April 28, 2025 • 29 mins
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Dear blog.
Speaker 6 (03:54):
Let me just say justice for customer service workers, because
I've had an enough over the weekend. I was on
a phone with a friend and y'all know this friend,
and he was shopping, doing a lot of shopping on here, there, everywhere,
Marshall's Target, just out running the streets, and every time
he got ready to cash out or check out at
(04:15):
a store, he would say, Hi, what's your return policy?
Speaker 4 (04:19):
Exactly?
Speaker 6 (04:22):
No, no, because if you come to my register and
ask me what's the return policy as you are purchasing something,
I'm going to tell you we don't have a return policy.
This is fine by final sale, because what are you doing?
What type of game are we playing here? If you're
coming to shop and you got stuff, do you not
want it?
Speaker 4 (04:40):
Because why are you asking me about to return pot?
Speaker 7 (04:43):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (04:43):
No, we're just giving. I don't feel like trying it
on here. That's what he's giving. It's giving. I don't
feel like trying it on here. I'm gonna take it
home and try it on him. Doesn't fit, I'm gonna
bring it back. That's what it's giving.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
That is not okay? Why not we have beautiful like I.
Speaker 6 (04:56):
Work at Target, but a beautiful fitting room, dressing room
okay that you can go in. There's there's a mirrors
and fans to keep you cool. And you don't take
advantage of that. You want to come to my store,
buy all this stuff, go home, play dress up, put
the outfice on, TikTok. I don't know what you're doing.
And then you want to come bring it back. Okay,
(05:17):
you are to bring it back and put it back
on my shelves. And now it's fifty percent marked off.
This is what's wrong with the world.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Oh, that's the thing is I don't think it is.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
I think a lot of times if you bring step
back to still on the shelf, I think it goes
right back on the show.
Speaker 8 (05:28):
You know.
Speaker 6 (05:28):
I don't blame them because they're probably tired of restocking.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Like I was like, this is a crime. He went
from store to store asking these people, and I'm like,
what are you doing? Bro, Like, if you don't want it,
why are you buying it? He's like, well, I don't
know if I'm gonna like it. And so I take
it home. I put, I put. He was buying stuff
for it. I take it home. I put the picture
on the wall. If it doesn't speak to me, I
take it better. What are you doing? Like this is
(05:52):
against the law.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Tell the oldest time.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
I bet you the Amazon people they know what This
is people will I don't know. I don't know which
thing I need, or which part I need, or which
color I need which, and so they just order them
all and they return.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
The ones they don't need. I think this is pretty common.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
This is not okay though anything.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
This has been happening forever.
Speaker 4 (06:10):
I'm an online.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
Shopper, so you know, if I get in the situation,
I'll order a couple sizes.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
I never get around to sending that stuff back by away.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
But you're doing the same thing he's doing.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
I keep the good will in business, but you're ordering
them with the intent and the opportunity to return them.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
You're just too lazy to do it. Absolutely so then
you're no different than he is. You're doing the exact
same thing he is.
Speaker 4 (06:33):
But you causes so much extra work for people.
Speaker 6 (06:36):
Don't buy stuff with the intent of bringing it back. Now.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
What I have an issue with are the people who
go and buy a very expensive dress or very expensive
outfit of some kind, wear it, and once the event
is overtaken back. I have a problem with that because
you bought it, you full on war it out, you
full on did whatever with it, and now you're bringing
it back because not because there's something wrong with it,
(07:01):
but because you're bringing back a used item now that
they may or may not be able to sell at
full price because you never had the intent to own it.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
I don't like that.
Speaker 4 (07:10):
That's not right.
Speaker 6 (07:11):
In some of these high end stores, people get a
commission off of the sales they make, and then they
think they hit their bonus for the month and they
hear you come next week, subtracting from their bonus or
from their commission. I just feel so bad for all
customer service workers and then people that just buy stuff
and with the intent of taking it back.
Speaker 5 (07:30):
Man, does your commission get returned to you if they done?
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (07:35):
Yeah, So that's really crappy then.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
I mean, I mean that's how it goes though, Like
I mean, there's there's a percentage of in retail of
items that are going to be returned.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
You have to know that.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Like when I worked in clothing retail, Like I just
I knew that, Like I knew there was going to
be a percentage of the time that stuff was going
to come back.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
But I bring it.
Speaker 6 (07:53):
Back if if something is a malfunction, if the button
fell off the moment you tried it, or whatever. But
just because you know, I thought I wanted blue, but
really I wanted green, so I bought both of the
blue and the green, and then I got home and
decided I only want the blue, so let me go
to take the green back.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
I just feel like that is not right.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
I think the store would much rather that you're in
there buying stuff to begin with and returning some of it.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
I agree they'd probably rather that you're there come to.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
My store with that, okay, and my store is you
you like you buy.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
You can turn around and walking right back to the shop.
I'm bad.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
I've done that thing where like if I see a
stain on it, I'll be like, oh, can you give
me like tempercent off whatever?
Speaker 4 (08:32):
Never done that, Oh yeah, that's okay.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
I don't have an issue with that.
Speaker 4 (08:36):
They're probably not.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Going to sell it at all.
Speaker 4 (08:38):
But it's a saint on it because my friend.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
Bought it.
Speaker 4 (08:44):
Right and get a discount.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Someone said, it's a retail worker. It's more rude to
be on the phone at the checkout and ask what
the return.
Speaker 6 (08:52):
Policy level, because I'm in the background, like, why are
you asking for a return policy?
Speaker 1 (08:58):
I would also agree that the fitting rooms can be deceiving.
The mirrors can be deceiving. The lighting can be either
exceptional or really bad. Lately, I've been in stories where
the lighting. I'm not going to call out one major
department store, but like, I'll go there once a quarter
and my friend works there and she'll lay some stuff out,
I'll try it on and I'll buy some of it,
and she makes it really easy for me. But the
(09:18):
problem is the lighting there sucks. The lighting sucks. I'm like,
what are we doing? I'm like, what is it with
these They got those like, you know, skinny long kind
of like office neon lights.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
And then I'm like, what is this? I look terrible
in these clothes.
Speaker 6 (09:30):
It's probably on a purpose because they're tired of influencers
coming in there walking around their store making tiktoks.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Maybe, but as I would rather you come in my
store and at least if you return half what you bought,
at least you bought something. I don't know, but what
would make me mad is if I'm like, you bought
that's a very expensive dress or whatever. You stretch it out,
you wore it, you did whatever to it, you woren
a cab, you wren't an luber you wore it out,
and now you bring it back.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
You tell me it's not right. It is right because
I saw your Instagram.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
You wore that thing, yes, and now I have to
try and sell it as new, which is probably what's
happening most of the time. It goes right back up there,
which is why they say you should always wash the
clothes that you can when you get back from the store,
because we don't really.
Speaker 4 (10:11):
Know that's true.
Speaker 6 (10:12):
I just I don't know, man, Justice for them, man,
I feel bad even.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
Though even though you do it, do this, you buy
with the intensive doing that, you're just too lazy to
do it.
Speaker 6 (10:22):
Hello, and I drop my car and I think it's
a good wheel.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
When I get well, it's very nice of laziness results
in a donation. You've ever been left waiting by the phone?
It's the Fred Show, Ashton, Good morning, welcome to the show.
How are you good? For you doing great?
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Man? What's going on with this woman Anastasia?
Speaker 1 (10:47):
We got to hear how you met, about any dates
you've been on, and then kind of where things are
now and how we can help you.
Speaker 7 (10:54):
So I met her on this app like a dating app. Okay,
I'm vague vaguely familiar with those. Yeah, have been been
known to you know, frequent. But anyway, Yeah, okay, so
on app you met her then what.
Speaker 9 (11:07):
Yeah, we went to h like a coffee place, and
then we got some food later.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
The date was pretty nice. I was really into her.
I thought it went well.
Speaker 9 (11:19):
I thought she had a good time too, because with
a good good night and goodbye. But now she's ghosting me,
so I don't know why.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Okay, all right, well that's where we come in. Of course,
we're gonna call Anastasia, get her on the phone if
we can. We're gonna ask these questions on your behalf,
and the hope is always is that we can straighten
us out and set you up on another date and
pay for it.
Speaker 2 (11:40):
Okay, Yeah, sounds good. We're gonna find.
Speaker 1 (11:42):
Out what's up next after Billy Eilace back in two
minutes with Part two on the Fred Show, Billy Eilace,
It's the fread Show on the radio on the iHeart
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as well Ashton. Hello, let's call Anastasia. This is a
wom when you met on one of the apps, she
(12:03):
went on a nice coffee date. You thought everything went
really well. You're a little confused, though, because you've reached
out to her to plan another date and she has
not responded to you at all, and.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
You want to know why. Yep, sounds right.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
Okay, Well let's call her now. Good luck. Hello, Hi,
is this Anastasia.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
It is Hi.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the
Fred Show, the morning radio show. The whole crew is
yere and I do have to tell you that we
are on the radio right now and I would need
you our permission to continue with the call. Can which
have for just a second, would you mind?
Speaker 8 (12:39):
I guess I have time. What's up?
Speaker 2 (12:41):
Well, thank you very much.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
We're calling on behalf of a dude, Dame Ashton, and
he says he met you on a dating app and you, guys,
went on a coffee date recently.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Do you remember him?
Speaker 3 (12:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (12:51):
I remember, And I'm be honest, I'm not sure I'm
actually comfortable being on the radio talking about this anymore.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
Oh well, you can hang up any time.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
I mean, if you want to, but we'd love to
get the story because he reached out to us and
he says that he thought the date went really well
and he liked you, except he is confused, he says,
because he can't get a hold of you. So I mean,
you can tell us and then we'll tell him, and
then you know, this whole thing can be over.
Speaker 8 (13:14):
I guess yeah, okay, well, I mean I guess you're right.
It's very this is very awkward, but it does nothing
illegal happen, So sure. Yeah, Ashton and I met on
We met on Bumble and we were like flirting and stuff,
and he asked me out for coffee and at the
time he said it's because oh, I'm taking.
Speaker 4 (13:34):
A break from drinking, right okay.
Speaker 8 (13:37):
Which is no, that's like no problem. I don't need
to go out and drink.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
So I'm gonna have that question too about the coffee,
like does he not drink or was he not drinking
or you know who knows? Yeah, but anyway, so he's
taking a break.
Speaker 8 (13:48):
Yeah, I mean that's what he told me, And yeah,
that's great. I support that, So totally fine. We go,
we have food, We got the coffee. We walked in
my car and he gave me a kiss before saying goodbye,
and everything was fine, but I don't know, my sixth
cents kind of went off and things took a turn. Basically.
(14:10):
I know, it's weird that I did some creeping on
him on social and I found his Facebook with his photo,
but it said he was much younger than.
Speaker 4 (14:20):
What he told me.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
I mean, how much younger, like you're going to jail
younger or you don't know.
Speaker 8 (14:25):
But I have some friends who are cops and I
reached out to them and they told me that he's twenty.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
Oh also we ah, wow, so we like did a
background check on the guy. Okay, so he's twenty. I
mean he's twenty years old. And how old are you?
I'm thirty four, okay, And how old did he tell
you he was?
Speaker 8 (14:45):
He didn't exactly say, And I guess that's kind of
like what I'm saying. I mean the whole like, oh,
I'm taking a break from drinking though.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
Break Actually that he's legal, right, he can't he can't
physically buy a drink. Okay, wow, yeah, I am.
Speaker 8 (15:01):
My bumble profile says that my age range is thirty
to fifty, so it means in order for us to
have matched up on bumble, he had.
Speaker 4 (15:09):
To have lied.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
Oh so he consciously set his age older. Okay, Now
this isn't against the law. He's over eighteen, he's an adult.
I mean, it's not like you did anything wrong. But
I can also understand.
Speaker 8 (15:18):
That you like I kissed the boy. Yeah, well you
know I could have babysat this kid.
Speaker 1 (15:24):
Yeah, I mean you were you were fourteen years old,
you were you know, a woman, presumably when he was born.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
Let me bring it.
Speaker 1 (15:30):
I forgot to mention that Ashton is here, and I'm
very forgetful, and I apologize for that.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Ashton. How old are you?
Speaker 1 (15:37):
I'm twenty, okay, and and you're purporting to be much
older than that to match with older women, which I
must say is a genius move.
Speaker 2 (15:47):
Yes, that's it. That's a pro that's a pro level move.
Speaker 6 (15:50):
Yeah, I'll be honest, it's very very creative.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
And you know you you were indeed taking a break
from drinking because you can't. So there's But also, if
I had to do over again when I was twenty,
I would have been dating much older women too. In fact,
if you've been listening for a while, you know I
did have a transformational story when I was around twenty
one and I went out with someone significantly older.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
Now, I did not lie about my she knew if anything.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
I think she lied about hers among other things. But anyway,
that was a transformational experience for me. And I can
see why you might want to do this. But what
were you going to do when you eventually had to tell.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Her how old you were?
Speaker 9 (16:31):
Oh, honestly, I didn't really think that far ahead obviously,
but shocking I would have. I would have I would
have been honest about it and hopefully that they would
take Did mom forget to put your cell phone bill?
I mean, what's what's going on here? Like you're breaking
up a whole bit, Anastasia.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
So you kiss you kissed a twenty year old you're
thirty four, I mean I can see that.
Speaker 4 (16:57):
A No, when someone's twenty, I think.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
There's nothing wrong with it that I think that the
person needs to not pretend to be ten plus years older.
I think it's obviously very dishonest the line for me, right,
and so I don't know anything. And you could go
out with a much younger man if you chose to,
and he can go out with a much older woman.
If he chooses to. But I think it's the dishonesty.
It's the lack of transparency that's the issue here, right,
(17:24):
I mean that's.
Speaker 8 (17:24):
The reason he'll never see me again. But like, I mean,
to each their own I'm not bashing people who date
people that are much younger than them. But I was
pretty upfront that it's not for me, and then he
like circumvented.
Speaker 4 (17:37):
The system so that he could slip through.
Speaker 8 (17:39):
The cracks anyway. Yeah, no, never again.
Speaker 1 (17:41):
So it was intentionally, it was manipulative, It was intentionally
dishonest because he knew, he knows that most thirty four
year old women are not going to go out with
a twenty year old man. Most, I want to say all,
but most, And so you would never have accepted a
date with him if you had known that he was twenty.
Speaker 4 (17:57):
No, I mean there'd be no point.
Speaker 8 (17:58):
We're not even on the same playing like mentally, life wise.
Speaker 1 (18:04):
I think it's fair to say that's not a disc
that's just the facts exactly, Ashton. How often has this
worked for you and you ever get caught weld was
really my.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
First time? No you.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
Yeah, yeah, I don't know, but hey, I will say
the whole taking a break from drinking. It's multifascinating because
not only is it it's it's smooth, but it's highly dishonest,
like you know what you're doing, Like you know that
you're lying to these women. You're not being deceptive, you're
being dishonest.
Speaker 7 (18:35):
Yeah, yeah, you know.
Speaker 8 (18:40):
I'm glad I took this call now because I hope
you learned a lesson today, Ashton.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
It's giving, like teacher and students.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
Maybe maybe this is what he's into actually, like, yeah,
you're going you're going to bet without.
Speaker 2 (18:54):
Dinner to night, Ashton. I'll tell you what.
Speaker 1 (18:57):
Yeah, you've been, you've been, you've been an okay, wait
a minute over here, this is turning into it. Okay, anyway,
so anastage. I mean, I have to ask the question.
It's my job. I know the answer. Would you like
to go out with him again? We'll pay for it,
perhaps with nice chuck e cheese or something. I don't know,
Oh my god, McDonald's.
Speaker 5 (19:21):
I know if I kiss a twenty year old, I
would be like I would feel like I guess a child.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
Yeah, I mean, let's just be clear.
Speaker 1 (19:30):
He obviously looked old enough to her, and he obviously
she was obviously into it. There's nothing wrong with this,
it's just it's a lie. She didn't This is not illegal.
It's a lie that I would have an issue with,
and it would also make me wonder what else are
you not telling me? In what other ways you're being deceptive?
But I mean, you didn't let me ask you this anastagia.
You couldn't tell that he was fourteen years younger.
Speaker 8 (19:50):
I mean I wasn't even to say it, but maybe
work on your skincare regimen, Nash and like you pulled
it off, but it's not a good.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Oh wait, so now okay, so now you kiss the
pimplely kid like I don't know, I'm confused. I'm confused.
I'm trying to give you the benefit of the doubt here.
And then you look like a very mature twenty year
old and that's how they say he had.
Speaker 8 (20:11):
A beard, So like that helps too. I've seen sixteen
year olds with a full beard and they can they
can pull it off.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
Well, I couldn't bring a full beard at twenty. So
you know, he says, well ahead of me. I guess
I still can't.
Speaker 1 (20:25):
All right, look, so no for a second date, Ashton look,
I bet you there are people who would be into
it if you just told the truth. Maybe not as
many as you'd like, but you're good. The problem with
these kind of lies is eventually you're going to have
to tell the truth and then you have a problem.
So why not just tell the truth from the beginning.
Speaker 9 (20:43):
Yeah, I'll definitely start doing that more.
Speaker 1 (20:46):
I guess he should start doing that more. Yeah, I
would recommend it. Okay at a stage, I'm sorry this
happened to you. Good luck to you. Thank you for
answering Ashton tell the truth. Good luck to you as well.
Speaker 4 (20:56):
I love your show, The.
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Speaker 5 (21:09):
He Didty rejected a plea deal in his ongoing sex
trafficking and racketeering case during a court hearing Friday. Prosecutors
did confirm that the deal was offered, and he said
no because his lawyers say he's simply a swinger, not
a criminal.
Speaker 4 (21:22):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (21:23):
In last week's hearing, the judge also ruled that the
twenty sixteen video of Ditty beating ex girlfriend Cassie Ventura
at an La hotel is able to be shown to
the jury during the trial, which I know is a
big thing. Tiffany Slaine, the mother of Pittsburgh Steelers first
round draft pick Derek Harmon, died just after her son
was selected in the twenty twenty five NFL draft. He
(21:45):
told reporters on Thursday that his mom remained on life
support and that he planned to visit her at a
Detroit hospital after he was picked and after he joined
the Steelers as the number twenty one overall pick. He
was able to get to the hospital to tell his
mom that he was drafted, but sadly, she passed shortly
after he got there. It's just a tragic story, he said.
But she actually had a stroke when he was a
(22:06):
freshman in college and was paralyzed on her left side,
as well as undergoing eight brain surgeries, she.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
Incredibly said, But I was thinking about it this morning.
It's almost in addition to being very very sad, it's
almost a little sweet. It's like she held on long
enough to share that moment with him.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
Yeah you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
Yeah, which you hear about that happening sometimes all the time,
you know, big milestones, and then I think, you know,
so obviously very tragic story. But she was alive to
know that that happened for him, So that's pretty amazing.
Speaker 4 (22:35):
Yeah, it's yeah, it's beautiful and tragic. You know, at
least he has that.
Speaker 5 (22:40):
But yeah, you hear about it, and when you tell
your loved one sometimes like it's okay to go, then
they go.
Speaker 4 (22:44):
So I believe it's a really real thing.
Speaker 5 (22:46):
Switching gears to Kanye West, who joined Twitch and was
banned from the streaming service all in just seven minutes,
that's all it took. Shortly into the stream, he of course,
started making slurs about Jewish people and the ld LGBTQ
plus community, also insulted his ex wife Kim Kardashian and
said that Elon Musk had given him free passes to
post discriminatory messages on social media.
Speaker 4 (23:07):
Within a few.
Speaker 5 (23:08):
Minutes, his account was replaced with a message that his
channel was temporarily unavailable for violating at Twitch's community guideline.
Speaking of Kim, by the way, one of the suspects
in her robbery. That Paris robbery reportedly died suddenly just
as the case was about to go to trial.
Speaker 4 (23:25):
His name is Marceau.
Speaker 5 (23:26):
He died on March sixth in Paris, and his cause
of death isn't known yet, but he was accused of
working alongside the gang that held Kim at gunpoint in
twenty sixteen. He was seventy two and was expected to
go on trial today alongside others accused of being involved
in the ten million dollar heist.
Speaker 4 (23:44):
Kim is going to take the stand, by the.
Speaker 5 (23:46):
Way, at the trial of the Paris underground gang alleged
to have done all that to her. She will be
up here in court in May and she will testify.
Speaker 4 (23:55):
So that's going to be really hard for her to
be a part of.
Speaker 5 (23:58):
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And Travis and Jason Kelsey were spout at having a
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The Stagecoach music festival was over the weekend. Stage Coach
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primarily this genre of music.
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Country.
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Guess the infamous reality star Big Ed has a birthday today?
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Travis and Jason Kelsey were spot I having a boys
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That was tough.
Speaker 6 (28:18):
Does Taylor know that he's hanging with Justin? Oh, and
Travis is out here with Justin Sly.
Speaker 4 (28:24):
I think she and Justin are cool.
Speaker 6 (28:26):
I think, oh, what about all the Swifties, but I
just thought, yeah, I don't they used to be cool.
Speaker 4 (28:35):
Yeah, she's just gonna keep things over there. There's a
lot of things. I'm sure she's like, she's.
Speaker 2 (28:41):
Not against the Yeah, it's a united front.
Speaker 3 (28:44):
Like me, I am very much a Gunstep, but the
Swifties probably are not.
Speaker 1 (28:48):
Yeah, not a lot of fans in the room. There's
just something like off putting a little bit that really
has a bad attitude.
Speaker 2 (28:54):
He looks like he looks like he has a bad attitude.
He does looked like that.
Speaker 1 (28:58):
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Thank you to everybody who came out to our favorite place.
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I task. Everyone bought a house there this weekend.
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It's exciting and I have a full security detail, and
I task now when I'm out there because they have
the best looking police officer, the best looking police force
I've ever seen. I had friends of mine who saw
the picture who were texting me going, they did they
only send the good looking people out, you know for
that picture? And I'm like, no, I think that was everybody. Yes,
and the cops showed up that I don't even think
we're working that day. I don't even know where they
(00:28):
came from. I have no idea where they came from.
But full of beans. Thank you guys for hosting us,
and thank you to everybody who came out as Waldwar.
Thank you thirteen tour brought to you at Make It
in Illinois. We really appreciate you, and we'll do it again.
We're talking about maybe in the fall, and people were
asking Jason how we picked the neighborhoods that we went
to the locations, and the way we did it was
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we took darts and we with a blindfold, and we
just threw it at a map, and then we had
to take like Minneapolis out because nobody can hear us there.
And it turns out we're not action not on in Amarillo,
so we had to take that one out. But then,
you know, then that's how we picked the.
Speaker 3 (01:04):
Spot Wisconsin, you know, right over the border. Maybe that'll
be a stop next time, you guys.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
Okay, good, and then I'll go out there the day
before and stay in a hotel otherwise help me getting
up at one o'clock in the morning. Is that how
we're just going to force our way into different cities.
It's like Madison want to be.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
On a man and we're right there at Milwaukee, so
we might as well take that too.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Sure, why not makes perfect sense? But thank you to
everybody who who hosted us. And then you went on Yelp,
didn't you? And you looked at places that people liked
so that were popular.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Us yeah, and photos and yeah. So it's just I
trust yelp more than well myself.
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And then in fairness, didn't you also then email multiple
places meet yeah, and like make it up for grabs
and then to the people who wrote you back and
engage with you that those are the ones that we picked.
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Yes, so look for an email for if you own
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Dear blog.
Speaker 6 (03:54):
Let me just say justice for customer service workers, because
I've had an enough over the weekend. I was on
a phone with a friend and y'all know this friend,
and he was shopping, doing a lot of shopping on here, there, everywhere,
Marshall's Target, just out running the streets, and every time
he got ready to cash out or check out at
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a store, he would say, Hi, what's your return policy?
Speaker 4 (04:19):
Exactly?
Speaker 6 (04:22):
No, no, because if you come to my register and
ask me what's the return policy as you are purchasing something,
I'm going to tell you we don't have a return policy.
This is fine by final sale, because what are you doing?
What type of game are we playing here? If you're
coming to shop and you got stuff, do you not
want it?
Speaker 4 (04:40):
Because why are you asking me about to return pot?
Speaker 7 (04:43):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (04:43):
No, we're just giving. I don't feel like trying it
on here. That's what he's giving. It's giving. I don't
feel like trying it on here. I'm gonna take it
home and try it on him. Doesn't fit, I'm gonna
bring it back. That's what it's giving.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
That is not okay? Why not we have beautiful like I.
Speaker 6 (04:56):
Work at Target, but a beautiful fitting room, dressing room
okay that you can go in. There's there's a mirrors
and fans to keep you cool. And you don't take
advantage of that. You want to come to my store,
buy all this stuff, go home, play dress up, put
the outfice on, TikTok. I don't know what you're doing.
And then you want to come bring it back. Okay,
(05:17):
you are to bring it back and put it back
on my shelves. And now it's fifty percent marked off.
This is what's wrong with the world.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Oh, that's the thing is I don't think it is.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
I think a lot of times if you bring step
back to still on the shelf, I think it goes
right back on the show.
Speaker 8 (05:28):
You know.
Speaker 6 (05:28):
I don't blame them because they're probably tired of restocking.
Speaker 4 (05:31):
Like I was like, this is a crime. He went
from store to store asking these people, and I'm like,
what are you doing? Bro, Like, if you don't want it,
why are you buying it? He's like, well, I don't
know if I'm gonna like it. And so I take
it home. I put, I put. He was buying stuff
for it. I take it home. I put the picture
on the wall. If it doesn't speak to me, I
take it better. What are you doing? Like this is
(05:52):
against the law.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Tell the oldest time.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
I bet you the Amazon people they know what This
is people will I don't know. I don't know which
thing I need, or which part I need, or which
color I need which, and so they just order them
all and they return.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
The ones they don't need. I think this is pretty common.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
This is not okay though anything.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
This has been happening forever.
Speaker 4 (06:10):
I'm an online.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
Shopper, so you know, if I get in the situation,
I'll order a couple sizes.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
I never get around to sending that stuff back by away.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
But you're doing the same thing he's doing.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
I keep the good will in business, but you're ordering
them with the intent and the opportunity to return them.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
You're just too lazy to do it. Absolutely so then
you're no different than he is. You're doing the exact
same thing he is.
Speaker 4 (06:33):
But you causes so much extra work for people.
Speaker 6 (06:36):
Don't buy stuff with the intent of bringing it back. Now.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
What I have an issue with are the people who
go and buy a very expensive dress or very expensive
outfit of some kind, wear it, and once the event
is overtaken back. I have a problem with that because
you bought it, you full on war it out, you
full on did whatever with it, and now you're bringing
it back because not because there's something wrong with it,
(07:01):
but because you're bringing back a used item now that
they may or may not be able to sell at
full price because you never had the intent to own it.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
I don't like that.
Speaker 4 (07:10):
That's not right.
Speaker 6 (07:11):
In some of these high end stores, people get a
commission off of the sales they make, and then they
think they hit their bonus for the month and they
hear you come next week, subtracting from their bonus or
from their commission. I just feel so bad for all
customer service workers and then people that just buy stuff
and with the intent of taking it back.
Speaker 5 (07:30):
Man, does your commission get returned to you if they done?
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (07:35):
Yeah, So that's really crappy then.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
I mean, I mean that's how it goes though, Like
I mean, there's there's a percentage of in retail of
items that are going to be returned.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
You have to know that.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Like when I worked in clothing retail, Like I just
I knew that, Like I knew there was going to
be a percentage of the time that stuff was going
to come back.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
But I bring it.
Speaker 6 (07:53):
Back if if something is a malfunction, if the button
fell off the moment you tried it, or whatever. But
just because you know, I thought I wanted blue, but
really I wanted green, so I bought both of the
blue and the green, and then I got home and
decided I only want the blue, so let me go
to take the green back.
Speaker 4 (08:08):
I just feel like that is not right.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
I think the store would much rather that you're in
there buying stuff to begin with and returning some of it.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
I agree they'd probably rather that you're there come to.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
My store with that, okay, and my store is you
you like you buy.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
You can turn around and walking right back to the shop.
I'm bad.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
I've done that thing where like if I see a
stain on it, I'll be like, oh, can you give
me like tempercent off whatever?
Speaker 4 (08:32):
Never done that, Oh yeah, that's okay.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
I don't have an issue with that.
Speaker 4 (08:36):
They're probably not.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Going to sell it at all.
Speaker 4 (08:38):
But it's a saint on it because my friend.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
Bought it.
Speaker 4 (08:44):
Right and get a discount.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Someone said, it's a retail worker. It's more rude to
be on the phone at the checkout and ask what
the return.
Speaker 6 (08:52):
Policy level, because I'm in the background, like, why are
you asking for a return policy?
Speaker 1 (08:58):
I would also agree that the fitting rooms can be deceiving.
The mirrors can be deceiving. The lighting can be either
exceptional or really bad. Lately, I've been in stories where
the lighting. I'm not going to call out one major
department store, but like, I'll go there once a quarter
and my friend works there and she'll lay some stuff out,
I'll try it on and I'll buy some of it,
and she makes it really easy for me. But the
(09:18):
problem is the lighting there sucks. The lighting sucks. I'm like,
what are we doing? I'm like, what is it with
these They got those like, you know, skinny long kind
of like office neon lights.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
And then I'm like, what is this? I look terrible
in these clothes.
Speaker 6 (09:30):
It's probably on a purpose because they're tired of influencers
coming in there walking around their store making tiktoks.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Maybe, but as I would rather you come in my
store and at least if you return half what you bought,
at least you bought something. I don't know, but what
would make me mad is if I'm like, you bought
that's a very expensive dress or whatever. You stretch it out,
you wore it, you did whatever to it, you woren
a cab, you wren't an luber you wore it out,
and now you bring it back.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
You tell me it's not right. It is right because
I saw your Instagram.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
You wore that thing, yes, and now I have to
try and sell it as new, which is probably what's
happening most of the time. It goes right back up there,
which is why they say you should always wash the
clothes that you can when you get back from the store,
because we don't really.
Speaker 4 (10:11):
Know that's true.
Speaker 6 (10:12):
I just I don't know, man, Justice for them, man,
I feel bad even.
Speaker 1 (10:16):
Though even though you do it, do this, you buy
with the intensive doing that, you're just too lazy to
do it.
Speaker 6 (10:22):
Hello, and I drop my car and I think it's
a good wheel.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
When I get well, it's very nice of laziness results
in a donation. You've ever been left waiting by the phone?
It's the Fred Show, Ashton, Good morning, welcome to the show.
How are you good? For you doing great?
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Man? What's going on with this woman Anastasia?
Speaker 1 (10:47):
We got to hear how you met, about any dates
you've been on, and then kind of where things are
now and how we can help you.
Speaker 7 (10:54):
So I met her on this app like a dating app. Okay,
I'm vague vaguely familiar with those. Yeah, have been been
known to you know, frequent. But anyway, Yeah, okay, so
on app you met her then what.
Speaker 9 (11:07):
Yeah, we went to h like a coffee place, and
then we got some food later.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
The date was pretty nice. I was really into her.
I thought it went well.
Speaker 9 (11:19):
I thought she had a good time too, because with
a good good night and goodbye. But now she's ghosting me,
so I don't know why.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Okay, all right, well that's where we come in. Of course,
we're gonna call Anastasia, get her on the phone if
we can. We're gonna ask these questions on your behalf,
and the hope is always is that we can straighten
us out and set you up on another date and
pay for it.
Speaker 2 (11:40):
Okay, Yeah, sounds good. We're gonna find.
Speaker 1 (11:42):
Out what's up next after Billy Eilace back in two
minutes with Part two on the Fred Show, Billy Eilace,
It's the fread Show on the radio on the iHeart
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as well Ashton. Hello, let's call Anastasia. This is a
wom when you met on one of the apps, she
(12:03):
went on a nice coffee date. You thought everything went
really well. You're a little confused, though, because you've reached
out to her to plan another date and she has
not responded to you at all, and.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
You want to know why. Yep, sounds right.
Speaker 1 (12:15):
Okay, Well let's call her now. Good luck. Hello, Hi,
is this Anastasia.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
It is Hi.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the
Fred Show, the morning radio show. The whole crew is
yere and I do have to tell you that we
are on the radio right now and I would need
you our permission to continue with the call. Can which
have for just a second, would you mind?
Speaker 8 (12:39):
I guess I have time. What's up?
Speaker 2 (12:41):
Well, thank you very much.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
We're calling on behalf of a dude, Dame Ashton, and
he says he met you on a dating app and you, guys,
went on a coffee date recently.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Do you remember him?
Speaker 3 (12:51):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (12:51):
I remember, And I'm be honest, I'm not sure I'm
actually comfortable being on the radio talking about this anymore.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
Oh well, you can hang up any time.
Speaker 1 (12:59):
I mean, if you want to, but we'd love to
get the story because he reached out to us and
he says that he thought the date went really well
and he liked you, except he is confused, he says,
because he can't get a hold of you. So I mean,
you can tell us and then we'll tell him, and
then you know, this whole thing can be over.
Speaker 8 (13:14):
I guess yeah, okay, well, I mean I guess you're right.
It's very this is very awkward, but it does nothing
illegal happen, So sure. Yeah, Ashton and I met on
We met on Bumble and we were like flirting and stuff,
and he asked me out for coffee and at the
time he said it's because oh, I'm taking.
Speaker 4 (13:34):
A break from drinking, right okay.
Speaker 8 (13:37):
Which is no, that's like no problem. I don't need
to go out and drink.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
So I'm gonna have that question too about the coffee,
like does he not drink or was he not drinking
or you know who knows? Yeah, but anyway, so he's
taking a break.
Speaker 8 (13:48):
Yeah, I mean that's what he told me, And yeah,
that's great. I support that, So totally fine. We go,
we have food, We got the coffee. We walked in
my car and he gave me a kiss before saying goodbye,
and everything was fine, but I don't know, my sixth
cents kind of went off and things took a turn. Basically.
(14:10):
I know, it's weird that I did some creeping on
him on social and I found his Facebook with his photo,
but it said he was much younger than.
Speaker 4 (14:20):
What he told me.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
I mean, how much younger, like you're going to jail
younger or you don't know.
Speaker 8 (14:25):
But I have some friends who are cops and I
reached out to them and they told me that he's twenty.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
Oh also we ah, wow, so we like did a
background check on the guy. Okay, so he's twenty. I
mean he's twenty years old. And how old are you?
I'm thirty four, okay, And how old did he tell
you he was?
Speaker 8 (14:45):
He didn't exactly say, And I guess that's kind of
like what I'm saying. I mean the whole like, oh,
I'm taking a break from drinking though.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
Break Actually that he's legal, right, he can't he can't
physically buy a drink. Okay, wow, yeah, I am.
Speaker 8 (15:01):
My bumble profile says that my age range is thirty
to fifty, so it means in order for us to
have matched up on bumble, he had.
Speaker 4 (15:09):
To have lied.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
Oh so he consciously set his age older. Okay, Now
this isn't against the law. He's over eighteen, he's an adult.
I mean, it's not like you did anything wrong. But
I can also understand.
Speaker 8 (15:18):
That you like I kissed the boy. Yeah, well you
know I could have babysat this kid.
Speaker 1 (15:24):
Yeah, I mean you were you were fourteen years old,
you were you know, a woman, presumably when he was born.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
Let me bring it.
Speaker 1 (15:30):
I forgot to mention that Ashton is here, and I'm
very forgetful, and I apologize for that.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Ashton. How old are you?
Speaker 1 (15:37):
I'm twenty, okay, and and you're purporting to be much
older than that to match with older women, which I
must say is a genius move.
Speaker 2 (15:47):
Yes, that's it. That's a pro that's a pro level move.
Speaker 6 (15:50):
Yeah, I'll be honest, it's very very creative.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
And you know you you were indeed taking a break
from drinking because you can't. So there's But also, if
I had to do over again when I was twenty,
I would have been dating much older women too. In fact,
if you've been listening for a while, you know I
did have a transformational story when I was around twenty
one and I went out with someone significantly older.
Speaker 2 (16:13):
Now, I did not lie about my she knew if anything.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
I think she lied about hers among other things. But anyway,
that was a transformational experience for me. And I can
see why you might want to do this. But what
were you going to do when you eventually had to tell.
Speaker 2 (16:30):
Her how old you were?
Speaker 9 (16:31):
Oh, honestly, I didn't really think that far ahead obviously,
but shocking I would have. I would have I would
have been honest about it and hopefully that they would
take Did mom forget to put your cell phone bill?
I mean, what's what's going on here? Like you're breaking
up a whole bit, Anastasia.
Speaker 1 (16:52):
So you kiss you kissed a twenty year old you're
thirty four, I mean I can see that.
Speaker 4 (16:57):
A No, when someone's twenty, I think.
Speaker 1 (17:03):
There's nothing wrong with it that I think that the
person needs to not pretend to be ten plus years older.
I think it's obviously very dishonest the line for me, right,
and so I don't know anything. And you could go
out with a much younger man if you chose to,
and he can go out with a much older woman.
If he chooses to. But I think it's the dishonesty.
It's the lack of transparency that's the issue here, right,
(17:24):
I mean that's.
Speaker 8 (17:24):
The reason he'll never see me again. But like, I mean,
to each their own I'm not bashing people who date
people that are much younger than them. But I was
pretty upfront that it's not for me, and then he
like circumvented.
Speaker 4 (17:37):
The system so that he could slip through.
Speaker 8 (17:39):
The cracks anyway. Yeah, no, never again.
Speaker 1 (17:41):
So it was intentionally, it was manipulative, It was intentionally
dishonest because he knew, he knows that most thirty four
year old women are not going to go out with
a twenty year old man. Most, I want to say all,
but most, And so you would never have accepted a
date with him if you had known that he was twenty.
Speaker 4 (17:57):
No, I mean there'd be no point.
Speaker 8 (17:58):
We're not even on the same playing like mentally, life wise.
Speaker 1 (18:04):
I think it's fair to say that's not a disc
that's just the facts exactly, Ashton. How often has this
worked for you and you ever get caught weld was
really my.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
First time? No you.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
Yeah, yeah, I don't know, but hey, I will say
the whole taking a break from drinking. It's multifascinating because
not only is it it's it's smooth, but it's highly dishonest,
like you know what you're doing, Like you know that
you're lying to these women. You're not being deceptive, you're
being dishonest.
Speaker 7 (18:35):
Yeah, yeah, you know.
Speaker 8 (18:40):
I'm glad I took this call now because I hope
you learned a lesson today, Ashton.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
It's giving, like teacher and students.
Speaker 1 (18:47):
Maybe maybe this is what he's into actually, like, yeah,
you're going you're going to bet without.
Speaker 2 (18:54):
Dinner to night, Ashton. I'll tell you what.
Speaker 1 (18:57):
Yeah, you've been, you've been, you've been an okay, wait
a minute over here, this is turning into it. Okay, anyway,
so anastage. I mean, I have to ask the question.
It's my job. I know the answer. Would you like
to go out with him again? We'll pay for it,
perhaps with nice chuck e cheese or something. I don't know,
Oh my god, McDonald's.
Speaker 5 (19:21):
I know if I kiss a twenty year old, I
would be like I would feel like I guess a child.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
Yeah, I mean, let's just be clear.
Speaker 1 (19:30):
He obviously looked old enough to her, and he obviously
she was obviously into it. There's nothing wrong with this,
it's just it's a lie. She didn't This is not illegal.
It's a lie that I would have an issue with,
and it would also make me wonder what else are
you not telling me? In what other ways you're being deceptive?
But I mean, you didn't let me ask you this anastagia.
You couldn't tell that he was fourteen years younger.
Speaker 8 (19:50):
I mean I wasn't even to say it, but maybe
work on your skincare regimen, Nash and like you pulled
it off, but it's not a good.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Oh wait, so now okay, so now you kiss the
pimplely kid like I don't know, I'm confused. I'm confused.
I'm trying to give you the benefit of the doubt here.
And then you look like a very mature twenty year
old and that's how they say he had.
Speaker 8 (20:11):
A beard, So like that helps too. I've seen sixteen
year olds with a full beard and they can they
can pull it off.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
Well, I couldn't bring a full beard at twenty. So
you know, he says, well ahead of me. I guess
I still can't.
Speaker 1 (20:25):
All right, look, so no for a second date, Ashton look,
I bet you there are people who would be into
it if you just told the truth. Maybe not as
many as you'd like, but you're good. The problem with
these kind of lies is eventually you're going to have
to tell the truth and then you have a problem.
So why not just tell the truth from the beginning.
Speaker 9 (20:43):
Yeah, I'll definitely start doing that more.
Speaker 1 (20:46):
I guess he should start doing that more. Yeah, I
would recommend it. Okay at a stage, I'm sorry this
happened to you. Good luck to you. Thank you for
answering Ashton tell the truth. Good luck to you as well.
Speaker 4 (20:56):
I love your show, The.
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Speaker 5 (21:09):
He Didty rejected a plea deal in his ongoing sex
trafficking and racketeering case during a court hearing Friday. Prosecutors
did confirm that the deal was offered, and he said
no because his lawyers say he's simply a swinger, not
a criminal.
Speaker 4 (21:22):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (21:23):
In last week's hearing, the judge also ruled that the
twenty sixteen video of Ditty beating ex girlfriend Cassie Ventura
at an La hotel is able to be shown to
the jury during the trial, which I know is a
big thing. Tiffany Slaine, the mother of Pittsburgh Steelers first
round draft pick Derek Harmon, died just after her son
was selected in the twenty twenty five NFL draft. He
(21:45):
told reporters on Thursday that his mom remained on life
support and that he planned to visit her at a
Detroit hospital after he was picked and after he joined
the Steelers as the number twenty one overall pick. He
was able to get to the hospital to tell his
mom that he was drafted, but sadly, she passed shortly
after he got there. It's just a tragic story, he said.
But she actually had a stroke when he was a
(22:06):
freshman in college and was paralyzed on her left side,
as well as undergoing eight brain surgeries, she.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
Incredibly said, But I was thinking about it this morning.
It's almost in addition to being very very sad, it's
almost a little sweet. It's like she held on long
enough to share that moment with him.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
Yeah you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (22:22):
Yeah, which you hear about that happening sometimes all the time,
you know, big milestones, and then I think, you know,
so obviously very tragic story. But she was alive to
know that that happened for him, So that's pretty amazing.
Speaker 4 (22:35):
Yeah, it's yeah, it's beautiful and tragic. You know, at
least he has that.
Speaker 5 (22:40):
But yeah, you hear about it, and when you tell
your loved one sometimes like it's okay to go, then
they go.
Speaker 4 (22:44):
So I believe it's a really real thing.
Speaker 5 (22:46):
Switching gears to Kanye West, who joined Twitch and was
banned from the streaming service all in just seven minutes,
that's all it took. Shortly into the stream, he of course,
started making slurs about Jewish people and the ld LGBTQ
plus community, also insulted his ex wife Kim Kardashian and
said that Elon Musk had given him free passes to
post discriminatory messages on social media.
Speaker 4 (23:07):
Within a few.
Speaker 5 (23:08):
Minutes, his account was replaced with a message that his
channel was temporarily unavailable for violating at Twitch's community guideline.
Speaking of Kim, by the way, one of the suspects
in her robbery. That Paris robbery reportedly died suddenly just
as the case was about to go to trial.
Speaker 4 (23:25):
His name is Marceau.
Speaker 5 (23:26):
He died on March sixth in Paris, and his cause
of death isn't known yet, but he was accused of
working alongside the gang that held Kim at gunpoint in
twenty sixteen. He was seventy two and was expected to
go on trial today alongside others accused of being involved
in the ten million dollar heist.
Speaker 4 (23:44):
Kim is going to take the stand, by the.
Speaker 5 (23:46):
Way, at the trial of the Paris underground gang alleged
to have done all that to her. She will be
up here in court in May and she will testify.
Speaker 4 (23:55):
So that's going to be really hard for her to
be a part of.
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the infamous reality star big Ad has a birthday today.
(26:22):
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And Travis and Jason Kelsey were spout at having a
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bandero Nice Kiki's watching TikTok okay A four four is
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Ye? Kemsley was spotted out for the first time since
filing for divorce. Who is her estranged husband?
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P K?
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The fifth and final season of You is officially out
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Netflix.
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The Stagecoach music festival was over the weekend. Stage Coach
is the festival that comes right after Coachella and it's
primarily this genre of music.
Speaker 4 (27:15):
Country.
Speaker 2 (27:16):
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Speaker 1 (27:17):
Guess the infamous reality star Big Ed has a birthday today?
Which reality show is he from?
Speaker 6 (27:23):
Oh boy, he's from TLCS three, My two six pound fiance.
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That's what you're looking for, all right, you gotta get this.
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Travis and Jason Kelsey were spot I having a boys
weekend in Vegas with this former in Sync boy bander.
Speaker 4 (27:46):
Whoa We talked about that Travis boybander inside.
Speaker 2 (27:53):
Just oh yeah, yeah, that was good. That was good.
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on tomorrow? Kicking not bad man?
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That was tough.
Speaker 6 (28:18):
Does Taylor know that he's hanging with Justin? Oh, and
Travis is out here with Justin Sly.
Speaker 4 (28:24):
I think she and Justin are cool.
Speaker 6 (28:26):
I think, oh, what about all the Swifties, but I
just thought, yeah, I don't they used to be cool.
Speaker 4 (28:35):
Yeah, she's just gonna keep things over there. There's a
lot of things. I'm sure she's like, she's.
Speaker 2 (28:41):
Not against the Yeah, it's a united front.
Speaker 3 (28:44):
Like me, I am very much a Gunstep, but the
Swifties probably are not.
Speaker 1 (28:48):
Yeah, not a lot of fans in the room. There's
just something like off putting a little bit that really
has a bad attitude.
Speaker 2 (28:54):
He looks like he looks like he has a bad attitude.
He does looked like that.
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