#41 Bystander Basics: Tools for Supporting Couples You Love Who Are Navigating Betrayal

Today we are thrilled to welcome Ashly Leavitt back to the podcast to discuss how people in a couple’s circle of support can gain some understanding on how to best show up for their loved ones facing betrayal. Our hope is that this is an episode you might be able to share with your loved ones who are in your inner circle and are wanting to be part of your healthy support team. We explore the many challenges that couples endure and pivotal role bystanders can play in empowering the couple to make the decisions that are best for them during this difficult time. Ashly has a self guided course called “Bystander Basics” and she has some great tips for those sinking to understand. You can find registration information for that course HERE.  We hope you enjoy today’s show!

Thank you for tuning in to our podcast for couples healing from infidelity and betrayal. As certified coaches, we aim to provide support and guidance for those who decide to stay in their relationship. We offer valuable insights, empathy, and hope on the journey toward healing. Join us weekly for encouragement, skills, and expertise.

Your hosts are Certified Relational Recovery Coaches specializing in Infidelity and Betrayal:

Hali Roderick- TICC, PCC, APSATS CPC-Candidate, ERCEM Candidate

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Stephanie Hamby- MCLC, APSATS CPC-Candidate, ERCEM Candidate

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Choosing To Stay Webinar: Join Hali as she teaches this monthly free webinar for those Choosing To Stay after infidelity and betrayal.

Help. Her. Heal. for Men - Hali Roderick helps men learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. Participants will receive weekly exercises and worksheets to help them gain the skills to begin healing a broken relationship. 

Empowerment After Betrayal for Men - Hali Roderick leads a betrayal trauma support group for men who have been betrayed where they can gain tools and resources to recover from betrayal trauma in a healthy way while being surrounded by a supportive community. 

Healing Hearts Course - Stephanie Hamby leads This Couples Course that is a comprehensive program designed for early recovery and healing couples to learn and experience valuable insights together. It focuses on partner betrayal trauma and sexual integrity issues or addiction. The course provides practical education and tools to support healing for the partner and relationship repair. 

More from Choose Recovery Services:

Choose Healing - Betrayal Trauma support for women - This weekly support group is for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help to cope with the symptoms of trauma such as depression, hypervigilance, anxiety, and lack of trust. Ask questions from our team of coaches at Choose Recovery Services who have been there with this accessible group that is free for the first 12 weeks. 

Choose 90 for Men - Support group for men who are ready to take the first step towards recovery from compulsive behavior, infidelity, and/or betrayal. Participants will gain tools and an understanding to better manage emotions and assess behaviors. 

Choose 180 for Men - This support group helps men gain emotional intelligence so they can better manage unwanted behaviors. Participants will connect with other men, better understand their emotions, work through shame, and build a deep respect for themselves. 

Choose 360 for Men - Support group for men who have reached a sense of wholeness in their recovery and are looking to maintain their recovery through awareness, accountability, and comradery.

Road to Recovery - Free monthly webinar with Luke and Alana Gordon