March 5, 2025 • 27 mins
Toxic Coping Mechanisms: these are habits you use to de-stress yourself, but they could be more harm than good. For example, drinking away the day....binge watching an entire season of a show, etc.
Daylight Saving Time, ya here for it or nah? Is it time to retire this concept and which would you prefer: more daylight or darker sooner?
Floodlighting: this is the latest dating term. This is where you share everything about yourself on the first date...issues, trauma, family, past relationships, etc.
Second date update: Eduardo invites Sarah to join his trivia night with his boys. She is down, but did they imbibe too much before Sarah got there?
Daylight Saving Time, ya here for it or nah? Is it time to retire this concept and which would you prefer: more daylight or darker sooner?
Floodlighting: this is the latest dating term. This is where you share everything about yourself on the first date...issues, trauma, family, past relationships, etc.
Second date update: Eduardo invites Sarah to join his trivia night with his boys. She is down, but did they imbibe too much before Sarah got there?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Poor variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey
five point fifty eight. Good morning, Hi, what is it Wednesday?
It's hump Day. Hey, You've got a really nice DM
from one of our listeners. By the way, I did.
We were discussing Corey's struggles trying to change doctors from
a doctor that she doesn't vibe with. Yeah, and one
(00:22):
of our listeners I'm paraphrasing the note, but they they said, Hey, sorry,
you're having difficulty. Just let him know you want to change.
And she brought up a good point. She said, the
doctor may be a great doctor, just not for you.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
I think I saw this message, yeah, because it came
across yesterday, and I do appreciate the advice and the
direct messaging. It's it's very much appreciated because I know
I'm kind of sharing a personal kind of journey.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Sure, but I think a lot of people are pulling
the curtain back.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Fatty Liver is what I'm dealing with, and it's more
common than you think.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
A lot of people have checked in with the same issue.
And then she closed the DM with the nickname we
gave the doctor which warmed my heart. Doctor toolbag. Anyway,
how are you? I'm good. We booked the tickets for
Paris yesterday. Oooh can I.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Say that it's a milestone birthday. Yeah, Cory's turning thirty.
Thank you, and this is a big deal. And then
she was generous enough to bid on this condo and
Paris at the Marine Humane gala. So everybody wins, the
doggies and kiddies win.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Everybody wins.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
I mean I would do this, do you know, because
we made this donation, we don't owe money to the
government this year. Yeah, that's the way to do it.
I'd much rather give my money to the dogs at
the Marine Humane Society.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
You go right in the government. Well, that'll be fun.
More info. Okay. I rode the bus yesterday. That was fun.
Where'd you go?
Speaker 4 (02:05):
So?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
I dropped my bike off for service downtown Half Moon Bay.
I live about six miles away, and I could have
taken the wife's rig to go pick it up.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Yeah, but I thought, no, I'm gonna go get on
sam trans you like to have your little adventures.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
I do, I do, and my my wife knows me.
So I go down there and pick up the bike
shout out to uh, straight wheel cycle there and down
half them Bay Charles. Those guys are the nicest guys,
are so helpful. And then I rode back to my
house along the water. It was magical. And then I
got upstairs and uh, my wife was chilling watching her shows.
(02:42):
And I said, I got to ride the bus, and yeah,
knows how much joy that brings me, just to have
my little adventures. And then I gave her a hug
and she goes, ooh, you smell like outside. Ew, you
smell like bo and outside, get away. Eh.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
I used to ride the bus a lot when I
was a because my sister and I are five years apart.
So by the time I came around and wanted to
do stuff, my parents are like and we already did
that with your sister. So I had to find my
way around. And so I rode the bus plenty. And
now I don't ride the bus.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
I love the bus. Anyway, you didn't call me a snob,
I don't care. Oh it's fine though. Look, the bus
is great. UNI is great. As long as you don't
really have to be anywhere on time. It's more difficult
and more stressful and that's not a shot at bus
drivers or anybody. No, it's just the reality of it,
(03:33):
planning it, trying to get there. You know, I'll ride
in your car. That would take a half hour because
the bus has to stop a million times. It takes
an hour and a half. My husband takes bart every day. Yeah, anyway,
no variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and Today
Star one oh one three. It's Marcus and Corey. Good morning,
Hello Wednesday. Yeah, daylight Saving time coming in this weekend.
(03:54):
We're gonna spring forward. That's the worst. It's gonna get darker.
I love it. No, it's not. It's not gonna get darker.
It's gonna get lighter. I'm sorry, it's gona get lighter later.
That's what I meant to say.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
I appreciate the fact that you want to use that time,
but selfishly, this is totally selfish. Sure that we go
to bed so early and the sun's still up.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
It's hard. It's not hard losing an hour. Why is
it not hard? I don't like losing the hour, but
I adore. Some of my best memories as a kid
was staying out late because the sun was still up.
I love it, love it, yes, even though I even though,
just get some blackout curtains. Bro, what are you worried
about me?
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Bro?
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Don't go me bro? Sorry? Sis, That's okay.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Honestly, it's not so much that I care one way
or the other about how late the sun is up.
It's more like, let's pick one and stick.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
With it, right, So fifty four percent of Americans are
ready to just drop kick this whole thing of fall back,
spring forward. No surprise there. Then, to ask people to
choose between three options. Do you want standard time year round,
which is where it gets dark earlier, or do you
want what I like, which is daylight saving time which
(05:07):
helps it later? Or dude, twenty percent of people would
prefer to just keep switching. Who are you? Sociopaths? Who
are you? And go away? What if we split the difference?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
What if we do a half an hour and keep
it at that so when we do it on Sunday.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
We just we just split.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
The difference, we do thirty minutes, and then we just
keep it that way forever.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
I mean, the argument to keep its standard time is
sound because even though the sun goes down later in
the evening, it doesn't rise as early in the morning,
so technically the kids could be walking to school in
the dark. Right, there's a safety issue there. I get that.
But boy do I love late night. But you shouldn't be. No,
(05:51):
I know you're the one. You shouldn't. I'm a werewolf,
though I stay up later than I should every night
of the week.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
I know. I just want consistent see at this point,
because I don't think it's good.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
I don't think it's healthy.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
You know, the fact that they put out studies to
help you adjust to daylight saving time is the fact
that you have to look at these studies shows you
it's not.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Good for you. So they're saying to get ready for
this weekend because it is happening on Sunday, springing forward
of what, caffeine or alcohol late in the day. Stop
your screen time an hour before bed, don't exercise or
eat two to three hours before bedtime. Make sure you
have a dark sleep environment. And above all, like you,
if you have young kids, toddlers and whatever else, ramp
(06:35):
them up, you know, get them up ten minutes earlier,
put them to bed ten minutes earlier. Yeah, my wife
did that, she's so smart. Oh really already with my kid? Yeah, well,
no back when she was way younger. Oh okay, I'm
not sure what the plan is now, but just a reminder,
daylight saving is this weekend. I'm putting a poll up
on the Star one oh one three fm Instagram. What's
(06:56):
the question? Would you rather have it daylight saving time?
I'm where the sun goes down later or standard time,
where it goes down earlier. What's the preference Standard? It's
just decider for standard. That'll be up on the Star
one on one three fm Instagram for you to check in.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
This is what I'm talking about.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
It's what's trending on Star one, what's happening in entertainment news,
the biggest stories of the day, and everything people are
talking about today. In the bab Vin Diesel's teasing that
Groot may get a Guardians of the Galaxy spin off.
So Diesel's been the voice of Groot since twenty fourteen's
Guardians the Galaxy film, and was on Instagram saying Disney
(07:37):
wants their Planet X, which some say is Marvel's most
anticipated movie, the film where Groot returns to his home planet.
Diesel also shared that he's got other irons in the fire.
There's another fast and The Furious Coming Fast X Part two.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
What did Ludacris say, Hey, y'all keep watching him, We'll
keep making it.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Yeah, there's a rockh'am Sun adaptation based on the Mattel
toy and new installments of is I don't even know
if the movie's Triple X or just XXX. Riddick and
The Last Witch Hunter diesels busy. The first Firefest from
twenty seventeen lives in infamy. There was a ton of
(08:19):
documentaries because it was just filled with problems and the
co founder, Billy McFarlane even went to jail. Well he's
back and he says Firefest too is just around the corner.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
Last week he was on I think in the Today's
Show talking about we're going to do it up right
this time.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
He says it's set for May thirtieth through June second
and will take place on Isla Mucheris Become off the
coast of Cancun.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Now here's a hitch.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
The island authorities have come out to say the festival
just isn't real. They have no knowledge of the event
nor context crazy with any person or company about it.
Speaker 5 (08:53):
For us, this is an event that does not exist.
That is wild now could he be that pathologic Jesus?
Speaker 2 (09:01):
He shared on Instagram. Fire Festival Too is real, but
the island is saying it's not.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Here's the wildest part about it. I don't even know
if the tickets are on sale, but the second they
go on sale, they're going to sell out because everybody's
gonna want to see if it's real. Isn't that crazy?
Speaker 2 (09:18):
If I were to go, I would go and have
a backup plan. I would have a hotel room, I
would have necessities, I would have water.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
I mean, they didn't have anything. They had nothing.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
It just seems so ridiculous that people would buy this ticket.
But you know what, anything's possible because check this out.
There's a company that wants to bring back the extinct
wooly mammoth and other animals, and so they've created wooly mice.
They've genetically modified mice. They've got big, wavy hair that's
(09:49):
much longer than a normal mouse, and it is so great.
Scientists with Texas based Colossal Bioscience's targeted specific gene to
give the mice a wooly appearance. They looked at the
wooly mammoths' closest living relative the Asian elephant for guidance.
Didn't we learn anything with Jurassic Park and then Jurassic World.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
We don't need more teeth. It's too good, you know what. Yeah,
it's cheaper than the Fire Festival Carnival in some Francisco.
Right here, it's gonna be taking place May twenty fourth
and twenty fifth in the mission on Harrison between sixteenth
(10:34):
and twenty fourth. You can bart in. It's free, and
it'll be celebrating Latin and Caribbean culture through food, dance, music,
arts and crafts and more. Some of my favorite food
because there's so much infusion, you know what I mean,
It looks like so much fun when they cook. They
pull from so many different cultures and I think it's
And we worked a booth at Carnival one year. Oh yeah, yeah,
(10:57):
the Peruvian booth for Lamar. I was slinging cheese covered
Yuka fries. Oo oh so good. Don't miss Carnival again
going on the weekend of May twenty fourth, and the
twenty fifth Outside Lands is coming the weekend of August ninth,
And apparently the Eager Beaver tickets are on sale today
(11:18):
at ten a m. Before you even know who's gonna
be there. Okay, but you know it's going to be fire.
Unlike the Fire festival, outside Lands always delivers. So just
a reminder, like if you're a festival goer. My favorite
part about Outside Lands is that they just introduced a
wedding package. You can get married there for like five
hundred bucks. Wow. Okay, that information I will have up
(11:43):
on the Marcus at Corey Instagram. You can also catch
the dad joke of the week. I did it yesterday.
It was National Grammar Day, so it was an homage
to the English alphabet alphabet. H. I liked the joke,
of course you did. You picked it? Weigh in? Check
it out. It's on the Marcus and Corey Instagram right now.
(12:05):
Guess what's trending every weekday morning on the fifties. That's
at six fifty seven fifty am. And connect now with
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O one three dot com variety from the two thousands,
the nineties and today it's star one on one three.
It's Marcus and Corey time once again for second date update.
We're getting after it.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
We want to help you secure the second date. As
always and I think we're really good at it. I
think our record speaks for itself.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
You're so being so nice.
Speaker 5 (12:36):
To us, Yes, but that's we're here. Every day is
a new day, yes right, yes, get a DWARDO on
Good Morning at Duardo.
Speaker 4 (12:46):
So thanks for helping me out.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Yeah, man, we're going to do our best. Let's get
into your date here is let's talk about Sarah, like,
how did you guys do it? First of all, and
then let's talk about the first date. Okay?
Speaker 4 (12:58):
Yeah, so, uh, you know we were I met her
on bumble and we were talking and flirting for a
couple of weeks. You know, I feel like we were
both digging each other. So I asked her out, you
know what I mean? I was like yellow ask her out,
and on a whim, I asked her to come to
trivia night with me and my friends. We go to
this bar. It's like my favorite bars. They have trivia
every week.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
You know, did you guys talk about this? Feels like
a very specific date to like just randomly invite somebody on.
Speaker 4 (13:25):
Like when we were chatting, I mentioned it to her
seem like, oh yeah, I've been there with my friends.
So I'm like like that's a perfect opening.
Speaker 6 (13:32):
Right there, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (13:33):
Yeah, sure, sure.
Speaker 4 (13:34):
And you know, my friends and I we get really
into it. You know, we drink and we have this
fro competition, and I thought she'd like it, and she
did show up. Then I felt so goofy because when
I saw her, like, I had this dumb, goofy smile
on my face and she walked in, and you know,
my boys were all like, oh dang, like Sarah's cute,
you know. So I felt really good. So we talked
for a little bit and try to give her some space.
(13:55):
I didn't want her to think that I was like,
you know, super hovery or whatnot. So I want to
have this space. But then like a little while later,
I looked up and she was gone. So I don't
know if she left early, if there was an emergency
or something, because I texted her and I didn't hear
back or anything.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
So she just like, there was no.
Speaker 4 (14:13):
Nothing.
Speaker 6 (14:16):
I just don't know what's up.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
Here's what I think, Yes, please, I think Sarah left
the bar and stumbled upon an ancient ring that creates
a wormhole to travel to another device in the universe.
Speaker 4 (14:27):
As good as guess as mine you know that is a.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
Lot hushtag stargate? Is this a movie thing on a
TV show? Is she okay?
Speaker 6 (14:37):
She guys?
Speaker 1 (14:37):
Figuret how to come back. I'll tell you what, Eduardo,
as we always do. Let's call her okay, and ultimately
I would love to get you a second date, but
let's just see what's up. I am concerned that she
left without saying goodbye. Yeah, this is a huge tip,
(14:57):
but let's let's figure it out. This all is positive, okay? Uh,
can you hang on the line for a song?
Speaker 4 (15:04):
Absolutely? Yeah, all right, I appreciate you.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
We're gonna call Sarah after this. It's Second Date Update
Star one on one three, a variety from the two
thousands of the nineties, and today it's Star one on
one three. It's Marcus and Corey doing second Date Update
chatting with Eduardo. I'm gonna call this kind of a
unique first date because he and Sarah were talking. He
mentioned that he and his boys do trivia night at
a local bar and he invited her, which is like
(15:29):
a group date then a date date. Eduardo. Let's be real,
like you introduced her to your friends like straight away.
Speaker 4 (15:35):
So yeah, to make you feel comfortable, you know, she's
not alone, okay.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
And she showed up. She was cute. The only clue
we have is that she left without saying goodbye. Right,
so there's something going on. Well, let's call her metrophone please,
and let's give her ah. Here we go. Hello, Hi,
(16:01):
may speak with Sarah please.
Speaker 6 (16:03):
Hi. This is Sarah.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
Hi Sarah, It's Marcus and Corey from Star one on
one three. Good morning, Good morning, Hi. Do you do
you listen to our show?
Speaker 6 (16:15):
I heard your show before. What is the nation of
this call? Because I'm a little nervous.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
What is the nature of this call?
Speaker 2 (16:23):
We're doing our dating segment, second Date Update, and someone
called us about you.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
Do you know about second Date Update? I do? Okay, Okay,
do you mind talking with us on the air?
Speaker 6 (16:36):
Sure? I have a feeling I know where this is
going to go. But let's do this.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
Okay. I like it. We might as well bring a
duardo on, he says Sarah. He says he enjoyed your date.
He said you showed up, super cute, cute. Yeah, so
I'd love to know what happened, Sarah. You know how
this works. The only clue we have is that you
left without saying goodbye. So what the heck happened?
Speaker 6 (17:00):
Oh? I honestly, this call alone is more effort than
Eduardo put into the entire date. So I'll start off
by saying.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
That, well that's not true. Hold on, shut your mouth
for a second. Back to you, Sarah.
Speaker 6 (17:18):
Well, okay, everything was going great when we were talking.
You know, I was really excited to meet up with him.
I had zero plans that weekend, so when he invited
me to trivia, I was really looking forward to it.
He was nice, he was funny. Everything was lining up.
But when I got there, he was already drunk.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
Drunk.
Speaker 6 (17:42):
Yeah, he has mentioned that he was going to be
drinking with his friends, but getting drunk a little out
of pocket for me. Like, oh, he was so loud,
the people were looking at him, he was slurring his words,
he was starting to say some really weird things.
Speaker 7 (17:58):
Well, he wasn't even really playing trivia. The guy he
told me to have a few drinks, and I thought, okay,
you know what I will.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
Oh, I don't like that, but.
Speaker 7 (18:11):
You know, I figured he wanted me to like loosen
up a little bit.
Speaker 4 (18:14):
Sure.
Speaker 7 (18:15):
Yeah, I really was enjoying talking his friends, and I
thought that the drinks wouldn't help me, you know, connect
to them even more. Maybe I would have a little
more playing trivia. But it was when he fell asleep
at the table.
Speaker 6 (18:31):
Oh yeah, that was when it was too much for me.
Speaker 7 (18:33):
I literally had no one to talk to after that.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
Sure, okay, well, at Eduardo, I'd like to hear from you.
Speaker 4 (18:42):
Now.
Speaker 1 (18:43):
Look you fell asleep.
Speaker 4 (18:45):
I mean like, look, I had a super long gay, right,
and I helped my friend move. You know, good guy.
I'll get a few homie points for that, right, And
you know, and I told you we were going to
be drinking when I invited you, and you said that
was all good?
Speaker 1 (18:57):
Did you tell her it was going to be nap time?
Speaker 4 (18:59):
I was sleeping, we were playing trivia. I was like
deep in thought, you know, searching the recesses of my
brain for the answers I wasn't sleeping.
Speaker 7 (19:07):
Yeah, that's the same thing that I say when I'm trying.
Speaker 4 (19:09):
To watch a movie on a date. I mean, but
you know, you could have nudged me a little bit,
you know, that would have been.
Speaker 7 (19:17):
I was deep in thought. You were snoring, Yeah, you
were deep in r em.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
That was not a good look for first date.
Speaker 4 (19:24):
You know, I think what's happening here is that I
think you don't have have fun. I think it's a problem.
And you know, you loosen up a little bit, all right?
Speaker 1 (19:32):
Dates boring, peepsy are okay? Isn't it? Pass out? It's cool?
Hang on, you guys, hang on? Where is she Sarah?
Speaker 6 (19:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (19:43):
Yeah, no, good call on that one. You made the
right choice. This is where I say sorry to bother
you and Corey and I make like Homer in the bushes. Yeah,
we're just going to fade into the mist. You're amazing.
Hang on. Uh, you gotta maintain not first date appropriate behavior,
(20:04):
not at all. No, maybe not even second or third. No, anyway.
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well more variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today.
(20:27):
It's Star one on one three It's Marcus and Corey
seven eighteen. Good morning. Another cutesy term for twenty twenty
five that TikTok Is made up for dating called flood lighting.
It's not good though, it's not positive. Don't allow yourself
to get flood lit floodlighted lighted.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
This is when someone overshares early on, spilling the details
about their personal life, previous relationships, and childhood trauma.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
What they're trying to do, or what they say they're
trying to do, is to see if you can handle
all of this. And you handle all this right away.
Speaker 2 (21:04):
Now you and I are on the same page when
it comes to how much you share at the beginning
of relationship. Because I did not let my husband meet
my family until after I knew he was in love
with me.
Speaker 5 (21:18):
I mean, come on, we didn't tell our families for
like a year, so I guess that's technically called gaslighting.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
What that is. But when we finally told her parents,
so I used to pull up in front of my
wife's house and and just and then she'd come running out,
right she did. She didn't say anything about anything. I
would just text her ham here, just real quick on
the dal And then when we finally told her parents,
her mom was like, Oh, you're the guy who's been
parking in front of the house for the last year.
(21:46):
There you go.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Mean people notice stuff. I mean they're they're aware, but
I don't. I don't think you want to know that much.
I feel like we've run into that with second date
up day, when somebody spills too much on a first
and you're just like, whoa, I'm not your therapist.
Speaker 1 (22:03):
This is a first date. You gotta This is a
terrible statement, but I say it all the time. You
got to hide the crazy. You gotta parcel it out,
Gotta parcel it out, because I don't want to be
overwhelmed like that. There are things that you share on
date number one that are different than things that you
share on date number two, that are different than things
that you find out after a year of living together. Yes, right, Yes,
(22:24):
This is why I always disliked the dating apps where
there's there are a date. I don't remember which one,
but my mom was on it, and granted she found
her husband this way, but they were writing each other
paragraphs about their views on life and here's what I've
been through, and I was like, this is too much
(22:44):
info to not have a cocktail in my hand.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
I do like the apps in the sense that you
find out, yes, I've been married before.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
I have kids.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
Sure you know all that, just yes, But am I
going to tell somebody I take Zola the daily on
the first date?
Speaker 5 (23:01):
No? No, no, that's that's for the morning show.
Speaker 1 (23:05):
What about it? Right? We talk about that and hope
you're not listening. But like so, my mom would just
pour out these beautifully crafted paragraphs, and I would think
to myself, I need to know this standing sitting next
to you in person, so that I so that I
don't continue to read it. This is a lot of information.
(23:28):
I mean, it's very personal.
Speaker 2 (23:30):
I get what's behind it. Yes you are, I get
what's behind it. You're testing the waters, uh, speeding up intimacy,
seeing if somebody can handle you. But you don't want
them to have to decide whether or not they can
handle you.
Speaker 1 (23:45):
So quickly says it right here that we're talking about
this new cutesy term called floodlighting. It's basically like trauma,
dumping on somebody on a first date or a second day,
telling them too much about yourself. It can be emotionally
acting in such a short amount of time. And I
think people if they're if you're if you're dealing with
(24:06):
a manipulator, Apparently they do it to try to create
that super intimate bond very quickly so you don't leave them.
Speaker 4 (24:13):
You know.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
That's the kind of darker side of it.
Speaker 4 (24:16):
Right.
Speaker 2 (24:16):
But this isn't just I think in relationships. I think
this is in friendships too. Sure, Like I've met people
like right off the bat, they're crazy, was just coming
in hot, and I'm like, we're not gonna be friends.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
And then they they you hide it under that guise
of well, I'm just keeping it real.
Speaker 5 (24:34):
Ew, that's right up there with everybody's I'm just saying
everybody's got that friend, I'm just keeping it real, and
then they can say whatever they want.
Speaker 1 (24:44):
It's but it's just it's not no. I hate that phrase.
Speaker 2 (24:48):
I hate that phrase because it doesn't mean anything, and
it's just an excuse for you to be a donkey.
Speaker 1 (24:55):
Thank you for that assessment. All right, Time for good
news with Marcus and Corey. Sometimes all you need is
one a good thoughts to make it a great day.
So let's do this. It's good news on Star one long,
so we give you good news twice a morning. Uh
(25:17):
seven forty. I've just kind of enamored with this story
that the Chronicle just put up out about it, says
one of SF's oldest bars and potentially SF's oldest bartender
still doing his thing. And his name is Pauli McManus.
He's seventy six, and he can make a bloody Mary
(25:38):
like no other. And I just I love his story. Yeah,
so he's the daytime bartender Wednesday's Thursdays and I believe Saturdays. Okay,
I think we're gonna go visit him today, just to
say what's up and congratulations from making the paper. So
Paulie moved to SF about a million years ago, uh,
in the eighties. So he packed a few bags and
(25:59):
drove from his hometown of Boston to SF in his
seventy five Mercury Marquee. Stayed with a friend in the
East Bay until he could get a foothold, and he
said he loved Boston, but San Francisco was just a
different place. So the bus stops the Loon where he
works on Union Streets one hundred and twenty five years
old itself.
Speaker 2 (26:17):
I was just looking at the fact that it's been
around since.
Speaker 1 (26:20):
Nineteen hundred exactly. Pauli worked at Perry's I'm guessing on
Union Street for like seventeen years, but then made the
move to the bus Stop Saloon and he wasn't Here's
what resonated with me. Personally, not the best student, but
he could talk to anybody. That's a gift. And he
was working at a restaurant and the guy was like,
(26:40):
you know what, you would make a great bartender. So
here's a guy who just really found his calling and
he's still doing it and amazing. Anyway, shout out to
our guy Paulie there at the bus Stop Saloon and
cow Hollow. We may be coming to busy you today. Bro.
I don't know you, but I feel like I do.
You want to? I want to? I want one of
(27:01):
them signature Bloody Mary. All right, start one on one three.
It's Marcus and Corey getting out of here. Stay dry,
drive safe. We'll talk to you tomorrow morning. Bye.
Poor variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and today
it's Star one on one three. It's Marcus and Corey
five point fifty eight. Good morning, Hi, what is it Wednesday?
It's hump Day. Hey, You've got a really nice DM
from one of our listeners. By the way, I did.
We were discussing Corey's struggles trying to change doctors from
a doctor that she doesn't vibe with. Yeah, and one
(00:22):
of our listeners I'm paraphrasing the note, but they they said, Hey, sorry,
you're having difficulty. Just let him know you want to change.
And she brought up a good point. She said, the
doctor may be a great doctor, just not for you.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
I think I saw this message, yeah, because it came
across yesterday, and I do appreciate the advice and the
direct messaging. It's it's very much appreciated because I know
I'm kind of sharing a personal kind of journey.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Sure, but I think a lot of people are pulling
the curtain back.
Speaker 2 (00:56):
Fatty Liver is what I'm dealing with, and it's more
common than you think.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
A lot of people have checked in with the same issue.
And then she closed the DM with the nickname we
gave the doctor which warmed my heart. Doctor toolbag. Anyway,
how are you? I'm good. We booked the tickets for
Paris yesterday. Oooh can I.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
Say that it's a milestone birthday. Yeah, Cory's turning thirty.
Thank you, and this is a big deal. And then
she was generous enough to bid on this condo and
Paris at the Marine Humane gala. So everybody wins, the
doggies and kiddies win.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Everybody wins.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
I mean I would do this, do you know, because
we made this donation, we don't owe money to the
government this year. Yeah, that's the way to do it.
I'd much rather give my money to the dogs at
the Marine Humane Society.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
You go right in the government. Well, that'll be fun.
More info. Okay. I rode the bus yesterday. That was fun.
Where'd you go?
Speaker 4 (02:05):
So?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
I dropped my bike off for service downtown Half Moon Bay.
I live about six miles away, and I could have
taken the wife's rig to go pick it up.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Yeah, but I thought, no, I'm gonna go get on
sam trans you like to have your little adventures.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
I do, I do, and my my wife knows me.
So I go down there and pick up the bike
shout out to uh, straight wheel cycle there and down
half them Bay Charles. Those guys are the nicest guys,
are so helpful. And then I rode back to my
house along the water. It was magical. And then I
got upstairs and uh, my wife was chilling watching her shows.
(02:42):
And I said, I got to ride the bus, and yeah,
knows how much joy that brings me, just to have
my little adventures. And then I gave her a hug
and she goes, ooh, you smell like outside. Ew, you
smell like bo and outside, get away. Eh.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
I used to ride the bus a lot when I
was a because my sister and I are five years apart.
So by the time I came around and wanted to
do stuff, my parents are like and we already did
that with your sister. So I had to find my
way around. And so I rode the bus plenty. And
now I don't ride the bus.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
I love the bus. Anyway, you didn't call me a snob,
I don't care. Oh it's fine though. Look, the bus
is great. UNI is great. As long as you don't
really have to be anywhere on time. It's more difficult
and more stressful and that's not a shot at bus
drivers or anybody. No, it's just the reality of it,
(03:33):
planning it, trying to get there. You know, I'll ride
in your car. That would take a half hour because
the bus has to stop a million times. It takes
an hour and a half. My husband takes bart every day. Yeah, anyway,
no variety from the two thousands, the nineties, and Today
Star one oh one three. It's Marcus and Corey. Good morning,
Hello Wednesday. Yeah, daylight Saving time coming in this weekend.
(03:54):
We're gonna spring forward. That's the worst. It's gonna get darker.
I love it. No, it's not. It's not gonna get darker.
It's gonna get lighter. I'm sorry, it's gona get lighter later.
That's what I meant to say.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
I appreciate the fact that you want to use that time,
but selfishly, this is totally selfish. Sure that we go
to bed so early and the sun's still up.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
It's hard. It's not hard losing an hour. Why is
it not hard? I don't like losing the hour, but
I adore. Some of my best memories as a kid
was staying out late because the sun was still up.
I love it, love it, yes, even though I even though,
just get some blackout curtains. Bro, what are you worried
about me?
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Bro?
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Don't go me bro? Sorry? Sis, That's okay.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Honestly, it's not so much that I care one way
or the other about how late the sun is up.
It's more like, let's pick one and stick.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
With it, right, So fifty four percent of Americans are
ready to just drop kick this whole thing of fall back,
spring forward. No surprise there. Then, to ask people to
choose between three options. Do you want standard time year round,
which is where it gets dark earlier, or do you
want what I like, which is daylight saving time which
(05:07):
helps it later? Or dude, twenty percent of people would
prefer to just keep switching. Who are you? Sociopaths? Who
are you? And go away? What if we split the difference?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
What if we do a half an hour and keep
it at that so when we do it on Sunday.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
We just we just split.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
The difference, we do thirty minutes, and then we just
keep it that way forever.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
I mean, the argument to keep its standard time is
sound because even though the sun goes down later in
the evening, it doesn't rise as early in the morning,
so technically the kids could be walking to school in
the dark. Right, there's a safety issue there. I get that.
But boy do I love late night. But you shouldn't be. No,
(05:51):
I know you're the one. You shouldn't. I'm a werewolf,
though I stay up later than I should every night
of the week.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
I know. I just want consistent see at this point,
because I don't think it's good.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
I don't think it's healthy.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
You know, the fact that they put out studies to
help you adjust to daylight saving time is the fact
that you have to look at these studies shows you
it's not.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Good for you. So they're saying to get ready for
this weekend because it is happening on Sunday, springing forward
of what, caffeine or alcohol late in the day. Stop
your screen time an hour before bed, don't exercise or
eat two to three hours before bedtime. Make sure you
have a dark sleep environment. And above all, like you,
if you have young kids, toddlers and whatever else, ramp
(06:35):
them up, you know, get them up ten minutes earlier,
put them to bed ten minutes earlier. Yeah, my wife
did that, she's so smart. Oh really already with my kid? Yeah, well,
no back when she was way younger. Oh okay, I'm
not sure what the plan is now, but just a reminder,
daylight saving is this weekend. I'm putting a poll up
on the Star one oh one three fm Instagram. What's
(06:56):
the question? Would you rather have it daylight saving time?
I'm where the sun goes down later or standard time,
where it goes down earlier. What's the preference Standard? It's
just decider for standard. That'll be up on the Star
one on one three fm Instagram for you to check in.
Speaker 4 (07:13):
This is what I'm talking about.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
It's what's trending on Star one, what's happening in entertainment news,
the biggest stories of the day, and everything people are
talking about today. In the bab Vin Diesel's teasing that
Groot may get a Guardians of the Galaxy spin off.
So Diesel's been the voice of Groot since twenty fourteen's
Guardians the Galaxy film, and was on Instagram saying Disney
(07:37):
wants their Planet X, which some say is Marvel's most
anticipated movie, the film where Groot returns to his home planet.
Diesel also shared that he's got other irons in the fire.
There's another fast and The Furious Coming Fast X Part two.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
What did Ludacris say, Hey, y'all keep watching him, We'll
keep making it.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Yeah, there's a rockh'am Sun adaptation based on the Mattel
toy and new installments of is I don't even know
if the movie's Triple X or just XXX. Riddick and
The Last Witch Hunter diesels busy. The first Firefest from
twenty seventeen lives in infamy. There was a ton of
(08:19):
documentaries because it was just filled with problems and the
co founder, Billy McFarlane even went to jail. Well he's
back and he says Firefest too is just around the corner.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
Last week he was on I think in the Today's
Show talking about we're going to do it up right
this time.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
He says it's set for May thirtieth through June second
and will take place on Isla Mucheris Become off the
coast of Cancun.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Now here's a hitch.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
The island authorities have come out to say the festival
just isn't real. They have no knowledge of the event
nor context crazy with any person or company about it.
Speaker 5 (08:53):
For us, this is an event that does not exist.
That is wild now could he be that pathologic Jesus?
Speaker 2 (09:01):
He shared on Instagram. Fire Festival Too is real, but
the island is saying it's not.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Here's the wildest part about it. I don't even know
if the tickets are on sale, but the second they
go on sale, they're going to sell out because everybody's
gonna want to see if it's real. Isn't that crazy?
Speaker 2 (09:18):
If I were to go, I would go and have
a backup plan. I would have a hotel room, I
would have necessities, I would have water.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
I mean, they didn't have anything. They had nothing.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
It just seems so ridiculous that people would buy this ticket.
But you know what, anything's possible because check this out.
There's a company that wants to bring back the extinct
wooly mammoth and other animals, and so they've created wooly mice.
They've genetically modified mice. They've got big, wavy hair that's
(09:49):
much longer than a normal mouse, and it is so great.
Scientists with Texas based Colossal Bioscience's targeted specific gene to
give the mice a wooly appearance. They looked at the
wooly mammoths' closest living relative the Asian elephant for guidance.
Didn't we learn anything with Jurassic Park and then Jurassic World.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
We don't need more teeth. It's too good, you know what. Yeah,
it's cheaper than the Fire Festival Carnival in some Francisco.
Right here, it's gonna be taking place May twenty fourth
and twenty fifth in the mission on Harrison between sixteenth
(10:34):
and twenty fourth. You can bart in. It's free, and
it'll be celebrating Latin and Caribbean culture through food, dance, music,
arts and crafts and more. Some of my favorite food
because there's so much infusion, you know what I mean,
It looks like so much fun when they cook. They
pull from so many different cultures and I think it's
And we worked a booth at Carnival one year. Oh yeah, yeah,
(10:57):
the Peruvian booth for Lamar. I was slinging cheese covered
Yuka fries. Oo oh so good. Don't miss Carnival again
going on the weekend of May twenty fourth, and the
twenty fifth Outside Lands is coming the weekend of August ninth,
And apparently the Eager Beaver tickets are on sale today
(11:18):
at ten a m. Before you even know who's gonna
be there. Okay, but you know it's going to be fire.
Unlike the Fire festival, outside Lands always delivers. So just
a reminder, like if you're a festival goer. My favorite
part about Outside Lands is that they just introduced a
wedding package. You can get married there for like five
hundred bucks. Wow. Okay, that information I will have up
(11:43):
on the Marcus at Corey Instagram. You can also catch
the dad joke of the week. I did it yesterday.
It was National Grammar Day, so it was an homage
to the English alphabet alphabet. H. I liked the joke,
of course you did. You picked it? Weigh in? Check
it out. It's on the Marcus and Corey Instagram right now.
(12:05):
Guess what's trending every weekday morning on the fifties. That's
at six fifty seven fifty am. And connect now with
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O one three dot com variety from the two thousands,
the nineties and today it's star one on one three.
It's Marcus and Corey time once again for second date update.
We're getting after it.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
We want to help you secure the second date. As
always and I think we're really good at it. I
think our record speaks for itself.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
You're so being so nice.
Speaker 5 (12:36):
To us, Yes, but that's we're here. Every day is
a new day, yes right, yes, get a DWARDO on
Good Morning at Duardo.
Speaker 4 (12:46):
So thanks for helping me out.
Speaker 1 (12:48):
Yeah, man, we're going to do our best. Let's get
into your date here is let's talk about Sarah, like,
how did you guys do it? First of all, and
then let's talk about the first date. Okay?
Speaker 4 (12:58):
Yeah, so, uh, you know we were I met her
on bumble and we were talking and flirting for a
couple of weeks. You know, I feel like we were
both digging each other. So I asked her out, you
know what I mean? I was like yellow ask her out,
and on a whim, I asked her to come to
trivia night with me and my friends. We go to
this bar. It's like my favorite bars. They have trivia
every week.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
You know, did you guys talk about this? Feels like
a very specific date to like just randomly invite somebody on.
Speaker 4 (13:25):
Like when we were chatting, I mentioned it to her
seem like, oh yeah, I've been there with my friends.
So I'm like like that's a perfect opening.
Speaker 6 (13:32):
Right there, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (13:33):
Yeah, sure, sure.
Speaker 4 (13:34):
And you know, my friends and I we get really
into it. You know, we drink and we have this
fro competition, and I thought she'd like it, and she
did show up. Then I felt so goofy because when
I saw her, like, I had this dumb, goofy smile
on my face and she walked in, and you know,
my boys were all like, oh dang, like Sarah's cute,
you know. So I felt really good. So we talked
for a little bit and try to give her some space.
(13:55):
I didn't want her to think that I was like,
you know, super hovery or whatnot. So I want to
have this space. But then like a little while later,
I looked up and she was gone. So I don't
know if she left early, if there was an emergency
or something, because I texted her and I didn't hear
back or anything.
Speaker 1 (14:09):
So she just like, there was no.
Speaker 4 (14:13):
Nothing.
Speaker 6 (14:16):
I just don't know what's up.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
Here's what I think, Yes, please, I think Sarah left
the bar and stumbled upon an ancient ring that creates
a wormhole to travel to another device in the universe.
Speaker 4 (14:27):
As good as guess as mine you know that is a.
Speaker 1 (14:29):
Lot hushtag stargate? Is this a movie thing on a
TV show? Is she okay?
Speaker 6 (14:37):
She guys?
Speaker 1 (14:37):
Figuret how to come back. I'll tell you what, Eduardo,
as we always do. Let's call her okay, and ultimately
I would love to get you a second date, but
let's just see what's up. I am concerned that she
left without saying goodbye. Yeah, this is a huge tip,
(14:57):
but let's let's figure it out. This all is positive, okay? Uh,
can you hang on the line for a song?
Speaker 4 (15:04):
Absolutely? Yeah, all right, I appreciate you.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
We're gonna call Sarah after this. It's Second Date Update
Star one on one three, a variety from the two
thousands of the nineties, and today it's Star one on
one three. It's Marcus and Corey doing second Date Update
chatting with Eduardo. I'm gonna call this kind of a
unique first date because he and Sarah were talking. He
mentioned that he and his boys do trivia night at
a local bar and he invited her, which is like
(15:29):
a group date then a date date. Eduardo. Let's be real,
like you introduced her to your friends like straight away.
Speaker 4 (15:35):
So yeah, to make you feel comfortable, you know, she's
not alone, okay.
Speaker 1 (15:39):
And she showed up. She was cute. The only clue
we have is that she left without saying goodbye. Right,
so there's something going on. Well, let's call her metrophone please,
and let's give her ah. Here we go. Hello, Hi,
(16:01):
may speak with Sarah please.
Speaker 6 (16:03):
Hi. This is Sarah.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
Hi Sarah, It's Marcus and Corey from Star one on
one three. Good morning, Good morning, Hi. Do you do
you listen to our show?
Speaker 6 (16:15):
I heard your show before. What is the nation of
this call? Because I'm a little nervous.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
What is the nature of this call?
Speaker 2 (16:23):
We're doing our dating segment, second Date Update, and someone
called us about you.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
Do you know about second Date Update? I do? Okay, Okay,
do you mind talking with us on the air?
Speaker 6 (16:36):
Sure? I have a feeling I know where this is
going to go. But let's do this.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
Okay. I like it. We might as well bring a
duardo on, he says Sarah. He says he enjoyed your date.
He said you showed up, super cute, cute. Yeah, so
I'd love to know what happened, Sarah. You know how
this works. The only clue we have is that you
left without saying goodbye. So what the heck happened?
Speaker 6 (17:00):
Oh? I honestly, this call alone is more effort than
Eduardo put into the entire date. So I'll start off
by saying.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
That, well that's not true. Hold on, shut your mouth
for a second. Back to you, Sarah.
Speaker 6 (17:18):
Well, okay, everything was going great when we were talking.
You know, I was really excited to meet up with him.
I had zero plans that weekend, so when he invited
me to trivia, I was really looking forward to it.
He was nice, he was funny. Everything was lining up.
But when I got there, he was already drunk.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
Drunk.
Speaker 6 (17:42):
Yeah, he has mentioned that he was going to be
drinking with his friends, but getting drunk a little out
of pocket for me. Like, oh, he was so loud,
the people were looking at him, he was slurring his words,
he was starting to say some really weird things.
Speaker 7 (17:58):
Well, he wasn't even really playing trivia. The guy he
told me to have a few drinks, and I thought, okay,
you know what I will.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
Oh, I don't like that, but.
Speaker 7 (18:11):
You know, I figured he wanted me to like loosen
up a little bit.
Speaker 4 (18:14):
Sure.
Speaker 7 (18:15):
Yeah, I really was enjoying talking his friends, and I
thought that the drinks wouldn't help me, you know, connect
to them even more. Maybe I would have a little
more playing trivia. But it was when he fell asleep
at the table.
Speaker 6 (18:31):
Oh yeah, that was when it was too much for me.
Speaker 7 (18:33):
I literally had no one to talk to after that.
Speaker 1 (18:36):
Sure, okay, well, at Eduardo, I'd like to hear from you.
Speaker 4 (18:42):
Now.
Speaker 1 (18:43):
Look you fell asleep.
Speaker 4 (18:45):
I mean like, look, I had a super long gay, right,
and I helped my friend move. You know, good guy.
I'll get a few homie points for that, right, And
you know, and I told you we were going to
be drinking when I invited you, and you said that
was all good?
Speaker 1 (18:57):
Did you tell her it was going to be nap time?
Speaker 4 (18:59):
I was sleeping, we were playing trivia. I was like
deep in thought, you know, searching the recesses of my
brain for the answers I wasn't sleeping.
Speaker 7 (19:07):
Yeah, that's the same thing that I say when I'm trying.
Speaker 4 (19:09):
To watch a movie on a date. I mean, but
you know, you could have nudged me a little bit,
you know, that would have been.
Speaker 7 (19:17):
I was deep in thought. You were snoring, Yeah, you
were deep in r em.
Speaker 1 (19:22):
That was not a good look for first date.
Speaker 4 (19:24):
You know, I think what's happening here is that I
think you don't have have fun. I think it's a problem.
And you know, you loosen up a little bit, all right?
Speaker 1 (19:32):
Dates boring, peepsy are okay? Isn't it? Pass out? It's cool?
Hang on, you guys, hang on? Where is she Sarah?
Speaker 6 (19:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (19:43):
Yeah, no, good call on that one. You made the
right choice. This is where I say sorry to bother
you and Corey and I make like Homer in the bushes. Yeah,
we're just going to fade into the mist. You're amazing.
Hang on. Uh, you gotta maintain not first date appropriate behavior,
(20:04):
not at all. No, maybe not even second or third. No, anyway.
Second Date Update seven oh five weekday mornings. He replace
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(20:27):
It's Star one on one three It's Marcus and Corey
seven eighteen. Good morning. Another cutesy term for twenty twenty
five that TikTok Is made up for dating called flood lighting.
It's not good though, it's not positive. Don't allow yourself
to get flood lit floodlighted lighted.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
This is when someone overshares early on, spilling the details
about their personal life, previous relationships, and childhood trauma.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
What they're trying to do, or what they say they're
trying to do, is to see if you can handle
all of this. And you handle all this right away.
Speaker 2 (21:04):
Now you and I are on the same page when
it comes to how much you share at the beginning
of relationship. Because I did not let my husband meet
my family until after I knew he was in love
with me.
Speaker 5 (21:18):
I mean, come on, we didn't tell our families for
like a year, so I guess that's technically called gaslighting.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
What that is. But when we finally told her parents,
so I used to pull up in front of my
wife's house and and just and then she'd come running out,
right she did. She didn't say anything about anything. I
would just text her ham here, just real quick on
the dal And then when we finally told her parents,
her mom was like, Oh, you're the guy who's been
parking in front of the house for the last year.
(21:46):
There you go.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Mean people notice stuff. I mean they're they're aware, but
I don't. I don't think you want to know that much.
I feel like we've run into that with second date
up day, when somebody spills too much on a first
and you're just like, whoa, I'm not your therapist.
Speaker 1 (22:03):
This is a first date. You gotta This is a
terrible statement, but I say it all the time. You
got to hide the crazy. You gotta parcel it out,
Gotta parcel it out, because I don't want to be
overwhelmed like that. There are things that you share on
date number one that are different than things that you
share on date number two, that are different than things
that you find out after a year of living together. Yes, right, Yes,
(22:24):
This is why I always disliked the dating apps where
there's there are a date. I don't remember which one,
but my mom was on it, and granted she found
her husband this way, but they were writing each other
paragraphs about their views on life and here's what I've
been through, and I was like, this is too much
(22:44):
info to not have a cocktail in my hand.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
I do like the apps in the sense that you
find out, yes, I've been married before.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
I have kids.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
Sure you know all that, just yes, But am I
going to tell somebody I take Zola the daily on
the first date?
Speaker 5 (23:01):
No? No, no, that's that's for the morning show.
Speaker 1 (23:05):
What about it? Right? We talk about that and hope
you're not listening. But like so, my mom would just
pour out these beautifully crafted paragraphs, and I would think
to myself, I need to know this standing sitting next
to you in person, so that I so that I
don't continue to read it. This is a lot of information.
(23:28):
I mean, it's very personal.
Speaker 2 (23:30):
I get what's behind it. Yes you are, I get
what's behind it. You're testing the waters, uh, speeding up intimacy,
seeing if somebody can handle you. But you don't want
them to have to decide whether or not they can
handle you.
Speaker 1 (23:45):
So quickly says it right here that we're talking about
this new cutesy term called floodlighting. It's basically like trauma,
dumping on somebody on a first date or a second day,
telling them too much about yourself. It can be emotionally
acting in such a short amount of time. And I
think people if they're if you're if you're dealing with
(24:06):
a manipulator, Apparently they do it to try to create
that super intimate bond very quickly so you don't leave them.
Speaker 4 (24:13):
You know.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
That's the kind of darker side of it.
Speaker 4 (24:16):
Right.
Speaker 2 (24:16):
But this isn't just I think in relationships. I think
this is in friendships too. Sure, Like I've met people
like right off the bat, they're crazy, was just coming
in hot, and I'm like, we're not gonna be friends.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
And then they they you hide it under that guise
of well, I'm just keeping it real.
Speaker 5 (24:34):
Ew, that's right up there with everybody's I'm just saying
everybody's got that friend, I'm just keeping it real, and
then they can say whatever they want.
Speaker 1 (24:44):
It's but it's just it's not no. I hate that phrase.
Speaker 2 (24:48):
I hate that phrase because it doesn't mean anything, and
it's just an excuse for you to be a donkey.
Speaker 1 (24:55):
Thank you for that assessment. All right, Time for good
news with Marcus and Corey. Sometimes all you need is
one a good thoughts to make it a great day.
So let's do this. It's good news on Star one long,
so we give you good news twice a morning. Uh
(25:17):
seven forty. I've just kind of enamored with this story
that the Chronicle just put up out about it, says
one of SF's oldest bars and potentially SF's oldest bartender
still doing his thing. And his name is Pauli McManus.
He's seventy six, and he can make a bloody Mary
(25:38):
like no other. And I just I love his story. Yeah,
so he's the daytime bartender Wednesday's Thursdays and I believe Saturdays. Okay,
I think we're gonna go visit him today, just to
say what's up and congratulations from making the paper. So
Paulie moved to SF about a million years ago, uh,
in the eighties. So he packed a few bags and
(25:59):
drove from his hometown of Boston to SF in his
seventy five Mercury Marquee. Stayed with a friend in the
East Bay until he could get a foothold, and he
said he loved Boston, but San Francisco was just a
different place. So the bus stops the Loon where he
works on Union Streets one hundred and twenty five years
old itself.
Speaker 2 (26:17):
I was just looking at the fact that it's been
around since.
Speaker 1 (26:20):
Nineteen hundred exactly. Pauli worked at Perry's I'm guessing on
Union Street for like seventeen years, but then made the
move to the bus Stop Saloon and he wasn't Here's
what resonated with me. Personally, not the best student, but
he could talk to anybody. That's a gift. And he
was working at a restaurant and the guy was like,
(26:40):
you know what, you would make a great bartender. So
here's a guy who just really found his calling and
he's still doing it and amazing. Anyway, shout out to
our guy Paulie there at the bus Stop Saloon and
cow Hollow. We may be coming to busy you today. Bro.
I don't know you, but I feel like I do.
You want to? I want to? I want one of
(27:01):
them signature Bloody Mary. All right, start one on one three.
It's Marcus and Corey getting out of here. Stay dry,
drive safe. We'll talk to you tomorrow morning. Bye.
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