in the East Bay, so
we met up in Berkeley, Okay, and he was even
better in person. Honestly, he was really funny, he was smart. Like, again,
we just got along and I was really looking forward
to seeing him again.

Speaker 1 (18:35):
Sure, but nothing happened. So like, he hasn't reached out.
Have you reached out at all? Not that I would
expect you to, but have you reached out at all?

Speaker 2 (18:45):
Well?

Speaker 3 (18:46):
I didn't because I was not sure what was happening.
And I was like, am I being completely ghosted at
this point? Like I don't know?

Speaker 1 (18:53):
So he just disappeared. Yep, Yeah, here's what I think.
Tell me.

Speaker 2 (18:57):
Amber doesn't realize that Craig is a master thief. He's
planned an elaborate Las Vegas three casino heist. He recruits
ten other thieves and con men to pull off the
complex job.

Speaker 1 (19:10):
So he's been really busy. Ocean's eleven yes, twelve, yes, thirteen.

Speaker 2 (19:15):
No eleven, Stop while you're behind?

Speaker 1 (19:20):
Why do there have to be other dudes involved? I
don't like that. What do you mean you can't pull it?

Speaker 2 (19:25):
Off myself three casinos.

Speaker 1 (19:28):
All right, stop, Amber, it's possible, but let's call him.

Speaker 3 (19:32):
And I hope that's the outcome.

Speaker 1 (19:35):
All right, how dare he ghost me? I'd rather there
be a casino heist. I'll tell you what we're gonna
We're gonna call him and try to figure it all out.
Can you can you hang with us for like a song?

Speaker 2 (19:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (19:46):
Okay, hot, we'll do it right after this Second date
update variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today.
It's Star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey
talking to Amber here during second date updates. So she
gave us the rundown a minute ago. If you missed it, Amber,
you and Craig both live in the East Bay. You
met it from lunch in Berkeley. We like him because
he's got a good sense of humor. A good sense
of humor goes a long way. Yeah, it does, right.

(20:07):
You could be a just a mediocre looking guy such
as myself, but you have a sense of humor. All right,
So let's figure this out because the problem is he's ghosted.
So Amber, go ahead and mut your phone and let's
give him a shot. Okay, Hello, I may speak with Craig.

Speaker 2 (20:30):
Please, this is Crag Hi Craig, It's Marcus and Corey
from Star one to one three.

Speaker 1 (20:37):
Hey Craig, Hello, Hi, Hi? I suppose you listen to
our radio show. Do you.

Speaker 2 (20:44):
No?

Speaker 1 (20:45):
Sorry? Okay, So we got your phone number from a
friend of ours and we're doing a segment on the
show called second Date Updates. So we were wondering if
you had a moment to talk to us about a
date you've been on recently. Yeah, if you're okay with
that someone who Doug, you would like to go out again?
Feeling ghosted? Do you mind talking about your day with Amber?

(21:06):
Do you have a second I can talk about that? Sure?
So she liked you, man, and but she feels like
you disappeared. Did something happen you? Are you busy guy?
Did you go?

Speaker 2 (21:18):
So?

Speaker 1 (21:18):
What's going on all? Honestly? I mean I did like her.

Speaker 5 (21:23):
I think, you know, she's very pretty and she's got
a good personality. But okay, when we were on the date,
she literally did the only thing that I can't tolerate
perfect oh, which is.

Speaker 1 (21:38):
So we had ordered food.

Speaker 5 (21:39):
I went to the bathroom to wash my hands, and
when I got back to the table, the food had
already been delivered, okay, And I looked down and I
was shocked she had she had taken a bite out
of my sandwich.

Speaker 1 (21:53):
This is the first date, just like.

Speaker 5 (21:55):
We haven't bold yeah, she's yeah, and right like we
haven't kids with any She's putting her mouth on my
food without asking.

Speaker 1 (22:03):
And that's the one thing I just I can't stand.

Speaker 5 (22:06):
I wouldn't have allowed it if she asked before, but
it's the fact that she didn't was just too much interesting.

Speaker 2 (22:12):
You sound like my husband. He doesn't share food.

Speaker 1 (22:14):
Literally on a T shirt the Jeff doesn't share food. Okay,
that's good clarity. I would love to So Amber's listening
right now, and she's actually on the phone.

Speaker 3 (22:25):
Amber, Hi, Yeah, how is this a big deal?

Speaker 2 (22:28):
Right now? Like?

Speaker 3 (22:30):
How is this a big deal? I mean I love
sharing dishes, and this is it's like a way to
try more items on the many. It's not a this
is your big deal.

Speaker 1 (22:41):
I mean, it's fine for you if you like sharing food.
I just don't.

Speaker 5 (22:45):
And that's just like my one the biggest thing for me,
And the fact that you just went ahead and did
it without even asking, without talking, I was like, no way,
I have to show cool.

Speaker 3 (22:55):
Cool. You don't even tell me that that bothers you.
You just ghost me. This is hysterical to me and
actually really shocking.

Speaker 1 (23:04):
You actually knew me wouldn't have done that.

Speaker 3 (23:06):
But we don't know each other, so you could have
said something, but you didn't. Instead, you smiled and waved,
and then you left and ghosted me and said you
could have communicated that.

Speaker 2 (23:14):
But okay, yeah, but who would actually think they'd need
to preemptively say if my food gets here before I do,
please don't take a bite out of it.

Speaker 1 (23:22):
Well, he could have said something in the moment.

Speaker 5 (23:25):
Yes, if I was there, I would have. I would
have politely declined.

Speaker 3 (23:28):
I think this is ridiculous.

Speaker 1 (23:30):
I really think the thing is to.

Speaker 5 (23:31):
Me, it is a big deal, though it's something that
actually bothers me.

Speaker 3 (23:35):
Okay, well I didn't know that, and you could have
said something.

Speaker 5 (23:38):
I don't feel like I needed to at that point.
I was already being violated. You know, my food was violated.

Speaker 3 (23:42):
You've been violating. This is so stupid.

Speaker 1 (23:45):
Oh my god, all right, you two, Okay, I don't
I don't think this is a match if I'm being honest, No, right,
hang on.

Speaker 2 (23:53):
Even my husband may get mad at me.

Speaker 1 (23:55):
If I did that, I was gonna say, like, you
can't touch that's like messing with somebody's radio. Uh huh,
you know what I mean. Don't do it anyway. Second
Date Update seven oh five weekday mornings replays at nine
oh five, and then of course it's got the podcast.
If you want to binge listen, you can set a
preset Marcus and Corey's Second Date Update or variety from
the two thousands, the nineties, and today it's Star one

(24:16):
oh one three, It's Marcus and Corey seven to twenty three.
This is a story that's for me a reminder that
when you get into a long term relationship sometimes you
have to set big boundaries. Yes, as a groom's mom
shocked the couple and guests by wearing a wedding dress
and veil to her son's ceremony.

Speaker 2 (24:33):
This is so nuts because the number one rule of
a wedding is that you don't wear white, right, because
you don't want to take away from the bride. But
this is even just wearing white. She wore a wedding
dress and a veil.

Speaker 1 (24:45):
Her rationale and I quote it's a tradition in our family.
No it's not. It's a reminder that I was the
first woman in my son's life.

Speaker 2 (24:55):
That's weird.

Speaker 1 (24:57):
That's creepy and weird.

Speaker 2 (25:00):
And if I was the bride, I would be worried
about the rest of my life.

Speaker 1 (25:04):
Apparently, the groom was on the altar repeatedly mouthing the
words I'm sorry to his new wife.

Speaker 2 (25:11):
Because I'm sure Mom didn't let anybody know she was
going to do this.

Speaker 1 (25:15):
I'm going to say something that maybe really popular or
very unpopular. Okay, when I'm talking to you, mom, when
your son daughter gets married, because I don't want to
keep it like, let's forget genders for a second, because
same sex also applies here in my opinion, Sure, when

(25:35):
when they get married, you have to take a back seat.
You have to be a parent. You just at like
you are no longer number one. I'll say it again,
you're no longer number one. The person your son is
marrying is now his number one. And if you are
getting married and you are Mama's boy, like and I
know this because I lived it, sure, and I love

(25:56):
my mother, but she insisted on being number one through
my first marriage, and it was not good. It does
not end well for you, just please take the voice
of experience to heart.

Speaker 2 (26:08):
I really admire this bride because she remained calm and
was cool about the whole thing. Because we're talking about
this mother in law who wore a wedding dress to
her son's wedding. Not only did she wear a wedding
dress and a veil, she tried to stand next to
the bride and groom during their vows and she even
held the bride's bouquet at one point.

Speaker 1 (26:29):
Part of me wants to think that because this is
on Reddit, it's not real and it's just an inflammatory story.
But you have to set that boundary. And I told
my mother, I said, look, mom, you're number two. Now
I have to take care of my lady, and if
you don't do that, you are going to have problems.

(26:50):
I'm so lucky. My mother in law's the best. I
don't have any issues. Josie got it. She knows the assignment.

Speaker 2 (26:56):
Assignment because you know, Jeff, my husband is her only son.
But no, she just wants her kids to be happy.

Speaker 1 (27:05):
I am one hundred percent of MoMA's boy and I
let that relationship continue even after I got married, and
it strained it really hard so on my second rodeo,
I was very clear with my mother and set that
clear boundary. Mom, she is number one and she will
be number one, and I love you, but this is
how it has to be.

Speaker 2 (27:25):
I just feel bad for this bride because this is
not going to get better from here on out.

Speaker 1 (27:31):
Unless he makes an adjustment. He's gonna have to. He
can dig himself out of this, but he has to
have a conversation with his mom, and then he has
to he has to show her. And you can just
say it, but when mom comes around, it's got to
be evident that that conversation was had.

Speaker 2 (27:46):
Dude, if I was at that wedding, I would be
the reception for like two minutes, or else I would
just be at the open bar.

Speaker 1 (27:51):
Would you be that annoyed?

Speaker 2 (27:53):
Not annoyed, uncomfortable. I would be so uncomfortable. It's not
even annoyance, it's just this is so inappropriate. I mean,
you're not even supposed to wear white. She wore a
wedding dress.

Speaker 1 (28:04):
I would love to know what you think, Like, am
I fully off base here? I don't think so. But
I should the wife be number one? Or does mom
keep the crown? I mean, let me know at me,
Like I said, maybe not a popular opinion. Use the
talk back if you have a second. We'd love to
hear your thoughts on this. It's a little red microphone
on the iHeartRadio app. If you're streaming Star one on

(28:24):
one three, which you should already be doing, it's time
for good news with Marcus and Corey.

Speaker 4 (28:33):
Good Sometimes all you need is one a good thought
to make it a great day.

Speaker 2 (28:37):
So let's do this.

Speaker 4 (28:38):
It's good news on Star one O one three.

Speaker 1 (28:42):
Give me good news twice in morning seven. This is
a teenager who did the right thing when nobody was watching.
They always say that's the key to integrity. Are you
doing the right thing when no one is watching? Okay,
that's great. A fourteen year old in Arizona who was
rewarded an e bike after he returned a lost wallet.
Oh that's nice. It's fourteen years old. His name is Cody.

(29:05):
Found a wallet filled with cash, credit cards, and an
ID while he was riding his bike near his dad's house.
Turns out the wallet had been left on the roof
of a car and fell off when the driver pulled away.
Oh no, so instead of like you know, gaffling everything
he went to social media to try to find whoever
owned the wallet. Well, it went viral. They found the owner.

(29:28):
There was one guy who saw the story and after
his mom said, look, he was unprompted. This is just
him having integrity. This guy, Adam, was inspired by this
kindness and surprised Cody by giving him the e bike
he had been saving for.

Speaker 2 (29:43):
And this isn't even the guys who lost the wallet.
This is just a guy who saw the story, just.

Speaker 1 (29:47):
A guy who loved the story. Wow. And he hopes
that this story will encourage other teens to do the
right thing. He says, quote, do the right thing and
you will get good things back.

Speaker 2 (29:59):
That's great.

Speaker 1 (30:00):
I would only augment this with Cody. Make sure you're
a good citizen on your e bike.

Speaker 2 (30:04):
Yes, please.

Speaker 1 (30:05):
So many fourteen year olds in my neighborhood are not
good citizens on their e bikes. No, That's all I'm
going to say about that. Ah ah, that is good news, though,
I'm wholeheartedly impressed by that young man. For variety from
the two thousands of the nineties and today it's Star
one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey time to
play the bass favorite trivia game. It's called what you
Know About That?

Speaker 2 (30:24):
We've got two tickets to see Jesse Murrh for the
Fox Theater in Oakland, September twenty sixth, courtesy of Another
Planet Entertainment. Tickets are on sale now at ticke Amaster.

Speaker 1 (30:32):
Say good morning to our contestants will take you out
to Palo Alto and say how to Aaron? Good morning, Aaron,
Good morning. What's going on this morning? Well?

Speaker 2 (30:39):
We have a newly mentioned thirteen year old in the
car ay one of our last days of school.

Speaker 1 (30:45):
What's her name?

Speaker 2 (30:46):
Avery?

Speaker 1 (30:46):
Avery? Am I supposed to say Happy birthday?

Speaker 2 (30:48):
Here?

Speaker 1 (30:49):
Yeah, let's do it, Avery. How you feeling? She's tired?
Can the school year be over already? All right? You
guys go to Pacific and s They had a Kathleen,
Good morning, Catholic, Good morning. What are you doing this morning?

Speaker 2 (31:02):
Getting the kids ready for camp?

Speaker 3 (31:04):
We're already out of school?

Speaker 1 (31:05):
Love it? What camp? Are they going to?

Speaker 3 (31:07):
Adventure Camp in PACIFICA.

Speaker 1 (31:09):
Let's say hi to them real quick? What are they
name to Adventure Camp?

Speaker 2 (31:12):
Me too?

Speaker 1 (31:14):
Welcome you guys. Game is super simple. It's five trivia questions,
fifty seconds to answer them all. Each person going to
be asked separately with their opponent on hold. Whoever gets
the most right answers wins. If you don't know an answer,
you yell out, pass, and we'll come back to the
question if we have time left. Okay, to play along
at Homer in the car. Here we go. Kathleen goes
on hold in Pacifica, and we will start with Aaron

(31:35):
and Palo Alto. Question number one, who headlined the twenty
twenty four Super Bowl halftime show? Who was the first
female Prime Minister of the United Kingdom?

Speaker 5 (31:52):
Pat?

Speaker 1 (31:52):
What vitamin is primarily obtained from sunlight exposure? He be
as in boy, be like dog? Okay? What is the
chemical symbol for oxygen? Two? What famous artist painted the
Sistine Chapel.

Speaker 2 (32:10):
Michelandeler?

Speaker 1 (32:11):
Yeah, go back to when you passed on who headlined
the twenty twenty four Super Bowl halftime show? Okay? And
who was the first female Prime Minister of the United Kingdom.
We're out of time. Hang on the line one second.
All right, Aaron goes on hold in Palo Alto. We
pick up Kathleen in Pacifica. Hi, Kathleen, Hello.

Speaker 2 (32:34):
Question number one, who headlined the twenty twenty four Super
Bowl halftime show? Half, who is the first female Prime
Minister of the United Kingdom? Half? What vitamin is primarily
obtained from sunlight exposure? Vitamin D? What is the chemical

(32:57):
symbol for oxygen? What famous artist painted the Sistine Chapel Michelangelo?
Going back to when you passed on who headlined the
twenty twenty four Super Bowl halftime show? Who is the

(33:18):
first female prime Minister of the United Kingdom? Thatcher?

Speaker 1 (33:24):
We are out of time. Aaron comes back in Palo Alto.
We see how she did against Kathleen in Pacific A
question number one? Who headlined the twenty twenty four Super
Bowl halftime show?

Speaker 2 (33:34):
Aaron said Usher. Kathleen passed It is Usher?

Speaker 1 (33:38):
Who was the first female Prime Minister of the United Kingdom?

Speaker 2 (33:41):
Aaron passed. Kathleen said Thatcher as in Margaret Thatcher. That
is correct?

Speaker 1 (33:47):
What vitamin is primarily obtained from sunlight exposure?

Speaker 2 (33:50):
Both Aaron and Kathleen said D that is correct.

Speaker 1 (33:53):
What is a chemical symbol for oxygen?

Speaker 2 (33:55):
Aaron said O two. Kathleen said O X.

Speaker 1 (33:58):
It's actually just, oh, you know what famous artist painted
the Sistine Chapel?

Speaker 2 (34:03):
Aaron said, Michaelangelo. Kathleen said Michaelangelo. That is correct. We
have a tie three to three.

Speaker 1 (34:08):
We're going to the tiebreaker. Look out, Oh boy, are
you guys even ready? Here's how the typebreaker works. Gonna
ask you both the same question at the same time.
Shout out your name to buzz in. First person to
shout out their name buzzing in if they know the answer,
gets a chance to answer. If you answer correctly, you
win instantly. Otherwise your opponent can steal for the win.

(34:31):
Everybody clear, Okay, shout out your name to buzz in
if you know the answer to the following type breakers question,
what do you call water when it freezes? Aaron, Kathleen,
Aaron for the win. Hi, that is correct. Zoom got
the tickets.

Speaker 2 (34:48):
Congratulations, congratulate him. You're getting a Marcus and Cory chip clip. Yay,
what are you talking about? Play with us again at
weekday mornings at eight.

Speaker 1 (34:58):
O five am. What do you know about?

Speaker 4 (35:00):
That? Podcast is a pre set on our iHeart app
and Never miss an episode.

Speaker 1 (35:05):
Star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey. We're
about to get out of here. Enjoy that sunshine. You
may have some overcast where you're especially if you're on
the coast side, but mostly Sonny Yeah, and nice. Jillian's
on the way next. Keep the radio on. She's got
that Star music for your workday. Make sure you stream
Star one on one three on the iHeartRadio app. Get
that downloaded because tomorrow morning more shots for tickets at

(35:26):
the disneyn Resort. Yeah, talk back for tickets seven thirty five,
eight thirty five, Manyana. We'll talk to you then bye.
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