February 8, 2024 • 6 mins
Kevin from Vernon went on a great first bowling date. He had and blast and can't figure out why he hasn't heard from his date. He wants to know why he's being ghosted.
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(00:00):
We're going to Vernon today. Seconddate up date. We've got Kevin on
the line to tell us about agreat first date we had. Good morning
Kevin, Hey, good morning guys. Welcome to the show. Thank you,
thank you, thanks for having me. Yeah, tell me about this
great first date because obviously you're gettingghosted. I need to know how the
date was. What'd you do?Where'd you go? How was it?
I went on a day with ZoelChristina. I actually took her bowling,
(00:24):
which is a lot of fun.She was a great date, Like,
we bowled for hours, we jokedaround, we had a couple of drinks.
I hit a couple of strikes,you know, nice, so nice,
And I thought, like, forsure we're going to go out a
couple times at least after that.And she's not responding to my texts and
(00:49):
calls. And it's really confusing becauseI thought we had really great chemistry that
night. It sounds like a veryclassic date. I kind of like it.
I have a question because I haveI've experienced through my friends. They've
gone on bowling dates and the guyswon't let them use the bumpers like in
the gutters, and it's like areal game changer. Now, that's not
a guy or girls, that is, unless you're twelve. What are you
(01:12):
talking about, Savannah? You disregardthat, Kevin, unless you're like a
toddler. Why do you need bumpersbecause you don't want to be shooting gutter
balls all night long? That's notno whatever, Kevin. You didn't make
any inappropriate ball jokes, did you? But there I could have? But
yeah, all right, gotcha?All right. Anyway, so you've reached
(01:34):
out to her and you're getting ghosted. Yeah, okay, so we're gonna
call her. I'm just gonna behonest with her and tell her that you
told us it was a great date, and I want to ask her you
know why she's ghosting. Are youready to get some answers? Oh?
Yeah, I'm ready, Savannah.All her girlfriends use bumpers when you're bowling?
What It takes the pressure off.You can have a couple of drinks
(01:56):
and not worry about missing like it'sfun. It's bowling. You guys are
no fun. I literally can't.That is hysterical. Hello, Hi is
Christina there? Hi Yah seeking HeyChristina, it's Courtney. Hey, it's
Walmart. Jeff, what's up bit, Savannah, we're calling from Kiss ninety
five to seven. Hey, you'reon the radio this morning. Okay,
(02:16):
all right, well listen, you'reon second date update. Hopefully you're familiar
with it. It means somebody wenton a great first date. They're getting
ghosted and they need answers, andthat's why we're calling you. Okay,
okay, Well all of refresher memoryjust in case. Kevin called us.
He said he took you bowling oryou guys went bowling. He said it
was amazing, you guys bold forquite a long time. You guys had
(02:38):
cocktails. I think he said theconversation was great. He felt like a
connection and that he's reached out toyou. Although he did tell us he
called and he texted you like threetimes, and you're ghosting him. I
don't know if it's like why excessivetexting? How is the date for you?
(02:58):
Not good? And the stamming didn'teither. But the guy would just
not stop talking about karate okay allthe time? Wait wait wait wait wait,
he wouldn't stop talking about karate.You wouldn't stop talking or showing or
like insisting that he practiced moves onme. It was it was awful.
Wait what has karate got to dowith bowling? I don't know, but
(03:20):
he was like, I'm gonna bea black belt soon. Just you wait,
like you have to learn this movelike in the bowling alley. It
was really embarrassing. Wait, andhe was trying moves on you, like
trying karate moves on you. That'shorrible. Yeah wait wait, I was
doing that teach your self defense.I don't know. You were okay,
fine, but he's he's on theline. Go ahead, Kevin, Hey,
(03:43):
Christina. Yeah, one, youthought it was annoying. I thought
you were into it, and Iwas teaching you a useful art form.
Like I might have laughed it offlike the first time, but I was
definitely not into it. And Ithink I'm pretty okay at defending myself.
No, sure, but like it'sit's an art form, you know,
it's a like self defense art form. And I don't think one people were
(04:09):
thinking it was weird that we weredoing it. I thought people thought it
was cute and I was teaching yousomething that I think is very important.
And look, I'm actually really proudof myself because I excelled in karate a
lot faster than a lot of mypeers did. And there's a lot of
moves that I'm really good at.There's a lot of forms I'm really good
(04:29):
at. So I wish you wouldhave respected me for that instead of looking
down on it. It's not thatI'm looking down her. I just think
that, like the date should havebeen a little bit more than a foreign
practice. Hey, Christina, atany point, did Kevin pull on a
block of wood and make you karatechop it? We were one step away
(04:51):
from that, Kevin. You triedkarate moves on her on your date.
She said, you were practicing someof your moves or showing them to her
on your date. Yeah, butI was not like a way that I
was hurting her in a way thatI was showing her like what, look,
it's like a dance, Like karateis like a dance. And you
know, I thought it was nicethat we were able to touch and like
(05:14):
move together, and I was showingyou things of like there are possibilities and
variations. You know, if someonecomes to your left, what do you
do if someone comes to you ifsomeone's using their fists in a certain direction,
Like what do you do with yourhand? That what things are instinctual?
I'm you know, I think thingslike that are important, like a
chemisthetic awareness and you're on a datewith someone's bragging now I get it,
(05:35):
all right? All right? Sois there any any is there any thought
of a second date if you justleave your karate your leave your karate gee
at home, like you don't puton the you know, you don't practice
the moves. Would you, guys, would you consider going out with him
again? Christina? I don't know. I think it's just to show body
and not enough self awareness for me. I don't really think I'm into it,
(06:00):
Okay, not a connection? Doyou understand where she's coming from?
Kevin? Yeah, sure, sure, all right, well listen, it
obviously is not a love connection,and you will fee maybe you'll meet a
black belt or something. Kevin andyou guys love more in common. I
appreciate you calling and Christy, andI appreciate you being honest as well.
Yeah, thanks for having me
We're going to Vernon today. Seconddate up date. We've got Kevin on
the line to tell us about agreat first date we had. Good morning
Kevin, Hey, good morning guys. Welcome to the show. Thank you,
thank you, thanks for having me. Yeah, tell me about this
great first date because obviously you're gettingghosted. I need to know how the
date was. What'd you do?Where'd you go? How was it?
I went on a day with ZoelChristina. I actually took her bowling,
(00:24):
which is a lot of fun.She was a great date, Like,
we bowled for hours, we jokedaround, we had a couple of drinks.
I hit a couple of strikes,you know, nice, so nice,
And I thought, like, forsure we're going to go out a
couple times at least after that.And she's not responding to my texts and
(00:49):
calls. And it's really confusing becauseI thought we had really great chemistry that
night. It sounds like a veryclassic date. I kind of like it.
I have a question because I haveI've experienced through my friends. They've
gone on bowling dates and the guyswon't let them use the bumpers like in
the gutters, and it's like areal game changer. Now, that's not
a guy or girls, that is, unless you're twelve. What are you
(01:12):
talking about, Savannah? You disregardthat, Kevin, unless you're like a
toddler. Why do you need bumpersbecause you don't want to be shooting gutter
balls all night long? That's notno whatever, Kevin. You didn't make
any inappropriate ball jokes, did you? But there I could have? But
yeah, all right, gotcha?All right. Anyway, so you've reached
(01:34):
out to her and you're getting ghosted. Yeah, okay, so we're gonna
call her. I'm just gonna behonest with her and tell her that you
told us it was a great date, and I want to ask her you
know why she's ghosting. Are youready to get some answers? Oh?
Yeah, I'm ready, Savannah.All her girlfriends use bumpers when you're bowling?
What It takes the pressure off.You can have a couple of drinks
(01:56):
and not worry about missing like it'sfun. It's bowling. You guys are
no fun. I literally can't.That is hysterical. Hello, Hi is
Christina there? Hi Yah seeking HeyChristina, it's Courtney. Hey, it's
Walmart. Jeff, what's up bit, Savannah, we're calling from Kiss ninety
five to seven. Hey, you'reon the radio this morning. Okay,
(02:16):
all right, well listen, you'reon second date update. Hopefully you're familiar
with it. It means somebody wenton a great first date. They're getting
ghosted and they need answers, andthat's why we're calling you. Okay,
okay, Well all of refresher memoryjust in case. Kevin called us.
He said he took you bowling oryou guys went bowling. He said it
was amazing, you guys bold forquite a long time. You guys had
(02:38):
cocktails. I think he said theconversation was great. He felt like a
connection and that he's reached out toyou. Although he did tell us he
called and he texted you like threetimes, and you're ghosting him. I
don't know if it's like why excessivetexting? How is the date for you?
(02:58):
Not good? And the stamming didn'teither. But the guy would just
not stop talking about karate okay allthe time? Wait wait wait wait wait,
he wouldn't stop talking about karate.You wouldn't stop talking or showing or
like insisting that he practiced moves onme. It was it was awful.
Wait what has karate got to dowith bowling? I don't know, but
(03:20):
he was like, I'm gonna bea black belt soon. Just you wait,
like you have to learn this movelike in the bowling alley. It
was really embarrassing. Wait, andhe was trying moves on you, like
trying karate moves on you. That'shorrible. Yeah wait wait, I was
doing that teach your self defense.I don't know. You were okay,
fine, but he's he's on theline. Go ahead, Kevin, Hey,
(03:43):
Christina. Yeah, one, youthought it was annoying. I thought
you were into it, and Iwas teaching you a useful art form.
Like I might have laughed it offlike the first time, but I was
definitely not into it. And Ithink I'm pretty okay at defending myself.
No, sure, but like it'sit's an art form, you know,
it's a like self defense art form. And I don't think one people were
(04:09):
thinking it was weird that we weredoing it. I thought people thought it
was cute and I was teaching yousomething that I think is very important.
And look, I'm actually really proudof myself because I excelled in karate a
lot faster than a lot of mypeers did. And there's a lot of
moves that I'm really good at.There's a lot of forms I'm really good
(04:29):
at. So I wish you wouldhave respected me for that instead of looking
down on it. It's not thatI'm looking down her. I just think
that, like the date should havebeen a little bit more than a foreign
practice. Hey, Christina, atany point, did Kevin pull on a
block of wood and make you karatechop it? We were one step away
(04:51):
from that, Kevin. You triedkarate moves on her on your date.
She said, you were practicing someof your moves or showing them to her
on your date. Yeah, butI was not like a way that I
was hurting her in a way thatI was showing her like what, look,
it's like a dance, Like karateis like a dance. And you
know, I thought it was nicethat we were able to touch and like
(05:14):
move together, and I was showingyou things of like there are possibilities and
variations. You know, if someonecomes to your left, what do you
do if someone comes to you ifsomeone's using their fists in a certain direction,
Like what do you do with yourhand? That what things are instinctual?
I'm you know, I think thingslike that are important, like a
chemisthetic awareness and you're on a datewith someone's bragging now I get it,
(05:35):
all right? All right? Sois there any any is there any thought
of a second date if you justleave your karate your leave your karate gee
at home, like you don't puton the you know, you don't practice
the moves. Would you, guys, would you consider going out with him
again? Christina? I don't know. I think it's just to show body
and not enough self awareness for me. I don't really think I'm into it,
(06:00):
Okay, not a connection? Doyou understand where she's coming from?
Kevin? Yeah, sure, sure, all right, well listen, it
obviously is not a love connection,and you will fee maybe you'll meet a
black belt or something. Kevin andyou guys love more in common. I
appreciate you calling and Christy, andI appreciate you being honest as well.
Yeah, thanks for having me
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