FULL SHOW: Iyanla Vanzant Interview, Are Women More Masculine Than Feminine Nowadays? Donkey Of The Day and More!

Today we are joined by Iyanla Vanzant to discuss maintaining relationships, feminine & masculine energy, the power of silence and more. We also open our phone lines to ask "Are Women More Masculine The Feminine Nowadays?" Today's Donkey Of The Day, goes to a man who murdered his wife.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Good morning Usa, yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
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yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo
yo yo yo. Good morning, Charlomagne. The guy us to
have planned? Yes, one day it is? Yes? What day
it is? Yes, it's Wednesday, it's hook day, it's middle

(00:21):
of the week. Good morning to you. Good morning, how
y'all feel out there? Man? I am blessed, black and
holly favored. What was happening? Yes, I'm I want to
practice four day work weeks this week. I told yo
for day work week. I'm not mad at that you
need them. You need to either the Monday off or
the Friday off. I'm trying to tell you, shout to
all the dance dad's out there. Dance dads, if you're

(00:42):
your daughter is in competition dance and you have to
go to all the events, all the practices, all the
private practices to get everything right, and you know that
your daughter's routine or your son's routine, whatever it may be.
Good morning to you dad's out there. That's right. I'm
morning to all the chair dads out there as well. Man.
You know it's Dad, it's Chis. It's Chis season. Yeah.
Getting towards the end, though, guys, get towards you see

(01:05):
the finish line. The kids teams are getting their bids in. Okay,
we know where we're gonna be in April. So almost over, y'all. Yeah,
you know, And yesterday I realized that I'm getting up
there in the age. Oh you're just realizing that, yeah,
or the dying of the beard didn't didn't didn't signal
anything for you? No, no, no. Yesterday, you know, it
was a beautiful day here in the Troy State. Are

(01:26):
in New York, New Jersey, Connecticut. Hopefully it was beautiful
by you. So you know, when I got home, you know,
the basketball was out, so you know, I started shooting
some hoops and Logan came down and said, let's play
one on one. Bet, let's play one on one. And
you know, um the game was only seven, you know,
so I did the old man back them down. That's
why I realized, you know, you started backing them down.

(01:46):
But then I realized that when my dad used to
do it to me, was you know, my dad was huge.
He was backing my dad six foot six foot four,
but Logan works out, so backing him down wasn't as
he's saying, you say you're not as strong as your son, bro,
I ain't gonna say that you're not as scrum long
as your son. I'm Logan as the man of the house.
As soon as Logan stopped showing you mercy and decides
to put you in a chokehole, you're gonna go be.

(02:08):
You're gonna be doing what he tells you to do.
So he beat me yesterday nine seven He beat me
from Logan man the man in the casey, I'll beat
nine seven yesterday. But then after after he won, then
that's when it really hurt, because then I was tired.
I bet you when I bet you're listening to psychotherapist
Elliott Connie, Now, I bet you want to have a
conversation with Logan. You go trying no distmplating with him? Now, Man, Okay,

(02:29):
ain't no do what I tell you to do. You're
gonna be sitting down and trying to have conversations with
that young man now because you know you can't beat him.
Can you please shovel us now for me today? He
all right, no, Dad, you go do you go? Bet
you'll go grab that shovel. Oh my goodness. All right,
well all right, well let's get the show cracking. I
y'all love von Zanz will be joining us this morning, Queen,
I yanna love von Zanzo will be joining us. She
has a new podcast dropping today. Actually it was called

(02:51):
the Our Spots on the Our Spot. Yes, so we're
gonna talk to her. And then we got front page
news with Tesla figure Ro should be joining us a
little bit out Japan. I don't know if you watch
World Baseball, but Japan played the US. I'll tell you
how the US did when we come back, So don't move.
It's the Breakfast Club Morning morning. Everybody's dj n V
Charlomagne the guy. We are to Breakfast Club. Let's get
in some front page news. All right. We have Test

(03:15):
figure Road joining us this morning. I thank you again, Test.
But let's start off with baseball now. I don't know
if you guys watch World Baseball. Last night was the
championship game. Japan verse the US and the US loss
three to two. I don't know if that's big. If
it's not, I don't watch it. Red, who's a huge
baseball fan? Red? What does that mean, it just means,

(03:35):
it depends the best team in the world right now,
are they? But there's some players, some US players that
didn't play was it some now everybody played it, but
they got the best player in the world. Show here
with honey. I'm definitely not watching the world baseball. Okay.
I used to like baseball back in the nineteen hundred
and when everybody was going steroids. That's when the sport
was amazing. Great test. What else we got? What's up
with Donald Trump? What's going on with Donald Trump? Definitely

(03:57):
Figure Road, the hood Whisper, Yes, and the building. Well,
first of all, let me say shout out to the
chair moms. You guys said shout out to the cheer dads.
I am a chair mom, so I feel, you know,
to make sure the chair moms get a little bit
loved this morning. But first things first, obviously Trump was
not arrested yesterday. Charlomagne. You predicted it, didn't You said

(04:18):
he would not be arrested on Tuesday, didn't you say it? Yeah?
I don't see. I don't see him getting arrested for
the charges in New York at all. I mean, you know,
when when you're talking about taking down a former sitting president.
You're not gonna be able to do it with those
weak charges they got in New York and need something bigger.
M So he was not arrested on yesterday. So we're
gonna see what happens and that see what happens with that.
But in other news, a former top federal judge wrote

(04:40):
Friday in a seal filing that prosecutors in the Special
Counsel's office have presented compelling evidence that former President Donald
Trump knowingly and deliberately misled his own attorneys about his
retention of classified materials after leaving office. Now, US Judge
Howe said that the investigation shows that Donald Trump has
committed criminal violations and as a result, he may lose

(05:03):
his attorney client privilege. In other words, yep, that's a
big one. In other words, the judge told Trump attorneys
to comply with the subpoena and get ready to start
telling now in case anyone is counting. There are now
multiple investigations going on at the same damn time, back
to back. In the words of Drake, let's run through them.

(05:25):
Number one Special Counsel for the Classified Documents case, Number two,
the Manhattan da for the hush money coming in strong
at a number three, we have Fulton County for the
attempt to overturn the twenty twenty election, and number four
Special counsel for January six and number five New York
Attorney General for the Trump Organization fraud investigation. A lot

(05:49):
of folks forgot about that. So there are now five
investigations and probably counting. We don't know what else they'll
be thrown at them. But we talked a little bit
on Monday guys about how Trump would use this to
benefit his pockets and campaign, and so far he has
asked his seventy four million supporters to sign a petition

(06:09):
to oppose his arrest, and he also asked him to
break a little bit, a little bit of bread. Now,
he didn't say give me three dollars like Bernie Sanders.
He said he wont thirty three hundred per person run
him his money. So we're gonna see how that work out.
Let me let me ask a question. So, you know,
with the classified documents, how are they pressing charges on
him with that when it seems like everybody classified that

(06:31):
they ain't got classified tad you got classified like classified
documents everywhere? Yeah, and you know, we talked about this earlier.
I don't know if it's Monday to days of running
together with this, but remember we talked about just kind
of throwing it all, you know that let's just see
this is my me paraphrasing, let's just see what sticks. Yep,
that's just pretty much what it is that I mean,

(06:53):
it is just amazing. And and again, just as a reminder,
even with all of these charges, he could still run
for president of the United States. That's a quick Google
search that you guys can confirm that he can still run.
Even if he is arrested and convicted, he can run.
So I just want to see how he's going to
continue his campaign while fighting multiple, multiple charges in different states.

(07:15):
I think what you're saying is absolutely true. And I
think that's that's what this all translates to, sit your
ass down. They don't want you to run. If you
drop If you drop out, all of this goes away.
If Trump stops campaign in the marrow and says I'm
not running, all of this goes away. Not guaranteed. I
know it's not because he's a narcissist and his ego
gonna get the best of absolutely, but if he sits

(07:37):
his ass down, all of this goes away, guarantee. Well,
I know I'm tripping up that thirty three hundred dollars
per person. It's expensive to be a Trump support. He
got damn all right? He works in the pastor right,
you got the pastor want your last when you pull right?
Really want your last when you pull right? All right?
Well that is front page news. Now get it off

(07:58):
your chest. Eight und five eighty five one oh five one.
If you need to vent, phone lines a wide open
again eight hundred five eight five one oh five one,
and test will see you next hour. Yep, it's the
Breakfast Club the morning Jake, Envy and Charlotte ain't the guy.
We're brothers. We're happy ever seeing that color fun. At
least I am. The verdict still out on Envy, I'm

(08:20):
black the Breakfast Club. Ray Ray Ray, Yo, Charlotte Man, Davy,
what up are we lying? This is your time to
get it off your chest. I got an indoor pool,
out indoor pool. We want to hear from you on
the breakfast Club. Get on the phone right now. We're
here to tell you what it is. Hello, Who's this?

(08:43):
It is Ard from Character ain't Terry from Kansas. Get
it off your chest. Hey man, I just want to
first off, shout out my my cousin John John John. Okay,
we're part of that. I couldn't even tell you that.
But he's the only one to ever hear me when
I get on here. And then when I'm seeing that

(09:04):
family flushes. He come to Kansas and you're like, hey,
they're got my clubs. If you're on the first club,
shout out to him. I know he's gonna hear this. Okay, okay,
and then uh who y'all gets home today nobody is
just us, Me and Envied tag team back again, the
Legion of dumb Okay, okay, hey man, I was just
gonna say, h y'all, y'all really, you know, I listened

(09:24):
to y'all every day. I'm instructor out in the truck
right now, I slow my key is so hard for you.
Um and then y'all, y'all, y'all doing good works up there. Man,
I hadn't know how Yell's gonna do minus y oh boy.
I'm telling y'all turning up on him man's whole. So
I appreciate y'all keep doing what y'all do keep making

(09:45):
us laugh, keep being informative. I love what the direction
y'all going in. Thank you, my brother, have a good
one you too. Hello. Who's this Yo? This Chris Jones?
Out of awesome Texas, Chris Jones, Get off your chests
to dealing. Hey man, I want to wish my wife
a happy birthday this morning. Man. We've been together since,

(10:05):
uh since high school. Man, I just want to tell
her love her and I can't wait to celebrate this
weekend her. Tell her, I said, happy boring day. Man.
What you gonna do for man? I don't even know yet.
I can't even bunch itself funning man, But I don't
want to give us prize away. Open the radio. I
got you see smart man? There where y'all from? We
from all some Texas. We're in Texas. Okay, all right, man,
We'll enjoy and be safe out there this weekend. Brother,

(10:27):
have a lot of sex, Thank you, man, I have
most of most. Hello. Who's this hies Kylie? Hey Kylie,
get you off your chest? Mama. Well, I just hard
to say good morning. First of all, thank you guys
for having me. But talking of all you guys have
mentioned you know if from had stopped running, that most
likely all this but the whole way right, Well, of course,

(10:49):
you know, like you go and everything, it's gonna get
the best of them, right, and that's what's not gonna happen. Well,
that's just like you know, you guys saying that too,
And I feel the same way that that just confirms
that all of us just like a cute ass which Hunt,
and it's just all cool, like they're trying to find
anything that they can to go after him, and it's

(11:09):
just I don't disagree. Yeah, I think I think he honestly,
he is one of the best that we've had in
a long time, which I think when he was Muslim,
there was a lot of things he did for a
country that was very like undershadowed, that wasn't like publicized,

(11:29):
you know, because they were too busy trying to like
go after him for everything else, you know what I mean, like,
well just trying to find things go after him by Well,
I don't want to live in a country you know
that's run by fascists, so I have to push back
on that. But I do agree that all of this
is just a big ass which Hunt just like it
really is like, because if if he was, if they

(11:50):
had enough to get him, and this really was about,
you know, prosecuting somebody because they broke the law, he'd
have been prosecuted already. But they don't know how to
prosecute that level of privilege. He is a white man,
a rich white man who is a former president. They're
not trying to set that president with people like that
get held accountable for their crimes. No, get it off
your chest eight hundred five eight five one oh five one.

(12:11):
If you need to vent hit us up now, it's
the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. This is
your time to get it off your chest. Eight hundred
five eight five one oh five one. If you want
to hear from you on the Breakfast Club, Hello, who's this? Yo?
The DJ? DJR chest man? Yo. I want to get

(12:34):
it off my chest and my fingers that dude, all right,
go ahead your fingers listen. Yeah, man, I am listening. Listen.
I am so tired of dollars, tree chief and tissue. Bro.
I feel like I feel like that stuff on the
back of the on the back of the test to
you to say, wrap around your hand five six as
a time before you bro, you need to use cleanex

(12:56):
cluck I'm using right now. I just blew my nose
from clean X great see see limp though I'm about
to go back to us and likely don't hurts man,
it hurt chi. No, you're blowing your nose and wipe
in your ass. B Oh, yeah, that's nothing. It's nothing
worse than cheap toilet paper. Sometimes when you go to
people's house when the when the house is older, they

(13:17):
got to use the cheap toilet paper because it breaks
down easy in the toilet. There's nothing worse than that,
because I feel like my my ass he has a
rash on it. Now, I'll be read I cheap toilet people. Listen,
next time, I'm gonna just pick up somebody's roads. You know,
I'm tat of man. No, man, you get you some
some some some three ply quoted norther and awesome Sean

(13:38):
awesome Scott Scott didn't know jokys and orso orsome dude.
I'm lifted a dude like I'm about to just start
caring the made wearing my black pocket like a wallet. Though. Yeah,
I mean, you still got a wipe your ass before
you use dude. Wife though, bro, what the hell is dude? Wife?
It's like wet white, so many baby. I remember one time,
the first time I ever heard of a man doing that,
when I was on Windy Will him showing Terrence Howard

(13:59):
said he did that, and I thought that was so
strange back then, and now I totally feel him. Yes,
you should have some wed wives with you. Bro. Hello,
who's this? This is Arianna from Philadelphia? What's up? Arianna?
What's up? I just want to say what I'm over
is Candy Bird? Really I'm over Candy. Yes, Candy is everywhere.

(14:20):
He's gonna speak on it. He's a real house squads.
He's told everyone s WZ open for us. We make
this with you to Candy. You're a star. You write,
you act, you've seen, you know you got it enough.
Let somebody else dine. I'm gonna be honest with you.
I'm gonna be honest with you. You sound like you're Hayden.

(14:41):
This is just just sound like purey. Someone opened. Another
woman listening up to another woman. Only in our culture
do we do this, Draba man, don't start that. But only,
but only only only in our culture do we call
a radio station and say you tired to see in
a person because they're everywhere, and let somebody else shine

(15:03):
that was seeing her. I said, we get it. You're
a star. That's right, batman. Don't miss this through my
word you you gotta let them star shine bright star,
and you gotta let them shine break. You can'tnot sing her.
I cannot turning on enough. SI, don't let let us
know every day. I was lead on this. I was

(15:24):
lead on that. I'll tell you like this here. It
wasn't enough say talk about doesn't be like that. That
was a collaboration. You know what. It's a show, and
you know what, it's a show, and they want people
to watch the show. But I will tell you this,
I'm going I gotta go to Landing for a couple
of hours and I'm definitely going about her restaurant to
get the little salmon by the Old Lady Gang. That's
more shine. Also, you can't let nobody shine. There's no

(15:46):
such thing like just because if Candy moved out the
way right now, what you think that's gonna open the
door for somebody else. No, because if it was that
other person's time, they'd be right there too. Hello, who's
this Philly Less? And the heaviest warning you don't if
your chest mama. Oh no, Um, I just wanted to
really convince you guys on like the opening. Yes, I

(16:07):
really love what y'all doing. I know a lot of
people call them and they say they loved this yere,
but it kind of killed, like y'all holding my public interviews,
and I liked that ll showing the protect Claudia Jordan
and be back tomorrow, She'll be back tomorrow. Who was
your favorite so far? I want to say Jason Lee
because you're just so MESSI he's real MESSI any he

(16:29):
give us your top three? Give us your top three? Um,
I would say definitely just hilarious. Okay, um basically okay,
and um, I don't know, it might be a topic
stuff and oh man, I'm just got blank in Claudia.
I'm sorry, Claudia, Okay, okay, all right, Well, thank you, mama,

(16:50):
thank you, thank you. Waite. Can I get you think?
Can I start out my toping? And can I get
some figures for the Black cop? I got you ahead
out your part podcast. I'm I'm gonna be on untide
and music and hold on what's your name again? Helima

(17:11):
make sure, Helima gets two tickets to the Black Effect
Podcast Festival. Black Effect Podcast Festival is happening April twenty
second in Atlanta. Okay, you can go get your tickets
at event right right now, first ever Black Effect Podcast Festival,
a lot of your favorite podcasts. Eighty five South Show
Horrible Decisions is hosted by me and Jesse Hilarious. We're
gonna have food and music. So go to event bright

(17:31):
right now and go get your tickets, all right, and
she's on line one, y'all, line one, get her two tickets.
Get it off your chests. Eight hundred five eight five
one oh five one. Now when we come back, we
got your room and report uh six nine. You know
many times he said he couldn't be touched, he couldn't
get caught. Well that changed yesterday. We'll get into it
when we come back. It's the Breakfast Local Morning, the
Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody. It's DJ m V Show and

(17:57):
the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Let's get to
the room as let's talk Takashi six nine or you
gossip chatting report. I mean, I guess we're on the breakastar.
This is where the tea spells right right on the
breakfast club. All right, Well, Takashi six nine, it looks
like he got into an incident in a Florida gym yesterday.

(18:19):
Now you remember when he was up here. He's been
up here I think twice, maybe three times, and we
had a conversation with him about the way he moves,
and he needs to be a lot smarter when he moves.
He just needs to be a lot smarter in life. Yo, bro,
I moved so militant that you can't touch me. That's
why I took reckless. I took so much because I
know how I move. I moved correct. Presidents have been

(18:41):
shot six but you know, bullets ain't got no name.
Takashi six nine was savagely beaten by a group of
men inside a South Florida gyms. They said the injuries
was so bad that he was rushed to the hospital
by ambulance. Uh. The attorney said the rapper was inside
the saw on a Tuesday, and I guess he was relaxing,
and he said he was attacked by several guys without warning.

(19:04):
His attorney says his next step is he plans to
call the fetch to make sure six nine gets the
protection he clearly needs. Now, um, I don't know. Well,
there is is audio from getting beat up my good
take take I want to be famous now yo, I'm

(19:31):
not gonna lie, but I'm a fan both, I'm not.
I ain't well. I mean you listen, man, you can't
escape the energy you put out there, like you just can't.
You get what you ask for, and you get it good.
You asked for it. You know, if you've been taunting
people for years, you know, telling people to come see you,
you know, SMD, inviting that violence to happen to you, eventually,

(19:54):
eventually it will, It's gonna happen. Yeah. No, nobody is exempt,
you know what I mean, which security or without security?
If you are person who invites violence into your life,
if you're online saying what you're gonna do to people
when you see them, are in interviews saying that, I
guarantee you it's just a matter of time. Yeah, well,
bad bunny baby. Oh let's stay. I want to stay
on this for one second. Okay. I know I see

(20:15):
a lot of people laughing, but this isn't the time
to laugh. This is the time time to learn, because
you know, I even think about it as reckless as
I've been. You know, over the years, I've never invited
violence into my life. I've never threatened to beat up
an artists or never told the artists come see me.
And I think I remember, but I still got posted
in the face. You know, I still have people attempt
to run run down on me in the street. So

(20:36):
I would advise a lot of y'all out there don't
laugh at six nine. Learn from six nine, because a
lot of y'all out here making the same mistakes yourself,
you're going to meet the same faith. All right. Well,
Bad Bunny Baby, is that? What is that worth forty million? Allas?
What the hell are you talking about going on in
your community? I don't know what's happening in your community

(20:57):
this morning, but it looks like Bad Bunnies ex girlfriend.
I guess she allegedly did that voice recording and Bad
Bunny used it on his record on this album, and
she's suing for forty million dollars in damages. Should have
paid her. He took advantage of her being his girlfriend
at the time. Probably that's probably exactly what happened to
this girl. Do this for me, boo. She will never

(21:20):
sue me if I use her voice. I'm sure when
he used that voice in the studio, somebody said, uh,
you sure you want to use her voice? Yeah? Well,
her name is Carly's Dela Creuse. She claimed she created
and provided the recording before the singer became famous, and
now she is suing for forty millions. I wonder whatever
happened to the may Back music girl? Do you think
I'm sure he paid him? Yeah? Because if not? After

(21:40):
I hear this, I'm going, I'm going from mine and
it's it's used over and over. They used this dress,
he used this drop over and over like Ross uses
made back music. I'm on Reggie Pottery. I don't listen
to Bad Bunny. No he doesn't, No, he doesn't. How
you Puerto Rican and don't listen to bad Bunny? And
Nbu Dominican and don't listen to bad Bunny. Aren't y'all
his audience? I'm black, but I don't listen to that.
I am black? Okay? All right? Now, lastly, a Little

(22:02):
Baby yesterday was online. He showed us showed off his
brand new may Back. Now, this may Back is designed
by Virgil of course, from all White. They only made
one hundred and fifty pieces and to get this car.
They wanted you in one hundred and fifty cars. I said,
a hundred fifty pieces, one hundred fifty cars. They wanted
you to actually know him somehow, some way. It was
called the Project may Back. It was three hundred and

(22:23):
fifty thousand dollars and little Baby showed his So if
you want to see that, you can go to the
Little Babies page and check that out. Congratulates the little baby.
Hopefully I'll have it for the car show. So you
know yesterday when you was on the air, you said
that you bought Logan some five hundred dollars cleats for basketball, No,
for football in football? What you said basketball? Because I

(22:44):
was playing the clip back for somebody. I didn't even
catch it. Andrew shows car. He was like, what the
hell is then to be talking about cleats for basketball?
It was football clates five hundred dollars, some prototypes of
something he wanted. All right, well that is your rumor report.
When we come back, we got front page news. Tesla
Figurero will be joining us. She got a lot to
break down, So don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,

(23:05):
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(23:27):
Let's get into front page news. We have Tesla figure
out what up? Good morning, good morning, good morning family.
Well let's start off with ivy O Tenio. Did I
say his name right? Otiano? Yes. Tuesday, surveillance video was
released at show twenty eight year old Ibo Otiano being
pinned to the floor by multiple security officers for twelve

(23:49):
minutes while shackled at the Virginia State Mental Health Facility
in the moments leading up to his death earlier this month.
Now they also release the non one one calls about
the incident, in which a caller described him as very
aggressive and repeatedly asked for an ambulance, saying that he
was not breathing. Now, just a little background for those

(24:10):
that may not have been following this story. He was
in jail and then he was transferred to a mental facility.
While he was there, they claimed that he allegedly became
aggressive and then they shackled him legs and arms. His
mother did try to bring him medication, they refused to
accept it, and the video that was released yesterday shows

(24:30):
the twelve minute ordeal. You can see knees, all of
the body weight on his neck. Now. As a result
of this, seven sheriff deputies and three hospital employees were
indicted by a grand jury on Tuesday on the charge
of second degree murder. Let's listen to what his family
had to say. He was my daughter, this mother, the

(24:52):
breath out of my bad big They mothered my baby.
At what point do we stop preserving life? At one
point do we consider mental illness and crime. They cooled
him off treatment, took him to jail, didn't tech him
down there with any medicine. What do you want to
see happen to these deputies either of you? Justice? Oh?

(25:13):
Like them put away if you ask me for life.
They don't see the light of day again. What they
did to my son's horrific. I didn't know law enforcement
was ever a call to mental health facilities to get
control of patients. I thought that was the whole point
of being in a mental health facility, like mental health,
mental illness isn't a crime. Yeah, well, rest in peace

(25:36):
again to Ivo Otiano. He was in jail and then
they transferred him to the facility, so the sheriffs were
already with him now incarcerated. I'm surprised that people the
mental health facility didn't intervene. Well, I mean, because he
was incarcerated. They did have three hospital people there as well,
so he was the hospital the hospital staff which got

(25:57):
charged as well in addition to the deputies, because they
said he was aggressive. Even though he was shackled, he
wasn't a threat to anybody. So the sheriffs were actually
they're bringing, you know, bringing him to the mental facility,
and apparently he had an episode. And I just want
to say this, if anyone knows of anyone that is
incarcerated and mentally ill. There is an organization called the

(26:17):
National Alliance on Mental Illness, and one of the many
things that they focus on is mental health treatment while incarcerated,
which is very, very necessary. Most of those people in
jail don't need to be in jail. They actually need
to be in some type of mental health facility getting
you know, mental health treatment. Absolutely. Now, let's talk about
this Colorado dentist. What was he arrested for. Now, Oh,

(26:38):
this is a crazy story. A Colorado dennis is accused
of killing his wife by poisoning her protein shakes so
that he could start a new life with his mistress. Right,
James Tolliver Craig, forty five, was arrested on Sunday morning
on charges of first degree murder. Now, Angela Craig, his wife,
died Wednesday after reporting to the hospital for the third

(27:00):
time this month. After she arrived, she had a severe seizure.
She was placed on the ventilator and was declared medically
braindead soon after. Now here's the background on how he
actually got caught. Craig allegedly ordered multiple poisons, and the
investigation showed that he searched online literally typed this in
how to buy poisonous, how to buy poison and also

(27:23):
typed in how much it takes to kill a human.
I mean literally typed it in and made the investigation
very easy. The day she went to the hospital, his wife,
she texted him and so they have text as well.
Allegedly she said, I feel drugged, and then he responded
in the text message, given our history, I know that
that must be triggering. For the record, I didn't drug you.

(27:46):
I am super worried, though you really looked pale when
I left, like in your lips even We might need
to transferred this to Donkey today now, because he had
the poison delivered to his home and office. His manager
opened it and after Miss Craig passed away, she reported
to the police that he's known for making his wife
shakes and she believed that he poisoned his wife. Goodness,

(28:09):
you know what the most criminal thing about this is,
alongside the murder, the fact that this man is such
a coward, like he didn't even give give his woman
a choice, Like why are you scared to be honest
with your partner? Tell her you want somebody else? Tell
her you want to break up, I tell her you
want to threesome, but not wanting coward and not be
honest and killer. I wonder if the mistress knew, like
you're gonna kill her whipping when you get tired, because

(28:32):
actually that's a good point in it, because she's actually
been to the hospital three times for this and deeper,
when you get deeper into the story, when she went
to the hospital before and obviously didn't die, that's when
he would go spend time with the mistress and go
on trips. So I mean he probably did say, hey, yeah,
my wife is sick or something. We don't know that.
This is a lot to this story. It's really a lot.

(28:53):
Why can't you just be honest with your partner? Like,
why did your mind go to I gotta kill this
woman to be with my other waking financially, Probably that
I gotta give a half. I gotta give a half
to house, half to this Now I'm gonna spend his
whole life in jail. Well, I rather I'd rather him
give that woman a choice. Absolutely, I'd rather that man
be honest with his partner than killer absolutrd have mercy.
And lastly, I just want to tell you guys about

(29:14):
if I know a lot of you guys use eye
drops out there, a rare strain of bacteria found and
recalled eye drops as the linked to dozens of infections
as well as cases of vision loss and in certain
cases where they actually have to remove your eyeballs. What. Yeah,
it's global farm and healthcarees artificial tiars lubricant eye drops
distributed by is Recare uh, and it was recalled in February,

(29:40):
so definitely check your thing. It's uh. I would hate
for anybody to lose their vision or even lose their eyeball.
So it's a huge recall on eye drops, so definitely
do your homework and dive more into I don't use
eye drops, so I'm not really familiar with this problem.
Areamiliar with that I used? I know I use stuff
like Clear. This stuff looks like some no name brand
store brand I use like Clear eyes and visine and stuff. Okay,

(30:02):
I'm looking at it. That artificial tiers lubricant eye drops.
I've never even heard of it it. Well, if you're out there,
just do your homework. If you use eye drops, all right,
Well that is your rumor report. No it's not. Its
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(30:23):
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(30:44):
figure face. All right, when we come back, y'all, Love
van Zant will be joining us. We're gonna kick it
with us, so don't move. It's the Breakfast Club, Good morning,
the Breakfast Club King. So it took me literally two
years through the path that make it. That's when I
realized how exhausted I was. And then after the pandemic,

(31:05):
I was like, where's my life? Where am I? So
to get back in my body, to get back in
my house, hadn't spent three weeks consistently in my house
in over ten years, and then to decide what I
want to do. Do nothing, you know. So I make
my products, and I quilt, and now I have a
podcast spot, and I'm raising my five year old great

(31:30):
grandson Hoive single by choice. I lost my partner right
on the beginning of the pandemic. So other than that,
you know, just focusing on healing the world. That's that's
what I do. So was it worth it? Fixed my line?

(31:51):
Oh every moment, Okay, I loved it. Yeah, it was
absolutely worth it. And if nothing else, the legacy fix
my life and really what it did on television, just
like Starting Over that I did back in the early
two thousand. I think it's set a trend and I'm
waiting to see who's coming up behind me, Who's going

(32:12):
to be the next one. I don't know if there
is an authority like for you were looked at as
an authority in that department. I don't know if there's
anybody that we look too like more than the authority.
They just need the gift. See. I think fix my
life work because I wasn't doing television. I was doing healing,
and it didn't matter to me. I had to train myself.

(32:32):
It didn't matter to me that the camera was in
front of my faith. If I'm anna yell at you,
I'm an yell at you. If I'm an hugy, I'm
a hug. If I'm gonna kiss you, if I'm gonna
tell your business. So I think that whoever it is
that wants to step into that space to do healing
in that way can't be someone who wants to do television,
they have to be committed to the work. I also
think the way mindfulness has evolved in the conversation that

(32:53):
we're having about mental health and healing. It's kind of
hard for like, we all know, nobody can fix someone
else's absolutely, and I always said that. I always said
that I'm giving you tools and information. I'm helping you
identify the issue because very often people don't even know
they have an issue. They think it's somebody else or
be know what the issue is, and then if they

(33:15):
recognize the issue, they don't know what to do about it.
So that's what the beauty the power of fixing my
life that people were participatory because oh, I know that's
my mother, that's my old looking I do that. They
never call you back to say, hey, we need you
for one more, like do you have a look on
social media online and be like they would need me

(33:36):
all the time people say we missed your show, we
need you back, blah blah blah d d D blue
Face and Chushan. I don't know if you know who
they are, they would need you like they would need
you like they need something bigger than me. I can't
see that it's weird. I can't see this generation with this. Really,

(33:56):
no people know who I am. I agree with that,
but I just think that it still has to be respect.
I think even with those other day it was, it
was a respect. I don't know if the generation had
that respect for their elders and that they have it
for me. And I don't know why. Maybe because I
wear jeans or have a cleveland, I don't know, but

(34:17):
they really do. I meet him in the target and
I say to them, how do you know who I am?
My Mama made me watch your show? So the young
people they do. You know what, Charlemagne. I think it's
your presence. It's how you carry yourself. Now, I could
probably predict that maybe ten to fifteen thousand people would

(34:39):
drop dead on the spot if I ever showed up
somewhere in the thong. I think so, not because I'm
in the thong, but because Auntie e yalla, Oh my god,
she's lost that maj By. So I I think it's

(35:00):
your presence. And I've always had a present, not that
that demands, but commands respect. And I always I hope
I have carried myself in such a way and I
did it. You know now that we're in Women's History Month.
I carry myself that way because my grandmother, who was
a Native American who passed for BLOCK in the early

(35:23):
nineteen hundred, it was easier for her to be Block
than it was for her to be a Native American
scrub floors and toilets and yonkers in White Plains to
feed me and my brother. I am her vision, I
am her legacy. I am you know, having been able
to go to college and law school, walk away from welfare,

(35:44):
walk away from practicing law, to do my calling in
the world. I can't disgrace my grandmother who was spent on,
who had to come in the back door, you understand,
who had to make shrimp salad for the French poodles.
I have a responsibility, and in terms of the young people,

(36:05):
nobody is teaching them that. I have a responsibility to
Russie Harris and Sahara Elizabeth Jefferson, my mother who scrubbed
toilets on the Pennsylvania Railroad, who died of breast cancer
when I was two, because as a black woman, she
didn't have medical coverage and they didn't have the money
to pay for her. Aspect to me, so who am

(36:27):
I I can't get on the on the pole might
be fun, but I can't. You know, I wanted to
ask you too, Like when you talk about COVID, I
feel like none of us were the same after, you know,
going through COVID, But like who was there for you?
When you know after your partner transition to who was
there for you? You know this is gonna sound weird.

(36:48):
I think God and the Holy Spirit, you know, the
state that our relationship was in at that time. He
was in Philly, I was in Maryland, but in our
hearts we were still together. And I knew when he
refused treatment, I knew that transition was his choice, and
because I loved him, I honored that choice. He wouldn't

(37:09):
want me to be here sad and weeping and carrying on,
you know. And the fact that he was in Philly,
we were bi statal. The fact that he was in
Philly and I was in my home. I didn't have
to go through the missing of him physically all the time.
But still I never felt sad for him or sad.

(37:30):
I don't think sad is the world. Of course, there's
natural grieving and the missing of the but he refused
treatment that was his choice, and I had to honor that.
I had to respect that. All right, We got more
with Ayan Levons when we come back, don't overs to
breakfast Club the morning everybody's dj V Charlemagne, the guy
we are to Breakfast Club was still kicking it with

(37:51):
Ayan Levon Zant at our spot for people that don't
know what are you discussing? You're talking about and going
through an relationships relationships because they are mad their masks
right now? Have you seen the things going on? What's
the biggest thing people want to discuss with relationships? Why
it doesn't look the way they think it should look. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

(38:14):
And also this is huge in relationship why they aren't
getting what they're giving. I do this, and I give that,
and I did this, and he did this. So she
did that because men call me to Charlagne. Um. Yeah,
because we've made relationships relationships transactional. They're not soul full

(38:35):
or soul filled anymore. They're transaction. You give me this,
and I'll do that. You do this, you make me
feel this. That's that's crazy. And also control control making
somebody prove they love you over and over and over again.
Let me see how bad I can behave and if
you'll stop loving me or um, let me say this

(38:58):
or do this, and if you don't respond the way
I want you to, that means you don't love me.
It's crazy. I don't understand it. You know the people
right like, if you're doing that to a person, that
means that we all wounded. You do know that rights?
Do you know? Do you know that we're all crazy
as hell about? Absolutely? I rese But so it's not

(39:19):
the woundedness, it's the misinterpretations of love. The wounds or
the experience of being wounded, disrupted our expression and experience
of love. So so many of us have loved wired
to pain, you know, we have loved wired to struggle.

(39:40):
We have loved wired to so many dysfunctional things that
it just manifests in our relationship. So right now I'm
focusing on women and relationships. And I say women, because
we've got to get this together. What do you mean
you know? I will not. My experience and my observation

(40:03):
is that most women are men in skirts, meaning that
the way their presence there being, the way we roll
in the world, it's very masculine because we've been conditioned
and programmed out of our feminine And when I said,
I don't mean feminist movement in the world. I want
to be a fireman or football player. I'm talking about

(40:24):
I talk about. I'm talking about how to be a
woman in your being. What is the distinction between feminine
power and masculine power? And we've been conditioned and trained
to be men in skirts. We do everything like man,
we compete like man. I said this on our spot
a few weeks ago. I said, most women want their

(40:48):
boyfriend to act like their girlfriends, you know, chatting, shopping,
But when the man comes home, what they meet is
another dude. Why do you think that happens? Why do
you think it's such a problem. It's a problem, first
of all, because the feminine presence is missing on this planet.
That's why we got so many, so much hoopla and

(41:09):
conflomeration going on with the weather, with the politics, because
see the old male guard is dying, that masculine patriarchy,
it's dying off. And you see them fighting and card
and hold on to power with all. That's the whole
rov Wade turnover or we're gonna control you. We're gonna
we're gonna control you, and you who uh okay, like

(41:30):
women get pregnant by itself. We need to have some
bill where men are involuntarily sterilized. How about that? Can
we do that? Just take your old weenie out, put
it up here, let me on it. My wife want
me to come down for it. So that's number one

(41:52):
and so. But we have been programmed and conditioned and
raised where our feminine power and our presence as females
is dishonored, disregarded, disrespected just in the world, not just
by man. And we've also been taught and trained that
our softness is inappropriate, it's dangerous, our emotions are inappropriate,

(42:15):
and nobody wants to be bothered with that. So where
do we go with that? How do we know? If
a woman knew that her greatest power was silence, that's
the greatest power because then she can hear. But we
run our mouth all the time talking about everything stillness.
If a woman really understands and knows who she is,
she can walk in the room and take control of

(42:36):
every man in the room. How she walks, how she sits,
how she talks, how she be We don't know how
to be women. We know how to do what women do,
What about on the other side, when you talk about
men losing masculinity, Yeah, because I wonder if women have
to show up. I guess, as you say, as men
in scourge, because the men haven't been men, well, men
were raised by women. We're all out of order. But

(42:58):
I'm not arrogant enough to tell a man how to
be a man. I can help you heal, but then
what you do with that, that's you're on your own.
I can tell a woman how to heal. I can
tell a woman how to be a woman. Or why
because I was taught. I was trained you know what
my grandmother and my sister, my auntie's taught me seventy
years ago. You don't even hear that today. You don't

(43:21):
hear about it. I don't know what. So my thing is,
I want to share this medicine, this information, this knowledge.
So the way it's formulating in my mind right now
and the way my team and I are putting it together.
We're gonna do nine weeks online where the women work
in their clans twenties, thirties, forties, fifty, sixty, seventies, and

(43:43):
then we're gonna come together for the ceremony, ritual, and
initiation because there's initiations that women need. You know, men
get circumcised, women do something else, and so many of
us didn't get it, you know, in some traditions like
the bar Mitzvah or the bat Mitzvah, the Jewish tradition,
and some people do rights of passage for their thirteen

(44:04):
sixteen year old. But what about all of the women
that didn't have any of that. They weren't barred or batted,
no rights. So we're all out of order. But we,
as the women and this time, have the power to
bring it all together. Didn't your wife get you straight? Absolutely?
Did your wife get yeah? Why because she was standing

(44:27):
in her presence as a woman, had your best interest
at heart. It's gonna support you back into wholeness, not
compete with you, and not beat you down. And so
more of us have to do that so that our
sons and our brothers and husbands, you know, and and
I'll come fast. I used to be one of those
women that beat men down with my mouth and my mind.

(44:51):
And I heard myself one day say men are so stupid.
And I said, wait a minute, hold is your son stupid?
Is your father stupid? It's your brother stupid and I
had to check myself. And that's when I really went
on this quest to look at myself as a woman,
my power, my majesty. He said, to a woman, show
me your majesty. What's that? Show me your divinity? And

(45:14):
who's going to do it? That would be me. You
made me think about something, because you know, I thought
about this like we need. I saw like a documentary.
I said, I think it's called this type. What is
a woman? And he talked about identity and you know,
biological born males who I identify as women. What do
you What do you feel about that? I don't think
I feel anything because everybody has their lesson and everybody

(45:37):
has a right to choose, and I can't judge because
I don't know. I've never had that experience. I was
born with a who haa. I love my who haa
with frands who ha yes. So I don't know in
this body what it would feel like to me if

(45:58):
I wanted to be a man. I don't know, so
I can't speak to that. I always wonder what what
did that do for people's ultimate perception of women? Like
I hear women saying, well, I'm a biological woman, like,
it's just I don't speak that way because I'm old.
I'm sorry, I I you know, here's the piece that

(46:19):
I don't understand. I don't understand it, so I don't
have no he don't no judgment. But I've never run
around talking about me being the head of a sexual never.
I just you know, I'm strictly rely been that way
all my life. I guess it was just natural, you know.
I don't hope we got more with out Yan Levon
when we come back. It's the Breakfast Club. Everybody. Charlemagne,

(46:41):
the guy we all the Breakfast Club was still kicking
it with a v Z. Now, for couples that that
fight a lot. You know a lot of times couples
get into a lot of different things. What are some
things that you would advise them to do so they
can get out of that phase? Tell the truth a fight,
that's when it started. There's some hidden hurts, unspoken hurts

(47:02):
that lead to that. Fighting is not bad. I'd rather
have a couple fight than for them to be indifferent.
If they're indifferent, and whatever you do find shut up,
you know, I don't care. That's when you're in trouble.
But if you can fight fair you good. So there's
a truth that you have to tell, and there's a
power struggle. There's a struggle for power and control. And
if you're really fighting bad, you need outside intervention because

(47:25):
you cannot clear an upset with the object of your upset. Understand,
So I'm mad at you. You're the object of my upset.
And now you and me trying to clear the upset,
we're just gonna whip ourselves around and circles. You need
a neutral third party to come in and help you
a different perspective. The other thing is to figure out

(47:46):
here the four questions that I think every relationship needs
to ask, is this an important relationship in my life?
Because sometimes Booboo and Kafada are fighting and they don't
even you know, if they don't even care, just because
you hear right now, you're the one for right now?
Is this an important relationship in my life? And the
second question you have to ask yourself is do I

(48:09):
value this person and do they value me? You can
tell that from behavior. The third question is am I
willing to take one hundred percent responsibility for the state
of this relationship? Meaning I can't change you, I can't
fix you, but the state that it's in, the arguing,
the lack of support, the adversary on whatever it is.

(48:31):
Am I willing to take one hundred percent responsibility? Which
means am I willing to look at what I do,
not what you do? What am I doing and what's
motivating me? And the final question is am I willing
to do the work to heal it no matter what
the other person does? And that's the big one. You
said you're single by choices have been difficult for you

(48:52):
throughout the end, just because you are who you are,
and people feel like they might have to have it
all together before they step to you or be close
to heal up to you. Well, they're not healed. I
ain't healed, Charlomagnet close to I just wear it. Well.
The thing is, I'm crazy and I know it. Most
people are crazy and they deny it, and that's what

(49:13):
gets them in trouble. No, you're crazy, give it a name,
train it, okay, don't just let it run a mok.
But I think most brothers are afraid to approach name
for whatever reason. White men are not at all. They
roll up ice. I feel like young men to be
trying to highlight you. Oh. In the gas station, the

(49:33):
man told me he's not name he said, he said.
I said, are you flirting with me? He said yes.
I like older woman women. I said, do you know
they can give you worms? He was over to you.
He said, I'm thirty seven. I said, baby, I got

(49:54):
underwear older than you do. Let me see I might
have just cheap thrills in the gas station. It was
so wonderful. I was happy with myself that I recognized
that he was hitting on me. But I did ask
just to check. I said, are you hitting on me?
He said yes, ma'am. I said, see, that's the problem.

(50:17):
If you got to hit on somebody you call ma'am,
that's a problem. Boom, take yourself on home. When you
think about people who are into like the polygamy nowadays,
those relationships with well, see I'm old, so I could
do polygamy. I would just want her to be younger
so he don't have to be bothering me off the

(50:40):
forty two. I was seventy gonna take your butt on
over there? Yeah, oh yeah, you know what you think
the benefits? Very seriously? Oh yeah, I could do that
when I was younger. I couldn't because I didn't know
who I was and I didn't understand the value in

(51:01):
the purpose of a relationship. So when I was younger,
I didn't do cheating, but I could do polygamy. I
could be one of other wives in this day and age.
I couldn't have done that when I was thirty or forty,
I didn't. I ended up marrying a man who was
a polygamous. My second husband was paying out of a
polygamous relationship, and at that time, I thought, you know,

(51:23):
you're cheating, And I still don't do cheating. If we're
gonna do that, it has to be an open conversation
and agreement. But you're sneaking around the corner with Christa Mattah. No, No,
I don't do cheating because you know why. It's dishonest
and if you're gonna lie to me, then I can't
trust you. But if we sit down and this is
what we want to do, I like it because you

(51:45):
be over there sometime I'd be over here. I don't
have to cook. I saved my toilet paper. You don't
have to be my toothpaste. You know, go on, go
and have you And I don't think we can tell
people who they can and cannot love. If I love
you and you're saying this is what you need to
support satisfy yourself, why would I say no to that?

(52:06):
Because I know who I am as a woman, and
I don't know if it's possible or one person to
satisfy every need another person has. And if the other
person is willing to say, well, this is what you
give me, I'm willing to set that's fine. But if
we're together and I'm not living up to everything you
need and that's what you need to take care of yourself.

(52:28):
I know most Western women are hearing me now and
they are like, she doesn't loss a rabbit this conversation.
But it's true. Describe Yeah, if that's true, it's changed.
People don't even date anymore. I come from the day
when you didn't take the guy home the first night

(52:49):
and give him a key. I didn't. I don't come
from that time. You might take him around the corner
and give him a little bit and act like you didn't,
but you didn't take him home and give him a key.
You just didn't do that. You were sneaking. I'll tell
you a funny story. When my daughter was about sixteen
years old. I came home one day. I come from
the age, in the era where you don't bring no

(53:11):
boy in the house if your MoMA ain't home. Did
you come from that? From Okay? And So I came
home and she was in the living room. They were
sitting on the sofa watching TV. It looked very innocent,
but then I know about sneaking around the corner and
acting like you didn't. And I come from the time
when when a young man comes to a young lady's
house for the first time, he has to bring a

(53:34):
gift for the parents and he wants to meet the father.
That's where I came from. So I came in there
sitting on the sofa, and I looked at him and
I said, where's my gift? Would you come here to
get something from my daughter? And you don't bring me
a gift? Who are your people? Where you come from?
So my son to wait a minute, moa, but where's

(53:54):
that app Where are the fathers looking at who? The
girl is going out? And we're the young men that
you just come and mama's not at home and you
roll around in the hay and you don't even bring
mommy a cookie. A flower or nothing. That's not being
taught no more, I know, but we're gonna teach them
in the rights of passage. We got it certain kinds

(54:16):
of things because I think sometimes we get our hearts
broken as women, because we give away our dignity too
soon and our value too soon. Man, subscribe to the urspot.
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(54:38):
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(55:00):
M V. Charlemagne the guy we are the breakfast. You
got to do something. Bag shut sometimes shut up. Let
me shout out to our family out in Dallas. Shout
the geo, Shout the Bay Bay and Alm. I was
actually gonna do my first car show there. And then um,
I got a call. Hit it a drum roll the call.
I got a call from a paper route. Paper Oute

(55:20):
is Young Dolph's a record label. Yeah, Key Glock and
Daddy Yo. When they called me, it was like, you know,
Young Dolph was a fan of the car show and
for Uh wanted to do something special for Dolph's new
project that came out. So I asked what that was,
and he was like, let's do a car show together.
I said, what do you mean. He was like, Dolph
for the Love to do a car show, So let's
do it together, and let's salute and shout out Dolph's

(55:42):
life and let's keep pushing Dolph's life. So I said, bet,
let's do it. So I want to announce today shout
to Memphis K ninety seven out in Memphis, the Love
for the Streets car Show. It's going down Sunday, May
twenty eight in Memphis, Tennessee. Now we will have not
only Young Dolls whole fleet, which is like twenty four cars.

(56:04):
They were all paid for, all his cars. He still
has all his cars. They kept everything, So his whole
fleet will be there. Key Glocks, whole fleet will be there,
My whole fleet, fifty cent whole fleet. And we got
some celebrity friends bringing that cause which we will announce later.
So now the Young Dolph Museum that you've been seeing
traveling from city to city to city to city, Young
Dolls Museum will actually be in the car show, so

(56:27):
you get to see some of his clothes, his jewelry,
where he started from an old So the museum will
be in the car show. Nothing changes. We'll still have
rides and jumpies and all type of face painting and
all type of activities for the kids, gaming trucks and
all that. There will be food vendors. It's so much
going on. So that Sunday, May twenty eight, Memorial Day weekend,

(56:49):
which closes out what is it? What is it is?
Uh man, It's something that they do in Memphis. I
remember the name of it, but it closes out memphisis
also the last week of school for the kids, so
there's no school or work. It starts to some of
the right way, I'm sure, and I'm sure what proceeds
go to Young Dolves Foundation. Absolutely, his wife's foundation. I

(57:10):
think his wife got a foundation called Black Men Deserve Well,
not only that this is part his I'm doing it
with them, in conjunction with them. So uh yeah. So
some of the proceeds. Half of the proceeds actually UH
will go to all those different causes. So shout the
paper route. If you haven't got your tickets, tickets today
are nineteen ninety nine. That's one thing they made it.
They wanted to make it. They wanted to make affordable

(57:32):
for people. So if you can go out there today,
get your tickets nineteen ninety nine. You can go to
Event Right or Event No War and get your tickets.
Kids five and under a three. So it's a day
of celebration. You get to see Dolf's cause, you get
the Dolph Museum, you get the rides, you get the jumpies,
the face painting, the food, the game in trucks and
all that. We want you to bring your family, your grandparents,

(57:54):
your mom or your daddy, your kids, your baby mom
and your baby daddy. We want the whole family to
be there. Louis v is gonna be providing the sounds.
Came ninety seven is gonna be providing the sound. So
make sure you get your tickets. Again, that's incredible. That
goes down Sunday, May twenty eighth in Memphis, Tennessee, the
Love for the Streets Car Show, and we're gonna be
pushing and shouting to celebrate in young Dolph's life. That's incredible.

(58:16):
So I need the whole Memphis to come on out
and we're gonna have a lot of fun that day again,
that Sunday, May twenty eight will give you more details. Gon.
We're gonna be announcing some of his celebrity friends that
are gonna have their cars in there, and it's gonna
be a day of celebration and it's at the Aggrie
Center in uh Memphis, Tennessee. That's incredible, And it's incredible
that you started that off by throwing the middle finger
to Dallas. No, no, no, I'm wow, wow wow wow.

(58:36):
You just I mean, just stew a middle finger of
the Dallas for no reason whatsoever. Just shout it out,
big g No the reason, for no reason, just say
f y'all, I'm doing it over here. No wow, there
was no reason to do it. No, we're gonna do
it in Dallas as well. But I was gonna do
it Dallas a Memorial weekend. But then Dolls family, call
few Dallas. You hate the cowboys that much? I do, Dallas?
Ban them? How about that sleute the Memphis. No, but

(58:57):
I mean when Dall's family called and it was just
a dope idea that released his video this weekend for
Love for the Streets to show to all this cars
We're gonna have those cars that I just thought it
was pretty It would be pretty dope for the culture
to do that car show in Memphis celebrating dolfs. Like,
I agree, you didn't have to defecate on Dallas in
the process. Dallas had nothing to do with the conversation.
They didn't have to be in this room. They didn't
have to be in this mentioned at all for Shi

(59:18):
in a little bit, Well, let's get to the room.
Name or you gossip or you chatting? This is the
rule report. I mean, I guess we're on the breakfast clus.
This were the tea spells right right on the breakfast club. Now,
a Mississippi news anchor got fired because of this new

(59:38):
dog tattoo on the should Julie what you think about that?
Got fired? For what? For shizzle my nizzle? She can't
say for shizzle my nizzle. I guess because you said
you said, but I wasn't get in context. That's why

(01:00:02):
I don't know if if because she didn't, you might
not even know what nile means. Yo. I'm like, come on,
we gotta like stop. Man. That's not a reason to
fire that woman. Yeah, she's been fired. Did she did?
She release a statement now? Not as he yet. That's
the thing with hip hop, man. If I was so

(01:00:23):
big and so main scream and it's just like who
who can consume it? And who can't? You know what
I mean, she's been there for twenty plus years. Who
can repeat slang? And who can't? How old is that woman? Yo,
she's been there for twenty years. She might be old.
She probably has no idea. Nile is a derivative of
the N word, which is crazy. She might not have

(01:00:45):
any idea. She just thinks she's sounding cool repeating Snoop Dogg.
But that's not a fireball offense. I hope she sues. Well,
she has fired now. Tasha Ka the blogger, you know
Cardi B was suing her for damn there everything. A
judge ordered her to pay Cardi B four million dollars,

(01:01:05):
two point five million damages and at one point three
in legal fees. Well, I know at one time she
said she wasn't gonna pay. I believe I'll say allegedly
and that she wasn't gonna apologize. Well, she says, we
lost the appeal against Cardi B sad day, but I'm
gonna be all right. I appreciate all your love and
support throughout this fight. Today we throw in the white flag.
What happened will never happen again to Cardi and her team.

(01:01:27):
I apologize sincere we live and learn. See y'all Wednesday
and on her YouTube, like I said about six to nine,
don't laugh, learn because a lot of y'all online and
podcast doing exactly what she was doing, spreading lies, spreading
false allegations, and eventually it's going to be your turn.
It's just a matter of time. Somebody is going to

(01:01:48):
suit you. That's why you gotta pay attention to those
season desists. When you get those season desists and you
think you can just wipe your ass with them, the
season desist is just the precursor to the actual lossesst
appetizing before. So once you read that season desist and
you know an attorney tells you you know what's what's
truth and what's false, and you continue to spread the
false allegations, it's just a matter of time. So the

(01:02:10):
whole laugh at her learn. Yes, a lot of y'all
are already liable and don't even realize that that's right.
And lastly, I just want to tell y'all Rolling Loud
in New York City has been canceled. They're saying logistical factors.
You know, Rolling Loud is probably one of the biggest
concerts that hit in New York City. But it is
canceled for this year. Doesn't mean it's not gonna be
in other cities. It just won't be in New York.

(01:02:30):
It's going to be coming back to Miami July twenty one,
twenty twenty three. And it says, don't worry, this isn't goodbye,
more like see you later. We'll be back in New
York when the time is right. And that is your
room report now Charlemagne Whore giving that donkey two man
four after the hour, talking about learning. We need James
Craig to come to the front of the congregation. He's
the forty five year old dentist who killed his wife allegedly.

(01:02:52):
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(01:03:25):
gonna fatten all that around your eye. This man's blows man.
The wait for Charlemagne to top to make a judgment.
Who was gonna be on the donkey of the day.
They chose the breakfast Club Bitch Day today. Well at
sharing Donkey Today for Wednesday, March twenty second goes to
James Craig. Who is James Craig. He's a forty five

(01:03:46):
year old Dennist who was arrested on suspicion of first
degree murder Sunday, shortly after his wife died after being
taken off like support. God bless her soul. That was
her third trip to the hospital this month. What happened
to his wife? Well, police believe that James Craig, the
Colorado Dennis, laced his wife's pre workout protein shakes with

(01:04:07):
arsenic and cyanide because he was trying to kill her
so he could be with a woman he was having
an affair with. Let's go to the news report Police
This morning, a Colorado dentist waking up behind bars, accused
of poisoning his wife and the mother of their six children.
Police calling Angela Craig's death heinous, complex and calculated, alleging
James purchased arsenic and cyanide and secretly poisoned her protein shakes.

(01:04:32):
According to the arrest warrant, after multiple recent hospital visits,
Angela again checked into a hospital Wednesday morning, complaining of
a severe headache and dizziness. Around two pm, she had
a seizure, her condition rapidly declining, doctors moving her to
the ICU, where she was put on life support before
passing away Saturday. Police zeroing in on her husband, according

(01:04:55):
to the warrant, after his coworker told a nurse that
James had ordered potassium cyanide to the office, adding there
was no medical reason or purpose to make such an order.
Police also believe that James was having an affair, even
flying a woman out to see him while his wife
was dying in the hospital. Family members telling authorities This

(01:05:16):
is not the first time James had tried to poison
his wife, and the week before her death, she texted
him that her head felt funny and dizzy, then said
I feel drugged. James replying, given our history, I know
that must be triggering. Just for the record, I didn't
drug you. Lord have mercy. Thank you to ABC News
for that report. What a coward James is. We live

(01:05:39):
in a world with so many different forms of communication.
We can FaceTime and zoom with people on another continent.
We can speak daily via social media to people and
other time zones. But what all this means of communication?
For some strange reason, it's gotten the harder for people
to actually communicate. Folks don't know how to communicate anymore. Okay,
this woman would still be alive and this man would
not be arrested for pres degree murder if this man

(01:06:00):
just simply knew how to communicate. Just tell you a
woman you don't want to be with her anymore. Okay,
I'll tell her you want to be in a Polynesian
source relationship. Okay, A little communication goes a long way,
all right. This applies to all things. If you're busy,
say it, if you're upset, express it. If you're running late,
let people know. Don't make up dumbass excuses lies. No

(01:06:20):
one believes because now we can't trust you, and now
we think you're a liar. Okay, if you don't want
to do something, be straightforward and say you don't want
to do it. If you're unsure, ask all right. If
you don't want to be with someone anymore, just tell
them all right. It's so simple, but for whatever reason,
the hardest thing for people to do is communicated. All right. Now,
this is what I don't understand, but it's another one

(01:06:42):
of these things that is happening in this strange Internet era.
People googling the crimes they want to commit. Like, it's
hilarious to me when I see police say evidence gathered
by investigators and all the evidence is said criminal incriminating
themselves via social media. Like when I was coming up
in the ninth teen hundreds, you had crime stoppers. Remember
crime stoppers? I do remember McGruff the crime dog, you

(01:07:04):
take a bite out of crime. Those were entities created
because they wanted to create a sense of community with
people looked out for each other. Okay, Basically, if you
see something, say something that too, was a national campaign.
By the way, The point is they used to have
these campaigns. They encourage people to talk. Nowadays you don't
need that. You don't need that because folks is telling
on each other with these things called laptops and smartphones. Okay,

(01:07:26):
because James Craig was googling questions like is arsenic detectable
in an autopsy? Investigating believe James put arsenic in one
of the protein shakes he made for his wife. He
also had a rush shipment of potassium cyanide and another substance.
I think it's pronounced olandron. He ordered the olandron, but
that was the accepted by authorities after they began investigating him. Man,

(01:07:49):
let me tell you something. If you can spend all
that money on those products, spend all that time and
energy creating this diabolical plan to kill your wife, then
you can spend that same money, time and energy on
a marriage counsel, of a therapist, some type of third
party that can communicate for you, which you are too
much of a coward to communicate to her. And that

(01:08:09):
is clearly that you just didn't want to be with
her anymore. People like this, I will never understand Okay,
this man didn't lose his wife because he started cheating.
No no, no, no, no. He lost his wife because
he stopped communicating. All right. You don't have to cheat
to lose someone. You can lose someone from a lack
of communication. I say it again. This woman is dead
and this man is in prison because he was too
afraid to communicate. Just tell her you want to move on, bro,

(01:08:31):
all right. Tell her things are not working anymore. All right.
You might have lost some money in a divorce, she
might have gotten half, but that is better than her
being deceased and you spending the rest of your life
in prison. You should have been googling ways to divorce
your wife peacefully? Okay, trust me. After I read this
story this morning, I googled that because I'm like, that's
gotta be an option. You don't go straight to murder, dude.

(01:08:53):
You So if they ever go through my computer and
see that in my search history how to divorce your
wife peacefully, trust me. I was doing research for this story. Okay.
I just want to get out there, okay. Right. And
it's a bunch of them, alright. They even they have
ten tips for a peaceful divorce, even from a narcissistic spouse.
They have seven ways to divorce as peacefully as possible.
Ten peaceful ways to divorce with dignity. There is a

(01:09:14):
bunch of them, all right. The moral of the story
today for this donkey is communicate, communicate, communicate, all right.
When you lose communication, you lose everything, simple as that.
Without communication, there's no relationship without respect, there is no
love without trust, there's no reason to continue. Please give

(01:09:34):
James Craig the biggesty hall. Oh my god. And I
just want to tell people out there, even if you
clear your Safari history or your Chrome history, they can
still pull it back up. Don't think when you erase
that it's going forever. And I just how I made
it over. Once they take that laptop, they can go

(01:09:56):
back to your history. I think laptops should be treated
like rap lyrics, meaning sometimes we google search things just
because we can, Like we might be in here having
a conversation about something crazy, so we google searches. So
sometimes your Google search history can look nuts. But treat
it like rap lyrics, meaning that if you're rapping about

(01:10:17):
a crime and then you actually go commit that crime,
then your laptop history can be you know used in
the cord of law. Sometimes we just being here google
searching crazy ass stuff. Let me pass me a laptop ahead.
I don't want to see what you google here. I
have no problem doing it. It's gonna be some crazy
stuff as I do. Don't here to day every day.
But when we come back, all right, I don't even

(01:10:37):
know how to do that I do. I don't show me.
I'm not showing you all right when we come back
now ya. Von Zan stopped it earlier, and this is
what she said about women these days. What is the
distinction between feminine power and masculine power? And we've been
conditioned and trained to be men in skirts. We do
everything like man, we compete like man. I said this

(01:10:59):
on the Oars Bond a few weeks ago. I said,
most women want their boyfriend to act like their girlfriends,
you know, chatting, shopping, But when the man comes home,
what they meet as another dude. So the question is
eight hundred five eight five one oh five one or
women today more masculine than feminine? Now, let the record

(01:11:20):
show during that conversation NBA and I were doing what
we should have been doing, which she's just sitting there
and listening because I am not a woman, nor do
I identify as a woman. Okay, so that is asign
is og woman. So that is her place to say,
and that is her opinion. Therefore, I don't want to
hear from none of yall negroes on the phone either,
all y'all Caucasian males. I want to hear from nothing

(01:11:41):
but women about this topic. Okay, fanning mails too, males
if you got a penis right, don't call up for
this topic. I don't hear from the women about this.
All women today more masculine than feminine, that is the question.
Eight five eight five one oh five one. Let's have
a discussion only people with who has Only people would
who hospiles? Yeah, only people who are you gotta know

(01:12:01):
he don't call? Okay, it's the breakfast club. Goal body,
the breakfast Club. It's topic time call eight hundred five
eight five one oh five want to join it to
the discussion with the breakfast club morning? Everybody is DJ

(01:12:23):
NV Charlemagne the guy we are the breakfast club. Now
if he just joined us. We had a yan Lav
bonzat here this morning and we were talking about all
women more masculine than feminine. That's a that's a choosing,
violent question. I'm gonna be honest with you, but that's
what Let's quit a club. What is the distinction between
feminine power and masculine power? And we've been conditioned and

(01:12:47):
trained to be men in skirts. We do everything like men,
We compete like man. I said this on our spot
a few weeks ago. I said, most women want their
boyfriend to act like the girlfriends, you know, chatting, shopping,
but when the man comes home, what they meet as
another dude. Now, when Yana was here, I was silent

(01:13:08):
because I had nothing to say about that situation. I'm
not a woman. I don't identify as a woman. I
don't have a huha Okay, I have a he heat
all right, Um, yes, you know. And so I'm just
here to I'm just here to listen to the phone calls.
And you know, I don't want to hear from nothing
but women about this. I don't want to hear about it.
I don't want to hear from nobody with a penis.
If you identify as a man, I don't want to

(01:13:28):
hear from you. Hello, who's this hey, Shelisa, Good morning morning.
Do you think a women are more masculine than feminine nowadays. Yes,
I do. But it's not because we want to. I
think it's because we have to. Like I worked with
a big superman, and when I tell you, I have

(01:13:49):
argued with like women just to pool that, Hey, you know,
I'm a woman. They don't open doors, they don't lift
anything happy anymore. And let's not even get started about
how a lot of them want you to become fifty
fifty and how old, Like why am I gonna say
here and do all of that when I am already

(01:14:10):
doing it all my own, Like I don't need you
to come in and do all of that, Like it's stupid. Lisa,
let me ask you a question. Do you think part
of this is because I would say in the last
I would say maybe ten years, everybody's been talking. Everybody
wants everything fifty fifty. Women want the same amount as men,
So it's kind of like, well, if you want the
same amount, do the same amount. I don't look at

(01:14:31):
it like that, but do you think maybe that's part
of it? It could be part of it, But I'm
gonna say this, like from where I've come from, my
grandma works, my grandfather worked. But when you wanted to
retire info her business. My grandfather made a show that
was possible. I have my other grandmother, and my dad said,
I don't ever recall her working like in my entire life,

(01:14:51):
I don't recall her having a job. But things got done.
I feel like they talk about the wanting woman to
step back into who you roles, but they're not doing
well their grandfathers have done, and that will say all
the builds. M Okay, thank you. I'm just listening. Okay,
let's go to another course. I'm just listening to this,

(01:15:11):
this trauma being spilled over this radio this morning. What
what I've told Detroit? So what do you think you
think women are more masculine and feminine? I think women
have become more masculine because they've hand to not because
we want to, lore because we choose to, but because
we don't have men to lead up. And that's not

(01:15:32):
I'm not There are some very good strong men that
leads their women. But in most cases, we have to
become masculine because we have to be, not because we
want to be. Um. Yeah, I don't think it's a
choice anymore. So you know, it's interesting when people say
that because It's like a man shouldn't dictate how you
how you move right, Like, like, just because a man

(01:15:54):
isn't showing up the way he needs to show up,
doesn't mean you got to be more masculine, does it. Well,
we supposed to be a helpmate and if we're not,
we don't have the person that we supposed to be helping,
and we got to carry the load on our own.
But I think the resulting us becoming more ambasculine or
feeling like we need to be in that position. No,

(01:16:14):
I think we've done it because it has to because
to pass through, not because we have a choice because
the men are making in that area. I also wonder
what the balance is, right, because you gotta have sacred
masculine and you gotta have divine feminine, like they both
exist in in both genders. I wonder what that balance
looks like, Well, what are you doing that you feel
like is masculine that you shouldn't be doing? Wearing right guard,

(01:16:35):
shut up, taking out the trash, yeah, taking out the trash, yeah,
my oil change yeah, um, taking my cart the car
wash yeah, well, taking my card to get gas, things
like that. That's things like that. My dad definitely did
that for my mom. My mom, I don't think you
ever been to a car wash, only a gas station

(01:16:56):
if she had to. And I do the same thing
for my wife. My wife does get car wash. She'd
go with if she if she has time. But yeah,
my wife has never seen the inside of an other place.
Runs like real men, like your wife's getting hit on
the most at the dance station. You should never let
your wife go to the dance station. That's what she
don't get. She's driving and she's on e Like, come on, now,

(01:17:17):
some of this is diculous. Now, that's that's the true
because like when like when my wife when ill using
on the weekends, I take all I take my wife's
cars to get gas, to take my daughter's cars to
get gas. What if she's driving during the weekend, she's
gonna eat. Also, let's reverse that if a man cooks
and a man cleans, is that things that are are
regulated only the women know. Because there's plenty of single
men out here who don't have nobody to cook for

(01:17:39):
them and have nobody to clean for them, needs to survive,
and they probably are a little more They probably look
more in touch with the femin inside as well, yeah, right,
and you're right, not in a negative way like a
next one, but there's probably more in touch with I
think cooking when I lived by myself, cooking and cleaning

(01:17:59):
with as basic necessities you needed to survive. And Lola,
you're right, and that's why you appreciate a woman more
once you finally do get one, because she's your helpmate
and she usually takes on those type of responsibility. Okay,
And Loland, you're right. Yesterday my wife went to the
car wash to get a call clean and you know what, dude, tolerance,
that's the last time she's going to that guy, damn
car every day for that damn car. Was be jealousy,

(01:18:24):
like I want to get Holida, I want to go
to the car. I want to dude, Hollida Me shut
up man. Eight hundred five eight five one to five one,
y'all love Zan. She was here earlier this morning and
she was saying that women are more masculine today than feminine.
Let's talk about it. We'll take your calls when we
come back as the breakfast clubs the morning. Call me

(01:18:50):
your opinion to the Breakfast club to one five one morning.
Everybody is DJ Envy, Charlomagne, the guy. We all the
breakfast club. Now, if you're just joining us, we're talking
about ayan Love von Zoon. She was here earlier and
she was talking about women being more masculine than feminine. Today.
I'm just listening. I'm just listening. What is the distinction

(01:19:13):
between feminine power and masculine power? And we've been conditioned
and trained to be men in skirts. We do everything
like men, We compete like man. I said this on
the Our Spot a few weeks ago. I said, most
women want their boyfriend to act like their girlfriends, you know,
chatting shoppings, but when the man comes home, what they

(01:19:35):
meet as another dude. I'm just sitting here listening, like
I was sitting here listening when a van was talking.
Because I'm not a woman and I don't identify as
a woman. I have thoughts, but I would rather hear
what women got to say. Let's go to the phone lines. Hello,
who's this angel? Angel? What I do? What I do?
You know what we're talking about? I called him to

(01:19:56):
get in on y'all, like prel y'all know it's twenty
twenty three. Of course we're doing way more masculine work
than feminine, or if we use the more way more
masculine energy than we're working in our feminine it has
to stop. I'm gonna need you all to get out
of these communities and rebuild these fells. Okay, they don't
look over our clothes. They want to do everything we do,

(01:20:16):
So now we gotta do everything y'all supposed to be doing.
I'm over it. Okay, thank you. Hello, who's this very
d Good morning? God? What do you think you think
women are more masculine and feminine? No? I think that
depending on the situation, the woman's gonna shout her femininity.
Like if you're not giving enough energy where we feel

(01:20:38):
the need to be soft and subtle, then we're not
going to be. We're going to be I guess more masculine,
but all in all, not at all true. Okay, well,
thank you, mama, Thank you ever today. Hello, who's this
the subscriber? Hey, good morning. We're asking do you think
women are more masculine and feminine? Uh? Yeah, I see

(01:21:00):
are tend to be more masculine. I myself realized, and
I've been a lot more masculine than I was normally,
and I feel like that's just because of hardships. Men today,
at least the men that I've came across, has not
been masculine themselves. So I find myself having to pick
up where they're not doing, and I just find myself

(01:21:23):
just being, you know, in your face round, I got
it myself. I'm gonna good myself like. And I realized
that I was masculine when I had finally had a daughter,
and I realized there was something feminine about me. And
I realized, like maybe that was a problem in a
lot of my relationships that I didn't know how to
be just a woman in a skirt. I was trying

(01:21:45):
to be, you know, play the role of a man
while still being a woman. And I feel like a
lot of women are like that because not all men,
but a lot of men in around they are not
masculine anymore. So if a woman is what a man,
that's not presenting a safe environment where she can grow
and floyish and be feminine. Her masculine decided wanted to
come out. Okay, I'm gonna be honest with you, man.

(01:22:08):
I blame Beyonce. Why do you blame Beyonce? We have
a generation of women raised by Beyonce, you know, and
I love Beyonce. Y'all know my Pinkert Smith went pre
knows Carter, But Beyonce, you know, she told y'all to
be independent women. Oh my lady independent, Oh yeah, hand
the man man all of that, you know, and then
it was all my single ladies. And then she wouldn't
get married on y'all ass okay, and left y'all out

(01:22:29):
here confused with no direction? What happened to the independent
woman era? Somebody has to admit that being an independent
woman is overrated and the reason women were independent is
because they had to be. Okay, it was almost out
of out of survival, right, not because they wanted to be.
I do know. We have to find a balance, though,
because the world is never gonna be where we needed

(01:22:51):
to be until everyone has the right balance of sacred
masculine and divine feminine. That's when the world is uh,
you know, gonna gon gonna be gonna be what we
want it to be. Is that your moral of the story?
That is definitely my moral of the story. Nobody, because
nobody said that yet. Nobody has said you know, uh,
you know, nobody's admitted being an independent woman was overrated

(01:23:12):
and By the way, being a single man is overrated.
Like the only reason people want to be independent is
because they feel like they have to be in that moment.
But everybody wants a partner, bro. Everybody wants a partner
that they can grow with. Everybody wants a partner that
they feel protects them, provides for them. Everybody wants a
partner that's gonna have their back. Man. That's it. Like
what metha man said, all I need rubbed me on

(01:23:34):
my back, baby and tell me everything will be okay.
Everybody wants that. Say it with me. Stop stopping. See
this is your problem. Y'all spend fifteen years singing all
them damn songs and telling the universe y'all want to
be a single lady. M a single lady. Ill had
to dance that back n forget all that. Tell the
universe you want a partner a man? Okay, men, tell

(01:23:54):
the universe you want you a woman? Say it? We
need more positive music. What's what's the record that could
bring people together? Man? Huh cuffet I alright, well we
got rumors on the way. We got to talk about
x X, Existanchion and Takashi six nine. He got into
it in Florida. All right, let's get into the rumors
right now. Let's go from or you gossiping or you chatting?

(01:24:21):
Is the rumor report? I mean, I guess we're on
the breakfast club. This were the tea spills, right on
the breakfast club. That's time for the rumors. It's time
for rumor report. And we had somebody pop in to
bring us some drugs, and I was like, you might
as well sit for the rumor reports this morning. Mother

(01:24:42):
is home, all right, so let's get into some of
these reports. Now. Takashi six nine was brutally attacked in
a Florida gym Uh. They said he was in the
spa and they said a bunch of men came inside
and whipped his ass. It was so bad that they
had to rush him to the hospital in an ambulance.
Just the whole thought, six nine a bunch of men.
That sounds so crafty. But you know they say snitches

(01:25:06):
get stitches. It just took him in it. But because
did he snitch? Yes, okay, well snitches get stitches. But
six nine and a bunch of me and I'm down
for that party. What was that? That's his name? I
don't know what his name is, but six na me
a whole lot of other things too. I ain't talk
about no height, but letter you'll listen, hear me and
hear me. Well. I hope he feels bad. I hope

(01:25:26):
he's okay. But you gotta you gotta know who the
trick too. You gotta know who to tell on guys,
I want you to know. This is live Flamemorron. This
is live Flameron just pulled up on that literally just
came here to bring drugs. Absolutely hands I did not
bring drugs. Y'all gonna be feeling good about the end
of this show though ye plays for six nine. We
hope you're okay. Give your mouth shut player all right now.

(01:25:47):
Ja Cole talks about some of the things that, uh,
some nasty habits that he started as a young teen
or young kids. As six years old, I was smoking
cigarettes regularly around the neighborhood. Does not even have like
just being around the neighborhood and you're six or six.
And the thing was my uh my brothers four years

(01:26:07):
older than me, almost four years he's smoking too. No,
that's the wild thing. It was just I was always
hanging around the older kids in the neighborhood that he
was hanging around and they were smoking, and I was
young and fearless and and trying to be cool. So
it was like it was, oh, y'all smoking, Like, let
me see that. I need more context because jo his

(01:26:29):
old sounds crazy. Yeah, but Jay Cole don't have a
lot of conversations. He don't do a lot of interviews.
And you know, the best clip that I'm hearing from
this interview is him admitting he was a Marlborough man, Like,
come on, they gotta be boyed a that the interview
than that right at six? Oh my god, that's the
clip they pulled. Four kind of influence? Was that? What
you couldn't find nothing else to do at six? What
no Barbie Downs, wasn't no TUNKA trucks, was no g

(01:26:51):
I Joes, look, gij g I train something. It definitely
wasn't Gira back then, not back then. Lastly, now have
you been hearing what's going on with Tamar Braxon and
Candy and SWV and escape. I've seen all that, all
that mess going on. I watched Tamar make a whole
live video or talking about she saved and she had

(01:27:14):
five time Amy nominated journalists. Hosting a talk show does
not make your journalist. Let's start right there. And I
am a big fan of Candy Birds because Candy is
hood hustling gangster. I love me some Candy. I hate
to hunt Tams going through all this, but this is
what this is what we want. We want all of
this drama and this confriction we keep trying. Some black
women need to bond. Black women need to grow together.

(01:27:35):
But then you go public and say, oh, I'm ever
ready to fight, and I ain't want I'm a Christian.
All the Christians want to humbug. Let me just say
that all Christians want to fight. They violinist. Hell, let
me just say it. But I hope that resolved that cousin,
Miss Canny don't look like she's gonna have it. And
you know, miss Tamar didn't went aft the hustles, so hey,
But then the husband stepped in and somebody else and
jumped here, men need to ste out of women's business.
I'm gonna say that men need to say out of

(01:27:57):
women's be if they're gonna do it out and let
them do it. I want to see weeds, nails cracking.
All of that. You bring up a good point though,
because you know, everybody always does talk about togetherness and
how people need to come together and tell a reality TV.
When it's reality TV, people want drama, Yes, they think
it's boring when it's when it's no drama. Yeah, those
some heels across the room. I missed Tammy. Tammy. Tammy

(01:28:19):
Roman fought ere. Tammy Roman fought Jesus that GAM's Tammy
Roman fought everybody. Bring Tammy Roman back. I need the
VI fighting. No Tammy in movies and on Miss pat
the own show. First. I love Miss Patch show, and
Tammy Roman ain't stretched first from what she was before
because she cuts everybody out on that show, and I
love it. Tammy said, it's right there, you know, Oh

(01:28:42):
it's right there. You push Yeah, she definitely. I hope
that resolved there. But Kenny ain't backing down. I love
Kenny because Kenny is a great businesswoman. She got a
mind about making money. And Miss Kenny gonna say what
she got to say. And Miss Kenny is silly. Number
one TV. Start on that damn Housewives of UH of Atlanta.
She'd been that since to begin. Well, this is what happened.
Tamar clap back of Candy, of course, on Shade Room,

(01:29:03):
after Candy said that the girls group booking fee allegedly
triple that of s WVS Well, Tamar left the comment
and said, imagine having the biggest ego for the most
non singing ass person in the entire music industry. By
the way, stream my new song change where I play,
I pay homage to the amazing swuv. Oh you better
get you better get that pluggin Tamar. I like Tamar Tamar.

(01:29:25):
I like a ball here though, Oh because ball here.
She kind of turned me on it. She stugg she
ball you know that's my get down that Oh my god,
take my comming girl. I hope they don't get the fight.
I don't know who's gonna win, because Tamar, like if
she take off all our head, canny gonna handing under
grab lord. Women grab hair. That's true, they grab hair first. Everybody.

(01:29:47):
That's just like a slick leg. You just ain't nothing there,
look thuggy. Yeah, I can tell you. I'm turned on
right now. I'm sitting on myself. Good God, come on,
where we're here? I blame? What do you do? Are
you doing? Town? I was in I came in town
to do Sherry Shephard, I'm promoting. I had to do it.
He Jess, so the rights, I'm not going to get
to start in the movie, but they wrote a character

(01:30:09):
for me. So I did the Audible hardest job I've
had to do in years, because I had to read
somebody else's story three hundred dollars an hour, nine hours
a day for eight days. I want to thank you
for that silent, quiet money, look at God. The book Audible,
there's a number two book of twenty twenty two. I
think it's on the New York Times Bestselling this congratulations,
thank you. We don't go nowhere, slatstill here and yeah

(01:30:31):
and next time Flame is in time Flame would be
co hosting on the Breakfast Club how many days? Because
I came for the job. I didn't come to fit
in the seat. The seat already fit. I came for
the gig. I know everybody else, and y'all have some
good ones up here. It made me nervous. I do
five girls. Who was your favorite? I don't have one favorite.
I have four favors, favorites, not in order. I loved Cardi,

(01:30:52):
You're joining it tomorrow. I love Jess. Hilarious on here, Jess.
I absolutely, I know, I know y'all. I liked Damn
ray Jay. He was entertaining. Okay, it was funny. It
was last my favorite because the woman who I spied
to look like one day and I know it's the stretch.

(01:31:12):
Is that Damn Lola Anthony. I love La. I love
beautiful Lola. What you're going for, Lola is what I'm
going for. You gotta get a new Urgeon. That's the
people Choice mixes. He missing the mark place right, We're

(01:31:34):
the same girlor got We're never getting the mix. We're
gonna do the mix. All young Dolks. Of course, we
announced earlier I'm doing a car show in Memphis, a
Love for the Streets car show with Paper Route. That's
the Young Dolph family, the Young Dolpher states. So we're
bringing Young Dolphs, twenty cars. We're bringing Key Glocks cars
and a bunch of celebrity friends cars as well. So
get your tickets if you haven't got them, tickets in

(01:31:56):
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(01:32:20):
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(01:32:41):
stej NV. Charlomagne, the guy we are the breakfast Club.
Flame Monroe is here, just pulled up on us. Flame
brought us drugs. Flame definitely did. Charlemagne already told me
do not take a full one, because if I take
a full one, no joke, I didn't do. It was
some people, the nice people I met, because they make

(01:33:04):
you feel lovely. If you ever wanted to play space
with the disciples, take a full one baby disciple. Damn
it will have you had in three kites and four astronauts,
and I love it. I know this is just a tease,
but next time Flame is in time, Flame would definitely
be here co hosting a breakfast club. We we actually
got our schedules messed up this week. But I told

(01:33:25):
y'all that person wasn't coming. You're right, I told y'all.
I told y'all, I told you Jason Lee was here
Monday and Tuesday, but he was only supposed to be
here Monday. Somebody else was supposed to be here Tuesday
and Wednesday. But I told y'all, she wasn't coming. When
you write, you right right, so that could have been flaming.
Next time that should have been flamed. She showed up.
She always showed up. There you go, there you go.
All right. When we come back, we got the positive

(01:33:45):
note and more sone move. It's the breakfast club. Good
morning by everybody. It's DJ n V Charlomagne the guy.
We are the breakfast club. Flame Moreau just pulled up
on us. Flame is he that's right? And uh, like
I said, next time Flames in Time, Flame would be
co hosting on the Breath Club when all back in time,
you know, as soon as y'all bring me here. Now,
I think in like two weeks because I'm doing Sherry
Shepherd show. I'm actually doing that Comedy Corner. But I'll

(01:34:07):
be here May fifth and six at Yonker's Comedy Club.
So if y'all want to do something around that time,
that's perfect because i'll be that week. Yeah, you could
do that week. Are we here that week? I don't know.
We'll scare, we'll see. We'll schedule with that before we leave.
So get your tickets for Yonkers Coming Club. But if
you want to see me before then, I'm Tommy Tas
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(01:34:29):
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(01:34:51):
And I want to shout out to the city of
Memphis who've been purchasing tickets like crazy. I announced today
that we're doing a car show in Memphis. I'm doing
it in collaborate with Paper Route, which is Young Dolph's label,
and it's gonna be a lot of fun. So we're
bringing out all the Young Dolls fleet, his fleet of cars.
We're bringing the Young Dolph Museum where you can see
some of his his jewelry, his clothes, how we started,

(01:35:12):
and all that that they're bringing city to city. Also,
we're bringing family funds. We're bringing rides for the kids, jumpies,
gaming trucks, and it's gonna be a lot of food.
It's gonna be a weekend of fun. So that's Sunday,
May twenty eight, No school of work that Monday because
it's Memorial Weekend. I know it's gonna be the close
out of Memphis in May. It's gonna be a lot
of fun. So if you haven't got your tickets, get
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We appreciate you guys, thing and you just messed up.
I was gonna ask you if I could be like
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I'm I'm not. I'm not fooling with dragon kids. Okay,
I'm now because that's a whole. So I would y'all
wait for me to come. I'll tell y'all all about it,
because I'm gonna break it down. I can't wait to

(01:35:56):
hear that one. And when you got something going down
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(01:36:18):
business and podcasting panel for everybody who wants to get
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(01:36:40):
Go to event bright dot com right now, go get
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dot com now. The positive notice simply this. The older
I get, the more I realize the value of stand
low key, of cultivating your circle and only letting certain
people in. Okay, you can be open, honest and real
while still understanding not everybody deserves the seat at your table.

(01:37:00):
Mm I like that? Can I have a positive note
on you? On you? Everybody needs looking for somebody to
accept them and accept me, accept me. Acceptance is a
blueprint that starts with you on you. When I am
on stage and I'm looking like the last woman, I
owned that girl. But when I'm digging deep in the
hole of my choice, I own that player. I own

(01:37:21):
me own you. Come on with it. There you go,
Breakfast Club, y'all, finish for y'all dumb