Courageous Journeys® ~ Impact & healing from childhood trauma

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Have you ever felt paralyzed by uncertainty on your healing journey? That nagging doubt that creeps in when you're trying to set boundaries, build new relationships, trust your own memories, or even trusting your progress?

You're not alone. It’s a natural part of the healing process. It’s ultimately about learning to trust in yourself.

In this episode, I talk about the nature of un...

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Acknowledgment is an important step in healing. But, deep healing requires us to go deeper, into the emotional aspect of what it means to acknowledge and accept.

In this episode, I share more on what no longer denying our wounds actually means… what it looks and feels like. I share a significant example from my own life as well as some other ways it can show up.

I also share insights on wh...

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Imagine being near the summit of this healing process and realizing that you’ve forgotten an important piece that you needed to be able to feel the full depth of freedom that comes as you heal.

I don’t want that to be something you experience.

Instead, I want you to be able to trust that you’re collecting everything you’ll need through the journey and once you reach the other side.

In this...

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For too many children, the people they should be able to trust the most turn out to be the people who hurt them the most.

This is relational trauma. Experiencing trauma is not just about what happens to you, but so much of the impact comes from who the perpetrator is to you and how that betrayal of trust can affect you for years to come.

In this episode, I'll share insights on how inte...

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Join me for an important conversation on an often forgotten, yet deeply impactful ,form of childhood wounding.

Neglect is a silent wound that can be hard to acknowledge… and heal.

It’s often minimized, denied, and overlooked. Sometimes, even by those in mental health, child protective services, and the justice system.

Just as being able to acknowledge other forms of childhood trauma is nec...

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About a year and a half ago I spit in a tube and sent it off to 23andme to learn more about my ancestry. I ended up getting a little more than I bargained for…

There have been some interesting and surprising things that have arisen since learning my father is not who I believed he was.

In this episode, I'm opening up about the unexp...

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Whether it’s watching fiction on television or the 24 hour news and images of the devastation across the world, it’s nearly impossible to not feel the impact of the trauma so many are experiencing.

For survivors of childhood or complex trauma, the impact can feel even heavier because it tangles into the web of our own trauma… fear, betrayal, heartbreak, and grief.

In this episode, I share ...

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You know those moments when you hear or experience something and your way of thinking or perspective suddenly changes? Those “aha” moments.

These are pretty common along this healing journey. However, there are a few that are “AAHHHAAAA” kind of moments. An experience or realization that becomes more like a tectonic shift.

In this episode I’m sharing something that came up in a recent sess...

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One of the major challenges people face when trying to set boundaries is dealing with the unhappiness and pushback from others. It can be so difficult, especially if you've spent much of your life being a people-pleaser and putting others' feelings above your own.

In this episode, I'll share one of the most important things to remember as you consider setting a boundary. I’ll a...

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There's a video going around on TikTok asking the question "Would you rather run into a bear or a man in the woods?" It has sparked a really interesting… and affirming, yet alarming conversation. Today, I want to dive into that from a bit of a different angle.

For survivors of sexual trauma or harassment, there is so much self-doubt around trusting our instincts and deciding ...

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When we think of a survivor of childhood sexual trauma, we tend to have preconceived ideas, expectations, and images that come to mind.

In today’s episode, I talk briefly about where they come from and the misconceptions that abound in them. Then , I talk about the diverse realities of being a survivor of childhood trauma, shattering the notion of what society tends to perpetuates.

I’d lov...

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May is Mental Health Awareness Month, a time to bring awareness to help lessen the stigma around mental illness.

I think there’s another important aspect to this that I share in today’s episode. I talk about mental health vs mental illness (there should be no shame or stigma around either one) and the importance of starting with ourselves in releasing both.

We're in this together, thro...

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Today, I'm sharing a personal story that explores how self-doubt, panic, shame, and a disastrous seventh-grade haircut can resurface even after years of healing work.

I had an experience recently that brought back some familiar feelings of shame and panic from my childhood.

In this episode, I offer insights into the ongoing journey of healing, emphasizing that struggles are normal, and...

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There is a lot that goes into choosing when and with whom to share your trauma experience.

There are many ways you can be met by the person you’re sharing with. We all hope, even if we don’t think it will happen, that we’ll be met with understanding, compassion, and support.

Whomever we share with is going to have their own feelings about it. Sometimes they’re angry for you. Sometimes they...

Returning to Wholeness: a journey of learning to trust and embody the truth of who you've always been:https://courageousjourneys.com/courses/returningtowholenessjc

As someone who has been through this healing process myself and now supports others on their journey, I really get the frustrations and self-criticism that can come when progress feels slow or nonexistent. That sense of judgment, disappointment and shame about n...

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It's Sexual Assault Awareness Month and this year's theme really resonated with me - Building Connected Communities.

In today’s episode, I talk about the role of shame that survivors often carry, and how open conversations are key to shifting societal attitudes and creating true understanding. Thus, ending shame and ultimately the prevalence and impact of what it means to be a surv...

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Honoring our needs and desires after experiencing childhood trauma is crucial to the healing journey, yet it often isn’t something that’s talked about.

When we grow up in an environment of chaos, dysfunction or abuse, we get the message, often many times over years, that our needs don't matter. So as a means of survival, we disconnect from being able to recognize or voice our authentic...

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Navigating relationships when you’ve been hurt by someone is… interesting.

It can be virtually impossible to trust in what a healthy relationship is.

This can lead to overcompensating in an unhealthy relationship or running at the first sign of something other than bliss.

Neither of which are healthy or going to help you have the type ...

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For too long, we've lived in a society where there is silence and secrecy around sex, sexuality and sexual abuse. It’s time (well actually, long overdue) for us to end the silence so we can end the shame and stigma.

In today’s episode, I talk about about the challenges and benefits of having these conversations, some of the issues ...